I am from Germany and I am looking for LGBTQIA+ friends. I am queer, ace & bi and I live in a not very tolerant and lively area, so I would like to finde people they are looking for the same. Im looking for online/chat friends or for friends to date. My main hobbies are cycling (not professional) and beeing in tha nature/landscape. Also I am very interested in observing animals.
Im not looking for a partner or relationship

Hi all,

Im 36 and live in essex, uk. I am looking for a relationship with a straight ace guy. I think im heteroromantic ace, sex averse. I like romance, cuddling and holding hands.

Im down to earth and a loyal person. Im hoping im can find someone nearby to meet up for a coffee eventually and see if theres a connection.

I enjoying reading and watch good tv/ movies. Comment on here or feel free to DM. Uk only please

I’m Val, a gentle girl from Virginia, and I’m looking for my soulmate. I’m romantic but very non-sexual, I just want to cuddle and share feelings! Or if it’s long distance I wanna tell you about my day and stay up at night sending each other memes.

• I’m nerdy, big lover of scifi, fantasy, video games, some comics, cartoons.
• I like queer pop music and jazz/classical/soundtracks. Currently obsessed with Chappell Roan.
• I’m trying to be a fantasy novelist, but currently have a part time day job.
• I have roughly 40 house plants, they’re my joy. I love nature and bones and crystals and anything natural. I enjoy long walks and picnics at the park.
• I’m gentle, tender, hopelessly romantic. I had a terrible breakup a few years ago when I figured out I was ace and since then I have been deeply lonely.
• I like women. Lol end of statement. But actually, the most important thing is you make me laugh and can carry an intelligent conversation. Stimulate me and I’m yours.
• White, trans femme, 5’8. Long thick dyed red hair, sad blue eyes, freckles, septum ring.

Hey y’all, are any of you in the Philadelphia area? I’m looking to meet some fellow aces. Mostly looking for friendship, possibly dating.

I know there’s a fb group, Aces of Philadelphia but I don’t have fb nor do I want to make one. I’m not sure if it’s active but if you’re part of that let me know when the next meet up is.

I’m down to get drinks, coffee, visit a museum, walk around FDR park, see some local comedy, basically whatever.

29 year old, got everything I want in life while ignoring relationships but found myself wanting a romantic connection (of sorts) grey-sexual.

I’m a computer programmer by day and musician by night. I like some nerdy things but also I like the gym and hiking and the nature. I do van life (part time) but I’m not as eccentric as most of the van life community.

~looking for some ace friends but am open to a relationship or even advice!

I'd always thought of myself as bisexual (with a heavy preference towards women) but I've recently been coming to terms about the possibility of being asexual. I know that I'm definitely more drawn to women, and, in theory, I really want a romantic relationship, but I've never really felt sexual attraction for anyone (except maybe one person - a girl I was in a long distance situationship-type thing a few years ago). Other than that, I've never really experienced having a crush. When in grade school, I'd always pick a random boy to have a crush on or when I was out as bi in college, I would only acknowledge guys and girls were good looking but never want to do anything more than kiss them (I do really enjoy kissing, but that's about it when it comes to sexual? behavior). Even with celebrities, I can pointedly say that one is attractive, but I don't picture myself being in a relationship or being with them, if anything, I just want to be friends with them. When I had sex for the first time, I thought that maybe it was just bad because I'd never done it before and I was 18, so I had plenty of time to learn. Plus people always say that it's always bad the first time. Then, this past year I had sex again (with a guy and then also a girl) and just didn't feel anything no matter how hard i tried. Each time, it was just like "oh, this is a thing that's happening. Okay..." type of feeling if that makes any sense?

Anyways, here are some of my interests if you'd like to send a chat. Also, I'm fairly new to reddit so bare with me if I reply late or don't know how to do certain things on here

Interests: Music - mostly pop/alt-pop? (idk what the genres are nowadays lol but some artists I like are Tate McRae, The Band Camino, Valley, Chase Atlantic, Fletcher, Kehlani, Thuy) and k-pop (my main groups are loona, gidle, lesserafim, twice. i only really know girl groups tbh). Video games - Fortnite, Rocket League, RuneScape. TV Shows - Modern Family, Teen Wolf, The Bachelor, The Challenge, Warrior Nun. Other - I don't smoke or drink, I play pickleball for fun, go to the gym semi-regularly, and am working on trying to find my purpose in the world.

Please note: I tend to be awkward at first, but once I get comfortable with you, you probably can't get me to shut up.

Hi, I'm very new to this. I'm asexual (and straight) and looking for a relationship. A little bit of info about myself:

• From Belgium. Native language: Dutch. Fluent English. French OK.
• I like playing sports a lot! Muscular build (6' / 183cm), quite handsome.
• I also like reading in the little spare time I have left (most of it is filled with hobbies/sports).

Hit me up if you are interested!

Hi, I'm Teskia, a black nonbinary (afab) person who is currently looking for a partner either in the DMV area or nearby and willing to travel to come meet me.

Long story short, I'm lonely, and I'm looking to help ease the loneliness that has been eating away at me for the past 4 years. I've been trying dating apps and everything but no luck. And I'll be honest, maybe it's me, but not long after my ex broke up with me, I feel very stagnant emotionally and have been leaning more towards aromanticism but still want a relationship. I am sex repulsed for the most part, but am open to trying it eventually.

I'm extremely needy and my cup isn't able to be filled easily. I need a lot of reassurance and a lot of effort put into this even if it doesn't last.

I had a double mastectomy and a hysterectomy. I'm 5'2. I am strictly monogamous and do not want a partner with multiple partners or one that wants to have sex with others while I'm with them. I'm extremely needy. I need a lot of attention from the person I'm with. I'm extremely touch starved and just want to feel like I'm good enough. I will give you most if not all my attention. My love language is gift giving and physical time together. I have a lot of mental health issues, and can easily be overwhelmed in certain scenarios. I like anime and comic book movies. I'm a nerd so hopefully we can nerd out together. I have a lot of mental health struggles, so if you can't deal with that than I don't think I'm right for you. I need alot of compassion and understanding. I really want someone committed to this, I'm tired of guys saying they want something and not trying. I'm looking for serious inquiries only. And have a preference for amab people who are older than me.

I’m lesbian I want exmuslim gay to marry just Front ours family and in fact we just friends , because I don’t want escape from my family i don’t want break them,I still love them, I want leave them with all love and respect 😔

Anyone from Melbourne or around Australia? Asexual dating is really hard. 😔

I''m hoping to find someone who can relate... I first realised I'm probably demi/grey sexual, then realised I might also be lesbian. I've been trying to figure this out for about 2.5 years (came out to my husband about 1.5 years ago and still currently with him, recently trying polyamory). I'm so drawn to women emotionally and in theory I really want a romantic relationship, but I've never felt sexual attraction for anyone in real life. When I watch sapphic TV shows or books I really resonate with it (especially the cuteness) and feel such longing to experience that, but I'm not sure that spark is something I'm capable of. I felt sexual attraction once, towards an actress performing in a musical and I was blown away - it was part of what got me thinking I was a lesbian and maybe I've repressed it all these years and that is why I've always struggled with intimacy with my husband and felt there is something missing. But that was technically a fictional character, and I've never felt it since. (apparently it's very common for asexual people to feel attraction towards fictional characters). I've had fleeting romantic impulses towards friends a couple of times when I've felt very emotionally connected to them in times of emotional vulnerability, but I don't think I'd want to be with them even if that were a possibility, I just feel briefly drawn to them.

I worry that I am capable of feeling drawn to fictional characters because they are not real; they can be romanticised and perfect and they are safe. Or being drawn to friends that I know are not available because they are also safe and there is no chance anything could actually happen. Perhaps even my need to feel safe and comfortable with someone is part of what prevents that spark, because there's no mystery or excitement? I don't even really know what my "type" is. Personality is a big factor for me, but the people I really click with (usually fellow neurodivergents!) are always platonic connections. There are women I really like the look of, and the way they dress does seem to be a large factor, but that sometimes makes me feel like I'm being shallow. I also feel like these women are way out of my league and feel a bit intimidated by them. (maybe I could feel attraction to those women, but I'm too scared to try?? Maybe I'm staying in my comfort zone by only associating with women that feel safe, and if I was braver/more self confident I perhaps could find that spark?)

Most late in life lesbians have a catalyst experience, or realise they've been suppressing an attraction to women and suddenly feel desperate to sleep with women. My experience has been very different and complicated. I deeply want to find someone who will make me feel all of those deep sappy feelings, someone who I'll adore and always want to be there for them. Someone I love being around who makes me feel like I just can't contain my desire to kiss them, or lay on the couch together cuddling. But I only seem to connect deeply with women as friends. Part of me feels like I just need to accept that maybe I'm aromantic and asexual, and just not capable of a romantic dynamic. Maybe those romantic longings are just fantasies. Maybe I'm only capable of deep friendship. But the fact that I so deeply long for more makes that a really upsetting thing to accept, and I can't help but hope that some day a woman will come along who will make me experience all of those things that I feel like I've been locked out of my whole life.

I've recently been on 2 first dates, and I know that's really not a lot, and doesn't mean all hope is lost. But both went so well. We had lots in common, it felt comfortable and we had fun, connected and enjoyed each others company. But total friend vibes. It's got me down, feeling like I'm not capable of anything more. Maybe it's possible that something could grow in time slowly for me from a friendship. But I'm concerned that I could end up doing what I did with boys when I was younger - pick a nice one who I feel comfortable and safe with, whose company I enjoy, and convince myself I like them as more than a friend. In retrospect I see now that's what I did. I don't want to talk myself into being attracted to someone, and have another relationship that should never have been more than friends. I want to just know. I want to feel giddy and unable to stop myself from smiling when I think about them. I want to find someone I feel so drawn to.

Can anyone relate? Has anyone been through anything similar? I'd love to talk to someone who could understand, whether they eventually did experience a spark with someone or not.

Today’s been shit. If yours has been too maybe we can play imessage games and talk about it. OR nerd out with me about horror, video games, writing, or rock music?? Pls be somewhere in the US or Canada and like around 18-24 btw 👌👌

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Looking for someone to date or just be friends with, don't care about gender. If partner, I prefer them slightly chubby and someone between 18 and 25 and in the United States preferably in Kansas but anywhere in the United States works. Not really interested in sexual stuff very much. I prefer white, alternative or goth people but I am ok with any other appearance.

I'm a AMAB Genderfluid, Demipanromantic masculine looking and sounding individual and go by Nyx, Icarus, or Styx. Im slightly chubby, 5'7, have long curly ish hair that is a really dark brown and faded blue. Ive been told I look Hispanic but am mixed between native American, white, and African American. I have a decent length beard about 1 to 2 inches long. I have very dark brown eyes almost black looking and enjoy having my nails painted black. I'm very possibly AuDHD (autistic with ADHD for those who don't know). I have never been in a relationship with someone who is masculine presenting but am willing to be in a relationship with someone who is. I tend to be very introverted till someone gets to know me. I have been told I can be very inconsistent in showing affection (results from trauma from past relationships). I like showing affection by either lots of physical contact or wanting to be in your presence generally involves wanting to text a lot or just be on the phone when not around each other. I'm a very indoors kind of person who likes making things that includes either building cars, painting, drawing, or making props. I enjoy listening to different kinds of rock and metal but occasionally listen to rap. I have a difficult time being expressive but when I do I tend to go a bit overboard. I will most likely vent about some probably stupid things please just bear with it.

I have a Snapchat, messenger, and other social media just can't really think of them at the moment. If you would like any other information just let me know and I'm ok with giving it that includes photos I just don't normally take any of myself.

Hello!

Identity: 24F, asexual, sex repulsed, demiromantic biromantic.

Location: Dominican Republic, I will be pursuing a master's degree in Europe starting this year. 

Interests:

Getting lost in music is my favorite way of spending my free time. I like cooking/baking special things when I feel inspired to. Sometimes I get caught up on random rabbit holes of information, I bing read web comics knowing they're incomplete. I like taking pictures, watching the sky and stars; sometimes just standing there, breathing the fresh air at the countryside makes me feel fulfilled. Oh and I write poetry. I also like outdoor/nature activities such as swimming, running, hiking. It's been years since I had a bike but I want to get back to it.

I don't really play video games anymore. Maybe in the future I'll get back to it. Same with tv shows, I have a long list of things I watched/played in the past, so maybe we could talk about both of these things. And I'd be open to recommendations. 

Shows/cartoons I've liked:

Live action: Orphan Black, Teen Wolf, the OA, Sense8, New Girl, Skins, Fleabag, Warrior Nun, Anne with an E, Super Girl;

Animated: Kipo, She-Ra, Inside Job, Arcane, Dragon Prince, Hilda, Violet Evergarden, Edén, The Owl House, Teen Titans, Young Justice, Disenchantment, Harley Quinn, ATLA, LOK, Bocchi the Rock!, Ergo Proxy, Cowboy Bebop, etc.

Games: Life is Strange, The Walking Dead Series, Kirby and Super Mario games, Minecraft, Stardew Valley, GTA, The Sims, Unpacking and Need for speed. 

About me: 

I'm an ambivert, a private person but I can open up easily, sometimes it happens fast, sometimes it takes time, it depends on the person. I've dealt with anxiety and depression in the past, but nowadays, it's mostly social anxiety that lingers. Still I can function in society and be a good add-on in others lives.

I'm open to talk about things like that and I can be pretty understanding of other's struggles. I don't like being bombed with heavy information without warnings first though.

I don't have my life 100% together, so I don't expect you to be at your "prime" either, but someone with a drive to get and be better would be nice, so we could support and motivate each other to keep thriving. So I can understand if you're struggling or have had in the past. I'm striving for my independence, personal and career growth, and living a peaceful life. 

Right now I'm unemployed, I get by trying to be as useful as possible (I live with my family); getting gigs here and there while I find a steady job; I also have various business ideas that I honestly don't know what I'm waiting for to try bring them to life lol; apart from that, I spend time doing things that I like, and every once in a while I enroll in virtual classes, short courses of different things. I live in a sub urban area, and honestly, there's not much to do here besides clubbing (not my thing), eating out, going to the beach or parks. Or maybe there is more and I'm not aware yet lol.

I express my feelings through acts of service, quality time, words of affirmation, compliments and flirts, cuddling and open/honest/healthy communication. I like to communicate and I hate when people leave me hanging on/waiting for answers that never arrive, I like being honest and talking things out, even if it won't work out.

Physically: I'm hispanic, 1.73m tall, average weight. My hair is short but my sense of fashion isn't really masc, nor too femme either lol. I just prefer to dress comfortably, but if things have to get fancy I can get fancy, you'll never see me wearing dresses though. Comfort > looks.

Happy to send pictures and expecting to get them in return, like to put a face to whom I'm talking with, so I would like to exchange pics early on, so if you're too big on anonymity, I don't think we'd be a match. For friends this isn't necessary though but if you want to, I'm fine with it. 

Looking for:

you + me 😏🤭 /JK... perhaps?👉🏼👈🏼

I've never been in a relationship but I feel ready to explore that part of myself that I've been neglecting haha. I kind of crave emotional connection and I enjoy cuddling. I put that pink flair but friends are welcomed too. 

Friends: anyone between 22-28, sharing things in common or anything at all, I can talk about anything honestly lol.

More than friends: 22-28, who's also looking for something similar; we don't need to have a lot in common, but if we share some interests it would be great; someone who can hold a conversation and communicate openly and with honesty; can get serious or be a silly goose when necessary :v, likes to constantly text/voice chat/video calls. I haven't had any luck finding aces here so I'm open to a LDR, even online for a while, though I would like to close the gap some day, I wouldn't be comfortable with an online relationship forever. Also I will come back to my country for a bit to do some things but I'm open to moving elsewhere depending on a lot of factors, feel free to ask me about this..

I like to communicate and I dislike when people leave me hanging on or waiting for answers that never arrive, specially in the online world. I like being honest and talking things out, even if they don't work out. But I don't chase people who gets hard to reach out to. 

Deal-breakers include:

• age range 
• toxic positivity 
• toxic masculinity
• hate towards lgbt+ 
• passive aggressiveness
• unhealthy levels of clingyness
• hard drugs , heavily drinking, somking
• Ignoring the age range I have stated above 

I'm sorry for the length, I always start writing short bits but I'm the type to give as much information as possible lol. I don't leave anything up for imagination XD

Happy to provide more (more !!!? XD) details privately.

If I caught your attention don't hesitate to dm, comment, pm, send me a pigeon or a smoke signal. 

See ya!

About me: my name is Dani, I’m 23 now but will be 24 next month. I’m black 5ft, and have buzzed hair, and kind of goofy looking. I have 2 pets Eugene, my Chinese Dwarf Hamster, and Chase the family dog, I can show pictures of course. I suffer from some mental problems tho I’m trying my best to work on them and myself, I’m a bit messy and have a hard time opening up at first

Hobbies: art, video games, collecting trinkets, going for walks, reading, watching movies, crafting, learning to cook, journaling

What I’m looking for in you: 20-26, preferably a woman. Really just want someone to hang with, I’m fine with texting or calling, especially if we are playing games or watching a movie or something. Someone who is patient and kind mostly, who shares at least a few of my interests. Also someone who is honest, if we don’t see eye to eye please tell me and not ghost me, I can handle the rejection.

Well I’m sure I’m missing some things so if you have any questions, you know where to find me. Once we get to know each other I’ll be more comfortable sharing pics and discord!

Hello! I live in North Jersey and work in NYC. I love exploring the city, movies, museums, and really big on live music. I used to go to a lot of concerts, but haven't as much in the last couple of years. Would love to meet someone I can connect with, we don't have to have the same interests. Just looking for someone chill, who wants to build a life together.

Feel free to DM, will share pictures. Thanks!

Especially those who identify as women or non-binary (but men welcome too just might like clarification in comments to see coorelation or not) - did you ever put someone in the “friend zone” and then they made it out of the friend zone into more?

Hi folks, I'm looking to make new ace friends locally. I study math and philosophy full time. I am a non traditional student and it feels a lot harder to meet new people now.

I love being out in nature and hope to move out of the city one day. I enjoy cycling and hiking, and recently added running to my routine.
I don't have as much time for gaming anymore, but TTRPG / CRPGs like Blades in the Dark and Baldur's Gate 3 will always have a special place in my heart. I'm also a big fan of musicals, so far I've seen Hamilton and Les Mis at the Pantages Theater. Dirty secret: As a teenager, I have induldged in ungodly amounts of fanfiction.

Looking to meet people who are genuine, honest, and try their best to be kind to strangers. I'm not a texter, I prefer quiet one on one conversations. I do love exchanging photos of nature or anything out of wack. If anyone of that resonates with you, send me a chat. :)

I’m not sure where on the spectrum I fall into but I’m mostly asexual because I try to avoid any sexual contact.

I consider myself to be funny and easy to talk to. I’m curious for just about anything and can spend hours on YouTube watching videos about how things work. I react differently from most people to different situations because I have Borderline Personality Disorder and that has taken a toll on my dating life but with the right person I’m sure I can make it work. I’m open to LDR for a short period of time but I would definitely want to meet sooner than later. I’m open to having kids.

Dealbreakers … Just be understanding of mental illnesses and other stigmatized topics and we’re good to go. We can discuss everything while chatting. If you’re interested in talking DM me and let’s take it from there.

Hello! Hope everyone is have a nice weekend. I'm having a quiet Saturday and looking for some people with similar interest to chat with. Interest include:

Art Musical/live theatre Animals Science Lego TV/Movies (please I know live under a rock and the last movie I saw was maybe 10 years old) Museums Literature/Webcomics/Graphic novels Board games

I am actively avoiding anything dark, sad, depressing, or Eurovision.

If you are looking for a happy, lighthearted chat than message/dm me!

I'm a 33-year-old trainee therapist who celebrates the beautifully unconventional aspects of life. Whether you consider yourself a bit offbeat, love to explore the wild side, or just enjoy delving into deep conversations, I'm eager to connect with you.

A bit about me: I'm proudly peculiar with an introverted twist. I find solace in the realms of literature and music (always open to recommendations!). I thrive on thought experiments and debates.

While I'm currently navigating a somewhat toxic long-term relationship, I'm not seeking to alter my circumstances. Instead, I'm on the lookout for platonic connections.

Gaming is a bit of a passion of mine, I have recently been playing Tomb Raider Remastered, Hollow Knight, and Super Mario Wonder.

If you're someone who embraces eccentricity, revels in exploring life's nuances, and values authentic connections, let's link up! Weirdos are welcome, crazy is fine. Borderline sociopath? Cool with me. Toxic? Yes please. Like to ghost? HMU.

Would prefer to move to Telegram or Signal if we click.

Hi. I'm looking for a relationship. My hobbies include cooking, baking, knitting, sewing, reading, watching anime, reading manga, reading comic books, reading manhwa, drawing, writing, reading webtoons, cosplaying, photography, gardening, going to farmers markets, going to craft fairs, hiking, exercising, being in nature etc. I am asexual/ graysexual/demisexual and omnisexual. I would like to get married but it is not a requirement. Not sure about kids. Feel free to comment below or dm me if interested

Hi there! I'm 23, enby, and ginger. I'm aego and sex neutral. I'm looking for friends who wanna chat, hang out, and if the vibes are right fool around online. I'm into gaming, hiking, and learning new languages. Feel free to message me, whether you're into just being friends, or being friends with some extra fun!

Hello everybody! First time posting to this subreddit.

About me: I'm a nerdy, introverted ace guy that lives in Texas. I've known that I was ace for a few years now and I'm looking to find someone to be in a relationship with. I am fat but I live an active lifestyle.

Likes: Sci-fi (star trek, star wars, warhammer), power metal, video games, food (cooking and trying new restaurants), wine (seriously this is my passion), D&D, curiosity.

Dislikes: Sports (find them boring), a lack of curiosity, zealotry (faith is fine but it shouldn't be your whole personality).

What I'm looking for: I'm new to dating and I'm trying to figure that out. I am going to be upfront and say that I am looking for an in person relationship on this subreddit so keep that in mind if you start a conversation with me.

smex repulsed 5'6 56kg asexual who wants kids in the future (i'm going to die alone) I like astronomy, nature and cooking/baking/EAAATING

If you're 18-25, send me a message (If you want) (optional) (help)

Alternatively, if you want an ace buddy I'm here too B )

Hi!

I’m looking for friends or partner in Europe. I’m from Scandinavia if that’s of any importance.

I love cats(I have 2) and some of the things I do in my free time is gaming, drawing, “puzzling”(jigsaw) and cooking(vegan). I love nature and dream about moving to the countryside/or an island in the future. I also want to have/rescue animals and do some small scale farming(vegetables and herbs).

I don’t mind finding new friends but hopefully i find a partner that’s more than just a friend. I’m ace and sex repulsed so I’m not interested in any relationship that requires sex. Also I’m not interested in having children.

I can be a bit what some would call weird and I’m definitely a child at heart and I’m looking for someone likeminded or someone who won’t judge.

If you think we could be friends or more I would love a DM.

32F

Professional photographer with a knack for capturing life's quirks and moments of emotions. Doodle lover and a crazy dog lover. Seeking an asexual soulmate to share laughs, paintbrushes, and puppy cuddles. A few situationships with straight guys taught me that shared values and understanding matter most. If you're goofy, kind, and have a heart as big as your love for dogs, do reach out :) ☘️🤞🏻

Single asexual autistic female from UK looking for long term platonic relationship with someone to live with. I don't have much support. Looking for a job. Willing to relocate. I don't smoke or drink. I don't want kids. Im infp. I like movies docus, short walks, drawing, games, cozy things. I'm oversensitive to sensory input. Prefer quiet.