/r/hotpast
This subreddit is for people whose fetish is hearing about or fantasizing about the sexual past and sexual exploits of their partners prior to the current relationship.
This subreddit is for people whose fetish is hearing about or fantasizing about the sexual past and sexual exploits of their partners prior to the current relationship.
Note: This is not the same as fantasizing about or wanting your partner to actually engage in sexual activity with other people while in a relationship with you. It is also not for things you did together long ago. It is not about your sexual exploits from the past. Just because it's hot and in the past doesn't mean it fits. It must be about your partner before your relationship.
These stories do not belong and will be deleted:
Cuckolding
Hot wife
Non-monogamy
Swinging
Cheating
In the past but together
Your sexual history from the past
In addition:
No comment or DM begging.
No low effort posting.
These posts are garbage and are often generated by bots, so they will be treated as spam.
If you are interested in a different fetish or lifestyle check out : r/hotwife or r/nonmonogamy
Other subs to help you fantasize:
/r/hotpast
Funny thing is, I knew her at the time. Didn’t know about this until way after we were married, though. They would sneak around, fucking in cheap motels, and even at his place. She would pay for the motels for a couple hours at a time and they would get naughty. She had to pay since he didn’t want to explain the charge. So she was sort of paying for sex!
As you may have read it earlier, my wife and I are in Las Vegas this week for a work conference for me. On Thursday night, we had sex against the window overlooking the strip. She had a very big orgasm and after I came, I asked her if that was the first time she’d ever been on display like that. Her response made me cum quickly.
“of course not. When I was in college, nothing turned me on more than going to a guys house and fucking him with the door open. It was so hot knowing his friends might see and hear me cum. While riding him, I would close my eyes and picture all of his friends jerking off while watching us. Back then I don’t think I could’ve turned them down either. When I had been drinking and was in ‘fuck-mode’ I was willing to do almost anything.”
I said “ so it turned you on, but did everyone ever actually watch?”
She said “well Michael’s roommate watched and then they took turns with me. The only other time that anyone watched was I was bent over by my friends boyfriend’s roommate. They watched and cheered while I had a massive, screaming orgasm. Later on, they also caught me rubbing my clit when everyone went to bed. I snuck out into the living room and had to get off one more time, but did not have a ride home. I was embarrassed that they caught me, but also turned on enough and I let them watch until I came”
Obviously, a few minutes later, I had her rub her clit for me while I jacked off on her tits and told her to imagine that I was her friends boyfriend who caught her masturbating. I love her crazy dirty past!
Recently went through a bunch of boxes my wife brought home from her parents house. Were late 40’s, married 25 years and she’s never really talked much about her exs but there were several. Lots of pics of her and various guys, some in bikinis and sexy cloths a few nude poloriods one of a naked guy and some letters from an ex from college wanting her back and how great the sex was
So a while back I found out a few things my wife did while we were separated. Theres a whole story on my page. I’ve been away for a few months now (military), and it took a while for me to accept it, but I’ve been extremely turned on and intrigued by hearing about her being wild. A buddy of mine introduced me(over the phone )to a few other people she had been with during the separation, and I managed to find an old friend of hers from back home where she’s from. He is a cool guy with a bunch of hot stories. Even has pics. Apparently she still has and uses her old telegram. I’m still in the process of figuring out how to tell her that I’m into hearing about her past. She still thinks that I’d get mad like I did before.
I have been with my girl for 4 years now. We're very open about our pasts. She gives awesome blowjobs, im quite large and she can deepthroat me very well. I asked her where she learnt to deepthroat once. She told me she used to fuck a guy with a big cock and he used to teach her. She would go to his house for lessons on how to take his whole cock down her throat. I need to buy that guy a beer haha.
She told me she had a sexless relationship with her ex. After she left him she went on tinder and would find different guys to fuck every week. I know she hates condoms so I asked where they would cum. she said "well you know I love creampies, so id let them fill me up". that nearly made me blow, knowing over 30 guys have cum in her pussy. I asked who and when was the last guy to cum in her before me. She said some guy off tinder 2 days before me.
My wife was telling me one day after I probed her about when she used to fuck my best friend with a big cock before we got together.
I asked her in general how it was and if she enjoyed it. She said she loved the friction as he was not only long but extremely thick, like thicker than her wrist. She said she enjoyed working it in and taking her time to get used to it, rather than with me I can just go straight in. She loved how he bottomed out in her and probably had more cock left to give but she just couldn’t take anymore. They always fucked in a car and she said he was super rough and would last forever and he would finish in her mouth every time. She said sometimes the next day she would call in sick for work because she could barely walk and even her jaw would be sore from sucking him. I just know no matter what I do I could never get her to that point. And we’re still close with him so it’s kind of hot when we hang out picturing all of this and him knowing what he did with my wife. Always hot hearing these ones.
This may sound mild but once she (my ex) told me about that time she went with a guy friend for drinks (I'm sure he wanted to bang her, but I don't know if he eventually did) and a random black girl out the blue kissed her in a club, then a random white guy joined and they had a long three way makeout . She's not sure if both knew each other before that, but she certainly didn't knew any of them. She left them kissing AND went for another drinks. Then, when she came back, the girl wasn't there but the guy was. He kissed her again and she didn't object. She had a dress so he had the chance to grab her ass under her skirt.
The hottest thing is that they didn't exchange any words.
I've been lurking in this sub for a couple years and have wondered about my wife's past, but was never brave enough to ask her the details of her sex life before us. I did know that she had been in a serious relationship with a guy a few months before we met, and she lost her virginity to him, but she didn't go into anything beyond that.
The two of us met through a Christian ministry for students. We'd have these weekly get togethers of about 150 people and we'd sing worship songs and hear a Bible message. We became friends and I eventually asked her out. What surprised me about her was that on our second date she went down on me and gave me a blowjob. I just assumed it was due to her really liking me, but now I've learned she did that and more with a few guys from this ministry.
A couple nights ago we both got a little tipsy after some drinks and started talking about meeting through the ministry. I knew that she had went out on a couple dates with guys from the group before me, but didn't think much of it. But she rocked my world when she told me that she had actually been passed around by some guys that knew each other and did a lot of crazy stuff with them. She said she felt bad about it now, but at the time was still horny after the serious relationship she just got out of where they fucked like crazy (also something I didn't know about). So I asked her to give me the details of the guys and she went along with it! Here's what she told me:
Bradley: he is the one that invited her to the ministry meetings. They had a class together and he was this super Christian. He would give a lot of the Bible talks at the meetings. She said they were studying together late one night and she decided to kiss him. One thing led to another and she undid his pants and sucked his dick. She said he was nervous at first but eventually got rough with her by fucking her face. He came in her mouth and it was so much she couldn't swallow it. They promised not to tell anyone else what happened. He gave a message at the following meeting about purity before marriage, lol.
James: he was good friends with Bradley and led worship. My wife now thinks that Brad told James about what they did. He asked her out and they went to the movies. Afterward they went back to his apartment and he played guitar for her. She said they started making out and pulled his cock out. "Naturally I sucked it." She said he was average and she swallowed. They went out a couple more times and he fingered her, but that's about it.
Alan: Just a guy that attended the meetings but said he wanted to be a pastor. Also friends with Brad and James. He asked her out and they ended up fucking in his car. She asked if he had a condom and his reply was "Christians shouldn't buy condoms, that's a sin." He proceeded to fuck her missionary in the backseat and pulled out and gave her a facial (her first). After that he felt really guilty and never talked to her again. He's now a pastor at a big church in our city.
Josh: This was the guy she started feeling guilty about what she was doing, and the last guy before me. Also friends with the people above. She said they fucked a ton in a span of about a week. Every position imaginable - but mostly doggy. Also lots of blowjobs. She said he liked cumming on her tits and then licking it off. Had a pregnancy scare with him, which is what ended it.
Then there was me. She blew me on our second date, but I also ate her out. She said I was the first guy since her serious bf to do that, so she thought I was special. All the other guys from the ministry were selfish, and using her to act out their repressed horniness. I'm still kind of in shock that I didn't know about any of this from our college days. But it's also really hot. I'm hoping I can get more stories about her and her bf and guys that were before him.
As promised I would tell more stories about my fiancées very hung ex. Details here:
https://www.reddit.com/r/hotpast/s/IaSAEo6qd1
After a few dates so far they have made out and she blew his big dick on his couch. But now she knew she was ready for him and from past experiences she knew to have the XL condoms ready.
Well the date went as expected and they are back in her room. After he ate her out and she got his dick nice and hard. She goes to the grab condoms and he says “ughh I really want to feel you though”. But at this time she’s not on any birth control and won’t budge on that at all. Without even a she reaches between her legs and rubs her pussy with her hands. And takes it and strokes his dick with her wetness. She says “do you feel me now?” And he moans a little. She rolls the condom on his dick, gets on her hands and knees and says “take me”.
It went on to be her best “first time ever”. In one session alone he takes her from behind, does the look in her eyes missionary, and to finish off she would ride his massive dick. Her apartment walls were thin and she knew her neighbors heard her wailing as he was pounding and she came twice on his dick.
Afterwards they were so sweaty they hopped in the shower and took their first naked selfie together. It was such a nice dick she loved it soft because it was “masculine how long and thick it was as it would hang”. To this day that little tidbit drives me crazy as a grower I don’t think she’s ever really cared for my soft dick.
I posted previously about how my wife and her friend went on holiday with two guys they lived with in uni. We were going through old photos and found one of her and her friend sitting in a really untidy apartment smoking and drinking but the thing that caught my attention was that my wife was obviously topless and holding a cushion infront of her tits as the photo was taken.
When I asked about it she told me that one of the guys had grabbed her camera to get a shot of her topless as they had been sitting drinking.
“So you were sitting drinking topless infront of two nerdy guys that you shared a house with?”
She then explained that on the first day of their trip her and her friend told the two guys that they would be sunbathing topless and to get over any awkwardness they basically took their tops off and told the guys to take a good look. After that she explained that they spent a lot of time in the apartment in a state of undress, all of them showering with the door open and often changing in front of each other.
Anyway - it was great to get the background to the photo - made it seem so much better.
Link to the post about this holiday - https://www.reddit.com/r/hotpast/s/krVp9Dfs35
I have been asking my wife about her experiences during our two years break. She was initially uncomfortable and reluctant to talk about her past.
My wife is an asian with a cute face, very smooth brown skin, has a curvy body and beautiful big ass. She dated a couple of white guys and had one relationship when she was working in Europe.
Recently we visited an adult toy shop to buy some toys and saw all sizes of dildos. She told me one of the guys she dated has a good size, so I asked her to show me that good size. She picked up a dildo rather quite thick, and I checked the size of the toy and it said 8 inches. That was quite hot. We spent quite a bit of time looking at various dildos. I took the opportunity and asked which one is closer to who etc.
Then she picked up very thick and long one and said that’s Mr T size. She told me about that guy before. He was her friend and I met him a couple of times many years back. She described his cock as big as a Corona beer bottle size, but I was not very convinced. One day we were watching porn, she pointed the actor and said Mr T has same size as the guy in the movie. I googled the actor and his name is Danny D. I can’t help but to dig deeper and found that he got 9.5 inches.
Back to the adult toy shop, when she was holding that thick and long toy ( I think its 9 inches), her fingers cannot close. I asked “ do you need to use two hands when you give BJ?”, she smiled and said Yes. I almost bursted in the shop when watching wife holding those big dildos and telling me her fuck boys sizes. I wanted to buy that 9 inches toy, but she said she can’t handle it anymore, so we choose a smaller one.
So I have recently been getting into hot pass and finally got up the courage to ask my GF of three years about some of her sexual experiences and to my surprise she was in to it. I have always know that she has had a higher body count then me because she was a little bit of a slut in college and she told me she slept with 30s guy and I only have a body count of 4. So when I asked her if I was the biggest she’s ever had I new I was not. She told me that before me here last 3 sexual partners were black guys and that they were all bigger then me by quite a bit I’m about 7 inch and she told me the biggest was about a inch or two bigger then mine and a tad bit more girthy and how they would leave her gapping after they were done with her. It surprised me how turned on a got after hearing all this and I plan on asking her more things about her past. If you have any suggestions of thing I should ask her please let me know.
My best friend is over for a visit. There was some talk that led to my best friend telling my wife his life story till today.
Once he was done, my wife started her own. At the end she told him “I would have told you about the guys as well but he(me) will feel bad”
And I was like whattttttttttttttttt. I am still processing it. I know most of it but then why she said I’ll feel bad. Bad for what?????
I love hearing of my wife's hotpast and obviously their cocks are a key aspect that I love to hear about. Understandably it is hard to describe a cock especially when memories are faded but it is fun to share pics and ask if was like this etc. For example one guy was slightly bigger than me, circumscised and bent to the side....equals fascination on my part as to how it felt etc.
I ended up finding this funny little tool that she could use to show me what their cocks and body were like, length, girth, hairyness etc.
Would love to see what your partners come up with.
My girls favourite is here https://dirtycode.io/FKC5S
She's done all her exes as far as can remember and it's been a good source of hotpast fun
My wife had a hung boyfriend in college and she told me her best sex was with him. Not just from the size but in general she says it felt like he just knew exactly what she wanted and how to give it to her. And It’s one thing to listen to how she loves it from behind or being fucked hard and rough, but she told me her most memorable moments where she came the hardest were when he had her folded up with her legs up on his shoulders.
Dont get me wrong, it’s still hot to hear about her getting railed from behind or riding it cowgirl, but it’s also sort of impersonal. Idk how to describe it except like that could be anyone with a big package. But there is something extra hot about her taking a big dick in such an intimate position, face to face with her legs on his shoulders or wrapped around his waist.
Anyway, would love to know what you’ve heard about the best positions and how you do or don’t like it
I was hanging with my FWB last weekend and somehow the topic of high school prom got brought up. I haven’t told her about my hotpast kink but I’ve gotten a few good stories here and there and I’m sure she noticed how turned on I got. I posted before about how she told me how in high school she could cum easily just from grinding on her boyfriend as they made out.
She made a comment about how a bunch of the couples at her school would get motel rooms the night of prom to go hook up after.
I asked her if she did that too and she laughed and told me how her bf didn’t want to pay for a motel room… She said ”So instead it was super romantic (sarcastically) we just parked his car in a secluded and got in the back seat and made out for a while and then I… you know..”
“Then you what??“ I needled her
”Haha you really want to hear me say it?? Ok fine I sucked his dick.”
I got super turned on just hearing her say that. I think she could tell lol. We chatted about it a little more and she told me he came in her mouth, which apparently he pretty much always did. I asked if he reciprocated and she said he never went down on her but she’d always cum from grinding on him or him rubbing her clit as they made out. It’s so hot to imagine her all dressed up in a dress that I’m sure her tits looked amazing in, sloppily making out and getting felt up by her ex and orgasming as they made out, and then sucking his cock until he came in her mouth
Sometimes it feels like I’ve run out of new stories from my girlfriend, but the other day she remembered one that she hadn’t told me yet.
Basically, she got into a relationship during her first year of college. But over the summer, one of her BFs friends told her that he was cheating on her. When she confronted him, he basically admitted to it and said that he didn’t want to be locked down in a relationship right now and they broke up.
However, only a month later they were drunk together at a party and hooked up together and became FWBs for quite a while after.
I'm not sure if she was just naive or what, but she used to tutor this boy since he lived close by, and her family was acquainted with his. She was only 21, in college, and had never had a boyfriend, not even a single proposal. So when that boy she was helping with his studies suddenly asked her out, she was pretty taken aback at first. You see, he was still in school. But she eventually caved because she felt like she needed someone to connect with, someone to share her thoughts and feelings with.
They ended up being together for three whole years, which is a pretty long time if you think about it. But she eventually realized that maybe she should've called it quits sooner. After all, how long does it really take to figure out when a relationship isn't working
The wife told me about her ex boyfriend and how he would always pull out and cum on her tits and then rub it into skin and it would drive her crazy, she would cum instantly
If you read my previous posts, you know my wife was a Division 1 cheerleader who was a total slut in college. We still have sex twice a week and she masturbates almost every morning in the shower. (She says is her form of coffee to help her wake up.) This post is about when she finally told me her body count. When we were dating and married the first few years, she always said I was #20 and told me that a few of them were one night stands. When on a work trip to Nashville (she almost always travels with me so we can enjoy some kid free dirty hotel sex) she spilled it all. We had sex the night before but neither of us could cum because we were drunk. The next morning I told her I needed to cum because the blue balls were killing me. We decided to masturbate together (this is her sure-fire way to cum). I started asking some questions as she knows her sluttiness and hotpast get me going. She was a little hungover (or still a little tipsy) so she obliged. I asked her when was the last time she masturbated besides the morning and she told me yesterday in the airport bathroom before we got on the plane. She said the anticipation of sex was killing her and she needed to cum. She said that flight without an orgasm was going to be torture. After that she started admitting all kinds of stuff. Her body count was over 40 all but a couple were one night stands or FWB. She told me that after she had sex, she would go home and masturbate thinking about how slutty she just was. She then told me the amazing story of the Orange Bowl where she fucked a backup QB and Wide receiver. The next morning, back in her room that she shared with 3 other cheerleaders, she fingered herself to an orgasm in the bathroom and - since she is crazy loud when she cums - she is sure they heard. She that was one of many times she was sure they heard her masturbating. I came three times that morning when she told me those stories. Since then she has admitted that a lot of her morning fingering herself she thinks about being slutty. Ask any thing else and I’ll do my best to answer!
I met my wife at work, I was hired and she was already working for the company. A guy I knew/know from high school also worked for this company, so they knew each other before I had met her. Me and this guy were acquaintances, knew each other etc. This dude was known for his HUGE cock, while I had never seen it, I had some friends with huge cocks and even they in convo would say but have you seen " so and so" cock, its HUGE. I never really gave it any thought then but once we started dating etc it lingered in the back of my mind wondering if my wife ( girlfriend at the time) had ever seen or fucked that cock, and wanting to see how big it is. I would ask her about past experiences and get off to them, at times I would ask her if she ever hooked up or dated this guy, she was adamant that she had not...... she did know that we knew one another and I think worried it might bother me if she had, and back then it just may have........... We have been married 20 years this year ( we are 44 and 43 married young) Our kids are older now and my wife seems to be more and more sexual, anyways about a year or so ago, I asked her again about the biggest cock she ever fucked, as she has told me about how HUGE it was, she knows I love to get off to it, it had been a longggggg time since I asked her about whether she fucked this guy or not, so I did, I said you really didn't fuck "X" because I have heard he has a huge cock, she stuck with that she had not. Either the next night or the night after, we started fooling around, and I admitted to her that I thought all along for years that it was his cock she fucked that was so huge, because I always knew he had a huge cock, she asked how I knew I started to tell her............... she stopped me and began to tell me about the time she fucked it, it was so hot, Ill admit I was a little jealous at first, thinking about how at work the 3 of us would sit around and talk. I told her had I known then I likely would have arranged for her to fuck it again as I would love to see it.......... This naughty talk has now evolved into how bad I want to see her fuck it again and how badly she wants to fuck it. Part of me thinks we would really do it, part does not. I am not sure it should be the first sharing experience? Maybe the 2nd?
Anyone else find the stories of our wives fucking guys back to back nights or multiple guys in one weekend (separately) the absolute hottest?
My wife has told me she’s done this “multiple times” but hasn’t shared many details about any of the encounters. I’ve read texts from her old phone where she told a friend she hooked up with a guy from college after a party one night (2/8/2020). About a month before that on 1/10/2020, she texted another friend that she had sex with her bumble date.
To compliment the old texts, my wife also has old journals that I’ve read with calendar. She marked everytime she hung out with this guy from bumble she met on 1/10. She fucked him that night and fucked him every weekend in January 2020. Things like “movie night with Matt ;)” etc. on 2/6/2020 she has an entry “Matt ;)” and then on 2/8/2020 she texted a friend that she hooked up with a guy from college. 🥵
She NEVER made guys rubber up and so hot that I have a timeline / proof that she fucked this Matt guy for a full month, fucked him on 2/6 and was prob texting him that entire weekend while she ended up taking a guy from college home and fucking him. 2 raw dicks in 3 nights. Best part is she fucked Matt again 4 days later on 2/12/2020 and he had no idea her pussy was ravaged raw by someone else a few days before…
She fucked Matt for a few more weeks and ended up having a short but hot af fling with another guy starting on 2/27/2020…but that’s a whole nother story 😂
What a little cock slut!!
I've been having discussions with my glorious wife who has a nice selection of hotpast stories. I believe that her telling me her hotpast stories is a form of mental domination. We are curious to now what the wider hotpast community thinks of this?
I do think this way, she doesn't......
My wife has one Halloween hotpast experience that she's told me about, it might not be too interesting to others, but of course it is for me. So just thought I'd share it.
The year before we met she had a Halloween get-together at a bar she went to a lot and they all dressed up.
She went as pennywise, outfit and facepaint and all that.
After the drinks she went home with a guy she was seeing on and off because he was staying at her place.
They didn't have sex as they were both tired, but she says she gave him head before they went to sleep, in the skirt, long socks and bra, and still with the facepaint on.
I know it's a bit of a tame story, but it's definitely an interesting visual thinking of her sucking him with her facepaint on.
Added bonus she did the same facepaint a few years ago for our Halloween. I had no idea of the story back then, but it's great looking back and knowing what she did to him with the same look
One was 8”” long and thin, “the biggest”
one was bendy, “he missed my face a few times”
one was “too small to suck”
Well, she was slutty year-round, but she always went all out for Halloween. I’m talking lingerie with cat ears-, excuse to be half-naked in public-style “costumes.”
I love looking at her old pics and thinking of all the boyfriends and ransoms who ripped those costumes off of her and had their way with her. Hoping she’ll surprise me with another slutty classic this year.
This is a fun detail that I forgot to mention earlier. My wife Rachel, loves getting spanked — either as foreplay or during sex. Sometimes I don’t smack her ass as hard or as firm as she likes and she usually likes to tease me about it.
Eventually, she started to mention that her ex, Carlos, “was really good at spanking me.” She’s a pro when it comes to dirty talk, so sometimes she’ll go into more detail about how her roommates would overhear him spanking her and tease her about it, or how he had a firmer hand than me. Pretty fucking hot to hear her say, especially after I misjudge the angle of my slap and she starts giggling about how Carlos did a better job.
My wife was dating a guy when we met. We became friends and I fell in love with her and couldn’t wait for them to break up.
Eventually they did, but I was an idiot and waited a few days. Another guy got there first. They went out on a date, and she blew him afterwards. A couple of days later she went to his house and blew him again.
At that point I couldn’t take it anymore so I asked her out. The rest is history.
Wife’s instagram account!
So my wife has had a number of bfs before me and she was one of those free spirited women whose insta is filled with her doing everyday activities with these men. None of them are sexual and to those who don’t know it would seem innocent enough (with a few more scandalous than others)
She never bothered to remove them - and me being me I never asked. So whenever I see her insta it’s a constant reminder of how many got to have her before me!