Everyone knows there is a holiday this weekend. As much as we like to wish one another happy holidays at various times of the year, it is important that we are especially conscientious about this one. People who have had infant loss, child loss, infertility, had to make a hard decision about abortion or adoption, had abusive or absent mothers, and various other circumstances may not be feeling up to a happy day on Sunday. It can be second nature to wish people a happy (whichever) holiday. We understand that, and we know that of all people, our aunties and helpers will best be able to be compassionate about these issues. We do not all experience or process emotional trauma in the same way, so let’s all be especially kind and consider those who are celebrating as well as those who, for various reasons, cannot.

Hi all, We’ve seen a few posts about stocking up on various pills/meds lately, so wanted to remind everyone of our stance.

STOCKPILING

We are recommending at this time that you DO NOT stockpile, as you may keep needed meds out of hand of those who need it now. We definitely understand the desire to react as such, but redistribution of prescription meds would be strictly illegal. The consequences could be quite severe. Remember than Plan B itself is restricted in some states.

Certainly, if you feel the need to have some on hand for yourself, that is perfectly reasonable, but we ask that you don’t purchase large quantities and accidentally keep someone else from having access who may need them immediately.

Thank you so much for all of your dedication to the cause of reproductive freedom!

Hello

I've heard of the auntie network before, but didn't realize Reddit had one. I'm in Ontario, Canada. I'm within a few hours drive to the border in New York, a bit further to Michigan but it is definitely possible.

I don't know if that is helpful in any way, especially with border control entering as a factor. But I am offering assistance.

Stay safe out there

I’ll help you get out of the state, no questions asked. I can give you a ride to the airport or bus station. If you’re passing through, you are welcome to stay at my house for the night. I’m a single 41 year old woman with a rather sassy cat. I’m not a good cook, but I’m great at ordering door dash!

Non-binary person here! I am a harm reductionist and peer support specialist. I will escort you to and from wherever you need in my general area. If you need a place to crash as you're passing through, I got you. I can help with meals, finding community resources, transportation, etc.

I protect privacy and discretion is assured. Yes I am actually a Satanist, so if that is something you're concerned about, I am not the droid you're looking for.

Former SW, NB AFAB in the city of Pittsburgh willing to act as a clinic escort/partner, assist with meals, and a sounding board. Apartment rules prevent me from offering overnights but I can help with discounted hotel stays.

Transportation and overnight stays available.

Hello! Auntie and Uncle in a residential area of Chicago. We are a 30 min walk from the train line that goes to the airport (O'Hare), but I would be happy to pick-up from the airport if my schedule allows (I'm a graduate student and work part-time). We can offer lodging, meals, and could drive you to appointments or cover your rideshare costs to your appointment if our work/school schedules conflict. We have a dog who is shy but friendly, and your room would be on a separate floor with as much privacy as you wish.

Hi! Auntie here in Massachusetts, have spare room for anyone looking to take a vacation in the Bay State! Fair warning, the guest room is the favorite spot of Stevie Ray, a rambunctious kitten. Also have a vehicle, but work full time so not 100% available for rides/transport. Guest room comes with either a friendly ear to listen, or total privacy- fully respect the need to talk or the need to keep details to yourself.

Scary news out of Texas has motivated me to post available support. Willing to transport, Closest airport is CAK. also willing to help buy supplies/prescriptions, provide meals for aftercare. Cannot commit my home because of kids and pets but will recommend safest hotels and visit often with food. Or just DoorDash if you prefer.

Obviously extending offer to anyone local who needs help too.

The shenanigans happening right now. Ugh!

I don't have good crash space (tiny house) but i do have free time and reliable transportation to give rides if someone were to need it. And i have connections with skills knowing how to do magic through CATA to obtain rides (incl the red-ride to get ppl to/ from appointments).

(I do have a husband and a teen daughter, but there's generally just me for things)

I am a 40M that is happy to take a weekend trip and drive for free to/from California, New Mexico or Nevada if you find yourself in need of spending a weekend in any of those places for a medical procedure.

My 48F girlfriend is usually able to join in on the road trip depending on the weekend as well.

Hello, I'm a man living outside of Pensacola, Florida. I can't host as my older sister and her daughter live with me. But I'll gladly help however I can. I can drive and provide transport and willing to help with what's needed, including supplies.

Hi all - early 50s Auntie here, living in a quiet neighborhood in a community near South Puget Sound in the Seattle Metropolitan area. I have my own house & car & am willing to provide crash space for up to 3 nights, coffee & hot meals, rides to/from appointments & can do airport pickups/dropoffs. I love road trips & driving around the state, so can travel statewide depending on circumstances.

I live with a caring male partner; I can vouch for him but just be aware if you're not comfy staying with men. (He does the cooking & loves to feed people!) Currently no pets & we're nonsmokers (if you smoke, we have a small covered porch you can enjoy). Happy to share our books, space, gaming consoles, whatever we have that will help folks feel comfortable while they're on their trip. Ping me if needed.

Hi! I'm 39F in southwest Virginia. There is a planned parenthood in my city, and I am willing to drive to West Virginia, North Carolina, eastern Kentucky or eastern Tennessee to get you to an appointment.

I'm a mother of 3, two teens and one preteen. I'm a bird mom to one conure. I have also been through an abortion so I can help you with what to expect and just offer comfort and support. Happy to help!

Able to help transport in the Rochester NY area. Extra bedroom for lodging if needed. Two cats. I live in a quiet safe area. ❤️

Weirdly enough, I actually do live somewhere that could be called East Cornfield, Iowa.

I’m around the Des Moines area, and am willing to drive to/from the airport, a clinic, or anywhere else you might need. In addition, I am willing to go anywhere in Iowa, eastern Nebraska, or northern Missouri and pick you up for an out-of-state road trip (likely to Minnesota or Illinois, although that’s flexible).

My partner and I live with our two teenage dogs and two roommates. My DMs are open.

Hello!

I wanted to take a moment to remind everyone that even if you aren't able to host/drive, etc. there are other ways to get involved in ensuring people have access to reproductive rights.

Ex: I'm in the screening process to become a patient greeter with my local Planned Parenthood. In my region, they only ask that greeters work at least one shift a month. If there is a PP in your region, they may have other volunteer needs that work with your schedule and skillset. Someone made a post last year with a signup link that listed examples of other types of help they may need.

If your area doesn't have a PP, there may be other Orgs. that secure funding which can be found in the Wiki.

I'm not affiliated with PP or any of the other Orgs.; however, I am excited to start volunteering with them and wanted to share :-)

Stay safe loves!

Hi everyone.

I have lived in West Virginia for the past 2 years and grew up in Vermont. I am firmly, firmly pro-choice (as if that wasn't obvious) and will not judge you regardless of what the situation is.

I live in Charleston, WV now. Been here since Roe v. Wade got overturned. Just a little bit of background: I am recently in remission from breast cancer. I can no longer take birth control of any kind because of it and actually have to take hormone blockers because any estrogen is bad news for me. So if I were to get pregnant and were not able to abort, it could quite literally cause my breast cancer to come back. I have never had an abortion myself, but have no doubt in my mind (especially now) that that is the decision I would make. Anyway, no matter why anyone wants or needs an abortion, I will try my best to be there for you.

I'm lucky that I have some flexibility in my day to day schedule. I'm not rich or anything or I would offer monetary services as well. I do have a reliable car, though. If you are in WV or Kentucky, maybe even Tennessee, I will try my best to help you. We can go to Virginia, Maryland, Pennsylvania, or Ohio. Also, if you need someone to go grab you a plan b or pregnancy tests or condoms or whatever in the local area and maybe you don't have a car or can't go for some reason - please let me know.

Hi y'all.

Mid 40s woman with 2 ABs under her belt (one medical, one surgical), here to help anyone who needs a shoulder during the process.

I can accompany to any clinic in Philly, and provide a couch to crash on in special circumstances.

Live alone, with one cat (for those with allergies).

Happy to drive to appointments, talk/text/etc, live with family/my kids, and can discuss overnight if necessary, also can feed as well/help get pads/Tylenol/ibuprofen for after appointments.

My younger toddler would most likely have to accompany me on drives, but I promise no pressure from me or my family, we all believe it is 100% your choice and only your choice.

Oh, and no idea if it matters but if it does I'm an almost 31 year old woman, 2 young daughters but anyone would probably only see one of them for driving trips due to her age.

Crap edit lol: completely forgot we also have a dog since we've only had him a couple weeks lol. Very friendly American Eskimo puppy, just in case anyone is allergic lol.

Hello, I am unsure if this group includes those of us from outside the US or not. If so, I would love to help in any way I can. Whether that's just over the phone, messaging or meeting in person. I am happy to travel upto 4 hours from where I live, I'm in a 1 bed flat, but have no objection to sleeping on an airbed if necessary! So, if you're in the UK & need support, please feel free to get in touch.

Happy to attend appointments with you or just listen to you (text, chat, phone, whatever). I live with my family and we are close; I can feed you if needed and am open to discussing sleepover situations with the family to ensure comfort and safety. I’m also great at research, so I’m happy to do what I can there. You’re never alone! 💜

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