I'm hoping to find a tie that would give me a similar effect to a humbler but that I can do with enough slack so I can still have my sub lie down. Preferably something that doesn't rely on an erection

Anyone have any tutorials on this boxtie variation? I can’t seem to find it anywhere and really love how it looks. Thanks!

For safety concerns, I have a deep urge to strangle myself and I can't fight the intrusive thoughts any longer, I want a tie that will undo itself after I loose consciousness and my body falls down.

I actually tried to do it with my own hand holding the rope up but it's difficult AF keeping a regular pressure and it feels like my orgasms after HRT (I feel them coming but they never arrive)

I'm new on this sub, so if I do something that breaks some unspoken rule, please make that rule spoken. I'm also an Autist/ADHDer who doesn't mask, so I completely disregard a lot of social norms, and I definitely do not contain an eldrich weirdness that cannot be contained and will eventually corrupt the whole universe with weirdness that sometimes just kinda leaks out though the pores in my skin.

Typical Disclaimer about Doing BDSM in Public: when doing anything that could vaguely be considered public, be extremely careful to, as much as possible, not involve people who do not want to be involved, with the assumption that they do not want to be involved unless they say otherwise (generic 'consent' stuff applies here).

1. If you have a long skirt, you can tie your legs together at the knees, and have the tie completely hidden by the skirt. You can still walk with your lower legs together, but it does change how you walk.

For Tights: if wearing a low skirt and tights, you may wish to tie 1 high on your legs under the tights. This is usually less restrictive, and doesn't allow 2, but 3 and 4 work just fine with this and it's more consealed. I almost reccomend this for situations that might require you to untie it, as you can simply leave the untied ropes at the top of the tights, reminding you to put it back on when done.

(all following things rely on 1 and are compatable with but not reliant on the others)

2. You can position the excess rope from 1 at the back of the knees, then do a loop around the lower legs. This further restricts motion but can't easily reach the hopping level of restriction.

3. You can tie something around your waist*, then, while sitting, tie another rope on the front to both the waist rope and to the middle strap of 1. If you tie it tightly enough, it will force your waist in towards your knees. This forces the legs up and waist down and forward relative to the but. If tighter, it may not allow a standing position, but sitting will feel more extreme - reccomended for playing video games. (Note from experience: if you have a penis, erections can cause it to rub against the connecting rope, causing stimulation. This can be annoying or interesting, depending on context.)

4. You can tie something around your waist* and then, while standing straight, tie another rope on the back to both the waist rope and to the middle strap of 1. If you tie it tightly enough, sitting will cause it to go into the... rear crevace, like a crotch rope but it doesn't even touch the penis if you have one. If tighter, it may cause a sorness in the but over time if you sit for a long while.

Combining all of these very tightly, especially 3 and 4, is just incredible.

*The waist rope can be used on its own, and can, if using strips of cloth as "rope", even be used outside clothes that go with said cloth (with bows tied usually on the back). Furthermore, the waist rope can interfere with breathing, but you already know to be careful about nerve damage and blood circulation and all that, so just remember to proceed with caution.

I'm excited to hear any suggestions for improvements or similar ideas.

I am in the fortunate situation of having two submissives who both enjoy being tied up, playing with each other and also being played with while they are in bondage.

I've been digging through old posts and doing my Googling (you've got to be *very* specific- no I don't mean subwoofers...), but I would love recommendations or visual aids for idea on how to tie them up together. The dynamic is more playful and cooperative than competitive.

They both like using toys and having toys used on each other, but ideally I am looking for bondage that allows them to engage with each other while still restrained.

We have a plethora of cuffs, rope and other connecting devices to work with and can certainly procure additional needs. In terms of hard points, there is a bed with a bar across the headboard, the four legs of the bed each have a chain, as does a center point at the head of the bed.

There are some over head hard points as well to allow for hands to be bound above the head (but not suitable for suspension or anything like that).

Also- I’m male and both subs are female

I would love advice or feedback on what has worked for you and your partners.

Thank you!

Hi all,

Sorry if this has been asked before or is otherwise not allowed. My partner and I have been into BDSM, mostly bondage, for a few years now, and they recently expressed a lot of interest in getting into ropework, as in they would be doing the tying. Trouble is they have chronic illness that can frequently manifest in join pain, especially in their extremities. I was wondering if there were any knots, ties, rope types, or otherwise that could be easier on their joints, arms, and hands? It's one of the first times they've really pointed something out they actively want to do, so I would love for them to be able to engage with it. I appreciate any help or advice!

Found on xvid for credit. Would like some guidance on the chest harness with or without arms being secured. Appreciate responses.

I’m still pretty new to rework. I have trouble with the backside of the tie usually. Does it just take practice? Any tips?

I love asymmetry but can't pay for tutorials due to lack of funds. So anyone know good free sources of asymmetric ties, preferably harnesses.

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Hi! So I'm trying to create a rope harness pattern to help my strapless strap-on stay in place while using. Does anyone have an idea of how to do one?

I recently bought a large amount of rope to dye and then cut to length. Specifically I have 2 ~300ft spools of coreless cotton braid, which I plan to dye in 2 different colors. Probably blue and black. But I have two questions.

• What's a good assortment of lengths, assuming I'm generally tying up a single average-sized female, and want to start doing complex designs?

• Dye then cut to length, or cut then dye?

Is there an easier tutorial how to do a bondage belt. Basically to have the arms tied to the waist. I find the douchy example bit confusing.

Thanks!

So we have done partial suspension and used swings with our current solid anchor points in the ceiling. I'm looking at buying some working load rooms and moving to full suspension. My question is I see the posts about attaching swivels and other things to the solid anchor points and I'm having issues finding a good start point. I was thinking some small pulleys to help ropes glide better as well. I just want everyone's opinions I can get. My bunny is a larger person around 280lbs.

Here are a A few links for learning rope bondage that I found useful when first starting out. Hope they inspire and further your explorations. Grins

https://yewtu.be/channel/UCmWzk9oX2dPI15CLyefxmYA

https://bellecorde.com/instructional-videos-1

https://yewtu.be/channel/UClgo4SmHb-g3t4vwKLUq2qA

https://www.selfsuspend.com/video-tutorials

Anybody have recs for how to tie smaller breasts? Have tried variations of cupcake ties but i think i just dont have enough square tittage for that and i really want the bondage feeling and aesthetic

I don't see why you wouldn't be able to,. It thought I'd ask. Is there any reason you should not do this? Does the oil mess up your ropes?

Hi! I was looking at different options to cut through a rope someone else (or me) is tied into. Why isn't garden shears a more common option/suggestion? The popular option seems to be emt shears, but the ones Ive had were all quite crap. The general shape doesn't seem to be good dor cutting rope either...

Garden shears as in the picture has one blunt side so you wont cut skin if you need to shove it under a tied rope. It also seems to "lock" the rope in by the curv