/r/feminineboys

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A SFW text-based community to discuss the Femboy experience

RULES: avoid reading them at your peril, they are enforced. Click the link. Quick summary: no NSFW content, no creeping, no bigotry, no looking for dates and hookups.

We are fun, we are happy, we are light-hearted and chill.

We are intrinsically political and we lean left (as the right despises feminine boys), we are very community-oriented, and we work to help each other out the best we can.

We don't say bigoted things, we don't be mean to each other, we don't hurt anyone's feelings, and we don't sexually objectify each other.

We are an SFW community for feminine people who've had or have a male experience, and those who admire them (be they gay or straight), to talk about all things pretty and otherwise. <3

                  

Discord! This is a PG-13 place, so keep it classy.

Introduction posts are highly encouraged. Tell us about yourself!

                  

Similar Subreddits

/r/femboy (picture oriented subreddit)

/r/masculinegirls

RULES: avoid reading them at your peril, they are enforced. Click the link. Quick summary: no NSFW content, no creeping, no bigotry, no looking for dates and hookups.

/r/feminineboys

276,714 Subscribers

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Lonely

Ok so everyone has probably seen this before allot but how can I get a femboy BF? It’s impossible to find one in real life and online especially now in the USA😭 also I’m (19 ) and never been in a relationship with anyone or done anything not even a kiss😭

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2024/11/08
16:54 UTC

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How do I find out what size skirt I need

The title speaks for itself

2 Comments
2024/11/08
16:32 UTC

1

Fashion help

What would look good as bottoms for a lacy black bralette?

0 Comments
2024/11/08
16:28 UTC

9

Became a true femboy

Idk hot to title it, but anyway
After around year from my last failed relationships, im motivated to start new one

I wanna find some boys for date, and maybe we'll became a couple, idk)
But its finally nice to feel myself such good after so many months of sadness

Soo, bc im a femboy, i need to look like femboy, soo im gonna order some clothes and cute stuff, and maybe color my hair in sky blue!^^

Wish me a good luck :3

2 Comments
2024/11/08
16:27 UTC

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I need media with a femboy in it

Please im so desperate. I can't keep living off venti crumbs. Any kind of media is welcome. No sexual media, though. Preferably the femboy is a main character, and the joke isn't "haha you thought i was a girl". Boys who aren't skinny twinks or the traditional femboy look are extra welcome. Boys who are just into cute things are welcome too.

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2024/11/08
15:50 UTC

9

How often to wash skirts and such?

Usually I wear skirts or dresses in the evening (so a couple of hours) and wash after they've been one at least twice.

This week though I've been wearing them all day. Should I wash them after one wear?

By the way wearing all day is awesome!

2 Comments
2024/11/08
15:20 UTC

2

I need to find skin care products

I have no idea what skin care products to I need some help so I know what to order whem I get paid pls help me 🥺

4 Comments
2024/11/08
15:04 UTC

3

Frustrated because I can’t express my feminine side

Im not independent and nobody knows about this side in me and i feel like crying because i wanna explore myself so badd. Wish to be like you guys one day!!

0 Comments
2024/11/08
14:50 UTC

9

why am I so alone here

I live in a small town here in Oregon and I want to be a femboy but everyone here would judge me who h is why I'm moving to Washington with my mom (or at least trying) and I haven't see any femboys here where everyone at 😭

11 Comments
2024/11/08
14:45 UTC

5

3 full days at his place next week! (short update to previous post)

So, we've been chatting constantly since he was here. Remember the job interview? They called him on Wednesday and said he didn't get it :( He wanted to move here if he did to avoid a 4 hour daily commute and the company would have been obligated to pay his relocation costs. So yeah, bummer...

Anyway, we talked about seeing each other again and after moving a few things around both of us managed to clear up Friday, Saturday and Sunday of next week! So I'll be taking one of the earliest trains that Friday morning cause I'm pretty sure I won't be getting much sleep that night anyway, lol.

Oh, He told me to bring a semi formal set of clothes that isn't fem? I wonder what that's about but he won't tell me because it's a surprise :3

I'm already trying to figure out what to pack but idk. Definitely the Momo Ayase inspired fit i've been putting together recently! I'm just kinda clueless with the semi formal clothes he asked for. My old suit jacket and some chinos maybe?

2 Comments
2024/11/08
14:44 UTC

7

Ever feel like a fraud 😢

So I like being a femboy, even though I'm not the traditional kind, but when I see other people who are all the same, then sometimes I just feel like I'm not good enough or like kind of fraud or something. I don't have the normal body shape or physical attributes that femboys usually have, I just feel too "mainly" and fat to be a femboy. Like I really really love wearing the clothes and feeling pretty, but then I compare myself to others and I don't know I guess I just feel like I'm not good enough, on top of that I'm older than most people on here, so that's part of it as well. I don't know I guess I just feel like It's one of those things that you either have it or don't, And as badly as I want to then I just can't be that, I try to change, but maybe it's just impossible for someone like me

4 Comments
2024/11/08
14:01 UTC

2

How do I pick the best dolphin shorts <3

Idk my set of thigh highs are arriving soon and I haven't gotten the dolphins cause I'm just not sure which is the best size to pick

0 Comments
2024/11/08
13:12 UTC

29

Should I tell my bestie that I'm a femboy?

I have been friends with her for a long time. One day, she make a joke about me being a femboy (probably because how my body looks like), I was shocked that she already know that I'm a femboy but she was joking. After that happened I feel like I want to tell her that I'm a femboy but I'm scared that will be a bad idea. =~=

7 Comments
2024/11/08
13:09 UTC

1

Femboy Rant/Yap (idk where else to post this)

Ok so like this year I kinda realised I like being more feminine outside of just being twinkish (istg everytime I look at my ass its so plump how can you blame me) BUT LIKE ITS SOOO HARD like my face don't look feminine AT ALL especially when I grow facial hair (AND IM SUPER LAZY TO SHAVE + razors cost money THAT I DO NOT HAVE AS A BROKE COLLEGE STUDENT). Kinda also applies to my leg and groin hair (LIKE HOWWW TF ARE U SUPPOSED TO SHAVE THE ZONE RIGHT BETWEEN UR LEGS istg I can't reach it) and then on top of allllll that my sexuality got me confused to all hell like I like women but I also like men kinda but not all men just the feminine ones but maybe if I was more feminine that would be different IDKKKKKK. femcels/any women that enjoy feminine still remain my beloved thooo. uhhhh hmu to give me headpats or maybe more im super lonely rn and need the affection :3 OK BAIIIIIII LOVE YALL PLS LEAVE ME NICE AND HELPFUL COMMENTS

2 Comments
2024/11/08
13:02 UTC

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Can someone give me some resources about voice training?

So I really wanna have a better voice and part of that is that I want to get rid of the deep parts when I speak. So does someone have more information or websites about that?

0 Comments
2024/11/08
13:01 UTC

5

I’m so so so lonely

I live in Australia, just south of sydney and i desperately want a boyfriend >< it dosnt even have to be a femboy boyfriend just a boyfriend but it’s so hard I haven’t found ANYONE exept this guy who lives in Poland, whom I dated for all of this year and then he leaves me because we’re not alike or something idk. Ik nothing you guys say is gonna make me feel better but I’m so lonely so so so lonely I’m so lonely ( ˃̣̣̥⌓˂̣̣̥) (,,>﹏<,,)

1 Comment
2024/11/08
12:32 UTC

43

just got accused of being an actual girl pretending to be a femboy for attention 🙃

honestly, best compliment lol are there others that this happened to as well?

6 Comments
2024/11/08
12:24 UTC

53

Does girls who liké femboy exist?

Hey, i'm new in femboy community but i'm actually straigt. And i've never seen any girl that is attracted to femboy so i'm asking that. And if there is, where do i find them T-T

18 Comments
2024/11/08
12:07 UTC

3

Nails >:P

so ive been planning to grow my nails and do french dips, i just need tips to grow them fast and how to shape them (cuz im new to nails lmaooo >~<

2 Comments
2024/11/08
11:59 UTC

5

where my pinterest whores at??

IM FUCKING ADDICTED TO PINTEREST GUYS. HELP HELP HELP. i have already amassed more than 18,000 pins and because of my ocd categorized most of them into boards for real. whats wrong with me and even if i do have such a severe addiction why cant i simply follow the aesthetics i love SO MUCH?!! ITS SO WIERD because my real personality dosent really align with what you see of me on pinterest ? like whats wrong with me lmaoo. maybe its cuz i live all by myself. once i go back home, gonna buy all the shit i can and finally become the embodiment of everything my pinterest says about me hahah

3 Comments
2024/11/08
10:53 UTC

2

songs i listen to

EVANESCENCE AND MY JOLLY SAILOR BOLD FOR THE WIN i guess /??!! also my response to another post about watching femboy porn and feeling guilty for it . since today we have been so conditioned to be desenstised to people ridiculing art, be as nihilistic and cynical as possible cuz theres nothing right and wrong sometimes as anyways we dont have a rulebook to live life by, you do what you gotta do when you dont have anyone and if im being honest, we shouldnt shun away porn cuz sex is such an integral aspect of our life , i mean our bloody social structures all revolve around sex so why tf should we stigmatise something everyone does? whats wrong with sex? unless ur only doing it for pleasure, it is wrong. Do it because your hungry for another soul, do it because its your most primal most animalistic and at the same time that instinct which humanizes you and makes you a human , do not conform to what society says everyones so self rightous anyways, that being said , do not become a gooner since that is bad , watch porn like youre savoring art, which means you do not consume it all at once, watch only some of it when YOURE CRAVING TO BE WITH ANOTHER SOUL. and listen to my jolly sailor bold whilst watching it, CHANNELING THAT INNER SIREN ?!!!

0 Comments
2024/11/08
10:40 UTC

11

I want to be a pirate femboy! Any suggestions for style 😊 yaaaarggg

I wear a lot of waistcoats Cus they look CuTe and obv a hat will be Key but I’m wondering what kind of things I haven’t thought of :3

4 Comments
2024/11/08
10:04 UTC

2

any indian femboy here

if any then lets have chat

0 Comments
2024/11/08
10:01 UTC

128

Got mistaken for a girl for the first time :3

So i was just walking around my high school yard and got mistaken for a girl by 3 freshmen, the thing was i wasn't have any make up nor feminine clothes on, just the uniform, my hair was ear-length😭😭😭 I got pretty flustered but it was fun :3:3

5 Comments
2024/11/08
09:57 UTC

5

I wish more people would call me by female pronouns/Luna.

I mean I don’t really care if I get called he/his or my (male) birth name

But I wish they would call me by my other pronouns or name, it feels like nothing has changed in that department. I feel warm or fuzzy inside when they call me that

3 Comments
2024/11/08
09:27 UTC

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Femme underwear.. for guys

So i have been wearing thongs for a while. They are absolutely sexy and give my ass a really good shape^^ but at the end of the day, they were not designed with.. you know what in mind. Where do you guys get the underwear i see in all those cute posts? Really just curious

30 Comments
2024/11/08
09:25 UTC

2

Is amazon packaging discreet?

I see a bunch of people recommending kayhoma so I was gonna buy a pair of thigh highs from them, but I am worried about packaging, is it discreet or does everything purchased on amazon come in an amazon package?

2 Comments
2024/11/08
08:56 UTC

5

I'm so, so scared help

I'll just go straight to the point.

Idk why but I've been experiencing hair fall more than ever, esp after I'm letting my hair grow. The normal range for hair fall per day is around 50-100, ig mine's beyond that lol :'

The only thing that I've done to my hair was smoothing it around a month ago, and that's it (i was just trying new things). I've never applied any sort of chemical or whatever it is on my hair, at all. I just let it grow, and thats it.

Im so genuinely concerned rn, I've never been this scared before :(

8 Comments
2024/11/08
08:35 UTC

1

Regarding equality

I just really hope we can reach a point were the lgbtqia+ community is treated equally. It would truly warm my heart if everyone would come together to make it happen. Although ik that this will sadly not probably never happen

0 Comments
2024/11/08
08:29 UTC

5

Home alone

Being home a lon is pretty neat, even more neat when you can dress up all cute with a skirt.

4 Comments
2024/11/08
08:13 UTC

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