/r/paddedagere

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A community for age regressors/dreamers who wear or have an interest in diapers! This is a non-sexual non-kink space for people in the agere community to educate, talk, and ask questions about diapers. Please read our sticked Rules post before interacting with our community! NO ABDLS, AGEPLAYERS, OR DDLG LITTLES

/r/paddedagere

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How to secretly dispose of diaps?

I was wondering how to discreetly dispose diaps without my parents finding out, I haven't even told them I want to use them and I'm nervous they will see them in the trash bin.

6 Comments
2024/10/29
01:00 UTC

9

Diapers

Is there any way I could discreetly use diapers while living with my parents?

8 Comments
2024/10/29
00:16 UTC

24

Got new dips molicare slips

0 Comments
2024/10/28
18:45 UTC

44

My new dips

4 Comments
2024/10/26
19:14 UTC

48

MY DIAPIES CAME!!!

Haven’t got to try them yet but definitely will later in today I’ll update once I’ve tried it on let y’all know how it was

14 Comments
2024/10/25
20:06 UTC

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Partner

Should i tell my partner diapers help me regress. I recently told my partner im a regressor and he supports me alot. I just don’t know how he would feel. i also wanna ask him if he would want to be my CG. Ive regressed around him before and he thinks its a great coping mechanism and he fully accepts it. I was in diapers for a long time due to bed wetting. and then I realized diapers are personally really comforting to me and help me regress. Think he’ll be chill with it?

0 Comments
2024/10/25
09:45 UTC

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Hypnosis/subliminal’s

So im a little and i dont have any incontinence and i was thinking about listening to hypnosis or subliminal’s. [i had bed wetting issues untill i was 10]

2 Comments
2024/10/25
09:37 UTC

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Alternatives for diapers

I do not have access to any kind of diaper weather pull ups or otherwise etc, I still live with my parents and I cant order anything online without it going through my moms phone for “approval” (even though I am a legal adult) is there any alternatives because little me has started to gain interest in trying diapers but I have no way of doing so. I have no intend on using them when I eventually am able, only for comfort purposes. Advise would be appreciated

7 Comments
2024/10/25
04:48 UTC

34

Smol collection

3 Comments
2024/10/24
13:31 UTC

14

What’s the difference between cloth backed diapers and plastic backed diapers?

So I recently bought my first “real” diapers and was wondering what the difference was between cloth and plastic backed ones are.

8 Comments
2024/10/21
21:38 UTC

30

Little kings arrived

Because I'm broke I still managed to snag some of the little kings, only could afford one though. But still a happy time yay!!

3 Comments
2024/10/21
18:13 UTC

9

Question about Abu shipping times

So i recently ordered a sample of bunnyhopps from abu and I ordered a second sample this morning and was wondering how long the usually take to arrive. I’m really looking forward to get to try them and want to know when I can expect them to be here.

10 Comments
2024/10/21
01:33 UTC

58

DIAPI MAIL!!

Bought the Tryagains by the brand Pretendagain. I got a large but next time I might try a medium cause these are a tad bit big on me but they still work just fine!

10 Comments
2024/10/20
02:33 UTC

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MY MOM LET ME GET BUNNYHOPP SAMPLES!

I’m so excited my mom let me get a sample of bunny hopps. She said as long as I have enough money I can get them. I’m so excited for them to arrive!

4 Comments
2024/10/20
00:34 UTC

18

diapers on a plane?

hiya! so i am going on a plane ride in a few days. i really really hate airplane bathrooms and was wondering about wearing a pull-up instead. my family knows i wear them for my period, but i don't want them to think i'm on it because i'm not and i wanna go swimming while we're gone! so if i used that instead, would i smell or anything obvious? i would have two layers over it. idk just never thought about it before.

4 Comments
2024/10/18
20:56 UTC

9

Kind of silly question.

What’s the purpose of the white rectangle on goodnites? It looks like it could be a wetness indicator but it doesn’t really change color at all I’ve heard it serves a purpose in manufacturing but I don’t know if that’s true.

13 Comments
2024/10/18
01:39 UTC

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getting diapers discreetly

hai everyone, i am a padded age regresser and i just need help getting diapers. i dont have a job (trying to get one) and i relay on my savings account (40 bucks every two weeks) and my mom is starting to get suspicious of me buying diapers, she knows i like them and is not on board with it. im not sure what to do, i said if she can help me get a job she said “so you can buy diapers? that’s not gonna happen.” i feel like im being treated like a toddler when im a young adult, its annoying. if you have any tips for me, please reply <3

4 Comments
2024/10/13
21:42 UTC

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Opinion on doing number two in a nappy?

I've been thinking alot about it to be completely little, aka also going number two. Do any of you do it? And how do you clean it yourself as I don't have a irl caregiver?

4 Comments
2024/10/09
21:04 UTC

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Hook and loop system on dips

Ok so I recently purchased the alphagatorz and in the past tykables but I need to know if there's ant tips on how to make the tapes actually stay with these brands as tbey tend to have issues actually staying on for a bit it takes alot to adjust but I'm also still new at this all- I only use these brands at all cause I'm also very sensory specific

1 Comment
2024/10/05
02:06 UTC

13

Best inexpensive Diapers/Pacis?

Hii! Pacis and diapers especially can be pretty expensive (like 40$ for a pack with 12 nappies in it)
Does anyone know any trusted shop that has a good value-to-money ratio? i don't mind if it has no design since i can just put stickers on it :3c

8 Comments
2024/10/04
22:23 UTC

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Is it safe to reuse dry nappies?

Today my little one came up front and I made sure he had a nappy so no leaks came, but he never used it, only wore it. I'm back and the little one left but now I just have a worn nappy, not used. Idk what to feel about it cause if I throw it away its a waste, but I know <im> not gonna use it. So for now I put it away with the new ones. (On top of the package) I am afab, aka have a vulva. Can I reuse that dry nappy even tho I've worn it for 4 hours?

5 Comments
2024/10/02
17:58 UTC

12

How long should I wait until I change?

So when I wear my diaps, I usually use them for self-soothing and comfort. I'm horrible at changing and reminding myself to do so. Other times, I just put it off because i'm playing or watching a show. I usually regress 2-3 hours without changing and i've only gotten a rash once since I started using diapers. I now have talc free body powder and I want to know if i'll be okay without changing for 2-3 hours with the powder. At least until I can get an online cg to sfw motivate me to change, or an irl one to help change me.

4 Comments
2024/09/28
21:15 UTC

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Are girls Goodnites actually more absorbent than the boy ones?

So I’ve heard that the girls goodnites offer more absorbency than the boy ones. I actually use my goodnites from time to time and really have only experienced leaks with the boys ones so I kinda believe this to be true, but is it?

7 Comments
2024/09/28
19:04 UTC

35

yayyy i got diapes!!

they are so comfy 7/10 personally however i feel these are the best for beginners since its a plastic back and isnt very forgiving when it comes to tabs unlike cloth backs with the velco like tabs. will definitely have to update about capacity and stuff like that because i forgot how much it holds (for the ones that do use their diapers for incontinence it just cause they want to.)

9 Comments
2024/09/22
23:20 UTC

7

Making diaps feel like pull-ups?

Hello, I really want pullups but there are simply no agere designs for them just plain adult pull ups🙃. Was wondering if I can make it work if I do the tabs first and then pull them on? I would buy the store brand but sadly none of the sizes fit me.

1 Comment
2024/09/22
19:29 UTC

9

Advice pls

I'm even more embarrassed than ever Abt my bed wetting and need of diapers. My ex thought it was wierd. Ive always been embarrassed Abt my diapers. I wish I could have someone change my diaper idk why the thought just brings me comfort if the feeling of being taken care of. I have a new cg but they're ex used them for kink reasons at least that's what I've heard of. I want her to baby me and put me in diapers but I'm too scared and embarrassed to tell her Abt my accidents and that I use diapers:( please help

1 Comment
2024/09/20
01:42 UTC

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(vent) Feeling unwanted; too old + not squeaky-clean enough for the AgeRe community, but not an AB/DL

Sooo I recently got completely backstabbed by a fellow age regressor who was one of the only people I was fully trusting of and decided to use artwork I showed them with their consent and in confidence against me. This was someone who was once a close friend, but I left because they were toxic. They sought out to destroy my image out of pure saltiness. They're one of those gatekeepers that basically try to define age regression only by their own experiences. I use it mostly as a coping mechanism + I have BPD (you'd be surprised how much there is a correlation between regression and BPD). It's mostly voluntary for me but I have had involuntary experiences too.

So, even in my mid 20s, I still live with my folks and I really want padding for the sake of my own comfort. I can't get that, so the next best thing is to draw cutesy padded art. I wish there were more padded agere artists that didn't overlap with kink communities. So I showed this art of my ex-friend, and I added 20 layers of "hey you cool with this?" and they were like "oh yeah, that's fine." Now that things are soured between us, she's lying to people about my intentions and airing this private coping mechanism out to the public - they're saying this is a kink for me, when I have told them it wasn't and I'm very open about despising people who sexualize age regression.

I've noticed that a lot of SFW agere circles are extremely cliquey and think diapers = kink. I would join artists circles that cater to cute padded art, but unfortunately most of them are kink artists. I don't want to be surrounded by the toxic side of the AgeRe community, but I don't want to have to resort to NSFW communities to feel accepted.

I guess the advice I want is... where do I go from here? I want more people I can trust with my secrets, but I don't want a community who's going to be so harsh and judgemental the moment I do something that slightly makes their lip curl. I honestly wish there was like... a Mastodon or something that's sorta like CubHub but minus the kink-inclusion.

5 Comments
2024/09/20
01:10 UTC

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[UPDATE] my thoughts on the gentle steps overnight pull-ups

So I’ve been wearing the gentle steps pull-ups for about a week now and I have to admit I both love and hate them. I like them because they feel comfortable and I really love the designs which is little red and grey arrows. But I kinda hate them because of how much they rip, I don’t like the material because it sticks to my skin a lot and tends to rip and fray frequently. I like them but I don’t think I’ll be buying them again. They fit me kinda ok but I rely on the stretch alot, from what the package says im in the weight range to be able to fit but they feel a tiny bit tight on me.

4 Comments
2024/09/19
03:12 UTC

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Idk what to title this

I wish I could look up diaper pics without sexual things coming up. Im really embarrassed Abt using diapers so looking at others wearing them help me to be more comfortable. But the majority of it is NSFW accs. I want to see more regressors making sfw diaper pics both boys and girls BCS I like seeing boys BCS I'm a boy so I'm guessing girls would want a girl doing it to

5 Comments
2024/09/19
00:55 UTC

7

telling my partner

i sent my girlfriend a letter explaining everything. we had a discussion about it earlier but didn’t even get near the surface of it before she had to go for work. she knows i have a hard time communicating verbally so she had me write her the letter. i’m quite anxious right now, i’m not sure what the future holds, but hopefully it all works out for the best.

update. it went i guess. she wants to keep it separate from our time and our life. that’s fine i guess, it definitely hurts. need a little time to process it

update 2. definitely didn’t go well. we agreed to just pretend i never said anything and i’ll keep my privacy on it. sigh.

2 Comments
2024/09/18
14:40 UTC

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