/r/bigmenfashionadvice

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Fashion advice for big and tall guys.

Whether you are muscular, chubby, or big and tall it can be hard to find clothing that fits. Big men fashion advice was created as a community to receive feedback and tips from other big guys on how to dress, what brands cater to our sizes, and outfit ideas. People of all shapes and sizes are welcome here, but please always be respectful in your feedback.

Whether you are muscular, chubby, or big and tall it can be hard to find clothing that fits. Big men fashion advice was created as a community to receive feedback and tips from other big guys on how to dress, what brands cater to our sizes, and outfit ideas. People of all shapes and sizes are welcome here, but please always be respectful in your feedback.

Posting Rules

  1. Be respectful. Don't insult people. If you don't like a particular fit, give constructive criticism. Fat shaming and gatekeeping have no place in this sub.

  2. This sub is for fashion advice. It says it right there in the name. There are lots of places on Reddit where users can get diet advice, /r/bigmenfashionadvice isn't one of them. We believe in body positivity and that anyone can look better with the right clothes / style. "Try losing weight" or similar comments will be removed and can result in a ban.

  3. No self promotion. This isn't a place to promote your brand/blog/tiktok/store and our users aren't your free focus group. If you want to advertise on Reddit, go through the proper channels. Promotional content, advertisements, affiliate/referral links and brand surveys will be removed and can result in a ban.

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Size 66 suit

Most places only go up to 64, but I need a size 66 suit. Any other options aside from King Size?

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2024/05/14
13:23 UTC

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The Search for Better Fitting Underwear/Pants/Shots/etc.

Forgive my timidness!

I'm a plus sized guy and I'm... positioned rather forward, if you catch my drift. I struggle to find underwear/pants/shorts/etc. that don't compress things to an uncomfortable degree.

I'm hoping someone can recommend some alternative(s).

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2024/05/13
07:00 UTC

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Monthly /r/bigmenfashionadvice Buy/Sell thread!

This is the monthly /r/bigmenfashionadvice buy / sell thread! Please ensure that your listing adheres to the formatting rules below:

If you are selling, begin your post with SELL. Make sure you include:

  • The item(s) you are selling
  • The country in which you're located
  • A brief description of the item, including size and condition
  • Photos
  • Price

A usable for sale comment will look like this:

SELL / USA:

Uniqlo flannel shirt, 3XL, like new, $18 shipped

Levi's 511 slim straight jeans, tan, 42x32, some wear, $23 shipped

If you are looking for an item to buy, begin your post with ISO. Make sure you include:

  • The country in which you're located
  • A description of the item you're looking for - as specific as you can manage (website links, photos are great, but not required)
  • The size you're looking for
  • The price you're looking to spend.

A good ISO comment will look like this:

ISO / USA:

4XL Levi's Trucker Jacket, like this. Hoping to spend less than $30.

And that's it!

This is a purely informational thread and not a store. Any arrangement two users enter into through this thread is just that: a private arrangement between two people. BUY AND SELL AT YOUR OWN RISK.

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2024/05/13
04:01 UTC

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Business Casual for bigger fellows

I'm trying to find good business causal clothes for myself I'm 5'9 298, but I wear I have a 42 waist and very broad shoulders which makes shirts that fit well extremely hard. I do wear street clothes and I get them mostly from BooHooMan and Old navy if I can find stuff. Does anybody know any good brands for business casual clothing?

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2024/05/12
23:35 UTC

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Dress Shirts - Amazon Brand Rec?

I need to refresh my wardrobe with some dress shirts for work. Mine are old and falling apart.

DXL is unnecessarily expensive so I'm trying Amazon. Any particular brand recs?

I'm a 4XL typically. Dress shirt wise, it's usually 20 or 22 neck and 37/38 sleeve.

Thanks!!

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2024/05/12
02:39 UTC

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New to chinos

I love these Harbor Bay Continuous Comfort pants. I started with one pair and they fit perfectly and are comfortable, so I now have five pairs. I'm probably getting the shorts, too. Just thought I'd drop a recommendation.

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2024/05/12
00:49 UTC

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Looking for some cost-effective, quality tank tops for the summer.

Any recommendations? Something with thiccc and sturdy fabric that will hold up to ineitable profuse sweating and won't work to highlight my pudgier bits. Got some CK tank tops last summer and as an undershirt they work as intended, but lord give me strength if I need to take off my over shirt....

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2024/05/11
22:12 UTC

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Bowling shirts?

Hey folks! I'm looking for some B&T bowling shirts. None of the mainstream/brick-&-mortar stores I've used in the past have anything like that.

I've been searching online, but all the retailers that carry them have heavily mixed or downright abysmal reviews: kingsize.com, royaura.com, etc.

Where have other folks found them?

Here are a few examples of what I'm looking for:

https://www.royaura.com/products/mens-casual-vintage-striped-bowling-shirts?sku=SH2NCF184176&gad_source=1&gclid=CjwKCAjwrvyxBhAbEiwAEg_Kgm8s0BoojUzE2T5dC9v1zvjKDBfMkXKWSP78X3mDxaUasS3tEuT1SBoCHBEQAvD_BwE

https://www.royaura.com/products/men-s-retro-camp-bowling-shirts-50s-vintage-cotton-blend-blouse?variant=23847

Thanks!

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2024/05/11
10:20 UTC

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Love shopping at DXL

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2024/05/11
05:04 UTC

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Does anyone know where to get good jorts that are 46 waist?

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2 Comments
2024/05/11
04:28 UTC

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Semi-formal garden attire Examples?

What's a good source of examples for semi-formal garden attire? I'm attending an outdoor wedding in Italy this summer. It's in a villa if that matters. I'm also off thinking of doing my clothes shopping there or is that a bad idea? I arrive two weeks early.

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2024/05/11
02:48 UTC

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Extended size pearl snaps?

Recently back in the dating game after 5 years and trying to find my old self again. I’m trying to find some new clothes that I actually like. I ordered these in a 4x and they just barely didn’t fit. When I’d relax my gut, it’d almost pop the buttons apart. Buckle has shirts like this in a 5x, but they all look bland and I want nicer colors. I really liked how it looked and was really disappointed when it didn’t fit.

Does anyone know of any company that has pearl snaps like this in extended sizes?? Money isn’t a HUGE deal, but I definitely want decent quality and feel.

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2024/05/11
02:15 UTC

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Looking for some suggestions on Polos

I think I am down to LL Bean and Lands End. Just wondering if anyone has any other suggestions? I am looking for a 2x tall version as well, I have a Psycho Bunny Supima Cotton I like a lot, but it was really pricey ($105), so looking for some a little cheaper but still decent quality. Thanks.

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2024/05/11
02:04 UTC

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Another big boy chiming in. 5'10", 365 lbs, 58w, 3xl-4xl shirts. Fresh Clean Threads t-shirt, Levi's 541 Jeans in Rigid, Jack Purcell Suede hightops

4 Comments
2024/05/11
01:53 UTC

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Need some gym shoes that won't fall apart in a month.

Hey yall. I'm 6'2" 350. Can't seem to get a decent athletic shoe that will hold up. Been buying cheapos because even the high dollar ones only seem to last a month or so longer. You guys had any luck with any brands no crapping out right away?

Edit: Lots of people asking why I burn through shoes so quickly. I should have included that I work in a factory. 12 hours a day on my feet. I've gotten to the point that I no longer differentiate between work shoes and work out shoes. Don't really have the money to keep two separate pairs.

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2024/05/11
01:46 UTC

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I need help,

I've put on some weight , currently at my biggest. I'm 5'10" weighting 295. Most of my weight resides on my tummy. Clothes shopping in store isn't great cause everything is slim or Athletic fit. New to this sub

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2024/05/11
01:18 UTC

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Sup big Dawgs. Where's all my REALLY big Dawgs at? What are y'all wearing?

I see lots of posts of swole and muscled up big dawgs, not hatin, but I feel like we got plenty of posts from big tall fellas that are under 300 pounds.

What about the BIIIG dawgs like me, 6' 350lb, strong, but not jacked or muscular. Very much fat. 4xl in shirts and 46-48 waist, depending. Big ol gut, big legs and thighs, not very long arms or legs, etc. I wanna know what y'all are wearing and what's comfortable for ya. Long time lurker here for advice and like I've stated I don't see a whole lot of folks on here that are my size and stature. So I'm curious:

All my big dawgs who are 300+ 400+ pounds, what are y'alls go to every day wear? What's comfortable and good fittin as far as t-shirts, jeans, shorts? What do you genuinely think you look best in and feel most comfortable in?

Please feel free to share everything. Boxers, t-shirts, jeans, shorts, hoodies, jackets, hats, accessories. I'm looking for any and all advice. Or if you just wanna show off, do it up.

Thanks big dawgs.

81 Comments
2024/05/10
13:10 UTC

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Belly bigger than chest

Trying to buy a suit for work. My belly is bigger than my chest. When I'm looking at size guides they say give chest measurements, should I measure around widest part of belly instead?

Also open to any other large man suit advice.

4 Comments
2024/05/09
15:07 UTC

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Shapewear

Has anyone here used shapewear (spanx for guys) what brand do/did you use, would you recommend, where did you purchase? TIA

1 Comment
2024/05/08
02:25 UTC

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Best khakis to compensate for my thighs and booty?

6’1 220 lb man that has had to wear khakis that are 34-35 due to either my quads stretching out the fabric or the length being too short due to my butt. Any good recommendations or should I just have them tailored?

2 Comments
2024/05/08
01:33 UTC

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Recommendation for pink shade

I need to get a pink shirt for a party. I am tall and very big. I wonder if I should go for a light shade of pink, or a darker shade of pink? Which is in style or goes with more wardrobe options?

Darker shade:

https://www.dxl.com/polos-rugbys/harbor-bay-piqu-polo-shirt/cat140070/G3355

Light shade:

https://www.dxl.com/polos-rugbys/polo-ralph-lauren-soft-touch-polo-shirt/cat140070/D7711

Thank you.

0 Comments
2024/05/07
22:12 UTC

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