/r/AskRedditAfterDark
r/askredditafterdark is a place to ask Reddit. After dark. This sub is NSFW and Adults Only (18+). This is not an "advice" sub. This is not a porn sub.
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Rule 1
Adults only (18+)! No minors. We don't care about the legal age of consent in your jurisdiction, if you're not a legal adult, you're not welcome here. Also: NO UNDERAGE SEX TALK, even for adults, even if the underage person was you.
Rule 2
We reserve the right to ban anyone and to remove any post/comment at any time for any reason, or even no reason at all. We do not give warnings. If you're here, you are presumed to be an adult and mature enough to engage in adult conversations. With that in mind, we will treat you like an adult and presume you know how to read our rules and follow them.
Rule 3
Don't be a dickhead or a bigot. If you look at a comment you're about to make and say, "Is this how a dickhead would reply?" and the answer is, "Probably" or "Yes", then do not reply that way. Also bigots are dickheads by default.
Rule 4
No excessive posting. Users who only/primarily post submissions about one subject are presumed to have a fetish they can't shut up about and will be banned, as we are not interested in being your jack shack. If reporting someone for excessive fetishposting, please view their comment history and report multiple fetishposts at once if possible, or modmail if not. Also, excessive posting in general is also against the rules, so try to control yourself.
Rule 5
We are not interested in hosting any surveys, studies, polls, or questionnaires for your project/assignment. Do not post them here or ask to post them here.
Rule 6
NO DICK POSTS. This sub has declared a moratorium on dick posts. That means posts that are primarily about dicks, circumcision, how to take dick pics, whether women like this or that kind of dick, whether men like this or that kind of dick, and so on. Dick posts are tedious, repetitive, and, most of all, UNINTERESTING.
If you're looking for something a little more visual and a lot more personal, check out /r/AskRedditAfterDarkGW/
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Are there hard and fast rules concerning dirty talk?
I’ve realised, the ‘do you like that’s and ‘you feel so x in my y’ is just something I struggle with a lot.
After some effort, it seems I can only dirty in what I describe as a sort of, emotional outburst, desperation/snively confessional-style whining(?). I can talk about how good it feels, but it’s more like a panicked horned up ‘why does it feel so good’/‘fuck I don’t know what to do..it feels great..?!’ kind of confused panic.
The confession thing too; I can talk about how I’ve wanted to fuck for days, or all I can think about is x, or how my partner’s just SO sexy and I don’t know WHY, but is this too formal or lengthy during actual sex? I find compared to the dirty talk I hear (usually murmured, short bursts of swearing and brief observations) mine may come off a bit odd.
I guess I’m just curious if this is a common way to do it, or if I should be reevaluating how I talk? It comes out in full honesty, I should mention — it’s not really a tool I use to make things ‘sexier’, but like when things spill out of you when you cry or get angry, I guess.
09:14 UTC
Do you fall in love quickly?
09:06 UTC
Flashers who have been caught 'misbehaving' in public, what were the genuine consequences of those actions.
Friend got caught peeing behind a tree within sight of a school, he is now on the SO registry.
Hotel canceled their stay when security video showed them having sex in the pool. They were also billed for the draining and refilling of the pool.
Cops called to the beach for a woman apparently masturbating. No proof was shown but everyone on the beach heard about it and knew why the cops were there. She was probably innocent but was asked to leave anyway, I still feel so embarrassed for her.
08:46 UTC
What is on your to-do list for 2025 (both non-sexual and sexual)?
My list includes meeting a MILF, landing an internship somewhere before I graduate, and to find more hobbies IRL to get into.
08:22 UTC
Tips for a online chat turned hookup?
Met this girl on a chat app and have been sexting for a few months at this point. She's open to coming over some time to fuck. Anything I should keep in mind?
08:20 UTC
How come my “ugly” photos get more response from women than the ones where I think I look good?
Do y’all like the rawness of guy photos?
08:16 UTC
Your best late night tips for increasing the size of your load?
07:58 UTC
Do other countries have their own terms for truck-stop hookers? (i.e. Lot Lizard)
Curious if Lot Lizard is just a U.S. thing or not.
07:13 UTC
What sex toy do you not use as it’s intended?
07:00 UTC
Is there a specific sound or scent that turns you on during intimate moments?
06:55 UTC
What is something that’s an absolute dealbreaker for you in the bedroom?
06:23 UTC
Do guys know about the A spot inside a woman?
I’m not talking anal. Most guys have heard of the G spot, but a little further up is the A spot and it’s a-mazing. Easily reachable with fingers and the instruction I like to provide - when inside, aim for my bellybutton and that’s the magic and direct access to bliss for all.
Do others know about this? If so, what instructions do you provide to guide your partner there?
06:21 UTC
anything i need to know before fcking a man twice ny age?
anything i need to know before fcking a man twice ny age?
just like title says.
06:19 UTC
it’s my birthday!!! what’s been your favorite birthday gift you’ve received (nsfw or sfw)?
turning 25 & needed to celebrate by asking an arad question 💞
06:18 UTC
Dose any one like to fuck as is not big deal?
My ex and I used to talk about random things while we fucked, and that turned me on a lot—just like seeing her naked around the house or eating her out while she brushed her teeth. I also loved having sex in broad daylight with the windows open, as if it were something we were supposed to hide from everyone.
06:18 UTC
Late night's 🫠
Can't sleep, what's on your mind tonight? 😴
06:16 UTC
What is one of your more noteworthy or unique NSFW experiences?
06:09 UTC
What are some encounters with fakes that you have had?
I get so irritated chatting with someone and then the NSFW talk starts to where we decide to trade pictures, then they send what is clearly just random internet pictures. Or they ask me to buy. Their account is brand new. It's so irritating that I can't just have good chats and good fun on here. Yes I've had some good fun and good chats but they don't last long at all. Then suddenly the account is deleted. 🤣🤦♂️
05:56 UTC
People who like rough sex, how do you define it? If I wanna do it rough with my partner, but don’t know where to start.
05:55 UTC
Did you have an unexpected win today?
What was it?
05:54 UTC
What was the most unexpected, pleasurable Same-Sex encounter you have had?
05:43 UTC
What is an interesting fact about you? SFW or NSFW
An interesting fact about me is my mom specifically gave me the initials J.R.R.T, Like Tolkien's initials. And now I am an author. Though I only write under my two middle names.
05:35 UTC
What is an accomplishment or experience that you are very proud of?
05:28 UTC
If you had the opportunity to participate in a swinger party AKA an orgy would you?
For example a 12 person orgy (eveyone is vetted and tested for no STDS), 6 men and 6 women and you can swap partners with anyone at anytime.
05:21 UTC
How different do you appear/seem to be in your day to day life vs. how you appear/seem to be on Reddit? What is the more real you?
What are the most distinct differences?
05:02 UTC
Whats the awkward gotcha song that comes on, on the radio when you're with your significante other?
The song that get you both thinking about your relationship. Or the one that calls you or the other person out. Mine are as follows...
Liar by Jelly Roll White liar by Maranda Lambert Rock and a hard place Bailey Zimmerman
The first two are because my wife has absolutely destroyed our marriage with lies, over and over again. And the second is because our marriage is pretty much over but we're hanging on for our own reasons.
When these songs come on its dead quite unless she can change the station quickly hehe
05:01 UTC
What’s your favorite candy?
I have always been a fan of silky candies. Like Gobstoppers or Hot Tamales, Nerds etc.
Edit. Silly not silky. 🤭
04:56 UTC
Psst, if you’re awake, whatcha doing?
04:43 UTC
Would you go down into the spooky basement?
With or without a flashlight?
04:38 UTC
men; do you like ya booty ate??👀
04:32 UTC