/r/bigmenfashionadvice

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Fashion advice for big and tall guys.

Whether you are muscular, chubby, or big and tall it can be hard to find clothing that fits. Big men fashion advice was created as a community to receive feedback and tips from other big guys on how to dress, what brands cater to our sizes, and outfit ideas. People of all shapes and sizes are welcome here, but please always be respectful in your feedback.

Whether you are muscular, chubby, or big and tall it can be hard to find clothing that fits. Big men fashion advice was created as a community to receive feedback and tips from other big guys on how to dress, what brands cater to our sizes, and outfit ideas. People of all shapes and sizes are welcome here, but please always be respectful in your feedback.

Posting Rules

  1. Be respectful. Don't insult people. If you don't like a particular fit, give constructive criticism. Fat shaming and gatekeeping have no place in this sub.

  2. Stay on topic Like the name says, this sub is for fashion advice. Keep your replies focused on the question asked and/or the fit. Mods will proactively remove content that fails to stay on topic and is likely to disrupt. This includes (but isn’t limited to): diet and exercise advice, political arguments, and comments about OP’s body.

  3. No free advertising If you want to plug your brand/blog/IG, you can pay for it like everyone else who advertises on Reddit. Mods will proactively remove and ban all self-promotional content. Users wanting to sell their own used clothes are welcome to use our monthly buy/sell thread.

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I've been trying to work on my fashion sense, is this a good outfit?

6 Comments
2024/11/09
08:47 UTC

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Bonobos fit compared to…

Hi All,

I’m 6’0” and 270lbs. I wear mostly Banana Republic polos and T’s and comfortably fit an XL. Could I expect Bonobos to fit similarly? Can anyone speak from personal experience?

9 Comments
2024/11/08
16:48 UTC

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Any ideas for a casual wedding fit?

I’m going to a wedding tomorrow, and I’m looking for something casual, simple and comfortable. Casual as in I definitely think a suit would be overdoing it, but my date will be wearing a dress so not so casual I look like I didn’t try. I always find button ups are very non flattering on me tucked in, and a little too casual untucked. I’d love to hear your suggestions! Thanks!

4 Comments
2024/11/08
13:50 UTC

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What are your favorite men’s slippers?

I over pronate and need a big toe box (ingrown nails and such). It makes finding a comfortable pair of slipper super difficult!

I’ve tried Ugg, Olukai, one of two of the LL Bean types, etc. Right now Croc’s aren’t horrible, just not my idea of a cozy slipper in the house.

17 Comments
2024/11/07
22:30 UTC

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Recommendations to help my brother

Looking for store recommendations to help out my brother. He is 25 and typically just wears gym shorts and shirts because it’s easy. I want to help show him it’s important to care how you look and it’s also easy to put together a good outfit. Mostly shopping for essentials/basics for him within a fairly low budget. He lives in Florida so layering isn’t always ideal. I need recommendations on stores we could go into or things that I could order for him to try and return. I’ve had some luck with H&M in the past but he has to try things on because he’s only 5’8 so sometimes larger sizes look weird on him. Also one of the things we’re looking for is a fashion sneaker for a wide/ extra wide foot- definitely willing to splurge on those a bit!

Also any recs that you have on styling or fashion tips would be great!

Thank you in advance!!

0 Comments
2024/11/07
18:50 UTC

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High rise (above the waist) pants for casual business dress?

I’ve seen some recommendations for high rise pants (10” or 12” rise) to wear above the waist, but they are usually some really pricey brands. Anything on Amazon that’s affordable? Just looking for everyday pants I can wear to work, nothing fancy. Thanks!

1 Comment
2024/11/07
13:36 UTC

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Easy breezy, and comfy, Disneyland outfit

T shirt from kohls- 20 bucks Shorts- lululemon soft jersey 5” (I know they’re at my knees but I have short legs ok? Leave me alone 🤣) Shoes- new balance 990v6 Also, shutout to the redditor on this subreddit that recommend a plus size backpack. I mentioned it to my gf and she got it for my birthday, thing made a massive difference. Super comfortable and can’t wait to wear it to hike and to ride my mtb. Last but not least the model: 1984 model, imported from Mexico City

13 Comments
2024/11/07
06:28 UTC

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Work fit. Thoughts?

48 Comments
2024/11/07
04:45 UTC

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Are boohooman sweatpants any good?

I've read a lot of stuff saying to stay away from boohooman because it's fast fashion, but they have some decent looking sweatpants, and I've had luck with sweatpants and joggers from other fast fashion brands.

I was wondering if anybody has any insight.

9 Comments
2024/11/07
00:32 UTC

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Are boohoomam sweatpants any good?

I’ve read a lot of stuff saying to stay away from boohooman because it’s fast fashion, but they have some decent looking sweatpants and I’ve had luck with sweatpants and joggers from other fast fashion brands.

I was wondering if anyone has any insight

2 Comments
2024/11/07
02:07 UTC

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Do these jeans clash with the shirt?

Just tried out this brand Regent Row. The fit is really good and the quality was definitely another level. I was wondering why they are over $60 for a polo but it feels amazing and they offer free shipping and free returns. They have this tech-infused fabric which feels incredible, fits really well and doesn't cling to my body. I have washed it a few times already and it holds up pretty well..

https://preview.redd.it/ghz11liy3czd1.jpg?width=1576&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=dcf5fbcdd1b04cf1e69413a18ae28cd18f98ab02

4 Comments
2024/11/06
19:45 UTC

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Braces/suspenders

I've lost 15kg or thereabouts, and I wanted to get some more life from a pair of jeans (not cheap ones!), so I've 'installed' some button braces. It's such a weird sensation, but it's also a ton more comfortable than a belt, especially when driving. The looseness around the midsection is a strange sensation, and I worry my trousers will fall down. I had a bad experience with clip on braces a long time ago, but the buttons are solid (easy job).

I normally wear a webbing 'rigger' belt, but I've just bought a nice handmade leather belt too(which is actually too big, and needs another hole ... underestimating my waist change). I don't think braces will be an everyday thing, but I will certainly find a place for them.

3 Comments
2024/11/06
16:36 UTC

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Track pants with big thighs

I am Looking for track Pants not flannel with open bottom . Right now I need 2xl cause even at this they are tight in thighs , my waist is xl. Are there any track pants that are made wider in thighs

2 Comments
2024/11/06
15:58 UTC

4

Helping out

Hey, guys. I am a fashion stylist doing some portfolio building.

And I wanted to ask if anyone wants some styling help with their wardrobe or a specific event needed. I would love to help, in exchange for faceless photos of the work!

Please let me know if interested and DM, all sizes are welcomed and are wanted!

0 Comments
2024/11/05
23:52 UTC

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This is my “going to Costco” fit. How’d I do?

I gotta clean up a bit of the room I know.

19 Comments
2024/11/05
20:55 UTC

3

Off the rack Suits?

I have just been invited to a Black Tie event this Sunday (11/10). I have "Out grown" both my suits. I'm not optimistic i can get something tailored in time. What is the option on DXL off the rack suits?

30 Comments
2024/11/05
20:23 UTC

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Should i remove tag on clarks wallabees

do you keep the tag on clarks wallabees

25 Comments
2024/11/05
17:19 UTC

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Looking for recommendations for my bfs wardrobe

He’s around 6’0-6’1 and weighs 260 lbs but has lots of arm and chest, calf muscle. He likes to size up a little bit for comfortable fit in normal brands but just looking for something that he can feel comfortable in without having to size up, and also not feel tight/too snug.

5 Comments
2024/11/05
05:47 UTC

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Hoping for some recommendations on underwear (boxer briefs)

Hey everyone -

This may not be cutting edge fashion because the thing I'm asking about is pretty conventional......I am a 3XL waist in most underwear and for years I've worn cotton (or mostly cotton) boxer briefs.

At first it was Jockey, because they had a solid waistband. A few years back they started to go with cheaper quality material. Then I was buying boxer briefs at DXL, again because of the thick waistband. But DXL (never my favorite for a lot of things) also changed waistbands and started making them smaller, so they flop down too easily.

Anyone have suggestion for other options that would be similar - and most importantly, have that same sort of larger, more solid waistband that doesn't flop down or fall easily?

EDITED TO ADD: Thanks for all the responses, much appreciated! *hat tip*

20 Comments
2024/11/04
21:55 UTC

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Dress pants

Has anybody found a way to keep dress pants from doing that thing where the button pops above the belt? My pants are forever falling down below my belly.

1 Comment
2024/11/04
16:47 UTC

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Simple Fit: Date Night at the Symphony.

Well, it has come to this. It’s 80° F in November during the day, and 60° in the evening. I’m wearing a heavy cardigan, mid weight oxford, and light weight linen. What is a man to do when there are no transitional seasons? I want to wear my knits! I’m sure some stickler with a discerning eye somewhere would gasp at my fashion faux pas (/s)

Vitals: 6’3” 275 lbs (I’ve gained ten 🥸), 52” Chest, 30” Torso, 19” Neck, 36” sleeve, 40/42” Waist. 30” inseam.

  1. Glasses - Moscot Lemtosh Classic Havana Sz. Extra Wide (52mm)

https://moscot.com/products/lemtosh-sun? variant=32625590829118&g_adid=&g_keyword=&g_campaignid=16642270550&g_acctid=914-049-3847&g_adtype=none&g_campaign=AGP+%7C+PMAX+%7C+Ecomm+%7C+US&g_adgroupid=&g_network=x&g_keywordid=&gad_source=1&gbraid=0AAAAAC3WU22zTAzOXhZC3UTVVoX_Svcbx&gclid=Cj0KCQiA_qG5BhDTARIsAA0UHSIzlYpdfqv3nuKvQk_PHubDBRmAp0c3VOWAdlfqfose4fIduXho5zEaAgU7EALw_wcB

  1. Button Up Oxford - Charles Tyrwhitt Luxury Twill Shirt. Slim Fit Sz. 19/36 (for me it helps keep the sides and my under arms from looking too baggy, that way I don’t have to tailor anything most of the time.)

https://www.charlestyrwhitt.com/us/luxury-twill-shirt---white%C2%A0/FOR2362WHT.html?cgid=shirts&pf=browse#currentPageNum=3&sz=144&start=0&cgid=shirts

  1. Cardigan - Derek Saunders Handmade 100% Wool Cardigan Made in London (vintage/used). Very Similar to Daniel Craig’s Quantum of Solace Tom Ford Cardigan. Different Color obviously. Sz XXL($30 on Poshmark 😎)

Comparable: Cool Website too.

https://iconicalternatives.com/2022/10/05/james-bond-shawl-collar-cardigan/

  1. Trousers - Spoke London Hopsack Linen Sz 42. I need them taken in a bit honestly, but my weight has been all over the place recently.

https://spoke-london.com/us/products/hopsack-linen-sharps

Boots - Ralph Lauren Handmade Chukkas by Rancourt Maine. Sz. 13 (vintage used)

Cool article about the RL/Rancourt Collab.

https://www.ralphlauren.com/rlmag/edric-penny-loafer.html

29 Comments
2024/11/04
15:36 UTC

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Best White Tee [$50 & Up]

Really love Cuts clothing or Robert Baraket but the mid section is always a bit too snug for my liking. Anyone know of a really good quality White Tee

I have tried Shaka, Pro Club, Threads etc and all have something I dont like etc

Was wondering if anyone has any recommendations I may have missed,

Love a good firm collar, shorter sleeves to show off the biceps and roomier in the stomach Im okay w paying up to 300$

0 Comments
2024/11/04
06:47 UTC

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