How can I tell if a Libra man is serious about me or just keeping me at arms length? He's so damn hard to read sometimes.

I'll give a bit of background info.

•He gave me a key to his house.

•We usually spend 2 weekends a month together, (divorce life, kids, etc) sometimes just 1 weekend/month.

•He very recently started saying 'I love you' regularly to me.

•My toothbrush and stuff used to be put away at his house, now he keeps it out in the open, a card I got him when he was sick, he leaves on his nightstand, i have braces, recently i asked if i could leave teeth cleaning stuff in his truck - he was good with it, random things like this.

•He had surgery and gave his mom my number for her to give me updates.

•I've not met any of his friends or family, however I'm not officially divorced yet either, which plays a big role, I believe?

•He keeps a parking meter ticket from a date we had in his wallet.

•We cook together, watch movies and shows, have amazing sex, sometimes just chill and cuddle, talk on the phone for hours sometimes.

•In public there's pda, HE has said things like "I like when you walk next to me to show we're together versus walking ahead or behind"

•We do talk about the future together and he talks about being a couple, but saying I love you does not make us official. I want official.

But then there's also times when I get a bit in my feelings, feeling like i lose his interest, times where I feel like we could have planned something a bit more ahead of time instead of him waiting last minute? Sometimes it does feel like friends with benefits? Sometimes he doesn't text much, maybe it's his mood being off? I'm not sure.?

Thoughts? Opinions?

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I was watching Pocohontas and it made me wonder what the princesses zodiac signs are. At least the OGs to Mulan. I know some aren't exactly princesses, but still. They are princesses in our hearts. What are their signs of you had to guess based on personality?

For my friend Bri's birthday we're all going away for the weekend, and she's into star signs! So I thought it would be fun to find out who would be the most compatible matches in the group!

At first I was just going to pair them up based on Venus & Moon but now I've added in Mars im lost. Any advice? 🫡🩷🙏

This is my opinion:

It's not something to base your entire life and personality around. Nor is it worth hyper-analyzing in yourself and other people in such a way that you feel horrible about yourself. Take it with a grain of salt. It could be true, or it may not.

If you find traits in yourself that you dislike, or you think is sabotaging your life, turning to astrology is not the solution. You are in control your life, emotions, and thoughts based on your external circumstances.

If you truly believe in astrology and think spending time learning about it, then by all means, I support that. But you not being in control of your emotions, your life trajectory not turning out the way you anticipated, your mental health issues - this is not the way. It's simply a means of escapism, a way to take the control out of your hands.

Let’s kick off a storytelling game! Here’s how it works: I’ll start with the first paragraph of a story, and each of you who comments will pick up right where the last person left off. Add your own twist, bring the characters to life, and let’s see where our Sagittarius creativity takes us! No limits—just let your imagination soar.

Let’s begin:

In a small, starlit village nestled between misty mountains and the shimmering sea, a young wanderer named Elara paused on her journey. She gazed at the sky, where constellations glowed like diamonds on dark velvet, each star a promise of adventures yet to come. Tonight, the air was thick with magic, and as she whispered her dreams to the moon, a gentle breeze carried a soft melody, one only she could hear. She felt a thrill run through her—a sign that something beautiful was about to unfold.

Have fun adding to the story!Can’t wait to see where we end up.

I've been dealing with a Scorpio friend who has major lying issues and is honestly quite disrespectful. Our other Scorpio friend doesn't wanna speak up about it, so I did. I finally snapped today, it kinda feels good to stop being a pushover LOL

male aries sun taurus moon leo rising. I got this troublesome eyes that seemingly openly ask people to come fight me what should i do? is there a way to use this for a positive benefit or should i just go forever avoiding people?

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Curious to know what professions my fellow Scorpio Risings are in. I'm the opposite of a people person and stuck in marketing - not the best for a Scorpio Rising.

Aquarius moon? Avojdants, for sure.

I have no idea what I'm doing 🤦‍♂️

What’s your opinion on mercury scorpio. Who are we most compatible with other than water or earth mercuries? What aspects or other planets work well?

Where people project an idealized version onto you, and get shocked when you act like a human ?
Whenever i sense people put me on a pedestal or are admirative, i feel the need to be "average" again, just so i can fade into the background.

I've been extra mean to people at some point to compensate, espeically when they say i'm "too quiet" or "calm" . I just start saying whatever comes to my mind, and they end up avoiding me after this.
I was never the kind of person that people avoid, bc i was always giving, people would always gravitate twds me to take take and take.

I almost lost myself by trying to make everyone around me comfortable while neglecting my own needs, i'm a sponge so i often conflate what other people think and want with what i'm thinking and feeling.
And then people get shocked when i'm like enough is enough. People i dont like genuinely think i like them, bc they see what they want to see.

It's hard in romantic relationships too, i've never been in a relationship bc i find people generally don't like me for me.