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I think the scammers forgot whose turn it was to be Jack today

1 Comment
2024/12/03
13:23 UTC

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iOS 18.1.1 Load Screen

Ever since I downloaded the update I haven't been able to access the app. Load screen just continues indefinitely with the animated logo. It's been like 4 days.

Anyone have a fix?

1 Comment
2024/12/03
12:16 UTC

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Trauma Dumped on and then Avoided?

This is a fun one. I’m pretty new to Grindr, because I’ve been in monogamous relationships I got into outside of the app. Decided I’d explore some more avenues. It’s going pretty ok! Anywho, I chatted with this guy who trauma dumped a lot and talked about being depressed before I even invited him over. Now, I shouldn’t have proceeded, but he was sweet and attractive lol. Had him over, even let him sleep over, too. So much trauma dumping, but good convos, too, had him stay till late afternoon the next day after we talked till like 3am. He’s super depressed and “wallowing” in sadness per his own words. He told me before coming over I’m “dangerous” because he knew he was gonna like me quickly.

I’m a pretty healed person, but my issue still is that I love comforting people - especially the traumatized. Me and this guy didn’t even have sex, we cuddled. Came super close, and he was literally resisting his hardest (was super grabby, hard, and all that good stuff), because he wasn’t in the best mindset (which I totally got all things considered. Plus, consent is sexy and I’d never try and convince someone of anything.) Anywho, I texted him after he kissed me goodbye like 4x and hugged me a couple after he left and no response. He took his profile pics down for a while and popped out with a new one and an empty bio. Any ideas on what’s going on with this behavior? I know I’m better off not approaching him down the line, but he’s too enticing rn 😭

5 Comments
2024/12/03
00:20 UTC

1

Black Friday/cyber Monday

Why aren’t there any sales for pro membership the holidays ? I need it like asap

1 Comment
2024/12/02
22:56 UTC

0

Ads

Anyone else getting loud adds on their phone randomly from grindr? How can.we.stop this?

1 Comment
2024/12/02
11:45 UTC

4

App won’t refresh.

My internet is fine, it’s been acting up for 2 days now. Deleted, reinstalled still won’t refresh. I’m on iPhone. How much longer is this app going to continue being a nuisance?

7 Comments
2024/12/02
11:05 UTC

2

Unable to use explore

Anyone else experience this. When exploring a new location the view profiles button is greyed out.

1 Comment
2024/12/02
00:57 UTC

8

NEW feature: Roam / Explore no longer exists??

To go to the map and explore, you can no longer explore profiles elsewhere unless you pay $5.99 to “Roam” at those places for the next hour. This now also allows them to see your profile at the set locations for that hour.

8 Comments
2024/12/01
23:04 UTC

8

Does anyone else have this problem?

3 Comments
2024/12/01
20:23 UTC

63

This is hilarious

6 Comments
2024/12/01
19:01 UTC

134

Tf do you even say to this

37 Comments
2024/11/30
21:41 UTC

4

I fell in love?

I dont know what to do! I knew a guy he is in closet súper in closet we fcked like three times, Was very passional and I’m think i fell in love. I allways think about him. When we're apart, he's really distant in his messages. I don't want to come on too strong or pressure him, but it's hard when I want to reach out. It's weird because when we're together, he's super passionate. I'm just not sure how to handle it.

9 Comments
2024/11/30
19:00 UTC

93

Very enticing

13 Comments
2024/11/30
18:53 UTC

2

Dl guys

Dude wants to meet up, but won’t show his face

4 Comments
2024/11/30
09:24 UTC

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Censorship

Reddit has become increasingly hostile toward gay men. Accounts are banned simply for defending gay sexuality or expressing valid concerns about issues affecting our community. Meanwhile, trans activists are allowed to dominate discussions, often censoring or silencing anyone who doesn’t align with their views. This platform claims to support free speech and diversity, but it’s clear they prioritize certain voices over others, leaving gay men marginalized in spaces meant for us. Highly disappointing.

0 Comments
2024/11/30
04:34 UTC

7

Grid out of order?

Hey, is anyone else experiencing this? Like the title says, the profiles on my grid aren’t sorted by location anymore.

The profiles are nearby generally speaking, but the 1st profile shown will be 50 miles away, then the 2nd will be 200 ft, and the 3rd will be 2 miles away, then the 4th will be 1000 ft away, and so on. Is this new? It’s been going on for at least a week for me, and I’m wondering if they’re quietly rolling out a new pay-for-an-ordered-grid thing or something.

This app has so many glitches nowadays, it might as well be advertised for discouraging online interactions and encouraging real social interaction / cruising, which might be a good thing, ha.

For versions, I’m on iOS 18.1.1 & Grindr 24.17.2 if that matters.

5 Comments
2024/11/30
00:26 UTC

5

How many folks have you met from the gym via Grindr?

3 Comments
2024/11/29
23:48 UTC

215

What is the Grindr equivalent of this?

40 Comments
2024/11/29
18:54 UTC

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Meth

2 Comments
2024/11/29
01:58 UTC

130

I tried. Now I know I'm totally straight

22m. It started with curiosity of anal play, and slowly developed over 2 years, mostly through sissy encouragement stuff. I loved sucking and taking a dildo from behind and would fantasize about a dominant man doing it. However, I have never been attracted to a man in any way except for cock. However, I figured the next step would be inevitable, so I lined myself up for a Grindr hookupr. It was the perfect opportunity, and I felt very safe. I ended up going through with it and the guy was nice about it. I tried everything I wanted to do, but I never finished. Just wasn't doing it for me.

I'm pround that I built up the courage, and glad I at least tried, but I won't be doing that again. Now I know I'm totally straight.

1 Comment
2024/11/28
06:43 UTC

9

Why this happen

I can open

1 Comment
2024/11/28
03:07 UTC

13

Spam Verification not loading

7 Comments
2024/11/28
02:11 UTC

27

I’m done for the night

Random message - instant block. 😮‍💨

5 Comments
2024/11/27
21:06 UTC

156

What the...?

32 Comments
2024/11/27
16:33 UTC

36

Gays be like

1 Comment
2024/11/27
13:11 UTC

81

Grindr getting rid of the block feature is unacceptable and dangerous

So they have replaced the block feature with 'hide' instead but the profiles you 'hide' can still see your profile/previous chats and still keep messaging you so what's the point? This completely violates users safety and consumer protection laws surely??? I think this my last straw and completely done with this app. Everyone should report this to grindr support and hopefully they'll reverse this.

22 Comments
2024/11/27
12:38 UTC

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