Hi! My gf just had FFS on 7/18, she had the following:

• Forehead (hairline movement, brow shave, brow lift)

• Cheek implants (size 2 of 4 aka "medium")

• Upper lip lift

• Mandible contouring (including chin, and Embrace to tighten up skin)

• Tracheal shave

Her at-home care team is her best friend and I. We were given tons of PDFs on her recovery and have following everything closely, but her main issue is that we have unfortunately discovered she has a very very high tolerance for her pain medicine (Oxycodone) and hasn't been loopy or out of it at all. She seems to not be receiving a ton of relief (if any at all) from any of her meds including her nausea meds :( We've been in close contact with the dr's office and they are aware of the situation. They are telling us to just give her words of encouragement but she's in the worst pain she's ever been in. In fact the surgeon said that he hasn't seen someone in pain anywhere near this before.

I've helped other friends with their various gender confirmation surgeries as after-care support and usually when people I've known have been on painkillers they've gotten some kind of loopiness or help with the pain, but nothing seems to be helping her at all. We've been giving her Tylenol with her Oxycodone as well, ---but it seems to just be another thing making her nauseous.--- [but it really doesn't do anything.]

We went to go see her doctor yesterday and he doubled her Oxycodone from what she was originally taking, but that also hasn't helped. He felt bad that this was happening, but didn't make any other changes to her medication other than switching her from pills to liquid, and doubling her dose, neither of which helped much at all. For all of the pain that people get during this process, it seems like she is still an outlier in that she is in way more pain that usual. He says that everything in regards to her wound care and general healing is going perfectly, so there doesn't appear to be physical issues or complications happening with her healing process. But she is in AGONY.

She has always had an extremely high tolerance for substances which we think might be related to her Oxycodone having minimal effects on her. When we eat/smoke weed (we have not been during this, I just mean in general), she has amounts that would get people really stoned, but she only has mild highs, she usually takes multiple times more than me of anything to get high. None of that is a result of regular use, she was like this from the start of using weed.

Her best friend and I are really struggling to see her like this, her emotional state is catastrophically bad as a result of all of the pain and everything she is saying (through speech-to-text, she is unable to talk much) is very demoralized and hopeless.

I don't think any of us were prepared for how little the narcotics could effect her. We were expecting the worst and keeping our expectations very low, did a TON of research, and it's somehow even worse. Even after the original anesthesia she was fairly lucid, compared to friends I've helped straight out of surgery where they are silly or not understanding what was going on, she was completely present mentally and was experiencing pain from the get-go.

Distractions aren't doing much either. We can't even do normal things to comfort her because she's sensitive to movement and sound, so she doesn't like us rubbing her arm or even really talking.

Please, if anyone has any tips for any of this or any experiences to share that could be helpful, we just need anything, this has been really hard for her and she needs anything to make her suffer less – Distractions, healing advice, encouragement – anything.

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Kyle keojampa or toby mayer for ffs, what are the differences they make and styles

What do I need . Appearantly my insurance scan don't want to get me either one of those

(https://www.reddit.com/r/Gayraceplayy/top/?sort=top&t=all)[I suppose the two y's are in there to stop you getting confused with] r/Gayraceplay

small but petty and really gross.

https://i.imgur.com/LOBF0ee.png

https://np.reddit.com/r/Politically_NSFW/comments/gt07ic/z/fspnewu

I feel like the FlatEarthers are branching out, now that discussion about their ludicrousy has reached critical levels, and they don't feel niche enough anymore.
https://www.reddit.com/r/DimensionJumping/

Came to see some, "crikey! .... really?"?

Suprised to see the newest post here is six months old?

Try https://www.reddit.com/r/jesuschristreddit/

I hear it's more frequented.

http://www.reddit.com/r/cucumbersscaringcats/comments/3zj5x7/_/

I am shamelessly promoting a new "for the lols" sub, on the sub that inspired it, and one of my comments is downvoted to hell because...?

FFS, Reddit, what exactly do you want me to do? I'm not in a situation to be able to create content for this sub.

Sorry, this almost belongs on /r/rant or /r/worstof (I'm not allowed to post it there since I'm involved).

/r/InternetHitlers

Its almost a joke, FPH got removed, but an neonazi group of holocaust deniers are still running /r/holocaust.

https://www.reddit.com/r/Incest_Captions/

http://np.reddit.com/r/heroesofthestorm/comments/2rkks1/when_im_level_40_and_playing_on_a_rank_10_hero_id/cngza8v?context=1

It started with the correcting of some capitalization, and then dozens of redditors started harassing him because he said "goes is useless", which is evidently part of his native dialect.

He ended up getting shadowbanned because he tried to defend himself in /r/SubredditDrama. (I'm assuming it's because he was posting in a no participation thread.)

http://www.reddit.com/r/AdviceAnimals/comments/2r8x3d/the_dad_isnt_too_badits_the_3_adult_women_and_8/

Comment on climate change getting upvoted

http://www.reddit.com/r/Beastiality/

seriously, im open-minded, but this is fucked.

Just look at this landfill of shit thread and all the unsolicited and generalized hate toward all arabs, muslims, and Saudis. It is absolutely fucking disgusting and the people who participated in this Hivemind should be ashamed. http://www.reddit.com/r/videos/comments/2bzh4p/saudi_kid_whipping_garbage_collector_until_he/

http://www.reddit.com/r/ShitRedditSays/comments/23j6rf/effort_whats_your_3edgy6me_idea_for_improving_the/

Redditors love to make unsubstantiated comments about police misconduct. And they just believe things without bothering with the facts.

So what do they do when you provide them a source from an anti-police website which proves their assertion wrong?

Well they censor it of course!

And then they sit there and upvote a person who can't understand that using a simple dictionary definition isn't good enough for a logical discussion.

And they upvote comments like this. Which basically state "Don't argue with someone who has proven you wrong"

And of course the blatant bias and prejudice displayed for the military

And replying with ahhaha is somehow considered valid discourse.

Not to mention the absolutely disgusting promotion of rape

http://www.reddit.com/r/trees/comments/1q0j12/my_herbal_vaporizer_ships_2day_i_need_honest/

you hit cmd-q instead of cmd-tab. >.<

/r/GreatApes

http://www.reddit.com/r/MorbidReality/comments/1fyxu7/mother_gets_viciously_beaten_9_year_old_son_looks/

/r/worldnews level of nasty comments.

Some asshole makes a "prediction" about a thread and tries to stifle any discussion about supposed sexism in advertising (hint: there isn't any).

http://www.reddit.com/r/bestof/comments/1bzv5s/splurgya_demonstrates_sexism_in_advertising_and/c9bw2da

this shit

I'm not exactly sure if this is the right place to pu this but seriously these comments are ridiculous. Ctrl+F for the word Gem and it comes up over 700 times (at the time of this post). wtf.

You can't make this stuff up!

Quick link to comment thread.

Short story is: OP's girlfriend navigates to /r/spacedicks, overreacts and slams laptop, cracking screen a bit. OP explains,

It's not unusable, just a small crack near the top of the screen.

Which is followed by a long list off comments asserting, presumably without question, that his girlfriend's overreaction is absolutely unacceptable. This is his girlfriend we're talking about; what happened to forgiveness? Some example responses:

• She owns you. Tell her to mind her own business next time.
• Make her pay for that shit
• Please tell me you haven't been letting her get away with this kind of stuff the whole 7 months you two have been together
• Yeah, that's not okay.
• does she have your balls on her desk in a jar as well?