/r/trueratediscussions
The purpose of this subreddit is to discuss beauty, its implications, such as the social issues that people with beauty or the lack thereof experience, etc. Also, to discuss objective beauty and other issues related to the subreddits /r/truerateme and /r/trueratecelebrities.
The purpose of this subreddit is to discuss beauty, its implications, such as the social issues that people with beauty or the lack thereof experience, etc.
Rules
1. Hate speech, trolling, racism - Hate speech includes but is not limited to: racism, sexism, harassment, threats, bullying, attacking others, name-calling, using insulting names or labels, or inciting violence. Trolling is defined as posting a deliberately provocative message with the intention of causing disruption and argument.
2. All posts should be on topic.
3. No advertising or self-promotion of any kind (that includes other subreddits).
4. No politics.
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This sub is stupid, but that’s the entire concept. Why do people keep coming here to complain about it? When you can just go away, and go look at another sub?
So cringe seeing people come on here, just to complain about how “stupid” this sub, mods should start just banning people do that.
Reddit is a cesspool itself, there’s wayyy more disgusting subs on Reddit. I think this is the least of anyone’s concerns💀
Do you agree?
But some of you refuse to accept your personality means nothing. Holding on to those copes for dear f*cking life..
I been perusing a couple of rateme type subreddits and have seen a weird amount hate on nose piercing specifically the septum piercing. I get that it might not be their thing but I dont find it to detract from the looks of the person in most cases. I might be in the minority (at least on reddit) but I think at worst they dont enhance any of person’s features and at best makes the person look cool/edgy.
I don't know what makes her look quite tall, is there something about her neck or torso that might contribute, because I don't think it's her legs, she has short to medium legs, her height is 5'5 which is tall for a woman but not that tall.
Is it possible to have good symmetry but no harmony?
I single-handedly seen the most attractive man in my life on this subreddit asking for a private rating, body dysmorphia really needs to be accounted for with some people. This kind of convinced me of how much of a farce lookism is especially the trm scale. Looking at the male scale 7-9’s are almost indistinguishable. I’m wondering now if it is truly all mathematical, and objective as it states it is. Even the UEE component had me stumped when looking at this guy, with that harmony how could I rate lower for the “flaws” he had. Which makes me believe the scale is highly skewed and out of touch with reality.
Hi, I need a private rating by someone who has posted his/her face on their profile and preferably a woman.
I have never seen the topic of voice brought up on the topic of superficial attraction before. For me it is just as important or even more important than physical appearance. And I say this because it is something that truly turns me off of people. If i think someone is unattractive looks-wise that’s kind of it, i am simply just not attracted. But when someone’s voice is unpleasant to me I am actively getting annoyed and actively disliking it. I do feel bad because it’s something people can’t control, and I don’t think they should try to change or anything to be clear. these are just my honest natural reactions. It’s like smelling something bad for me. If I think someone looks great and then they talk and their voice is annoying, I am not really attracted to them physically. And the opposite is true too, if someone was not attractive solely on how they looked, but I hear their voice and it is amazing it totally changes how I feel about them and how I perceive their looks. So yeah, it is something that would be a dealbreaker for me which I feel really superficial for but it is just how it is unfortunately. Anyway, I wanted to hear other’s opinion on this. I know I am more anal about voice/more observant about it than the average person, so I wanted to know if this is something other people consider at all, or if voice is a turn off for you too, or if you just pay no mind to it.
Unrelated: Also another topic I never see mentioned in these attraction conversations is mannerisms/body language. I am not talking about confident vs insecure body language, I mean people’s natural mannerisms and how their face moves and things like that which relates to their face anatomy
I often say that I wish everyone could be as conventionally attractive as they want. I mean, that's kinda the point of looksmaxxing communities like this one right? Giving everyone access to the info on how to become conventionally attractive?
I then have people telling me that it would be boring for everyone to be attractive??? Wtf is up with that elitist bullshit?
Why do people want beauty to be this weirdly inaccessible thing that only a few people have?
Ever since I became beautiful I started judging people for what they are. I've been able to be with partners of different beauty. Some at the highest range of the spectrum some at the middle. At the end of the day we have the same defects, we have morning breath, we shit, we smell bad, we have mood swings. And I became so numb in terms of the availability of partners that I just dont care anymore whether the person im talking to is attractive or not. I've fallen in love with women who aren't considered attractive by conventional standards just because of their personality. I don't care anymore whether someone is beautiful or not, I just want to have a good time. A good person is miles ahead of a beautiful face.
You don’t need to win the genetic lottery to have lots of women chasing you. Simply be handsome, fairly fit, hair, and at least 5’10”. At this point, if you really put in the effort on your online persona or talk to lots of women and ask them out. You’re going to have major success with women if a group of women can look at you and say, “yea he’s alright.” You’ll get about as many dates and hookups as you can possibly handle, it’s a matter of effort at this point.
Women are not seeking out the hottest guys possible, they do want cute, masculine, or handsome. If you are in the top 1/3 of attractiveness for men then you’re prob going to be good at approaching women to some degree. If you’re in the bottom 2/3 I haven’t seen many of those guys successfully date around or hookup with lots of women. Women are very shallow with looks for guys they don’t know, but only up to a point.
Being a hot guy can obviously make it much easier, but it’s not a requirement. If you’re not under any conventional attractive norms (overweight, too short, unappealing face), then casually dating and hooking up with many women in America can be pretty near impossible. Unless you have some incredible personality, which most guys don’t and you can’t learn it.