Hey everyone! With the mixed experience of dating apps and life getting too busy to go out, I figure I try my luck on Reddit in finding a potential long term relationship.

A bit about me, I’m 5’11” with a medium build. My hobbies include music, gaming, and building model kits (because Lego is too expensive nowadays). I also love to travel (have been out of the country several times) and like to go on walks at the local park (love to picnic and nature-scape). I also love food, whether it’s trying new things or cooking. I’m also open to learning about other activities so feel free to tell me about your current hyper fixation, I’m all ears!

I consider myself to be a very affectionate and romantic guy. Physical touch is very important to me (once we’re comfortable and can hopefully meet in person one day). I love to do little gestures of affection in whatever ways I can. I also value communication, just talking and spending quality time is very valuable to me as well. I’m also very loyal and empathetic.

For what I’m looking for, just someone around my age, preferably between 21-28, but if we click then that doesn’t really matter. You don’t have to like gaming but it is preferred (can also be a great way to spend time with each other). I would prefer you live in the USA due to timezone. I live on the east coast but I am open to abroad. I’m open to long-distance. We can chat a bit on Reddit but would prefer to take it to another app or just text.

PM me or start a chat w/ me if you’re interested. Hope to talk to you soon!

Hi everyone! 🥳

Thought I'd give this a go, since I've been lurking on here for a while and this seems like an awesome community. I really appreciate all the validating posts on demisexuality and people's honest advice and stories, and I've never had much luck with dating apps.

About me:

-I am 38, F, looking for friends to chat with and possibly something more, but I like to take things slowly and connect through meaningful conversations first. I identify as both demisexual and demiromantic.

-I am a (civilian) sailor by trade. I truly love my job and the feeling of getting lost in nature, but I'm off the grid often and travel a lot for work. I'm hoping to connect with someone who's comfortable in their own company, since it's often hard for me to write every day.

-Moving back to the East Coast (New England) next month. If you're in New England, that's a big plus, but I'm open to connections anywhere.

-I enjoy long, leisurely hikes, sailing, Irish dance, various kinds of music, deep conversations, cooking, exploring random places, cuddles, goofy comedies, trying different foods, and learning foreign languages. I speak English and German and some Spanish, Norwegian, and a tiny bit of Estonian. Currently trying to learn Finnish and Russian. I'm a big Duolingo junkie, and like trying out (or unintentionally butchering) languages with people.

-I appreciate novelty and new experiences, and also enjoy challenging myself. I enjoy being social and go to things like random Meetups often. Looking for someone who matches my level of social energy.

-Tie-dye and coffee are two of my favorite things!

-Friends describe me as spirited, enthusiastic, energetic, and kind, who can be serious at times and has a mild cynical streak. My humor is a bit on the dark side, and I value openness and honesty above all. I often fall into the ESTJ personality type.

-I am childfree and not looking to date anyone who already has children. Very sorry about that.

-I don't really follow traditional gender roles.

-I love animals (all kinds), but especially cats and dogs. I don't have any pets though, since my job makes it tough. Big plus if you have pets I can visit!

Looking for someone preferably in the 32-40 age range, who's also childfree, ambiverted or extroverted, has an adventurous spirit and some joie d'vivre, and who likes to get out and do things. Bonus if we share common interests!

If any of this resonates with you, please feel free to send me a DM. If you could write something that relates to this post, that would be terrific.

I look forward to hearing from you all and best of luck in your search. 🙂

Basically what the title says, I'm trying to put myself out there and meet more people and see where it goes. Friends or maybe partners..?

I'm in to: Anime (Jujutsu, Dragonball, etc) Gaming (Specifically BG3) Music! I like performing music, watching/listening anything tbh (music major in my undergrad lol)

I'm also a pretty big/chubby guy, so if that puts you off steer clear ig, and i'm trying to find the way if i'm asexual or demi (it's a long story lmap) I'm pretty closed off until I get to know someone as well, but I'm definitely down to meet new people! :) Feel free to comment or DM :))

Hi hello oh god I'm so nervous uhhhhhh let's see...

I've made a post on here before, but I wanted to make a new and updated one, so I'm nervous about how this will go.

You know how it is for Demis, so I don't expect to enter a romantic/sexual or otherwise intimate relationship quickly, or at all if that's not what you're looking for. I just thought I should be up front about why I didn't just use the "Friendship" flair.

I'm on the East Coast of the US, usually in Maine, so I would prefer people from that timezone. It'd be nice if you were closer regardless of how our relationship unfolds, but since we're starting out online it isn't a huge deal.

As far as age goes, I guess I'd just like to meet some demis who are close to my age. Preferably like 18-25 range I'd say but honestly you're free to reply regardless of age.

About me:

• Autistic, ADHD (Inattentive, so I struggle with organization and concentration, but I'm not hyper.)
• Introverted + kinda shy (I'll start to drop that a bit as we get closer and more comfortable tho, sorry if it takes awhile)
• I feel like I should describe my personality or humor but I'm not super sure what to say. I'm a bit weird and quiet but I think I can be pretty nice and friendly, and I have my moments of being funny or goofy/silly
• I'm not religious, but I don't mind if you are.
• 6'1" and about 230 lbs. or so, so I'm a bit chubby. I dunno how relevant my body/appearance will ever be, but I suppose it's also worth mentioning that I'm fairly hairy.
• Currently in my Senior year of college studying software development as an IT major.
• I'm not typically very dirty/NSFW in conversation, and I don't really mind if you are, just check with me and make sure I'm comfortable.

I think that's all you need to know about me as a person. Next:

Interests/Hobbies:

• Anime (Favorites: JJBA, Demon Slayer, Fairy Tail, Miss Kobayashi's Dragon Maid, One Piece, Dungeon Meshi, etc.)
• Manga (Favorites: JJBA, Land of the Lustrous, Pokemon Adventures, Legend of Zelda [by Akira Himekawa], Shaman King, Cells At Work, etc.)
• Video Games (Favorites: Danganronpa, Kingdom Hearts, Kirby, Ace Attorney, Pokemon, Smash Bros., Roguelites, Metroidvanias, etc.)
• TTRPGs (I've played a little D&D, and there are plenty of other games I'd like to play, but I've never GM'd and don't really plan to)
• 3D Printing (Not the best at it, and my 3D modeling skills are currently a work-in-progress, though I really haven't been working on improving lately.)
• Reading (Favorites: Rick Riordan, The Magic Thief, etc.)
• Walking? (IDK I just like to pop in my earbuds and listen to music or a podcast or smth and just walk around for awhile)
• Piano (Pretty much novice/intermediate level, and rusty since it's been about 2 years)

I think that covers all of that.

I don't want to be too gung-ho about trying to find a relationship, since that's really not how this whole Demisexual thing works, but I decided I should put myself out there a bit more, y'know?

Oh, and as a final word of caution, I am admittedly insecure and shy when it comes to stuff like this, which has led me to overthink things a lot. I'm not the best at initiating conversations, so please don't mistake that for a lack of interest! It gets easier for me when I become more comfortable and we find the things that we really click with so I can use those topics as conversation starters, but please bare with me and try to initiate conversations as well!

And that's the post! Are you interested? Did I forget anything I should've added? Is this post a messy disaster? Did I do this all wrong and the mods will be contacting me soon? Hopefully I'll be talking to a new friend soon, but regardless, thanks for stopping by, and have a great rest of your day/night!

Binged watched love island and now I have hope I can find love 😭

I got back on the dating apps but there is always the sexual attraction thing that gets in the way. I feel like my experience sometimes differs a lot from posts I see. I do have crushes, aesthetic attraction is important to me and I want all the romance and kisses and cuddles. Just not sure about sex.

Im 29, 5’9, African American woman from NY now living in CT. Im Christian, love concerts, hiking, movies/tv, fashion and trying new restaurants. I’m looking for a best friend and hope to find someone in the area 🤞🏾 My DMs are open.

Hi, I'm Loor, a black nonbinary afab person who presents fem or just comfortable. I'm 24 years old and live on the east coast of the USA. I'm looking for a long term relationship that will lead to marriage as I want my forever person. I love anime, pokemon, music, and movies to name a few. I'm not too picky when it comes to anything except for foods and the beach. I love a good conversation talking about the things people are passionate about too. I tend to fall hard and fast and would prefer a clingy partner honestly! I've been struggling to find a relationship for a while and was hoping to find someone nearby or at least willing to travel!

Hello, and welcome!

This ad features bolded portions for those who don't want to dedicate the time without some reassurance it may pay off!

I'm very interested in meeting like-minded folk who believe they have some similarities with me and that we may click. Specifically, I'm seeking a cisgender woman (a preference of mine, even for platonic relations) that's 18 or older from any country and background (who that woman is matters more to me than details of this sort). I'm 33 and male myself, living in the Eastern US. I adore thorough and passionate interactions with a meaningful basis. I dislike trivialities and meaningless expectations.

I want to feel and create a deep bond that's built little by little with every conversation and action. In this way, I'm open to any possible type of relationship with the people I meet here, from acquaintances, to friends, to penpals, to something more intimate. Our connection should develop over time. My ultimate goal is to bond with those I jibe with regardless of where we end up. We'll need to feel out what works best for us and where we want to take things and when. I've experienced everything from becoming very close with someone within the first conversation to remaining very brief with others after weeks. I've enjoyed everything from regular/daily casual texts and banter to several page e-mail penpal exchanges. Let's get creative and go with the flow.

I've also always been the type to want to meet new and interesting people. Lacking similarities has actually opened me and those I met to things we would have never considered before. Some common interests and especially character traits are vital, but completely relating and having everything in common isn't as important as you would think. Knowing what traits matter most comes out in chat and interaction, not a checklist of things to conform to. I've been surprised by who I was able to bond and share with, so I'm open to a lot. I hope you are as well.

I want to make it clear that if whoever is reading this feels like we may have a connection or ability to bond together they should message me. No hesitations or doubts, please. I don't believe in losing potential and being self-defeated before anything even occurred. I've not uncommonly been told I'm patient, kind, and easy to talk to, which I hope is just as true for those I come across here. Should you like or need it, please allow me to soothe your nerves instead of allowing us to suffer from any misunderstandings or difficulties.

More about me and what I'm seeking:

• I like long, intimate, deep, and personal discussion. By this, I mean not being restricted by trivialities and actually being ourselves. I'm not someone who likes casual chat about things that don't matter to either of us. Be genuine and authentic. It can take time to feel comfortable and be seen in a raw form, but doing so is an ultimate goal.
• I adore vulnerable people with complexity and seeing who someone really is. Having a comfortable space to fully let loose is an ideal. We all hurt, and some more than others - I disagree with the notion that one should hide these aspects of themselves. I'm openly accepting of sensitive and traumatized people and see their mental state and experiences as having a great deal to offer despite the difficulties. Personally, I'm in a sort of 'third phase' of my own development. I no longer do the opposite of what caused my difficulties and no longer intellectualize my pain in hopes of convincing myself I've somehow fully eradicated it. I meet people where they are, but find it important to state where I am.
• I value creativity and like artistic types. I express this myself through writing and more literary arts. In particular, I write intellectually, about general observations and thoughts, and poetically - mostly to other people in the form of conversation partners (I'm very much a conversational thinker and writer and can go on for a long, long time about a plethora of topics with the right person). I appreciate and admire all sorts of expression, even if it's a type I'm not personally involved in.
• I'm INTJ and Type 5, since some people seem to like knowing. I like taking different types of tests to understand myself better, although a lot of them seem petty bunk to me, including MBTI and Enneagram. But, it can be a decent basis and fun activity to share with someone. I also enjoy taking tests with other people and comparing results, as well as discussing the tests themselves.
• Due to my personality and desires, I could be considered part of the ace/aro spectrum. I am demisexual and demiromantic IRL. I am prone to graysexuality online due to it not requiring actual physical touch. I tend to get along very well with asexuals despite having active sexual desires myself (although friendship may be better depending on your own views and needs).

More about my values, passions, and interests:

• I like to ruminate, research, and learn new things. I don't like to constrain myself, and I strive to see various topics in intricate and new ways. I'm, by choice, an autodidact, and prefer this sort of person as well, or at least those who can appreciate liberated knowledge acquisition and comprehension. I believe there's always more to know and more ways to know those things - humanity can only comprehend so much, and less than we think we can. The motto 'Nitimur in vetitum semper cupimusque negata.' is a pretty good summary of my intellectual ethics. Those who believe certain topics are beyond any and all forms of reproach probably won't do well with me in this endeavor. In this case, we should limit ourselves in order to benefit from what does happen to be there, or simply adopt a different motto: 'Friends who want to stay friends don't discuss religion or politics.' In my experience, it's not polarizing stances that cause difficulties between people, but how unwavering someone is in their resolve, refusing to so much as listen to what another person has to say.
• I believe in eternity - in both directions. This means I have a primary focus on the future, a significant focus on the past, and acknowledge the present moment as a form of transience between the two. I'm not a "live your life to the fullest" type. My life started before I had it and will continue after it's gone, but I do believe in simply absorbing what's there while it's there. I'm not uncommonly melancholic, but am almost never lackadaisical.
• I live a very dynamic life and have since I was young. I might stay up chatting until dawn one night and then be passed out by 5 PM the next one - likely because of the lack of sleep during the first. My pursuits, job, and the other demands of life are in constant flux. My resolution has always been to regulate these various needs and wants and to intensely focus on them when and if possible. I don't believe in being "too busy". You can always find time for someone, even if it's not consistent - finding that flow and appreciation of each other is vital.
• Photography, tech, incense, time pieces, archiving, and abstraction have always interested me and continue to do so. I'm always surprised by what people consider to be interests and hobbies, so I probably have more I take for granted and didn't list here. I haven't consumed media regularly in years, but used to engage with a lot of it when I was younger, mostly including movies, anime/manga, and video games. I still watch movies from time to time, being more prone to it when I have someone else to accompany me. If you're looking for a gaming buddy or TV junkie you'll need to find it elsewhere, but I'm not fully opposed to sharing or talking about these things with someone either. I used to love it at one point.

Are we looking for each other? I'd greatly appreciate a reasonably lengthy chat/message in which you told me what within my ad resonated with you, what you're seeking, and anything else you may want to mention. I would like to get to know people with a level of depth akin to what I wrote here, and will end up asking about these things at some point anyway. I look forward to us chatting and connecting around meaningful and fervid passions.

I'm a 25 years old living in South Germany for the last six years I'm currently employed in a hotel also did an Ausbildung for it so it's a pretty decent job

What I'm lookin for hoping for is just to meet someone on here to from a decent relationship and have each others backs and just try to navigate this fucked up world

And I'm trying on Reddit because god knows dating apps are the worst 🤮

My hobbies are to be honest pretty boring for the normal person

I like history especially late 19 century and early 20 century I just love the people of that e uhra and the culture the warfare there is so much to talk about plus I know the history of Europe from ancient till modern times so ask me any fact you like

I'm also a book worm my favourite type books I like to read are fantasy book and sci fi books and alternate history

I'm a big fan of mythology too especially Norse and Roman I just love the whole concept and there gods are badass,

I also like watching random series when I have the time ranging everything from sci fi to criminal, to anime

. I also like to jog and cook I will make you an awesome breakfast and pancakes for dessert

My music taste is everywhere but I mostly like punk rock and heavy metal

Appearance wise I'm 177 cm, 70kg ,black hair, green eyes, Normal slim body, if you like a picture I can gladly send it

Please send me this emoji if you have read all of this 👹👹

And pleas be in Europe anywhere else is just to far away for me

Hello, and welcome!

I'm very interested in meeting like-minded folk who believe they have some similarities with me and that we may click. Specifically, I'm seeking a cisgender woman that's 18 or older from any country and background (who that woman is matters more to me than details of this sort). I'm 33 and male myself, living in the Eastern US. I adore thorough and passionate interactions with a meaningful basis. I dislike trivialities and meaningless expectations. I want to feel and create a deep bond that's built little by little with every conversation and action. In this way, I'm open to any possible type of relationship with the people I meet here, from acquaintances, to friends, to penpals, to a life partner. My ultimate goal is to bond with those I jive with regardless of where we end up. I'd especially like something more intimate, so an LDR or more than friendly situation would be ideal. However, I'm plenty open to conversation partners and less romantic situations if one or more details between us don't quite work out. We'll need to feel out what works best for us and where we want to take things.

I've also always been the type to want to meet new and interesting people. Lacking similarities has actually opened me and those I met to things we would have never considered before. Some common interests and especially character traits are vital, but completely relating and having everything in common isn't as important as you would think. Knowing what traits matter most comes out in chat and interaction, not a checklist of things to conform to. I've been surprised by who I was able to bond and share with, so I'm open to a lot. I hope you are as well.

I want to make it clear that if whomever is reading this feels like we may have a connection or ability to bond together they should message me. No hesitations or doubts, please. I don't believe in losing potential and being self-defeated before anything even occurred. I've not uncommonly been told I'm patient, kind, and easy to talk to, which I hope is just as true for those I come across here. Should you like or need it, please allow me to soothe your nerves instead of allowing us to suffer from any misunderstandings or difficulties.

More about me and what I'm seeking:

• I like long, intimate, deep, and personal discussion. By this, I mean not being restricted by trivialities and actually being ourselves. I'm not someone who likes casual chat about things that don't matter to either of us. Be genuine and authentic. It can take time to feel comfortable and be seen in a raw form, but doing so is an ultimate goal.
• I adore vulnerable people with complexity and seeing who someone really is. Having a content space to fully let loose is an ideal. I'm openly accepting of sensitive and traumatized people and see their mental state and experiences as having a great deal to offer despite the difficulties.
• I value creativity and like artistic types. I express this myself through writing and more literary arts. In particular, I write intellectually, about general observations and thoughts, and poetically - mostly to other people in the form of conversation partners (I'm very much a conversational thinker and writer and can go on for a long, long time about a plethora of topics with the right person). I appreciate and admire all sorts of expression, even if it's a type I'm not personally involved in.
• I'm INTJ and Type 5, since some people seem to like knowing. I like taking different types of tests to understand myself and others better. A lot of them seem petty bunk to me, including MBTI and Enneagram, but it can be a fun activity to share with someone, whether talking about it or taking tests together and then discussing the results and test itself.
• Due to my personality and desires, I could be considered part of the ace/aro spectrum. I am demisexual and demiromantic IRL. I am more prone to graysexuality online due to it not requiring actual physical touch (I'm open to what happens - depends on the person and how well we get along). I tend to get along very well with asexuals despite having active sexual desires myself (although friendship may be better depending on your own views and needs).

More about my values, passions, and interests:

• I like to research and learn new things. I don't like to constrain myself and am interesting in seeing various topics in intricate and new ways. I'm, by choice, an autodidact and prefer this sort of person as well, or at least those who can appreciate liberated knowledge acquisition and comprehension. I believe there's always more to know, and more ways to know those things - humanity can only comprehend so much, and less than we think we can.
• I believe in eternity - in both directions. This means I have a primary focus on the future, a significant focus on the past, and acknowledge the present moment as a form of transience between the two. I'm not a "live your life to the fullest" type. My life started before I had it and will continue after it's gone, but I do believe in simply absorbing what's there while it's there.
• I live a very dynamic life and have since I was young. I might stay up chatting until dawn one night and then be passed out by 5 PM the next one - likely because of the lack of sleep during the first. My pursuits, job, and the other demands of life are in constant flux. My resolution has always been to regulate these various needs and wants and to intensely focus on them when and if possible. I don't believe in being "too busy". You can always find time for someone even if it's not consistent - finding that flow and appreciation of each other is vital.
• Photography, tech, incense, time pieces, archiving, and abstraction have always interested me and continue to do so. I'm always surprised by what people consider to be interests and hobbies, so I probably have more I take for granted and didn't list here.
• I haven't consumed media regularly in years, but used to engage with a lot of it when I was younger, mostly including movies, anime/manga, and video games. I still watch movies from time to time, being more prone to it when I have someone else to accompany me.

Are we looking for each other? I'd greatly appreciate a reasonably lengthy chat/message in which you told me what within my ad resonated with you, what you're seeking, and anything else you may want to mention. I would like to get to know people with a level of depth akin to what I wrote here, and will end up asking about these things at some point anyway. I look forward to us chatting and connecting around meaningful and fervid passions.

Hello there, i never know whst to say on these things so i will say wgat i am looking for. I need friends particlarly those i can form a strong platonic or more bond with. I have not had love in my life in quite some time. I am open to all friendships, but i am only able to give romantic feelings to those who have female body parts. I need someone who can share my nerdly interests, and also be content huddling near a firepit watching the stars. Reach out if you want to get to know me. I want a friend or friends i can have in my life for a long time if it becomes more than friends we will see.

Hi all, I'm a 26yo male living in the north of England, having recently moved here from the south to kick-start my life and live independently. It's true, by the way - the north is really more kind than the south!

If you're reading this month's after I posted this, don't let the age of the post stop you from introducing yourself. Would hate to miss out on good things!

Anyway, a bit about me. In my personal life, I've been fortunate to find a new group of friends, go to badminton every Monday, and have a lot of my irl and internet friends visit me as I've settled in. I would like to take violin lessons one day, I do some illustration, and work as a consultant fully from home. I love the cinema, Doctor Who, and as you might've guessed, I also play games a lot on PC.

Physically, I'm a slim build, black hair, brown eyes, light tan skin. I'm 5"5, which I know is small for a male in the UK - unfortunately its always made things a bit difficult in the dating realm, so I just hope I can find someone who doesn't mind. I don't have any mental attributes but had my fair share of counselling to improve myself and address childhood trauma (which I've thankfully processed enough, and haven't been to counselling for years now!).

I feel grateful to have ticked off a lot of my bucket list, but I've always missed having a connection with someone. I've never been one to rush into relationships and have always preferred to build experiences and time together before catching feelings.

I'd appreciate someone from the UK so that we could meet one day if things go well, but I'm open to LDR. I love quality time and would like to spend it with you, mostly expressed through gaming, films, and days out eating or visiting landmarks. I'm pretty busy but will always plan ahead to find time. I'm down to swap pictures of our appearances early too, if that's ever something that you'd like to do.

I'm a keen chatter, and I like to ask questions. I'd appreciate someone who's talkative or at least energetic - I love the idea of having someone to message throughout the day, and I'm usually a pretty quick replier myself.

Shoot me a DM, and if you're into gaming, I'd love to find something we can play and get to know each other through. Hope to hear back soon!!

Hello, I’m looking for a fellow intellectually minded soulmate who can chat about all the subjects under the sun ☀️. Once a connection is made I can be the most romantic and passionate gentlemen you’ll ever desire. I’m young looking and rather handsome, caring and love animals. I like to read, a lover of the fine arts and more topical pursuits.

I'm educated to a Master's level, a qualified English Teacher and I'm a trained Chef too. I've previously served in the Royal Navy so any James Bond comparisons are more than welcome.

I'm open to LDR or relocating.

There must be someone out there who can awaken this passion locked in my mind and my soul!

Is it you?

Hi everyone, first of all I am so glad this place exists as I have had the chance to chat with some very nice down-to-earth people who are also demi. I have been on dating apps on and off but constantly get discouraged. I have made female friends through them though, I think it's because of the mutual feminine energy that resulted and always came in refreshing and also because maybe I am a bit traditional and don't really have real male friends.

About me, I'm sensitive but don't hold grudges (at least not for long unless it's something big). A mix between ENFP and INFP, internally I feel more like an INFP that was expected to be an ENFP by the outside world. I am somewhat impatient, probably one of my worst traits or so I am told. I can be very loving and caring though. Generally I try to see the good in people while being realistic. I have a mode where I just try to get through the hard things as some of life has hardened me to not be taken for granted.

I enjoy alone time and calm hobbies like reading (but also love board games and poker). I love sociology. I also try to put together my own sociological theories and care more about how the world is interconnected than about very personal stories. Actually occasionally I need a night out with loud music. Loud music so people don't talk too much and you can take in the scene. Some days I really don't want to even speak one word and just be in peace (unless it's absolutely necessary to speak). I will always keep in touch and answer important messages though. I try as much as I can to work through conflict peacefully while still speaking my mind and being authentic.

More hands on facts about me: 5'7 (169cm), average weight trying to keep in shape, brunette, brown eyes, wearing glasses but also contacts sometimes, love to dress for a night out but also love lounging around the house in comfortable clothes and jeans when I go out casually, lately love dresses though. I'm conventionally pretty, and as you can see also somewhat confident. Christian/Catholic. Originally from western Europe but lived all over (will gladly tell you more later and yes I work remotely), would like to settle down in Europe or the US in the near future, want children, hopefully with someone who doesn't have any yet (I also don't have any yet). I am a true romantic at heart but would love to share all of that only with the right person.

I am a Monogamous high functioning autistic Transfem, looking for a deep and meaningful connection. I'm high maintenance and needy for people who I care about. I require constant attention and full transparency and to be included in most apsects of your life. I am jealous, possessive and have borderline stalker-like behavior. I have trust issues, fears of abandonment, separation anxiety and panic attacks. On the contrary, I am loyal and dedicated entirely for people who I consider close, I never lie, and will tell you everything. I will engage in conversations, I can show interest in your hobbies, I will be plain and genuine, and I expect the same that I provide. I have low tolerance for shallow behavior. I'm loving and affectionate, and looking for commitment and romance; someone I will spend the rest of my life with, someone I'll be able to talk about my day with, and confide with when I am feeling down, someone who would know me to my core and could recite all of my life and personality from heart. That being said, despite being a Demi, I am extremely hyper-sexual and kinky, I am submissive and have interest in BDSM and often act on it with people who I get to connect with.

I'm also a furry, a 3 year old Shiba Inu puppy (21 in human years). Yes, I am a dog, please treat me like one. I enjoy being demoralized due to my role, confined only to it, for my sole purpose as an animal. I enjoy walks in the park, playing fetch, barking out loud and running around in circles. (Despite being a furry, don't bother messaging me if you're tolerant of cubs or ferals, I will block you)

My hobbies consist of military simulation games (Squad mainly), but I am also an amateur gun and tech enthusiast. I am open for fun activities like watching movies together, playing videogames, roleplaying or just enjoying each other's presence.

I am also apolitical, so I try to avoid sensitive topics as long as it doesn't directly impact me and my relationships, so if you're trying to divert my opinion on something don't bother. I have a few triggers and dealbreakers; them being age difference, I won't date someone who's above their 20s, I also despise lack of transparency, I require constant communication, and my needs to be heard. If I'm being ignored it'll make me uncomfortable.

My demeanor is energetic, outgoing, yet overly sensitive and shy. I am pretty plain and straightforward, blunt, and pretty direct so don't be hesitant to ask me any questions regarding me.

Hi everyone! I'm new to the demi scene and am looking for some like minded friends. My interests are good books and good tv shows.

Hello, and welcome!

I'm very interested in meeting like-minded folk who believe they have some similarities with me and that we may click. Specifically, I'm seeking a cisgender woman that's 18 or older from any country and background (who that woman is matters more to me than details of this sort). I'm 33 and male myself, living in the Eastern US. I adore thorough and passionate interactions with a meaningful basis. I dislike trivialities and meaningless expectations. I want to feel and create a deep bond that's built little by little with every conversation and action. In this way, I'm open to any possible type of relationship with the people I meet here, from acquaintances, to friends, to penpals, to a life partner. My ultimate goal is to bond with those I jive with regardless of where we end up. I'd especially like something more intimate, so an LDR or more than friendly situation would be ideal. However, I'm plenty open to conversation partners and less romantic situations if one or more details between us don't quite work out. We'll need to feel out what works best for us and where we want to take things.

I've also always been the type to want to meet new and interesting people. Lacking similarities has actually opened me and those I met to things we would have never considered before. Some common interests and especially character traits are vital, but completely relating and having everything in common isn't as important as you would think. Knowing what traits matter most comes out in chat and interaction, not a checklist of things to conform to. I've been surprised by who I was able to bond and share with, so I'm open to a lot. I hope you are as well.

I want to make it clear that if whomever is reading this feels like we may have a connection or ability to bond together they should message me. No hesitations or doubts, please. I don't believe in losing potential and being self-defeated before anything even occurred. I've not uncommonly been told I'm patient, kind, and easy to talk to, which I hope is just as true for those I come across here. Should you like or need it, please allow me to soothe your nerves instead of allowing us to suffer from any misunderstandings or difficulties.

More about me and what I'm seeking:

• I like long, intimate, deep, and personal discussion. By this, I mean not being restricted by trivialities and actually being ourselves. I'm not someone who likes casual chat about things that don't matter to either of us. Be genuine and authentic. It can take time to feel comfortable and be seen in a raw form, but doing so is an ultimate goal.
• I adore vulnerable people with complexity and seeing who someone really is. Having a content space to fully let loose is an ideal. I'm openly accepting of sensitive and traumatized people and see their mental state and experiences as having a great deal to offer despite the difficulties.
• I value creativity and like artistic types. I express this myself through writing and more literary arts. In particular, I write intellectually, about general observations and thoughts, and poetically - mostly to other people in the form of conversation partners (I'm very much a conversational thinker and writer and can go on for a long, long time about a plethora of topics with the right person). I appreciate and admire all sorts of expression, even if it's a type I'm not personally involved in.
• I'm INTJ and Type 5, since some people seem to like knowing. I like taking different types of tests to understand myself and others better. A lot of them seem petty bunk to me, including MBTI and Enneagram, but it can be a fun activity to share with someone, whether talking about it or taking tests together and then discussing the results and test itself.
• Due to my personality and desires, I could be considered part of the ace/aro spectrum. I am demisexual and demiromantic IRL. I am more prone to graysexuality online due to it not requiring actual physical touch (I'm open to what happens - depends on the person and how well we get along). I tend to get along very well with asexuals despite having active sexual desires myself (although friendship may be better depending on your own views and needs).

More about my values, passions, and interests:

• I like to research and learn new things. I don't like to constrain myself and am interesting in seeing various topics in intricate and new ways. I'm, by choice, an autodidact and prefer this sort of person as well, or at least those who can appreciate liberated knowledge acquisition and comprehension. I believe there's always more to know, and more ways to know those things - humanity can only comprehend so much, and less than we think we can.
• I believe in eternity - in both directions. This means I have a primary focus on the future, a significant focus on the past, and acknowledge the present moment as a form of transience between the two. I'm not a "live your life to the fullest" type. My life started before I had it and will continue after it's gone, but I do believe in simply absorbing what's there while it's there.
• I live a very dynamic life and have since I was young. I might stay up chatting until dawn one night and then be passed out by 5 PM the next one - likely because of the lack of sleep during the first. My pursuits, job, and the other demands of life are in constant flux. My resolution has always been to regulate these various needs and wants and to intensely focus on them when and if possible. I don't believe in being "too busy". You can always find time for someone even if it's not consistent - finding that flow and appreciation of each other is vital.
• Photography, tech, incense, time pieces, archiving, and abstraction have always interested me and continue to do so. I'm always surprised by what people consider to be interests and hobbies, so I probably have more I take for granted and didn't list here.
• I haven't consumed media regularly in years, but used to engage with a lot of it when I was younger, mostly including movies, anime/manga, and video games. I still watch movies from time to time, being more prone to it when I have someone else to accompany me.

Are we looking for each other? I'd greatly appreciate a reasonably lengthy chat/message in which you told me what within my ad resonated with you, what you're seeking, and anything else you may want to mention. I would like to get to know people with a level of depth akin to what I wrote here, and will end up asking about these things at some point anyway. I look forward to us chatting and connecting around meaningful and fervid passions.

Hell on wheels. Not entirely straight. I am a goth babe, granted with defective legs—a budget goth babe, if you will. One of those off the shelf ones, except I don’t trust myself around shelves. Wheelchair and that. Looking for something long-term. Open to anyone 29-36. https://ibb.co/DwFPtqG Here I am! Please tell me your favorite book if you decide to send me a message! Talk about medieval history with me!

I love single-player RPGs, but I could use a player two. I am also a voracious reader so sometimes I read 10 books at once. I'm looking for something long-term. Right now I'm taking a break from school while I pursue my Masters in psychology and reading Lord of the Rings. I could also use Nintendo Switch friends. I usually play a human sorcerer in Dungeons & Dragons; if there's an open spot in your party I'll take it! I love Tolkien, A Song of Ice and Fire and recently started Robert Jordan's books! Arya, Sansa, Brienne, Jaime and Bran are my favorite characters. Baldur’s Gate, Mass Effect, Fallout and Elder Scrolls are some of my favorites. I collect vinyl and love my dog more than anything else.

Marathoning Doctor Who--Nine and Thirteen are my Doctors! Loving Shōgun and House of the Dragon, though I could always use more period drama recommendations! I keep Kitchen Nightmares on as background noise.

I have a special interest in shipwrecks and medieval English history.

Still love Evanescence, Lacuna Coil, Nightwish and bands of that illk. Will take emo and punk friends too! I need friends in Disney Dreamlight Valley as well!

I am looking for long, loving, lasting relationships primarily. If you are too please reach out. Please tell me a little bit about yourself if you can and please be fairly close in age to me. I am very shy, please be understanding if I am slow to respond.

Wouldn't it make more sense to ask a discerning friend to write this? It feels weird to be writing about myself like this. Oh well, maybe next time.

I'm a kind, funny, sometimes-naive geek looking for...well...you. If it's right. You know what I mean.

I like to laugh, read (to myself and aloud), write, make up snatches of poetry (some of which I sing to my cat, when the mood takes me), walk beside water, cook, run imaginative tabletop roleplaying games...basically I'm a nurturer with a sense of humor. I'm hoping to find a woman who matches some of my quirks. Truth to tell, I'm a little shy and awkward when it comes to flirting; I'm a demi, after all! Oh, and I'm quite a leftist but not dogmatic about it. I'm the single father of an adult son who lives with me.

I've been told I'm cute, which is nice to hear. I'm bald and I have a short beard. I don't smoke (please don't either), and I don't drink; just don't like the taste. But I have nothing against drinking in principle. I'm a cat person, not a dog person, which is unfortunate since most single women seem to have dogs!

I live in southeastern Massachusetts. I'm hoping to meet someone from my general area, since LDRs can be pretty frustrating. But if you're from the UK we might get along. I visited there once and really felt as if I fit in.

Too much? Not enough? What do you think?

Hello!

I'm a 5'0 ft tall 26 soon-to-be 27-year-old in June, computer engineer looking for a long-term relationship. I'm very open to a long-distance relationship with someone who is also either Demisexual or Asexual.

Edit: [Forgot to add] I'm hoping for an age range of 25-32 (-2 +5). Might want kids some day (biological or adopted) but I don't mind not having any.

I'm from the Philippines, Davao to be specific. I've dated before but my relationships were mostly short-term as I've struggled with showing physical affection... I'm looking for someone who's patient and understanding in that aspect. My two main love languages are: Quality time and Acts of service.

What I'm like:

• I'm a tomboy. I like keeping my hair short and I don't like wearing dresses or skirts. I only where them if it's required for the dress code. (I get misidentified as a lesbian because of this). I'm female if you want some specifics. Pronouns are she/they but I really don't mind.
• I'm sometimes a slow replier. One of the reasons is my phone has a problem with notifications for some reason so I usual don't notice any messages. Another reason is I work two jobs and I'm currently taking my master's, but I will try to reply.
• I don't get jealous easily. I understand wanting to have time by yourself or with friends. I like having my alone time too and time to hang out with friends. I just want someone who will trust me as much as I trust them. I may have a problem with intimacy but I'm loyal, even when in a long-distance relationship.
• I'm a bit socially awkward. I might be different behind the keyboard than in real life, it's easier for me to be more talkative behind the screen. I'm a bit quieter in real life and will most likely just listen than talk, especially if we speak different native languages.

My likes and interests:

• Video games. I really like RPGs and I would love having online dates playing a multiplayer RPG with someone. Some games on my Steam: Fallout (New Vegas, 3, and 4), GTA V (I mostly play Online), Cyberpunk 2077, Monster Hunter World, Phasmophobia, Coral Island, Dragon Age Inquisition, Baldur's Gate III, Skyrim, Payday 2, Saints Row III, and Overcooked 2.
• Anime. I used to be a huge Naruto fan (I had a notebook dedicated for Naruto stuff back in grade school, a kid borrowed it and never returned it). Right now, the animes that I've been watching are: Mashle and Welcome to Demon School! Iruma-kun. Just some light anime now because my jobs are very demanding.
• Cartoons. I like watching cartoons, and I don't want judgement. Watching cartoons help me release some stress, besides playing video games. I've been watching Bob's Burgers.
• Tabletop games. I really want to get into playing D&D, I have the books (Player's Handbook, Dungeon Master's Guide, and Monster Manual) and the Essential's Kit. I'm trying to go about how to get my friends into it. I'm still currently in the process of making an excel sheet and a companion app on Java so it can be a lot more manageable for my friends to keep track of things.
• Horror Movies. I love watching horror movies. I've watched a lot of horror movies and it kind of gets boring now, I fell asleep while my friends and I were watching Hell House LLC. But I'm open to watching horror movies, especially ones I've never watched before. I miss getting scared after watching them.
• Rock Music. I love Rammstein (fan since I was 12 years old) and Lacuna Coil.
• Pets. I have dogs, a turtle, and a silver arowana. I love dogs, but that doesn't mean I don't like cats.

DM me if interested or post a comment.

Thank you for your time going through this long post 😅

My life is currently in a state of flux with a positive trajectory, and I’d like to find my person to share this excitement with. Not entirely sure what type of person I’m looking for but I know that I’m not looking for flings, age range 24-30, and I generally am more attracted to masculine people than to feminine. A few points about me:

• Vegan
• Socially anxious extrovert (emphasis on anxious)
• Demisexual
• Trans man
• Jewish
• chubby

Not looking to date at too long a distance, so please only message if you’re in one of the Carolinas (if you really really think we’d be compatible, then I’ll accept messages from people in the surrounding states of the Carolinas).

After a bit of talking, we can exchange SFW pics (I may be asexual but aesthetic attraction still matters).

If you message, please include a little about yourself.

Some info about me and preferences

• Languages: Portuguese, English and German
• Nerdy interests: martial arts, economy, philosophy, RPG(both tabletop and video games), literature(sci fi, historial fiction, gothic, historical fiction, terror and Russian).
• Non-nerdy intersts: cooking, playing acoustic guitar, animals, working out, music(various metal subgenres, indie rock, blues, classical, country and bossa nova).
• Politics and Religion: I'm a agnostic right-leaning libertarian.

I'm a introvert but I talk a lot when someone start talking about the topics listed above, ITNJ(if you care about MBTI)

Idk what I'm looking for, had my heart crushed recently and don't have any friends who aren't straight other than two and working night shift n being a loner I don't go out much to make new friends. So feel free to HMU I got Snap too if we hit it off or just for a more convenient means to chat it should be posted in my bio.

Hey, I'm a 30 year old woman, born and raised in las vegas, nevada. I've been trying widen my social horizons and thought I'd try here, too. Anybody in the vicinity want to meet up?

Hi! I'm not really the romantic type, but once I've found an emotional connection, my affectionate side naturally comes out. Being a Demi kinda makes it hard for me to meet anyone in my vicinity. Not really into finding romance online, but I'd like to be able to tell myself that I've tried all avenues before embracing singleness 😆 I'd like to find someone whose attentive, calm and decisive. My love language is Acts of Service. I love coffee, cats (dogs too!), watching dramas, traveling, camping, handicrafts and watching youtube videos (my favorite channel is Mr. Ballen, highly recommend). I live in the Philippines, and often visit my Aunt and cousins (they're my 2nd family) on weekends. Well... I hope I find luck here... dating apps aren't really working for me😅 I also want to be straightforward and say I'm not looking for anything casual. It might be a long shot but marriage is my goal.😊

Hi everyone! I'm a 34-year-old demisexual/graysexual woman with an adventurous spirit, ready to explore the world with a partner who values respect, emotional intimacy, and taking things slow. I'm passionate about traveling and experiencing new cultures, and I dream of sharing these incredible journeys with someone who's just as curious about life as I am.

I'm looking for a partner who's willing to build a deep emotional connection before anything else. Beyond my wanderlust, I'm a compassionate and thoughtful individual who enjoys learning, trying new things, and engaging in meaningful conversations. I'm looking for someone who shares my enthusiasm for life and is ready to embark on a journey of growth and adventure together.

I'm looking for a partner who's willing to build a deep emotional connection before anything else and who would be open in the future to living in Taiwan or Thailand, as I live and work between these countries and plan to continue to.

If interested in messaging me, please first read the Date Me doc found on my Reddit Post Page (it has information about my interests, values, and what I'm looking for in a relationship), and send me a message explaining what interested you in my post/date me doc (this is more than "Hey" in case you were wondering). ;)

25 looking for a relationship

Giving this a shot.

Please excuse my typing I’m not the best. Hi, I’m Adrian [25NB]. My pronouns are They/Them and I am Panromantic [Pan/Ace] I currently live in Canada (Montreal to be exact.) However, I came from Orlando, Florida originally. Im black, 5’3, and on the chubby side. I’m very quiet, and quiet laid back. I work 5 days a week(6am-2pm) currently saving up to go to school. But when I’m not at work I’m usually a homebody, I like to play games mostly farming and Pokémon games 😅and listen to music. I have been in a like 2 relationships in my time that left me struggling with trust. I’m just asking to be patient with me please. I don’t mind Long distance relationships etc. I just want to hopefully find someone who actually cares for me for once. I think that’s all 🥹 sorry if this is terrible 😞

Hi! I'm hoping to find a woman who's right for me...and, of course, who I'm right for too! I'm in southeastern Massachusetts, closer to Providence than Boston.

Although I'm a geek, you probably couldn't tell by looking at me. I look more like a former football player, although I have absolutely no interest in sports. I love imaginative tabletop roleplaying games, and have run quite a few of them. A bibliophile with a good memory, there are thousands of books in my head. All my life I've been collecting treasures: snatches of poetry, wonderful books, music, great movies and TV shows, and beautiful places to walk. Sharing those treasures makes me happy.

I love to laugh, cook, dream, and read. I'm a cat person. An omnivore, but a picky one. Occasionally I write a bit of poetry or a story. I make up silly songs on the fly to sing to my cat to tease him. Fortunately he doesn't understand - I hope. Otherwise I'm doomed!

Politically I'm an environmentalist, leftist, and anticapitalist, but I'm not doctrinaire about it. As the full-time single father of a newly-adult son (I've been divorced for eight years), the future of the Earth is deeply important to me. I'm an atheist, but not the aggressive kind. Outreach and understanding is more my style rather than confrontation.

I don't smoke or drink, never have. I have nothing against alcohol, just don't like the taste of it. I've been told by many people that I'm remarkably kind. Those people must have somehow missed my occasionally dark sense of humor.

Born a redhead but bald for many years now. My beard (not a big one) has mostly turned white, but my mustache and eyebrows are still mostly red. A bit chunky but successfully working on it. I've been called cute more than once.

I'm demisexual. That means that for me, friendship is an absolute prerequisite for love and intimacy. I'm hoping to find a woman to laugh with, take walks, go to fun places, and share ideas. And if we happen to be able to write things together - fiction, poetry, or game scenarios - I'm dying to meet you! *

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* - Just a figure of speech. I am not actually dying. 😄

Hi!

I’ve been reading around on reddit about demisexuality and I found that it really resonates with me.

I am in a polyamorous relationship and the dating apps have been notttt good, haha. It feels like no matter how hard I try to explain that I need some kind of connection first, it just goes unheard.

So, I wanted to give it a go here! I’m open to friendships, just chatting/seeing where things go. Anything!

I don’t want to post too much about myself right off the bat (friends/family), but if you want to chat, please do send a message 😊

Hello.

I'm not really one to do this sort of thing but thought I'd see if it could lead to anything.

Simply put, I'm interested in chatting with a woman 18 or older from any country and background. Think we wouldn't like each other? Chat me up anyway. You never know until you see what happens.

I've always been the type to want to meet new and interesting people. Lacking similarities has actually opened me and others up to things we would have never considered before, but some common interests and especially character traits are essentially a must. What traits matter most comes out in chat and interaction, not a checklist of things to conform to.

• I like long and intimate discussion. By this, I mean not being restricted by trivialities and actually being ourselves. I'm not someone who likes casual chat about things that don't matter to either of us.
• I like creativity and artistic types. I express this myself in writing but appreciate all sorts of expression, even if it's a type I'm not involved in.
• I like to research and learn new things. I don't like to constrain myself and am interesting in seeing things in intricate ways.
• I adore vulnerable people with complexity and seeing who someone really is. Having a space to fully let loose is an ideal.
• Photography, movies, tech, archiving, and abstraction have always interested me.
• I stopped being able to comprehend how old I feel sometime in my 20s. Been feeling very surreal lately, hence trying something like this.
• I'm INTJ. I guess that would matter in a place like this.

I'm used to just meeting people sporadically so I hope this is a decent attempt. I'm open to any questions someone might have.

43F looking for someone near me. No kids, gainfully employed, love cats, love to travel. 5’8” white, blue eyes, curvy body type.