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/r/Femaleorgasmdenial

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No touch November is finally over!!

Finally using my vibrator after waiting so long!! It's getting me so close I'm not sure if i should finally cum or wait longer🙈 May I please orgasm sirs? I'll take whatever seems to be a majority in the comments. I'm not sure if I'd want y'all to be nice but I hope so? 😖 I'd love to be humiliated and reminded of my place 🫣

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2024/12/01
12:35 UTC

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Daddy Denied Me This November

I started talking with my Daddy about 2 months ago. We were mostly just getting to know each other when we first started talking. We talked about our likes and dislikes, kinks, and edging of course :) I was/kinda still am a little nervous sometimes, especially not having a ton of kinkier experience but he made me feel safe and comfortable and helped to explain things that I didn't know.

When we first started playing he let me cum more than I was expecting and honestly, sometimes more than I wanted to. Begging to be allowed to stop cumming, to stop rubbing my over-sensitive clit, was definitely a new type of desperation for me. That doesn't mean I wasn't ever denied. Having him talk me through my edges, how and where to touch, tracing my fingers down my body and up my thighs, teasing, pinching, rolling my nipples, making me so desperate before even touching my clit or filling my needy little pussy. Then finally getting permission to touch, allowed to edge for him over and over, getting called a good girl for teasing so well for him, for getting so close, begging to be allowed to cum only to be put to bed dripping, needy, and aching.

Every once and while he would talk about denying me for longer periods, and mentioned that November was coming up at least a couple of times... I never really took him super seriously. I didn't think that I could wait that long. The longest I'd spent denied was only about 2 weeks, so an entire month seemed impossible. He was really supportive, letting me know that we could just set it as a goal, take it just a little bit at a time, and if it became unbearable, end things a little early. I was nervous, maybe even a little scared but I said I wanted to try.

I don't really remember the first night of edging very well, probably something to do with that fuzzy pink haze that tends to fill my head and make it a little hard to think straight when I've been edging, but I'm pretty sure at some point I begged Daddy to take away my orgasms, to keep me a good wet, needy, and denied little slut. Ironically I spent most of the rest of the nights this month begging him to give them back and let me cum.

I wasn't sure that I would make it to the end of the month. I think part of the reason I was able to was that I got a little sick partway through and had a bit of a respite from edging. There were also a few times when I got too close to the edge, touched for a second too long, pushed my toy in one too many times, or Daddy said something that just made me a little too excited and pushed me over. I ruined all of them, and while they left me desperate and super frustrated, feeling the unfulfilled orgasms just fade away without any satisfaction, I think to some extent they provided just a little bit of relief, though not even close to enough.

I didn't message Daddy as much as I wanted to. I didn't tell him all the things I was feeling partially cause I was embarrassed to say it but also I didn't want to pester. By the end of the first week my pussy always had a kind of dull ache and got excited really easily. By the second my nipples started to get really sensitive and my clit would sometimes start throbbing at different times throughout the day, it was really hard not to be distracted. By the third my pussy almost always felt a little swollen, I thought about touching like all the time, I would get wet at random times during the day, and it was getting hard to sleep. By the fourth it felt like I was going a little crazy, everything was so sensitive and I was so needy all of the time. If I'm honest the needier I got the more I wanted attention but I didn't want to annoy him or be too whiny or bothersome. But I couldn't help it at least a few times when I was feeling extremely needy. A couple of times when I woke up achy and wet and couldn't think about anything other than him edging me, a couple of times when I couldn't help myself and touched without permission playing with my nipples or not being able to stop myself from rubbing my clit in little circles when it was so sensitive and aching, or once when I woke up a couple hours after he put me to bed after edging feeling so desperate, aching, and swollen I couldn't stop myself from rocking my hips and whimpering.

There were a lot of things that Daddy did that made me feel so needy, desperate, and submissive. Of course anytime he called me a good girl :) but also the few times he called me babygirl instantly made the neediness worse. All the times when he was so sweetly condescending, especially when I was whining or complaining about something, saying that that is the way it should be, or that its better that way. At one point being made to keep my dildo inside me while we watched a show together. Sucking my dildo thinking about his cock. Pushing my toy as deep as I could after an edge. A couple times he asked me to repeat naughty things :) As much as I complained about them at the time, I might have liked the pussy spankings... Being made to wait on the edge, being told to slow down to keep myself close for longer. Being told no.

Usually, I like to do slow edges that run together and I don't really count, rubbing and playing slowly, kinda oscillating between getting really close and just feeling really good. Daddy liked to count down all of my edges, trying to get me to edge faster and faster. I think he was also kinda trying to condition me to edge without really touching at all. I had to try to get to the edge as fast as I could and by the time that he reached one, first with me rubbing my clit or playing with my dildo, then while playing with my nipples, and then not touching at all. I was pretty surprised that I was able to reach the edge without touching, just with Daddy counting and saying naughty things. He always wanted me to edge so fast, one right after another. My pussy was clenching and dripping, it made me so so needy and desperate, I couldn't help whimpering and moaning, begging Daddy to let me cum. Pleading with him, telling him that I couldn't take it anymore. The hard edges and all of the teasing made it almost impossible to think straight and just made me a needy whimpering mess.

He was so kind to have mercy on me and let me cum early yesterday morning but technically December in his time zone :) It was one of the strongest orgasms I've ever had.

I am feeling a little embarrassed writing everything out like this but I think he would like it.

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2024/12/01
11:06 UTC

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[mtf] been teasing and fucking myself all night

i got home from being with friends, the entire time all i could think about was porn and getting back to my place to watch as much porn as i want. it started slow just scrolling through reddit then it turned into me pulling hypno porn on my computer and on my laptop. and i just teased my nipples leaking so much in my chastity. i could like feel my brain changing. all i wanted to do was fuck myself. so i did and went for like an hour and a half. eventually it got to the point where i felt just broken and had to reset a little i was in so much pleasure i got overstimulated. now i want to be humiliated and sent porn to scroll through and watch and sink even deeper into this. i’m so in love. i don’t wanna cum good girls don’t cum.

kinks: censored, humiliation, chastity, diapers, idk a lot of things those are the main ones.

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2024/12/01
10:55 UTC

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i can’t cum

so… no nut November just ended and i intended on letting myself cum without my owner knowing and i’ve been trying for the last 2 hours.. and every-time i get close i just can’t cum, no mater how much i use my vibrator or i stuff both of my holes i can’t cum.. does this mean i’m gonna stay denied all of December!? i’m sopping wet and no matter how much stimulation i give myself i just can’t cum (´°̥̥̥̥̥̥̥̥ω°̥̥̥̥̥̥̥̥`) should i be considering myself a bad girl for trying or a good girl for not coming?

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2024/12/01
10:03 UTC

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FtM - looking for someone to keep me accountable and denied

I got to about a month denied then gave in to my urges for an orgasm. I'd love someone to take control for me and to stay denied through all of December at least.

Kinks: degradation, humiliation, praise, pet play, bondage, impact play, orgasm control/denial, D/s dynamics, hypno

I'm in AEDT timezone as well.

0 Comments
2024/12/01
10:03 UTC

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Dont u girls like to be in her place?

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2024/12/01
08:59 UTC

17

F26 - Woke up super horny with a swollen needy clitty 😈👀 Comment below if i should let my desperate clitty cum..or edge her.

10 Comments
2024/12/01
08:57 UTC

4

Looking for gooners

Hi, f 24 edge slut looking for friends to goon with. Also looking for gooners to rate me. I’m attracted to all genders so don’t be shy. Especially girls.

Some of my interests are slut training, older men, gang bangs, ass eating, lesbian, breeding, squirt, spit, cum drinking, choking, cum swapping, degradation/praise, face sitting, public sex, etc.

Limits: age play, cnc, scat, blood, incest, anything w animals

Pls don't ask what I'm into when it's listed here.

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2024/12/01
08:46 UTC

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Stoned @ the function

Staying at my grandma's for the holida w my cousins, we did edibles and I'm so high I'm buzzing and I'm outside on the deck by myself and I really want to hump it. But I know it would be so close so fast idk what to do help pls ♡

6 Comments
2024/12/01
06:18 UTC

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Help me feel like a dumb slut

I’m having trouble edging on my own and not ruining… would anyone be willing to help me feel dumber and hornier?

2 Comments
2024/12/01
05:52 UTC

3

Locked up for the weekend

Put my belt on for the weekend after getting high and edging all night. love to goon with others or open to ideas. give me punishments below to fulfill before/after i take the belt off. currently will remove it midnight sunday.

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5 Comments
2024/12/01
05:50 UTC

2

Looking to goon

Hi, f 24 edge slut looking for friends to goon with. Also looking for gooners to rate me. I’m attracted to all genders so don’t be shy. Especially girls.

Some of my interests are slut training, older men, gang bangs, ass eating, lesbian, breeding, squirt, spit, cum drinking, choking, cum swapping, degradation/praise, face sitting, public sex, etc.

Limits: age play, cnc, scat, blood, incest, anything w animals

4 Comments
2024/12/01
05:22 UTC

13

Quick Edge session before gym

Love hitting the gym with gushy panties, I secretly hope all the pervs staring at my ass can smell how wet my pussy is, how they wish they could taste it then and there and spread me

5 Comments
2024/12/01
04:07 UTC

1

Question

I've seen someone write they put oral gel on their clit. I was wondering if it's safe 😅

3 Comments
2024/12/01
03:50 UTC

2

no touch december??

i am currently on self inflicted denial, but am finding it harder and harder to stop edging and i am scared of ruining my denial streak that i am so proud of. should i keep edging through december or should i do a month of no touch? either way im staying denied

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6 Comments
2024/12/01
03:49 UTC

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My birthday is on Christmas should I edge till then ??????

7 Comments
2024/12/01
00:11 UTC

4

How did the NNN celebrate????

Curious about hearing all of u guys s Stories about how u came or even if u ruined or stayed on denial how did it feel denying for a month

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2024/12/01
00:11 UTC

23

Day 123: I lost my rights to edge

I am owned by reball111. He has all the rights to use me however he choose and whenever he choose.

Last night, I begged my owner to take away my rights to edge because for a fucktoy like me there is no need to even edge and this is what I deserve and crave for. So he was so generous to accept and agreed to take away my rights to edge and take control of it.

Afterwards, he started using his property by making me stroke my clit at 60 beats per second and gradually increasing it to 70 or 75 which made me leaky. And as and when I was getting closer, he asked me to decrease the speed to 50 or 40 . Everytime, I was getting close, speed was decreased and I was let only to leak, whimper and ache. Clearly, this is what I deserve to get, the ache.

To show me my place well, he asked me to wipe out all the grool, and sniff it like a good toy while I stroke it to make it ache more.

I was stopped abruptly after two and half hours of touching my owners property. Afterwhich my greedy cunt was really trying to hump the air till the moment it calmed down.

It was a great session. Thanks to reball111, my owner for letting me touch his property, making me feel this feel and giving me what I deserve, the ache and a swollen clit. Trust me, my cunt throbbed while writing this.

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2024/12/01
00:02 UTC

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day 2

I've been away from home so I have also bee on on completely no touch and my pussy has literally been throbbing all day and it's been so so difficult :( I just wanna cum so bad but I know better at this point, I've been drinking a little and it just makes it so much worse, I can feel how wet my panties are when I walk and I've had to have my thighs squeezed together basically the entire day too, I don't know how im going to do this when it's only day two and my pussy is throbbing so hard I can feel it in my stomach, it's got to the point where I just wanna stuff all of my holes and force a toy in my ass to feel something, im so understimulated even the tiniest touch makes me feel like im about to cum!! I just wanna hump every surface I see it's so humiliating but I love it so much, I love the degrading feeling of being unable to control my pussy hehe thank u all for the kind messages 💗

3 Comments
2024/11/30
23:42 UTC

15

Last month of denial

Its 1am on the 1st of December. Last month of my 12month denial. I'm struggling so much with horniness. I came last 31.12.2023. Next orgasm is on 1.1.2025. Getting closer to it constantly, but this is so hard. I spent almost all day thinking of orgasms.

I started looking for new vibrators which didn’t help at all. I just got hornier. I'll need new vibrators for january😂

2 Comments
2024/11/30
23:13 UTC

21

How can I please you?

It's hard for me to stop right before orgasm - can you teach me? 🥵🫦

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2024/11/30
22:27 UTC

5

Should I extend NNN?

Soo in just over an hour, I will have made it through NNN, which puts my total denial at 35 days, two weeks longer than my previous high. I've been waiting for this so eagerly, but then I remembered that I still need explicit permission to actually be allowed to cum. So please decide for me what's going to happen next (and I get off on being controlled so no "do what you feel like is right for you" please).

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2024/11/30
21:58 UTC

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The time is finally here.

The countdown until my orgasm has begun. After so very very long in chastity I finally have a date for it to end (for the time being😉). My girlfriend decided that in 15 days on the 15th of December I'll be unlocked and be tortured by her for what she describes as a "body breaking orgasm" so it's most likely going to be a hard one lol. I know I've been a bit inactive for a while as I've been busy but still wanted to share my excitement with everyone and hopefully tease others who are still locked indefinitely. Feel free to message me and ask me questions, the more degrading and embarrassing the better hehe. Guys please refrain from messaging me as I'm simply just not into you. I'll be keeping everyone informed as my chastity ends as it'll probably be very intense with my girlfriend making it as difficult as possible. Thanks for reading my rant lol I'M JUST SOOKO EXCITED uhhhh

5 Comments
2024/11/30
21:35 UTC

5

Subliminal denial?

Most edging/denial subliminals are male/penis focused. Does anyone here have any that are focused on female anatomy? Bonus points if they’re gooning-adjacent, bonus bonus points if they’re for FTMs

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2024/11/30
21:19 UTC

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I'm about to lets my subs release... or maybe not 😈

I have a few subbies around the word (dommie worldwide😅) ... it's funny to think about it... entrust someone online, not even in the same continent to control your sex life and make you do humiliated things 🤭🤣.

Most of them have gone through Locktober, NNN... with the fault promise of me letting them cum, just be obedient and denied waiting for ... a task from me so that they can enhance their cumming experience... all lies... it is Denial-cember loves 😈😏.

11 Comments
2024/11/30
21:00 UTC

145

Denial Day 358: I wasn't allowed to touch at all during November. I'm so excited to edge tonight at midnight!

22 Comments
2024/11/30
21:00 UTC

0

Wife agreed to 1 month advice needed!

My wife agreed to be my sex slave for the moth, agreeing that I am in control of all of our sexual activity for the month of December. Part of our agreement was orgasm denial. This is both of our first times with this, so I thought I would ask this group for advice on how to proceed.

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2024/11/30
20:57 UTC

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It's the final day of NNN

So It's November 30th which mean you just have to make it through today (if you haven't failed already). Of course as long as you aren't doing Denial December as well. Luckily for me after over 60 days of denial- my streak ends (as long as I can behave of course). I've been off of no touch for about a week though and yes I have been edging here and there or even just lazily touching just because my no touch punishment was over. I still think being denied on no touch is much worse than denial when you can touch.

And remember "good toys don't cum without explicit permission"

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2024/11/30
20:50 UTC

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Please i need this video

Been searching for this video for years. I saw it on the old tantalize.org site years ago. The Domme has her sub tightly secured, she then proceeds to coat her clit in testosterone creme with a paintbrush. Then teasing her with the very mean looking vibrator shown. After a while she pumps her clit and wraps the vacuum tube in bondage tape, sucked it and teases her even more with a vibrator. I’ll post the link on my profile, please I’ll do just about anything if someone can find it.

5 Comments
2024/11/30
19:08 UTC

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Who failed NNN? Let's do DD

Be honest, who failed? And how far into the month did you last? If you didnt make NonNit NOvember then get ready because Denial December is here for you!!

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2 Comments
2024/11/30
17:48 UTC

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