/r/Singles

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18+ Only! No minors! A genuine space for singles to connect, share, chat, and find dates. No paid content, no spam—just real people and real conversations.

“Single” is an opportunity to live life on your own terms and not apologize.”

This is a SFW sub! This reddit is a place to find discussion, articles, and humour relevant to being single. Whether you're happily single, or feeling lonely, this is the place for you!

Below is a list of other reddits that may be relevant:

/r/sex - Sexs tips, advice, and discussion.

/r/R4R - A single Redditor looking to meet another single Redditor? This sub is for you!

*/r/Foreveralonedating - For those who want to stop being Forever Alone and start being Together Alone instead.

/r/dating - Advice on all aspects of dating.

/r/okcupid - Want some feedback on your profile? This is the place to be!


This is a safe for work (sfw) sub. Do not post naked pictures here.


/r/Singles

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24 [M4F] Anywhere – Let’s Create Something Beautiful Together 💫

Hi there! I’m a 24-year-old guy from India, hoping to meet someone who loves meaningful connections, laughter, and a touch of adventure.

Here’s a little about me:

Height: 5’10”

Personality: Warm, supportive, and always ready to brighten someone’s day. I believe in kindness, good conversations, and enjoying life’s little moments.

Hobbies: I’m into creative projects, trying new foods, and sharing playlists filled with songs you’ll love.

I have mild cerebral palsy, which is just a small part of my story—it doesn’t stop me from living life with a positive outlook and a full heart.

What I’m looking for: A sweet and genuine girl (20-26) who values connection, laughter, and exploring life together. Whether it’s chatting about our favorite books or dreaming about places to travel, I’d love to meet someone who’s excited about building something special.

If you’re looking for someone who’ll cheer you on, share a laugh, and always be in your corner, let’s start a conversation. Maybe this post will lead to something wonderful!

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2024/12/03
06:04 UTC

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(M4F) 31M USA been single for 2.5 years and feeling lonely

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2024/12/03
03:55 UTC

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25 M4F #Anywhere - Looking for a long term relationship

Hey there. M 25 from India.

No age bar or any kind of restriction. Dm me if you want the same.

Hurry before I delete this post lol

1 Comment
2024/12/03
03:16 UTC

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25 [M4F] Missouri - Looking out for anyone interested in a serious relationship

Hello, my name is Thomas and I am a recent college grad, and would like to see what direction I could take my life with someone. If I am being honest, I am very clueless person in general right now it seems. I can’t seem to pend down on where I want to go at all. I have my life mostly well together, but without anyone in my life to share it with. I am not an antisocial person, but I simply quit being social in college to graduate and haven’t been able to really connect with anyone since then. Same could be said for dating because I attempted to in college and it did not pan out into anything. So I figured I would put myself out on here to see if anyone is interested in me. I am pretty typical guy more or less, but not a lazy one. I do my own chores, rent my own apartment, own a car, and I have a decent job. I can cook but don’t mind just cleaning up the cooking after someone does it because I am good at any cleaning. My hygiene is very up to snuff as well since I sometimes take two showers a day, brushing my teeth twice a day, laundry once a week, etc. I do enjoy certain activities like jogging or walking in photogenic areas, playing video games, watching tv and movies, listening to music (Weezer is one of my favorite bands; I know it’s a basic choice but I love them). More or less if you like what you have read so far hit me up I’ll respond right away, and I do like enjoy voice chats so you can add me on discord or we can exchange numbers. I am also an accepting person of anyone no matter what you look like. Some more things about me:

  • I am 6 feet tall
  • I have 2 dogs
  • I am a liberal, open minded person
  • My favorite color is maroon
  • I do enjoy reading about and watching stuff about cars (I know a lotta trivia)
  • I am from a rural part of MO    
  • I do have a wide selection of hoodies

https://imgur.com/a/4iiRzIF

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2024/12/02
23:54 UTC

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27 [M4F] #NYC - Looking for something forbidden; that should never be mentioned.

I'm looking for....you guessed it: something that could potentially move beyond an FWB with a lovely person! It feels like everyone is afraid mentioning and/or pushing beyond the boundary of 'FWB', 'casual', and 'situationship'. I'm seeking the forbidden traditional dating!; The type where we aren't worrying about if the other party is talking to other people. When things are sweet, simple, and straightforward.

So if there is chemistry between us; we're both going into this without any room for misinterpretation. No beating around the bush(?) well at least not one kind.

Honestly feeling overall very happy with my life, especially professionally. I'm Latino & Black with a fit build, DDF (with recent test results), can drive anywhere, and happy to always host in the city. Fun, laid-back, and easy to talk to. I grew up in New York City & have my shit together and am both emotionally stable and available.

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2024/12/02
22:32 UTC

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Is there anybody out there?

It’s so hard to find someone to genuinely connect with. I love horror movies and musicals and The Last of Us. I’m nice and genuinely fun to be around. I can’t understand why I can’t meet someone.

18 Comments
2024/12/02
20:29 UTC

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Single male looking to chat with females

3 Comments
2024/12/02
20:18 UTC

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Hey do I look like I'm feeling bored lol

5 Comments
2024/12/02
19:04 UTC

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throw away for a friend: 27 M losing confidence cause his dating has stagnated. Is he gonna die alone? how do i help?

19 Comments
2024/12/02
11:31 UTC

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47m totally available

Hi I would love to hang out or chat I have plenty of free time I finally have got my life right & I’m ready to meet someone special.*<3

6 Comments
2024/12/02
03:01 UTC

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53 [M4F] #Kentucky - Looking for a slim and fun female

I am an attractive professional male currently located in Northern Kentucky. I like to watch movies, play with my dogs, go out to eat, try new things and sometimes travel when my schedule permits.

I am mainly looking for a relationship with a much younger attractive female. I am interested in a slim or petite woman who is affectionate and generally fun to be around.

I don’t really care where you live as long as you reside in the USA and would be willing to visit and/or relocate to my location in the future.

If you are interested please send me a private message with some current photos and tell me a little about yourself so we can get started.

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2024/12/01
19:35 UTC

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Just trying this out

I'm a 25, almost 26(F), and I've been single for nearly a year now. I figured why not make a post on here, and just see what happens.

10 Comments
2024/12/01
15:40 UTC

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Happy Sunday ❤️

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2024/12/01
00:34 UTC

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32 [M4A] UK Lonely guy seeks someone to connect with

I'm looking to get to know someone. You don't necessarily have to share similar interests, as long as you're willing to talk to me about anything/everything and mundane things. I particularly enjoy someone that tells me about their day and what they've been doing. I am willing to travel to meet you, if we get that far.

I spend most of my time either gaming, watching stuff, or cooking.

I have a PS5, Series X and a Switch. I like RPGs.

I really like to cook but I keep it quite simple with the ingredients that I use. I'll make a chicken roast or a ragu for bologense. I also bake fairy cakes or use boxed mixtures. I'd love for some recipes ideas if anyone has any!

Likewise, if you any shows to recommend I'd love to hear them!

So yeah, send me a message if you want to chat

5 Comments
2024/11/30
20:47 UTC

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29[M4F] india / anywhere - tall (6'0") guy big heart alrightish looks

get to know me for long term connection ☺️🌹

Im searching, somewhere in universe, a soul match with honesty and compatibility for relationship Im a tall okayish looking Indian guy, not successful in career but have got enough to support himself. I'm CF. Distance doesn't matter. I mostly live near delhi but often visit Mumbai too.

i don't have any high requirements from a partner. Pretty lonely, cause of never been in a relationship.

I want love. Someone supportive of my challenges, fears, anxieties and I'd be the same for you. Someone accepting of my flaws which I can't easily change about myself. And I will have full acceptance and empathy towards your imperfections too. Let's improve ourselves together.

I'm into programming and designing Hobbies are reading, talking to people, cooking. Looks are fair wheatish, between fit and average, slightly muscular, slightly chubby.

I am a romantic ambivert empathetic person. I believe in giving affection and values like honesty so I am brutally straightforward

1 Comment
2024/11/30
17:40 UTC

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Single Post Shower thoughts

Today I got out of the shower, and really just shouted to the rooftops, "Why am I still single? Why is it so hard to meet someone? Will I ever meet another woman for the rest of my life? Seriously it shouldn't be this hard. It doesn't help I live in a city that was voted one of the most difficult places for dating or meeting someone. Not to mention I work at home, further isolating myself.

I'm a Single Dad, early 50's, Masters Degree, my own home, vehicles, a good income, i'm active, not on any medications, a variety of hobbies and interests. I feel like I'm a pretty good catch. I like the outdoors, hiking, biking, travel, swimming, and some nerdy interests as well. I'm average height, not overweight, but not ripped either, I date women of all races, nationalities, etc. So I try to have a large dating pool. It's so difficult to meet women in this day and age organically.

It's just so frustrating, this is more of a vent than anything else. Just in my feels tonight I guess.

3 Comments
2024/11/30
02:27 UTC

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31 [M4F] #anywhere looking for my soulmate

Hi, I'll be brief and to the point. I've been trying for a long time to find a partner with whom I can build a strong and lasting relationship. However, I've had bad experiences, to the point of believing that I'll end up alone. I'm not demanding or picky; I just want someone to love.

3 Comments
2024/11/29
23:20 UTC

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Why is getting a girl has even become this much hard

20M from India, well high population already steals most chances, and then even after trying a lot can't actually find anyone, it's hard to approach any girl in college from different class like it's weird and just doesn't feel right. And anywhere outside it's like not a place to get girls duhh and on dating apps no one really talks. It's just scrolling endless. People say it'll just happen but I don't think it'll happen just like that like from past 6 or 7 yrs I haven't found any good girl around me or even close.

37 Comments
2024/11/29
13:15 UTC

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(43M) single and looking for a connection.

Trying to avoid dating apps and wanting to meet a real genuine woman. How and what should I do because to many are out there just trying to promote content and lead people on. Where would one go to be noticed and meet? Is it possible to do this without alcohol involved? Looking for a real response with real advice. Thank you

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2024/11/29
12:56 UTC

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30s (F4M) 🌏

I’m seeking a partner to build a future with—someone who’s ready for a meaningful relationship that could lead to settling down. I’d love to connect with someone who shares an interest in enjoying life’s adventures together and values daily companionship, support, and open communication. Whether it’s sharing laughs, dreams, or quiet moments, I hope to find someone who wants to be an active part of each other’s lives.

If this resonates with you, let’s start a conversation and see where it leads 🙃

12 Comments
2024/11/29
12:36 UTC

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33 M 4F

Wishing you well, friends. 🙂 My name is Moss. Feel free to get in contact with me to connect. I have a lot of time for people and enjoy spending time with others and meeting new faces. I can help carry a convo and offer a new perspective on old problems if you need some input on life matters. I have many shared interests with others. I hope you're doing well, wishing you well. Have an awesome rest of your day. Warmest, Mos

Selfie from Yesterday.

3 Comments
2024/11/28
23:52 UTC

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Hey I'm done shaving 💇‍♂️

3 Comments
2024/11/28
20:29 UTC

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25 [ F4M] Africa/Anywhere/Online - Black girl looking for a Masculine Bf

SINGLE AND SERIOUS PEOPLE ONLY!!

Hellooooo there , thanks for stopping by. I'm 25 from Africa, work as a translator for a Chinese company and I love my job.

Outside of work you'll find me learning languages, watching Shows, taking walks, playing boardgames, listening to music, archery games and horse riding and learning new things in general.

I’m looking for someone with genuine intentions. Someone I can bring pure happiness and spontaneous excitement to, and someone who can do the same for me. I like men that I can learn from, that are kind, generous, respectful, natural problem solvers, and know how to treat a woman. I'm a giver with my emotions and affection as a woman should be and taken care of by a true masculine man. I'm a loving woman,I love being held by a strong man knowing that I’m protected and safe. I want someone I can give my all to without having to hold back because he does the same for me.

I have no kids of my own but open to have in the future.

If I sound like your ideal type of woman, don't be shy to reach out to me and please include your selfie. I'll do the same as we all know that physical attraction plays a huge role too.

GMT+2

5 Comments
2024/11/28
08:49 UTC

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39m4f happily open to LDR+LTR

Longtime follower First time poster Im 39, been single since 2020 when my partner passed during covid, & haven't been intimately active since 2019 when I last saw her. Before her I was always single much longer than I'd be in a relationship cause I'm either a glutton for punishment cause I keep trying to be caring & right by people, or I'm never enough cause there's always excuses to why I'm not worth serious commitment

I should mention, I suffer from PTSD due to never experiencing a healthy relationship until 2017, severe bipolar depression & severe rejection dysmorphia. I'm not the type of person to shoot my shot unless spoken to first

I barely to never get contacted by anyone online unless it's your average Bot/Scammer account, which honestly has been a LOT since 2014. Like, I don't get that type of attention from anyone...ever, even in relationships.

Anyways, I've only had brief relationships since turning 18, and 90% of my relationships have been long distance with either one or the other relocating. When Jan 2nd hits, I'll be single for 5yrs & still hoping to meet someone

The only standards I have for meeting a woman is just

Be honest & affectionate to me. Idgaf about size or looks (but bonus pts If you have wide hips lol)

I'm too self conscious about my looks cause of everything that's gone on in my life, so I'll be willing to show my face if anyone asks

4 Comments
2024/11/28
05:59 UTC

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Single Holiday Tradition Suggestions

I'm a single 30 F living alone. I absolutely love Christmas and every year I spend it sad and alone. I do visit my family for a short period but most of my day is wasted away. I really want to start doing my own Christmas traditions that don't require friends/fam to keep my spirits up! Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated!

10 Comments
2024/11/28
02:56 UTC

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Awkward black girl

F28 Awkward black girl looking for like minded black awkward ppl It's so hard to find people like me and I would love another weirdo to see if they match my energy Guys and girls welcome 🤗 friendly vibes please

24 Comments
2024/11/28
01:25 UTC

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31 [M4F]

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2024/11/27
23:04 UTC

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30M single

I don't really feel like any woman is interested in me but I guess I'll try on here to see if that's true or not. I'm the guy in my pfp

6 Comments
2024/11/27
20:11 UTC

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