/r/feminineboys

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A SFW text-based community to discuss the Femboy experience

RULES: avoid reading them at your peril, they are enforced. Click the link. Quick summary: no NSFW content, no creeping, no bigotry, no looking for dates and hookups.

We are fun, we are happy, we are light-hearted and chill.

We are intrinsically political and we lean left (as the right despises feminine boys), we are very community-oriented, and we work to help each other out the best we can.

We don't say bigoted things, we don't be mean to each other, we don't hurt anyone's feelings, and we don't sexually objectify each other.

We are an SFW community for feminine people who've had or have a male experience, and those who admire them (be they gay or straight), to talk about all things pretty and otherwise. <3

                  

Discord! This is a PG-13 place, so keep it classy.

Introduction posts are highly encouraged. Tell us about yourself!

                  

Similar Subreddits

/r/femboy (picture oriented subreddit)

/r/masculinegirls

RULES: avoid reading them at your peril, they are enforced. Click the link. Quick summary: no NSFW content, no creeping, no bigotry, no looking for dates and hookups.

/r/feminineboys

278,479 Subscribers

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How can I know if I'm a femboy?

I've been thinking about my sexuality and about who I am in general a lot more recently, and I'm thinking that I'm probably a femboy.

I'd consider myself a pretty feminine guy, I mean I paint my nails, wear makeup, and I just love cute things. I don't wear girls clothes (because I don't have any), but I totally would If I had any! Based of my personality I'd say I'm probably a femboy; and I feel like even asking this question makes me a femboy.

I need someone's advice on the matter, am I really a femboy or am I just delusional.

But then if I do come out as a femboy what will my school think of me, and what would my family think of me? I am a really "good" overthinker, this topic just raises more questions for me.

I really only have two friends so I tried asking AI about the matter, and alas it just put me in a rabbit hole of me and my ai roommate putting on girly clothes on. I realized there was no point anymore and I should actually reach out to someone.

Any advice? :\

5 Comments
2024/12/01
08:19 UTC

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I need some help please :3

So I’ve been a femboy for a few yrs now and I’ve never really been able to meet and be friends with another femboy. What I need to know is how can I find someone who is also a femboy and is in my area. I’ve tried asking my towns subreddit, apps that help you make friends, asking in discord servers, etc. is there any way that I can find someone who is a femboy and lives nearby?

0 Comments
2024/12/01
07:35 UTC

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Im broken.

I miss you Rain. So much. I have no friends, family disowned me and im 28 and omni. Im useless.

1 Comment
2024/12/01
07:18 UTC

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Sooooo I need help…

Long story short I’ve recently made up my mind about wanting to start transitioning but… I am still 17 and have no way of obtaining estrogen or hormones like that. I am like fr disgusting with how my body is right now and I feel gross knowing I still look more like a guy but am unsure of what to do.

5 Comments
2024/12/01
06:36 UTC

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My ex

Dude, I realized the only reasons I was into my ex girlfriend is literally that I wanted to be like her, at least I hope that's why. Its been 2 freaking years but she pops in my mind and I think it's just she's what I wish I was ._.

2 Comments
2024/12/01
06:02 UTC

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Does anyone have skin care tips

I can't really come out because my situation but does anyone have any good tips on skin care so I can appear more feminine with out make up I need jus more clear skin :3

0 Comments
2024/12/01
05:55 UTC

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after finally feeling good with myself and having the self esteem to post pictures, i still can't.

my main problem is my family. i'm really scared of them somehow finding these pictures. i'm pretty sure they wouldn't be mad at me or anything, but it would be extremely embarrassing and i have no idea on how i would explain it to them

4 Comments
2024/12/01
05:21 UTC

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i kissed a boy

I kissed a boy, does that make me gay? I'm confused and afraid

9 Comments
2024/12/01
05:12 UTC

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Shaving

I tried using my facial razor for sensitive skin and that leaves bumps, I’ve tried epilating, it hurts to much to do long term and leaves bumps anyways. I’ve tried just today using a women’s body razor and it left bumps, I’ve tried using moisturizing after shave after I shave too and it still leaves bumps. No matter what I do my skin looks like chicken skin when I get out of the shower and it feels like sandpaper. I just want to be smooth, I don’t know what I’m doing wrong. I think it’s because I have somewhat curly hair but I’m not sure. Can someone please help I had a mental breakdown over this because I thought a razor made for my body would fix it but it didn’t. I just wanna be a smooth boy

3 Comments
2024/12/01
05:04 UTC

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Makeup suggestions

New to makeup and looking for suggestions and stuff to try

0 Comments
2024/12/01
04:58 UTC

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am I missing anything?

I think I have a perfect plan to get, hide, and wash my fem clothes without getting caught by my very homophobic parents that would not approve of me wearing fem clothes but I need to know if I am missing anything.

So first I order my fem clothes to an amazon locker and pick them up. I hide them in my car until either my parents are asleep or when they leave for an hour, this is when I get my clothes out of my car, unpack them, fold them, and hide them in my logitech wheel’s box that has been in my closet for a while. I put the stuff that has been in the box over my clothes hiding them if the box is opened.

To wash my clothes I will wash them with my ”normal” clothes at night when my parents are sleeping. When all my clothes are finished drying I put my fem clothes at the bottom of my basket, carry the basket into my room, put my fem clothes away first and fast, and I continue folding my laundry.

This account is on a different email, has a different username, and is not logged in on any of my devices, I log into this account every time I need to make a post. so if my parents go through my phone I am fine

I don’t know if I’m missing anything to make this a perfect plan. If I am missing anything please tell me.

3 Comments
2024/12/01
04:58 UTC

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Pokemon Ultra Sun Redditlocke

Ok so I had an idea to have people on reddit choose pokemon I use in a nuzlocke so any pokemon you want to choose for me put in the comments pls and you can nickname them and choose their ability tooo. I would much appreciate any comments. asking here as well to get lots of diverse answers. :3

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2024/12/01
04:50 UTC

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Favourite monster flavours?

Out of what I’ve tried I think I liked ultra Rosa the most

24 Comments
2024/12/01
04:28 UTC

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Chat, am I cooked?

So I'm a closeted femboy, straght. But I have a problem: I'm going to travel to the beach (southern hemisphere guys, it's summer here) and I need to take my swimming shirts and trunks. The problem is that I leave my fem clothes under there. It's not a big issue with my main clothes as they're in a plastic bag that hides a little (and that saved me once when my dad was putting away my clothes), but my bras and corset don't fit. Also some of the items might fall off. WHAT DO I DO? I was left alone today for a little since I twisted my ankle and my parents went out to walk my dog, but was too distracted gayming gaming and I didn't return my clothes on time to my mom's wardrobe. Hoping I can get another opportunity. How screwed am I?

0 Comments
2024/12/01
04:07 UTC

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I don't think I'll be safe if my family finds out...

I am genderfluid and I've tried expressing how I feel to my friends and they kind of agree...

I come from a family of "means", iykyk... I live in an extremely expensive neighbourhood and go to a really expensive private school, atleast for the standards of my country... (NOT FLEXING, I AM TELLING MY CIRCUMSTANCES)They are extremely proud of having a "son"... For example, when I got scared of a spider, they disgustingly said, "what kind of immasculine son are you?"

I tried telling my mother that I kinda wanna get long hair and she said that it was extremely bad for guys to get long hair and it was against the culture, the beliefs, against everything. She was applying body lotion on my legs and noticed how I had shaved them and gave me a canning for it...

I used to have a transgender friend, who they despised very much just because of their gender... This person was smart, intelligent, emotionally mature, etc... but there is this belief in India where transgender people are disrespected and called as "hijra"... Trans is mistaken for intersex and people wonder why they do it and they blame the internet for ruining the culture...

My mom was like, I wish I had a daughter with a son, and I was like, "Hehhehehehe, what if I convert?" (Jokingly of course), and my mom was like, that's not possible and that's a proppusterous idea... I told her how it worked and she was disgusted by it and said that it was basically only for bad, I'll and disgusting foreigners that have no culture...

My father takes pride that they have a son... He tells me how people try many times and get a daughter only to just want a son... He is proud that he got a son on his first try... He gets extremely angry when he sees any feminine habits of mine, like getting scared from insects and not having a very masculine body and masculine habits and wants me to go to the gym... He wants me to get a girlfriend as well, even though I am asexual, but he believes that I am straight and says he will support any relationship of mine -_-... Some call me lucky as my father is supportive of relationships, but from my perspective, its different.

I don't feel safe coming out to my family, let alone think of it... I'm scared my friends may rat me out thinking it's a good move... My online accounts are genderfluid and easily identifiable... If my parents or even my family finds out... At 14, I'm going to either get disowned or reminded of this haunting "phase" that I went through and taught that this is one of the worst mindsets...

At this point, I feel like deleting all of my accounts that suggest my gender identity and remove any signs of it, and just go back to living how I was suppressing all of my feelings about my gender identity, never talking about it or thinking about it again and maybe the urge will go away?

I don't know how to react to this... What do I do?

4 Comments
2024/12/01
03:57 UTC

0

Femboys please

I want femboy so bad bro

7 Comments
2024/12/01
03:56 UTC

2

Goodnight Femboys in Europe

Yeah I know its 4:50 am but I'm going to sleep now

1 Comment
2024/12/01
03:51 UTC

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Anyone said they love to today? Cuz ill be the one!! <3

I love you! You are so brave and are a highlight in this world of what seems to be very much dark. Though all that you still shine and light up anywhere you go. You are an inspiration and you deserve the best in this life! I hope you continue to do amazing things and break barriers! Hope you have an amazing day luv and that the more to come will be even better than the last! Never forget to smile and know that you are loved!

Love you! <3

7 Comments
2024/12/01
03:47 UTC

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I’m finally moving out, it’s femboy time!

I’m finally moving out of my parents house. I wasn’t able to really get into being a femboy here since they definitely wouldn’t approve, but now that im leaving, I can finally get some fem clothes and really get into femboying. I’m so excited!

11 Comments
2024/12/01
03:43 UTC

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Want new friends!!!!

New friends ig

5 Comments
2024/12/01
03:32 UTC

2

Hai! Need some help

So I’m quite new to being a femboy and unfortunately for me I don’t have any fem clothes (do have knee socks and am going to get thigh highs soon) but there is a slight problem… I’m very muscular, not in a Eddie hall way but more like in a Bruce Lee way. So I don’t know what kind of fem clothes would compliment my body shape. I have broader shoulders so that’s also a factor. Any kind of clothing suggestions or advice would be greatly appreciated!

0 Comments
2024/12/01
02:57 UTC

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how do i wash my clothes without getting caught

My parents do not want me wearing clothes that aren’t standard male clothes. I know how to get my fem clothes and where to hide them (if you wanna know how I’ll make a post just tell me), but I don’t know how I can wash them without there being a chance for them to see my fem clothes mixed in with my usual clothes. One of my ideas for doing this is whenever they’re gone i wash them but they usually aren’t gone for long enough for me to wash and dry my clothes. does anyone have any ideas?

12 Comments
2024/12/01
02:50 UTC

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dress companies are scamming me PSA to anyone wanting to look for dresses.

if anyone is looking for vintage dresses, DO NOT shop from unique vintage, from what ive red from the trustpilot, their customer service is the equivalent of EA GAMES or Ubisoft.

pure dogshit.

also, most Lolita dress companies are scammerish and it's hard to tell who's legit or not (for me anyways)

please be careful!

0 Comments
2024/12/01
02:48 UTC

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Do you have to wear feminine clothes or makeup to be a femboy?

I’m just confused

11 Comments
2024/12/01
02:40 UTC

5

Crushes hurt too much

I really liked my best friend....I waited for a while to gather up the courage to ask him out and I was really hoping he would like me back....he told me that he just doesnt love me at all since im a guy. : (

0 Comments
2024/12/01
02:37 UTC

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This is all I want

It’s a dream for me to be a boy wife and cook for my future husband I want him to wake up to me in a apron cooking breakfast then I get a slap to my butt and a “good morning beautiful” and be a good boy wife cooking amazing breakfast, lunch and dinner is that too much to ask? 😭

17 Comments
2024/12/01
02:01 UTC

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How do I become more feminine/a femboy?

Hi y'all I would like to be more feminine and become a femboy but I get nervous. I have terrible fashion sense and idk what I should wear to look cute and stuff. So far I have a pink skirt and some thigh highs

2 Comments
2024/12/01
01:49 UTC

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What’s the Most Important Life Lesson You’ve Learned as a Femboy?

I think the Title is self explanatory :3

26 Comments
2024/12/01
01:45 UTC

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Help for hairstyles please

I need to find someone that can help me for a hairstyle I found on tiktok I have a screenshot of the hair but I need someone to do a tuto for me pls dm me so I can send the screenshot

1 Comment
2024/11/30
22:31 UTC

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Boys traning glutes to wear a skirt.

I am watching lots of videos on Internet. Related to feminine glutes and smaller waist but my question is will hips bridges works? So one recommend me it.

I training so hard to achieve bigger glutes but I fail because I feel demotivated because I always think which exercises works on my glutes I am not going to gym I need to achieve it at home so will you please share your experience guys let's me know in the comments please.

I always hate when I look my self I mirror I keep scrolling feminine men but never trying to be one of them I watch girls Beautiful skirt but never training hard for them why I am like this watching other people's achieve there dreams when will I So I am keep on trying because I have to look good in skirts for boys.

I remember when I saw high school girls swing there hips while walking I feel so jealous because I that why I was a men why I blame God but then I came to internet I see lots of men have better waist and glutes then girls I see lots of drag queen stuff but I am afraid that will I look beautiful I keep dreaming all day and nights I have no friends to talk related to this but I keep on training everyday.

I remember when I first time wear skirt it was my first experience as crossdresser it was wonderful but it was not good to go outside because I not have gultes to pass as women I keep dreaming all day.

But today I lost hope I always thinks if I keep traning I look good in skirt and everyone see me as women I not want to take hrt.

My everyday and night is same in the darkness of room light of keep dreaming I wonders sometimes why I don't make it happen I deleted my Instagram because I not want to see girls anymore you know why because I want to become a girl I feels jealous it is very painful to see yourself in mirror everyday 💔

1 Comment
2024/11/30
17:48 UTC

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