/r/feminineboys
A SFW text-based community to discuss the Femboy experience
We are fun, we are happy, we are light-hearted and chill.
We are intrinsically political and we lean left (as the right despises feminine boys), we are very community-oriented, and we work to help each other out the best we can.
We don't say bigoted things, we don't be mean to each other, we don't hurt anyone's feelings, and we don't sexually objectify each other.
We are an SFW community for feminine people who've had or have a male experience, and those who admire them (be they gay or straight), to talk about all things pretty and otherwise. <3
Discord! This is a PG-13 place, so keep it classy.
Introduction posts are highly encouraged. Tell us about yourself!
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As per title, can anyone explain the step by steps of exfoliating?
So I bought an exfoliating scrub and glove from my local store and I just thought you have to go to town on your body while in the shower when you’re wet, with soap and everything. But my sister said I did it wrong. I did ask her but she explained it rather poorly for my atom sized head to understand so prolly help from you guys?
I just want to improve myself in a healthy manner tho can someone give me some advice and tips how to achieve it. Thank you in advance!!🫶🏻
Hey guys,My name is Cutiefem67 and I want to become a femboy in real life without my parents noticing (since in stil living in their house)so if people can be okay with giving me advice how to become a femboy (giving advice and stuff) without my family noticing (have a great day ♥️)
I've seen many stories of femboys coming out to their parents, turning out to be really supportive to the point they helped them to look more feminine by buying silly clothes for them. lemme get a smile for once and tell y'all stories :3
So, the person I once considered to be my best friend for multiple years recently proved to become really homophobic, especially once I discovered that I'm gay, so I cut him out from my life (blocked on all socials, etc.)
Less than an hour ago, a different friend who has contact with both of us tells me that the "friend" said he'll tell my parents (pretty conservative folk) that I'm gay and planning on becoming a femboy.
My parents aren't big fans of homosexuals, but I don't imagine they'd go as far as to disown me... But it wouldn't be pretty either.
What do I do? Should I message the "friend" telling him to stay out of my life? He also believes that I'm doing this because I'm depressed - which, I am fairly certain, I am not. Or should I come out of the closet myself? Please help!
wanted to find out when do femboys wear thongs hehe
Repost from earlier, wanted to phrase this a bit better
I'm kinda in a situation now, since I know a guy from my cosplay group that likes to dress up in feminine clothes and costumes.
As far as I always understood, I'm straight, since guys like I am (bit more burly, bearded etc.) are not attractive to me and I only ever had interest in and dated girls/women. But I've been hanging out with our group, and therefore him, a lot and realized he is really fun to spend time with and looks really cute. I'm aware that this doesn't make me straight exactly anymore, but I guess I also don't know how to label it really.
I'm kinda surprised by my desire to ask him out, it's definetely a first for me in regards to a guy, and from the vibes I get from him I understand he'd want the same. But I'm worried since I don't really know how to handle the situation, as it is very, very new to me. What were your guys experiences in similar cosntellations (with or without any worries, on either side), and how did it go?
I’m rather new to all this and my current clothing choices are really bland. If it’s okay to ask, I’d love to hear some suggestions for underwear, hoodies, and all that kind of stuff! Thank you!
I don't know how to expand on the title I'm just interested if others have felt more touch starved/lonely after realising they're a femboy? Because I've noticed a lot of people in this subreddit and other femboy subs(ok auto mod only picks this up without the s I guess?) are lonely and I wonder if that commonly happens before you realise you're a femboy or if it generally transfers seeing as for me it happened when I internally realised I was a femboy
How frequently or commonly do y'all get sent DP (if you know you know)
Just curious bc i see a lot of people posting about how many DP they get sent
(SHOULD I PUT A NSFW FILTER?)
Hi guys, this is my first time on feminine boys, i really REALLY wanna be a femboy but i'm super insecure about both my body hair, slightly chubby belly and just my overall appearence, rn i'm wearing an oversized grey hoodie, a beanie, oversized black pants, and black shoes, i'm trying to look gay but not THAT noticeable, i'm also scared i'll lose the two friends i (kinda) have because i think they're homophobic, i'm just overall really insecure, but i also really wanna be a femboy, can someone help me?
To be fair as of mentally I haven't really been doing well and fairly I don't really know what to do. I've been having some pretty bad thoughts but I haven't acted on them but I just feel stuck, like I have a massive weight over my shoulders. I haven't really been eating much in the past couple months either and I have a pretty jacked sleep schedule. I would try and find help by ik if I did I'd get in more trouble than I already needed to be in, I have no voice or choice in what I choose to do and not do only orders and commands that keep me pushing on to make me feel like I have some sort of impact on others. I try to fit in but I don't and when I to tell the truth it's unheard unbothered or shotdown before it could come from my mouth. Frankly I don't know where to go or what to do but just suffer till I find some way out and run with it. Trust me I love my family but I know they wouldn't except me. My only way out is just to jump ship but I'm not even financially independent enough yet to even do that. All around I can feel myself just mentally rotting like almost all of my processing power is grinding to a halt.
Hey you guys im new but I need some help. For the longest time I get these urges to do femboy things and in the moment I love it. However I will feel bad if I do things such as post my nudes, as I have a gf.
Do you think it's okay? Or is it cheating? And what should I do?
I SAW THIS CUTE FIT, ITS KINDA LIKE A TECHWEAR OR CYBERPUNK STYLE FIT BUT HOOOOLY ITS PRICY 345$ HOW AM I GONNA GET THIS AMOUNT OF MONEY
SEND HELP (please I really need new ways to get money, im also a minor [14] and I can't get a job just yet 😭🙏🙏)
I’m in my college dorm room at the moment and one of my dorm mates friends is in the living room outside. He had a gay dude message him on instagram (not sure exactly what) and I just had to listen to him tweak out about it for like 20 minutes 💀 most of it was about how much he “hates gay 🥷🏿” how he hates gay shit etc etc. He said he was gonna kill the dude like 10 times. Would he actually do it? No but he has to make himself sound tough and gangster to affirm his not gayness. It’s so fucking stupid and ignorant. What’s crazy is I’m pretty openly a femboy and this dude has seen me every time he comes over we’ve talked etc. He comes into our dorm though to talk w my dorm mate and just yells shit like that anyways w no care. Everytime this dude encounters any grievance he talks about how he should shoot the opposing party or some shit. Wanna be gangster shit is fucking cringe and why I will 100% concealed carry when I graduate college. Sry for the rant but yea this why I need to get my own apartment so I can wear skirts and stuff without having to deal with homophobes coming into the dorm every day.
I actually want to say thanks to everyone who commented on my last question I got some really good advice and the answered my question 100%
Hi, I'm a young Latino, I live in Chicago and I'm looking for friends To talk and maybe go out
My ex left me no warning while I was taking a mental break cause I have anxiety and depression, guess I gotta start two things from scratch
Hi there! Im in need of advice, ive been wanting to shave my chest for a while but im nervous about it because i have a permanent scar from previous heart surgery and i don’t want to damage anything 💔 if theres any advice let me know! 🙏
What's your favorite food atm
I wondered - what are femboys' movie preferences? Are there any films that they disproportionately like? Or, on the contrary, films that they like significantly less than other people?
Maybe there are some movie fandoms where there are a lot of femboys?..
Was just wondering if any of ya bois are from or living in mexico and if so, how safe would you say it is? Asking since ive been really wanting to go out dressed fem someday but im kinda scared cause im not sure whats the general opinion here about this community
I don't mean adult as in nsfw, but adult as in I have a doctorate and am worried about my health insurance. It feels like a lot of femboys online are teenagers or young adults. It's not a bad thing and I'm in my mid 20s so I'm not even that much older. I'm just at a different stage in life and feel weird talking with people who are like trying to hide clothes from their parents. Meanwhile I'm trying see how feminine I can be in a "professional" environment or like how to respond to creeps who hit on me at the bar.
Hey well things have been better sorry if this is not the best place, But um last time i posted a update like thing i talked about how i was sorry about the one before, I was doing some bad stuff then got depressed then did more stuff i dont want to 100% say everything that happened to me those few times but i got into some trouble with the cops, so I had to go to court the went again and i got probation yay lol, um sorry if this is like not the right place but ty if you read this.
I look at a pic of me a day after taking it and get mad envy from myself I don't know why but it only happens with fem pics so I think it's Appropriate
I am bisexual, and I've had these feelings for around 2-4 years, most of my family is Christian, however, they definitely don't support trump or anybody like that, they seem more like better christians that are not usually filled with hate. they barely bring up LGBTQ topics, although i do know that one of my family members is still in the closet and they know that I am as well, there's also one family member who I highly suspect of being supportive of LGBTQ, but are unsure of whether they are actually queer. What's the best way to come out, or if I should come out at all? Important note, they are fine with furries even though it almost never comes up.
Sorry for the yap session, just feeling anxious and need some advice.
Ok so a while ago I decided that I wanted to have a more feminine body and be generally smaller/cuter So I started a minor diet and made a few changes to my way of life and iv lost 20 pounds in only a few months that way, but now that I'm here I can't seem to lose any more which is REALLY annoying It's like iv hit a roadblock I can't bypass Should I decrease my calories more? Workout more? Keep doing the same thing and hope it works???
Did anyone else feel like they were seeing themselves clearly for the very first time when they saw themselves in a skirt, thigh-highs, crop top, leggings, etc. in the mirror? I can't believe how much I love how I look in fem clothes, especially skirts. Where has this feeling been my entire life?!?
I wanna be me I’m ready to dress the way I want I think I may be gender-fluid i was born male and need help find more clothing items that I can feel pretty in but I don’t have to dress like a slvt so please DMs or comments send me ideas love you all😘🩷
I like being a femboy but I’m chubby and I know it’s kinda looked down upon:/