/r/transdating
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Im trying without much success to find a girlfriend. If you are from NJ hmu if you're into the idea of a serious relationship
I'm 27, I'm from northern NJ, and I enjoy being creative (with things like art and writing). I like to cook too, so if that interests you I'd love to cook for you. It's hard to put effort into these posts when there's so little payoff but I'm trying because I want to finally find something genuine. Please don't be a chaser because I won't reply
I prefer men older than me, you can get to know me more in dms😊
Gonna be straightforward I’m sorta bored n sleep deprived with a long night ahead of me - would enjoy talking with fun kinky sorta pushy trans and enby stoners <3 y’know, hump, grind, throb against an awkward overly affectionate ace while you blow bong rips in their face and moan :3
I’m Sev! 24 year old non-binary very shy n awkward academic-goth from Massachusetts.
Asexual but an enjoyer of being sexualized, receiving horny attention, being subjected to pervy behavior and letting people be horny at me c:
To be up front, I sort of have a thing for stoners… idk, just - wildly attractive. Soooo - if any of you wanna chat about yknow, getting to enjoy yourself at me while moaning in my face about it n getting stoned hmu :3
Anyone up for something like this? anyone is as bored as me? kindly hit that DM button
Hi ☺️ I have given up on men all together, and I want a girlfriend. A Trans girlfriend. I’m 25 African American. 5’4 and am softer mostly but dominant at times 😩. Looking for my babyyy .
Hello everyone I’m a 20 TF from the US looking for a man to fall in love with. I like gaming hazbin hotel and watching nerdy videos on YouTube. I love being close and cuddling. HMU if you want have a clingy gf who will cook food for you!
Hello guys! Wanna start this saying im looking for SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP no playing games. I am non op transgender, from manila, philippines, 33 years old and TOP.
Im here to find serious and genuine true love. I been with long distance relationship for 8 years and sadly didnt work out so now i can say I AM NOT INTO LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP ANYMORE i am too old for waiting.
This is time i am ready to sittle down and to build my own family with the person that i love and who love me back
About me:
Describing my self as welll educated, classy, i have good etiquette / manners, respectful, honest, loyal, loving, caring and very descent lady.
I finish fashion design and i work for fashion and film industry for 13year but last year i back to studying healthcare services to change career and try something not on my comfort zone. Luckily i just finish this year
What i dont like is:
I dont like send naked photo or talk about sexual things coz my focus is love not hookup. If u ask me if i am TOP? yes i am top! Dont ask me again. I am not into dominant or submissive thing i like equal
About you (my future boyfriend)
You should be honest, loyal, caring, kind, generous ,, matured, caring, stable and settled,very committed to this relationship. AGE 35-45 years old only. I am not interested with younger guys
My redflag ❌️
DONT ever ask naked photos and make a sexual topic. I am very sexual person but i dont talking about that kind of stuff! Makes me feel uncomfortable
IF YOU ARE INTERESTED TO ME SEND YOU PIC ANS DETAILS. I DONT REPLY WITH JUST "HELLO"
(if you are under 23 years old, do not read or interact, please)
(please, do not read or interact if you havent done severely terrible things to someone else in the past. and if you are a victim, this may be triggering, and im very sorry for that. if this is triggering i think it may not be a good idea for you to read this, or to interact with me.)
(if you dont have empathy (or if you have the opposite of empathy) towards people who have done very terrible things, please dont read this or interact with me, because i think that would just result in you being distressed/triggered. and im sorry for that)
(and im not seeking pity from people in general, this is just me wanting to make my hopeless life a bit less lonely if i can find someone whose life is like the one i have)
i havent had much socialization in a long time, things like trying to connect with someone. i am severely mentally ill and have 0 friends.
but theres also a reason why my life has become like this, and it is that ive done very terrible things in the past. i dont think i can connect with people who havent done things like those (or maybe im incapable of truly loving anyone, i dont know). (also im not implying that things like this make people hopeless, this is just how i feel about my own life.)
ive been having therapy for many years but my condition has continued to worsen over time, and at this point ive given up on fixing whatever is going on with me mentally, i also dont think i can completely trust most people, including mental health professionals.
despite my fears and problems i realized that ive never tried to find and connect with specifically someone like me before. someone who hates their past, and who thinks they will never be able to live a life like most other people seem to live. someone who has given up on having the kind of life they want deep inside. or at least given up on doing that in this universe.
i tend to spend a lot of time imagining how i would like things to be like, or the life i would like to have. theres also a lot of things about this world that i dislike, even things unrelated to the bad things i did.
i regret the things i did and i stopped doing them but i never figured out what im supposed to do after that, so i gave up on basically everything in my life. but if there is a chance that there could be someone in this world who is like me, someone who understands this hopelessness, maybe we could try to connect, even if it may not work out anyway because of my problems...
and im not looking for someone who can fix me or my life, ive given up on that and im tired of regaining hope just to lose it again, i just want to be hopeless with someone who is also hopeless.
someone additional info about me: im a trans girl that turned 23 years old in the second half of 2024, i would like to meet a girl (trans or cis is ok) that is the same age or older, but definitely not younger. i have not physically transitioned and probably never will because of the hopelessness. i believe that meeting in person is... not really an option, and it will never be (dysphoria would make me feel too uncomfortable); but ive tried voice training and i think i have a good enough result and i could do voice calls or things like that. also, im autistic, and i have OCD, depression, and anxiety.
if youre interested in talking (and if youre 23yo or older, non-negotiable requirement) you can send me a message on reddit or discord ( noname2n2 )(in case a friend request is needed for you to be able to message me, you can do that too). a warning: i have a lot of problems, maybe even beyond the things that make me feel hopeless, so trying to connect with me may not be safe for you, and i cant guarantee that we will remain in contact for even just a month (i am intersted in something long-term, i just dont know if it will work), but i still think that if i properly warn people, and maybe also if they understand and have similar problems to those i have, things could maybe have some chance of working out.
thank you for reading.
and im very sorry because i think my presence may hurt people, but ive become too desperate, like my brain is demanding that i try to talk to people. im very sorry.
26 (NB4T) Online or Europe - friends/fwb/partners
Hey hello! 🙌🏼 I'm Ollie, a 26 year old nb afab from Europe, in search for friends/fwb/partner - let's go with the flow and see where it takes us :3 I'm an introverted person, but love to yap around the right people. I love cooking, travelling, cats and LEGOs. I have a stable and good paying job so it's not important where you're located, I can travel to spoil you anywhere:3 I'm also very kinky and mostly a sub, but exploring my grounds. I'd love someone who will praise my pussy and boobs, fuck me passionately during sunset and afterwards I'll cook an amazing dinner for you 😌 You down?
Hi! My name is Jamie! I'm a 22-year-old transfem college student looking for a cutesy, loving relationship with an adorable girl ^_^
I find it difficult to adequately express the various parts of myself concisely, so I apologize if this seems disjointed. That said, I'm a doting woman who loves to spend time with her darling. Whether it be texting, calling, gaming, or watching shows together, shared experiences are the brick-laid foundation for my heart. I have endless care, kindness, attention, and praise to give, though I can perhaps end up a little too sappy :3
In terms of interests, I have quite a few, including the stereotypical ones like gaming and anime. However, I also enjoy film photography, collecting enamel pins, and developing my website. And truthfully, a part of me hopes that conversing can be considered a hobby, as I do plenty of talking throughout my day; I can also infodump to my heart's content, especially about my beloved friends or games.
Most of the games I play are those chosen by my friends, so I waltz between genres and have dipped my toes in many titles. Similarly, I've played on most consoles, so, at minimum, I can talk about a wide variety of franchises. Typically, I tend to stay closer to shooters (for example, my crippling Overwatch addiction), but some of my favorite games are Omori, Undertale/Deltarune, P3R, and Vermintide. In addition, I have a sizeable Steam library and am willing to try most games at least once. Recently, I discovered I like visual novels and would like to play more. I'll gladly take recommendations >w<
As for anime, Mushi-Shi, Made in Abyss, and Evangelion are probably tied for my favorites. I recently finished Bocchi and Bloom Into You, though I still need to finish Haibane Renmei and Monogatari. I've seen some other shows too!!! I LIVE FOR DANDADAN THURSDAY. I'm pretty slow to finish stuff by myself, though. I also have a pretty cool Himeno enamel pin that's as tall as my daintily outstretched palm!
On the other end of the spectrum, Mieruko-Chan is my favorite manga, and yes, I've also been putting off finishing other manga... I promise I'll finish Can't Defy the Lonely Girl and Parasite in Love one day >:3. Likewise, my most enjoyed book (despite how rarely I read these days) is easily Hogfather by Terry Pratchett.
My favorite color for clothing is black, though my purse is a cute blackish-blue with red accents. After graduation, I aspire to look fashionable in a business suit. I'm also a fan of cardigans, and I wish I owned more than just four. Oh, and I own a black velvet choker alongside black earrings toooooo.
Music is another passion of mine, and I want to see more concerts! King Gizzard is my favorite band, with Femtanyl and Jamie Paige as close seconds. I listen to a lot of game OSTs and remixes, breakcore, vocaloid, pop, rock, etc. I can yap endlessly about music, so, future conversation topic!
And for the sake of clarity, I'm a sub-leaning switch. I enjoy most kinks, except the messier and "gross" ones. My drive scales in intensity with my lover's desires, though sex is something I do require in a relationship. I've also been on HRT for nearly a year, and although I do my best to appear fem irl, I still need to voice train (I've been told that I have a cute voice, though).
Someone around my age would be ideal, but that doesn't mean it should stop you from reaching out! Furthermore, I live on the east coast of the U.S., so I'm in EST. I'm also pretty monogamous and pan.
I'm not looking for cis men or random hookups. Please introduce yourself with something more than a "hey." It's your time to shine! Tell me about yourself! How are we supposed to become adorable yuri lovers otherwise?
My name is Mikey. Hello. I am a Transgender Male, I'm Pansexual/Asexual. I'm 27 and I live in Texas
When it comes to Relationships, I do grow attached romantically to someone if I truly know they're the one
I am someone who yaps a lot about overwatch and fanfics and fandoms and has a fun sense of humor and makes funny cute jokes and I want someone who will find it endearing.
I have a YT Channel, I make videos, I edit them, and I have a Roblox Horror VTuber / Overwatch Channel I post almost every day to. It's basically something that I feel is passionate for myself.
I do like to sing, write, draw, video edit and spend time with family and friends. walk and play with my dog, baking.
I'm someone who does have mental health issues and truly wants someone who will love me as I want to love them and protect them so much from any worries they have, and I want them to worry for me
I truly want a lover to love me as I love them My age range of a partner is 22+ and I'm strictly monogamous
I may be Pansexual, but I do prefer femmes (no matter the gender) Cis, Trans, etc.
Please whoever comes across this know I am friendly and kindhearted and whether I'm a catch or not (PS, I'm probably not.) Just know we can be friends, even if I'm not your type. I'll do anything to be the greatest friend either way.
But romantically, I'll be there for anyone who comes across this and even reads it I want them to one day meet my parents, meet my mom on a call one day. The both of us can meet each other's irl or online friends.
We watch YouTube videos, movies, tv shows or anime together. We can play video games. I do prefer overwatch but it's not a big need to play though, I can play other games if you prefer.
Thanks for whoever read this
I truly want to love someone and care, respect, be there, protect and forever let them take my heart and keep it in its fragile state.
In your beautiful hands. I know this seems poetic and long, but I mean every word from the bottom of my heart.
Thanks on who read up this far just know my dms are open ^^ and If you're interested send a shark emoji! (I love sharks)
Hii^^ I’m Liz and I am looking for a relationship with anyone:3 I live in NH and I like to do art^^ If you want to hookup, then hit my dms:3
I want some sexy time. By the way I am Bonnie. Please I'm begging for bull to suck. I will suck it until it dries.
Hey, I’m ray 22 from Florida .
I’m looking for a serious monogamous relationship.
I’m an introvert plus have mental illness . So, I’m looking for a patient , supporting, loving individual
. I’m bi and asexual . So, please no sex
. I can love hard and have had bad luck in love .I’m looking for a partner from 20-27 . And from the USA only . Pls . Because of time zones . I’m big on texting and will only call when I’m comfortable which may take time . Communication is important for me .
I like anime and music and comics and I might have autism. My hyper fixations is marine animals and forensics .
I’m in college . I’m doing a AS .
I’m Hispanic - Colombian . First generation , Colombian - American
I don’t drive but will learn this summer .
If you find me interesting or want to learn more , you can DM me .
Hey, Danielle here. Hoping to find someone I can build a relationship with. I like all kinds of movies, comics, and gaming.
Hey I’m Emily 26 years old trans girl from nyc Recently on hormones I’m been having the urges to be a mom . I can’t fight it no more .I have saved my sperm prior to transition and was hoping to find a trans man with eggs that we can grow into a nice family .I’m adventurous love going out to eat in new places . I love going to clubs and partying. I like playing soccer can’t wait to play in a girls league where I belong . I love cuddling and I’m super affectionate. I’m trying to get married and to have some one for my transition and beyond . I love traveling to europe been in over 15 countries in Europe alone . I hope to go to Asia or latin America next year . HMU tell me about yourself . Let’s click and start our lives together.
Hii there everyone! ❤️
My name is Lucy, I am a 21 year old transfemme and live in The Netherlands and looking for a long term relationship with a fellow (trans/cis) woman around my age (19-26) in The Netherlands. :3
Here’s a little bit about me:
What I am looking for in a partner:
If you are interested in getting to know me better please feel free to send me a message!
I’m excited to hear from you :3
Hii, I’m looking for someone over 19 personally, dm with ur age, I don’t rlly ever send pics so pls be aware, just looking to talk and flirt and stuffff, idk what else I can put here but yhh
Haii I'm sushi! I'm from great state of Arizona! My favorite hobbies are playing games, writing, and watching films and TV! (My favorite game is Xenoblade btw.) The reason why I come here is that I'm touch starved and just want to be loved and given attention. May it be sfw or not please DM me! Send me a introduction to yourself and maybe we might hit it off! (Also open to gooning and sex) ALSO NO CIS MALES OUTSIDE FEMBOYS. I'M GETTING SICK AND TIRED OF SEEING CHUDS IN MY DMS FFS
Hi there! I'm not very good at introductions so ill just tell you a bit about myself. I am 27 years old and live in the USA. I recently came out as trans. I enjoy music, anime, movies and video games. My goal in life is to be happy and spend my days with someone who makes me happy. I know that sounds kinda generic but I think that it is a obtainable goal.
What I look for in a partner is someone who is nice, funny, willing to try new things and above all else will communicate. Ideally we would be obsessed with each other and spend all day talking to each other. I understand that everyone has their own lives and I will not get in the way of that. I just want to know everything about you. A typical day for us would be spent at home cuddled up with each other watching something. Either that or playing games with each other.
As far as sexuality goes, I am very open. There is very little that I would not try at least once. Ideally you'd feel the same way.
I am super easy to get along with and easy to talk to. I am open to long distance as well. I hope to hear from you soon.
My sex life is my life. Without it I don't find myself doing anything else more. I am really passionate with sex. I am an experienced transwoman and would like to be with someone who has more experience than me. I'd like to explore so many things that only a mature partner could give. During our sexy time you could do whatever and however you want. You can slap my butt cheeks. You suck me, play with my balls, you can put your dick inside mine, you can hand job me. Literally everything you'd like to do. So if you think we can connect with each other then you know what to do. Just hit me with a DM
Hi, I'm a trans woman 30y.o. POC and I'm hoping to find that special person who I can eventually have a serious relationship with. I haven't started hrt yet and I'd like to get to know someone who isn't judgmental, not fatphobic, a good communicator, faithful, LTR oriented, open to LDR (with the intention of closing the gap in the future) and ready to find their special person as well.
Important: I am demisexual (please look it up if you don't know what it means). Please do not DM me if you're just looking to sext.
If you're open to chatting and seeing where things go, feel free to send me a message so we can get to know each other more :)
Hey there! I’m Noelle. I’ve always been a very shy and introverted person but am trying to take steps to change that and this is one of them lol. I would strongly prefer trans women but an open to other people including non chaser cis people.
I’m from Norcal and work a full time job so am only really available to talk in the evening.
Things I really like: music of pretty much any genre but especially punk, indie, industrial, shoegaze, 80’s pop, breakcore, and extreme metal. I’ve been playing guitar since I was 12 and music is pretty much my main hobbie. I also really like horror movies, anime, and documentaries. The weirder the better. Also I’m a huge sucker for memes.
I am mostly a bottom but could be a little switchy with the right person maybe.
The only thing I ask is that you be at least 25+ and want to actually talk to me and get to know me. Not looking to get straight up perved on by anyone I’ve had enough of that lol
I look forward to meeting you!
I am a trans woman (femboy) who is your average and typical kind of trans. I am looking for a guy who can dominate me. I am a submissive type person and would like to be dominated.
I'd like to orient you with what I like most. I like books, I have lots of them. I am a dog-person. I like to walk my dog at the park. I usually spends my free time with my dogs.
If you're asking with what I like with regards to some steamy, hot nights. Well I'm a diverse person. I want to be dominated. I want to follow your leading. I want someone who can boss me around. I'd like to be your slave during the moment. If you think we can be comfortable with each other you can hit me with a dm.
Hiii my name is Devy! I'm a 22 (almost 23) year old trans girl. I'm pre-op for the time being. People say I'm pretty feminine except for my voice but I've made a lot of progress on that. I live in the US, in Southwest Virginia. I'm like super lonely and I want a cute gf to play games with and stuff!
Now it's time to talk about some of my interests! I am like big into Hololive (my oshi is Mumei!). I love rock/metal music a lot. I like reading webnovels. And of course, I like playing games! (on PC) Some games I've been playing recently are apex, fortnite, vrchat, and terraria. I have plenty of other games tho, we can stalk each other's steam profiles!
Also I should mention, I am very subby. I am like a puppy lol. I'm also monogamous. I'm down for long distance but I'd want to meet eachother irl one day. I enjoy vc'ing, and I don't mind exchanging selfies. So if you wanna chat, game, whatever, then please message me and we can give it a go! (please say more than just "hey", introduce yourself!)
Are you a trans girl in nj? Do you want to go on dates with a cute trans guy? Well you're in luck!
I'm a 27 year old trans guy looking for love and romance. Some of my hobbies include painting, crocheting, reading and watching youtube. I like to listen to all kinds of music, tell me your fave! I like to cook (i think im pretty good at it too), write and go for nice nature walks.
If you think i sound interesting, let's grab a coffee together!
Haii I'm sushi! I'm from great state of Arizona! My favorite hobbies are playing games, writing, and watching films and TV! (My favorite game is Xenoblade btw.) The reason why I come here is that I'm touch starved and just want to be loved and given attention. May it be sfw or not please DM me! Send me a introduction to yourself and maybe we might hit it off! (Also open to gooning and sex) ALSO NO CIS MALES OUTSIDE FEMBOYS. I'M GETTING SICK AND TIRED OF SEEING CHUDS IN MY DMS FFS
Masc presenting non-binary person, 5'7"/170cm in height, fit/average build, described as overall good looking by most people I meet. I'm willing to share pics of my face privately if our chats work out.
Looking for fem leaning potential partner in the NYC area or nearby locally who want to be monogamous and exclusive.
No cis het men or chasers!
Please be communicative, as communication is key. Be ready to express what you are looking for and I will do the same. Do NOT contact me if you have a habit of ghosting.
I enjoy walks, exercise, bike riding, gaming, going out to try new restaurants, visiting and experiencing museums, parks, nature, and other such activities. But I also enjoy the small moments like staying indoors and cuddling on the couch or under a blanket while watching films together or enjoying each other's company!
I'm a very physical and intimate person, so I hope a potential partner reciprocates that. I'm more dominant/top in bed, so someone who is more sub/bottom is the most compatible and preferred.
If you've read this far and are interested, send me a DM (Don't use Reddit chat, as I have disabled chat requests).
SO A little about me I guess. My names Tyler I'm 23 and live in the US. I'm really into music of all kinds (favorites ranging anywhere from Doja Cat to Ghostmane to Bring me the Horizon). I love video games, sculpting and poetry. I'm looking for friends or even just good conversations but I'm not opposed to something more if it goes that way. HMU ✌️
Hi, as the title suggests I’m an 18yo trans guy (he/him) looking for a partner and dom.
About me: sfw I like reading, Lego sets, working out and crafting. I walk dogs and pet sit as a job and will be going to school to study social work next year. (Also just to put it out there I’m not skinny)
About me: nsfw I’m a sub and a bottom, I like praise, being controlled, being bitten, cum, probably more that we can get into if we talk. I’m a bit of a pillow prince but I am open to try giving if we get to that point.
What I’m looking for: A caring partner with good communication habits. I want a dom but not as a 24/7 dynamic. Im pretty much open to anyone besides cis women, and I would prefer if you were 25 or younger. I would also prefer people in central time zone.
I can send pics in dms if wanted
If you think we’d get along or have any questions dm me :)