FUCK YOU RA

Ok I feel like I can go actually crazy sometimes when I start talking to a guys so I’m just going to name things I’ve fully done and let everyone decide.

1. Stalked him online and found his mom (he lives with his mom) looked up his mom found her address and drove past his house.

2. We where having a dry phase of not talking so I had my best friend match with him on a dating app and have them start talking and then had her start dropping small hints that we where friends and then had her block him to hurt his ego and then he ended up coming back apologizing feeling bad that he was talking to my best friend without knowing it.

3. I drive past his gym almost everyday to see if he’s there or not.

4. I forgot what type of car he drove I just remember the brand of the car and the color so I drove around our college parking lots until I found what I thought it was and the only thing I would be able to recognize it from was the stains on his seats so I had my friend fully take pictures of inside of the car and it was his car, then I ended up parking right next to his car before I went to class so he would think of me.

5. Me and him are in a tennis club together and we usually play doubles but this certain day nobody really wanted to play so I texted the president of the club who I was good friends with to set us up together to play singles and to say it as if it was his idea. (It worked)

6. I used to go to the Starbucks that the guy I liked worked at everyday just to see him, and I had a friend who worked there who gave me his schedule.

7. I like this homeschool guy who took one high school class so I would run to his class everyday walk him to his car and run back inside the school to make it to class every day.

8. I once dated this divorced guy who had no social media and I was able to find his ex wife and I stalked her account everyday.

9. I have multiple fake instagram, facebook, LinkedIn, TikTok accounts all made for stalking. Having one fake instagram account that has a lot of followers to be able to get into private accounts if needed.

10. I have found out where all my crushes/dates have lived without them telling me.

That’s just some of the stuff but 😬

2 months? Screw that.

(4 those who are curious and don’t want to google it, thrush is an oral fungal infection)

I found out through my ex's friend that he (my ex of 7 months) was cheating on me for a few months. It was a hard thing for me to find out because we’ve known each other since we were kids. Hoping maybe I could have a calm, smooth, mature break up, because I still wanted to be friends, since we were before that. So I planned to come over hang out and confront him about it. I came over, acted like I didn’t know anything, just nonchalant, normal conversations and activities, we played some games and ate pizza together, all the simple fun stuff.

Then when I was about to confront him after a conversation we finished, he wanted to get a little frisky. He was a pos, he did a lot of other horrible abusive things to me, verbal and physical, but take note I was lost in this time so I didn’t exactly know how to make good decisions. He also used to talk all this talk about how he knows his way around a woman. I was also thinking “he already fucked this whole thing up so, I guess I’ll make it worse, he’s immature anyway so screw it”. Just very conflicting, but overall I made the decision I did, cus I realized I wanted nothing to do with him anyway.

I had a yeast infection at the time, and I thought about it hard, and decided to test our limits, I wanted to see if he was lying about knowing so much, so instead of telling him, I let him eat the roast beef to see if he'd figure it out on his own. I was ready for whatever he’d do if he were to figure it out. There was no sex, he just wanted to do that for some ironic reason. He somehow didn't notice the entire time, even with the obvious signs that I had one.

Next day, I confronted him after breakfast, it turned into a heated argument, I left, and I dropped all contact. I never told him, and he never brought it up to me, so I assumed he had no idea. His friend later updated me, and told me my ex got thrust the few days after that event we had, and he couldn’t ever figure out how he got it. Maybe he knows now, but if so, it took him way too long to figure it out. He’s fine now from my limited knowledge, as thrush is just a treatable as yi’s, I actually didn’t even know that thrush was a thing until I googled what might happen if he did what he did, and those were the results on google. But yeah, am I in the wrong for doing that? Did I go too far?

(This was 7 years ago today, this is a real thing that happened, I’m a woman in her early 20’s who just thought abt posting this for shits n giggles. I know how gross it is, I’m just curious if to other people I went too far, cus he was truly an abusive pos, and it felt a little justified. I’m currently in a 6y healthy relationship now, I used to tell this story to some of my friends and loved their reactions, thought to post it here to see the same but from strangers to get a kick out of it. Enjoy wanting to scoop ur eyes out after reading, sorry not sorry)

(Edit: So many of you saying I’m a dude who wrote this is crazy to me, idk where that assumption would come from, and it’s wild for y’all to be so confident in it too. seemed very outa of left field to me. My bf and I are reading these comments DYING tho so thanks for the actual funny responses. I’m not gonna prove myself to strangers on the internet obviously, but a personal experience I have I decide to post anonymously, is somehow to strangers online seeming to be written by a dude in his own fantasy land is just like ??? Why? But ok go off I guess live your own fantasy thinking I am, cus I’m chillin w my hubby watching the new horror film Imaginary rn loll Update: imaginary SUCKED)

I know the title is long, (and so it the story,) but hear me out.

I have four best friends, one that lives far away, but the other three live near me.

For a little background information, what I’m talking about happened about 7 years ago, but my mother still brings it up and saying that I’m in the wrong, but other people say I’m not. It’s only my mother that says I’m in the wrong, but I still want more opinions on this cause I over think a lot.

When I was younger, I did make up a fake friend group also, but that’s only because this girl was on my back because I was friends with her ex and her (I knew her ex since we were five, and her only for a year,) but anyway, so I did that to get her off my back and leave me alone. (It did work.) One of my best friends, that we’ll call Ava, that I met that year started to ask about him, cause she somehow found out. I did try telling her that they were fake and only made it up cause I had this girl on my back, but she wouldn’t listen. I told Ava about ten times that they weren’t real, but she wouldn’t listen. I got fed up with it one day, and just went along with it. The only reason why people believe me was because I said my best friend since forever knew them, and when they asked her she agreed. (Thank the lord for her. She’ll be my forever and always)

She told almost everyone.

Now I have this fake friend group stuck with me.

About a year later, Ava made up her own friend group. I wouldn’t care if she made it just for herself, but she’s dragging my other two friends into it, which we’ll call Sophia and Cathleen, and that’s where I have the problem.

Ava said that two of her ‘friends’ were interested in Cathleen and Sophia, and they got really happy about that. The reason she didn’t do it for me is because I was already talking to someone. Cathleen and Sophia started talking to them through Ava’s phone, and Ava’s phone alone. They have tried to ask Ava for the guys numbers, but she’ll say tomorrow or just change the subject all together. Me and Cathleen had a suspicion about this, and talked about and we both agreed they’re fake.

Reasons

1. We can only text them from her phone.

2. It’s only her that has met them.

3. Every time we’ll tell her ‘friends’ to send a snap, they’ll say that Ava wasn’t letting them, and that she’ll have to take it.

4. She takes pictures off of Pinterest, and say that they’re her ‘friends’, but the pictures will always be changing.

5. Her stories that she says about them never stay the same.

I have confronted her about her ‘friends’, asking if they were fake with Cathleen, but she said they were. Later that day, Cathleen sent them a snap on Snapchat, so this way she’ll be able to see if Ava opened, and she did, but didn’t respond, and then the next day didn’t even show up. I texted Ava that day to ask if she was okay, and she told me she wasn’t feeling well, missed the bus, and was overthinking. It may be a coincidence, but I don’t think so.

That day, I also moved locker partners, cause Ava was originally my locker partner, so I moved to being locker partners with Sophia. I’m not mad that she’s lying about having friend, and it’s not that I don’t think she can’t have friends, it’s just her things aren’t adding up, and that she’s dragging mine and her friends into this. If she would’ve of just kept it to herself, nobody would’ve cared, but she’s bringing her friends into this, and that’s where I’m and other people are having the problem.

I know it’s bad of me to move lockers, but she’s just getting me so pissed, that if I didn’t, I would’ve snapped at her. It’s not forever, I just need a day or two. I told her that. We were in class, and she was going on about how everyone hates her, and how everyone leaves her. I told her I would never leave her (debating that now though,) I’m just mad at her and need some time. She then raised her voice at me, asking me why I was mad at her. I just told her that I wasn’t going to say it now because people were there and could hear me, which just made her walk off.

My mom said that I’m in the wrong, because I’m probably making her feel left out for changing lockers, but she used to drag my friends away from me all the time, and leave me alone. My mom also said on how I can defend my friends, and not my best friend, so I told her that Cathleen and Sophia are my best friends too, which she just told me to shut up.

Ava was ignoring me the day I changed lockers. I tired talking to her, but she just shrugged and ignored me. She’s also ignoring Cathleen and Sophia. I was stuck with her for a project, and she’s not even doing anything anymore, saying that she’s having trouble breathing. I know that can be serious, but she just walked over to the gym and was talking and hanging out there, so obviously, it couldn’t have been that bad.

My mom says that she understands Ava, and keeps trying to take her side, saying how I’m mad at her for making up a fake boyfriend, which supposedly cheated on her a week after they started dating, and she only started dating him right after I got a boyfriend, and even before that, she was complaining on how two ‘guys’ asked her out, and didn’t know which one to choose. I said the first one cause she knew him longer, but then she yelled me she knew the second one longer, but didn’t even talk about him still a couple months after. Anyway, I told my mom that I wasn’t mad at her for making up a fake boyfriend, but because she dragging her friends into it.

Do you guys think I’m in the wrong?

Sorry it’s long again.

I’ve been dating her for a month now and yesterday after we had sex, she broke a hair strand and wrapped it around my business while chanting what I can only describe as some kind of prayer. I asked her why she did that and she said she was “claiming” my dick as hers. I took it as a joke and laughed which seemed to enrage her. When I went to take the hair off, she swatted my hand and asked me not to. I don’t know what this voodoo stuff is.

Man...she is nuts!!!

Erm I have this now ex friend. Who is a fucking crazy bitch. I'm just gonna list things she has done

Also for context: Harlow- Xander ex gf, Jaden new gf.

Xander- Harlows ex gf. Hates Jadens Guts

Jaden- my Ex friend now. Harlows new gf as of today. Hates xanders guts

Kayden- All of our friends

So Jaden has :

-Dated Harlows Assaulter

• Said multiple times they wanted to be raped

-Assaulted someone -Dated someone who they knew was a rapist -tried to chase after a rapist(romantically) -They let everyone believe that Xander was talking shit about them, even though Jaden knew it wasn't true -Jaden isolates Harlow from their friends -Told me I can't talk to them(I don't have a problem with Harlow) -Forced kayden to let them move in with them to get away drom their abusive household.

• said "He so fine, I hope he rapes me" about Xanders rapist!! And tried to say it was a joke. + xanders rapist also rape Jaden. Jaden still hanged out with the rapist even after Xander told Jaden everything he did. (He literally tried to murder xander)

-Got Xanders rapist to text her -Lied to harlow and Xander about their own braakup (harlows and xanders) to our whole friend groupchat. -Told me to fuck off cause it's not my breakup as if it isn't theirs either -Said Xander was manipulating me(she's not💀) -Did ACID infront of Kaydens little siblings ! Erm what the flip -Over all ki d of fucking manipulating and needs to be in a mental institution <3 -called me delusional -Jaden is 17 btw💀 -apologize about saying the rape joke and then took it back like wtf(HTP much?) -called me immature while she was literally yelling at me through voice messages and said I was shit talking them to their gf(I told her gf that she needed to get her shit together)

Erm that's it guys if anyone has any questions let me know I have lots of screenshots and recordings >-<

So my best friend is a female that is also my ex girlfriend (we have Been broken up for about 3 months at this time) so there was little to no feelings at this point anyway, she was dating this guy and found out he was with a girl he said not to worry about without telling her and the next day (after freaking out all night) she signs him up for the military and when he asks about it she says she has no idea who does it

Hey crazy girls, need your help. I want to stalk a private instagram account, ever happened to you ? If anyone wants to “trade a follow” dm me. Basically you follow who I wanna stalk and I’ll do the same for you, then we share screenshot and evil laughs. Xoxo baddies