I’m the green bubbles for clarity. Tell me how awful I am 😅

<div class="md"><p>I’m the green bubbles for clarity. Tell me how awful I am 😅</p>
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I’m a master manipulator apparently

Pov: when they expect u to care/ beg them to say/show u what they had to show u

This person was probably one of my favorite people to chat with in high school, but ever since graduation they’ve been saying they’re too busy to hang out, and now they’re just leaving me on read every time I try to start a conversation. Should I send them another message or just leave it?? (For future reference it’s been two weeks since the above message)

(Btw sorry if this subreddit isn’t for texting advice)

<div class="md"><p>This person was probably one of my favorite people to chat with in high school, but ever since graduation they’ve been saying they’re too busy to hang out, and now they’re just leaving me on read every time I try to start a conversation. Should I send them another message or just leave it?? (For future reference it’s been two weeks since the above message)</p>

<p>(Btw sorry if this subreddit isn’t for texting advice)</p>
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Should I even bother trying?

Gay dude being pushy even though I told him I was straight

Context: my ex lied to me multiple times about his sexual history (he told me he's was a virgin). I would have never known he wasn't a virgin, until he got tested positive for HIV.  He's white lied a lot in the past, but this hit the nail and I cut all contact. This breakup hurt because he was my first, he put my health at risk, and he knew I am asexual. 

My family, my friends and I all firmly believe his family knew he had HIV a long time ago, despite them saying otherwise. 

Here's the message exchange between me and his brother. His brother was basically telling me to have mercy in that long paragraph, which I was gonna post at first but then saw single messages aren't allowed. 

Btw I tested twice and got negative both times! I'm in the clear ☺️. If this gets more attention that anticipated, I plan on deleting it. 

<div class="md"><p>Context: my ex lied to me multiple times about his sexual history (he told me he&#39;s was a virgin). I would have never known he wasn&#39;t a virgin, until he got tested positive for HIV.  He&#39;s white lied a lot in the past, but this hit the nail and I cut all contact. This breakup hurt because he was my first, he put my health at risk, and he knew I am asexual. </p>

<p>My family, my friends and I all firmly believe his family knew he had HIV a long time ago, despite them saying otherwise. </p>

<p>Here&#39;s the message exchange between me and his brother. His brother was basically telling me to have mercy in that long paragraph, which I was gonna post at first but then saw single messages aren&#39;t allowed. </p>

<p>Btw I tested twice and got negative both times! I&#39;m in the clear ☺️. If this gets more attention that anticipated, I plan on deleting it. </p>
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My ex almost gave me HIV! Here's the texts between me and his brother

We spent the weekend together everything’s fine and then he didn’t text me back for a whole 8-9 hours after I left which he never does and it’s at the point where I feel like I don’t want a relationship either cause I don’t like the feeling of having somebody in control of how I’m feeling and my emotions. I really really like him but I don’t know 

<div class="md"><p>We spent the weekend together everything’s fine and then he didn’t text me back for a whole 8-9 hours after I left which he never does and it’s at the point where I feel like I don’t want a relationship either cause I don’t like the feeling of having somebody in control of how I’m feeling and my emotions. I really really like him but I don’t know </p>
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Should I 25f just leave him 26m alone ?

How mad will she be?

This is between my husband and a female co worker he’s been talking about a lot. 
Looks like she’s not interested but I can’t believe my husband would ask this I’m so pissed. 
Do yall think I’m overreacting and this is just a friendly conversation? He’s never cheated before. 

<div class="md"><p>This is between my husband and a female co worker he’s been talking about a lot. 
Looks like she’s not interested but I can’t believe my husband would ask this I’m so pissed. 
Do yall think I’m overreacting and this is just a friendly conversation? He’s never cheated before. </p>
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Is he cheating? She clearly doesn’t seem interested…

My friends mom died recently and I've been sending her memes to cheer her up. She told me she was gonna be MIA for a little while and this was her response. 

<div class="md"><p>My friends mom died recently and I&#39;ve been sending her memes to cheer her up. She told me she was gonna be MIA for a little while and this was her response. </p>
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Compassionate friend.

i’m not really a drinker so i’d never had wine before, and after years of seeing my grandma down multiple bottles, i decided to draw while i drink an entire bottle thinking it wouldn’t affect me bc while i don’t drink often, i’m typically not a light weight

naturally i decided to text my boyfriend about my hotdogs that i made (which look vile lmaooo)

i don’t remember much besides waking up at about 3am with a plastic bag off the side of the bed and my boyfriend next to me, just thought these texts looked funny

<div class="md"><p>i’m not really a drinker so i’d never had wine before, and after years of seeing my grandma down multiple bottles, i decided to draw while i drink an entire bottle thinking it wouldn’t affect me bc while i don’t drink often, i’m typically not a light weight</p>

<p>naturally i decided to text my boyfriend about my hotdogs that i made (which look vile lmaooo)</p>

<p>i don’t remember much besides waking up at about 3am with a plastic bag off the side of the bed and my boyfriend next to me, just thought these texts looked funny</p>
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hotdogs… hotdog

Context: if you’ve seen my other posts haha welcome this is an old one that I thought was just disgusting in retrospect. YES I have left him and YES I am no contact! Yay

‘Jenny’ was one of the volunteers. He told me in March that in December Jenny had confessed feelings for him, he had rejected her, and then consequently she left the volunteer place. 

Reality: 
While I was visiting my home in between volunteering I left on December 1st, (for literally 3 weeks) he was hanging out with Jenny who is approx late 30’s. Eventually he fucked Jenny twice in December, on the 18th and 19th, made her feel used and then rejected her once I came back … 

When I arrived on the 24th of December I had no idea what happened and I didn’t find out until April 2024. 

Although Jenny knew we were together, it’s still gross that he just used her and discarded her when he ‘realised’ he wanted me. He said ‘she was just a mouth’ to me. Gross

This is a message from March 2024, where he discusses me feeling uncomfortable about only having just found out ‘Jenny confessed feelings to him and that was her reason for leaving the community’. I felt uncomfortable because he had only just told me this and he could’ve told me in December when she left, I know now why he didn’t lol because it was all fake. 

The audacity he has in these text messages!!! 

 

<div class="md"><p>Context: if you’ve seen my other posts haha welcome this is an old one that I thought was just disgusting in retrospect. YES I have left him and YES I am no contact! Yay</p>

<p>‘Jenny’ was one of the volunteers. He told me in March that in December Jenny had confessed feelings for him, he had rejected her, and then consequently she left the volunteer place. </p>

<p>Reality: 
While I was visiting my home in between volunteering I left on December 1st, (for literally 3 weeks) he was hanging out with Jenny who is approx late 30’s. Eventually he fucked Jenny twice in December, on the 18th and 19th, made her feel used and then rejected her once I came back … </p>

<p>When I arrived on the 24th of December I had no idea what happened and I didn’t find out until April 2024. </p>

<p>Although Jenny knew we were together, it’s still gross that he just used her and discarded her when he ‘realised’ he wanted me. He said ‘she was just a mouth’ to me. Gross</p>

<p>This is a message from March 2024, where he discusses me feeling uncomfortable about only having just found out ‘Jenny confessed feelings to him and that was her reason for leaving the community’. I felt uncomfortable because he had only just told me this and he could’ve told me in December when she left, I know now why he didn’t lol because it was all fake. </p>

<p>The audacity he has in these text messages!!! </p>
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20F 35M, ex says ‘she was just silly’ about women he cheated on me with

She didn’t message me until 10pm the day of our date and then said she had no service when I tried to confirm

This sequence of texts from my partner is a perfect window into the realities of cat ownership.

Just a text I got from my mom lol

Some birthdays wishes I received since this morning. Guess which one is from my close friend

We’ve been seeing each other for 5 months. He has known about an ex sending photos to others and how much it destroyed me. He promised me that he’d never do the same.

His ex (D) and D’s new husband have a weird kink where D tells the new husband that M (my partner) will never be better than D.

M’s birthday, he accidentally shows me his phone where I see D’s messages. 

I’m the bad guy for seeing his messages as he shows me his phone.

It’s been since the exclusive conversation. 

<div class="md"><p>We’ve been seeing each other for 5 months. He has known about an ex sending photos to others and how much it destroyed me. He promised me that he’d never do the same.</p>

<p>His ex (D) and D’s new husband have a weird kink where D tells the new husband that M (my partner) will never be better than D.</p>

<p>M’s birthday, he accidentally shows me his phone where I see D’s messages. </p>

<p>I’m the bad guy for seeing his messages as he shows me his phone.</p>

<p>It’s been since the exclusive conversation. </p>
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Partner (ex) justifying his virtual cheating because ‘there’s no emotion and it’s meaningless’

The catholics!

My friend is weird asf sometimes

My little brother I took in last year, he’s a sweetie. Just felt like being funny to him tonight. Yes, he will get his tortilla blanket 

<div class="md"><p>My little brother I took in last year, he’s a sweetie. Just felt like being funny to him tonight. Yes, he will get his tortilla blanket </p>
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Text between myself and 14 year old brother

My mate is so stoned out of his mind 💀

Me and the hubs never having a normal convo

so to get the full context, theres a post on my profile from about a year ago about an incident that happened a couple months prior to that post.

anyways, the other morning i woke up to my bedroom door unlocked, which is easy because you can slip anything thin in there and open it. 
and my friend sleep over last night, because obviously i don’t want to sleep in my house without my dad but none of my family seems to realize this- none of them, not even my dad. 

anyways, she woke up to him at 4 am walking around and putting water in the animal’s automatic water bowl.. she then stayed up till like 5 to make sure he didn’t try anything and then she woke up to him on the couch next to hers at 9. he’s weird. he’s also had a long history of weird sexual things and asking my friends for nudes (they’re 2-3 years older too, which is weird in our age frame.) and he’s also openly touched himself on the couch while my friend was asleep which i go into further on the other post. its just too much to write. 

also, she was the one who offered to stay, she’s ripped and goes to the gym every day and could honestly fuck him of all people up if need be.

my brother is now stuck in a casino (he’s under age, with his friend tj who’s freshly 21.) and expects me to take the 50 min drive in my single cab compact truck to go get him. absolutely nuts imo. i want out of my house so bad.

<div class="md"><p>so to get the full context, theres a post on my profile from about a year ago about an incident that happened a couple months prior to that post.</p>

<p>anyways, the other morning i woke up to my bedroom door unlocked, which is easy because you can slip anything thin in there and open it. 
and my friend sleep over last night, because obviously i don’t want to sleep in my house without my dad but none of my family seems to realize this- none of them, not even my dad. </p>

<p>anyways, she woke up to him at 4 am walking around and putting water in the animal’s automatic water bowl.. she then stayed up till like 5 to make sure he didn’t try anything and then she woke up to him on the couch next to hers at 9. he’s weird. he’s also had a long history of weird sexual things and asking my friends for nudes (they’re 2-3 years older too, which is weird in our age frame.) and he’s also openly touched himself on the couch while my friend was asleep which i go into further on the other post. its just too much to write. </p>

<p>also, she was the one who offered to stay, she’s ripped and goes to the gym every day and could honestly fuck him of all people up if need be.</p>

<p>my brother is now stuck in a casino (he’s under age, with his friend tj who’s freshly 21.) and expects me to take the 50 min drive in my single cab compact truck to go get him. absolutely nuts imo. i want out of my house so bad.</p>
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pov: everyones still acting like everything’s fine since my brother sa’d me

Me and my mom just now, lol

Quick poll for other non religious people who got baptized: do you and/or your parents remember who your godparents are?

For context, I sent them some art I drew. 

<div class="md"><p>For context, I sent them some art I drew. </p>
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The difference between my boyfriend and my girlfriend

My friend and her boyfriend had this delightful text exchange. 😂

<div class="md"><p>My friend and her boyfriend had this delightful text exchange. 😂</p>
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He wanted to make sure she knew. 😂

"Never interrupt your enemy when he is making a mistake"

<div class="md"><p>&quot;Never interrupt your enemy when he is making a mistake&quot;</p>
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Sometimes silence is louder than words

The work group chat at a restaurant

ciken tndyr

Was i in the wrong for this

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