My family obviously does not support me being a femboy or a aspiring trans so I keep it to myself and crossdress occasionally.

I usually crossdress on Saturday because it’s the only day where I’m guaranteed time away from my family, as both my mom and dad have to go to work and I’m alone for 3-5 hours, however just like everything good in my life, it fucking ends at a point.

My brother moved in a few months ago from Congo, my family is from there, and just by that you can assume just how much my parents will hate me if they find out I’m doing this.

we were preparing for him to stay here, but he just stayed with my other older brother, who lives almost an hour away from me, I thought he was going to stay there, but fuck me.

Less then a week ago he appeared and moved in with us, and honestly I didn’t mind it, until recently, I was praying for his off day to be ANYTHING other then Saturday, as it’s the one time I’m able to do what I want and express myself.

Today is Friday, I saw my brother just sitting there on the couch, just sitting there, he told me it was his off day.

I stood there for a moment, since work will give you 2 off days per week, this means that either Thursday or Saturday is his other off-day.

If it wasn’t obvious enough, when I asked, it was Saturday.

I now have no time of the day where I’m safe to crossdress, and I need help, because if I get caught or can’t do this, istg I will just kms

so i've been really really insecure about my body hair, but i was so insanely scared to shave because i was afraid i'd cut myself and i don't do well with blood, BUT I JUST FUCKING DID IT FLAWLESSLY! most of it is shaved, of course maybe one or two hairs left behind, but i'm still really proud of myself!!

I really wanna get some more cute clothes I see, but there's no real way to do it without being caught I need tracked packages or some alternatives better than me waiting for packages, I can't risk getting caught, I just want thigh highs, garters, more skirts, colorful tights, socks and all the cute other stuff! Please help as Kmarts selection is bland and sucks and well Kmart ordering is also a risky take for not the best selection of stuff <333

I've been growing out my hair since September and it's long enough to get in my eyes now, and I frickin' love it and think it looks cute :3

My mom said a few weeks ago that I should get a haircut, but she saw my hair today and said it looks really good longer, and that she's okay with it as long as I keep it tidy.

This was such a happy moment for me, as I've had pretty short hair my entire life and want to experiment with growing my hair out to appear more femme and cute. Really excited to see how my hair looks as it grows longer!

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Hey everyone!

I’m sure this has been asked before but I’ve only recently thought about getting some shoes. Given the shoes are in women sizes and usually have a limited size run. Is there an accurate way to check size conversion. For reference I’m an a UK men’s size 10.

As the posts probably implies I was trying to see if other people had similar experiences symptoms of borderlines and how they are bullied for thier condition. Now I won't lie I was having a hard time with symptoms of the condition at the time too so am obivously more sympathetic to them when I found r/bpdlovedones.

I don't even have borderline( I have schizotypal) and as soon as I saw this page it started causing such a firey disgust in me for several reasons. One: I know people with borderline and they are almost always the ones getting /exploited by others and this page reflects the real life attidudes towards borderlines. Constantly these people because of thier often noticably different reactions and actions to others are singled out and harrassed for something they can't control. Two: since I have similar problems to borderlines the page reminds me of the people who used to bully me and the people I know.

I remember getting bullied/beat up for how dressed and talked strange at school while also coming home to a dysfunctional family with a alcholoic father. these people in this page where the ones who just justified bullying against me. It was also misreable against my borderline friends because they would get both emotionally and mentally destroyed by the rampent bully, especially since many would pretend to be there friends.

Both of us would cut ourselves in areas our parents couldn't see. Eventually for one of my friends the constant beating and bullying by peers got so bad he took his father rifle and shot himself. I still remember hearing the news unable able to even cry due to mental issues expressing emotion as one the only people I trusted killed himself. One of the reasons for his death is because people like those in bpdlovedones constantly peddle misinformation about disorders because they are abused themselves and want to hurt a certian group of people that is the object of hatred. And too this day non of my friends can talk about bpd issues because of eaves dropping and them getting harassed horribly again. Everyone there is a filthy pos and I hate all of them browsing there bullshit has taught me never to trust normal people even less because of the casual dehumanizing.

And before anyone says "oh you are targetting a support group" fistly if we replace bpd with let's say trans or gender dysphoria you would be rightfully called out. Secondly I don't think this forum should be shut down people should have place to say disgusting things( but I have the right to call it out and say your community is disgusting ect. And too those people who don't think this an abelist page there are examples of them comparing people with bpd to animals/machines, advocating for descrimination, and routinly saying people who have this disorder can never get better and are all evil( that is serious what some people say) . Sorry for somewhat unrelated vent just really disgusted in how horribly the mentally ill are stigmatized too this day. This also goes for other disorders like aspd,npd and schizophrenia.

I said no. I don't know why I said no, I can't even talk to most people I know about it seeing as I'm only out as bi to 3 people. I feel so stupid, I don't even know why I said no I think I was thinking that I like to be alone forgetting how lonely I always end up feeling ever that or I didn't want to hide the relationship but I've always told myself that the way I'd come out to my parents was by just casually saying I have a bf, I haven't seen the person who tried to set me up for a day now so I don't even have the ability to ask for there number again for 2 days so it's looking like another lonely February for me. Sorry for this being a bit rangy and thank you for reading TLDR: friend tried to set me up with a guy I said no I regret it and can't ask for the guys number until at least monday

I'm not sure what age I should start dressing

I'm not sure what age I should start dressing

Howdy, after epilating about a week ago, I got four big red spots on the top of my left thigh. They aren’t infected, and I’m not sure that they’re ingrowns either because they don’t really hurt.

I exfoliate and moisturize frequently, so I’m just not sure what it could be. I also clean my epilator head every time I use it.

Any advice would be appreciated

So I went out to the mall today to look for some garters to hold my thigh highs up but I didn’t find any. I would like to know if there’s any sort of “alternative” to garters, as I may look in more places and fail to find what I had in mind [also I can't use Amazon as I am skeptical of the quality of the items there].

I hope someone can answer my question, thanks in advance. [also this is my first post here :3]

I wanna order clothes like femboys but my parents might find out :sob

Any small things y'all do to make a more masculine outfit feel or look a bit more feminine and would be willing to share?

Sometimes I feel not cut out and like quiting but I enjoy it so much I'm fairly new. I'm just kinda slumped

So, I used to be fat (62kg 160cm at the start of the summer) and I started going to the gym mid summer>figured everything out on September (dieting, training and stuff) and by Christmas i was 55kg 165cm (after Christmas I was 57,5~ Yea I ate...). And I realised I wanted to be femboy on abt new years (that was my Christmas present I guess :3) and i just want to be skinny. Rn I'm at 55-56 stopped going to the gym cuz I don't want muscle. And here is my problem, how can I lose the muscle, I have really good triceps an ok chest a good back and my legs are skinny cuz I always skipped leg day :) also have never done glutes (never had a glute pump in my life). And now that I'm getting leaner by kinda starving myself my muscles start to have more definition which I dont want at all (especially my huge triceps T_T suffering from success..). Do u guys know how I can lose muscle? I looked online and it says that cuz of testosterone I can't really lose a lot of my muscle. I'm almost 15 btw

Thx for Ur time reading all of my yapping :3

So for about a year now i have been bisexual and very interested into feminine stuff thigh highs, skirts, etc and my parents don’t know about any of this and i am scared to tell them because one time my dads friends sent a pride flag and my mom said “we do not support this type of stuff in this house” and proceeded to throw it away and on multiple occasions my dad talked about my cousin that is pansexual and said shes “messed up in the head cause of her lesbian sister” and I don’t feel like if i came out they would support me and if i ordered thigh highs or anything of the sorts i am afraid they would check the package or i would get away with it because i am a nerd and order stuff a-lot for pcs and 3d printers and i don’t know what to do so does anyone know what to do in this situation? Also sorry for any typos i am on a bumpy bus.

Edit: i also forgot to include that i have been growing my hair out on and off and the first time i did when it was at my shoulders my dad would constantly call me gay and i don’t remember but i think he said the f-slur once be i cant be sure.

Hey, i’m a wannabe femboy, and I’m looking to start doing it fully (clothes, shave fully, loose weight ect). I’ve already came out to my girlfriend and she was very supportive and welcoming about it, but I think that’s only because she’s the only person who knows that I’m not fully masculine. My whole family see’s me as ‘the man of the house’ as we have no father figure and I’m the oldest and tallest in the house as of writing, so I think coming out as being a femboy might make things weird for everyone and make everyone act different towards me.

I’m really hoping someone can help me here since I really just wanna do femboy stuff without panicking and hoping no one finds out, any help is appreciated (also, please keep in mind that I’m 16, so staying stuff that only applies to full on adults won’t help)

Hello I personally am new to being a femboy. What is the best place to purchase clothes like thigh highs, skirts and accessories like that.

Hey everyone I just have a few questions because I’m not sure on what to do, I’ve had thigh highs and stuff for a while and want to get more into everything but idk where to start and as someone that doesn’t like body hair it’s been bugging me because I want to get it all off of me but I’m not sure the best way bec I never been good at shaving and I want to make another account in time and post pictures and stuff. If anyone has any tips or advice/support all is appreciated. It’s weird discussing with people because I’ve told my uni and friends that feminine things make me happier and I need advice on how to start everything.

hiiiiii.

so im a femboy and im just wondering whats the ideal weight, height, and bmi for a femboy AND the maximum measurements where someone can still be considered a femboy.

ty in advance!!!! ^_^

I(M20) went out with some friends yesterday and i wore a cute genderless outfit, did my hair in a really cute ponytail and wore some light makeup. I felt really really pretty and cute >w< so i was hoping it'll be a good day out. This was my first time meeting these friends in a while and i'm not out to them yet but i sort of let my femboy side out with my appearance and mannerisms ooh also i think i hinted at my bisexuality but i don't remember if i did TT Thankfully this didn't raise any concerns from them and they seemed really chill with it all. Only thing they said was that i've got a twink body and lost a lot of weight lolololol

We were walking around and some teenage boys started hurling insults at mostly me, calling me homophobic slurs and derogatory insults because of how i carry myself and my looks. They then tried to instigate a physical tussle with my friends too and i kept warning them that it'll get ugly since i'm a karate black belt and that it's not something they want - basically showing them that even though i look and act cute, i have a no-nonsense side too. My friends obviousl6 did their part too to de-escalate the tension. I think the boys took those words seriously and decided to back off but it got me thinking.

I wasn't really angry about the actual insults. I wasn't angry at all. Just frustrated that they wanted to start a fist fight for no reason but i didn't feel anything personal towards them or the situation. I soon figured that the reason i didn't get mad was because i'm confident in who i am. Like i have no shame in my identity and sexuality - it's a part of who i am!! Although i haven't taken the time to explain this stuff to my friends, they seem to understand and respect how i am and i admire them for that <3 if someone's happy being who they are, why bother messing around with that?

I love myself for who i am and i think i'm perfect just the way that i am :DI wanted to let you girlies also know that you are all great and cute the way you all are and to take pride in who you are!!

Have a blessed day everyone :3 and hope my yapping didn't take too much of your time TT

lonely depressing isolating nobody likes me nobody talks to me im so alone & everybody hates me 😔idk howto talk to ppl anymore honestly

I was wearing a sweater, short skirt and tights.

I started the morning packing up to check out at a hotel. I was deliberating on whether to dress in fem clothes or just masc clothes. I said screw it and just went out fem.

I checked out at a hotel with a male employee. No issues there. I walked downtown in a big city. Didn't notice any glances, but I was wearing a hat and face mask, and have shoulder length hair.

I rode a train to the airport. One or two people looked at me as I entered the train.

I entered the airport, took off my hat and proceeded to security. Most people didn't look or care. A few people gave quick glances when they were close to me. I took off my shoes, put my bag, electronics, and belongings through security and the agents didn't care or look at me funny. One lady turned her head and stared at me for a second or two after I exited security.

I put my hat back on. I ordered lunch and the employee didn't seem to care. I went to my gate and only saw very few people looking along the way. As I arrived at my gate and a few people took a quick look at me. I sat at a seat and one lady passing shot me a glare. My bag had to be checked in and one female employee addressed me as "ma'am". I got a few looks while waiting in line.

Inside the plane, I look my hat off again and sat next to two males. I could see that they were periodically making quick looks at me and the clothes I was wearing.

After flying, I got off and went to my next flight. I didn't catch many looks or stares if at all. I went inside a men's bathroom to get changed into masc clothes because the flight I was boarding next was small, and where I was going was a small town and I didn't want to meet anyone I knew dressed like that. Inside the male bathroom I DEFINITELY got stares. I entered a stall and changed. As I exited, I saw two young teens (?) smiling and laughing in my direction from a distance.

Overall it was a good / fairly ok experience. I definitely want to do that again!

P.S: This was a flight from a city in a very liberal state in the US to another city in a liberal state. Also be careful at night in shady alleyways because I got asked for sexual favors once.

I´m a 35 year old male just out of a bad relationship with a female and wanted to try the femboy lifestyle now. I shaved my legs today and have to say it feels good, but I have Keratosis pilaris (little red spots on my skin), which i never cared for before as it´s not dangerous but now they are disturbing the that I want to my legs to have.

How do I approach a femboy? I never can tell who is who.

Need a friendly open-minded femboy to chat with on Discord/telegram! Pls? I'm lonely :<

I'm not really a girl and i'm not really a guy. Like i don't fit in with either group.

If males and females were two lands sepperated by a river, i'm in the middle of the river, stuck in a vortex, unable to get to land.

I just want to fit in. I want to belong

Im so happy right now, i was already feeling pretty confident before going out but on the walk i was stopped twice by someone complimenting me, the first time a girl said she liked my hair and how I style it and the second person said I look awesome, I also heard a guy whistle after passing me lol

You know, when I was growing up I always tried to be "masculine" as it was the rules of society. I tend to withdraw or reject anything feminine because I was a "man". I so glad I getting over this toxicity that been rotting my brain for over a decade. I been embracing my fem side ever since. I can not wait to try out femboy clothes, but I have to wait for my psychologist cuz dad said so. (So shocked he is willing to support me) still pretty anxious with anticipation and impatience.