Men should be allowed full ownership and control over their wife. Women are way too disrespectful and disobedient now, posting themselves all over social media, having affairs and not listening to their husband. It would all be fixed if men were allowed to beat them anytime and as severely as they want and have all legal control over her.

(Posting for a very scared friend, he wrote this himself) I met this girl on a dating site. We hooked up twice. I asked her multiple times if she was on birth control and she promised me she was. The second time we hooked up she asked me to stay inside her to climax. Stupid I know. But I asked yet again “am I safe, are you on BC” and she said yes again. So I did. This was on 3/11. She told me she was pregnant on 3/19. She also mentioned that she “should’ve told me that she hasn’t been taking her birth control” so she lied to me about all of that as well. She’s telling me she’s not going to get an abortion and wants to keep or adopt the baby, but doesn’t need any money from me, just wants my support? I guess my question is what can I do to protect myself here? I don’t want kids especially not with a random hook up. She’s also admitted it might not be mine. But this all seems very fishy to me. I feel like I’m being trapped. Can you even tell 8 days after sex if you’re pregnant or not? This all seems so wrong and I don’t know what to do. Any advice at all please help.

There is a collection of legal article about the inherent violation of numerous male rights when a boy receives a non-therapeutic circumcision and irreversible loss of a body part with out his consent.

There is an online collection of legal articles regarding non-therapeutic circumcision of boys available for legal research at:

https://en.intactiwiki.org/index.php/Circumcision_legal_commentary

I am a Purple Heart Veteran and am slowly losing everything fighting a corrupt system for my rights as a father. My x-wife has refused to obey our original child parenting plan since I medically retired from the military. When we got a divorce she moved to Fort Lauderdale while I was still active duty. When i got out I moved to my home city of Jacksonville (5 hours north of Ft Lauderdale ). Our agreement was one sided because she has multiple lawyers in her family. She paid no legal fees while I was hemorrhaging money to attempt to get better visitation. Eventually i was financially forced to accept defeat. For 4 years I have driven to ft Lauderdale and forced to stay in a hotel just to see my daughter maybe once a month for barely 24hrs. That’s all she would allow me. Even though our parenting plan said I should get her far more often and her mother share travel distance. Her reasoning is because my daughter is Autistic so she shouldn’t travel to spend time with her father.

She finally made it so impossible for me to see my daughter I tried to take her back to court for more time with my daughter. Six months later I have payed 15 thousand and have only been to mediation once in which her lawyer refused to even give me basic rights. They want to limit my timeshare to 4x a year and only in ft Lauderdale. They refuse to do 50/50 transportation which is almost 100% the case in most parenting plans. Instead they only offered to meet me 1 hour closer than where the mother lives. So I drive 4 1/2 hours just to turn around and drive 4 1/2 hours back home. They keep dragging court out in order to bleed me out financially since she doesn’t pay any legal fees. They believe if they bleed me dry eventually I will just have to give up. All the while trying to request I pay more than half of what i bring home a month in child support.

I feel so destroyed by this, how is the system so rigged against fathers who want to be in their child’s life. It is so painful to fight for this country, to bleed in combat for the right for a women to bankrupt me financially just because I want to be a father without being her husband. There is no where for vets to go for this, we have unique cases because lawyers abuse the fact soldiers are away at war. They state the father hasn’t been in the child’s life for a year even though its been due to fighting a war. They consider us unfit as a parent due to this time separated from the child. So we are fit to bleed or die in wars but not fit to be fathers.

Why are there no groups/lawyers that are willing to help these special cases. It’s sad to fight and get injured in a war, to come out a disabled veteran and then fight a more brutal war than you ever fought in the military, the war for your rights as a father.

A recording of the phone call to file charges exists on the Victims phone.

I suspect there to be a Great Conflict of Interest with the local PD. The Assailant's husband is/has Buddies with certain individuals that hold positions of Power.

Does it matter whether or not I have a female or male lawyer on my side and family court?

I will be at work and can't see post till after

Has anyone had any success in winning a Contempt of Court in any county in California (or any location)? I’m in the process of collecting all of my receipts and I’m curious to see what other parents have done to combat a HCBM and completely disregarding the Court Order. Luckily for me, she runs her mouth via email, but my boys are suffering in the mean time. Thanks for any help/suggestions!

I'm in a really difficult legal situation right now. I'm divorced and my wife has all the rights for my daughter but I still have to pay support and all of the debt we incurred while together. The problem is that the ruling was made in British Columbia and I'm an American citizen. Each time I try to hire an attorney where she lives in Victoria, BC it costs me a very large retainer up front. Plus, there are a finite amount of lawyers in the area. If I hire one out of the area I end up paying travel fees

In the meantime I've been owing a large alimony and child support cost monthly according to military pay that was calculated when the divorce happened in 2008 and I got out of the military due to disability in 2010.

I haven't been able to work or keep a job for years. The past due support has been racking up and I can't change the order because I can't afford an attorney in the area and I don't know what else to do. I've had a few social workers in the VA try to help with no relief in sight. My former attorney that I had for the initial divorce gave me free advice because I was in such an "impossible situation" and it was to hope that she would change the order herself. She won't talk to me because I'm a deadbeat. I can't do anything in the US to change it but the US will definitely enforce it which is frustrating.

I've been trying to send money towards the support when I can in order to avoid jail but I can't keep up with the monthly payments. I need the past due amount waived in order to live some kind of life moving forward. I'm being called in to court again to face possible jail time. I don't know what to do and I've been in and out of psychiatric wards for PTSD from my military time as well as my depression and suicidal ideation.

I just want a normal life. I want to be able to move forward with things without this huge cloud hanging over my head. Please help me, give me something to work with, some kind of tool I can fight with.

If I walk out, does that make things harder for me legally?

I don't know if this is the right place to ask these questions, or make these statements, but this is one of the few sources I've been able to find that does not sound like a site dedicated to changing my mind. I am certain that I am going to "commit" suicide. I am 33 years old, and I have spent the last 17 years battling depression and BPD and I am finished fighting. I have attempted suicide many times during that span, and failed, sometimes due to pain or fear of failing in the attempt or how I would be found. I consider it daily as an option but I want there to be a way that I can leave without causing the people remaining any trauma by my actions, like having my mom find me, or something like that. I have tried dozens of medications and therapies both physical and mental, and nothing has worked even slightly, in fact most drugs destroy my mental faculties and leave me wanting to just walk in front of a bus. Please tell me there are people I can talk to to help me arrange my death in such a way as to minimize any pain or horror my family or friends might feel. I wish there was some way to explain that I love them deeply but that I can't go on living any longer, but most are religious or reject the idea outright. I have asked people I know IRL to help me before but they have threatened to have me committed or simply stopped talking to me. I am afraid to ask anyone else and frankly I don't know anyone that would even consider helping me even if the laws in Canada were on our side. Is there a legal framework within Canada that would assist in the death of someone who is suffering from mental illness, a way I can keep my rights as a person and patient? I'm terrified that if I ask my doctor or family for help with this I will lose my rights and end up chemically lobotomised. I am of sound mind and have simply reached the end of my ability to cope with the endless suffering that each day brings, and it only gets worse day by day. I don't want to be left with no other option than to so something that has a chance of failure or would make a horrific scene for a family member to discover. If there are people out there willing to help me I need to know. I don't want my mom (who I live with) to be the one to find me. I need this to be discrete as possible and I am open to the idea of it appearing as a natural death or even declaring it as a suicide, my main concerns are who finds me and how. I know the story of Al Purdy and the way that things were arranged with him seems almost perfect. I don't want to shoot myself or jump in traffic or take pills, there are too many things that can go wrong and too many people that could be negatively affected by those actions. I want to be able to talk to my loved ones about this and have a chance to die with some dignity, not the stigma attached to "committing suicide". No one says those horrible things like "it's selfish" about people living with unbearable physical pain or a terminal illness. Please help me. I am sorry if this was the wrong place to ask about this, but I am a man who is afraid to lose his rights; I believe with my whole being that this is the only option I have left where I get to make the decision, not be stuck in a room and pumped full of drugs and kept alive to protect the sensibilities of people who can't possibly know the experience of every waking minute of this hell.