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A place to find a queer-platonic relationship.

/r/qprapplications

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30 (f4m) bi aroallo

I am looking for a QPR. I am looking for a relationship that isn’t all together romantic, primarily a committed friendship. I

About me: I love cuddles, watching movies, cooking, baking, crocheting, music, and crafts. I’m pagan and a practicing witch.

I would like children.

I would also like to present as straight passing to my family.

Now that you know about me, I’d love to hear about you!!

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2024/11/30
21:01 UTC

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19 NB4A Asexual/Biromantic - NSW, Australia

Hi everyone! My name is Brenda and I'm searching for a QPR with fellow asexuals. My day job is as a cleaner and I own a Minecraft server. I studied business administration and am going to study IT next year. I volunteer for a charity which supports the rights of the unemployed and social welfare recipients. I was originally from Sydney but moved out to a regional town on the sunny mid-north coast of NSW at the age of 18. My town is riverside and is beautiful with lovely people but my long-term dream is to move to a beachside/oceanside location a few towns away from here and maybe bring someone with me. I love spending time out in nature at the park or beach.

My favourite video games are Minecraft, Roblox, Wii Fit, Mario Kart Wii, Smash Hit and Township. My favourite TV shows are 80s' and 90s' sitcoms such as The Big Bang Theory, The Office, Becker, Fraiser, Friends, Seinfeld, Rules of Engagement and King of Queens, as well as cartoons such as The Simpsons, Family Guy and South Park. My favourite music is rock, funk/disco, lo-fi and Nintendo songs. My favourite YouTubers are Flamingo/AlbertsStuff, BarneyHunter12 and Vinesauce as well as scammer prank callers and computer history channels. My favourite programming language is Java. I grew up with it and it's familiar to me. This morning I was developing my server's website using Java Server Faces (JSF). The web server itself is an Oracle Linux 9 VPS running Apache TomEE.

I identify as a progressive Christian. I believe in God and trust Jesus as my saviour, but reject historical interpretations of the Bible created by nefarious persons who have abused the ambiguity and pure intentions of the scriptures to persecute minorities. I'm open-minded to anyone of any religion, including atheists, provided you support women's rights to positions of power and abortion, as well as LGBTQIA+ rights.

I identify as being on the autism spectrum. I’m definitely more left-brained/logical, but I tend to think outside of the box. I can be shy in phone/video calls initially and would appreciate someone who both accepts this and is comfortable to do phone/video calls as the relationship progresses. I appreciate direct communication. Reasons my previous relationships have failed is me appearing to be distant. I'm an independent person and may not outwardly show affection often, but know that this doesn't mean I don't like/love you. I can be shy to initiate at times. I'm a barefooter and, being Australian, I can be very casual in my attire so I'd appreciate someone who's comfortable with that. I don’t drive and don’t plan to get a driver’s licence. Thanks for reading.

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2024/11/26
05:27 UTC

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46 [F4A] Grey-Ace & Allo-Romantic | SoCal

Hello! I’m 46F living in coastal North San Diego county. I’m hoping to connect with someone. End goal is to find someone who’d like to coexist with me and my cats (more pets are welcome). I would classify myself as grey-ace, romantically inclined but not much else. I give gifts and quality time and need words of affirmation and quality time to feel loved. I feel safest with AFABs but am open to all kind and intelligent beings, preferably within ~15 years of my age.

I work from home and keep to myself a fair amount. I am talkative, curious and determined. You are funny, intelligent and someone to think about, go on trips and be romantic with. A roommate snuggle bug type thing? I prefer people who are direct and quick to make decisions. I’m into live shows, comedy, traveling, faires and markets, side quests, foraging, volunteering, whatever - I’m open minded - you’d have to be as well. Right now my rabbit holes are focused on Plasmoids and higher self discovery. Would love to hear what yours are! I’ve been solo for almost 12 years and it’s been great! Could be better to share it? Open to lavender scenarios, whatever, even a traditional QPR. My 2/2 is so sharable and if we split bills it’s manageable (even for CA). If any of this was of interest to you please don’t hesitate to send a message. Hugs and love!! 💕

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2024/11/23
22:10 UTC

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30 (NB4A) Bi Quoiromantic/Nebularomantic nonbinary seeks friends/companionship

Hi! I'm autistic, so understanding the social stuff is confusing, so wouldn't it be better to be super intense friends than something romantic? I have a hard time with seeking posts, since people tend to want something really romantic or sexual right away, when I need buildup. Compliments are also weird for me. I would love to discuss about how that is for you, if you relate.

I split time between Minnesota and Indiana because of custody stuff btw. I have kids and work with them, so if talking to someone who will talk about kids will be upsetting, we're not going to be the right fit! I value open and direct communication, since I'm not a mind reader.

I would ideally love to connect with someone who would want to attend music events or theatre plays with me, but I'm definitely open to online pals as well. I also like to draw. ^⁠_⁠^ I enjoy discovering new music all the time (been exploring ska and goth lately), and discussing horror movies, so hopefully we can find something to talk about, for those who live far away from me. I enjoy sending voice messages, getting infodumped to/infodumping, and other fun, intimate things that would be "too much" for a "normal friendship". Let's get to know each other! U⁠^⁠ェ⁠^⁠U

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2024/11/21
02:12 UTC

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18 (nb4a) FL/online - Looking for a connection beyond friendship

Hi! I'm Sasha/Spencer and I am looking for someone to become my platonic life partner! I've recently realized I'm aroace, and while I don't feel romantic/sexual towards people I still have so much love to give. I am an affectionate person and love giving compliments! I'm also very into physical affection if that's agreed upon, like hand holding, hugs, and cuddles on the couch. Other than open communication being a must, our relationship can have any rules as long as we decide on them together.

About me: I'm 18, almost 19 (march), and my orientation is currently undefined. Probably demi aroace, but labels don't really matter to me. I love to write and I'm trying to make a go of that, I enjoy reading too and I get very passionate about the songs I listen to and how much I love them. TV is something I enjoy but don't watch much, I'm not really in any fandoms or anything like that. I really like to draw but I don't do it much so I don't have much to share on that. I love animals! I would be more than happy to see your pets. Oh and I can't cook well, but I do like to try new dishes. Also, in a relationship, I'm looking for something serious that we are both on the same page about.

If anyone would be interested in chatting and seeing how we connect, please don't be scared to reach out! Or drop a reply and I'll send the first message :)

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2024/11/19
21:22 UTC

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35 [F4A] Demisexual/Greysexual-Asia-Looking for a Globe-Trotting Roomie

This might be an unconventional post, but I'm seeking a like-minded roommate. Romance isn't my focus--at all. I'm looking for someone who shares similar habits and interests to my own.

About me:

I am an introvert and high-functioning autistic woman, and I identify as demisexual/graysexual. I'm known to be considerate, empathetic, and tidy—basically a low-maintenance, easygoing roommate. Partially deaf.

By day, I'm a busy business college student (part-time) and online ESL teacher (full-time). That's right, I'm juggling 40-50 hours of teaching every week, helping students around the world master the English language.  

Hobbies:

When I'm not studying or teaching, you can find me diving into the world of BL dramas from Thailand and Taiwan. I'm also a huge sci-fi fan and Stargate Atlantis is definitely one of my go-to shows.

When I'm feeling creative, I dabble in podcasting, YouTubing, and writing. I've even self-published a few books—I find that writing is one of the best ways to express myself.

As for outdoor activities, I love exploring local markets, chilling at the beach, and zipping around on my motorbike with my Thai license in hand. I can also read Korean and speak some Thai and Chinese. 

My Life Now:

Currently, I'm living the nomadic life in Asia, hopping between Taiwan and Thailand. But my adventures don't stop there—I've got my sights set on exploring South Korea, Japan, and Malaysia (again) next year. I tend to spend around 3 months in each country, soaking up the culture and making memories along the way.

As for the future, I'm planning on settling down in Taiwan once I graduate at the end of 2025/early 2026.

About You:

Regardless of your gender or orientation, what truly matters is that we connect well and can support each other as we explore life abroad.  I've been living overseas for almost two years, so I can provide guidance and make your transition smoother, even if you're just looking for a short-term roommate arrangement.

Furthermore, I'm open to sharing a living space with someone who has children. I enjoy spending time with kids and get along with them well.

If this sounds like something you might be interested in, let's chat!

The Non-Negotiables:

Non-smoker (including 420)—I have asthma and allergies, so this is a must!

Non-drinker—I'm not against alcohol, but I prefer someone who drinks rarely or not at all.

In order to maintain a comfortable and respectful living environment, overnight romantic interests would need to be kept out of our shared space. Additionally, I'm not interested in living with someone who is polyamorous. No judgment, but it's not my style or one that I want to live around.

I want to make it clear that I'm open to having a roommate who is dating or in a relationship—I just want to avoid potential drama. By adhering to these guidelines, I believe we can create a harmonious and stress-free living arrangement. 

Lights—I need at least one light on in the main area/near an exit for safety reasons in the houses/apartments I live in.

Holidays—I celebrate certain holidays, but don't expect you to do the same.

No anarchists or incels—I'm all about autonomy and respect. I believe in equality, regardless of the relationship.

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2024/11/19
15:26 UTC

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21 [TM4A] Aegosexual/Aromântico spectro - Brasil

Oi éh essa é a primeira vez que eu posto no redit então eu não sei bem o que fazer. Mas prazer eu sou um homem trans técnicamente não assumido mas apenas para minha mãe que é lgbt+fóbica dito isso eu não comecei minha transição, tenho altíssimo então posso não ser o melhor de convívio mas não é porque eu tenho ser desagradável eu apenas as vezes não entendo dicas sociais ou pareço rude quando eu não pretendia, procuro um relacionamento em um lado frouxo do espectro aroace talvez algum fluido, eu não gosto de fazer sexo mas alguns dias estou aberto e alguns dias eu sinto repulsa mas gosto de ler sobre isso e de me masturbar o que eu normalmente não gosto é do toque de um outro corpo, e da mesma forma isso se espalhar para o lado romântico eu absolutamente não consigo suportar quando outro me oferece algum gesto romântico então não me abraçe muito menos beije nem me toque, entretanto eu gosto de prover muito mais do que falar então eu vou querer te fazer cafuné ou mordiscar sua orelha para demonstrar afeto e dependendo do momento podemos ficar de conchinha, em resumo eu nunca vou pedir por sexo mas provavelmente vou falar sim já para qualquer gesto romântico pergunte todas as vezes mas eu provavelmente direi não ou interromperei rapidamente mas eu também posso iniciar gestos afetivos e eu gostaria de alguém que dissesse sim, é isso alguém me disse para postar nesse redit e eu literalmente nunca tinha visto redit a uma hora atrás ❤️

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2024/11/19
05:01 UTC

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25 [F4A] het/cis with aplatonic strong Alterous attraction and romantic attraction Northwestern MD

Hello I’m looking to meet other straight/cisgendered people with alterous attraction. Women preferably. For men with alterous attraction would need to be open to the possibility that it becomes romantic.

Really hoping to meet people that I can have alterous relationship with. I never do well with typical “friendships”. I am very much adverse to surface connections and hope for deeper connections even if they’re not romantic. Emotionally vulnerable and stable people preferably. People with interests in music and arts. Strong plus if you’re a Christian and practice actively. I’m also autistic and so any neurodivergence is welcome!

I like to have a glass of wine from time to time and love retro lifestyles. (Vintage music, technology, clothing). I love physical touch. It’s my love language in relationships (alterous and romantic). My struggle is I meet people (before I understood myself) who are so adverse to touching their friends. I hope to meet some people who love to cuddle and snuggle up, hug and kiss on forehead/cheek. (Kissing and sex I prefer for committed romantic relationships). I love cats and have 1 at the moment. Just a little bit about me.

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2024/11/18
21:10 UTC

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31 NB4A pan/demi - US/anywhere

Hello, I'm a pan/demi(probably aro/ace though) enby looking for a partner in crime, so to speak, or a nesting partner/life partner type of situation. I live in Washington state, open to long distance anywhere in the world, but am probably looking for nesting together and that most likely means moving in. If it's possible I'd prefer to have my own room, or some space that's just mine and I'd want you to have yours, too. I need a lot of space to just exist by myself and privacy. I am poly friendly but also open to monogamy. I lean towards relationship anarchy and love my friends and don't think any one relationship is above another, but the thing is all my friends have partners they will always put first, and society is kind of built towards having that partnership, so that's what I'm looking for. I want to be your ride or die partner in crime, and I would like the same back, I'm open to it just being us two, or adding more people to the crew lol. It just depends on our relationship. I'm still ride or die for all my friends, and like those who are the same for their friends, too.

I am not religious, not open to religion being in my life either and I am also a leftist. I am not open to having kids and don't want kids in my life, this is non negotiable for me. I'm looking into getting fixed asap, and would like for my partner to do the same if sex is on the table if you have sperm. I've never been in a relationship, never really felt the need or drive. I am probably open to sex/sexual things, but okay with never having sex as I never have and never sought to lol. I have no drive, but high libido. I am kink positive and open to exploring most kinks. Same with romance, like I know I am a very loving and devoted person, but I'm just not sure I feel 'romantic' love, but would likely feel a different kind of love for my partner?? Who knows, I hope someone will be willing to go on this journey with me to find out. But I have a lot of love to give! I am not naturally a physically affectionate person, but I'm willing to try if you're into cuddling/kissing, etc. I think with the right person/bond I'd become more cuddly.

About me:

I love animals, cat's especially, and having cats in my life is a non negotiable must! I lost my cat two years ago, he was my whole world and always will be. I take care of animals for a living right now, but don't have any pets currently due to not being home because of my job, and my roommates having bunnies and a dog. I also like bugs and have looked into maybe getting isopods, jumping spiders, or a tarantula. I'm a gamer, I like most types of games, VN/otome, collectathon, platformers, RPG's are some of my favorites. I don't usually play online/multiplayer games though. I like anime, if you'll watch One Piece with me I'll be suuuuperrr happy! I like all sorts of anime though and want to cosplay more/ever. I call myself an indoor cat and prefer to stay inside, but I do love adventures and am up for most anything! I like trying new things even if it doesn't seem to be my jam. I'm working on doing adventures on my own, but always appreciate people who will drag me along with them (when I want to be, I also appreciate being left alone haha). I am great at making my space a comfy space (for me) and would love to make it a comfy space for others to share it with too! I do think I need a lot of space, though, I do like to do things on my own more than the average person. I appreciate doing things together, but also appreciate doing things separate. This is getting long, so some other things I like really quick. Art, computers, tech, knives (learning to throw knives), I like storms and rainy/fogy days, coffee/tea/cocoa, cozy spaces, retro games collecting.

I think this is long enough, feel free to DM me! Ask any questions if I missed anything or worded anything confusingly.

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2024/11/13
21:36 UTC

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24 M4A aroace guy in Italy

Hello everyone, i am interested in exploring the wonderful world of qprs. I am 24 and i live in Italy, so people from that country would be prefered but i'm open to meeting anyone, honestly. I am into videogames, especially Nintendo, and i love collecting them. Over the years I've built a decent collection, if I do say so myself. And since last year I've become somewhat obsessed with tamagotchis. Other thant that, I am a bit kinky, in the sense that I have a kink and i would like to chat about this with others, but if you don't feel comfortable with that just let me know. If you want to get to know me feel free to drop by in my DMs, looking forward to meeting you 😊

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2024/11/13
10:20 UTC

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30 [F4A] ⚫️in USA looking for bestie \ partner

Hi 👻I’m looking for friends and hopefully a likeminded partner. I’m a private person so this is a huge step for me. About me:

💠Shy introverted lady 💠Love fanfiction, books, writing, anything meditation/witchy/spiritual 💠I love a good tv show or movie like Marvel, The Office, Hannibal, Dexter, conspiracy theories/alien stuff (woohoo Ancient Aliens!) 👽 💠I was diagnosed with adhd and autism as an adult lol so I’m for the neurodivergent fam 💠🇺🇸From USA, and my politics are moderate. I’m very middle path for most things like Buddha lol 🚫Not into 420, drugs, smoking, concerts 🙉Consider myself demisexual 🪽Try to always be uplifting to others and be a listener. I do endanger myself doing this a lot though because I get lost easily in the one sided give of relationships. I’m very much an empath in a lot of ways.

👀 Would love to find someone with similar interests who wants someone to talk to (yes, it’s so hard to find genuine friends as an adult in this modern world, I know! ❤️) and maybe who is a little more extroverted than me haha

Happy for you to be anywhere in the world but sadly I can only speak English 🌏

Oh and my bad quality is sometimes I do mask and I have days where my capacity is low. I also love cat videos and fail videos, and enjoy curling up in a burrito with a blanket.

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2024/11/10
17:02 UTC

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20 [t4a] #pa/online - lookin for friends that could develop into a qpr,,

hellooo !! my name is maria, but my preferred name is xena. im twenty (20) years old, turning twentyone (21) in early january !! im a babybat goth, or…at the very least, alternative.

a bit more about me: im an artist of all kinds (voice actress, illustrator, 3D modeler, coder…), and i am very close to graduating college. i self-study italian and japanese, and i study multimedia game design in college !! im an intersex transfem enby, aannddd would also prefer my (possible) qpp to be trans like me !! i am polyamorous, having one (1) romantic partner right now.

ive never been in a queer-platonic relationship before, so, i’d love to try it out,, i’d like for us to be friends first, of course. i am a very paranoid person, so, patience is key when it comes to my mentality- i am diagnosed with audhd, osdd, ocd, aannddd schizoaffective disorder. despite my anxious mind, i would love to meet some likeminded people !!

feel free to reach out,

ciao <333

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2024/11/04
23:39 UTC

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21 [NB4A] • looking for a sweet pumpkin! 🎃

Happy Halloween everyone! I'm looking for a long-term platonic friend with a preference for women or enbies. I didn't really have a costume or theme but really enjoy mythological creatures like vampires, werewolves, fairies, etc. I'm planning on watching or reading some scary stuff but decided I felt social. What are you doing / feeling?

I'm looking for folks that want a loyal extroverted person alongside them while doing activities 1:1 including voice calling or video calling, gaming, reading and watching stuff together no matter what country you're in with slight preferences for people within North America or Europe. I'm a pretty sentimental person and my closest friend has called me unhinged and sweet so there's that.

I don't think hobbies are the most important things to bond over if each party can converse well but if you're into creative stuff like baking, cooking, crocheting, etc AND/OR psychology, philosophy, history, etc that'd be a plus alongside being minority friendly of course because racial, sexual, neurological, etc rights matter...sorry if this post was too formal but then again not really cause I'm more expressive on calls and in regular text - selling or advertising was never my strong suit!

Feel free to reach out saying what caught your interest, a little description of yourself, etc. I normally know within 1 conversation or day depending if we'll be speaking more.

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2024/11/01
00:18 UTC

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30 [M4F] Hetero Aro/Cupioromantic - FL West Coast

Hello,

My name is Matt. I'm a 30-year-old hetero man realizing that romance may just not be my thing as I can never reciprocate other's feelings and have spent a lot of time feeling like "something is wrong" with me. I believe I may be cupioromantic from what I have read. I live on the west coast of Florida and spend my time reading manga, drawing, and writing fiction and poetry. One day I hope to make my own comics. I'm looking for someone to share my time with and get close to. I have a dad bod if that matters lol.

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2024/10/31
03:48 UTC

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18 [F4A] aroace Missouri US

Hi, I'm an 18 year old (currently questioning gender, I'm AFAB, so I put F, but I'm working through gender stuff), looking for friendships and maybe a QPR If it works out that way. I would prefer someone in Missouri or nearby states.

I am open to most romantic things in a QPR, I do suck at flirting though, but I'm willing learn ;)

I like "cozy" video games, sewing, and baking. I love to read horror stories and horror thrillers. But, I like to watch comedy anime (like Saiki K, spy x family, etc), I haven't seen a lot, but I'm always open to suggestions and I like kids cartoons (my favorite is over the garden wall).

I'm am currently in my senior year of high school and plan to study fashion design in college.

Please let me know if you're interested :)

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2024/10/29
00:21 UTC

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32 [f4m] heteroromantic ace #USA #NJ #NYC

Hi — I’m a 32 year old cisgender childfree black immigrant woman from New Jersey. I identify as a heteroromantic asexual. I work in the public health, specifically government health policy. My general interests and hobbies are: tv/movies, music, pop culture, fashion, traveling, shopping, spending time with friends + family, Broadway musicals, bars/clubs, concerts, comedy shows, reading, sightseeing, sports, etc. Overall, I like being social with people I’m comfortable with but I also like spending time at home. If it helps, my personality type is INFJ and I’m a Pisces.

I’m interested in a romantic relationship with a man (early 30s to early 40s) who I can consider both my companion and my friend. Ideally, he is someone who likes to experience life/do fun things (as mentioned above) and who also likes staying in… all while just holding hands and cuddling.

I did the long distance relationship thing and I don’t think I have it in me to do that again so please message me if you’re interested and in the New York metro area.

P.S. I’m also interested in making ace friends! 🫶🏾

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2024/10/24
22:34 UTC

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32 NB4A demiromantic/ace France/anywhere

Hello there.

First time coming here, kinda scared kinda hopeful. There is something freeing in being able to express myself.

So quick recap, I'm demiaro in the sense it takes time and trust to establish this kind of link. I'm mostly ace in the sense I'm not sex repulsed but I have clear boundaries. I more lenient toward anarchy in relationship where trust and equal treatment matters more than society convention and hierarchy in relationship. Every one I feel close should not feel they are less important as another.

As for other stuff. I love animals, horror movies, overall many nerd stuff, gaming is a passion I want to share to the point I worked in game research. Now I work in a school with children with disabilities and still try to help in my own way people while figuring myself out.

I long for partnership (I like defining that as looking for a partner in crime). I want to share stories, jokes, deep conversation and overall be able to express myself and know someone without society pressure.

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2024/10/22
11:41 UTC

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21 [NB4A] Greyromantic Apothisexual - Wisconsin/Anywhere

Hello! My name is Stevie, my pronouns are it/they, and I'm apothisexual, greyromantic, agender, and intersex. I am greyplatonic as well, and experience some aesthetic attraction though that is infrequent. Aesthetically, my type is Grell from Black Butler, so if you're Grell, you know what to do. I am in search of a QPR / life partner. I am open to long-distance temporarily, hence the additional anywhere in the title

Currently in school studying English, Communication, and Interdisciplinary Linguistics and aspire to work in editing and publishing. I graduate in winter 2026 and hope to eventually relocate to a relatively queer city or find a place in my current college town.

Some of my hobbies include physical media collecting, watching movies, concert-going, writing, reading, music, traveling, cooking, and con-langing.

My favorite musicians include The Cure, London After Midnight, Radiohead, Bad Omens, Florence + The Machine, The Smashing Pumpkins, and the Sisters of Mercy. My favorite movies / TV shows include Dead Poets Society, Big Fish, anything to do with Wes Anderson and Tim Burton, A Series Of Unfortunate Events (series only), The Good Place, Pushing Daisies, Black Butler, and many more.

Since I am apothisexual, I am sex-repulsed, so that is out of the question. I still do like hugs and cuddles and kisses.

Personality wise, if you typed me, I am an INTP 4w5. I am an omnist pagan witch and work with deities, so hopefully I can find someone who respects my beliefs or has the same ones.

Appearance: 5'7", plus size, indie/goth/whimsigoth fashion, long black hair, hazel eyes, some beard occasionally, mostly wears black.

Note: I am turning 21 soon, currently actually 20 but I put 21 since it's very close and didn't want to post at a later time.

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2024/10/21
04:47 UTC

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18 F4F aroace lesbian - France

Hii guys I'm Marion/Peridot, I'm 18 I'm an aroace lesbian I'm genderfluid/trans my gender fluctuates between girl, boy and NB (I'm afab)

About me: Idk how to describe myself lol TvT but ig I'm nice, honest and I'm trying to be very open minded as much as I can

I love music, video games( Minecraft, Roblox, fall guys, Fortnite, fnaf, little nightmares, poppy playtime, cuphead), cartoons/series/films(SU, Rick and Morty, mlp, mlb, sanrio, marvel, sonic, bluey, sweet tooth, gravity falls, toh, Kirby, Disney like Lilo and Stitch, Studio Ghibli like the Howl's moving castle, the boys, dungeon meshi, nimona, inside job ), drawing, cooking, I like drawing, cooking, animals (= cats, foxes, sharks, snakes, red panda, raccoons, some dogs like shiba inus and axolotl) and most of all I love my hyperfixations/special interests(plushies, psychology, food, music, lgbtqia+, romantism, ASMR/stimboards and furry) And ofc I LOVE my cats💪🔥🔥 We can say I'm kinda a nerd too cause I really like math

I'm studying to become a future chartered accountant and maybe move in Canada

I have mental illnesses (and it kinda disables me) like GAD/SAD(generalized and social anxiety) so I'm kinda very anxious I have abandonment issues and sometimes an avoiding personality even tho I really love the person (I also have trust issues🥲), MDD(major depressive disorders) meaning I can get very depressive and my it messes my brain making me think nobody loves me and all, CSBD(compulsive sexual behaviours disorders = hypersexuel) even tho I'm ace I still have this lol so yeah I'm not sure if I want a sexual relationship(we can say I'm sex indifferent for now) and then MD(maladaptive daydreaming) meaning I can be out of reality and thinks to much of fake things (being delusional sometimes) so when I get back to reality I might be very anxious and all

And also I have AuDHD (autism + ADHD) meaning I'm very bad at chat like starting them or continuing them, I can be awkward, sensitive and also very lazy and forgetful

Then I'm also weird/not normal for society norms: I'm a furry (sadly I'm too poor to get a furrsuit lol but for my first furrsuit I'll surely get a partial manokit💪🔥) and then I'm also a kemonomimi it's just wearing animal ears and tails for the aesthetic but like I kinda have judgmental parents I don't have any lol (my species: puppy and kitty)

And also I’m kinda a femboy I think(when my gender is boy) and tomboy(when my gender is girl) so yeah I’m still trying to figure myself out so voilà

And finally about my body I'll surely get a mammectomy in the future And I'm fat and really insecure about it I'm 1m65 with 72kg but I'm trying to lose weight + have a flat stomach🥲

What I'm looking for:

I'm firstly looking for a 18-30yo afab girl/nb person

I'm searching for a long-term/for life QPR (queerplatonic relationship) I'm kinda searching in it a relationship without sex(or like I said earlier, not a lot of sex)

and half best friends half romantic With the unconditional love, match, bond and humour from a friendship but also with the romantism, the dates, cuddles, love, cute romantic stuff, and also living together like a romantic relationship

Online dating is good but I would love to be irl one day but not now ofc (I firstly have to finish my studies lol TvT)

I'm searching for a caring partner that can take care of me since I'm kinda disabled, that can ofc love me by showing affection however they want, that also could understand that I love them without showing much affection cause idk how to but I still like to show affection but idk how to, also a partner that would try to understand me/don't judge me, someone I can play video games, watch series/movies/cartoons, draw with me(not obliged to be good at it) and do vc and all

And I don't really care about the body just the personality (honest, loving, understanding, nice ofc lol, funny, themselves)

That's all I think hein so if you're interested you can pm on here but it's better discord cause I'm not very active on reddit

(Dc: peridotx._)

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2024/10/20
18:02 UTC

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19 T4T grey-aroace - Denmark/Germany

Hey there everyone!

Firstly, yeah my account is new. I'm using this alt account cause I feel like posting this on my main account would be too personal, so here we are.

The title says most of the important information but i do wanna clarify a bit. I decided to put Denmark/Germany because while I live in Denmark I have plans to move to Germany so ideally I'd wanna find a QPP who live in (north) Germany. Moving to Germany is something I've been working towards for years at this point so I'd say it's pretty set in stone that I'm moving to Germany. The only question is when.

I've been taking german classes for almost a year so I speak maybe A1 or A2 German perhaps? I also wanna clarify that even tho I'd prefer a T4T QPR i am open to cis folks as well.

My ideal QPR would be where we'd do typical romantic things like kiss, cuddle, hug etc. without it being romantic in nature but rather to connect/show affection. I just enjoy doing those things with someone i care for and I find them to be a good way to connect in an intimate way.

As for sex, it depends on the person and how comfortable I am honestly, but it is something I'm open to. However if my QPP don't wanna have sex ever that's okay too, as long as we can cuddle it's all good! In my ideal QPR we might even move in/live together or get married at some point. Altho for me marriage would primarily be for legal benefits and its in no way something I expect.

Lastly I wanna mention that I'm open to poly QPRs, non-exlusive QPRs, relationship anarchy, you name it. I think what's most important is me and my QPP are both happy with our relation to each other, and if you find someone else you vibe with and wanna get close to as well that's all good. As long as we can have an open dialogue about it I don't mind. I do wanna mention tho I've never tried any kind of poly/non-exclusive relationships before, altho i have researched a lot.

With all the practical information out of the way, let me tell you a bit more about myself! I have adhd and autism and I have a special interest for mushrooms, plants, mold all that biology related stuff and I love to info dump about it. Recently I've also taken an interest in hormones levels and how all that works because well, it's kind of relevant to me in my case, but i really love mushrooms.

I occasionally go mushrooms hunting in the forest, I don't forage to eat any of them but rather to study them and identify them, I've even made a few spore prints!

In terms of my transition, I've been on Testosterone for nearly 2,5 years, had top surgery last year, changed name and legal gender etc. and all I feel I'm missing is bottom surgery which i wanna get in Germany (phalloplasty), which is why I'm so eager to move. Aside from that I love to do digital art and generally all kinds of creative stuff. I enjoy sci-fi horror, horror thrillers, psychological horror and cosmic horror type stuff.

I've watched most classic horror movies but I find the mind bending stuff way more interesting. I'm also quite a big fan of sci-fi and space type movies in general, and I always love a good apocalypse/disaster movies.

Aside from that something I'm passionate about are trans rights in Denmark. I've actually recently joined an organization and I'll be one of the folks who help arrange events and maybe even protests in the future. It's normally not something I mention right off the bat because I'll get all kinds of negative assumptions about being an "angry woke blue haired lib with pronouns" or some shit. Even in lgbt spaces it's almost because a bad word to call yourself a trans activist.

But truth be told, it is something i care deeply about. I'd say I'm pretty down to earth about it and if you're genuinely curious about it or don't quite understand feel free to ask, I don't bite :)!

My music taste is pretty all over the place but recently I've gotten obsessed with hyperpop, specifically 6arelyhuman make some awesome songs. Otherwise what I mainly listen to ranges from 2000's-2010's pop to slipknot to sort of rap-esk stuff.

That's all I can think of, if you're interested send me a dm!

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2024/10/19
01:51 UTC

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22 (NB4A) Ace/Aro spec- Illinois

Hi! You can call me Eden and I'm interested in forming a qpr. I've never been in an actual relationship before so all of this would be quite new for me. I'm non-binary with a more masc presenting presence. Im demi-rom/sex Pan I'm in search of companionship. Really just someone I can connect and hang out with (whether online or in-person).

I do have hirtism, so although I'm afab nb, I do have facial hair ( just letting you know ahead of time in case that's a deal breaker!) I have to save up to get it fully removed through electrolysis since my family has be adamant about it.

I enjoy Anime (currently on a One Piece binge), drawing, Video games, singing, astronomy, tech, and really I'm just interested in learning as much as I can. With the amount of sitting i do for school and work I would love to get into exercising for building up healthy muscles!

I currently am in school for Digital media design, and have a future goal of creating my own webcomic series.

Although I'm introverted, I feel like with the right person I can enjoy new experiences ( sky diving is on my bucket list lol) like traveling or just learning to love life, but I'm also open to anything you might enjoy!

I'm sex and romantic indifferent, but I would preferred neither if that is alright (as i have never really experienced either). I don't mind physical touch, but you might have to be the one to initiate first due to my um, my lack of experience with such. I'd love to help you through anything you might be having a hard time with. In truth, that's like a huge part of this; just being able to be there for each other ya know? (Wow that sounded cheesy, sorry!)

Have to be okay with me referring to you as my BFF or friend with family atm as I'm currently living with them.

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2024/10/18
16:33 UTC

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24 [TM4A] Aroace - Alabama/Online

Hihi! My name is Damien and while I do identify as a trans man I currently have been unable to start transitioning so I still appear pretty fem.

I'm looking for a long term partner that I can spend my days with. Ideally, I would want someone who I can have a strong connection with that is alright with contact and willing to compromise with my low social battery.

I'm personally sex indifferent but I would prefer a relationship without it though it isn't a deal breaker.

I love things like fnaf, tmnt, sonic, pokemon, and I have a big interest in true crime and unsolved mysteries. I love learning about how things work and I spend a lot of my free time drawing fan art and reading fanfics.

I'm also a system and have schizophrenia. We are medicated for the schizophrenia but a potential partner should preferably be alright with the idea of alters fronting occasionally though we try our best to be upfront on who is fronting when we are able. Overall, I just want someone to be platonic soulmates with :)

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2024/10/13
03:25 UTC

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27 [NB4A] Bi oriented aroace - Anywhere

Hi! I'm AFAB, from Europe and I really want to meet someone special. I experience platonic and aesthetic attraction towards any gender, although truth is that I feel more comfortable with other AFAB people/non men. But feel free to say hi either way!

Things I like:

  • Writing.
  • Reading: I mostly read YA. I like fantasy (HP, LoTR, The hobbit, Six of crows), although my favorite book is The catcher in the rye
  • Music: I used to be into kpop a lot, now I'm just a casual listener. However I'm still an army (my main fandom tbh). Apart from that, my favorite bands are MCR and Ghost. I also love Bad omens, Chappell Roan, Poppy, Babymetal, Sum 41, Blink-182...
  • Movies: especially horror and coming of age. Some of my favorite movies are Submarine, Beetlejuice, Dead poets society, Skate kitchen, Bottoms...
  • I love concerts and traveling, but I'm also veryyy homey.
  • Fashion! I used to be so into it, now it's more casual. I thrift a lot
  • Halloween!!
  • Cats (I have a black one)

I'm sex indifferent (no experience, but I often think I'd be open to try) and don't really know how I feel about romance yet tbh, but I think I'm not completely repulsed. Physical touch is generally a no from me (especially kissing; I didn't enjoy the experience). Hugs, hand holding... I think that'd be okay if I feel comfortable enough with that person, and depending on the situation. I'm comfortable doing it with my friends so I imagine I can get there.

INFP. I'm a leftist and an atheist. I don't like kids and I'm not interested in marriage or even living with anyone, I'm very independent.

Physical description: 5'4", on the skinny side, brown eyes, brown hair (collarbone length rn). I'd say I tend to dress more androgynous (some times a bit masc?), although other times I wear more "feminine" clothes like crop tops, tight tshirts, also some makeup.

Please, feel free to DM me if you think we could get along!

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2024/10/12
22:57 UTC

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18 TM4A Asexual and aromantic maybe! nevada!

hi!! im aspen, a trans guy from nevada! just recently figured out my romantic identity (to a degree lol) and im looking for a qpr! i love drawing coloring reading writing games vrchat and many more!!! i am kind caring honest and (hopefully) funny! i want to find something with someone who can make me laugh and match my energy! i also want someone who loves calls and is at least open to trying vrchat! i appreciate your time and hope you have a great day!!!! also didnt mention in title but im looking for someone from anywhere!!!

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2024/10/12
00:18 UTC

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18|NB4M/TM, AroAce Texas/Anywhere

Hi!!! My name is Kai and I lean more on the feminine presenting side but not too much. I don’t have what you describe as a fashion sense, and besides my long hair, I’m mostly androgynous. ┐⁠(⁠´⁠ー⁠`⁠)⁠┌

I’m looking for a long-term partner who is willing to do cute couple things with me. I want to be their number #1 and for them to be mine. I want to confide in them about personal matters and have deep discussions with them. I’m fine with long-distance dating anywhere :) I’m not okay with anything sexual due to me being sex repulsed.

I like drawing and making stories of my OCs! I like reading manga, webcomics, novels, comics, etc. Some of the stuff I read is SPITDC, TGSWIIWAGAA, SVSSS, and Witch Hat Atelier.

I’m currently reading Blue Period, MHA Vigilantes, the Percy Jackson series, and the TGCF series. I occasionally read some classics but I haven’t read much in that department. I want to eventually read some Deadpool comics too.

Some shows I watched are Big bang theory -young Sheldon -The good place -Harry potter movies Staged -good omens -Chainsaw man -Spitdc -Blue period -Komi can’t communicate -Bungo stray dogs -Arcane -Bungo and Alchemist -Delicious in Dungeon -Iiilwtv -Hazbin hotel -High rise invasion -Given -romantic killer -cyberpunk: edgerunners Keep your hands off Eziouken -Magica Madoka -Steven Universe -The Owl House -Amphibia

Some shows I’m currently watching is -Marvel universe (I’m almost done with all of them!) -Doctor Who ( I only watched 3 seasons so far) Oshi no ko (I’m slowly watching season 2) Blue lock (I’m almost done, can't wait for season 2!!!)

  • Mob Psycho 100 (a great show! I want to binge-watch it, but I’m watching it with a family member) -Fallout (this one has been on the back burner, but I will get to it eventually.)

I love to track the shows/movies I watch on the Trakt app. (⁠≧⁠▽⁠≦⁠) It also reminds me when the next episode is releasing. My favorite movie would be Everything Everywhere All at Once.

Some singers I listen to (⁠.⁠ ⁠❛⁠ ⁠ᴗ⁠ ⁠❛⁠.⁠)

  • Melanie Martinez -Mitski -Marina -Queen -The living tombstone -Hamilton -Mac DeMarco

-Cavetown -Mother Mother -Kikuo -TV girl -Glass animals -Tame Impala -Ghost and pals -Rio Romeo -Tyler, the creator -etc. The list really could go long.

I like telling people about my interests because it’s a huge part of my personality and life. I’m usually seen rambling about current things I’m interested in. I would love to hear others ramble about their interests as well. Sometimes I can be a bit too much, and other times, I can be a bit too quiet and withdrawn.

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2024/10/11
01:14 UTC

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22 (NB4A) Greyromantic-ace | Alabama - online!

Hi lovelies!☺️

My name is Rayne (only online). I’m a 22 year old that works as a mental health technician just trying to get by through life lol

I’m looking for a qpr, or friends! I live in Alabama (cst), so I’m open to anyone anywhere!

My interests/hobbies include reading (mostly fanfics 😅), watching scary movies, listening to music, j/k-dramas, YouTube, anime, manga, I draw a little, video games (currently obsessed with strays, dragons age origin, afk journey, Genshin impact, and stardew valley), and sleeping🤣

A few extra things about me: I’m agender so any pronouns are fine but I mostly prefer they/them, I wear glasses, have 6 tats, 14 piercings, 420 friendly, and I have a chihuahua named Percy!

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2024/10/10
17:03 UTC

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18 [NB4A] SoCal/Anywhere

Hi! My name's Andy, or Andrew. I go by any pronouns. I'm looking for a QPR- i dont care about age, just as long as you're 18 obviously. It would be cool if you were in SoCal too, but I'm totally down for a long distance relationship! Looking for someone that shares my interests and I can nerd out with(and if you're also in socal, maybe even go on adventures together). Some things about me: my favorite season is fall, I love reading/listening to classic books, i like cooking and experimenting in the kitchen, drawing and being creative, playing video games(too many to name here lol), watching all sorts of different cartoons, and spending time in nature. I also have a pretty awesome My Little Pony collection, and I love the show too. If you like any of these things, let's talk!

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2024/10/10
09:44 UTC

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18 (tm4tm) Alberta, Canada

Hihi there I am looking for a QPR makes sense as I am writing here

I am a little Canadian trans guy (most of the time) I can we very talkative at times but I’m more of a listener than a talker unless you want me to talk!! I’ve had problems in the past with being unable to speak my mind but I’m trying my best to get better! Some of my likes are Raccoons, cats(mainly Calico and black), Minecraft, Stardew valley, I love music so much, Autumn is the best ever, pumpkins, ducks, ghosts, Fnaf, httyd, learning new things, learning how things are done/made 🧡🖤🤍🍂🦝🦕🎃🐈‍⬛🐈🦆🦇 Anyways my hobbies consist of art, gaming, music, sleeping, baking/cooking

Feel free to dm me if you find anything interesting! Oh and also please know how to use discord as that’s my main messaging platform

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2024/10/10
07:55 UTC

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26 (NB4F/4A) Asexual, Midwest

Hey alll, First time posting here but I'm looking for a QPR around the midwest area. I currently reside in Minnesota if that helps. Admittedly I've never been in a QPR before so this would be my first relationship of that kind. As far as my hobbies I'm into videogames, movies, anime and just about anything involving the outdoors. LDR wouldn't be an issue for me. I'm looking for someone to have cute dates with either in-person or over discord. I'd love to hear from like-minded people. Looking for genuine connections. DM if your interested!

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2024/10/09
23:13 UTC

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