/r/ENFPpenpals

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Subreddit for ENFP's to find other ENFP or MBTI type penpals.

Please list your age/sex/location/preferred method of communicating (e-mail, snail mail or PM) in the title as well as a brief description! -Example: 21/F/USA/Email - Looking for another ENFP to share thoughts with

If you are any other type other than ENFP, please specify it in the title -Example: ESFP/26/USA/SnailMail - Looking to correspond with an ENFP.

No spamming.

Please be respectful.

Posts other than the specifications listed above will be removed.

/r/ENFPpenpals

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29/F INFP needs some ENFP friends pls abeg

man pls I'd do anything to indulge in Ne-Fi/Fi-Ne oriented conversations 😭😭😭😭 I miss ya'll so much

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2024/07/11
22:26 UTC

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Looking for some new chatty friends

Hello - 50/M/Chicago/INFJ here.

I’ve been isolating a bit too long, so it’s time to seek out some connections again. And I've heard INFJ/ENFP is a great match. So I thought, why not try out the ENFP crowd? So here I am!

I am seeking friendships with other similarly minded people. About me, I’ve been doing my own internal healing work for some time, and found the most satisfying relationships are with those that are doing/have done the same (but not a requirement by any means!). I’m into self improvement, clean living, having a good laugh with someone, mindfulness/meditation, CrossFit, reading (mostly inner work stuff), video games sometimes, walks, raising kids when they will allow me to, and various other stuff that comes and goes. In general, my lifestyle is pretty clean and I like it.

As an INFJ, I can offer you....well... I'm not sure, but it will probably involve insights into feelings 🙂. Perhaps you're dating an INFJ and are puzzled by their behavior, I might be to help you understand them!

Anyway, if this sounds interesting to you, I’d love to chat. Feel free to message me.

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2024/05/29
04:17 UTC

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Looking for ENFP and ISTP friends

Hi all, I am an Enfp and I am searching for two type of people(M/F) :

ENFP : As I am an enfp myself so I want to learn more about Enfps , their thought process, and if any of them have developed Te and Si.

ISTP : As it is said that ENFP are least compatible with ISTPs. So I want to befriend an ISTP. They are said to be highly pragmatic so I want to learn about their internal working and way of thinking.

I would like to talk in DM.

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2024/03/01
19:53 UTC

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ENFP trying to find a place to move to where i can easily secure an overnight security job, or any over night job where i can do my personal work for the majority of my shift, and that pays good enough for me to live comfortably while building up my business.

i'm a 20 year old African American, US Citizen, musician, tryna grow my community and need a lot of time to build that up, i knew that this is what i wanna go all the way with for a long time. In 2021 I realized i wouldn't be fulfilled or happy working the majority of jobs, so i researched jobs where I'd have the ability to sit down and work on my business for the majority of my shifts, the two jobs i was getting recommended most consistently was overnight security jobs at a site that only needs u for assurance purposes, that was the main one, and in second place was night auditor at a hotel. Last year i graduated from a trade school as a certified protection officer, so i have a nationwide CPO certificate, i have my FEMA, OSHA, I'm CPR certified, and i have a resume tailored toward security gigs that they helped me make. The only thing I'm missing from my knowledge as far as being able to get the kind of gig i want in any state is, i know in some states u need a state specific security license, like in Florida and Georgia u need to either have a G or D license to get a lot of security jobs, and the other thing u need sometimes is a drivers license for that specific state, that's how u secure them jobs where u can just sit in the security vehicle all night. i have a Georgia driver license currently.

As far my location situation. I'm currently in the sticks in Vermont, and i have an employee living situation so i don't have to pay many bills. If it wasn't for that i'd struggle like shit here cause it's mad expensive! a vehicle, and a lot of basic shit like that, that's important to most ppl, does not feel affordable even with my situation.

I came here from my trade school in Brunswick Georgia, and b4 that i was staying wit my folks in the subrubs of Jacksonville FL, my parents was in the burbs tho so i was stuck there wit no way to the city where all the jobs was at, and i needed to be 21 to secure the jobs like i'm describing around my school

I'm okay to have roomates and shi, and just like rent a room, as long as i can use the appliances in the crib and the roomates or landlord chill. Like rn i got a room to myself, share the unit with two brothers, the be out in the living room, we share the bathroom and the kitchen, the chill asf, we get along well.

My fellow ENFP's, u may know it is unrealistic for a lot of us to be able to manage are money like normal ppl can. So any job or service or recommendations for help relocating would be great, i can stress abt that more and find loopholes for that once i know where to go, but i wanted to put that out there since it's definitely a concern

a few things to mention. So my priority as far as where i move is to be able to secure a chill Overnight security jobs, or another chill overnight job because i'm a night owl, i have so much more energy at night, night jobs usually require way less of u, and i need to be spending my time doing my personal work on the job.

That's number one priority, however there are a few other things I'd like to mention that'll definitly have an effect on my quality of life and wellbering that would be appreciated if i'm recommended a place that is overall most compatible with me

- accessibility to city shit, ppl, and lit shit (i'm and extrovert so this would be nice, i can do without it, my girl wanna go where i go, and ima be very busy and social online, but i thrive when i can talk to ppl, hence why i'm talking abt this shit on reddit, i've been doing my own research on this shit like crazy but there's hella ppl all across the country that have way more knowledge and experience then me, and i'm not an isolated, thrive by being extremely logical kinda person, i get better results when socializing, expressing my needs relating and connecting with others and that's how i get by and enjoy the journey toward my future!)

- Has cool ppl/cool community

- Cost of car related shit (Like bro, i wanted to move to Denver cause it's just like my vibe, but it's stupid expensive shit their, like u gotta pay more for car expenses cause there roads are smoother, that makes sense, but i don't give a fuck, i drive to safe to be paying extra for smooth rose, that's not a priority, lol.

- places to get tatts and buy clothes (as part of my personal career, i need to be investing a lot in my aesthetic, i'm in the entertainment industry, so it'd be nice to have locations near where i move that'll help me do this)

- I have a skin condition where humidity/combination of heat and moisture make me itch uncontrollably so somewhere, where it's not humid would be appreciated, i can still get by if my job allows me to sit in AC, or i can buy a cooling vest for when i need to be outside, but like i said, it'd be appreciated if the weather was dry or not humid, i don't do great with cold weather either, warm weather with low to no humidity seems like where i feel best.

A note. DO NOT REPLY TO THIS telling me to man and work hard, or just anything that's basically treating me like i'm living life wrong, i know myself, i know my limits, my personality type, i know what i need, i'm just trying to figure out how ima get it, so if u can give me advice, input, point me in the right direction, that'd mean the world to me. But please don't try to change me. Thank you (:

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2024/02/06
20:02 UTC

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25/M/US Just looking to talk to another ENFP because I don't know very many in my daily life.

I'm open to DMs and snail mail for penpals in the US.

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2023/11/03
19:22 UTC

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Hello beautiful people!

I'm 26, INFJ, & also a male. I'd love to meet some new ENFP friends, I love engaging with y'all's curious, quietly powerful minds (: & love to see the instinctual insights your Ne-Fi brings when I bring my Ni-Ti insights to the table! I'm practically curious about everything, so if you love exploring complex & new topics in-depth, I'm sure we could work find plenty of interesting things to talk about (: All y'all's functions are great really, your Te & Si really make y'all a power not to be reckoned with in whatever subject your Fi finds interest in (:

All this to say, I love y'all & I see your value!

I love these topics & am relatively well-learned in them:Neuroscience, Neuroplasticity & related mechanisms, Neuropsychopharmacology, Neuroanatomy & Physiology, Psychology, Consciousness Studies, Developmental Pathophysiology & Etiology, Jungian Archetypal Critical Analysis, Philosophy: Hegel (particularly the Dialectic & Synthesis), Heidegger, & Plato of course. Theology, Apologetics, Hermeneutics: Literary Analysis, Linguistic Analysis, Historical Analysis, Sociocultural Analysis. Linguistics: Linguistic Relativism, Etymology, Comparative Linguistics, Nomenclature Practices & Reformation, Conlangs, The Nostratic Language Theory!. MBTI of course & its subsidiaries, CSJ's theories to some extent, Carl Jung's Transcendent Function. Music (won't list all my genres, but basically I'm open-minded & quite explorative, but I freaking love Psytrance). Various Sciences: Quantum Physics, Biology (at various levels of organization), Kinesiology & Health Science, etc. Seeing the Complex-Beauty of the World (Everywhere), One Another, Humanity, The Meaning of it All, Improving the World (with specific plans), blah blah blah...Don't know as much but I'm dipping my toe in:Alchemical Art & Philosophy; Chinese, Japanese, & Indian Meditation Forms & Martial Arts, Recent Entheogenic Studies & Practices, Heritage Ceremonial Matcha & Preparation, Zen, Buddhism, Taoism. Integration of 'Eastern' & 'Western' Philosophies, Ideologies, Techniques, & Technologies. Historical Pharmacopeias (Avicenna, Chinese Medicine, (Valid) Alchemical Formularies), Esoteric Knowledge & Praxis

So yeah! I'm maybe a little bit of an amateur polymath! I love diving into the great variety of topics that exist, probing their depths, & looking for the intersections of patterns where they can be reasonably found, relishing in the beauty & wonder of this fascinating world.

Maybe I sound intimidating but I really just love to explore things in-depth & would love to engage with you where you're at (: But yeah sharing some of these interests & having a willingness to bungie jump into the abyss with me is a big plus!

I would strongly prefer to be able to transfer our correspondence to WhatsApp, but if that doesn't work we could definitely work something out!

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2023/09/28
13:56 UTC

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Looking for friends - St John's, NL for an 30(F)- Infj

Just found out I will be moving to Newfoundland!

Looking for hiking, board - game playing, profound conversationalists.

Topics of spirituality, politics and religion are welcome.

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2023/04/28
22:08 UTC

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Subreddit for all MBTI!

Hi, guys! I created a subreddit. If anyone would be interested in joining, feel free, it would be a pleasure to have you there! 😄

r/MBTILab

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2023/04/03
20:55 UTC

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Poll: Hello ENFPs. Conducting a survey. Please vote for your enneagram type. Thank you.

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2022/12/03
21:09 UTC

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4w5 correlation to MBTI type. Poll.

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2022/12/02
17:32 UTC

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Poll: Hello ENFPs. Conducting a survey. Please vote for your enneagram type. Thank you.

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2022/12/01
09:41 UTC

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4w5 correlation to MBTI type. Poll.

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2022/11/29
13:16 UTC

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Poll: Hello ENFPs. Conducting a survey. Please vote for your enneagram type. Thank you.

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2022/11/29
11:28 UTC

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4w5 correlation to MBTI type. Poll.

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2022/11/27
15:35 UTC

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4w5 correlation to MBTI type. Poll.

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2022/11/25
14:00 UTC

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33M Married Guy Just Looking for Someone to Talk To

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2022/09/28
17:49 UTC

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Did anything weird yet interesting happened to you today ?

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2022/07/28
01:59 UTC

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florence and the machine

Hunger by florence And the machine

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2022/05/21
19:40 UTC

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ENFP / 26 / Been addicted to MMORPG's since like 10

Sup, my name's Donny. For as long as I can recall i've been playing videogames, watching anime and growing through it. I talk a lot, very passionately about the select things i'm into like the aforementioned. But really, I just enjoy deep conversation about other people talk of their passions too. I love writing, self help/motivation, a wide variety of music and a lot more.

I'm writing because you might as well do Something about wanting more friends instead of just saying it, right? Hit me up if you use discord and wanna chat c:

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2022/03/10
03:34 UTC

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An iMessage group chat :P

Helloo Enfps and other too haha! Is someone interested in creating an iMessage group for us to share memes or even idk, what strange or cute things happened in your day!

I mean.. I’m already in a group where we’re sharing cute frog meme 😭, so yeah why not try this here too :p

5 Comments
2022/02/18
00:53 UTC

3

Looking for a pen pal

About me I'm 20 years old love cooking playing video games, discussing politics, acting, going to the cinema and a lot of other stuff do ask me if you are interested 😃😀

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2022/02/17
08:39 UTC

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34M/INFJ-A/Las Vegas looking for friends

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2022/01/24
00:32 UTC

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What happened to everyone? This sub seems dead 🥲

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2021/12/13
09:03 UTC

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M19 UK. Looking for connections.

Discord: Masol#7088

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2021/11/27
05:08 UTC

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ENFP in Germany searching for fellow ENFPs that love variety, travelling and maybe also learn Korean atm?

2 Comments
2021/11/12
00:17 UTC

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INTJ M (22) looking for a F

Hey good people! Hope y'all doing well.

I'm a lonely Indian. Looking for a partner(pref Indian) to talk to, about life in general :)

Ps: Not here for the bobs. Trust me.

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2021/11/08
17:55 UTC

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ENFPs where you at?!

34/F (married- not looking for love) INFJ here... I thought you ENFPs were supposed to just find us... yet I've never met one of you and am dying of curiosity about the connection everyone claims we would have. I don't connect to people so I am so very curious. Hit me up!

10 Comments
2021/09/25
12:24 UTC

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INTP in love with ENFP

Hi ! So recently I met this girl and she turned out to be ENFP . We had great time together and I felt like she enjoyed my company . She knows that I like her, but told me that for now she doesn’t feel those feelings and if in the future does, she will tell me. And here I am asking for an advice - does this whole situation means that she has feelings but is afraid and should I wait for her to be ready.

5 Comments
2021/08/30
17:51 UTC

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26/M/Texas ENFP

Hey y’all! ENFP looking for other ENFPs preferably in Texas- but I’m down for any MBTI anywhere tbh. Hit me up! I mostly talk on snap: zawitherockin

2 Comments
2021/08/09
01:26 UTC

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ENFP/19/M (bi)/Philippines

I never had a penpal before, but I'm curious how it works and I also want to meet other people in an awesome old-school way! I love Taylor Swift, Owl City, Paramore. I am interested in animals—arachnids and insects, photography, I also write poems. I also get delighted when being able to interpret favorite stuff—movies, songs, books, etc.

4 Comments
2021/07/15
01:45 UTC

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