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/r/askregressors
I’m still very new to regression and all so I was hopping to get some good ideas from other littles
I'm 15f I like coloring,watching movies and sleeping, I'm active almost all day and I love to talk! I regress to ages 2-7 and most days I may be clingy cuz that's my personality please dm me!
Hellooo!! My name is Melanie, I'm 15 big age
Little age is 1-5
I've never had a caregiver that hasn't been rude or s*xual in some way, All of my previous cg's have made agere nsfw, I really just want a cg that is sfw and doesn't be mean to me 🤍
Hi! I'm 21 NB/GF (AFAB) and my cg is 22M. We are hoping to find somebody who can help him be a better cg! It's been hard with being a cg for him and he has never had experience before me! So we are looking for a friend who might be able to help him and show him how it's done! DM if interested!
Trigger warning: relationship issues related to age regression and infidelity.
I’ll start by saying we have been in a relationship for 6 years. We share a home and a mortgage, and have four cats that are closely bonded. She has always had childish habits and interests, which I don’t mind, but age regression as an activity was never brought up until now. She says that this has been an interest of hers the entire time we were together, but again, she’s never used the words “age regression” or “little space” until now.
Recently she had an emotional affair. She never slept with him, but was flirting and relationship building with somebody else. She told him she had feelings for him. She told her friends. I had no idea. It went on for two months, and she eventually approached me proposing polyamory. I am strictly monogamous. I said no. She accepted, blocked him out, and agreed to stay in a monogamous relationship with me.
I was pressing her for more information about what was missing in our relationship that would lead to her seeking affection from someone else, and this is where age regression entered the picture. She told me “maybe I want to explore this with someone.” She swears she never introduced it to the other person, but that this has been on her mind for a long time.
I said some hurtful things right out of the gate. Admittedly, I was emotional. One thing has stuck with her- I essentially told her that I think age regression seems like an unhealthy way to cope with her trauma. We basically “tabled the topic” and our therapist has suggested that when we introduce it back into our conversations, I say nothing and only listen.
I learned a bit about what she wants. I don’t know what to think.
This is the woman I love. I’m afraid of losing her. I’m afraid that if I say no to something else, she will walk away, especially since I already said no to polyamory. I’m also afraid that if I say yes, we will lose what we currently have. The woman I have come to know and love will be spending her days in a different state of mind, and gone are the days of us hanging out together in the ways we always have. I’m afraid that age regression will take time away from the things I love about our relationship. Basically, whether I agree to this or not, I’ve lost her either way.
She also says she’s willing to give it all up for me. I know that would make her unhappy. The issues between us would only grow. This situation is not sustainable.
I want us to grow old together. I want children. She has told me before she wants the same. Can a child have children? How will we explain to them that they have to stop using their binky when mommy won’t give up hers? Can an age regressor even be a parent?
She says all the time that she wants to move on from her traumas, that she wants to learn to let go of the things she missed out on when she was younger. I guess I’m having a hard time understanding how these viewpoints align with her desire to practice age regression.
I’m so afraid of losing her. I want her to be happy. But I’ve never wanted to parent my partner.
I want to accept her. But I’m worried it won’t be enough. I think she needs more than tolerance. I don’t know what to do. How do I get us to want the same thing? How can I be enough for her? I feel so lost.
Pretty much the title. I'm 16 and my symptoms are pretty much whenever something really upsetting happens and I haven't taken my meds in days(mood stabilizers), I involuntarily act younger.(I'd say around 4-7ish?) I obsess over stuffed animals(particularly my blahaj), my boyfriend(mainly wana cuddle him and yap to him), and just overall acting younger with the way I talk and where my interest/attention is.(like going more toward an easy game or a kids show rather than reels or video games.) I'm also most likely, not diagnosed autistic, and I heard it can come from autism and/or trauma but also heard autistic people can be childish?(i dont mean that negatively i mean that literally if that makes any sense) Any insight is helpful.
Hii! I’m 19f, looking for a CG. 18+ only. I age regress and age dream, I live in the US. I love coloring and watching cartoons! I play dress up as well. I’m looking for someone nice, willing to play dress up with me, and read me a bed time story! I would prefer female, dm me if interested, thank you
I guess it’s just my mental health being super wacky for the past two months, but i’ve been feeling frustrated about how i can’t really seem to get into little space as of late. i have new toys and my bed has a canopy which helps me get into that space, but it’s just been really hard lately :( any advice/tips?
I regressed in my past relationship until I felt like I didn't need to anymore and now am in a relationship with someone who is an age regressor due to trauma in their abusive household taking away the majority of their childhood. I try to be their CG, but we don't live together so the most we can really do in terms of a little/carer relationship/interactions are over calls or texts or the few times that it ends up happening while we hang out in person. This lack of irl interaction during their little-space/regression is what concerns me. To preface, they are a big vrchat player, and when we got together I started playing vr with them sometimes, bc I had one from my past relationship but had not really used it much. this lack of use led me to gift my new partner (I will call H for ease) when H's VR headset broke until either I could get myself a new one or we could them a new one. Now I can not really play vr with them at all as either I use the desktop version or just don't at all. though, this leads to me never being in VR with them, and H prefers to regress/ spend their time during regression on vrchat with their "vr chat dad" and "vr little brother" (two friends, one of which I'm pretty sure I met at some point on vr when I was able to play". I'm just wondering that, is it normal for them to want to spend time with a separate carer/caretaker that is not me, their partner? We've been together for a little under a year atp but have known each other since we were very young. They haven't given me many chances to display my abilities as a caregiver and I feel that may be why they prefer their "vr dad" or that the vr models just makes it easier for them to get immersed? i guess my question here is, is this normal for a little to prefer a carer who is kind of just another person, or at least just a friend, or am I not seeing something? as I said, I'm not new to the agere/cg lifestyles and I know somewhat how its like to regress and everything, and in my personal experience I preferred to be on call or at least texting with my partner, not in vr with a friend or a random person, but I don't know if that's a normal thing or something I should worry about. H knows that them doing certain relationship-y things with other people (i'e cuddling with friends, flirtatious or s*xu*l behavior around friends, etc" makes me feel bad and they know that its due to my insecurities caused by past relationships. I've been cheated on a few times, used for my body, etc. but I don't want to mention about this to them because I don't want to sound rude about it or make them think I'm mad or upset with them because of their regression. Could anyone help, or give me advice, or anything like that? i would really appreciate it a lot.
(This is a continuation of a post I made about a month ago)
So background info before the main question: I have: Cleft lip Cleft pallet Cleft throat Cleft nose Chrons Autism ADHD Hypermetabolism (meaning I’m always snacking dint gain weight and medicine doesn’t always work properly. For me) Randomly passing out Deaf in both ears without my hearing aids Color blind Permanent lisp Permanent stutter cause of how my jaw works
And I’ve age regressed for years to about the age of 3-8 depending on how severe the stress which induced it was, I also have zero control over when it happens
I also recently started an experimental medicine which induces puberty a second time because my upper body didn’t do it properly because of a hunch of issues caused by my other medical issues…
Side effects of this medicine include; Urinary incontinence (which I already had from Chrons and Hypermetabolism) Emotional outbursts Muscle weakness Headaches And irrational thoughts
Well ontop of the medicine my therapist and psychiatrist and neurologist have all agreed that my age regression is natural and not a bad thing as it has profoundly helped me every time it happens even if I dislike it, the main concern is that I have no control over it (we’ve only just begun to isolate the triggers)
The goal is to get me to a point where I can control when I age regress
Ontop of this they are trying to help me process my emotions and learn how to recognize my emotions, which is where the topic of playing and relaxing came up
I admitted to them that since the age of 8 I’ve never really played and instead just kinda… zoned out? And when I age regress I mostly just hug my stuffed animals and play with them for hours
Well they recommended building upon this since I’ve been age regressing more and more because if my severe stress right now (just got accepted to marine biology school in Unity University, and I recently left my abusive narcissistic mother so with all the change it’s no wonder I’m supper stressed)(plus finally getting surgeries for my jaw and throat I’ve needed for years has me stressed)
My question I guess is— cause my therapists said that playing and relaxing is different for each person and that I’ll have to experiment to see what I find relaxing and easy for me to do— is what are some things I should try? And what are some things I should do
Also before it’s recommended, as it’s usually the first thing I see suggested: I don’t like Bluey, I’ve tried it several times and just not a fan
My therapist suggested this therapy coupled with my new medicine
So I recently got diagnosed at age 19 with autism, adhd That makes me have; Cleft lip Cleft pallet Cleft throat Cleft nose Crohn’s Hyper metabolism Electrolyte deficiency Anemia Craniofacial muscular issues Deaf And more
It was also discovered that my body— specifically my brain and upper body— didn’t properly undergoe puberty
This means I never properly developed emotional sensors and that my muscular growth was stunted
This was likely caused by; My mothers abuse My constant surgeries and medical issues And environmental stress
So my psychiatrist and neurologist worked together to give me a set of 3 options; A at home medicinal solution A long lasting stay at a psychiatric hospital for study and care Or Do nothing and just do therapy and hope things got better
I chose; A at home medicinal solution I took a week to make my decision… and it wasn’t made lightly but I’m experiencing a lot of negative side effects— although perfectly normal and expected ones my doctors assure me
But I feel like I made the wrong choice cause it feels like I took the “easy” choice out
The side effects im experiencing are; Stuttering or lisping Muscle spasms Headache Nausea Frequent urination And Not feeling like yourself— depressed,anxiety, etc Acting out randomly Easily Influenced to do things you don’t want to do Etc
I feel like I should’ve taken the psychiatric choice cause over the last few days I’ve felt like a huge burden on everyone around me and all I’ve done is cry as I feel new emotion after new emotion (only 2 new ones… joy… and I’ve been laughing a lot so amused?) And I just kinda want to know what others would’ve done and what I can do differently to not feel like such a burden given that I right now I can’t even find a job cause of legal issues with my mother which I won’t get into
I try to do all the dishes and clean but I can hardly stay focused on any one task long enough to even do those basic things
I’ve always enjoyed my stuffed animals and one of my roommates decided to try and make fun of me for it and I told them shut it but I felt guilty afterwards
They said that age regression while my body undergoes all of this from the medicine is one of the main reasons the medicine is so effective (Can’t legally disclose the name of the medicine but I can talk about it)
I’m 19 and I’ve got no idea how to handle any of this and my therapist said to just experiment with letting loose and being more child like
I’ve had a “little side” inside of me ever since I could remember, but I only found out what agere actually was in my mid teens, how was it for you all?
I just saw a post about someone enjoying creepypastas when they’re little, and it got me thinking, how sensible are people when they’re little? I thought it was pretty universal that people during littlespace are very sensitive but I guess not everyone is like that
When I’m little, I’m super sensitive and the tiniest of things can make me cry or whine, any type of gore, even if very light, leaves me uncomfortable and scared, loud noises scare me a lot, and failing annoys me very much, especially when I try to do big stuff when little.
Is this relatable? Or am I just a scaredy cat? 😭
i’ll start this one
This lovely cow is called peanut, my partner and daddy got him for me as a present and i sleep with him every night time and nap time
do you just have a passion for looking after people? does it make you feel special and happy inside?
do you have a little that makes you feel amazing?
is it certain stuffies? or a magic nickname or word? is it hanging around people or going into certain stores?
hey guys!!!
what’s everyone’s favourite comfort snack or meal to make , why is it your favourite , how easy is it to much when big or little
Does big you and little you have différent food preferences?