/r/Ohior4r

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A place for Ohioians to congregate.

r4r - Redditor for Redditor

Whether you're seeking platonic friends, non-platonic friends, online gaming partners, soulmates, travelmates, smoking buddies, groups to join, activity partners, friends with benefits [fwb] / casual encounters, etc. This is the place on Reddit to find and seek.



1 - Follow all Title Posting Guidelines

Posts must follow this Format:

Age [R4R] Location - Title

R must be M, F, or R.

This subreddit is for people who are 18 years of age or older only. It is not currently set that way to allow for photo browsing (while allowing NSFW posts to be designated as such)

You must have 30+ karma to participate in r/ohior4r.

Your account must be 31 days old to participate in r/ohior4r.


2 - No Photos of your genitals, at all, period. This will get you banned immediately.

If you feel as though you must share your genitals with the world there are plenty of other subreddits that will welcome you.


3 - Make an effort

All posts require a minimum of 50 words. If you can't spend more than 30 seconds on your post then you probably shouldn't be posting.

You should include some BASIC information about you and what you're looking for. Try including things such as your physical stats, age preferences, interests, hobbies, kinks, etc.

This is more about the quality of your post rather than hitting the magic number of words needed. Mods will still review all posts.


4 - No Buying or Selling Allowed, including promotion of paid / subscription services and sugaring.

Exchanges for money, goods, or services, are strictly prohibited. This includes. and is not limited to, any of the "sugar" lifestyle ads, offers for free trips, lessons, tutoring, webpage design, gaming, cam performances, business opportunities, paid subscription services etc. If you are doing something in exchange for something else, it will most likely fall in this rule. This also includes looking for other content creators such as OnlyFans.


5 - One Post Per Week / Anti-Spam

You are allowed to post to the subreddit once, and only once, per week-long period. This includes deletes and resubmits for any reason other than automod removal upon initial posting (not edits). This is to prevent users from trying to game the algorithm reddit uses to stick on the front page of the subreddit.


6 - No Obscene or Illegal activities (Including Car Play, Public Indecency, etc)

This includes any drugs and/or underage drinking. This also includes any activities that could be viewed as 'extreme' kinks, which would be better served on other subreddits.


7 - No photos of anyone without their consent, or posting for anyone else's benefit but the posters.

You may not post on behalf of others without contacting the mods first with proof you have permission to do this. No, you can't just say "I have their permission". Please contact the mods for clarification of this rule if you have questions regarding it.


8 - Singles or Ethical Non-Monogamy Only (No Cheaters / Affairs)


9- Be cool to one another. No Drama. No Politics.


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40 [M4F] #Cincinnati - Would Anyone Want To Meet For Just A Kiss & See What Happens?

First off I am married, but a dead bedroom. I want to feel desired again and have that excitement of kissing and not being able to keep our hands off each other. This could be a casual meet, kiss and talk and see what happens.

I am on the westside and work downtown. I workout almost everyday and play soccer on Fridays at Soccer City. 5’8”, athletic/fit body, shaved head, blue eyes.

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2024/12/03
13:25 UTC

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23 [F4M] Cleveland - can i meet you tonight?

BBW looking to entertain and be good company :))

https://imgur.com/a/Qk8zN6Q

a little about me: i like to doodle, listen to music, watch dramas, psychological thrillers, whodunits and comedies. i love sanrio and collect all things hello kitty. i like to have drinks here and there, play card and board games as well as explore new places

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2024/12/03
07:34 UTC

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21 [M4F] #Brunswick - Looking for some fun / losing virginity~

Howdy! Just a guy from Middle Of Nowhere Ohio, turned 21 in April and looking for some fun / to lose virginity. Can't host, but I'm down for just about anything else!

Feel free to message at any time!

And no, I'm not interested in buying any content or anything along those lines! And not interested in solo guys!

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2024/12/03
06:51 UTC

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21 [M4F] Looking for females only

21 year old fit male looking for either a one time thing or a fwb. Looking for someone either around my age or maybe someone a bit older. Will both need to verify with each other. If interested message me or if you have any questions message me

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2024/12/03
05:47 UTC

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30 [M4F] #Youngstown area - Awkward, neurodivergent, squeaky hinges. Can you give me a hand?

I've had anxiety for as long as I can remember and that does a toll on your self esteem. Then I've never figured out how to date, I saw stupid shit, I'm in general kind of awkward. As a result on the rare occasion I get a date I feel like I'm giving off friend vibes rather than whatever vibes you're supposed to have at a date. That didn't help my already struggling self esteem.

BUT, this year a professional said I might be on the autism spectrum, something I'd considered before, but a mental health profession gave it some footing. So I have a reason why I can't approach women and I suck going on dates.

How you can you help? Just hang out with me would be a great start. Someone said I seem like I've never been around women and they aren't wrong. I'd love to meet up and see if we get along as friends. If we click you can give me advice on fashion, my dating apps, dating, and whatever else you notice I need work on. And the more optimistic end maybe we could be cuddle buddies or you could set me up with a friend or you could take my virginity, but that's all just extra on top of the cake.

Gaining a friend is a delicious triple chocolate cake. Me being part of a friend group puts chocolate chips all over the cake. Cuddle buddies adds some other delicious things. Sex would be like the cake is on top of a fudge sundae or something. Not something I expect but it'd be awesome.

So yeah, if you feel like adopting me, let me know lol. I swear, I can give you stuff through friendship in return, Ive been told I'm loyal, smart, funny, empathetic, and other positive adjectives. I also routinely make 3-5hr drives to see friends so I can travel. I was also called "mom" in college because I'm that kind of friend, the protective one that watches over everyone and helps take care of my friends. Seriously, once you get past my nervousness and my awkwardness, I am a really good and fun person. I just need help

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2024/12/03
03:51 UTC

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32/28 [MF4F] First time threesome

Hi!

My wife and I are interested in our first threesome with another woman! I am 32 she is 28. White, clean, I have close to 6 inch penis. She has huge natural tits, nice ass, perfect tucked in pussy.

She is looking for someone Latina(but doesn’t really matter ethnicity), dark hair, 5’8 or shorter. Big ass (I am a tit guy so nice boobs is a plus for me) , not super aggressive as this is her first experience with a female with that said, she would like someone feminine. Age 25 and up. Obviously would like someone disease free and good hygiene.

Would love to hear from you, if you are out there!!

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2024/12/03
03:10 UTC

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28 [M4MF/F] Columbus, OH - Heavy cummer for late night attractive fun. Normal/fun, clean , experienced, fit , attractive M. See details in post

Normal, clean, M who is fit and respectful, but also very hung. I take care of my body, have great hygiene, and am clean/DDF. If you saw me out, you would not know I love to get down and dirty.

I am looking to meet in the upcoming weeks and have experience with MFM threesomes. Located on the west side of Columbus. I can share pics and verify once you message. I enjoy having fun, so I like to make this about the experience.

I am straight, so prefer no bi M’s. Getting to know each other, and forming some tension before meeting is important to me as well.

I appreciate putting effort into messages, so I hope you will do the same. Anything else you want to know- just send me a DM.

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2024/12/03
02:58 UTC

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33 [M4M] Toledo - First timer with a nice cock looking for jerk buds/group!

I am really curious to try jerking and - maybe! - sucking another cock while watching porn, but looking for someone to host.i want to know what it's like to suck and swallow a hot load. i'm really curious to play around with another big cock (or several.I just want to know what it's like to be a slut. Can't host

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2024/12/03
02:48 UTC

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39 [M4F] #Columbus I can use a good fuck, how about you?

I don't know why I'm even trying this on here of all places, but swipe apps are next to useless these days so whatever. I'm really craving a woman's touch right now and am hoping to find a diamond in the rough as it were. I would be fine with a one time thing or with FwB or whatever. A blowjob would be cool, (I can definitely return the favor) but I'd be just as happy with some good old fashioned sex. I'm a relatively normal 39 years old dude; white, in decent shape (6'0" 178lbs). Not physically deformed or anything like that. I'm just horrible at meeting people.

If you are trying to cheat on your husband or if you are a dude or trans or anything like that I am absolutely not interested. We can talk first, meet in public, get a feel for each other, Idc I'm not "desperate" and the last thing I want to deal with is some awkward shit that can largely be avoided by a normalizing phase. Or not. Whatever your comfort level. Drug and disease free, you be the same. There are a lot of fake bullshit accounts on here. I don't mind exchanging pics and stuff, (my standards on here are probably lower than they are on the street anyways) but I won't do it until I'm sure you're not a fake account.

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2024/12/03
01:57 UTC

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21 [M4F] #Cleveland - searching for a fwb that’s hopefully as kinky as I am

I’d prefer someone around my age (18-25) and women only, A little bit about me, I’m white, 5’10 and about 230 lbs, I’m pretty average looking and a little chubbier than average build, I can send pics if you want. I don’t do too much, my hobbies are working on my cars and exploring in the woods and stuff like that. Sexually I have a pretty high sex drive, I’m very into experimenting and trying new things, I have a very high interest in bdsm, and I’m interested in maybe trying out going to one of those sex clubs sometime in the future, I’ve never really been one for relationships at least currently or in the past, just was never really my thing, but with my high sex drive and it getting colder out and less time to do my hobbies I figured right now would be a good time to look for a fwb. Race doesn’t matter to me and build I’d prefer average to a little below or above average, I could definitely be in better shape so im not too picky, but im definitely not a bbw type of guy sorry, and the only other thing is I probably won’t be able to host very often with how im currently living, but if this interests you send me a pm and we can chat a little more

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2024/12/03
00:39 UTC

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29 [M4F] #Cincinnati - Hung guy looking for a connection and FWB

Looking for something casual with someone I can connect with. Nothing serious, but open to any possibilities. 8 inches and thick, athletic and in shape body. Very open so just message me if interested!

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2024/12/02
23:49 UTC

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30 [M4R] Cleveland - Looking to meet cool people :)

Hey! I'm a 30 year old guy in Cleveland, been here for about a year and I figure it's time to start meeting cool people and doing fun things! As a standard issue nerd, I like a good night in playing games or hanging out, but I also love a night out with friends, at a brewery, at a concert, at a dance night, you name it!

If you're in the area and looking for friends/dates/casual fun/new connections, hit me up!

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2024/12/02
23:48 UTC

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29 [M4M] Mount Vernon/Newark/Utica- Looking to top or give head

29 m, 6'0, 190 lbs looking for a chill guy to either top or find a nice cock to suck on sometime today or this week. I can host or travel. Looking all day. You must be clean and disease free. DM me and we can set something up.

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2024/12/02
23:45 UTC

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35 [M4R] 6'0 I'm here for you

Whats up Tidder <reddit backwards>. 35, 6ft, BBC, 180, campus area. I'm here for you. Personal preference? Everything's pink on the inside but I like F, T, sissy's and twinks. Let's start some chat and see where we go from that..

Toodles!!

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2024/12/02
23:33 UTC

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23/22 [MF4F] #Columbus Hot and Horny Couple looking for threesome anywhere in Ohio

Girlfriend is looking to explore her bisexuality…Ideally you are around the same age as us. We are willing to travel anywhere in Ohio but cannot host. Hit us up

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2024/12/02
22:47 UTC

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45 [M4M] [M4T] Cleveland or NE Ohio - Dom for sub fem male/mtf

I'm a kind hearted, funny, generous, supportive caretaker/dom type looking for someone younger, fem male or pre-op/no-op ftm trans. I'm attracted to a wide range. my main limits are that I prefer limited or no body hair, hard pass on facial hair, prefer fem-leaning, cd, or so-called "passable" trans. Hard pass on post-op and unless you're not interested in something serious/long term, soft pass on GA surgery intending.

Aside from all that, I want you to be yourself, feel like you're safe with me. I'm fairly well off in my career and station in life, and want to be a provider and caregiver. bonus points if you're into DDlg/cgl or that kind of thing.

It's important to understand this isn't all about sex and physical intimacy for me. I would like something real, non-transactional, and affection based. I know that there are a lot of things that come with time, trust, and comfort, so of course I neither expect nor assume we'd be jumping into something serious right away, but a spark can happen and I'm open to it :)

about me: I'm 5'11, 180#, white male, average/slender build. I'd say I look my age. Just know that I'm not a bear, not super muscular or athletic. just average.

please do reach out even if just to say hi and you want to talk, but if you think we'd be a good fit, I'm waiting :)

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2024/12/02
22:01 UTC

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45 [M4M] #Akron - Looking for fellow discreet guys into mutual play

45/W/M/5'9"/250lbs Looking for other discreet guys into mutual cock play and possible oral. Can't host. Lets chat off Reddit and see if we can make it work. Cuyahoga Falls area here.

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2024/12/02
20:01 UTC

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31 [M4F/R] Dayton - Looking for a close like-minded FWB

Hello I'm looking for a long term FWB that lives in or near Dayton Ohio. I enjoy most anything and am willing to try new things. I am in an ENM relationship of 15 years so my main priorities are with her. So, please don't get upset if I don't respond right away. Like I said I'm looking for a friend first and a FWB second. My wife may even join in on the fun if she is interested or if you would be willing.

If meeting in person is to scary at first I would love to swap conversations and pics (doesn't have to be sexual) via Snapchat or telegram. I'm open to whatever.

I'm looking for someone who can hold conversations enjoy learning new things and knows how to have some good spicy fun when the time arises.

I am mostly looking for cisgender women or female presenting trans women.

Please be willing to verify that you are a real person as I will do the same thing.

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2024/12/02
19:47 UTC

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36 [M4F] #Cleveland - Thick cock Stud looking for woman to please.

This Stud with a long thick cock is looking to satisfy women. Into most everything, very few limits. 6'1" 200lbs, clean, good shape, stamina, no strings attached, just looking to please. I am snipped so happy to fill you with load after load. Located between Cleveland and Akron. But I am happy to travel. Hope to hear from you. ;)

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2024/12/02
19:45 UTC

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24 [M4F/T] #Cincinnati, OH - Alt man for kinky woman

Hey! Alt guy looking for a friend to link up with for some fun. I have long hair, beard, a couple tattoos, chubby. SFW interests are reading, gaming movies and music. I’m a musician for fun. NSFW interests are CNC, free use, and cum play. I’m a Dom and would enjoy a submissive woman but I’m open to switching. Would be interested in exploring intox play. Hit me with your asl and we’ll chat.

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2024/12/02
19:35 UTC

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35 [f4m] Kirkersville-seeking friends or more

I just moved to Ohio from Texas and I’m looking for friends that could lead to more. I’m 35 and willing to trade pics at some point. I am trying to get back into shape. So gym and eating healthy is a must for me. I enjoy hiking and coffee shops, Reading etc.

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2024/12/02
19:14 UTC

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27 [F4M] #Cincinnati - You need a sense of adventure. Look no further

Mainly looking for a new fwb

Let’s seeeee! I am a younger, educated AA Woman in Cincy area! I am fairly tall , chubby and have good teeth. I am pretty relaxed , easy going and educated.

I have a wide range of interest and activities that I like to do including traveling, swimming, baking and I’m interested in golf.. weird I know lol.

Overall it’s been a bit since I’ve had a male companion that I genuinely enjoyed. Someone who possess brains, a sense of humor, a sense of adventure.

Ideally I’d like someone local, very outgoing, fairly stable someone who’s fun. I genuinely just want someone to talk to, sometime to try all of my baking and give me critique, someone to have fun with and someone to rub my booty. I’ve never been to a baseball game, football game and I am a Cincy native! Hoping to find someone to go along for the ride and explore!

Cincy only

At this time I’m looking for 28-40 years old Have all their teeth Someone hygienic and well dressed Non smoker Social drinker DDF local to Cincinnati out frequent traveler Above average Laid back Love beards and tattoos. Still those give you double points.

If you’re younger than the age range I will not reply.

If you send me a “dtf” I will not respond

I may be delayed but i will respond.

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2024/12/02
19:01 UTC

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48 [m4f] seeking fwb chastity keyholder #cincinnati #online

Looking to find some sort of friends with benefits arrangement around locking up in chastity. I live on east side of Cincinnati but location not an issue as looking for more online, especially to start. Friends matter just as much so looking to be friends with me being submissive for you. Open to chat on anything and everything with you then controlling my orgasms.

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2024/12/02
18:17 UTC

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33 [M4MF/F] #Columbus any hotwife or cougars looking

experienced hung straight male athletic looking to chat with couples or female to see if there is connection and common interests. pics on profile. send a dm if interested. not looking for solo males.

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2024/12/02
18:16 UTC

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26 [M4M] Cincinnati

26m looking for a jo bud. I have a gf but like to swing the other way occasionally. I'd be into watching porn together or jerking / sucking you off. Looking for others who are also bi/curious and under 35

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2024/12/02
17:46 UTC

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29 [M4M] BBC verse bottom in Columbus looking for a fwb Top

Moved back to Columbus and I am single. Not really looking to be on the apps or stalking gay bars for conquests. I am just looking for a chill person to have a weekly or a couple of times a week fuck sessions. Where we can let loose and give into our fetishes and fantasies. Power bottom here who likes to edge, worship and enjoy a nice dick. While having safe clean fun.

I’m twink swimmers build. Smooth. Ddf. Please be sane and hwp.

I am not a size queen and dick size is not an issue.

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2024/12/02
17:25 UTC

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28[M4F] Cleveland Looking for someone short, thick, and loves sucking dick

As the title suggest I'm looking for someone on the shorter side compared to me since I'm 6'2, someone chubby with lots to love, and someone who loves sucking cock. Send me a chat and get to know. I don't care about age or race but I'm a white guy with a decent sized cock I'd love to show you. If you're into beards and dadbods I'm also your guy.

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2024/12/02
16:26 UTC

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26 [F4M] Sharonville- Bored in town for work

In Sharonville for work all week, prefer to host. Wanting to shake up my boring life with a hot hookup while I’m away from home. I’m pale, blonde hair, blue eyes, 5’5. DDF. BBC and beards to the front of the line. Send a pic

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2024/12/02
16:07 UTC

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24 [M4M] Dayton, just needing some good throat on my cock

Hey there, 24 Male living in Huber Heights, been just super bummed and burnt out from work anymore ever since being a manager and wanting to have some fun with somebody! would just love for someone to work their throat on me and have me feel really good and if you're really wanting to, we can do some more like cuddling and maybe making out after you suck my dick, that'd be really fun, if you're up for it, I can host or drive up there if need be, if you're down pls message me!

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2024/12/02
15:54 UTC

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35 [M4F] #Columbus - Turbo nerd looking for a friend with benefits, emphasis on the friend

See above! Single, no kids, never married. I do own a cat though. Non-smoker. I'm 6'1, white, green eyes, dad-bod, but I'm losing weight. Happy to trade pics, I understand attraction is important. Also very left-leaning.

So yeah, I'm looking for something physical, but I also enjoy hanging out and having fun outside the bedroom too. I'm a very nerdy dude, so I like most nerd things. Also open to trying more stuff too - especially outdoorsy things. Local only! I'm looking to meet up and hang out in person, so please no online-only folks.

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2024/12/02
15:12 UTC

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