Looking to chat with some people, wanted to touch base on some things I feel people in this community would know about. Please, if anything below sparks any sort of interest or curiosity, reach our to me; I'll try to respond as soon as I can around my practices, work, and/or classes.

Bit (or a lot) about myself: I am a 22 year old man, I am involved in college wrestling (senior year) with 3 (soon to be 4) Academic All-American awards. I have won my college's Academic Achievement Award in the fields of Mathematics, Physics, and Product Design. If you have not noticed, both the sport I'm a part of and the subjects I excel at take lots of time and dedication, thankfully I am past the filtering period. (hated working on my capstone. I'll never look at coding the same way again) So, I would like to start chatting with people and puting myself out there.

☆ I will [probably] not message you or others first, if I ever make a habit out of it then you must be special. That or I'm actively working on that, feel free to ask if that's the case.

Things I like:

• While I wouldn't say I love math and physics, I believe that an understanding of it helps in almost everything (that being said I do look up scholarly research from time to time, often times in random subjects. I do like me some statistics, especially when I can argue that a different interpretation would be better than the study's/report's one). I am deeply involved in the subjects, stopping at Quantum Mechanics because, screw that; learning how to model a particle's position inside an infinitely tall box takes way too long to set up in its entirety and I can just look up the equation if I ever need it.

• Passion: not the romantic type but genuine interest and deep involvement in the things you like type. I chose the college I went to because my, now retired, advisor showed me his passion for the subject he taught. Displaying a deep level of interest in something is always admirable, but that passion must be focused into something productive as well. Interest for the sake of interest just leaves people wanting.

• Games (sort of a given today, I know): specifically Co-Op, strategy, and roguelikes (I barely ever dislike any game or genre), co-op is great for team building and working on conflict resolution in low stress environments, strategy forces me to think and suffer for/through my mistakes, and roguelikes are all about split-second decisions and actions that build upon each other. I constantly seek out ways to improve if that wasn't obvious.

☆ I enjoy listening to others; I'm sort of hardwired to offer input and suggestions for possible solutions when available, so, if someone wants to just vent, then they gotta be explicit. Seeing other people's perspectives on all things, including their problems, is immeasurably interesting to me. I've been fortunate to be in groups where that was possible, so I have a little experience in the subject, if only at a scholarly level.

○ Alone time; kinda mixed on this. While I always want to be around others when it's available, I'll be fine alone. I might not actively seek it out, but I enjoy being near others, but sometimes I, like anyone else, need to be alone, and I value someone who works on learning when that is.

Things I dislike:

▪︎ Lack of privacy: when I share something with someone I would appreciate if they wouldn't shout it to the world right after speaking with me, this is an exageration, of course; share it and me with your friends if you want, but not just as a campfire story, have a reason. I'm also not the most willing to share photos of myself or random tidbits of my life to those who aren't asking. Ask me how I'm doing, and pry into my life, sharing details and experiences is something I'm working on.

▪︎ Overly antagonistic people: conflict leads to better understandings, but, those who live in drama escape it. Sometimes you need to argue, but, always starting problems will only drive you, and anyone your with, away from others.

□ A lack of interest: I feel that we possess an ability to choose, or at least influence, what we are interested in; looking to be passionate about things that will better ourselves and those around us is a must, why else do things. That being said, there are those things we could care less about; I can't blame others for feeling that way about some things, especially when I feel that way at times too.

Hello I'm Tiffany

30 years old , I work in healthcare , I enjoy fitness, reality tv , going to concerts and love a good romance novel .

Please send an introduction and picture ; it saves time and I hate small talk and it helps me see if I want to continue chatting and vice versa.

Please keep conversations PG ! I'm demisexual so mentioning anything intimate is turn off for me when I don't know you ! If you post or comment on any subs relating to anything sexual your messages will be ignored ! Not the type of man I'm looking for or want ❤️

https://i.imgur.com/JxcxJbU.jpeg

I'm looking for someone who is 28-40 but open to 27 or up to 42 depending on if we have things in common and we vibe.

Beards, sense of humor, family oriented, liberal views , British accents 😍😍. Please live in Canada, America, UK, maybe Australia if you're cute . I want someone who puts 100% in all aspects of their life ( friendships, job , Relationships, mental health , self care ) Good banter , won't ghost and will put 100% in our conversations as its exhausting being the only one asking questions and trying to get to know someone without it being reciprocated.

If you got this far ! Send a message via chat (: please don't message and put the effort to send pictures and intro if you're going to ghost !

Must be open to sending pictures, voice calling , video chatting.

A bit About me:
I'm an artist/writer as a hobby but I would like to make a few comics at some point.
I spend a decent amount of time playing video games, unless I find a new favorite then I stop existing for a few days lol. (Monster Hunter Wilds will probably be the next one)
My special interests include (But not limited to): Ecology, Clowns, Art, World Building, Audio, and Fashion.
Living on the east coast of America.
I basically only watch Youtube or anime, Though I'd happily watch movies with someone.
I dress in Alternative Fashion, mostly Punk, a bit of Goth, and Techwear (mainly as casual attire)

Friendship:
I'm open to just about anything as long as you know how to communicate in a healthy way. (No Trump supporters though. I hate you already)

Relationship:
I can't have romantic feelings for Masculine men or Masculine trans men, Sorry. Everyone else I can though.
I am inexperienced when it comes to sexual stuff, though I do know a fair bit (Had a special interest in it a few years back and did a ton of research), I would prefer a partner with some experience to guide me one day. Though if you don't have any that's perfectly fine too, we can just learn together if we get to that point.
Okay with both yapping and being yapped at lol, bonus points if you are also comfortable with silence from time to time while I think.

Greetings and Salutations,

I am Suhn.Flau.Ur.

I hail from the southern part of the U.S., but I’ve been globe-trotting and doing my thing overseas for the past 4 years.

I’m lookin' to vibe, make some art, and build deep, long-lasting connections with like-minded, socially-aware, compassionate, open-minded Queer BIPOC folks, ya dig? If you’re in your late 20’s or older, I’m all about it.

I’m sex-favorable, aromantic and I roll solo polyamorous-style, so if you’re into that kind of flow, let’s talk.

Peace and love, Suhn.Flau.Ur

My visage: https://imgur.com/a/uYB74Pg

Hey im new here and felt like regular dating apps never work so here i am 😭

I go by Zaff online for the most part.

Im a graduate at Full Sail and i have a bachelors in Game Design. I never got to walk because i graduated at the start of covid.

So needless to say i like video games. I like a lot of Pokemon. I collect cards but my collection is back in my hometown so i switched to One Piece. but since the Pokemon stuffs been quiet for a bit ive been playing a bunch of JRPGs (Kiseki, Star Ocean, Tales of, etc.)

I used to watch a lot of anime but i only watch a few that i REALLY like nowadays. (One Piece, Bleach, JJK, Soul Eater etc.) Nothing hits like it used to so im waiting it out.

Currently im working on a few projects in terms of my game, a story prequel for that game (wattpad) and other smaller stuff like spin offs and general lore. Its literally my life's work and im not getting paid for it in any way but pure satisfaction.

Im 420 friendly and need a City Walk buddy. Im broke but if youre broke too we can still walk around City Walk 😢

I am Indian based in US. Born and raised in India for most part of my life. Ideally I would love to find someone who is culturally aligned with my values and located in Midwest.

Love to know if there any desi people here.

DM and we can connect and get to know each other.

I'm a bit nervous about posting this, but I wanted to try just to see what comes of it! I'm 21 years old, and I would love to find someone to talk to which will hopefully lead to something romantic and long term!

I love any genre of music like classical, pop, rock, musicals etc. I'm a student, but I do musical theatre in my spare time! I love video games, especially games on nintendo, and cooking and baking! I'm quite open-minded, more of an introvert and love to talk about anything. I don't mind long distance, I'm a night owl so I'll probably be awake to talk!

I'm average height, about 5"4, with a slim build and with brown eyes and hair. Ideally, I'd like it if you were around my age. I'd love to get to know you more!

This might be an unconventional post, but I'm seeking a like-minded travel buddy/roommate to live with and explore Asia with. Romance isn't my focus--at all:  I'm looking for someone who shares similar habits and interests to my own.

About me:

I am an introvert and high-functioning autistic woman, and I identify as demisexual/graysexual. I'm known to be considerate, empathetic, and tidy—a low-maintenance, easygoing roommate. Partially deaf.

By day, I'm a busy business college student (part-time) and online ESL teacher (full-time). That's right, I'm juggling 40-50 hours of teaching every week, helping students around the world master the English language.  

Hobbies: 

When I'm not studying or teaching, you can find me diving into the world of BL dramas from Thailand and Taiwan. I'm also a huge sci-fi fan and Stargate Atlantis is definitely one of my go-to shows.

When I'm feeling creative, I dabble in podcasting, YouTubing, and writing. I find that writing is one of the best ways to express myself.

As for outdoor activities, I love exploring local markets, chilling at the beach, and zipping around on my motorbike with my Thai license in hand. I can also read Korean and speak some Thai and Chinese. 

My Life Now: 

Currently, I'm living the nomadic life in Asia, hopping between Taiwan and Thailand. But my adventures don't stop there—I've got my sights set on exploring South Korea, Japan, and Malaysia (again) next year. I tend to spend around 3 months in each country, soaking up the culture and making memories along the way.

As for the future, I'm planning on settling down in Taiwan once I graduate at the end of 2025/early 2026. 

About You:

Regardless of your gender or orientation, what truly matters is that we connect well and can support each other as we explore life abroad.  I've been living overseas for almost two years, so I can provide guidance and make your transition smoother, even if you're just looking for a short-term roommate arrangement.

Furthermore, I'm open to sharing a living space with someone who has children. I enjoy spending time with kids and get along with them well.

If this sounds like something you might be interested in, let's chat!

The Non-Negotiables:

 Non-smoker (including 420)—I have asthma and allergies, so this is a must!

 Non-drinker—I'm not against alcohol, but I prefer someone who drinks rarely or not at all.

In order to maintain a comfortable and respectful living environment, overnight romantic interests would need to be kept out of our shared space. Additionally, I'm not interested in living with someone who is polyamorous. No judgment, but it's not my style or one that I want to live around.

I want to make it clear that I'm open to having a roommate who is dating or in a relationship—I just want to avoid potential drama. By adhering to these guidelines, I believe we can create a harmonious and stress-free living arrangement. 

Lights—I need at least one light on in the main area/near an exit for safety reasons in the houses/apartments I live in.

Holidays—I celebrate certain holidays, but don't expect you to do the same.

No anarchists or incels—I'm all about autonomy and respect. I believe in equality, regardless of the relationship.

Hello, I'm looking for someone to have a lifelong relationship together. I am not sure about wanting to stay in my country, so eventually relocating is something I'd be willing to do if you think that's a realistic outcome that could work for us, and because of it, it's probably better if you're from the USA or my country.

If you care about the MBTI indicator, I have scored as an INTP, INTJ and ISTJ, so if you are very introverted as well, that should work out the best. Need to add that I currently do not have a job, however I am trying my best in order to do things/courses and furthering my education/résumé.

I believe that being fairly compatible is an important aspect for a relationship to work in the long run, so I'm searching someone who is:

• Ideally vegan, plant-based, heavily leaning towards it, or in a serious path to become one (if you absolutely think that you cannot become one after having tried, for health/equally important reasons, I'll understand).
• Drug/smoking/drinking/disease free (as I am) and keeps a reasonably healthy lifestyle at the very least.
• Monogamous and loyal, who wants a lifelong relationship, and believes that is feasible for us to finally be together at some point.
• Relatively close to my age (it's flexible, but +/- 4 years from my own seems reasonable).
• Childfree (doesn't have nor want kids).
• Not a ghoster (if you don't like something, just say so; if you're going to ignore/block/disappear randomly & without notice, please don't message me).

Now these are the things that would describe me: I am very shy and introverted, and have never had a romantic relationship; I greatly value loyalty, love and understanding in someone, so if you give me that, you'll also receive it.

I'm generally very reluctant to take and post images of me publicly, but here I can describe some physical traits because I know it can be a deal breaker to some: I'm not very attractive, mostly because of my hairline and the fact that I wear glasses (I think I'm slightly better looking without them, but I'd rather not wear contact lenses for now) and I'm around 5'3''. That's the main thing, other than that I look average, but if I shave, I kind of look a bit stereotypically "nerdy". I present myself as masculine simply because of the body I was born with, although I have no attachments to anything "masculine" if that makes sense, and if I could reshape myself, I'd probably go for a feminine look.

As you've guessed by now, I'm plant-based, so essentially I follow a vegan diet and do not intend to change that. This ties back to one of my standards in regards to health, that even though I can be somewhat lazy when it comes to exercise, I pay close attention to being in an ideal range for height/weight, so it is important for me and should be for my partner as well. As for my preferences beyond what I've already said, I lean towards people with a feminine side, but physically speaking when in regards to romance, I'm not very inclined for heavy facial/body hair if at all; if that's one of your preferences as well, if we were living together, I would be open to change that aspect on me so that you're comfortable with it.

I'm slightly left-leaning/moderate and don't tend to like extremes when it comes to politics, so I have to add some red flags: I am not searching for someone who will get mad at me if I don't hate a particular political figure, neither I am searching for someone who had a meltdown over certain candidate winning during these last US presidential elections; I'm in favour of equality, which means that I dislike modern feminism, if you consider yourself a feminist, we won't get along; I value individuals, who you are/how you behave/what your ideals are is more important to me than what "group" people put you on, so I'm not searching for someone who is heavily into identity politics. In regards to religion, I am atheist/agnostic so I'd probably get along better with someone who is as well.

My hobbies are typically indoor, which includes things like: relaxing with music, doing digital art (sometimes), watching movies/shows/anime, browsing stuff on the Internet, and lately, reading some stuff. I'm currently not much of a gamer, but if that's your thing, when we meet I'd definitely be willing to play with you in case that's one of your hobbies. I'll also be happy to join you in doing casual exercise if you enjoy doing that, but I am by no means a hardcore gym-enthusiast.

My intention is to have, firstly, a LDR in order for us to get to know each other better and see if we're compatible, and if so, then it would hopefully develop into a healthy, loyal, and honest relationship. Not only that, but I'll also want to be your best friend, which means that I'll want to do all kinds of things together, from day to day stuff, to sharing hobbies, etc. That's the main idea for having this relationship, an intimate life dedicated to us and the things we love.

If you think this could actually work, feel free to send me a PM and tell me a bit about you! Have a nice day!

Hi there! Let me first just state that I apologize for copying another post format, but she did so well that I wanted to use her template (OP is a deleted account that is linked in the subreddit introduction as an example by the moderators). I'm not a big user or fan of dating apps due to the firm hookup culture associated with them, and it's become harder to meet people organically, so it's nice to see an area where we can meet people who understand our dating and relationship preferences.

This post is long and detailed, and I am sure there are things I haven't mentioned that would require some good conversation. Also, I am currently heavier than normal due to breaking both of my legs and being sedentary for some time, but I have already made good progress in fixing this issue.

Aside from that, read on for more!

Location, Age Preferences, and Me:

I live in Northern Arizona; however, I don't mind where you live because if we mesh well, I am more than happy to work together for a place that suits both of us.

I don't 100% care about age; however, I would prefer someone who is mature, probably around the 23–30ish age range. This is not a deal-breaker but a preference.

I am a 28-year-old, 6', and around 300-pound white male with shoulder-length, straight dark blond (and occasionally dyed) hair, blue/green hazel eyes, glasses, and a classic lumberjack build. I will never be small, but normally I weigh closer to 230 or so, and my goal is 200.

I do not have a preference one way or another for having children and slightly lean towards not wanting any, but I am open to the idea.

I'm an ISFJ if you are interested in that fact. I am also both demisexual and demiromantic.

I am a virgin by choice. It may seem weird and out of context here, but I have met quite a few people who were put off by that. I was hyper-exposed to sex at a young age and just never felt like it was as important as everyone made it out to be. I see sex as something that would be cool to try sometime and see what it is all about, but if my partner ends up being sex-repulsed or just not interested, I don't really care if it never happens.

I only drink socially and very, very rarely drink enough to make any real difference, but I don't mind if you drink.

I don't really smoke myself, but I am somewhat open to it if you do.

I don't do drugs, and I would prefer if you did not either, though I don't see weed as a drug.

I do love going out and hanging out at big events, but I do generally need a short recharge period after for my social batteries.

I am a very open-minded and nonconfrontational person. I do not try to avoid conflict and actively encourage people to please tell me if I do anything they do not like, with no personal feelings hurt. I just don't really have many issues with people but will respectfully speak my mind if it ever does happen.

That doesn’t mean I will be overly passive or let people take advantage of me (and god forbid someone does something towards anyone I care about), just that I am generally very easygoing.

If you’re into love languages, I like to express all five nearly equally. Receiving in order is physical touch and quality time, followed by affirmations. I do enjoy gifts and acts of service, but they give me anxiety.

I’m politically moderate and think people should just be allowed to be people and be happy however they want. I am very interested in religion and have actively practiced several, but I currently follow a sort of earth-centric spirituality without any real opinion on the possibility of a higher power.

I have an associates degree in general education and several trade certificates, and I am currently working on advancing my knowledge and professional skills in mental health.

I am currently considered a 100% disabled veteran in the US. I can still do most things but have some health issues that cause me chronic pain and at times they can get very bad. I do have a wheelchair that I use but 95+% of the time I don't need it.

My biggest goals in life are to simply live a happy life with someone I love by my side, living at least comfortably enough to be able to do what we want in a home that I can build on or possibly have a hand in designing.

Habits and routines

I love being outdoors when it is not too hot out, and I prefer green areas that have all four seasons (Arizona kind of stinks sometimes).

I try my best to eat healthy, I am an amazing cook, and I love trying out new things. I am trying to get into meal prep for convenience during the work week and to help me eat healthy.

I will try almost anything at least once in any situation, and in food, I have no allergies and a painfully powerful immune system, so culinary experimentation is great.

I do have goals I set for the future, both long- and short-term, and I try to always keep them in mind.

I mentioned that I love being outdoors but also have a battery for that, which is much better than my social battery, and I love a night in.

Things I Love to Do/Other Facts

I am fairly nerdy and love video games, pop culture, shows (animated and not), and far too many other things to put here.

I really enjoy deep, intelligent conversations about nearly anything, but I also find a lot of comfort in someone that I can sit with in quiet companionship.

I also love to learn about or geek out on whatever your interests are. I have a very diverse interest and skill set, and even if I am not as interested as you are, I like to learn about and share in your interests.

I like going to concerts, performances, and shows. But I also enjoy a night on the couch, reading a book, listening to music, watching a show, or working on one of my many hobbies.

I am currently dabbling in art. I have done some pottery, drawing, painting, music, stories, etc.

I play several instruments, including euphonium, sousaphone, French horn, trombone, trumpet, Irish pennywhistle, guitar, and bass guitar, and I am trying to get into ocarinas.

I only speak English but am slowly learning other languages.

I enjoy movies and love to splurge on a nice cinema experience for any movies you or I might be excited about, going to a nice theater with reclining leather seats, high-quality screens/audio, and food/drinks.

I also love to splurge on a nice meal at times, going to high-class restaurants and shows.

I am a big fan of classic board games and tabletop games and can geek out on them for hours if left unchecked.

I am also trying to get a little bit more into men's fashion. Not on any grand level or anything, but I like to look nice on occasion.

I have a novelty can collection of any drinks I found funny or liked (Aggretsukos liquid rage right next to my Bob Ross positive energy drink, a can of Gender Fluid, a Wake up Please! You are in the matrix drink, etc.).

I also love plants and want to have my own garden one day where I can grow my own tea, spices, and possibly bonsai.

I absolutely love animals in general. I have been around cats, dogs, rodents, birds, horses, cows, llama, alpaca, and more most of my life, but I currently only have two dogs who I spoil rotten.

I think that’s a good place to stop, as I feel this was already a pretty long post. I’m always up for a message if you have questions. I don't use many social media sites, but I do have an account for most of them, so I am happy and comfortable talking on whatever platform you are comfortable with, including your phone number. I will not send you any NSFW photos and will not ask for any from you. Sad that it needs to be said but people are gross to strangers for some reason. Thanks, and good luck out there!

Hey everyone! With the mixed experience of dating apps and life getting too busy to go out, I figure I try my luck on Reddit in finding a potential long term relationship.

A bit about me, I’m 5’11” with a medium build. My hobbies include music, gaming, and building model kits (because Lego is too expensive nowadays). I also love to travel (have been out of the country several times) and like to go on walks at the local park (love to picnic and nature-scape). I also love food, whether it’s trying new things or cooking. I’m also open to learning about other activities so feel free to tell me about your current hyper fixation, I’m all ears!

I consider myself to be a very affectionate and romantic guy. Physical touch is very important to me (once we’re comfortable and can hopefully meet in person one day). I love to do little gestures of affection in whatever ways I can. I also value communication, just talking and spending quality time is very valuable to me as well. I’m also very loyal and empathetic.

For what I’m looking for, just someone around my age, preferably between 21-28, but if we click then that doesn’t really matter. You don’t have to like gaming but it is preferred (can also be a great way to spend time with each other). I would prefer you live in the USA due to timezone. I live on the east coast but I am open to abroad. I’m open to long-distance. We can chat a bit on Reddit but would prefer to take it to another app or just text.

PM me or start a chat w/ me if you’re interested. Hope to talk to you soon!

Hi everyone! 🥳

Thought I'd give this a go, since I've been lurking on here for a while and this seems like an awesome community. I really appreciate all the validating posts on demisexuality and people's honest advice and stories, and I've never had much luck with dating apps.

About me:

-I am 38, F, looking for friends to chat with and possibly something more, but I like to take things slowly and connect through meaningful conversations first. I identify as both demisexual and demiromantic.

-I am a (civilian) sailor by trade. I truly love my job and the feeling of getting lost in nature, but I'm off the grid often and travel a lot for work. I'm hoping to connect with someone who's comfortable in their own company, since it's often hard for me to write every day.

-Moving back to the East Coast (New England) next month. If you're in New England, that's a big plus, but I'm open to connections anywhere.

-I enjoy long, leisurely hikes, sailing, Irish dance, various kinds of music, deep conversations, cooking, exploring random places, cuddles, goofy comedies, trying different foods, and learning foreign languages. I speak English and German and some Spanish, Norwegian, and a tiny bit of Estonian. Currently trying to learn Finnish and Russian. I'm a big Duolingo junkie, and like trying out (or unintentionally butchering) languages with people.

-I appreciate novelty and new experiences, and also enjoy challenging myself. I enjoy being social and go to things like random Meetups often. Looking for someone who matches my level of social energy.

-Tie-dye and coffee are two of my favorite things!

-Friends describe me as spirited, enthusiastic, energetic, and kind, who can be serious at times and has a mild cynical streak. My humor is a bit on the dark side, and I value openness and honesty above all. I often fall into the ESTJ personality type.

-I am childfree and not looking to date anyone who already has children. Very sorry about that.

-I don't really follow traditional gender roles.

-I love animals (all kinds), but especially cats and dogs. I don't have any pets though, since my job makes it tough. Big plus if you have pets I can visit!

Looking for someone preferably in the 32-40 age range, who's also childfree, ambiverted or extroverted, has an adventurous spirit and some joie d'vivre, and who likes to get out and do things. Bonus if we share common interests!

If any of this resonates with you, please feel free to send me a DM. If you could write something that relates to this post, that would be terrific.

I look forward to hearing from you all and best of luck in your search. 🙂

Basically what the title says, I'm trying to put myself out there and meet more people and see where it goes. Friends or maybe partners..?

I'm in to: Anime (Jujutsu, Dragonball, etc) Gaming (Specifically BG3) Music! I like performing music, watching/listening anything tbh (music major in my undergrad lol)

I'm also a pretty big/chubby guy, so if that puts you off steer clear ig, and i'm trying to find the way if i'm asexual or demi (it's a long story lmap) I'm pretty closed off until I get to know someone as well, but I'm definitely down to meet new people! :) Feel free to comment or DM :))

Hi hello oh god I'm so nervous uhhhhhh let's see...

I've made a post on here before, but I wanted to make a new and updated one, so I'm nervous about how this will go.

You know how it is for Demis, so I don't expect to enter a romantic/sexual or otherwise intimate relationship quickly, or at all if that's not what you're looking for. I just thought I should be up front about why I didn't just use the "Friendship" flair.

I'm on the East Coast of the US, usually in Maine, so I would prefer people from that timezone. It'd be nice if you were closer regardless of how our relationship unfolds, but since we're starting out online it isn't a huge deal.

As far as age goes, I guess I'd just like to meet some demis who are close to my age. Preferably like 18-25 range I'd say but honestly you're free to reply regardless of age.

About me:

• Autistic, ADHD (Inattentive, so I struggle with organization and concentration, but I'm not hyper.)
• Introverted + kinda shy (I'll start to drop that a bit as we get closer and more comfortable tho, sorry if it takes awhile)
• I feel like I should describe my personality or humor but I'm not super sure what to say. I'm a bit weird and quiet but I think I can be pretty nice and friendly, and I have my moments of being funny or goofy/silly
• I'm not religious, but I don't mind if you are.
• 6'1" and about 230 lbs. or so, so I'm a bit chubby. I dunno how relevant my body/appearance will ever be, but I suppose it's also worth mentioning that I'm fairly hairy.
• Currently in my Senior year of college studying software development as an IT major.
• I'm not typically very dirty/NSFW in conversation, and I don't really mind if you are, just check with me and make sure I'm comfortable.

I think that's all you need to know about me as a person. Next:

Interests/Hobbies:

• Anime (Favorites: JJBA, Demon Slayer, Fairy Tail, Miss Kobayashi's Dragon Maid, One Piece, Dungeon Meshi, etc.)
• Manga (Favorites: JJBA, Land of the Lustrous, Pokemon Adventures, Legend of Zelda [by Akira Himekawa], Shaman King, Cells At Work, etc.)
• Video Games (Favorites: Danganronpa, Kingdom Hearts, Kirby, Ace Attorney, Pokemon, Smash Bros., Roguelites, Metroidvanias, etc.)
• TTRPGs (I've played a little D&D, and there are plenty of other games I'd like to play, but I've never GM'd and don't really plan to)
• 3D Printing (Not the best at it, and my 3D modeling skills are currently a work-in-progress, though I really haven't been working on improving lately.)
• Reading (Favorites: Rick Riordan, The Magic Thief, etc.)
• Walking? (IDK I just like to pop in my earbuds and listen to music or a podcast or smth and just walk around for awhile)
• Piano (Pretty much novice/intermediate level, and rusty since it's been about 2 years)

I think that covers all of that.

I don't want to be too gung-ho about trying to find a relationship, since that's really not how this whole Demisexual thing works, but I decided I should put myself out there a bit more, y'know?

Oh, and as a final word of caution, I am admittedly insecure and shy when it comes to stuff like this, which has led me to overthink things a lot. I'm not the best at initiating conversations, so please don't mistake that for a lack of interest! It gets easier for me when I become more comfortable and we find the things that we really click with so I can use those topics as conversation starters, but please bare with me and try to initiate conversations as well!

And that's the post! Are you interested? Did I forget anything I should've added? Is this post a messy disaster? Did I do this all wrong and the mods will be contacting me soon? Hopefully I'll be talking to a new friend soon, but regardless, thanks for stopping by, and have a great rest of your day/night!

Binged watched love island and now I have hope I can find love 😭

I got back on the dating apps but there is always the sexual attraction thing that gets in the way. I feel like my experience sometimes differs a lot from posts I see. I do have crushes, aesthetic attraction is important to me and I want all the romance and kisses and cuddles. Just not sure about sex.

Im 29, 5’9, African American woman from NY now living in CT. Im Christian, love concerts, hiking, movies/tv, fashion and trying new restaurants. I’m looking for a best friend and hope to find someone in the area 🤞🏾 My DMs are open.

Hello, and welcome!

This ad features bolded portions for those who don't want to dedicate the time without some reassurance it may pay off!

I'm very interested in meeting like-minded folk who believe they have some similarities with me and that we may click. Specifically, I'm seeking a cisgender woman (a preference of mine, even for platonic relations) that's 18 or older from any country and background (who that woman is matters more to me than details of this sort). I'm 33 and male myself, living in the Eastern US. I adore thorough and passionate interactions with a meaningful basis. I dislike trivialities and meaningless expectations.

I want to feel and create a deep bond that's built little by little with every conversation and action. In this way, I'm open to any possible type of relationship with the people I meet here, from acquaintances, to friends, to penpals, to something more intimate. Our connection should develop over time. My ultimate goal is to bond with those I jibe with regardless of where we end up. We'll need to feel out what works best for us and where we want to take things and when. I've experienced everything from becoming very close with someone within the first conversation to remaining very brief with others after weeks. I've enjoyed everything from regular/daily casual texts and banter to several page e-mail penpal exchanges. Let's get creative and go with the flow.

I've also always been the type to want to meet new and interesting people. Lacking similarities has actually opened me and those I met to things we would have never considered before. Some common interests and especially character traits are vital, but completely relating and having everything in common isn't as important as you would think. Knowing what traits matter most comes out in chat and interaction, not a checklist of things to conform to. I've been surprised by who I was able to bond and share with, so I'm open to a lot. I hope you are as well.

I want to make it clear that if whoever is reading this feels like we may have a connection or ability to bond together they should message me. No hesitations or doubts, please. I don't believe in losing potential and being self-defeated before anything even occurred. I've not uncommonly been told I'm patient, kind, and easy to talk to, which I hope is just as true for those I come across here. Should you like or need it, please allow me to soothe your nerves instead of allowing us to suffer from any misunderstandings or difficulties.

More about me and what I'm seeking:

• I like long, intimate, deep, and personal discussion. By this, I mean not being restricted by trivialities and actually being ourselves. I'm not someone who likes casual chat about things that don't matter to either of us. Be genuine and authentic. It can take time to feel comfortable and be seen in a raw form, but doing so is an ultimate goal.
• I adore vulnerable people with complexity and seeing who someone really is. Having a comfortable space to fully let loose is an ideal. We all hurt, and some more than others - I disagree with the notion that one should hide these aspects of themselves. I'm openly accepting of sensitive and traumatized people and see their mental state and experiences as having a great deal to offer despite the difficulties. Personally, I'm in a sort of 'third phase' of my own development. I no longer do the opposite of what caused my difficulties and no longer intellectualize my pain in hopes of convincing myself I've somehow fully eradicated it. I meet people where they are, but find it important to state where I am.
• I value creativity and like artistic types. I express this myself through writing and more literary arts. In particular, I write intellectually, about general observations and thoughts, and poetically - mostly to other people in the form of conversation partners (I'm very much a conversational thinker and writer and can go on for a long, long time about a plethora of topics with the right person). I appreciate and admire all sorts of expression, even if it's a type I'm not personally involved in.
• I'm INTJ and Type 5, since some people seem to like knowing. I like taking different types of tests to understand myself better, although a lot of them seem petty bunk to me, including MBTI and Enneagram. But, it can be a decent basis and fun activity to share with someone. I also enjoy taking tests with other people and comparing results, as well as discussing the tests themselves.
• Due to my personality and desires, I could be considered part of the ace/aro spectrum. I am demisexual and demiromantic IRL. I am prone to graysexuality online due to it not requiring actual physical touch. I tend to get along very well with asexuals despite having active sexual desires myself (although friendship may be better depending on your own views and needs).

More about my values, passions, and interests:

• I like to ruminate, research, and learn new things. I don't like to constrain myself, and I strive to see various topics in intricate and new ways. I'm, by choice, an autodidact, and prefer this sort of person as well, or at least those who can appreciate liberated knowledge acquisition and comprehension. I believe there's always more to know and more ways to know those things - humanity can only comprehend so much, and less than we think we can. The motto 'Nitimur in vetitum semper cupimusque negata.' is a pretty good summary of my intellectual ethics. Those who believe certain topics are beyond any and all forms of reproach probably won't do well with me in this endeavor. In this case, we should limit ourselves in order to benefit from what does happen to be there, or simply adopt a different motto: 'Friends who want to stay friends don't discuss religion or politics.' In my experience, it's not polarizing stances that cause difficulties between people, but how unwavering someone is in their resolve, refusing to so much as listen to what another person has to say.
• I believe in eternity - in both directions. This means I have a primary focus on the future, a significant focus on the past, and acknowledge the present moment as a form of transience between the two. I'm not a "live your life to the fullest" type. My life started before I had it and will continue after it's gone, but I do believe in simply absorbing what's there while it's there. I'm not uncommonly melancholic, but am almost never lackadaisical.
• I live a very dynamic life and have since I was young. I might stay up chatting until dawn one night and then be passed out by 5 PM the next one - likely because of the lack of sleep during the first. My pursuits, job, and the other demands of life are in constant flux. My resolution has always been to regulate these various needs and wants and to intensely focus on them when and if possible. I don't believe in being "too busy". You can always find time for someone, even if it's not consistent - finding that flow and appreciation of each other is vital.
• Photography, tech, incense, time pieces, archiving, and abstraction have always interested me and continue to do so. I'm always surprised by what people consider to be interests and hobbies, so I probably have more I take for granted and didn't list here. I haven't consumed media regularly in years, but used to engage with a lot of it when I was younger, mostly including movies, anime/manga, and video games. I still watch movies from time to time, being more prone to it when I have someone else to accompany me. If you're looking for a gaming buddy or TV junkie you'll need to find it elsewhere, but I'm not fully opposed to sharing or talking about these things with someone either. I used to love it at one point.

Are we looking for each other? I'd greatly appreciate a reasonably lengthy chat/message in which you told me what within my ad resonated with you, what you're seeking, and anything else you may want to mention. I would like to get to know people with a level of depth akin to what I wrote here, and will end up asking about these things at some point anyway. I look forward to us chatting and connecting around meaningful and fervid passions.

I'm a 25 years old living in South Germany for the last six years I'm currently employed in a hotel also did an Ausbildung for it so it's a pretty decent job

What I'm lookin for hoping for is just to meet someone on here to from a decent relationship and have each others backs and just try to navigate this fucked up world

And I'm trying on Reddit because god knows dating apps are the worst 🤮

My hobbies are to be honest pretty boring for the normal person

I like history especially late 19 century and early 20 century I just love the people of that e uhra and the culture the warfare there is so much to talk about plus I know the history of Europe from ancient till modern times so ask me any fact you like

I'm also a book worm my favourite type books I like to read are fantasy book and sci fi books and alternate history

I'm a big fan of mythology too especially Norse and Roman I just love the whole concept and there gods are badass,

I also like watching random series when I have the time ranging everything from sci fi to criminal, to anime

. I also like to jog and cook I will make you an awesome breakfast and pancakes for dessert

My music taste is everywhere but I mostly like punk rock and heavy metal

Appearance wise I'm 177 cm, 70kg ,black hair, green eyes, Normal slim body, if you like a picture I can gladly send it

Please send me this emoji if you have read all of this 👹👹

And pleas be in Europe anywhere else is just to far away for me

Hello, and welcome!

I'm very interested in meeting like-minded folk who believe they have some similarities with me and that we may click. Specifically, I'm seeking a cisgender woman that's 18 or older from any country and background (who that woman is matters more to me than details of this sort). I'm 33 and male myself, living in the Eastern US. I adore thorough and passionate interactions with a meaningful basis. I dislike trivialities and meaningless expectations. I want to feel and create a deep bond that's built little by little with every conversation and action. In this way, I'm open to any possible type of relationship with the people I meet here, from acquaintances, to friends, to penpals, to a life partner. My ultimate goal is to bond with those I jive with regardless of where we end up. I'd especially like something more intimate, so an LDR or more than friendly situation would be ideal. However, I'm plenty open to conversation partners and less romantic situations if one or more details between us don't quite work out. We'll need to feel out what works best for us and where we want to take things.

I've also always been the type to want to meet new and interesting people. Lacking similarities has actually opened me and those I met to things we would have never considered before. Some common interests and especially character traits are vital, but completely relating and having everything in common isn't as important as you would think. Knowing what traits matter most comes out in chat and interaction, not a checklist of things to conform to. I've been surprised by who I was able to bond and share with, so I'm open to a lot. I hope you are as well.

I want to make it clear that if whomever is reading this feels like we may have a connection or ability to bond together they should message me. No hesitations or doubts, please. I don't believe in losing potential and being self-defeated before anything even occurred. I've not uncommonly been told I'm patient, kind, and easy to talk to, which I hope is just as true for those I come across here. Should you like or need it, please allow me to soothe your nerves instead of allowing us to suffer from any misunderstandings or difficulties.

More about me and what I'm seeking:

• I like long, intimate, deep, and personal discussion. By this, I mean not being restricted by trivialities and actually being ourselves. I'm not someone who likes casual chat about things that don't matter to either of us. Be genuine and authentic. It can take time to feel comfortable and be seen in a raw form, but doing so is an ultimate goal.
• I adore vulnerable people with complexity and seeing who someone really is. Having a content space to fully let loose is an ideal. I'm openly accepting of sensitive and traumatized people and see their mental state and experiences as having a great deal to offer despite the difficulties.
• I value creativity and like artistic types. I express this myself through writing and more literary arts. In particular, I write intellectually, about general observations and thoughts, and poetically - mostly to other people in the form of conversation partners (I'm very much a conversational thinker and writer and can go on for a long, long time about a plethora of topics with the right person). I appreciate and admire all sorts of expression, even if it's a type I'm not personally involved in.
• I'm INTJ and Type 5, since some people seem to like knowing. I like taking different types of tests to understand myself and others better. A lot of them seem petty bunk to me, including MBTI and Enneagram, but it can be a fun activity to share with someone, whether talking about it or taking tests together and then discussing the results and test itself.
• Due to my personality and desires, I could be considered part of the ace/aro spectrum. I am demisexual and demiromantic IRL. I am more prone to graysexuality online due to it not requiring actual physical touch (I'm open to what happens - depends on the person and how well we get along). I tend to get along very well with asexuals despite having active sexual desires myself (although friendship may be better depending on your own views and needs).

More about my values, passions, and interests:

• I like to research and learn new things. I don't like to constrain myself and am interesting in seeing various topics in intricate and new ways. I'm, by choice, an autodidact and prefer this sort of person as well, or at least those who can appreciate liberated knowledge acquisition and comprehension. I believe there's always more to know, and more ways to know those things - humanity can only comprehend so much, and less than we think we can.
• I believe in eternity - in both directions. This means I have a primary focus on the future, a significant focus on the past, and acknowledge the present moment as a form of transience between the two. I'm not a "live your life to the fullest" type. My life started before I had it and will continue after it's gone, but I do believe in simply absorbing what's there while it's there.
• I live a very dynamic life and have since I was young. I might stay up chatting until dawn one night and then be passed out by 5 PM the next one - likely because of the lack of sleep during the first. My pursuits, job, and the other demands of life are in constant flux. My resolution has always been to regulate these various needs and wants and to intensely focus on them when and if possible. I don't believe in being "too busy". You can always find time for someone even if it's not consistent - finding that flow and appreciation of each other is vital.
• Photography, tech, incense, time pieces, archiving, and abstraction have always interested me and continue to do so. I'm always surprised by what people consider to be interests and hobbies, so I probably have more I take for granted and didn't list here.
• I haven't consumed media regularly in years, but used to engage with a lot of it when I was younger, mostly including movies, anime/manga, and video games. I still watch movies from time to time, being more prone to it when I have someone else to accompany me.

Are we looking for each other? I'd greatly appreciate a reasonably lengthy chat/message in which you told me what within my ad resonated with you, what you're seeking, and anything else you may want to mention. I would like to get to know people with a level of depth akin to what I wrote here, and will end up asking about these things at some point anyway. I look forward to us chatting and connecting around meaningful and fervid passions.

Hello there, i never know whst to say on these things so i will say wgat i am looking for. I need friends particlarly those i can form a strong platonic or more bond with. I have not had love in my life in quite some time. I am open to all friendships, but i am only able to give romantic feelings to those who have female body parts. I need someone who can share my nerdly interests, and also be content huddling near a firepit watching the stars. Reach out if you want to get to know me. I want a friend or friends i can have in my life for a long time if it becomes more than friends we will see.

Hi all, I'm a 26yo male living in the north of England, having recently moved here from the south to kick-start my life and live independently. It's true, by the way - the north is really more kind than the south!

If you're reading this month's after I posted this, don't let the age of the post stop you from introducing yourself. Would hate to miss out on good things!

Anyway, a bit about me. In my personal life, I've been fortunate to find a new group of friends, go to badminton every Monday, and have a lot of my irl and internet friends visit me as I've settled in. I would like to take violin lessons one day, I do some illustration, and work as a consultant fully from home. I love the cinema, Doctor Who, and as you might've guessed, I also play games a lot on PC.

Physically, I'm a slim build, black hair, brown eyes, light tan skin. I'm 5"5, which I know is small for a male in the UK - unfortunately its always made things a bit difficult in the dating realm, so I just hope I can find someone who doesn't mind. I don't have any mental attributes but had my fair share of counselling to improve myself and address childhood trauma (which I've thankfully processed enough, and haven't been to counselling for years now!).

I feel grateful to have ticked off a lot of my bucket list, but I've always missed having a connection with someone. I've never been one to rush into relationships and have always preferred to build experiences and time together before catching feelings.

I'd appreciate someone from the UK so that we could meet one day if things go well, but I'm open to LDR. I love quality time and would like to spend it with you, mostly expressed through gaming, films, and days out eating or visiting landmarks. I'm pretty busy but will always plan ahead to find time. I'm down to swap pictures of our appearances early too, if that's ever something that you'd like to do.

I'm a keen chatter, and I like to ask questions. I'd appreciate someone who's talkative or at least energetic - I love the idea of having someone to message throughout the day, and I'm usually a pretty quick replier myself.

Shoot me a DM, and if you're into gaming, I'd love to find something we can play and get to know each other through. Hope to hear back soon!!

Hello, I’m looking for a fellow intellectually minded soulmate who can chat about all the subjects under the sun ☀️. Once a connection is made I can be the most romantic and passionate gentlemen you’ll ever desire. I’m young looking and rather handsome, caring and love animals. I like to read, a lover of the fine arts and more topical pursuits.

I'm educated to a Master's level, a qualified English Teacher and I'm a trained Chef too. I've previously served in the Royal Navy so any James Bond comparisons are more than welcome.

I'm open to LDR or relocating.

There must be someone out there who can awaken this passion locked in my mind and my soul!

Is it you?

Hi everyone, first of all I am so glad this place exists as I have had the chance to chat with some very nice down-to-earth people who are also demi. I have been on dating apps on and off but constantly get discouraged. I have made female friends through them though, I think it's because of the mutual feminine energy that resulted and always came in refreshing and also because maybe I am a bit traditional and don't really have real male friends.

About me, I'm sensitive but don't hold grudges (at least not for long unless it's something big). A mix between ENFP and INFP, internally I feel more like an INFP that was expected to be an ENFP by the outside world. I am somewhat impatient, probably one of my worst traits or so I am told. I can be very loving and caring though. Generally I try to see the good in people while being realistic. I have a mode where I just try to get through the hard things as some of life has hardened me to not be taken for granted.

I enjoy alone time and calm hobbies like reading (but also love board games and poker). I love sociology. I also try to put together my own sociological theories and care more about how the world is interconnected than about very personal stories. Actually occasionally I need a night out with loud music. Loud music so people don't talk too much and you can take in the scene. Some days I really don't want to even speak one word and just be in peace (unless it's absolutely necessary to speak). I will always keep in touch and answer important messages though. I try as much as I can to work through conflict peacefully while still speaking my mind and being authentic.

More hands on facts about me: 5'7 (169cm), average weight trying to keep in shape, brunette, brown eyes, wearing glasses but also contacts sometimes, love to dress for a night out but also love lounging around the house in comfortable clothes and jeans when I go out casually, lately love dresses though. I'm conventionally pretty, and as you can see also somewhat confident. Christian/Catholic. Originally from western Europe but lived all over (will gladly tell you more later and yes I work remotely), would like to settle down in Europe or the US in the near future, want children, hopefully with someone who doesn't have any yet (I also don't have any yet). I am a true romantic at heart but would love to share all of that only with the right person.

I am a Monogamous high functioning autistic Transfem, looking for a deep and meaningful connection. I'm high maintenance and needy for people who I care about. I require constant attention and full transparency and to be included in most apsects of your life. I am jealous, possessive and have borderline stalker-like behavior. I have trust issues, fears of abandonment, separation anxiety and panic attacks. On the contrary, I am loyal and dedicated entirely for people who I consider close, I never lie, and will tell you everything. I will engage in conversations, I can show interest in your hobbies, I will be plain and genuine, and I expect the same that I provide. I have low tolerance for shallow behavior. I'm loving and affectionate, and looking for commitment and romance; someone I will spend the rest of my life with, someone I'll be able to talk about my day with, and confide with when I am feeling down, someone who would know me to my core and could recite all of my life and personality from heart. That being said, despite being a Demi, I am extremely hyper-sexual and kinky, I am submissive and have interest in BDSM and often act on it with people who I get to connect with.

I'm also a furry, a 3 year old Shiba Inu puppy (21 in human years). Yes, I am a dog, please treat me like one. I enjoy being demoralized due to my role, confined only to it, for my sole purpose as an animal. I enjoy walks in the park, playing fetch, barking out loud and running around in circles. (Despite being a furry, don't bother messaging me if you're tolerant of cubs or ferals, I will block you)

My hobbies consist of military simulation games (Squad mainly), but I am also an amateur gun and tech enthusiast. I am open for fun activities like watching movies together, playing videogames, roleplaying or just enjoying each other's presence.

I am also apolitical, so I try to avoid sensitive topics as long as it doesn't directly impact me and my relationships, so if you're trying to divert my opinion on something don't bother. I have a few triggers and dealbreakers; them being age difference, I won't date someone who's above their 20s, I also despise lack of transparency, I require constant communication, and my needs to be heard. If I'm being ignored it'll make me uncomfortable.

My demeanor is energetic, outgoing, yet overly sensitive and shy. I am pretty plain and straightforward, blunt, and pretty direct so don't be hesitant to ask me any questions regarding me.

Hi everyone! I'm new to the demi scene and am looking for some like minded friends. My interests are good books and good tv shows.

Hello, and welcome!

I'm very interested in meeting like-minded folk who believe they have some similarities with me and that we may click. Specifically, I'm seeking a cisgender woman that's 18 or older from any country and background (who that woman is matters more to me than details of this sort). I'm 33 and male myself, living in the Eastern US. I adore thorough and passionate interactions with a meaningful basis. I dislike trivialities and meaningless expectations. I want to feel and create a deep bond that's built little by little with every conversation and action. In this way, I'm open to any possible type of relationship with the people I meet here, from acquaintances, to friends, to penpals, to a life partner. My ultimate goal is to bond with those I jive with regardless of where we end up. I'd especially like something more intimate, so an LDR or more than friendly situation would be ideal. However, I'm plenty open to conversation partners and less romantic situations if one or more details between us don't quite work out. We'll need to feel out what works best for us and where we want to take things.

I've also always been the type to want to meet new and interesting people. Lacking similarities has actually opened me and those I met to things we would have never considered before. Some common interests and especially character traits are vital, but completely relating and having everything in common isn't as important as you would think. Knowing what traits matter most comes out in chat and interaction, not a checklist of things to conform to. I've been surprised by who I was able to bond and share with, so I'm open to a lot. I hope you are as well.

I want to make it clear that if whomever is reading this feels like we may have a connection or ability to bond together they should message me. No hesitations or doubts, please. I don't believe in losing potential and being self-defeated before anything even occurred. I've not uncommonly been told I'm patient, kind, and easy to talk to, which I hope is just as true for those I come across here. Should you like or need it, please allow me to soothe your nerves instead of allowing us to suffer from any misunderstandings or difficulties.

More about me and what I'm seeking:

• I like long, intimate, deep, and personal discussion. By this, I mean not being restricted by trivialities and actually being ourselves. I'm not someone who likes casual chat about things that don't matter to either of us. Be genuine and authentic. It can take time to feel comfortable and be seen in a raw form, but doing so is an ultimate goal.
• I adore vulnerable people with complexity and seeing who someone really is. Having a content space to fully let loose is an ideal. I'm openly accepting of sensitive and traumatized people and see their mental state and experiences as having a great deal to offer despite the difficulties.
• I value creativity and like artistic types. I express this myself through writing and more literary arts. In particular, I write intellectually, about general observations and thoughts, and poetically - mostly to other people in the form of conversation partners (I'm very much a conversational thinker and writer and can go on for a long, long time about a plethora of topics with the right person). I appreciate and admire all sorts of expression, even if it's a type I'm not personally involved in.
• I'm INTJ and Type 5, since some people seem to like knowing. I like taking different types of tests to understand myself and others better. A lot of them seem petty bunk to me, including MBTI and Enneagram, but it can be a fun activity to share with someone, whether talking about it or taking tests together and then discussing the results and test itself.
• Due to my personality and desires, I could be considered part of the ace/aro spectrum. I am demisexual and demiromantic IRL. I am more prone to graysexuality online due to it not requiring actual physical touch (I'm open to what happens - depends on the person and how well we get along). I tend to get along very well with asexuals despite having active sexual desires myself (although friendship may be better depending on your own views and needs).

More about my values, passions, and interests:

• I like to research and learn new things. I don't like to constrain myself and am interesting in seeing various topics in intricate and new ways. I'm, by choice, an autodidact and prefer this sort of person as well, or at least those who can appreciate liberated knowledge acquisition and comprehension. I believe there's always more to know, and more ways to know those things - humanity can only comprehend so much, and less than we think we can.
• I believe in eternity - in both directions. This means I have a primary focus on the future, a significant focus on the past, and acknowledge the present moment as a form of transience between the two. I'm not a "live your life to the fullest" type. My life started before I had it and will continue after it's gone, but I do believe in simply absorbing what's there while it's there.
• I live a very dynamic life and have since I was young. I might stay up chatting until dawn one night and then be passed out by 5 PM the next one - likely because of the lack of sleep during the first. My pursuits, job, and the other demands of life are in constant flux. My resolution has always been to regulate these various needs and wants and to intensely focus on them when and if possible. I don't believe in being "too busy". You can always find time for someone even if it's not consistent - finding that flow and appreciation of each other is vital.
• Photography, tech, incense, time pieces, archiving, and abstraction have always interested me and continue to do so. I'm always surprised by what people consider to be interests and hobbies, so I probably have more I take for granted and didn't list here.
• I haven't consumed media regularly in years, but used to engage with a lot of it when I was younger, mostly including movies, anime/manga, and video games. I still watch movies from time to time, being more prone to it when I have someone else to accompany me.

Are we looking for each other? I'd greatly appreciate a reasonably lengthy chat/message in which you told me what within my ad resonated with you, what you're seeking, and anything else you may want to mention. I would like to get to know people with a level of depth akin to what I wrote here, and will end up asking about these things at some point anyway. I look forward to us chatting and connecting around meaningful and fervid passions.

Hell on wheels. Not entirely straight. I am a goth babe, granted with defective legs—a budget goth babe, if you will. One of those off the shelf ones, except I don’t trust myself around shelves. Wheelchair and that. Looking for something long-term. Open to anyone 29-36. https://ibb.co/DwFPtqG Here I am! Please tell me your favorite book if you decide to send me a message! Talk about medieval history with me!

I love single-player RPGs, but I could use a player two. I am also a voracious reader so sometimes I read 10 books at once. I'm looking for something long-term. Right now I'm taking a break from school while I pursue my Masters in psychology and reading Lord of the Rings. I could also use Nintendo Switch friends. I usually play a human sorcerer in Dungeons & Dragons; if there's an open spot in your party I'll take it! I love Tolkien, A Song of Ice and Fire and recently started Robert Jordan's books! Arya, Sansa, Brienne, Jaime and Bran are my favorite characters. Baldur’s Gate, Mass Effect, Fallout and Elder Scrolls are some of my favorites. I collect vinyl and love my dog more than anything else.

Marathoning Doctor Who--Nine and Thirteen are my Doctors! Loving Shōgun and House of the Dragon, though I could always use more period drama recommendations! I keep Kitchen Nightmares on as background noise.

I have a special interest in shipwrecks and medieval English history.

Still love Evanescence, Lacuna Coil, Nightwish and bands of that illk. Will take emo and punk friends too! I need friends in Disney Dreamlight Valley as well!

I am looking for long, loving, lasting relationships primarily. If you are too please reach out. Please tell me a little bit about yourself if you can and please be fairly close in age to me. I am very shy, please be understanding if I am slow to respond.

Wouldn't it make more sense to ask a discerning friend to write this? It feels weird to be writing about myself like this. Oh well, maybe next time.

I'm a kind, funny, sometimes-naive geek looking for...well...you. If it's right. You know what I mean.

I like to laugh, read (to myself and aloud), write, make up snatches of poetry (some of which I sing to my cat, when the mood takes me), walk beside water, cook, run imaginative tabletop roleplaying games...basically I'm a nurturer with a sense of humor. I'm hoping to find a woman who matches some of my quirks. Truth to tell, I'm a little shy and awkward when it comes to flirting; I'm a demi, after all! Oh, and I'm quite a leftist but not dogmatic about it. I'm the single father of an adult son who lives with me.

I've been told I'm cute, which is nice to hear. I'm bald and I have a short beard. I don't smoke (please don't either), and I don't drink; just don't like the taste. But I have nothing against drinking in principle. I'm a cat person, not a dog person, which is unfortunate since most single women seem to have dogs!

I live in southeastern Massachusetts. I'm hoping to meet someone from my general area, since LDRs can be pretty frustrating. But if you're from the UK we might get along. I visited there once and really felt as if I fit in.

Too much? Not enough? What do you think?

Hello!

I'm a 5'0 ft tall 26 soon-to-be 27-year-old in June, computer engineer looking for a long-term relationship. I'm very open to a long-distance relationship with someone who is also either Demisexual or Asexual.

Edit: [Forgot to add] I'm hoping for an age range of 25-32 (-2 +5). Might want kids some day (biological or adopted) but I don't mind not having any.

I'm from the Philippines, Davao to be specific. I've dated before but my relationships were mostly short-term as I've struggled with showing physical affection... I'm looking for someone who's patient and understanding in that aspect. My two main love languages are: Quality time and Acts of service.

What I'm like:

• I'm a tomboy. I like keeping my hair short and I don't like wearing dresses or skirts. I only where them if it's required for the dress code. (I get misidentified as a lesbian because of this). I'm female if you want some specifics. Pronouns are she/they but I really don't mind.
• I'm sometimes a slow replier. One of the reasons is my phone has a problem with notifications for some reason so I usual don't notice any messages. Another reason is I work two jobs and I'm currently taking my master's, but I will try to reply.
• I don't get jealous easily. I understand wanting to have time by yourself or with friends. I like having my alone time too and time to hang out with friends. I just want someone who will trust me as much as I trust them. I may have a problem with intimacy but I'm loyal, even when in a long-distance relationship.
• I'm a bit socially awkward. I might be different behind the keyboard than in real life, it's easier for me to be more talkative behind the screen. I'm a bit quieter in real life and will most likely just listen than talk, especially if we speak different native languages.

My likes and interests:

• Video games. I really like RPGs and I would love having online dates playing a multiplayer RPG with someone. Some games on my Steam: Fallout (New Vegas, 3, and 4), GTA V (I mostly play Online), Cyberpunk 2077, Monster Hunter World, Phasmophobia, Coral Island, Dragon Age Inquisition, Baldur's Gate III, Skyrim, Payday 2, Saints Row III, and Overcooked 2.
• Anime. I used to be a huge Naruto fan (I had a notebook dedicated for Naruto stuff back in grade school, a kid borrowed it and never returned it). Right now, the animes that I've been watching are: Mashle and Welcome to Demon School! Iruma-kun. Just some light anime now because my jobs are very demanding.
• Cartoons. I like watching cartoons, and I don't want judgement. Watching cartoons help me release some stress, besides playing video games. I've been watching Bob's Burgers.
• Tabletop games. I really want to get into playing D&D, I have the books (Player's Handbook, Dungeon Master's Guide, and Monster Manual) and the Essential's Kit. I'm trying to go about how to get my friends into it. I'm still currently in the process of making an excel sheet and a companion app on Java so it can be a lot more manageable for my friends to keep track of things.
• Horror Movies. I love watching horror movies. I've watched a lot of horror movies and it kind of gets boring now, I fell asleep while my friends and I were watching Hell House LLC. But I'm open to watching horror movies, especially ones I've never watched before. I miss getting scared after watching them.
• Rock Music. I love Rammstein (fan since I was 12 years old) and Lacuna Coil.
• Pets. I have dogs, a turtle, and a silver arowana. I love dogs, but that doesn't mean I don't like cats.

DM me if interested or post a comment.

Thank you for your time going through this long post 😅

My life is currently in a state of flux with a positive trajectory, and I’d like to find my person to share this excitement with. Not entirely sure what type of person I’m looking for but I know that I’m not looking for flings, age range 24-30, and I generally am more attracted to masculine people than to feminine. A few points about me:

• Vegan
• Socially anxious extrovert (emphasis on anxious)
• Demisexual
• Trans man
• Jewish
• chubby

Not looking to date at too long a distance, so please only message if you’re in one of the Carolinas (if you really really think we’d be compatible, then I’ll accept messages from people in the surrounding states of the Carolinas).

After a bit of talking, we can exchange SFW pics (I may be asexual but aesthetic attraction still matters).

If you message, please include a little about yourself.

Some info about me and preferences

• Languages: Portuguese, English and German
• Nerdy interests: martial arts, economy, philosophy, RPG(both tabletop and video games), literature(sci fi, historial fiction, gothic, historical fiction, terror and Russian).
• Non-nerdy intersts: cooking, playing acoustic guitar, animals, working out, music(various metal subgenres, indie rock, blues, classical, country and bossa nova).
• Politics and Religion: I'm a agnostic right-leaning libertarian.

I'm a introvert but I talk a lot when someone start talking about the topics listed above, ITNJ(if you care about MBTI)