I (m), purchased a Sybian for my girlfriend (been together 19 years) with all the attachments in the hopes that it would take our sex life out of the vanilla stage. I also bought a Venus for Men package with a lot of extra parts and pieces. The Sybian has sat in the box for almost 2 months now with zero interest on her part, whereas the VFM has been getting daily use, both solo and totether (her watching and masturbating with a vibrator).

I brought up these facts last night and asked if she would like to try it out. She agreed.

Going into this purchase, I knew that there were going to be some hurdles. She is 4' 10" and has a hard time riding me (6' 0") because of her bad knees, so we pretty much stick to missionary, doggie (for short times) or standing. Her go to is we are both on our backs, butt to butt (heads on opposite sides of the bed) and her with a Hitachi wand on her clit and holding my dick against the top of the wand head. This usually lasts a few minutes before I start to feel chafed. Sorry, I got side tracked...

I set up the new Sybian on our bed. When she tried to get on the Sybian, she immediately said that it was uncomfortable. I placed it up on a foot stool so she could stand over it, which sort of worked but then complained that the long flat cover tickled her butt (she doesn't like anything close to her butt). I laid it down on its flat side and asked if she could try it laying on her back. After a minute at a very low setting, she turned it off and said that she was numb and wanted to go back to her Hitachi wand and told me that I should sell it. She kept telling me that I should ride it. Which I intend to do since I love prostate play.

How can I get her to warm up to the idea of trying it again and are there any positions that we could try?