Yes, I’ve been posting a lot but I’m having amazing sex with a guy (55F, 56M) after my divorce from wife of 23 years. Testing out if I’m still as bi as I thought I was. We hooked up from tinder, but quickly realized that it was an amazing situation. He’s ENM but partner of 12 years and him haven’t had sex in 2 years. He hasn’t been dating, but she has. I had her over for dinner and it quickly became clear that she’s interested in him again. They are planning to close their relationship for the 3 months that I’m gone to see if they can be more than best friends again. I’m still deciding if I’m going to move to this town so there are several unknowns. But I’m living in the moment. It makes him so crazy that I write these stories after we’re together. Comment and let me show him how hot you thought we were.

When he told me he was going to use the straps from his hammock to tie me up, I got a little melty thinking about him planning exactly how it would go down. I made it through my day at work, on a Monday nonetheless, thinking about my evening plans. I took a shower to help wash away the day as he was driving over. We had a little domestic check in when he arrived. I crawled into his lap by the fire and we started making out. I had to stroke the edge of his boxer briefs on his hard thigh as I do whenever I get the chance. When I received a text and contemplated making a quick call, he said he would tell them I couldn’t talk with the cock I was about to have in my mouth. His dirty talk is goals. I asked if he had ever negotiated a scene. We established that he could spank me harder than the time before and we would use stoplights if something wasn’t working. I started shedding clothes because I wanted to be naked while he was still clothed and then his hands were sliding in my panties and stroking my clit so soft it felt like a tongue and pinching my nipples and watching my fuck me eyes. As I was leaning back to give him access, it was such a turn on to look down and see his hands stroking my tight body.

I finally pulled at him to get up and we stumbled down the hall making our way to the bedroom. I was practically humping the mattress while he sorted out the straps. He grabbed me and arranged me diagonally across the bed. I was vibrating with desire. My hands were slid into the loops of the strap and he wrapped it around and between my wrists so that they were perfectly balanced. Then my feet were bound to the opposite corner. He strapped me down like it was his job but showed me how I could free myself. Then he started undressing and slid my bound hands over his cock. My mouth was so jealous. The whole time he had been setting up the restraints he was casually and randomly lightly stroking the inside of my thighs so that I was so wet before the first smack. My practical side kicked in and I asked for a towel before I soaked the comforter. My arms were pulled tight and I could just turn my head from side to side between them but it was as effective as a blindfold. I was so damn turned on and impressed with how efficiently he had positioned and bound me but the man has untapped skills or more likely transferable skills from hunting and fishing.

The first smack made me jump and shriek. I had the thought that I hoped my reaction didn’t freak him out. But then the next smack landed and I knew he was fine. Even the light smacks on my red ass were getting the same reaction from me because of the anticipation. I felt hot breath and knew my pussy was about to get some attention. My brain must have been offline because it took me forever to realize that his ass was right over my shoulders and his cock was sliding in his precome on my back as he stroked me with his tongue. I felt deprived to not see that view. When I felt the first slap on my pussy, inhumane noises came out of my mouth. It felt like something I don’t even have the words to describe but I was so overwhelmed with relief that he knew I needed it. I begged him to shove something in my pussy and everything was better when I felt his fingers slide in. He continued to slap my pussy and I sobbed from the rush of my orgasm.

After lubing me up and sliding a pillow under my hips, his cock was finally inside me. I gushed at how good he is to me when he slid his hand underneath and stroked my clit as his cock stroked the inside of my pussy. After walking around to untie me, he fucked my face and ungh it was so good as I felt his cock stiffen in my mouth. It’s another one of those things that I can’t explain but in the moment, I was in a state of bliss.

We fucked for a few minutes with me laying on my back and him standing by the bed. Then he stroked himself right against my pussy. With another flash of inspiration, he handed me the micro wand and encouraged me to use it on my clit. I instantly wondered if he had snuck in another alphabet leg video but he said that was all him. My clit didn’t care whose idea it was and I rode wave after wave from feeling his cock deep in me and my wand pushing me past any boundaries. It was so hot to see him fucking me and holding my legs straight out to both sides as they quivered. As we came down from the high, I groaned to hear him describe how he had wanted take a picture of my red ass.

I’ve got a great body for 55 but I’m v small at 5’2” and 112 lb, 34b. Any recommendations of lingerie brands or styles for us fifty something year olds? Man I’ve been seeing is GGG and he asked for lingerie so I’d like to find something but it all looks better on voluptuous figures.

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So my wife went through early menopause. Started at about 38, and fully done I'd guess by early 40's. That's when things really changed. She basically lost all desire for me, and sex in general. It's been a few years now, and things have been strained. I try to emphasize with her, and I know her body has changed. I'm just not sure where I fit anymore. I am no longer desired in anyway. I've never had issues attracting women, I'm 6'5 in the gym 5+ days a week, good looking, and now the woman I chose to spend my life with doesn't even want me. I'm so lost, I'm not sure what to do. I've suggested hrt, but have gotten push back, because she's heard it causes cancer. We've tried natural things like yam cream, and all sorts of other things. Is this really where I'm going to be? I mean she will still take care of me, but it's nothing more than mechanical. Once we get started it's ok, but it's just not the same. I just want to be wanted. I guess I need to be wanted. Any suggestions?

Its too cold to go out on the balcony for sex at this time of the year. We are in the deep freeze in the deep Canadian winter. So we did the next best thing yesterday, we had sex by the window!

My favourite position for this is where my partner leans up against the window sill facing out, I penetrate her from behind while grasping her breasts. We took it nice and slow, kept our eyes open and enjoyed the view of our winter wonderland in the country. We started in the bedroom and then went down to the den where it was warmer. Our den window is the same size, has the same view, and is in the same place with the same view as the bedroom.

It gave us the impression we were actually outside the house. We really enjoyed our slow sex. I reached down and played with her pussy until she came. After that, I was treated to a great BJ and face fuck and finished in her mouth.

We shall have to do window sex more often!

I find if I don't have any stimulation for a day or so I get really sore and dry. Any natural methods or supplements to keep me moist and ready to go !

Would love to know if anyone has any thoughts on how to naturally increase the amount of semen I produce, I've been taking some pills containing fenugreek and other items I got online from a sex toy shop but they are expensive and seem to help a little.

I know when my wife has a long foreplay session with my cock I make more.

I love the feeling of my juices spilling from her so the more I can fill her up the better.

Thanks for any ideas.

My wife and I are on the hunt for a truly good lube. My go to has always been baby oil. It stays slick the entire time I'm stroking. She used to get wet and her natural lube was enough. But post-menopause it's not happening exactly the same way which is somewhat inhibiting her enjoyment. We did try a few lubes: WOO Coconut Oil, and Lovehoney Bubblegum (more for oral than full sex though)/ The WOO was a little better than most, but it still dried out partway through. The Lovehoney lube was the same story as usual: good for the first two or three minutes, then it becomes sticky and it feels like you're using glue or honey as lube.

We have been using baby oil for her lately because it does last, but we have to use rubbers to protect the toys, and still, the baby oil is almost too thin for her. So... has anyone here found a truly great, long lasting lube that is compatible with silicone toys and good for sex?

My wife is a trusting, kind person. She tends to do whatever her doctor says. She has been on HRT for 18 months and her doctor has NEVER taken any blood tests. Is this right!??

My wife is 57, no period in 2 years, clearly post-menopausal I guess that means.

58 M I take all the posts here with a pinch of salt, but if even half are true I'm so jealous, I haven't had sex with my wife in years 🙁

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Damn. We drove 2 hours to the hot springs thurs and came back Saturday. Lots of sexy soaking which had us v relaxed. I would just curl up in his lap and we were always touching. I’d slide my hands under his trunks and feel his magnificent ass. W had sex 3 days in a row! Uber lube for the win. Thursday night we had super quiet sex because neighbors. Oh! I fessed up that he could bite my nipples which made me so wet. He said he loves how all these little kinks spill out of me. Finally went to bed at 11:30.

On Friday, after soaking, he led me in kettlebell workout. Watching him sweat was foreplay. Such a beast. That afternoon I did all the work. We could be a little more loud. I sat on his face forever and he still asked for more. Discovered that If I keep my knees under his armpits, I don’t feel like I’m smothering him. We did reverse cowgirl with my legs under his and my ass gave him his favorite view. Then we transitioned to pearly gates and that was the best kind of overwhelming. Feeling him under me was so hot and he could stroke my clit and squeeze my nipples. He jerked off while I licked his balls and I licked up his come. We took a nap after. He shared that when we were fucking on Thursday, he could see his cock pushing up in my belly when he thrusted and how hot that was. I showed him a video of Owen gray while teasing him about prn stars that I knew women liked. He loves how small I am and swears I have the best tasting pussy.

Saturday we got up early to watch sunrise from the hot springs. we got back to my place, ate food truck lunch and took a nap. More sex ensued. I tried mouth lozenge for more spit during bj. During reverse cowgirl, I pulled out my magic wand micro and used it under his balls. He fucked me while standing. I was on my back with my feet on his shoulders, he grabbed my hips to thrust into me and I told him I was his fucktoy. then he kneeled down with my legs pushed allll the way back and licked me til I thought I’d die. said he remembered that was something he had wanted to do and got inspired by the video of Owen gray. He ended up painting my chest with his come.

As we get older, our bodies sometimes will keep us from enjoying the sex positions we did when we were younger. Aches and pains from injury or lack of exercise will limit us to some more comfortable positions.

Recently, one of my partners had lower back pain as well as a knee injury which acts up from time to time. We had been doing physical exercises in the nude in the den and it made us pretty randy. So we started fooling around and I remembered having good sex in the stairs with my other partner some months before.

I like standing sex from behind. I asked my partner to go up a few steps, put her feet spread against the sides of the step she was on and to slightly lean forward holding on to the bannisters on each side. I penetrated her slowly from behind and we worked out the best angle of penetration. I stood behind her just one step below and grasped her breasts as I thrust slowly.

As my partner was comfortable and felt no pain, we did this for a few minutes until she asked me to put it in her butt. Now I really enjoy anal sex, so I quickly went to get the lube and we got it on nice and slow. After a time we were going at it much faster and she felt no pain at all. I could penetrate her right to the hilt, which we cannot do with vaginal penetration, her having a hysterectomy, so it was a really good session and we both came right after each other.

Try the stairs folks!

The other night we were spooning and I was inside my wife from behind. I was moving slow enjoying the low energy love making and was also stopping some then starting up again. She had a small orgasm and at some point fell asleep. This doesn't happen often but has happened every now and then while spooning. She has mentioned in the past it's absolutely fine for me to finish but preferably not wake her lol. I wonder how other couples feel about their partner going ahead and finishing while one is asleep? Guys, do you usually finish in those situations? Ladies, are you OK for the most part with that?

My wife is menopausal and along with the hot flashes, night sweats, and sleep issues, her libido is lower. She is looking into bioidentical hormone therapy, but it might be 6 months before she can get an appointment as we have limited alternative medicine in our rural area. She is responsive to my sexual advances (and I am very thankful for that- don’t misunderstand) but she almost never initiates sex anymore and she just isn’t often horny like before. She admits her libido is down. I’ve found that dirty fantasy talk during sex can help her cum more easily and stronger. The vibrator definitely helps along with lots of lube during sex. She isn’t into watching porn even though I think unconsciously it helped her some. So what other natural ways - techniques, supplements, whatever - might help her libido until she can get some hormonal help? What might help her get in the mood to think more about sex? Any things that worked in your sex life? I would especially like to hear input from the ladies here.

My (55M), wife (54F) has generally lost interest in sex because of high stress dealing with aging parents. I use sex to de-stress but she loses all interest when stressed. She also has had chronic UTI issues that have conditioned her not to want PIV intercourse. Not to worry, we started a weekly blowjob. At first she woke up before me, even dressed up a little for our “appointment.” But now if I don’t cum in 5 minutes she asks me if this is going to work. I want to play. I want to touch her. I want to be wanted. I want her to want sex. And at this age I can’t usually cum that fast, and the thought of her treating it like a chore turns me off right quick. Not sure what to do.

Hi. New here. Sometime last Spring my wife's trusty Hitachi Magic wand (corded) vibe gave up the ghost in a spectacular show of sparks. I'm so glad she wasn't using it when it happened. She had just finished a few minutes earlier and set it down on her pillow to get up and get dressed. Suddenly I saw a flash, heard a loud pop and smelled an electrical burning smell. I immediately unplugged it from the wall (like a rocket I moved). The twisted cord finally had it's insulation broken and that caused the short. In hindsight, I should have just replaced the cord. But I figured, I will just buy a new magic wand.

I did, but since Hitachi doesn't make them anymore I found one from LoveHoney that is supposedly licensed to match the original corded wand. Price was about the same, and it looked identical. So we got back to it about five days later and she was having trouble getting to orgasm with it. No matter, at this age (she was 58 then and me 54) there are... difficulties sometimes. SO we tried again another day and the results were even worse. Not only did she not get to orgasm, but she got kind of sore down there to the point of not being able to cum in any way for a few days. She threw her hands up and said, "Well I guess I'm too old to get off anymore". But I pointed out how just a little over a week ago she was having multiple orgasms with the old toy and a change like that couldn't happen that fast.

I recommended we try another corded toy she has that she used to use before the Hitachi worked its magic on her and turned her into a private slut. She tried it, and while it worked a little, just like years ago it wasn't as good as the Magic Wand. So we started vibe hunting because I was convinced the problem was the vibe and not her. We looked at review after review and eventually found one that was interesting, if expensive. It was not corded so I had some reservations. But, when she tried it, she smiled and gave me the thumbs up that yeah... this was a keeper.

Unfortunately, we went to try it one day and it wasn't working after about a month or two. We couldn't get a refund. I even opened it up to see if I could replace the motor (that seems to be what went wrong) but the way the motor attached to the vibe's head there was no way to remove it without damaging the head. So we went on a search again. We found another one to try. This one was more like the size of the Hitachi but cordless again. It did work for her even if it has some confounding buttons that blend into the silicone surface so they're not easy to see or operate. But we've been using it for a while and it works. It's just... she said her orgasms are no longer as easy to come by or as deep as they used to be. She still thinks it's her post-menopausal state, but I think it's the vibe.

I am positive if we had the original vibe back and working, she's be right back where she was before menopause or not. She past menopause a few years before the vibe died. She was even saying that she felt like post-menopause was as sexual renaissance for her because everything felt even better and she felt even more confident. So my question for the group... do you have any corded vibes you recommend? We tried using a silicone cover with that Hitachi clone but she said it didn't improve anything. She said the best way to describe what she felt with the new Magic Wand is that it beat her pussy so hard she couldn't enjoy sex at all for days.

There have to be good corded wands. Because I think what she is experiencing with the vibe is a difference in the frequency of the battery powered vibes vs. the AC powered vibes. She is totally gunshy of the Magic Wand and won't try it and I have no plans to try and convince her. So I'm looking for other corded options that have a softer head but still good rumbly vibes. We've tried the buzzy vibes and while those worked for her when she was young, once she got on the Magic Wand train, those were useless. We've also been using lube because she is a little drier these days. I will point out that she was super wet with the old vibe, and then five days later, just gone like it never happened. So, what do you recommend for good AC vibes?

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We used to do butt play. She would enjoy my finger in her ass while I rubbed her clit or gave her oral. She would have massive orgasms T times. We did it every so often. Now she doesn’t want me to touch her there anymore. Just wondering if any other ladies here are like this and why? We still have great sex in other ways. I ask her and she really doesn’t explain why. Maybe once a year she would do it. It’s not necessary but was something I enjoyed and thought she did too.

To all the women who like me thought it wasn't possible, the right person can do wonders.

So here is the issue. I really want to rim my wife’s ass. I know she will absolutely go wild for it. But she is reluctant, except after she is extremely worked up after a long session of fingering her ass and me cumming in her ass While she is using her vibrator. At this point she has had many orgasms and is ready to take it to the next level, and will ask me to lick her ass. By this time its not so appealing to me and I am reluctant. Any one feel similar? How do you deal with it?

Anybody experienced this? I (M53) was having sex with my wife and I was getting close to finishing and I got a sudden throbbing headache. It was pretty bad. I came and rolled over and it subsided in <5 min.

This is my first time experiencing this. Read some stuff on internet (mayo clinic, Etc) but was wondering about anybody’s recent experience or thoughts

My Wife gives me the best gift ever!

Her Very Hot Past

My wife (53) and I (60) have been spicing things up in the bedroom lately. I have been sharing my past intimate adventures, as has she. On New Year’s Day she handed me a photo album I had never seen before. She had a really naughty seductive look when she handed it to me. The first page was titled Study Buddies. She was a straight A student and not overly social in college, especially when she was in pharmacy school. She often spoke of her study buddies, Scott K, Scott and Chad and how they all helped each other through the rigors of pharmacy school. This era was 1994-6, she was 23-25 at the time. The first thing I noticed, Polaroids! The first page was tame, my wife posing with her buddies, I was not aware that Chad was a black athlete, the 2 Scotts a bit nerdy. The next page, in the library stacks, my wife bent at the waist her skirt flipped up and her bare ass and pussy. Then one by one a pic of a hard cock at her entrance, then a pic of it buried in her. I must say this is not what I was suspect it is incredibly hot. Then my wife laying on a study in the library, topless and her skirt up. Her young tight firm body on full display, she was looking right into the camera with a come fuck me look. There were several pages of photos of her being fucked on that table, being violated. Wow, what a gift to start out 2025! Thank you honey! Her caption for the photos are so naughty, so out of character. The last page was closeups of my wife’s orgasm face for each of the guys.

Anyone else dig into exciting past lives of your partner?

Hi, I have a question for my over 50-year-old colleagues in this subforum, specifically about kegel exercises. I know they are beneficial for men and women as we age, but this question is for the men out there. I started to do them about a month ago now, as I go through my mid-50's I figure I need to do something to try to counter father time. My conundrum, and thus my question, is that I am in a DB so presently, I don't know if they are working. At some point more activity will hopefully be coming, so we will see then. But in the interim, men, have you done kegel exercises? Do they work? It seems rather simple and straight-forward. Thanks in advance. 

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