/r/feminineboys
A SFW text-based community to discuss the Femboy experience
We are fun, we are happy, we are light-hearted and chill.
We are intrinsically political and we lean left (as the right despises feminine boys), we are very community-oriented, and we work to help each other out the best we can.
We don't say bigoted things, we don't be mean to each other, we don't hurt anyone's feelings, and we don't sexually objectify each other.
We are an SFW community for feminine people who've had or have a male experience, and those who admire them (be they gay or straight), to talk about all things pretty and otherwise. <3
Discord! This is a PG-13 place, so keep it classy.
Introduction posts are highly encouraged. Tell us about yourself!
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/r/feminineboys
Second repost since I worded the title wrong!!
I'm 16 and I want to find people I could relate to at my age. Most of the people I've met on communities that I've seen are either weird or just plain rude.
Where could I find servers with femboys at my age or smth like that idk lol
I am 15 years old and a male I love cute femboys and I am kind and nice too . I just want to love a femboy and cuddle with them . I am looking for someone around my age and who wants to be in a long relationship .
Hi..it all started when i was 14 when my house warming was about happen in a few days...many relatives and friends and more comes and goes into my home and there was my sister who knows i like crossdressing. We got some free time later that afternoon and i went to her home for some kind of household work and after finishing that... My sister was preparing her face for the evening. I went and sat beside her and she asked me whether i need to apply a little makeup, i said with a pause 'if you want you can apply' then sister teased me like ohh so you dont want to apply makeup like you dont like this, i then began to beg to make me a girl for sometime. She said ok ok.
She said to remove my shirt and stay with the trouser on. Then i did as she said i was not masculine with less body hair with slender body. I could easily pass as a girl. Then my sister went and took a blue and white gown and told me to raise both of my hands. And she helped me wear it with the back zipper. And i was feeling so different by the look at her face i knew that i looked pretty even without makeup. I looked at the mirror and i saw a teenage pretty girl like a late bloomer.🫢🍷 Sister held my hand and took me into another room and began to do my makeup, i have been doing makeup for a long time so i know what were the products she was going to apply. At first she applied foundation with her finger and blended it with a brush and she applied concealer. Then asked me that what kind of wing do i need for my eyeliner i told her i like to be bold and wingy type she said ofcourse i will make you like a doll and she took blue eyeshadow and applied it like a pro into half the eye and rest the half was applied with pink, making my eyes look glittery.My eyes was then applied eyeliner with bold wavy wing.i was very eager to see me. Then she took a studded bindi and put it in my nose making it look like a nosepin. Then was the last part there came her lipstick nyka red matte bold she applied it with a lipstick pen to make my lips look full. I was fully dolled up. Sorry i forgot to tell that my sister was a part time makeup artist who does makeup for brides etc.So it was not a big deal for her. Then i saw her taking photos of me looking at the mirror and adoring myself.i told her to stop but suddenly i saw aunt coming up to the floor and she saw me smiled and told me you should have born a girl and she took a photo and send it to the family group.🫠🙈 Most of them complimented about my look but some of them came up with the stereotypical comments. My aunt and sister has exposed me to the family so i kept this habit undercover from that time now i only do this alone. Im now 23 and still doing this happily and the sexual spectrum of mine has grown a long way in these years and i realised that im bi. Happily ever after.♥️
Hiya! i've already asked but i made a new account!
Basically, i need help on how to tell my parents that i'm a femboy! i don't think they're homophobic, but i don't know what are their response! if someone has an idea like, do i do a letter or do i just tell them!?
Like many other femboys I am closeted from most of society; there are at most 6 people who know about me. I want to potentially get into the dating scene but I don’t wanna trick those around me into thinking I’m one thing but behind closed doors I’m another. Is there any accessories or dressing styles (outside of just going out in a skirt cuz it’s cold in Canada) that are rlly good for showing those around me I’m actually a femboy without being obvious about it??? Thanks so much in advance ^-^
So this morning, I asked my mom if she knew where my pink arm warmers were. She told me that I will never wear those again. She didn't give me a reason. I then did research to see if what my mom did would be considered theft, and in the state of Florida, if your parents don't have a reason to take away something you bought with your own money, it is theft. I will tell her this and if she doesn't give me my shit back, I will threaten her with a police report. I don't care if she sends me to my dad's house. And if she sends me to a conversion camp, I will pull my last resort and I will commit. If I can't be loved for who I am, why live? Am I right? Anyways, I'll give y'all an update later.
So recently I’ve became bi, and I’ve been trying to look for mostly guys and I jus can’t seem to even remotely find one, hell I even tried some of my friends and they all said they don’t like that sorta thing, what would you guys do if you were in my situation?
so i started my femboy journey but i knew for that i need to be fit and lose some weight, but then that phase comes up which makes me lazy and i lose my motivation "Whats the point" question popups. Question like why u need a skirt, okay i bought it i wore it look cute for a sec NOW WHat?, i spin now what?, i mean when these question popup i just get bore,lazy and just do nothing. Can anyone help
I’m 19 now feels great I’m quite happy :3
Wishing good day or all of you!
So a few days ago I said that this girl said I was attractive and I might have a chance with her, so like yesterday she sent some pictures and OMG SHE IS GORGEOUS, she is so beautiful and I was not expecting her to look like that, I honestly don't know what I was thinking what she looked like
Hiya! i've been thinking lately on how can i be more "Feminine" without my parents noticing!? (i'm 13)
So im 19 years old, moved out of my parents place about a year ago and have been trying to find myself ever since. As a kid, i never really got the chance to find my own style as my mom always wanted to choose everything for me design-wise (from my room to even my clothes and outfits). Being the people pleaser that i am i always said yes, but thanks to my current gf ive realized that i dont know who i even really am and really want to find out. Ive also been feeling like i have some kind of repressed memories because i barely remember anything that is longer than 4 years ago.
Thanks to multiple factors ive had multiple bad phases where my mental was very bad because i dont even know who i am. I know that i love cute things that i desperately crave attention and kind of approval of others because i never really got any as a child, but thats about it. I also know that i am bisexual so ive been thinking of myself in a same-sex relationship aswell and what i would be like in it. Ultimately i havent been able to decide on anything else yet. I also havent came out as bisexual to anyone except one very close friend.
In the last few days ive suddenly been thinking of if i might just not know myself because i dont feel that comfortable in my body. Ive always been jealous of girls for being able to look so damn cute, while telling myself that i will never be able to achieve that, simply because i was born as a boy. So, with that thought in mind i tried on some of my gf's clothes today and i gotta say, it does make me feel good i think. Im not satisfied with myself still but i do love the aesthetic of it and really want to keep wearing it (ive even kept on the skirt for a few hours now and really like it).
Now the main problem for me is though, how do i know if i just like being a femboy or if im trans feminine? I dont mind being called a guy as of now and also dont mind not having the genitalia of a woman, but still i dont know. Im also unsure if this is just my mind making me do stuff for attention again. Please let me know what you think and help me because this whole thing has been really stressing me out again lately. :(
Ill ofc also answer questions if i explained anything too vaguely or something.
TLDR: im trying to find myself and like wearing feminine cute clothes but am unsure if im trans feminine or a femboy :(
I find it kinda weird how half these posts are very obviously by children dealing with junior high/high school drama. While it's great that they have a space to talk shit out as an adult it feels strange being in on it all. Idk.
I started out as what would be called a twink in the mid 1960's then I began exploring feminity and began cross dressing full time after the military . Then went full blown trans 1989. I loved women . Looking like one but then something inside me changed after years of estrogen . I haven't been with a woman since 1980 . I sleep with men now and I love it . You will too I think
I want to dress up as a femboy and all of it, but i saw many pica of femboys and i'm fat qwp and don't know if i can be one, lr either if it would look good on me qwp
I was just too scared to buy some thigh highs last week lol and now i have an entire outfit with a skirt crop top and wig a week later. I cant stop staring at myself in the mirror xD
MY FRIENDS SUSPECT IM A FEMBOY SO I JUST TOLD THEM "what if im im trans hm🤔🤔🤔" AND THEY LEFT ME ON DELIVERED IM NOW SCARED THEY WILL THINK IM TRANS AND IM NOT I think it would be better if I just said yea im a femboy or something >_<
hi, I am 17 years old and I want to become a femboy. I have always wanted to, but I sometimes retreat from fear. What are your tips?
Heya, so I'm a femboy and bisexual... (And demi-sexual) But I'm not really interested in girls, I don't want a relationship with girls and I find guys much more attractive... (I only like guys).... I guess Im kinda attracted to girls.... But not irl? I haven't been attracted to anyone irl... romantically or sexuality, If I do see someone my brain is like "oh that guys pretty, that fashion choice is interesting, he has something going on, I wonder if I should get earings/tattoos/whatever cought my eye in the first place", same thing for girls if a girl catches my eye I'm like "yeah her fashion is nice, her dyed hair is interesting too, I wonder if that color would be good on me" or "oh man I want that skirt so bad"
Idk what this means but I'm just confused
Been feeling lonely for the past couple of months since most of the people I've talked to don't really relate to me.
And most of who do are pretty older than me :(
Soo.. as the title says.. yah
edit: forgot to say my age on this post but im 16!!
What underwear do you guys prefer to wear?
I've been wearing boxer briefs for as long as I can remember, and they're ok I guess. They're just annoying when the legs slip upward and you've gotta pull them down again.
I also own a pair of panties, but they're really not comfortable with half of my stuff hanging out. Perhaps I just bought 'em a couple sizes too small.
Now I've been thinking about buying some "normal" briefs (without legs) as kind of a middle ground. Since they're made for men, they should be able to comfortably contain my junk, right?
This is obviously not some huge life decision or anything; I'm probably going to try it out regardless.
I'm just curious what this r/ has to say about underwear.
I'm kind of an average semi closeted femboy, as in all my friends and some others know I'm a femboy, but I don't openly express it publicly and have never gone out in public in a skirt. I've got an event coming up at my school and my year gets too dress up. My girlfriend, friends and a teacher are encouraging me too go in a skirt but I'm a little nervous :< Would anyone be able too give some tips too feel more confident with myself? It'd be a great help :3
Hello, I am a Mexican 23 year old male. I am currently struggling with early stages as most do. I’ve come out to my mom a few months ago & she’s accepted me & said she loves me but I haven’t told anyone else. I’m sacred to tell my brothers who are younger as I’ve repeatedly made fun of Femboy’s & trans as a way to make myself seem straight as possible but now I feel it may cause a problem when coming out to them. I know they would accept me & love me as I am very close to all my family. I do have a gf as well who I love & adore so much & would hate to lose her but me become a Femboy would end up as she has made it clear she wants a strong masculine boyfriend numerous times & that’s not what I want for myself. The way I view & identity myself is quite literally a Femboy, I don’t think I am a woman or born in the wrong body, I just want to be soft & feminine. I love feeling feminine, I love the feminine fashion, lifestyle, feelings, smells. Femininity is perfect to me, gives me peace & happiness but I am absolutely terrified of the possibility of what I may lose which is my relationship with family, friends & gf. There’s always that fear that keeps holding me back & not going for it. I wonder if anyone has felt the way I feel on everything, on just wanting to be a Femboy, not trying to be a woman or feel like they were born a woman, just wanting to be a feminine male & being scared of possibly losing people or certain established bonds. I feel as I am alone in this specific situation.
So I got a onesie horray, but wearing it I fall asleep too fast to sleep call my bf, can someone explain how there is something this comfy that actually exists?
Just gonna jump right into this kind of rant I have and you might want to read my last post for some background context. So basically a while ago I had a crush on one of my friends at school when he made me sit on his lap one time. Back then I decided to just let my feelings for him just recede and pass on since I'm pretty sure he just acts gay and isn't actually gay and since I get extreme anxiety when it comes to basically anything but things like relationships makes me feel REALLY nervous. Fast forward to today when I was texting him on discord about a problem I had with someone bullying me. He texted me that if the person bullying me even touches me he would beat him up. When he texted that it just reignited all my feelings for him and that made me begin to realise that I never could love him and hug him and show him affection since he's not gay and me and him will never be. So now I'm worried that I might die alone or never find anyone since I'm too afraid to find anyone. But anyway that's all I have to say and sorry if I didn't explain this post well as I have trouble saying what's on my mind
I’m 20 M and I feel like there’s no hope for me for multiple reasons, when i was younger i didn’t care, and my parents didn’t care about my weight so now i have to suffer, (im 5,7 and about 180lbs) ive lost weight and im continuing to but i know ill be left with a little loose skin and never have an actual nice body, i know i can still be a femboy but not like i want to, i also grow so much freaking body hair it’s not fair i genuinely don’t know how i would keep up with it, and i get intone hairs and razor bumps so easily, i know nothing about proper skin care but ive been trying and my skin has gotten a little better with less acne, i know i want to change and i know i would be happier if i did. Ive shaved my thighs and continue to (i’d shave more but i still live at home and if my parents found out i have no idea what they’d do). The feeling of having smooth skin is so nice, and i even bought thigh highs to try, and im not going to lie even i though it was kinda attractive when i had them on but that’s it that’s the only thing that looks nice are my legs, i just wish i could properly be feminine, ive always liked feminine stuff even since i was a kid and i like being feminine too and it sucks i cant enjoy it without looking absolutely ridiculous. I just wish i was skinny and didn’t have so much hair, i wish i cared about myself earlier on then i wouldn’t be in this situation.
So if you actually read my yap session do you think i have any hope?
I have many feminine hobbies, I like art, making art in feminine style, I love fashion and I can appreciate women's fashion and style, I also used them as inspiration as it's more varied. My artist name was also a gender neutral name. I also can emphasize with women.
It all started weeks ago when I crossdressed. I played with the idea for a while and it was nice, I also did it as an escape from stressful period. however I read stories of people becoming perverts regarding this idea (not saying everyone does this just perverted stories) or who ended up transitioning and I got scared if this idea will lead me to these paths that I desperately not want. Some of the stories were very disturbing and have been haunting me since.
From that point I experienced heavily increased anxiety and trouble enjoying my hobbies.
As for my gender identity I am a man, I am okay being one, and I feel that it's stressful that I have to prove that I am okay with who I am in the face of this anxiety. I mean, if anything, my only issue up until now is that I haven't been masculine enough. I don't want to be a woman, I know I crossdressed but I dont want this to be me as a permanent identity, but I have obsessions telling me I am lying to myself and now I am forced to see a life of either living in denial and experiencing mental illness or having to transition to be a woman which I DO NOT WANT. Like someone else is deciding my fate. I know people may say it's my choice but it's really not because if I would be trans I would experience mental issues for not transitioning.
No offense but the way people present this trans thing, they kinda tell it like I have some illness that me expreincing symptoms is 100% likely that I am having it and I cannot run away from it and it will overtake me. It also frightens me to see people who questioned themselves and turned out to be trans.
I don't want to dress up forever!!
Okie so story time fellas. I was lookin for modeling clay in the garage because my dad told me his might be in there. I go diggin and I find a celebrations box with make up in. I know it's not my mum's because she doesn't put make up on. I found a black lipstick and dark purple and black nail polish that really match my aesthetic. The issue is they don't have a best before date on em. Are they safe to use? I don't know how old they are but they seem intact and fine as far as I can tell. What do you guys think I should do? Lov ya fellas :3
my mom and dad refuses to buy me a razor for my body because quote "why would you need to shave?"
they keep making the same argument that men wear pants and you cant even see legs or like that it looks weird hairless
but i want to be a smooth lil boy how do i make them buy me a razor? (also i will NOT tell them that i am a femboy cuz they homophobic asf)