A lot of energy work involves moving beyond people. places, situations involved in our past. How much do we have to forgive to be beyond our past? We don't have to befriend or have a special love for historical people. The acid test is that if you picture something really good happening to them it causes you no resentments or emotional turbulence.

I believe I first learned the acid test, from a book called "The power of your subconscious mind" by Joseph Murphy.

It helped me to have a standard of acceptable release of the situation rather than thinking I had to reengage a situation and love, tolerate all involved.

My threshold is only to be OK with the idea of them prospering. I'm not saying victims ought not be involved in adjudication and justice. I'm saying that is my personal goal to not resent or be disturbed by any good that comes onto anybody. The acid test posited a long time ago suits me in my work.

Hello, Why am I always looking for a boyfriend or a partner? I’m actually sick and tired of me constantly looking for one ,

Can anyone help me control this? Or suggest me any exercises to control this feature of mine? I’m already in light and energy therapy but it’s just so constant and it bothers me.

It’s like I’m really desperate and always looking for a partner

I recently reconnected with a friend out of the blue. He wasn’t a spiritual kind of guy and was the corporate Wall Street silicon bro type of guy.

It’s been interesting catching up with him because he had a near death experience and changed a lot.

We met up and he held his hand over my hand and asked me if I feel this.

I said “yeah it feels like…energy I guess.”

He said that’s not normal.

He said he could SEE the energy around me and I was like wtf how??

I’ve started looking into energy and how we are supposedly able to feel energy.

For the longest time, I just thought it was my blood circulating around my body.

It didn’t really feel that special to me. It just feels like…a tingling sensation? Like being extra sensitive.

What are your thoughts on this? Especially someone saying they can SEE energy.

That to me is wild. Feeling energy I can wrap my head around but SEEING energy??

I've finally come to the realization that not only is my father my abuser (I was molested by him, they think I don't know/remember). He is actively practicing witchcraft on me, remote viewing, cording, etc. This man siphons energy from me psychically and through my chakras. I want to cut all ties energetically with him. Please help. I am truly tired of this shit.

Feel free to share about your inner work and shadow healing, and also how to dive deeper into it ?

Sorry if this makes no sense, and apologies if I used the wrong tag. I was just curious about it for a while. I'm putting terms like "beginner", "intermediate", and "expert" in quotes because of how different everyone's practices can be. Energy is different for everyone it seems, so these terms are seen less like accurate and more describing. If that makes sense. Onto the question now:.

How good am I at energy work? I am fresh to the entire thing for a bit now, so theoretically I'm a "beginner", but what I do is clearly NOT "beginner" level stuff.

I do not see "beginners" feel up their room or area around them with energy tentacle stuff that I can't explain properly, use their aura around their body to basically get a sense of presence around them or even see in my room (if accurate enough) with my eyes closed like my own energy field thing is a massive eye, or even feel entire extra body parts like extra invisible limbs, specifically arms clawing at walls or feel like my body is made of hands (all the way down to bones), like my body is covered in mouths, or feeling my body undulate like a jellyfish, feeling an extra eye on my forehead blinking sometimes, or even full on wings on my shoulder blades. Even creating energy balls that heal people and have them float invisibly around the room. Using energy to charge and cleanse objects like crystals, metal, glass, whatever I want with whatever I want to do. Even going so far as to feel energy differently than even most people, able to even draw up and downward pointing symbols (↑↓) to almost control my gravity or lighten energy enough to do what I want with it (from run faster to make myself heavier/lighter, root myself in place, whatever each gravity shift will do for me). I can even root myself into the ground like a mushroom or tree and almost feel every rock, every root, every decaying thing, and every wriggling worm or insect in the dirt using my own energy to dig into the ground like tree roots or mycelium coming from a mushroom; even to the point of once I put my feet on the ground without shoes I start doing that can feel almost high like and help with my "I see flashing images in my head thing" or even just give visions entirely. I can even leave parts of myself in objects or use my energy to find objects if they get lost by simply clapping 3 times and using the energy from my hands and memory of what the object is to find it's general vicinity. And even more than that!! I just don't wanna list everything in extreme detail and keep it as short as possible.

I mostly see this in "intermediate" or "expert" level energy workers. People who knew what they were doing for years. How experienced am I? I've been doing these things for years but apparently I never knew it was a actual practice or thing. The only thing I had to learn about was psi spheres. That's it, that was all I was taught in a book.

What should I be calling myself? An "Expert" "Beginner", or "Intermediate?" Because explaining myself every time as "a person who did energy work (for a long time apparently, years apparently, but I didnt know I was doing or that doing what I was doing was a thing at all)" in short form or even exactly like that everytime I have to explain what I'm describing that I do to someone is incredibly confusing and repetitive, and it would be faster and easier to know where I fall on experience or expertise or some other measurement would be incredibly helpful.

I also want to write all of my practices down as well as how to do them and stuff in a book I was given, but need to know this so that I can write it down in the first place. Basically I wanna know if I'm "experienced" enough to start writing my practices down, or if I need to learn more before I can start doing that, or if this all just "beginner" stuff everyone needs to learn and that I just need to find my own work, or some other thing around those lines. I have limited paper so I'd rather write about stuff I can do and hope people will be interested in it enough to practice my own stuff, and then find their own style, rather than write "beginning" level practice stuff. When I get more paper I will probably do that.

I'm trying to keep this quick because it is dark out and should be sleeping, also I don't wanna write 1000s of characters just to find out I do "beginner" level stuff. If you are curious about everything I do, let me know. Ask questions in a clear, well worded, easy to understand way and I shall give every detail you wish to have in hopefully equal wording but probably still not easy to understand. I'm hoping this all makes sense. I'm sorry if it doesn't. I tried to shorten everything as mush as possible though if that helps or makes it worse. Sorry if it did, and sorry if this came out offensive in any way. I'm just trying to figure things out.

May energy flow through you like water in a sieve and bring the peace you'll receive. May balance grow like a tree and bring forth a chance to sprout energy free.

Hello to the person who replied to me. I do not know your name and accidentally ignored you. I can't find your name to bring you back but do know I tried to read the message before I hit the wrong button. Your message was appreciated with what little I read before that accidental moment.

I had some results with visualising myself doing the moves I couldn't do and affirm healing to my injuries , and the healing happens. Am new to this and I want to experiment with others ways ,so last night before sleep , I asked my higher self for a way to heal my physical injuries. And as I drift to sleep, an imagery of a circle of white light was passing through all my injuries . I am willing to do it as I got it , but I wanna know from you guys that have experience on how to get the best results , any advice please to help heal better my injuries That would mean a lot , as I still have very little knowledge about energy work

I’m currently staying at a friends house and have been here for a month already. The room I’m staying in feels dense and something about it is just off. I have had anxiety falling asleep, insomnia, and all sorts of weird feelings when it’s time to fall asleep. It’s like my instincts are turned on here. I don’t feel like I’m getting proper sleep. I’m up and down a lot.

I have not struggled with this before and I’ve stayed in hostels, shared accomodation, etc many times over the past 3 decades. There’s just something about this room that’s off.

Is there anything I can do to clear the energy? Also to note - the windows in this room don’t open so that’s not an option for me.

And it's not necessarily a negative feeling either. I am an unusually healthy person (though I do work out regularly, eat well, etc to help maintain that, of course) and rarely get sick. About 3 weeks ago, I got a random spell of severe illness that affected my whole body, inexplicable, it wasn't covid or the flu or allergies, and it went away just as quick. I still have no idea what it was or where it came from. There was nothing out of the norm for me that week. But ever since then I've been feeling like something is different, but I can't really express it in words. It's not physical, emotional, or mental. It just feels like energy. I know it's hard to understand as well, I know, but I'm not here to convince anyone, just trying to explain the general feeling :p

I have been doing active energy work on and off for a while, with no results or noticeable effects for at least a year. I never gave up hope though.. it's just a part of the process and a part of my life. But could it be that something is finally opening up? Is something changing? And if so, what should I be doing? Just let it come to me? Has anyone else felt this sort of thing?

I don't have anyone to talk to about this.. I just want to hear other people's thought and experiences. Much love, and thank you.

I store a lot of trauma in the body, especially in the lower abdomen. When I get an energy release I get a kind of laughter and tensing and releasing of the stomach. I also get this tensing and relaxing of the stomach when releasing trauma through breathing excersises.

It feels like when doing this im only being able to release it in fragments and it feels quite jarring. Can anyone help explain what's happening and how I can release more fluidly?

On another note I get very overwhelmed easily and restless feeling and i think this is because I haven't got an outlet to destress, hobbies only do it slightly, sometimes excersise helps but not always. I really want to learn how to let go of emotions. I really struggle with meditation because I struggle to be in the present inside my body. Breath work has been the best thing that has helped so far.

Thanks in advance

This is really strange for me, I have been the most confident and disciplined I’ve ever been and then all of a sudden I feel my heart chakra open from gratitude and it feels good.

Well now i feel really sensitive, and small things hurt my feelings. I also ended up crying my eyes out today.

I don’t understand what’s going on?? Where did these emotions/feelings come from??

Today I haven’t done much because I just been feeling depressed.

I don’t understand I was feeling amazing before. I haven’t been depressed in so long what’s going on???

Is there any kind of energy work/meditation that can be done in the pool during my 10-minute warm-up before swimming class? Thnks

25/3/24

They should see how fortunate they are to have the time to think, to worry about the things they worry about. In the first world the problems you claim to have are nothing to the majority of the world. Humble yourselves. Find what is really important in this world, it is a small list and most people in the first world have them all ticked off.

Hi guys. I am a mid 30s man, and there is a large amount of things a normal person has done by this age, that i have not. This should bother me, but it doesnt seem to.

-i have never been in a relationship -i have never had any real friends. Just people that have used me. I remember even in kindergarten i was alone. -i live with my parents, and despite making enough money to, nothing compels me to leave -never been in a fight, or had an argument with anyone (except my siblings 😂) -extreme procrastination. I can spend all day, sitting down doing nothing. It is difficult to even do the things i like

So there is many experiences i have missed out on. And also my inability to feel these emotions has left me zombified and with little will to seek a solution.

I have a theory on why this could be: i have a leg length difference, one is a few cm longer than the other. The long/left one is weak, and the short/right is strong. The left side of my torso is strong, and the other side is weak. This muscle imbalance goes all the way up to my neck and face. I have little sensation in large parts of my body, i cannot feel any energy there. This muscle imbalance, i believe could be the cause of a blocked chakra?? What do you guys think?

I (28F) took a break from dating and want to dive deeper into the concept of masculine and feminine energy in the dating context. I feel really drawn to masculine, "alpha" men, then people start talking aboutut "high value men". But I want to gain more solid knowledge on both, how to tap more into my feminine energy and attract the masculine, also something tangible and actionable would be great. Would love to hear your reading recommendations🙏

I've recently been trying less mainstream methods of healing my various issues, I've found videos like this to be very beneficial, what are your experiences with frequency healing?

https://youtu.be/Wm177FKw1BQ

Hi.

For a few years I have been doing breathwork. Similar to wimhof.

If I really surrender, my body goes into involuntary movements, usually shaking of the torso, legs, etc.

Lately, in deep surrender, I feel the need to love myself with my hands. When I get close to climaxing, I feel called to stop. My whole body will shake for a few minutes. Then I lie still in meditation for a few minutes, then the process repeats.

Is this healthy? It's like my body/subconscious wants to build sexual energy so it can shake...

One time my body shook so hard that I saw white light, and I felt like I had an orgasm in my chest. For 30 mins after I felt like I was in a different reality made of pure love.

Some insight would be really helpful.

Thank you.

I woke up in the middle of the night from a dream of my ex and I having s3x and all of a sudden I started to feel this intense sensation on my chest (like a longing feeling). Almost as if my soul is connected to him. Could anyone explain what this is? And how can I get rid of this?

My bf sometimes will be emotionally unstable, and couldn't find a visible reason, even himself. After a period of observation, I found his emotions were quite affected by the geomagnetic storm. Any advice we can neutralize the effect?

During sex with my partner, I have noticed a lot of times I feel drained afterwards. In a good way, but it limits when we can engage because I pretty much usually need to just fall asleep afterwards. I’ve been dabbling a bit in energy work and learning how to “run” my energy so I decided to try an experiment. While we were going at it I visualized that he was literally thrusting more energy into me, and I also visualized “pulling” the energy out of him into me. Maybe “through” him would be a better way to put it. I visualized us both synched up together and also synched to source. I hope this all makes sense.

It felt incredible for me and it obviously felt very good for him too as he commented afterwards “I don’t know what you just did but that was amazing” lol. I want to keep exploring this but also don’t want to literally be sucking his energy out like a vampire. Is this ethical? He did not seem more tired or anything than usual, if anything he seemed in a better mood as he got up afterwards and did a bunch of work on his car. Is there a better way to do this?

Edit: to clarify, I did not visualize draining his own energy out of him into me, but imagined him more as a conduit of source energy to where source energy was flowing through him, into me. Basically the same as how reiki works. I think it had a positive effect on his own energy because he had a lot more vigor and came to climax faster/easier than he normally did. Sorry if that was TMI but I want to be clear I’m not trying to steal his energy lol. I just felt like a lot of times sex drains my energy into him because of the amount of orgasms he can give me, and I wanted to see if I could flip it around to where I was drawing energy from it instead of losing energy.

Sometimes I come and post here, because I have this vague understanding of our interconnectedness.

I made a post yesterday when I was in a very dark spot, just acknowledging that I often want more than I have and it's disrespectful to everyone around me who is conspiring for my welfare.

I didn't ask for anything, but I got some love and support from some anonymous benefactors that was felt and received with gratitude.

Life is confusing because right and wrong is such a topsy-turvy thing, but I wanted to say thank you to all and anyone involved in offering that unconditional support, understanding and love to me in spite of whatever circumstances I am under.

I'm curious about others experiences building clientele or regular clients. Did you only perform Reiki on friends and family and depend on word of mouth for referrals? Did you depend on social media? I'd like to build my clientele and be a full time practitioner. Any suggestions or tips are greatly appreciated.

I have a client she has some coronary artery disease is it safe to help her open her heart chakra?

if i get excited when im around certain people am i draining their energy? How do I balance it out so we are both in a level of sharing.

I struggled with pretty severe anxiety most of my life (which I pacified with Santa Maria). In fact, I had pre-hypertension blood pressure from my mid-20s all the way until age 38 (I'm 40 as of writing this).

A few years ago, I spent about 1.5 years in Tulum.

Being new to the concept of energy healing, I allowed myself to experience the different modalities available there, including a variety of plant medicines, both in ceremony and in dietas.Many wonderful things happened. I experienced aspects of healing on physical and emotional levels. I discovered my authentic voice. I became more in touch with the psychic aspects of my own nature. I had some incredible, life-altering peak experiences. I even was invited to become an energy healer with an established group called The Light Portal. It really felt like I had 'found my tribe.'

But there was a dark side to all of it that I wasn't acknowledging or aware of, as I continued to struggle with masked anxiety. Even with all of the incredible experiences I had, nobody really illuminated for me how to manage my own energy effectively to stay centered and grounded. That's pretty amazing, right? Shouldn't that be paramount to any healing practice? And I still had pre-hypertension blood pressure.I went through some dark times, catalyzed by a spontaneous, multi-week, heavy metal detox that morphed into a multi-month processing of trauma from my birth that was almost unbearable.

Here I was, in a place filled with 'spiritual' people, yet I often felt like I was by myself because I couldn't talk about the challenging experiences I was having without someone trying to violate my boundaries and jump into one of those 'you know what you should do...' speeches. LOL.Those experiences caused me to withdraw from my role as a facilitator at the Light Portal and focus on taking care of myself.

Welcome to the land of Tulum, where almost everyone thinks they are a shaman and is trying to sell you their flavor of energy healing filtered through their own unconscious traumas that they have been ignoring (and often suppressing with plant medicine).

Eventually, I made it through the trauma, and I had to return to the states in Sept 2022 to help with my father's health issues.

It was there, when I had space from the boundary-disrespecting 'spiritual' community of Tulum, that I began learning how to manage my own energy intuitively, in a way that worked for me.

It started with tuning forks and sitting meditation. I had received some enjoyable work with forks in the past, so I bought a couple of them for myself and just started playing with them.

Then that morphed into learning about the practice of biofield tuning, which is a type of energy healing that uses tuning forks. I discovered that I could receive very powerful deep healing and energy alignment simply by listening to recordings from biofield tuning sessions that other people had done that weren't even personalized for me, as it was providing some sort of healing on a DNA (ancestral) level.

I began consuming those recordings voraciously, sometimes 4-5 hours in a day.

I started participating in online group breathwork ceremonies, which were also very powerful for me. This morphed into my own self-practice of breathwork.

I took up a daily practice of qigong.

I also found a delight in receiving remote recorded sessions in crystal healing, reiki, and other modalities.

My blood pressure normalized (most recent reading was 108/62).

And I found my true calling in the energy work field, though I'll keep that as a mystery in order not to self-promote here.

The moral of the story here, I guess, is that in order to really 'heal,' I needed space for myself to discover for myself what really worked for me instead of relying on the opinions of other people.

I feel kind of the same way about reddit. There are a lot of people that are inappropriately asking others to make their decisions for them, and there are even more people that are willing to jump into the 'you know what you should do' camp.

Let's all take a step back to self, breathe, and heal.

Thank you for reading.

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24/3/24

Embrace technology. It is not anti spiritual. It is useful, it is necessary. Science and spirituality are not opposites, they are simply different ways of understanding. Two pillars in the third dimension. If you want to travel far, if you want to evolve as a planet, you will have to use both science and spirituality. You could use just one or the other but both together is your path as a planet. It is how UFOs exist, how they move in and out of space. Science and spirituality.

Okay so quick gist- I’m currently going through a divorce from a toxic partner. Throughout my time with them I had awful dreams with even demons involved. Since he left the dreams stopped.

He has been making the divorce very difficult and he’s been trying to harass and bully me but i’ve been standing my ground.

I did an egg cleanse a month ago which left me very drained and I returned to sender and I also did a cleanse with sage and palo santo.

Recently, I’ve felt this heaviness on me. I have difficulty waking up, laziness (has never been an issue before) and last night I had an awful dream with a dark entity.

Wanted to know if anyone had any advice on how to sever negative energy ties or any cleansing tips

Use something like this: https://youtu.be/0WH5-bjmpUA?si=yikE3KWJu9RMo-qA

I would recommend meditating to psytrance once in a while. It can have its uses although perhaps it is not always the ideal type of music to use. You’ll learn over time what works best for you.

The link is to a song called “Alter Nature: Running on the Horizon - Minoru Remix”. I have had two experiences with Psytrance during meditation that lead to experiencing profound love and Oneness. I was experiencing some SSRI withdrawal today and during the meditation with this song I felt pure love. I once again realised - through no effort or action on my own except connecting to Oneness - that every person is just the Divine experiencing life in separation. Any person that hurts another person is the Divine hurting itself, yet realising not. I had some PTSD a few years back and couldn’t understand why people kill each other yet it is all Oneness. And even when we love each other, it is the Divine loving itself. Just knowing this stuff won’t always help you. But experiencing it in Oneness through meditation will heal you. I think the frequency of pure love is what heals, and the memory of what we learned is just something to take with us in our lives. Both times on Psytrance meditations I experience a healing. Really amazing stuff, to connect to the Divine, focus on infinite nothingness and become it. Wait and allow your brain waves to slow down, while remaining in nothing, as nothing with nothing all around you. Eventually you will connect, so don’t look for it. In Oneness, the thought of separation is the last thing that will keep you separated from it.

Would anyone like to share your best clearing practices? I want to start doing more energy clearing, particularly before I come back in my home from being out around others, when I get off social media, etc. I want to clear outside energies so that I’m just dealing with my own. Really feeling the need to create stronger spiritual hygiene practices, so any other tips that could be beneficial are welcomed. Thanks in advance.

I was dating a guy who ended up being a bad human and caused me so much pain. He also found me a place and is the place where I currently live.

After the breakup I gained weight, I cut my hair (🤦‍♀️) at the same time as my sister, her hair is long now and mine seems to be stuck, when I have always been the one to have the longest hair because it would grew so fast.

I am trying to move and be physical, put happy music and I don’t feel as depressed anymore, however I feel there’s still negative energy around me pushing me back, I don’t know how to explain it.

Sometimes I feel heavy and unable to get out of my bed.