/r/aroallomeeting

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For aroallos to find others near them to build community, find hookups, partnerships, or whatever we need to fulfill our own social needs.

/r/aroallomeeting

325 Subscribers

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19 M4A Denmark/Germany

Hey everyone! Thought I'd give this a shot since I've tried almost anything else at this point. I'm generally looking for a QPR. I do enjoy doing typical "romantic things" like kisses, cuddles etc. as long as it's platonic in nature. Ironically enough I'm romance-repulsed/averse I just enjoy the sensuality of those things and the bonding that comes with it, just without the romance aspect.

I'm also on the ace spectrum (still questioning) but when I'm comfortable with someone I'd say I'm very sex-favorable. I feel most attraction towards men but I'm open to everyone. It'd be cool to have a T4T QPR but it's not a requirement by any means.

I'm currently in Denmark by the way but planning to move to Germany within a year just fyi, so I'd prefer someone who live in Germany if possible 🙏 I couldn't see myself doing hook-ups, but maybe fwb if I'm comfortable. The most important thing for me is that it's someone who'll also give a shit about me after sex if that makes sense.

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2024/11/21
23:14 UTC

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31M -Recife - Brazil

Hey if you are brazilian, lets chat!

2 Comments
2024/11/20
12:38 UTC

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M31, southeast Texas

Hi! As the title says, I'm a 31 male living in southeast Texas, in a very small town, looking for friends and maybe even more!

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2024/11/13
23:18 UTC

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18 NB4A in New York, US

Hello! You can call me Jack. I'm a Genderqueer individual who goes by They/Them & Ze/Zir pronouns. I'm also omnisexual and a hypersexual. I've never met other aroallos like me, so I'd love to change that. I don't care what gender you are, and I'm down for either FWB or just a regular friendship. As long as you're around my age. My hobbies/interests include: reading, writing, listening to music, drawing, watching videos or TV shows, and roleplaying. Feel free to comment or dm me if you'd like to chat!

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2024/11/13
23:09 UTC

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20 NB4M/NB in Western Australia

Hey, for now you can call me Arrow(they/it), I'm looking for a FWB with the potential to grow into a QPR but also would like to just have some aro/aroallo friends.

A little bit about me: I'm a casual pc gamer (mostly play single player/non competitive games, recently picked up webfishing and stardew valley), I'm very introverted/socially anxious meeting new people, and I love cats and sharks :3

2 Comments
2024/11/09
22:12 UTC

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23 M4F - looking for relationship or partner

Hey everyone! I'm a 23-year-old guy in Canada and I have finally decided to date, which I have not done in a long time and definitely not in the western culture (no, I'm not from this side of the planet)

I'm looking for F between age 19 and 26, a small intro about yourself and from Canada, Manitoba, or Winnipeg.

Now about me, I like watching shows, movies and listening to music. I recently started gaming and reading and I also like to dress well and be presentable.

I am a demisexual, aromantic, ISTJ and a Capricorn, and my love languages are quality time and acts of service. And if you've read this far, please the word "mocha" in your intro so I know that you've read so far.

Thanks for reading! :)

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2024/11/09
03:16 UTC

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30M cishet in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania

Hi! I’m a 6’3” straight guy hoping to find FWB prospects: ideally hot, tall-ish (anywhere over 5’5” honestly), and dominant or dominant-curious women from the ages of (roughly) 20 all the way to 50 and even a little past. That said I’m also open to meeting people of any shape, size, or gender identity who just want to get to know an aroallo person! Let me know if you’re out there…

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2024/10/17
23:22 UTC

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25F UK looking for guy friends or more

Aroallo looking for close friend(s) / with benefits / partner(s). Into RA, open to exploring.

I love deep chats, hiking in nature, cinema and other art. Love languages are quality time and physical touch. Sex, open to exploring.

Would be open to start chatting and see where it goes :)

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2024/09/22
13:32 UTC

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24M Norway

Hi. I'm a guy from Norway and just wanted to see if there were any other aroallo people I could talk to. Someone in Norway would be cool, but feel free to message me if you want to talk.

I have a fair few friends, but no one who I can talk to about being aromantic. Most of them don't really get the concept of not being romantic without being asexual.

I'm open to most types of friendships.

I like gaming and play a variety of genres. Currently playing stardew Valley and Fallout New Vegas. And I like reading fantasy/sci-fi books. And as an extension, I also like playing D&D (Although I haven't had a group to play with for a while). I also consider writing one of my hobbies, although I'm not very good at it.

2 Comments
2024/05/22
04:36 UTC

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32M South Africa

Lurker account activated! I haven't found any aro community in my country yet. Ofc not avoiding anything more, but I'm at the stage in my life where almost all of my friends are married, some even starting their parenting phase, and exclusively online communities doesn't really scratch the itch for me

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2024/04/02
12:53 UTC

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20 nb Ontario Canada

I've never met another alloaro irl, which seems to be a common trend here. autistic, trans, bisexual, hypersexual. I'm so tired of trying to navigate dating apps. interested in finding someone near my age that I vibe with, especially t4t

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2024/04/02
12:26 UTC

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24 M, California. Looking to make new connection and see where we go

Hi y’all, I am a 24 dude who been exploring my aromantic aspect. Nowsaday seeking mostly friends, especially those who can vibe, bounce between topics and overall, curious of each other. I prefer local but I also love to chat out of state or even internationally.

Hobby includes video games, cooking, workout, Lego, traveling and books of various genre. Hope to meet some cool pep :)).

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2024/03/28
16:45 UTC

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33f in Georgia, US looking for friends mostly

I don't have a whole lot of friends, in person or otherwise and it gets lonely sometimes. I especially don't know any aroallo people in my real life. I'm introverted and fairly awkward. Love reading (though it's not something I do often), food, watching disaster movies, crystals, and just talking in general.

Open to any kind of friendships virtual or in person.

1 Comment
2024/03/26
10:32 UTC

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M19, Denmark

also looking for people, preferably in Denmark. Chat with mee

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2024/03/24
04:03 UTC

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Northern Netherlands looking for people

Heya everyone, I’m a 20NB aroallo femboy in Northern Netherlands (Groningen). Would love to meet other aroallo people, though admittedly I’m looking for a sexual relationship over simple friends. I’m autistic, adhd, ocd, hypersexual, aro, (well, duh) pan and poly. I’m a vers switch, and quite kinky. Out of sfw hobbies I mostly do gaming, Warhammer and DnD

9 Comments
2024/03/24
03:25 UTC

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F19, in Italy and never met another aroallo before. Would like to change that!

Hello darlings, I’ve started to be more open about my identity although I haven’t still come out of the closet to most people in my life. I believe they’d find it ridiculous and struggle to understand it.

I’d like to find out people which I can talk freely to about this topic, and in the process make new friends! I’ve recently started my first fwb situation too and it’s been amazing thus far, but dude’s not aromantic and might stop our arrangement soon to look for something serious. 🥲

Sucks but eh. That’s why I’d love to know some aro folks irl hahah

4 Comments
2024/02/28
01:07 UTC

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Read the rules before posting anything!

I'll adjust the rules every now and then so make sure your posts are up to date with the rules.

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2024/02/22
10:58 UTC

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Ideas and advise

We had the "Help me set up" post but it was kinda depressing seeing how the username was [deleted] so I unpinned it. This will be the new Ideas and advise post.

16 Comments
2024/02/17
23:13 UTC

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46m located in Chicago suburbs like for friends or more

Im cis het. I am a very creative person and have learned to blacksmith, paint, sculpt, draw, knit, sew, crochet, and make jewelry. Omnivore and I love to cook.

I enjoy traveling and have been to a dozen countries.

No Trumpers. I'm fully vaxed and you have to be as well.

I like a good mix of activity and relaxing.

1 Comment
2024/02/16
15:13 UTC

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Change in staff.

Hey I recently applied for moderator of this subreddit because I saw that the original one quit reddit altogether. I hope we can get this sub to become a little more lively.
I'm very inexperienced when it comes to moderating anything but I thought it might be better if we had at least someone who can look after this subreddit.
Speaking of looking after this sub, I'd rather have another one to help me with this sub so if anyone wants to be a mod feel free to apply.

16 Comments
2024/02/13
12:30 UTC

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Dexter, ME looking for friends and/or FWB

31 Bi Aro Male I'm looking for anyone within walking distance to become friends or FWB's with.

0 Comments
2023/08/29
21:04 UTC

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In NoCo, looking for anything.

22yo agender individual, mostly interested in female presenting individuals. Friendships, hookups, fwb all welcome.

3 Comments
2023/07/26
22:39 UTC

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Oregon, US looking for anything

28 mostly straight male looking for anything. Friendships, fwbs, hookups. Like a lot of people here, I went through a long questioning phase; I don't like labels in general, but aro/allo seems to fit. I'm fairly nerdy in terms of interests: I enjoy reading, all types of gaming, anime, and just learning anything about science.

1 Comment
2023/07/26
13:37 UTC

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Texas, looking for friends in US

How’s it going I’m 25 M bisexual recently found out I was alloaro I’m here looking for a community I can relate to and hangout with making friends and connections

Interest Gaming Reading Anime Working out

So yeah let’s get to know each other 😁

2 Comments
2023/07/23
15:07 UTC

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Help me set up

What else should I set up for this page? More rules?

18 Comments
2023/07/20
23:57 UTC

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