/r/SoCalR4R

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R4R - The Southern California edition

Whether you're seeking platonic friends, non-platonic friends, online gaming partners, soulmates, travel mates, ride shares, hikers, concert partners, clubs, explorers, exercise pals, political rallies, entrepreneurs, smoking buddies, groups to join, activity partners, friends with benefits [fwb] / casual encounters, etc. This is the place on Reddit to find and seek.

For Los Angeles, Orange County, San Diego, and surrounding areas

Welcome

  • R4R - The Southern California edition

  • Whether you're seeking platonic friends, non-platonic friends, online gaming partners, soulmates, travelmates, smoking buddies, concert partners, clubs, explorers, ride shares, hikers, exercise pals, political rallies, entrepreneurs, groups to join, activity partners, friends with benefits [fwb] / casual encounters, etc. This is the place on Reddit to find and seek.

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  • Please try not to post more than once every few days. Ideally a week. If you're not receiving responses maybe try changing up your post
  • When creating a submission please include a who you are, what you're looking for, your age, and approximate location in your title. Only posts in this format will be allowed: Age [x4x] #City - Title

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  • This is not a marketplace. Do not post looking to buy/sell/trade any substances, articles of clothing, your snapchat or yourself.

  • If you want to lock your post and prevent others from commenting, reply to your own post with "!lock".

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    18 [M4F] #cerritos - any girls looking to fuck a virgin i can show proof im 18

    Any women interested in fucking a virgin would be carplay or at ur place bcuz i cant host

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    2025/02/01
    14:08 UTC

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    19 [F4M] #losangeles - looking to explore new things with someone nice and become fwb, preference for 25yo+

    I am looking for a nice guy/gentleman who is willing to explore new things or teach me, I am 5'5" so I would prefer you to be just taller than me, I would like to be sub for you but I wouldn't mind trying being dominant in the bedroom as well. Bottom line, just be nice, well groomed and polite and we will go from there. Also connection is everything to me and I would love to get to know you well first before we do anything further.

    8 Comments
    2025/02/01
    13:26 UTC

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    30 [M4F] #Burbank - Eager For A Good Time

    keeping it brief, let me know if you’re interested. My info is below, along with my pics/videos on my profile. If i don’t answer im probably napping

    📍 SFV / Los Angeles

    30 5’10 175# Colombian mixed, Clean Tested, Drug/Disease Free, Discreet & very fun

    Ideally would like to find someone hwp and local in the valley that’s horny looking to share an orgasm.

    Just dm and find out ;)

    0 Comments
    2025/02/01
    11:50 UTC

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    19 [M4F] #Fontana - I need a big girl to sit on my face

    Hey 19M Latino in Fontana looking for big women in the IE that need their pussy eaten and played with. Would love for you to sit on my face while I just eat you out ;)

    I can host, dm me and we can chat and I can send pics to verify, I can host or I could drive to you and down for CarPlay, however you like it ;)

    Age and race doesn’t matter (OLDER AND HAIRY WOMEN TO THE FRONT!!!)

    !unlock

    1 Comment
    2025/02/01
    11:13 UTC

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    27 [M4F] #Fontana, CA - Inexperienced guy looking to learn

    Hello everyone,

    About me: I'm around average height with a heavier set build. I'm pretty easy-going, nerdy guy. I try to keep myself well groomed and clean. As the title says, I'm a guy without a ton of experience in the bedroom, but very willing to learn. DDF

    About you: Between 21-32. Someone who is patient and gentle is highly preferred. Race and ethnicity do not matter to me. Not too picky about body type, though I do have a thing for curvier women. DDF(weed is ok)

    I would prefer a longer term, fwb type arrangement. If you're interested, please send me message. I look forward to hearing from you. Please include what was the most recent movie you've watched in your message so I know you've actually read this whole thing

    0 Comments
    2025/02/01
    09:48 UTC

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    25 [M4F] #Norwalk - Looking for a chubby lady

    What’s up.

    I’m making this post in search of a safe and fun casual encounter. I’m a 25 year old Mexican guy in Norwalk that can travel and willing to take a STD test beforehand.

    I’m about 250lbs, 5’9”, I don’t do any type of drugs, and I rarely drink any alcohol. I’m a nerdy guy that likes to play video games, read manga, and get tattoos. I’m a sex positive person, so I do love the occasional fun with the right person. My only kinks are kissing, foreplay, and dirty talking.

    About you: Please 21 and over, single, DDF, and able to verify. Please be able to verify yourself with pics and video chat. I do love a woman with some curves, and I’m open to any other ethnicity.

    I can handle all of the hosting for us. I can’t do it at my home, so a hotel room would be the other option. Let’s chat and plan something in the future. Please lmk a fun fact about you so I know you fully read this post.

    I’ll be reposting this in other subs to spread the word.

    0 Comments
    2025/02/01
    08:50 UTC

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    40 [F4M] #orangecounty - Let’s go to the movies & make out

    I think we can agree that the latest releases have been sorta meh (with a few gems here & there) so I’d love to meet someone and watch even a known flop and maybe make out. We can always reminisce about how bad it was afterwards lol… I’m a 40s Asian gal with a career I love (mostly), who has a penchant for subtitles, foreign languages and witty diction. I love fall weather, sour gummies, heels and the Dodgers.

    I’ll be superficial and be very specific about what type of person I’m looking for since we may end up making out.

    Please be 30s to 40s, SINGLE, dad bod is awesome (please no six packs, good for you but it’s just not for me), approx 5’10”, clean shaven (sorry beards & moustaches tickle), full head of hair, college educated (advanced degrees are cool), have a few hobbies/interests, have travel plans coming up, have a pet or two (and have lots of pics of them), will verify with pic n phone/video call sooner than later and fine with me paying for my own ticket (:

    Please send me a chat request if you reside in the OC area and lmk your fav candy to sneak into the theatre. Ciao.

    12 Comments
    2025/02/01
    08:03 UTC

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    31 [M4M] #Ontario - Looking for first time….

    Hi there,

    So long story short, I have always been attracted to females and only ever dated/been with a girl. However within the last few years I have started to fantasize about sucking a cock for the first time and I think I just need to finally try it out and see if I like it as much as I think I will. I do not want anything in return. There will be no anal. This will be a one time NSA kind of thing just to be clear.

    What I’m looking for: White M, cut, clean shaven, great hygiene, at least 6 inches. Don’t have to be shredded but please be semi healthy body type. Between ages of 25-35 preferred. DDF. I don’t care if you’re gay or straight, if you want head that’s all that matters. Feel free to send NSFW photos if you’re comfortable but not required.

    About me: 31, Blonde hair blue eyes, short beard but clean, DDF. Average body type. Can potentially host but might have to get a hotel room somewhere near Ontario or within 30 minutes of it.

    Again I have never done this before, so if at any point I want to stop or I’m not comfortable I will end it and you must respect that. I want someone who wants to swing by, get some head and leave. That’s really all there is to it. If you are interested please send a few sentences about yourself and your stats (and a nsfw photo if you would like) and we will go from there. No effort messages will be ignored.

    Thank you!

    0 Comments
    2025/02/01
    07:57 UTC

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    25 [M4R] #Fontana - Looking to be your affectionate and nerdy boyfriend

    Hello everybody! 25 year old pansexual male here hoping to find that special person I'd love to spend the rest of my life with. I am looking for someone within the US. I myself live in California. I am 5'6" and 170lbs with long black hair and glasses. I'm a bit more feminine compared to your average guy, and would best describe myself as a fun-loving nerdy goofball who is extremely affectionate and cuddly. I'm someone who enjoys the little things in life as opposed to grand adventures; very much one to "stop and smell the roses" so to speak. I'm also quite the goody two-shoes. I do no drugs, smoking, or drinking. I'm a homebody, one who hopes to be a homemaker one day. While a more introverted person overall, I am far from being a shut in. I enjoy getting out to spend time in nature, go over to shopping centers just to window shop, and above all spending time with those who are close to me. I love giving physical affection and being romantic. I'm all about cuddles, kisses, and holding hands. It’s my main love language and the way I will always let you know just how much you mean to me.

    Music is easily the most important thing in my life. I've been singing ever since elementary school, and I still love to today. It's a talent I am very proud of and one I always love to share with others. I've actually performed at senior centers multiple times last year. To me, music is art for the ears and each song is like a guided journey. It's an adventure the performer gets to take you on. So expect me to sing many love songs just for you!

    Some hobbies of mine include taking walks, either just through the neighborhoods or hiking out on a trail. As you would expect from someone who sings, I love listening to music in my freetime. I mostly enjoy rock, brass bands, some metal, and lots of alternative. Ghost and Oingo Boingo are my favorite bands, while my favorite song right now is Black Moonlight by Duran Duran. I play some PC games such as Deep Rock Galactic and Phasmophobia, but not all that often. Maybe once or twice a week. I collect some Lego sets and Transformers figures. I love animated movies and shows, mainly ones that are adventure or action oriented. My favorite animated movies are Vampire Hunter D Bloodlust and Lupin III: The First, while my favorite animated show is Batman the Animated Series. I enjoy comics and graphic novels, as well as some manga. My other main form of entertainment is watching video game let's plays on Youtube, and I love listening to the Distractible podcast. My favorite movies are Raiders of the Lost Ark, Spider Man 2, and Phantom of the Paradise. Fandom-wise I absolutely adore the Five Nights at Freddy's series and its lore. I always try to keep up with all the interesting theories the community crafts up. I've also been getting into the Sonic fandom thanks to the movies. Yes, I'm a big nerd lol.

    There are only a few deal-breakers I have. I am deathly allergic to cats, and get bad allergies to most indoor animals. Pets could only be outdoors with me around, and absolutely no cats. No smoking or drugs either. Yes, this includes weed and vapes. I have asthma and any kind of smoke will make it flare up. I'm a progressive leftist, so I'm not interested in anyone right of center.

    Thank you so much for taking the time to read all this! I hope to hear from you soon if I seem at all interesting. Let's make this the start of something wonderful!

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    2025/02/01
    07:32 UTC

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    45 [M4F] #LosAngeles - I've slid down the rabbit hole and have realized how I was meant to fuck. Now I need a like-minded fwb to let it out

    I should say up front that I am married, in case that’s a deal breaker for you. Check my profile to see pics (NSFW) and please be willing to share your own pics if you message me. Warning: this post is long, but hopefully draws the right type.

    I have always enjoyed erotica and good amateur porn (real people fucking because they need it so bad and love to show off), but I always thought of myself as a consumer or just enjoying it as an online fantasy with a chat/sexting friend. Until recently...

    I grew up in the days when AOL was the internet and chatting with girls was a really fun and new way to have dirty fun. But for some reason, that dirty part of me was never something that I felt comfortable revealing to someone in real life, and I never really explored it's depths - which resulted in me getting married to a woman with a mismatched libido. She's a wonderful woman and life partner in so many ways, but despite my earnest attempts over many years, she remains uninterested in the truly hedonistic, raw, and animalistic type of sex that I now know I need.

    My descent was fueled by a steady progression of women that pushed me further and further, seducing me into breaking barriers that I had put up for myself. At first, I was only into text chat. I was comfortable with that and it was just thrilling to explore dirty thoughts with women and to know that we were cumming together. The risk of anything else was just too high. Then I met Jynn, a bi woman with a dirty mind who introduced me to sending voice notes and r/gwa. She loved my voice and I her's. Hearing her cum while saying the dirtiest things made it so much more of a 'real'experience, and I was hooked. Then there came Amber, a cute college aged girl who loved to tease with pics and vids of herself. The sessions were never extended, but the teasing and increased intensity that the visuals brought to the dynamic drove me wild with lust. I was worried that I'd get busted having snapchat on my phone and talking to this much younger woman, but I couldn't stop myself. That led me to my first really intense two-way sexting encounter with Jenny. She was this 30 something married woman with an amazing body and a love for edging, cock, and cum. She got me to start sending videos of myself. I was hesitant at first, truly not seeing myself as a sexual object in the same way that I viewed her and other women. But her reactions, the way she asked for more, the dirty things she would say to me as I stroked my cock for her and she rubbed her juicing pussy...ungh. It was bad, in the best possible ways. Jenny really kicked me into high gear - searching for more of that next level kind of play - and I found it. I got progressively dirtier and in need of more, and there were women on reddit to fill that need. I had graduated to voice chats, video chats, and basically anything you could imagine doing online.

    Then I met Hana about a year ago. We hit it off immediately and had a really natural vibe together. I had actually never experienced that level of intense mutual attraction in such a purely sexual way. She was so like minded that it was kind of insane and we found ourselves talking to one another almost constantly over the next few weeks. She was masterful at teasing me, sending me pics and vids on snapchat and enjoying how she made a married family man lust over her body. And jesus christ, this girl was like the perfect picture of what I find most attractive. Petite, skinny, with tiny tits, but an amazing hourglass shape to her. I don't even know how to begin to describe the effect seeing her body had on me - it was unbelieveable. [As a quick aside, I will note that while I have my physical preferences - like anyone else - I know that I often find women outside that archetype to be extremely attractive. So, please don't assume I won't find you attractive if you don't fit it] And over the weeks things got more and more intense. We progressed from sharing pics, to videos, to voice notes, and finally phone and video calls. On top of being unbelievably hot to me, her high LF was intoxicating and her pussy would literally drip and cream with juices....all I could say sometimes was "ungh". We talked about the dirtiest fucking things, in the most raw and intense ways, and all of our likes lined up in an oh-so-perfect way. I thought girls this hot and dirty were a myth, but Hana proved to me that they do exist. I have a whole story (nearly complete) about Hana that is posted in my profile, but the short version is that she broke my last remaining wall...we met up irl and it was fantastic.

    So, here I am now, realizing that I need to finally satisfy these urges that have been lurking inside my psyche for all these years. That I need to find more women who have the same insatiable appetite for really dirty, hot, degrading, wet, and fully-satisfying sex. I'm still a very cautious person, so I'm not just going to fuck anyone. I want a little get-to-know-you chat first, because I need to have a good connection with the person. I'm not talking about romantic feelings - I'm talking about vibing, having a shared respect and understanding, and feeling a level of comfort where we can each be our truly unfiltered self. It may take me be a bit of a slow burn with me, because I also need to feel like I can actually trust you, but I think it will be worth it with the right person.

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    2025/02/01
    07:03 UTC

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    27 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Korean looking for local friends and more

    Hello,

    I'm looking for asian in LA area who likes to please I'm 27, 5'8, 145lbs. Not athletic build but I enjoy working out. and promise u im not ugly haha.

    About me: I work full time, likes to go gym at night, and like to try new cafe when I work from home. I also enjoy watching movies and sleep through weekends!

    I’m open to a casual experience or something more if we have a strong connection and vibe. I’m not focused on age, background, or experience. 

    If you’re chill, someone who enjoys pleasing and looking for adventurous experience, feel free to reach out.I’d love to meet someone who’s down for something no-strings-attached but exciting. 

    https://imgur.com/a/tRujrnO

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    2025/02/01
    05:47 UTC

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    33 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Kinky guy looking to meet a playful girl interested in exploring her dominant and/or sadistic side!

    Hello there!

    I am an easygoing guy who loves all things playful, intimate, and naughty when it comes to dating/sex. While I am certainly a switch, I confess to leaning submissive when it comes to fun kinky stuff. I'm searching for a girl who doesn't think of kink too seriously, but has a craving for it all the same, and who would enjoy exploring her more aggressive, dominant, or (playfully) cruel side! In general, I'm open to someone to chat with and get to know, or more. Making new friends and seeing how we connect sounds like a great start. We're both people first! Not just our kink roles.

    I adore having conversations about basically anything, and enjoy someone who can relax and talk about what's on their mind. If silly, nerdy, kinky, weird and warm sounds like your kind of guy, wait no longer! Let's get to know each other!

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    2025/02/01
    04:59 UTC

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    25 [M4F] #Anaheim - Tall white looking for some fun

    25M 6’4 looking for someone in Anaheim area wanting a quick hookup no strings attatched. We can talk first and exchange pics and see if we hit it off before meeting in person. If your interested we could make some porn, I love to be watched so if you are interested in public stuff Mby a nude beach dm me.

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    2025/02/01
    04:45 UTC

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    29 [M4M] #losangeles - Seeking a Down-to-Earth Guy (Under 6 Inches)

    Hey there, I’m looking for a chill, down-to-earth guy who’s confident and comfortable with himself. Must be under 30, the smaller dick the better. Creep DMs will be ignored. Please start with sending me your stats (height weight, etc) About me: 5’8 158, athletic build Not interested in swallowing now topping you. Just giving head (ok with receiving). Also ok with frothing and weed. Please dm me if this sounds plausible!

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    2025/02/01
    03:33 UTC

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    30 [M4M] #Irvine - Straight, Married, or Bi bros

    DL looking for masc bros for some hot fun. Huge 5-8 foot cummer. I shoot multiple ropes; both distance and volume!

    I honor your discretion and confidentiality. I can both host or travel. Hit me up for a good time! !Unlock

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    2025/02/01
    03:32 UTC

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    32 [M4M] #Downey - I really don’t know why I have to post this to think that a straight, curious guy will reply… Also, is it true that tall, skinny guys are always hung ? I am looking for a straight, curious guy. I can host

    Be sane, clean, and safe to meet. I can host in Downey. PM me ;)

    Send a hard on dick pic and body pic.

    I am looking for a straight curious, first timer or DL, I can host in Downey.

    !unlock

    3 Comments
    2025/02/01
    03:07 UTC

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    27 [M4F] #Whittier - looking for someone in the LA/Orange County area to pass the time with

    Hi all,

    I’m a 27 year old going back to school at the moment, I previously worked in wildland fire response and forestry. (Left right before the big fires too).

    Just looking for someone to hang with and go on a fun date with to pass the time. Make out, get laid, and maybe cuddle and binge tv?

    I’m relatively fit because of my (former) job, I garden, walk the dog, go on long walks, hike and bike as well.

    I also am a big fan of comics and other nerd stuff as well (sci-fi, fantasy, computer games). If I don’t know it, I’m always down to listen to someone go on and on about some subject.

    Just lmk if this sounds interesting. Send me a chat request or dm

    I’m ddf and clean btw.

    https://imgur.com/a/xzJHAom

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    2025/02/01
    02:16 UTC

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    56 [M4F] #SanFernandoValley - Craving praise and a lift to your esteem?

    Looking for a needy woman with a praise kink.

    Preferably, you’re in your 30s - 50s and have a clear understanding of this kink, with a passion for both giving and receiving pleasure in a dominant-submissive relationship.

    I’m a fit, attractive individual, and I enjoy intense and passionate experiences. You must be local and able to meet in person. I’m open to connecting with people of all ages and backgrounds.

    If you’re interested in exploring, let's chat a bit and see where it leads us.

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    2025/02/01
    02:13 UTC

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    26 [M4F] #Pasadena - Pleasurer Looking for a Brat

    Hi! I'm a 26M Latino, 6'1", 215lbs, avg body. I have a curly mullet, trimmed facial hair, and pretty brown eyes.

    I have some nsfw pictures on my profile to get an idea of what I look like. And I'm more than happy to exchange pics in chat!

    Unfortunately I can't host , but I'm mobile and can drive

    I'm clean and DDF

    In the bedroom, I like pleasing....a lot. I love going down and giving orgasms 🤩. Nothing turns me on more than hearing moan of pleasure and seeing how the body reacts to my fingers and mouth!

    For the most part I'd say I'm vanilla. I love a brat! Feels like I'm earning their submissiveness instead of just having it. Plus who doesn't like a bit of playful banter?
    For me, as long as my partner is enthusiastic and enjoys receiving and giving orgasms I'm having a great time.

    Love having cuddle sessions in-between rounds, and well, I like to go multiple rounds

    Outside of the bedroom I enjoy making art, whether it's traditional pen and paper to digital to one of my faves, photography! I love taking pictures of moments and sharing them with friends. I'm also a bit of a foodie and like trying out new places.

    My preferences are: Asian, Caucasian, and Latina, slim to some tummy, brat, vocal, and love getting eaten out!

    If you've read this far, thank you! Would love to know a bit about you~

    Hope to chat soon!

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    2025/02/01
    01:54 UTC

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    30 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Very fit looking for fun

    I’m a private trainer in my spare time, based on the west side of LA, 5’8” with a muscular build and long black hair. I’m looking to connect with a fit, kind, and genuine woman who values open and honest communication. Whether it’s something casual, dating, or just seeing where things naturally go, I’m open to exploring what feels right for both of us.

    I’m STI-free and not interested in any pay-for-play situations. I value respect, kindness, and clear communication—making sure we’re both comfortable is a top priority for me.

    Feel free to reach out!

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    2025/02/01
    01:49 UTC

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    29 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Here for a good time not a long time

    Let’s get straight to the point, shall we?

    What I’m About:

    • Open-minded and love to explore different kinks and fantasies, but I’m equally committed to respecting boundaries and limits.
    • Every guy says this, but I’m genuinely good at what I do—because I truly enjoy intimacy and focusing on my partner’s pleasure. I believe in making my partner feel like a princess—treated with the utmost care, attention, and respect.
    • I’m chill and down-to-earth, whether you’re looking for a laid-back vibe or someone who can keep up with your energy. If you’re a talker, even better. Introverts and extroverts are both welcome.
    • Just be upfront about your expectations, whether you’re looking for a fun experience, a quick release, or something in between. No judgment.
    • Every size, shape, and color are welcome—whites, blacks, exotics, Asians, South Asians/Desis—all you queens out there, don’t be shy. I promise I’ll make it worth your while. Interracial dynamics and race play can be a turn-on (respectfully, of course).

    However, no dudes or trans, please. Thank you!

    A Bit About Me:

    • Brown, born and raised in the West.
    • Athletic build (180 lbs), stay in shape, and prioritize excellent hygiene (head to toe).
    • Always dress well and smell great—I’m big on colognes.
    • Comfort and safety come first for everyone involved. Recently tested (results available) and 420-friendly, so I’d appreciate the same transparency from you.
    • Hobbies: Working out, hiking, traveling.

    What I’m Looking For: I’m seeking a like-minded lady for a fun, memorable, no-strings-attached experience—someone who wants to be pleased and treated like a true pillow princess. Open to all races and ethnicities, so don’t hold back.

    If this sounds good so far and you’re down for some laid-back fun, shoot me a message! Tell me your favorite place to be, your favorite position, or even a kink you’d love to explore. If this post is still up, I’m still looking!

    Please be ready to verify.

    Located in LA, California, US.

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    2025/02/01
    01:47 UTC

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    43 [M4F] #OrangeCounty - Are you a younger girl into older men? Do your friends or dad’s friends turn you on?

    Whether you are shy and this is your first time with an older guy or you’ve done it before, be a good girl (please be 18 or over) and say hi!

    Even if you’re shy or nervous, I’d love to gently teach you and mentor you.

    I’m white, 6’1” weigh 195 lbs and I have brown hair and brown eyes. I’m also looking to actually meet and not just talk online.

    As far as SFW interests, I enjoy the beach, swimming, paddleboarding, hiking, camping, traveling, hockey, skiing, and reading.

    As far as NSFW interests, ask me…

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    2025/02/01
    01:26 UTC

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    32 [M4F] #OrangeCounty - Looking to make a connection

    Nerdy, witty, and here to threaten you with a healthy relationship 🔫

    I'm 32, male, 181lb, 6'0", Southeast Asian, average build. A professional engineer by day and a food dispenser for my cat by night. A bit of a homebody and night owl so I don't often get the chance to meet people, so giving reddit a go. Dating apps are just... no.

    I currently live on my own and my two big hobbies are anime and videogames. Currently obsessed with FFXIV, Honkai: Star Rail, Hololive, and mountain biking lol. Other hobbies being sleeping, cooking, visiting new coffee shops, trying new foods, and making poor attempts at exercise to stay in shape. I only ask that you aren't overweight yourself.

    Let's chat about our passions and hobbies or let me see how many times I can make you laugh. We don't have to like all the same things, tell me what you're into! Would love a genuine connection that could lead to long term dating but I'm open for anything. 

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    2025/02/01
    01:13 UTC

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    22 [M4F] #Riverside - Looking for first fwb

    22 year old Latino college student. 6 ft tall colored eyes. Never had a fwb and want to be able to eserlience having someone I could just count on when I need some sex. Send a chat and we can exchange pics and have some fun.

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    2025/02/01
    00:03 UTC

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    38 [M4F] #Riverside - Passionate second base man seeks above the belt fun!

    Okay, I couldn't quite figure out the baseball pun here. But there's nothing better than first and second base, is there? Maybe I'm biased because I'm breast obsessed with an oral fixation. But maybe you're the opposite, you love the attention. Hands pawing greedily, massaging, kneading, finding their homes at the small of your back and your bosom. Lips caressing yours, dragging down your neck and shoulders.

    So I'm just looking for a lady who shares my passion in making out and breast play. Doesn't need to go any further than that unless you want it to! Would love a regular play partner, but one-offs are just fine too!

    I'm safe, sane, drug disease and drama free. Very happy to host and try to be a good one. If there's something you like to drink or snack on, I'll be sure to have it (because gosh knows we could be making out for hours). Best timing for me is daytime weekdays, but also free all of tonight, and on and off on weekends!

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    2025/02/01
    00:02 UTC

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    46 [M4F] #Fullerton - California - Never Received a Proper Blow Job (looking for 18+ only)

    I’ve lurked here for a while and finally got up the courage to post (made a new account so please bear with the new account age). Sorry if this is a little long but some background. I’m married (I’m open to married or single) and I grew up in a very conservative, strict family. The idea of no sex until marriage was pushed very strong on me and because of this I really didn’t experiment sexually in high school or college and didn’t have sex until I was married.

    I’m married but my wife has a very low sex drive (the last time we had sex was several months ago) and even though I give her oral sex when we have sex (and I’d like to think that I’m quite good at it and bringing her to orgasm) the longest blow job I’ve ever received from her was about 5 seconds and she’s never made me finish from a blow job. She says she just isn’t into it and the idea of giving a blow job grosses her out, and she is grossed out by the idea of me cumming in her mouth.

    I’m looking to meet (in real life) someone fun and flirty and who actually enjoys giving blow jobs and who will help me experience something I’ve wanted for so long but never had the opportunity to enjoy. I’m completely fine with reciprocating and I’d love to give you oral in return and pleasure you to thank you for helping me to experience this.

    I’m open to all ages between 18-45. If you knew me, I’m the last person that you’d be expecting to do something like this and because I’m married I need to be discreet. I’m happy with getting to know you before we meet. Since I never got to experiment when I was younger, I’m fine with someone younger as well and maybe I can make you feel amazing too. Maybe you’ve wanted to have a man give you oral for a long time and we can do each other a favor.

    I’m completely fine with trading pictures and I’m excited (maybe a tiny bit nervous too) about the possibility of meeting someone that can make this happen.

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    2025/01/31
    23:25 UTC

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    43 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Treat yourself to a full-body massage and muff dive from a skilled gentleman this Valentine’s Day

    I’m a respectful gentleman looking to spend a memorable evening with someone special. Let’s forget the usual expectations and pressures of the holiday. Join me for a memorable evening that puts your needs front and center.

    The evening unfolds at your pace, starting with a soothing full-body massage, climaxing with an hours-long muff dive, and ending with the best cuddles and aftercare.

    This special night is all about you and your pleasure, with no expectations for more.

    I’m a confident and affectionate guy, 5’8, 190 lbs, strong build, well-groomed with hazel eyes and dark hair. I live a clean and healthy lifestyle, work out regularly, no drugs, and a non-smoker.

    I’ll be hosting at the LAX Marriott on February 12-16 in the evenings.

    If this sounds like your kind of Valentine’s Day, please reach out. Introduce yourself a little, and as an ice-breaker, tell me what’s your funniest Valentine’s memory?

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    2025/01/31
    23:19 UTC

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    33 [M4F] #Murrieta - Hoping to vibe before going further

    Handsome, well spoken, and well written looking for something hard to find. I'm capable of carrying a conversation and making you laugh, can give you great song recommendations for your playlist(s) especially if you're into hip-hop/RnB, a top tier cuddler, and a cute discreet coffee date. I mention all these things because I'm more than just someone looking for sex, I could be a really chill, hot, close friend when not engaging in those activities and I'm looking for the same as well. The catch is that I'm partnered and doing this behind their back, you're welcome to move on if that's not your thing.

    I've been pouring my heart out with high effort posts, talking a lot about me and how great I am, and what I offer these last few months to no avail. Despite chasing after something morally and ethically bankrupt on here, I'm a healthcare professional with a normal head on his shoulders.

    My look: I'm South Asian 6'0, 188 lbs, lightly tanned, bearded, short hair, and fit. My facial features and complexion appear more Middle Eastern, Persian, or North African. I take care of my appearance, hygiene, and grooming very well. I lift 6 days a week and that keeps me in good shape. Others I've spoken to on here have said I'm conventionally attractive but I am happy to share pics once we talk a little bit.

    Looking for:
    - Someone that takes care of their appearance, meaning fit or HWP.

    - Not here to be picky about how old someone is, I'm not attracted to a number.

    - Able to meet in person eventually and communicate well enough to set such a thing up.

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    2025/01/31
    22:38 UTC

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    19 [M4F] #Upland - College athlete looking for a playful friend

    Hey all! I’m a second year kinesiology major and muscular college athlete who also wrestles! I’m looking for a playful friend who is kinky and looking to explore! Currently looking for casual/casual that can turn into fwb.

    I’m a big pleaser , and good with my hands on and off the mat. I’m looking for somebody who’s muscular/fit or a slim and average build, as well as easy-going and looking to have fun!

    Stats: 5’9” , 6.5in, 180lb

    Interesting and you are looking for a fun time, Shoot me a DM!

    https://imgur.com/a/eBqprwY

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    2025/01/31
    22:33 UTC

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    47 [M4R] #Carlsbad - Dom Discreet Business Traveler - week of 2/9

    Hey sexy people of Carlsbad and nearby. I’m 47, DL, married to a woman, so discretion is essential. I enjoy good looking fun younger people. If you’re interested in an older dominant dad type, I’m your guy. I’m 6’ 210, beefy, well equipped. I’m open to couples (cuck and hot wife scenarios) and singles. Please be in decent shape and a good communicator. I can host at my hotel. Please DM me and start by telling me about yourself and what you’re looking for.

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    2025/01/31
    22:14 UTC

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