/r/transdating
A safe place for all of those belonging to the trans community to come and build friendships and/or relationships.
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This subreddit was created as a way for the trans* community to connect with people who want real, meaningful relationships. We're talking friendships, romance, whatever you like.
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/r/transdating
Hiiii I wanna play with someone Stardew Valley co-op or something My English is bad and I live in Russia so I'm pre-T and everything I like fallout and other game stuff
hello all, I'm pepper, I'm 19 years old, and I live in Southern Michigan, near Ann Arbor, looking for some new folks to socialize with! I'm a composer and multi-instrumental musician (voice, guitar, piano, flute and french horn/mellophone <3), and a big gamer. I'm a big fan of sandbox adventure games like Minecraft and Terraria, as well as RPGs like Legend of Zelda. what I ask of you is that you be between the ages of 18 and 22, don't reach out by just saying "hey" or some other simple crap like that, and don't try to be freaky with me too quickly. getting to know me that well takes time, if you try to force it I'll just block you, respectfully. if possible, I'd prefer you to be close to me, but I'm not opposed to online connections as well! if you're interested, feel free to comment or message me! <3
photo on my profile
please have a photo before messaging me 💕
Someone who love visual wonders
Hello there, If you're reading this maybe you're like me. Maybe you're a bit of an awkward turtle and have a hard time making new friends, never mind finding a romantic partner, despite the desire for love and companionship. Maybe instead of doom scrolling reddit and feeling cute and sad rn you decided to try something new. Maybe you briefly thought of Obi-Wan Kenobi when you read "Hello there." I don't know any of these things for certain, but I do know how hard it can be to connect with someone in the age of loneliness we are currently living in, so with that in mind, I am 33 years old or something, I live in Maryland but grew up in the south. It sucked. I moved to Maryland earlier this year to live with friends. I enjoy cooking, reading/listening to books, gardening and I very occasionally play video games. I'm a pretty tall girl, with long legs and a bit of chub. I guess my style is vaguely witchy/punk but really I'm mostly wearing my work uniform or pajamas. I use cannabis and a potential partner should be okay with that, even if they themselves don't smoke. As to what I'm looking for, friendship would be a good starting off point. If it grew into something more that would be great but it isn't the ultimate goal. I have never really been the type to hook up but I'm at a point in my life where it may be welcome. I value compassion for others and patience and tend to choose to associate with people who have those traits. I also respect passion and a strong sense of justice, however, I don't like someone who can't bend rules, hall monitor types I guess? So I guess if I sound interesting to you just send me a message with your favorite band or song, or book or fictional character. Give me your best cheesy pick up line that people can't help smiling at. TLDR: SAD TRANS GIRL IN DMV IS DTF CHADS NEED NOT APPLY
Hi! I’m looking to meet some people around Yolo county or even SF Bay Area. I’m in college studying to be a doctor and love reading, painting, plants, and keeping bugs. I have autism so warning I may not understand or pick up on things easily. I want to chat and be friends first before anything could go anywhere. I’m okay with casual, but I want to get to know you first.
30 y old trans guy looking for intimate online company. Looking for a masc guy ftm or cis. I’m not a fem boy but more of a bottom. I’m on T ( 10 years) . Hit me up if interested!
hey y'all! my name is jenny, im 22, been transitioning for a few years, and have had just awful luck with love, but I'm wanting to try again, just in case.
to preface, I AM ONLY INTO TRANS MEN. IF YOU ARE CIS, OR A LESBIAN TRYING TO GET WITH ME, WILL BLOCK. Shouldn't have to say this unfortunately but just trying to give a fair warning for the inevitable. beyond that, I like to think I'm pretty chill!
I'm always open to chat as long as I'm awake, and encourage you messaging me, no way to tell if we're compatible otherwise! I'm looking for more of a long term relationship, I'm not really one to fool around. just really needing someone who can call me theirs
I'm willing to dabble in LDRS, but honestly really want someone close to me, even if we can only see each other every fevw months, I want to know the feeling of falling asleep in your arms, comfortable and safe
as said in the title, I'm in South Carolina (the worse Carolina), but someday plan on moving somewhere safer, and I'm willing to date basically anyone in that general area, even continuing north. sexually and romantically I'm almost exclusively submissive, makes dysphoria a bit better, but am flexible to a degree. a girl just wants to feel appreciated, and nothing makes that more apparent than showing some initiative.
anyway, thank you to anyone who read this far, sorry if it's kinda incoherent, this was written between rush times at my job. regardless, check me out! I'm willing to exchange pics via DMS too, if that's something you're up to (discord preferred, phone # and reddit chat also chilI)
Hello! I'm Azure and I'm looking for cool people to hang out with and/or see what happens. I'm 32 and mostly looking for rl friends/romantic partners.
I'm a fan of video games and anime but I'm trying to branch out of that. I've been spending more time going outside and trying to find stuff to do. It hasn't been easy, especially with a tight budget, but going out to queer events has been a lot of fun. And I'd love to go out with other queer and queer ally folks too! I'm also a chemist and super into sciencey stuff as well as world history. Learning about the world is incredible!
I have photos of me in my feminine clothes on my profile if you're interested, though please bare with me as I've only started exploring my feminine side. I'd love to get into learning about make up and other tricks to look more femme.
Thanks for reading this blurb, hope to talk soon!
Hey there, I've been single for a while and looking for someone new.
I'm a 20y old Tgirl and winner of little Miss Gorgeous 2022 who started my transition years ago. I have pics on my profile but happy to show as many as you want.
Im naturally blonde with emerald green eyes and always told im very naturally curvey 5'6". Oh, and did I mention I won Little Miss Gorgeous 2022 NW!
Personally I don't have a type I normally just find things I love about individuals. I'm a very chilled person so please don't find me intimidating. Age or location doesn't matter to me; I can work with long distance too.
If you impress me I might even let you see my trophy 🏆👑 ;)
Hello, I'm Kyra (She/Her), 23yo transfeminine 🏳️⚧️ looking to make new online friends (or maybe something more). ✨😌 I’d love to connect with people I can flirt with, share memes, and talk about anything. I’d prefer around my age (18-28), but feel free to DM me (18+ only, of course)
A bit about me: I'm a Software Developer 📚 Love reading (romance novels) 💻 Programming 🚶♀️ Enjoy going for walks 🎶 Music (Rock, Pop, Punk) ✨ Favorite artists: The Warning, Olivia Rodrigo, Taylor Swift 🧍 5'5" (smoll) 🥺 🌸 Introvert, EST time zone 🔒 Still in the closet (No HRT yet)
I have pics on my profile if you’d like to take a look. I don't like chatting with an empty profile, so if you DM me, please feel comfortable sharing a pic if we vibe (faceless is fine!).
Send a DM introducing yourself—I’d really appreciate it! Can’t wait to meet you! 🩵✨
I'm 20 years old tomboy trans girl from Toronto.
I'm not passing fully until surgeries and other stuff. My voice also doesn't pass until surgery.
I'm looking for monogamous long term relationship.
Show your photo when u dm and introduce yourself fully.
Hey 👋 My name is Cleo . I’m 20 from the US just looking for other trans women to talk to. You can be from anywhere (my sleep schedule is all messed up) but I do ask be on the young side 18-26
I bad at introductions but this is a little about me ~love me my little nerdy stuff 40k and DND ~big fallout fan and other games like that’s ~I’m in and out of school Right now for my associates ~not on HRT yet the process is all fucked up for me ~love the outdoors will drive hours just to go on a good hike
That’s just a little about me come and tell me about yourself and we will see how it goes from they See y’all there ❤️
Hiii, pls dm with ur age, I’m looking for a guy whose sweet and funny, I don’t like to send pictures too often, im not specifically looking for anything srs rn sooo yh dm me if u want
I’m extroverted, outgoing, social, adventurous, and very easy going with dark humour 🙃 I enjoy walks outside to exploring, and also sitting in watching movies or shows.
I have other hobbies such as creative writing and creative design.
I’m currently studying Software Engineering at university and working on a part-time, and sometimes full-time basis.
I don’t smoke or drink, through personal choice.
Physically I’m somewhat short, slim build, with dark short hair.
I’m not really sure what I’m looking for but I’d like to meet new people and see where it goes from there. I do love to chat on a daily basis.
I won’t reply to very low effort messages like “hi how are you”, put in some effort and tell me about yourself.
Preferably cis females but open to talking to anyone.
I don’t read or respond to comments; DMs are open.
Don’t hesitate to reach out if interested :)
33 year old trans woman in Vegas. I travel but I'm here a lot.
5'9" and 170 lbs
I've had 3 years on E and FFS so I'm extra cute :)
I'm post op and I'm not allowed to have sex yet which is hardddd but I can do other stuff.
Girlboss who likes partying and living the rockstar life.
Looking for trans girlie friends with or without benefits and a nice manly man to take me on dates.
Hi I'm Sarah, looking for cute femmes to date. I'm open to LDR but if you reach out try to ask yourself if contact works with your location because I've had people from the US be interested and then just randomly ghost me which I'm a little tired of. So I definitely prefer within Europe, especially Netherlands or nearby or Norway where I hope to move in like 4 years.
Anyway.... I'm a musician and sound design/synth nerd, into horror and games, learning game dev, kinky poly vegan switch, love cats and women and I'm currently preparing to finally start a bachelor next year.
I'm currently waiting to get my hrt covered and get bottom surgery but I've been on hrt (diy) for the past nearly 3 years so I mostly just look like a hot woman really. Too hot for hot weather 😂
But enough about me. What about you? 😉
Hi im a funny nympho stoner looking to find preferably trans women who are pre lower op and proud. As a bi trans woman herself I think they’re the best of both worlds and deserve to be treated like the queens they deserve. I live the zen life. I’ve been practicing meditation for nearly 15 years.I love to play videos games, listen to EDM music. Im a beginner cook and have a dark sense of humor to brighten up the days.
hi, i’m an early transition transman (he/him) from the UK. i’m looking for a meaningful connection. whether that’s friendship, fwb, long-term relationship etc. i’d prefer in-person/with the ability to meet irl but am open to long-distance if our connection is worth it. i’ve tried dating apps but i’m demisexual/demiromantic and find the hookup culture difficult to navigate.
we’d be more compatible if you’re into kink. specifically if you’re into edging & overstimulation, praise & degradation, being tied up, biting & marking, chastity & rules or open to exploring any of these things and more. i consider myself a verse switch because my sexual preferences have changed based on past partners and my dynamic with that specific person. but, in general, i tend to lean into a dominant role because i’m bossy and confident. however, i’m looking for a change and to be able to explore subbing more so if you think you can put me in my place then i welcome the challenge.
if you got excited reading any of that, dm me and tell me your own preferences. even if we don’t match up perfectly, i’d enjoy the chat and sexting is fun. fair warning though, i’m pre-everything and severely dysphoric, hoping to start T soon but i only pass about 50% of the time. i love receiving pics but hate sending them for this reason. But, if you ask real nicely i can sometimes be persuaded.
thanks for reading, make sure to include your name, age, pronouns, and one fact about yourself in your dm to let me know you read my post.
Hey,
How ya doing. I'm Adelaide, currently I'm pre transition. Will hopefully go on hrt in the next couple months. Anyway I've been lonely recently and I was looking to see if I could click with someone.
A bit about me. I'm really into F1, favorite team is Mercedes, also into cars in general. I'm going into college to get a aviation degree to become a pilot. Also into video games like COD, MSFS, F1, Minecraft, Celeste, and open to others.
Honeslty I'm looking for any kind of relationship whether it be friends or Fwb, I'm open to either. It might end up something bigger. Who knows.
Anyway, if I sound interesting to you, feel free to DM me.
Hi
Looking for someone to chat with that will hopefully develop into something more long term.
I like reading and music most in life, I also cook a lot. Also like playing war games sometimes, but I’m better at painting.
I’m also really bad at talking about myself haha. I’m based in the U.K. and I’d really like to chat with someone kind and fun :)
Say hi
Looking for friends or more! Especially in ✨the midwest✨ feel free to pm me! I don't bite unless told to 😊 24 AFAB NB
Hello everyone! 🌈 My name is Alex, I'm a 26-year-old trans person from Scotland, here to make friends and meet new people! I'd prefer if you're from Scotland or at least the UK but it's cool if not : D
If you've got anything in common feel free to send a chat : D (not a message, I forget they exist)
Some stuff about me:
🎮 Gaming: I play a lot of video games and try to play a lil bit of everything, my main games that I go-to are souls-like games but I generally love anything fantasy and shooters are great too! I also love D&D which I have a current campaign running.
📚 Reading: Recently, I've read through all of the Cosmere, the Dresden Files, and the Wheel of Time. I'll read pretty much anything fantasy and I love occasional sci-fi books. :) Currently very excited for the upcoming Stormlight Archive 5 <3
For bonus points, tell me your favourite colour in your message so I know you've actually read the post
🛠️ DIY/3D Printing: I enjoy working with tools for crafts & DIY projects, I also have two 3D printers; a Bambu Lab P1S and a Saturn 4 Ultra! Recently I've begun resin casting to make custom D&D dice
🎮 Game Development: I work as a game developer, I use Unreal at work but I love Unity for game jams too!
Thanks for reading! If you're interested in chatting, feel free to DM or send a chat. I'm completely open and happy to talk about anything :)
If you've messaged me before & I didn't reply, please send another, I can be really bad at checking reddit sometimes :( I also mainly use Discord, so it helps if you have that after we chat here for a bit :)
Hey! Jane here, my head hurts, I’m tired of being single. Wish I had someone to cuddle with these days.
Back searching for LOVE ❤
I had just ended up with my 8 years long distance relationship sadly didnt workout then i start searching here on reddit last month ago. I talk to someone and he is nice, very kind to me and thought he is the right one but sadly didnt work out t so i fell so sad and heart broken 💔
Now i wanna start over again and find my perfect match
By the way i am from the manila philippines, 33 years old
I am looking for a serious and genuine true love. I told u while ago i ended my 8 years relationship. I still open with long distance but if only u can meet me on JANUARY to check if we have real connections and get to know each other and from there let see if we will go to more exclusive relationships or not. If u cant travel to meet me next month i am not gonna entertain
This is time i am ready to sittle down and to build my own family with the person that i love and who love me back
About me:
Describing my self as welll educated, classy, i have good etiquette / manners, respectful, honest, loyal, loving, caring and very descent lady.
I like collecting doll. If u planning to sending flowers or gift to me i prefer dolls.
I finish fashion design and i work for fashion and film industry for 13year but last year i back to studying healthcare services to change career and try something not on my comfort zone. Luckily i just finish this year
What i dont like is:
I dont like send naked photo or talk about sexual things coz my focus is love not hookup. If u ask me if i am TOP? yes i am top! Dont ask me again. I am not into dominant or submissive thing i like equal
About you (my future boyfriend)
You should be honest, loyal, caring, kind, generous ,, matured, caring, stable and settled,very committed to this relationship. AGE 35-45 years old only. I am not interested with younger guys
My redflag ❌️
DONT ever ask naked photos and make a sexual topic. I am very sexual person but i dont talking about that kind of stuff! Makes me feel uncomfortable
And Pleasd NO DRAMA i am little stressed lately so i dont entertain drama
IF YOU ARE INTERESTED TO ME SEND YOU PIC ANS DETAILS. I DONT REPLY WITH JUST "HELLO"
Hii I love gaming more than anything else and if you are a gamer on any platform you instantly have my heart lol. My partner MUST be into gaming and if not at least anime/cartoons. I have many hobbies and interests including skateboarding, MMA, racing, beatboxing, parkour, magic, rubiks cubes, juggling, music production and a whoooole lot more. Pls dm if interested! No cis men pls!
hello there! i'll try to keep this short and sweet (like me). I am a 28 year old trans man who is looking to find a genuine connection with another trans man, preferably between the ages of 24-30. over or under by a few years is fine as long as it is fine with you.
about me: i live in western canada PST time zone, i work 6 nights a week for a cleaning company. when im not working i like to go for walks, lift weights, go thift shopping, hang out with my friend, drink coffee, play video games, bake, cook, watch youtube videos, and listen to music.
sexually i am demisexual and strictly monogamous. i am top leaning and lable myself as a soft dom. but this wont happen until we form a bond/relationship.
i have no problem sending a picture of myself upon request, and prefer to put a face to a name upon starting to chat. physical attraction isnt a main priority for me as the connection is most important but i would like to put a face to a name and see who im talking to. personally, i am cis passing, 5'5", 130lbs, i have brown hair, wear glasses, i have a beard and am pretty hairy (chest + belly hair) and im white with blue eyes.
i'm in the point of my life where i want to get off dating apps and commit to the right person. i have the means to travel meaning money and a passport. it would most likely be a long distance relationship at first but i am committed to such thing as i always make time for the person i care about. i communicate well and am straightforward, i dont like playing games.
im willing to chat on discord so feel free to ask for that but prefer swapping numbers at some point as that tends to be more convenient and personal.
if any of this appeals to you feel free to send me a DM on here and please please introduce yourself with an intro and a picture. i look forward to hearing from you🤠
Hello everyone! I'm Jake, a 34yo masc transman. I've had top surgery, a hysterectomy, and have been on hormones since 2012 so I have typical male body hair, a full (very red) beard, ad a masculine voice. I call my parts clit and pussy/cunt and am not comfortable using other options. Misgendering, feminization, and detransitioning are absolute hard limits.
Full disclosure: I have autism and I'm in therapy/on meds for depression and anxiety. I do struggle with not having enough "spoon" some days, so a CG who is patient with me and works with what I can offer is critical. I've found emojis super helpful to convey/understand tone and intent and use them a lot.
This is a long post, but really covers almost everything that folx need to know about me. <3
I'm looking for something long term that doesn't just revolve around sex/sexting. I'm demisexual so it may take some time for me to even be interested in engaging in sex with/for you - discussing kinks or whatever is different. I'm re-evaluating my kinks so please be open to exploring things that I might not like any more (ex. urethral/anal penetration, pee) but I'm DEF down to try new things. Vag penetration is a no-go. I am trying to figure out edging/ruining, so help with that would be great - or just long-term denial in general. I'm not masochistic, so pain play should fairly limited (ex. spanking ass/pussy as punishment should be fine).
I've tried "normal" bdsm relationships and they're too mean and make me feel bad. I need a Caregiver Dominant who wants to help me be good and celebrates with me when I am. I'm more of a middle than a little, but I definitely need someone to guide me and make sure I'm doing my chores and taking care of myself. I'd say my little/middle age ranges between 5 - 11, but I want CG dynamic all the time (so even when I'm not small). I like my CG to make sure that I'm healthy in as many ways as they would like. I like having to show I've had enough water by letting my CG watch (eventually) me pee and check its color. I'm open/interested to having to talk about my poop habits. I obviously need an adult make sure my temperature, weight, and body measurements are all healthy...and like any good boy, I know that temperatures should be taken either anally or urethrally (or both to make sure I did it right). I need a CG that helps me set realistic goals and encourages me to get things done. I definitely need someone who is patient and wants a middle who heavily relies on them for most things. I really want someone to whom I can give up most responsibility for regular decisions (ex. shower temperature, food, weight, water goals) and at-home activities (including time for exercising, chores, but also tv or relaxing time). I do have a stuffie (he's a fox named Kitsu) and I like doing coloring books sometimes. I need a CG that can emotionally tuck me in at night so I don't have scary dreams. I don't want to feel bad or sad or lonely, I want to be a good boy and make my CG proud.
Note: I'm not going to consider sending nsfw pics until we've established trust and built a connection. Pics and videos ARE going to happen, just not right away. Please don't ask: I'll send them when I'm ready. I actually LIKE having to show things for inspection so I can be told how good of a boy I am - and also because little boys don't always know what's best for them and they need a grown up to look and see. Face pics are going to be a much longer wait.
I like a lot of communication (I tend to be clingy once I like you) and definitly need more of an overall gentle dynamic, but certainly with the appropriate strictness that is part and parcel with a CG dynamic. I can't play at work (I can sometimes chat), but I can give basically the rest of my day to you (as long as you give me time to read or play my video games sometimes). I'm usually available in my late afternoon-night time (Pacific time) on days I work, and all day on my off days (usually Thursday/Friday) - if your awake/active times don't match this, please save us both the sadness of being a good match but not being able to match schedules.
I shave my armpits amd am in the process of getting permanent genital hair removal. I hate exercise but I want to lose weight and get stronger. I have a gym membership and low-impact activities are negotiable. I am also interested in strengthening my willpower/self-discipline but not sure how to approach that. My autism and depression will limit relinquishing food control, but that can still be monitored.
I know I do need to communicate regularly and frequently to feel connected with my CG. Looking for folx between 21-50yo, but 25-40 are preferred. I prefer cis women, but am open to the right trans*/NB/cis-male person as well. I prefer more smaller bodies (athletic,'dadbod', slim,x etc.) for my dominant (mostly only important for any potential in-person time), but open to more - it's really about the mental/emotional connection. I'm also open to monog or poly Dominants. I am not willing to relocate.
I would really like to find someone local (SoCal) to play with in person (eventually), but I'm definitely open to the right online relationship if our times of activity line up (GMT-8). If you actually read this far 1) I appreciate you more than you know, and 2) please let me know your favorite pizza topping(s) - replies without pizza toppings will be ignored.
If you made it this far, thanks for reading!!
Hi! My name is sami! Im a shut in weeb who lives in virginia who has two amazing gfs who wanna see if she can squeeze one more gal in my circle! I love video games, anime, movies, and just vibing! If you wanna hit me up on discord or reddit dms, feel free to ask or dm me!
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