READ ENTIRE POST PLEASE. Do not respond with one word response. Read the last paragraph or I’ll just be ignoring you! Thanks!***

Happy Thanksgiving! It’s cold out and I’d love to keep warm with someone this week sometime. Why not help each other out a little bit? Looking for some good head and/or fuck!

I’ve also been open to trying out kinks lately, so if you have any, feel free to lmk!

Me: 27, DDF, hygienic, well-trimmed beard and down below, mixed race white/latino, relatively fit casual gym-goer, 5’8 and 170lbs, professional, educated, and respectful.

You: a cis woman or trans femme/masc, DDF, hygienic. Race, age, and body type don’t matter as much to me, but please let me know that info in your first message anyways. If you can host near Berkeley, that’s a plus but not required!

In your first message, please say: gender, if you’re cis/trans, your age, if you can host and what city you’re in! Also please let me know that you’re D/DF (I don’t care about weed ofc)!

I'm a laid back goofy dude looking for a good time. Let's grab a drink with, see if the vibe fits, and help each other get off if it does ;)

I'm 6'1", white, 180 lbs, active, and clean. Long hair, a little scruffy, and ggg. Looking for someone hwp. Send me a chat if you're interested

27 year old Indigenous male who will be getting a short break from his very busy professional life soon. Looking to find a fun and like minded individual. Tall, brown skin (sorry racists), physically active. Enjoys long sessions with emphasis on foreplay, especially when it comes to letting me give you oral. I don't want to put my D in you until that opening is dripping wet and I get a taste first. Tend to be on the dominant side but have control so I can easily tone things down if it's not your thing.

You: Prefer older over younger due to maturity. If you're younger and really enjoy being dominated though maybe we can meet if you can convince me you're not a drama magnet. Thicker around the hips if much better than skinny, and a tummy doesn't change my mind on that. Long hair is preferred to short but mainly because I like to gently run my fingers though it if the sex gets passionate and heated enough. Locals only and no long back and forth. If you don't message me within 3 days I will block you. Sorry, but if you don't put the effort into the convo automatic bad vibes. Introduce yourself please. Just sending "what do you look like" or "dick pic" as a starter already tells me what I need to know about you. If this goes well then pretty soon you'll be screaming my name while I'm between you legs. If we do this consistently and are exclusive, I'm opening to giving it raw, but that has to earned with trust.

21 6ft white male looking for any woman that wants to help drain me since i havent had any fun since i left on my vacation. i can travel to you if you can host. no requirments on what you look like but id prefer either a latina or an asian ;) send me a verification pic in my dms and we can start talking

I know, I know.. this is a hookup sub and I should try something like bumble bff before I try here, but alas, here I am. Thanks for looking.

31F looking to make a friend to walk and/or grab lunch with on my lunch hour once in a while.

You are: •preferably female or a normal guy (I’ll be the judge of that) •Age 30-45 ish •Available 12-2ish M-Thu •Working or living within walking distance of kezar stadium/surrounding area •Not just trying to hook up!! I’m happily married and not interested in changing that.

I’m bad at talking about myself, so pls inquire within if you’re interested/meet the criteria and we can go from there. 🚶‍♀️

I am looking for someone to be myself with. I know a lot of people feel like they want a lot more out of life right now. Also wanting more out of the relationship with their partner. Let’s be each other’s “number two”, it would be nice to find someone to be friends with and get to know each other as if we’re dating each other. If we hit it off maybe we could be a little more than friends.

About me: Attractive, white, tall, beard, brown hair, blue eyes, athletic. DDF(420/alcohol ok) Want to be able to open up to you and talk about EVERYTHING.

Interests: Music, traveling, movies, sightseeing, sporting events, mental/physical health.

You: read this far, DDF (420 ok),attractive, active, also not single. Ideally a bubbly personality.

Stumbled upon this subreddit and thought I'd give it a try. I am 19, Korean American, fit, and living in San Francisco. Looking to have some fun with a woman and get my dick sucked for the first time. No preference on age or race, just looking for a nice woman that takes care of herself. Available to meet sometime this week. Looking forward to it ;)

Like I said in the title I’m 20 and will be back in the bay very soon for break. Looking for some fun while I’m there and interested in a lot. Would love to get head and cum but also interested in getting penetrated. DM what you’re into id love to hear anything. Me: 5’11, white, about 6.5 inches, slim build

ISO legal, obedient, slender sub female ISO little or middle who enjoy a benevolent Dictator who will support them in coloring their color books but then find themselves gagging on something big as they orgasm for His pleasure. Sapiosexual who desires to be micromanaged, spanked/slapped, disciplined and maybe humiliated privately.

A pacifier goes into your mouth and you sleep on the floor when you are not a good gal. You should be on the slender side with curves and a pretty face. A lack of deference towards Me is a good way to get dropped. I can be cruel at times and this should arouse you.

Bonus points if you get aroused while giving oral to Me and like to roleplay — you enjoy wearing stylish makeup, you’re multiorgasmic (faking it nicely is acceptable) because I can cum three times in an extended lovemaking with the right person, you're a cuckquean or you are busty to your frame.

Extra bonus points for enjoying free use, domestic discipline, patriarch, CNC, begging and orgasm denial. 55 SWM lean muscled build (5’11”), hairy chest and often taken for 40s (recently a colleague who is seven years younger than me said, “When you get to be my age you will understand how getting old wears the body down.” This was his response when I invited him on a seven-mile hike)! Couple of body pics on my feed.

I tend to be a protective teacher Daddy type who obviously enjoys teaching you. It should warm your heart if I start to look out for you outside of the bedroom. My vanilla interests: hot yoga, cultural knowledge, tabletop gaming, video games (preference for Steam), novels, movies & movie trivia, travel, History, red wine, hiking & the many Metaverses. This is a shared fantasy between two consenting adults - 20 or older - probably no older than 43.

This could go towards an LTR in which case you would sometimes need to act “normal” in public circles. Ideally, you are a clever and pretty woman who likes to privately play out some very naughty fantasies. I tend to lean toward traditional roles in a romantic relationship. If I like you enough to go from online to audio and then in-person you should be vaccinated like me and willing to prove it. Long-term audio partners who are never able to meet might work. When I become exclusive with someone you should understand it means the breaking of our audio interactions - unless it arouses her that I am with other women.

I am exacting and seeking a quality experience. When you contact Me put “Excalibur” in your detailed message explaining why I should consider you, including a physical description that includes your height, weight, body measurements and dress size.

If you cannot write at least five sentences to me in your reply I doubt you will get a response. Be ready to voice verify a file to me to prove you are not some guy trolling.

5'11" 196 lbs athletic build blue eyes dark brown hair.

Hi all!

We are looking for a lovely lady somewhere between the age of 28 and 37 who would love to suck a cock all while getting railed from behind by the wife with a strap on. We have done this many times before and this is something that we greatly enjoy because of the all-around pleasure it brings to everyone. This isn’t just to “hit it and quit it“ this is to build a genuine friendship all the while, enjoying some very sexy fun.

We are currently not looking for any guys so please do not respond if you are a single guy.

We would be open to a couple if you are within that age range and we click.

If you have read this post this far and are genuinely interested please send us a message with what your favorite animal is and tell us a little bit about yourself. Feel free to include a SFW photo of your self.

I’m a 5’11, heavy (230), African American, dominant male. I work full time and have my own place, so hosting isn’t an issue. It’s been about a month since I’ve been laid so my dick has been out of control lately. I normally cum 4-7 times a day. Sexually im into light bdsm play, choking, spanking, slapping, light biting (no blood), and I almost can’t cum without having my nipples played with, my favorite thing in the world is when a woman is sucking my nipples. As much as I love to be the big dominant man taking charge, I also love to cuddle and praise women I’m with, so expect lots of that if you’re doing a good job. I’ve been with about 6 women, the longest relationship lasting around a year or more. So I’m fairly experienced, I’m told I’m great at eating pussy. On the SFW side I’m into typical nerdy stuff, games, comics, anime, and the likes. If you’d like to get to know me more we could talk about that or our social lives, I have a lot of good friends, mostly male sadly, always looking for more female friends (especially FWBs 😉) that’s all I have to say, hmu if this sounds interesting to you or if we have similar interests!

I would like to meet a girl to get to know and build a real connection with. Ideally build a bond both vanilla and kink. Let’s explore and try some things that’s been on our minds. Let’s also get to know each other in the process. No judgement. About me: White 6ft blue eyes athletic beard good looking.

Married guy here seeking a discreet long-term friend and lover to fill a hole in my life. I am a successful tech executive, handsome and attractive, blue eyes, broad shoulders, and fit with lots of interests, life experiences and humor.

I love sports, cooking and food, international travel, spas. I am seeking someone I can connect with regularly as friends leading to intimacy, excitement, and passion.

I want us to be emotionally, physically, and chemically attracted to each other. Anyway, please ping me to learn more. I'm rather grounded in a special and fortunate way.

Older bimarried white professional looking for similar local FWB. 56, 5’11", 180#, 6”. Prefer someone who enjoys long foreplay, lots of body contact, kissing, nip play and possibly more (versatile), all limits respected. Clean, drug and disease free.

24m here who is looking for a fwb. Someone who I can be friends with, go do some fun things, as well as explore some more kinky things and have a regular hook up buddy.

I am 5’11, 140lbs, white, on the slim side but working on getting a little more toned. Gym buddies/workout partners would be super cool for accountability and pushing each other :)

Some things that I enjoy are cooking, reading, watching movies, hiking, walking, kayaking, working out, swimming, going to restaurants, and more. Open to exploring new places or any other hobbies you might have.

Also looking for someone to have fun with sexually. I’m vers. Have had pretty standard/vanilla experiences so far and am interested in spicing things up a little bit by exploring some more kinky things. I have been interested/turned on by dom/sub, bondage, pits, socks, underwear, humiliation, cum play, role play, chastity, ws, edging, and more. Haven’t done much with those so I’m not sure if I’d actually enjoy them all, but just an idea of things I might be interested in exploring.

Ideally I am looking for someone around my age (+/- 5 years) however I am open. Slim/fit/average guys are preferred, but not a hard requirement.

If this sounds like something you are interested in then hmu and we can chat more!

I am looking for something casual or even once is fine by me, kinda used to and ng| like being used as an object by partners LOL. I am looking to have some fun with a lot of types of people: Females ranging from 18-45! I have been having a recent fantasy of domming a younger female 18-22, but age doesn’t matter. Trans regardless of FTM, and couples too!

I consider myself to be extremely dominant but depending on my partner I can be submissive as well! (Especially if we're talking about a MILF/ Cougar).

I have a lot of different kinks too such as: dry humping, grinding, thigh job, BDSM, toy play, mutual masturbation, pussy/ass eating, role play, watching porn together, cockwarming, edging, ro pe play, objectification, and more! Tell me what you're into ;)

A little bit more about me is that I'm 22, 6ft, 165 lbs w/ a slim/athletic build. You can find pictures of me on my profile. Im also loud and introverted so that's a bit odd LOL. Smart, confident and a lil geeky. If you knew me you probably wouldn't have known this more kinkier side to me. I'm about to wrap up college and study in San Francisco.

However I am able to host at a hotel or willing to meet in the east/north/south bay as well :) I typically commute from San Mateo to SF more frequently but can drive elsewhere and can work something out :)

SAFETY, CONSENT, PRIVACY, AND CARE are of upmost importance to me! I trequently test to make sure l'm clean as well. Always happy to wear a condom

Feel free to reach out! but if you do please only do so if you intend on following through! Pics of me on my profile and other similar types of posts, thanks :)

Interested in having a hot girl deal cards or serve you and a couple of friends drinks while you watch a movie?

We are looking for some close friends that would enjoy this for an hour or so. Nothing sketchy or weird and no, this isn’t a paid thing.

You’ll be expected to host somewhere nice in a great neighborhood (for discretion it can also be a high end hotel).

The ideal group would be in finance, legal or medical professionals. We are regular people in professional careers and expect the same, we will pre-screen to ensure fit!

Age is less relevant than fitness and health. We are fit, in shape and healthy. Be drug free!

She’s smoking hot, you won’t be disappointed.

Hey there!

I’m very submissive and love being ordered around and told what to do. I’d love for someone to tease me and control me tonight. I love showing off on cam. Getting stoned always makes me way hornier and sluttier feeling, so I plan on taking an edible later and getting nice and stoned, and getting a fresh bottle of poppers to make myself really brainless while you make me do whatever you want 🤤 I’m open to meeting in person if all we click and have a good time!

My fav kinks are joi, edging, ruined orgasms, pegging/anal, cei, light pain, light humiliation, praise, bondag. ++ if you control my popped hits and get me really fucked up for you 😍

I’ve got lots of dildos, cock rings, and butt plugs I can use for you (:

I’m 27m bi, 5’10, 165lbs and I have a 6.5” dick. Happy to share pics if you’re interested!

For some reason I’ve been kind of thinking for sucking on a nice day for the past few days. Wondering if someone around the area would like to talk and see if we coincide and make it happen before work. Send stats if interested.

25yo Latin bottom here open to a lot and incredibly talented. I don’t need any reciprocation from you :) I’m just looking to worship someone, preferably DL, with my mouth. Also down for just using my hands on you too if you’d like. Please be clean, as I am. Hit me up. Hosting in Hayes Valley

You decide if you want a regular massage or an erotic one.

Expert here at giving massages, with 10+ years of experience massaging women of all body types. The massage can be as sexual, or as non-sexual as you want. You decide the boundaries. Located in Santa Clara, but can travel anywhere in the Bay. I’m still looking if the post is up.

I’m a techie, have my shit together, can host at a hotel, can make good conversations, and DDF with proof. Willing to verify. Discretion guaranteed, and comfort and safety is my priority. Check out FAQs in my profile if this is interesting.

Hi there, 6'/230, blond hair with a graying beard. Married HWP and traveling to SF for work this week, will be in San Francisco Wednesday through Friday. I get tired of my coworkers and enjoy meeting new people. Would like to get together for a drink and possibly dinner if you are up for it, see where things go from there. Happy to chat before to see if we are a like minded match. I will be car free so meeting somewhere within the city works best for me.

You - F - know what you are looking for and what this is about; rest is all upto developing that connection.

Looking for over 30 F who is actively looking for Age Gap Relationship dynamic.

You have to ascertain the "fit" by talking and not just be convinced by words in posts. They could be anything. How many times have you been misled by great sounding posts and then nothing!

Please be a non smoker and non drug user. Prefer one who can converse fluently and can express herself openly and clearly. Perhaps college educated who can initiate and carry on a conversation.

I am an older retired exec. Do not smoke. Drink socially. Well educated and widely travelled. Can be an asset in professional and private life. HWP.

So, hit me up and let's chat.

Experienced tall athletic hung Dom. I enjoy to take control, make you feel helpless, exposed, vulnerable, over power you, use you. 48, 6’5”, 200#, 8 inches. Good with beginners, all limits respected. Start as slowly as you need, go as far as you want. Nice collection of toys and gear if you are up for that. Clean, drug and disease free.

Ben

I love to dig ditches and fix things, garden, climb trees, do ceramics. I volunteer to help kids with school beautification -and .. I also love to wear pretty dresses, and somehow identify as a woman. I'd love to have close friends who find it easy to be with a older male girl. I am retired, and married, so only available daytimes. I'm looking for friends who want GNC friends- to talk, to feel accepted, to do things with, and be there for each other. Emotional intimacy, checking in, helping explore the whispers within of our dreams, basically being in the world we wish existed. Young or old, any gender, any shape, I am not picky- if you are also looking for a warm and caring friendship msg me!

I know it is hard to figure out whether to meet people in person or not, so msg me and we can chat and set up a zoom to say hi!

Hi all, I hope you are having a great week (:

I’m located in Sonoma County specifically but more than happy to travel for the right person!

Title explains pretty much all of it. I’m just looking to make friends that want to be a little bit more than that and have some casual fun!

We can grab a bite to eat, maybe some boba, drive around, do something we’re both interested in, etc, and see if we vibe and then go from there. I like a lot of random things and I’m pretty easy going. If you’re on the fence about dming me you should do it anyways (:

Here’s the about me since I know you don’t wanna waste your time on someone that doesn’t fit ur type.

I’m 6’ tall, black curly hair, tan, pretty average all around. Not shredded but definitely not out of shape. It’s my 2nd year of coursework, I’m huge into cars and food, and I’ve played a lot of sports through school.

Happy to verify anything you want. Shoot me any question. Also open to keeping something together online if that’s all you want to do for now. If you just want to chat I’m also open for that too.

I look forward to meeting you (:

Pleasure gives me pleasure. It turns me on immensely to see, hear and feel my partner’s body reacting to the things I’m doing to make them feel good. It would be best if you are multi-orgasmic or into forced, recurrent orgasms. I do not play rough but will want to make you cum repeatedly to satisfy myself. 

I’m looking for something ongoing ~2+ times a month and ideally we are able to meet for a couple of hours at a time. Open to feelings, but don’t want to fall in love. I don’t want to change your situation nor to change mine. I want to want to see you again and the same for you while we’re both mature enough to not ghost each other. I want something physically I’ve had in the past but don’t have at the moment.

I’m into:

• Squirting

• Mutual oral worship

• Long doggystyle sessions

• Edging and forced orgasms

• Toy play

• Spanking

• Light bondage 

As mentioned in the title, I am attached, but not married. I’m 5’11, white, with a thick/stocky build. I have long dark hair, gray eyes and live alone in Redwood City with no roommates, no kids and no drama. I’m responsible, DDF (420-friendly), safe, discreet, fun, confident, sane, GGG (Good, Giving, Game) and always play safe. During the week, I have time during the late morning to early afternoons as well as select evenings.

Not looking to meet right away. Let’s chat and make sure our expectations are aligned before arranging an in-person meet up over a drink at a local Starbuck’s or pub.

Hey, I'm a 30 year old single straight male living alone in California. It's hard to make new friends and connections as you get a little older, so I'm trying to use other ways of meeting people like reddit. I know this is really shot in the dark but maybe it's worth a try? Overall I'm a pretty level headed guy just trying to make the most of my limited time here on 🌎. I value deep meaningful connections, loyalty, trust and I'm completely monogamous. (Unless there's things you are interested in trying etc). I also really value time and experiences, like if you go through stuff with someone over time it, just builds a bigger bond and foundation. I don't typically like meeting new people or trying to bring new people into my life. It's usually a shit-show haha. I want to find my person and throw away the key. (I'm okay with meeting people and making friends it's just hard to know someone true intentions etc) anyways.

I enjoy RnB and soul music, I also love indie music and underground hiphop. I'm mixed raced,(not white) handsome-ish and pretty much all by myself lol. No crazy ex's, no kids, no roommates, and a very small friend group. I enjoy exploring the region, running, beaches, concerts, themeparks, and trying new things. I'm really looking for someone to talk to, get to know and potentially enjoy life with, you know the simple things like just going to the park or just getting a pizza and watching a movie. My energy level isn't what it used to be, so I'm really not trying to keep doing this dating thing over and over lol I'm trying to make someone stay, and I'll stay in return haha. I do play video games, love comedy, indie films, and any type of art with real meaning. I love animals as well! I like to connect on a deeper level, but I also love to joke around and just talk to my person about anything and everything. I'm also a big believer than money and love have no correlation.

For you?

I'm attracted to women of all ethnicities. Please know who you are, and who you aren't. Please be past your partying or exploring phase. I like a woman with morals and respect. I don't mind having fun every now and then, but yeah I'm not trying to be at a bar every weekend. Ideally you'd be somewhat fit, I'm always working on myself and I'd love to team up with someone
but I'm unfortunately not really attracted to bigger body types. I know mutual attraction is important to some level for everyone. Other than that, someone who is level headed, resilient, fair, funny, goofy, awkward, etc. Someone who communicates well, doesn't hide stuff or play games. Someone not tied up in social media all day, and enjoys actually living life without their phones. Someone who loves animals and cares for them in someway.

Let me know if you've made this far.

handsome, fit + hung thick pleasure dom that will make you squirt like a firehose. Looking for a sneaky link to be the secret freak / sexual spillover valve to my sexually vanilla (but otherwise happy) relationship.

Please reach out if you’re:

• 21+
• conventionally attractive
• morally flexible (I’m NENM lol)
• kinky af
• looking for a fucking-focused, extremely discreet ongoing thing that’s 0% drama, 100% fun

Strong preference for those that can host. A pic sent upfront will get my attention quickly.

Am humble, but excessive modesty is as bad as arrogance (think Aristotle said that?), so it’s worth mentioning that I’m above average level attractive and way above average level in bed.

A pic in your DM gets my attention faster 😉

Hello! if you see this post it means I am still looking

I am a mature, experienced kinky man - on the Dominant side, seeking a younger submissive woman to connect with.

Ideally for guiding, helping to explore and building trust and fun;)

About Me:

• 5'7 exactly and proud of it! Shortish black hair, brown eyes. 210 lbs. Muscular broad shoulders big chest powerlifting body.
• Hypersexual, kinky, yet respectful of limits. I only get pleasure if you get pleasure.
• Cat dad, cook, sports fan, video gamer, silly witty and sarcastic. I will tease you with words, then with my cock ;)
• Always try to be kind but have very little patience with selfish people. I work at a non-profit because I like helping people.
• I work full time, have my own place, pay my own bills.
• Creative, nerdy, and love girls who are self driven and passionate about their hobbies.

About You:

• Into dirty talk, mild degradation with praise, being called names sexually, slapped, punished and praised.
• prefer obedient partners
• Working, or in school. Not a gold digger.
• Clean, well groomed, shaved.
• Petite to curvy shape. Cis female.
• Open to any race, but I LOVE mixed race(white/asian) girls.
• 18+, any experience level

I live in the SF bay area, but willing to travel with the right committed girl, once trust is established. No, I not PayPal you the first time I talk to you. Hope get some serious responses. If you are going to send one message then delete your account or ghost me please do not bother. I also love online chats and relationships, but I prefer to eventually video chat since that is WAY more intimate then just typing to a screen. Plus it helps both of us verify that we are both real people.