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Yep you read that right. And this post is on librandu sub. Not a clickbait just keep reading. Doesn't matter if you are rw or lw centrist or liberal. This is going to be a long post so according to length I may divide it into several parts. First one is based on mental health issues and romantic relationships. Ultimate goal is to educate men on misogyny , patriarchy and help men to avoid falling into the pit of unjust world of redpill or blackpill content. Or getting them out of it.

So. How to be a man in a country full of women hating men. This is especially for those who are into redpill or blackpill or incels or think that "men should be providers"

Advice to women, you aren't here to fix all men's issues for them but if you feel like there is someone close friend or family member who is going through this path and you want to help them then kindly follow the steps whatever I say, it's short and will avoid some woman getting tortured in future.

First of all let's get clear on terms. I haven't seen any Indian guy claiming to be "blackpill" member. 2 reasons , well first of all, they might not know it or simply because it is associated with term "incel". Incel term is taken as a slur to insult those who can't be in romantic relationships. Especially by women who are victims of some kind of violence (verbal or sexual) or discrimination by anyone (could be their family members, friends or a stranger).

Incel , internationally, means involuntarily celibates, meaning you can't form and/or maintain few relationships (romantic or friendships) due to several issues you are dealing on your own, mainly caused by parents or some form of PTSD response or disorders. In India, it's mainly caused by upbringing by parents.

So a lot of men avoid claiming they are blackpilled or incels. But just to be clear, there are 2 types of incels, one who are just suffering due to trauma and can't form relationships. And other incels are blackpilled. Though both are traumatized during upbringing the responses may vary person to person.

Redpill and blackpill are basically just ideologies made by some people to make men believe that if they do certain things in a certain way ONLY THEN they will be successful in different aspects of like career, friendships, office politics and most importantly romantic relationships.

For those who don't know blackpill is basically 4chan forum. They hate women on another level similar to redpill, promote rape cultures and think women enjoy getting raped, think getting married to minor women is okay as it's okay in their "culture" which is similar to redpill. But major difference between redpillers and blackpillers is...delusion. Redpillers think they can or will get women if they become "alpha" men, leaders or some rich dude. Whereas blackpillers can't get women because they think women hate men, and they have highly unrealistic standards , because they are ugly or women simply hate them.

And btw alpha theory is debunked Alpha wolves pack idea is a myth . For those who don't know it goes like this: men are supposed to be alphas. Humans should live in groups similar to wolves packs where dominant leader is "alpha" or dominant and makes decisions and beta ones follow him.

This is a interview of a blackpilled guy, this guy in the interview is like genetically blessed guy and literally in the top 10% by conventional standards of looks set by the society (good jawline, slim body, blah blah blah). Although attraction is subjective I will clear that up later but watch a few minutes of video and comeback here or watch it later on. Click here for VICE news interview with blackpill incel

The first step to BE A MAN is to acknowledge you are going through something and asking for help. So how do you know you are facing childhood trauma by your parents?

Ask yourself these questions, first answer the question in your mind or complete the sentence then open the spoiler part of the text :

1. "Whenever I think about my achievements from my parents perspective I feel ....." >!if the answer is something similar to or anything negative "I feel like a failure" ; "I feel like I haven't done enough" ; "I feel I have disappointed them"!<
2. "As a child or a teenager whenever I was around my parents I was always......" >!if the answer is similar to these or anything negative "Conscious what I will say next" ; "scared to be happy" ; "conscious enough so that I won't upset them"!<
3. "Now that I am a grown grown up and I can make my decisions my parents....." >!if answer is similar to or anything negative like "still take my decisions for me" ; "take my decisions for me because I feel like I don't have much experience to deal with this situation" , yes I know I said it's okay to ask for help and now I am saying this. Asking for help/advice and letting others make decisions for you is totally different.!<

If you answered any question , even one, negatively or you felt bad while answering this, or went to flashback of past bad treatment by your upbringers then you have a trauma.

Parents must nurture their children, teach them good values and also teach them how to make decisions in case they are gone in future. A child must feel safe around parents. It's a parents' duty to "be a parent" and be wary of child's emotions not the other way around.

And all the blackpill redpill content emphasizes on getting laid.

I am not one of those people who will say "why do you want to date? You should be happy with yourself so much that you don't need another person's company" this thinking is BS. Humans are social, we need relationships to move forward and function. Especially romantic relationships. Just because you are happy alone doesn't mean you don't need another person to grow, they can always offer companionship, emotional support and many things when we can't provide it for ourselves and they need it too.

So this was introduction...lol

Now my ultimate goal is to actually make men reading this de-radicalize and become part of feminism, anti racism , anti caste. Basically a staunch leftist, a pro "librandu". But if you don't want to be and just want to be relived of hatred you have for society then still fine atleast you'll be de-radicalized after this. And fyi I was in same downhole so nothing to be ashamed of actually. I was incel (non misogynistic non blackpill) who had no hopes and was about to go into redpill phase, but saved.

Now a guide to men who realized or think I am right even 1% when I talked about trauma and exactly what you are going through and want to improve their lives, these are steps for you...

Step 1. Stop engaging with women or men hating people for some time yes you should stay away from them for a while. Especially on social media. In person some people rarely talk about but if anyone does just walk out or put on headphones. Stay away from subs who post news articles and current events. Including this sub, because chances are if you are a savarna or a straight guy then this sub will hate your ideologies (they don't hate you but ideologies you have, there's a difference). Stay away from 2xindia sub, that sub is hella casteist , religionist, classist and traumatic itself. Most women there don't even know they are socially conditioned into thinking it's okay to be classist and casteist towards unfortunates, they think arrange marriages and "marrying into caste" is fine since they can't stand up to their families. I'd suggest to go international feminism sub but only after you have healed and have some basic empathy towards minorities and oppressed genders which is every gender except for straight men.

Step 2. Identify your hatred groups. Do you hate Homosexuals or transsexuals? (every redpill or blackpill guy hates anyone who is LGBTQ)

Ask yourself "what part of their existence bothers me?" ; "should I be bothered if someone isnt a straight man or a woman?" ; "apart from their gender identity what makes them interesting?" I asked myself the last question and I hate to break the stereotypes, I met a gay man once, they don't have good fashion sense modern family and other soap operas have been lying to us lol. Turns out they are just people, surprise isn't it?

"What did they do to me that I hate them?" answer questions by yourself don't answer the questions contrary to whatever you hear about them on media or by some toxic prick. Most common ones is "weLL I doNT haVE a PRobleM wiTH thEM or THeir PRONouns buT whEN thEY wANt me to ACT accORDIng to theM or usE tHeiR prONOUns to AddreSS thEm then I will cOndemn this behavior" bruh pretty sure you haven't met a gay person in India. Because they are too scared to come out especially after trump and elon bullying them endlessly for their political gains and our beloved rw Indians licking their feet. And India is toooo behind to be open on this issue so rarely you'd see a openly gay person.

Step 3. Become parts of positive and mental health subs for men: bropill ; incelexit ; guycry : bropill mods have limited post and manually approve all posts but they have really really engaging weekly threads on relationships and men's mental health. And incel tears and guycry allows to post you on anything you are going through. Now stay loyal to these subs and read the posts especially the ones addressing men's issues and discrimination, etc.

Bropill has best posts and resources to help you. Use searchbars with keywords like "incel" "mental health" "masculinity" etc. the posts are really good. But comments are real gems.

Here's one comment from a guy who is a school teacher and helped his student who became a nazi for a while to be aware of what happened. His wife was a Jewish. Absolute gold comment and great thread to read even for people who want to de-radicalize their close friends or siblings. Other resources are on youtube, "Dr. K" whose channel's name is "HealthyGamerGG", this guy is licensed psychiatrist from states and always talks on men's mental health. And he's Indian.

Now for people who want to de-radicalize their close friends and family.

Step 1. Listen to them: these guys are in isolation, so just listen. If you are from identities who they hate like women, or LGBTQ then still try to listen. These guys are here because no one was there to listen to them, start listening to them, if they say something triggering to you (here comes the tricky part) try to control it and just ask questions but in curious manner , don't show that you are offended. And when they explain themselves don't counter just say "ah man this shit seems confusing to me. Anyways I will leave it to you to figure it out." Next time listen again if there is a shift in their tone than their previous one then congrats we have made progress.

Step 2. Address their trauma: Deeply dive into their childhood, and let them vent out. Tell them it's okay to ask for help and acknowledge they have a problem. If they deny saying something like men shouldn't have problems then mention this made up line by me "in stone age men use to be providers and leaders always had consultants or friends from other states or groups to take help or advice from during drought or some femine."

Step 3. Introduce them to the resources in above subtly: mention Dr.K who talks about men's mental health and bropill sub , mention it's exclusivity that only men post there and only the sub for men and their issues.

I may have missed out on many many many things...those will be addressed in next part

But before I end it... If you, a man, your masculinity gets lowered by some equal rights movement like feminism or LGBTQ equal rights , then you never had masculinity in first place.

np.reddit.com/r/unitedstatesofindia/s/tBX2CK7ifT

Why the term bahujan has its problems.
The Indian ruling and capitalist class is dominated by the dvija upper castes especially North Indian. Brahmins had huge control over state and dominated civil services (and still do judiciary and high academia). Over the years, because of backward classes movement, various south indian dominant castes, non-dominant non-dalit groups have emerged to a certain extent. A lot of these dominant castes although had plurality along class lines.
So the question of a bahujan assumes that non-dalit non-dvija castes are in natural alliance with dalits. This might be true for non-farming artisanal castes but not for the peasant castes (including small farmers, tenant darmer, non landlords among them). And of course, landlords amond dominant OBC castes are in direct contradictions with workers. So the social contradictions in Indian society are: Dvija vs Bahujan, Savarna (non dalits) vs Dalits, Adivasis. And of course working class consists of all these castes including dvija castes (in relatively lesser proportion), non dalits, dalits, adivasis.

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Talking about average MLA or MP. My guess either Maharashtra, Karnataka, or Andhra.

Is this kind of a mockery of liberals or what is it or is it like self depreciating humor or is it like sarcasm

What is this sub about ???

Genuinely asking.

Equating a woman with a goddess figure takes away their human-like aspects and thus society creates unrealistic expectations of what it is to be a woman. I've experienced this many times, 'sisters are blah-blah devi's avatar thus you should act mature', 'Mothers are goddesses, therefore, they can manage different things together without complaining ', 'you are a woman, you have immense power to bear with everything, no need to medicines to relief period cramps all that'. And a woman who doesn't fit in these vile inhumane standards, they are considered evil, which is just so sad. Also I was reading this paper on why a rapist commits such deeds, the interviewee(the assailant) said something like a good woman never steps out of her house, and the victim was not a 'goddess' how sad ;-;