Im 16. In march and before that i was actively doing stuff with my boyfriend however we never actually had sex. Hed finger me and stuff and his dick was near my vagina. Every month since then i had my period and in july i did something else with a guy but only fingering but id just sucked his dick and im worried there was any cum on his fingers (in both situations)

its november/ december now and im 21 days late on my period, i had my period in july, august, september and October but am abnormally late this month.

I have nausea, sore boobs, really really emotional and angry, im really bloated and i never bloat, my stomach feels heavy and uncomfortable at all times and its hard to walk, im getting random period cramps and backache. Im quite skinny and my stomach has been abnormally looking and im so scared its a bump.

Is it possible i could be having cryptic pregnancy? Even though i havent had sex? I know both are rare but i don't know what else could be happening and if it is im too late for an abortion. Im too scared to take a test i dont know what to do. Please help me im so fucking terrified. I know i probably sound stupid but i have no one to talk to about this my mother isnt around and i never had sex ed and google really isnt helping . Thankyou in advance

ps. just put this on the r/advice section but im putting on here too.

I am currently on my day 32 i am 3 days delay :< i used to day a regular 28 days cycle idk why this happened cause i had intercourse on my day 21st of the cycle (which was written on the app the chances of getting pregnant are low) but i had this watery discharge 😩🤷🏻‍♀️ which is also very unusual for me cause i don’t usually ovulate that late i was supposed to have it a week before or the 15-17th day of my cycle. Then, the day after that which was my 23rd day of cycle i had cramps until my day 31 (which was yesterday) i also had this light pink spotting which i thought my period is finally coming but it only lasted for few hours. I am honestly scared rn. :<

So I know this is going to sound ridiculous, I’m 16. But my last menstrual cycle was 48 days late and it ended November 1st. While I was ovulating I had unprotected sex, but it was only for like no longer than 6 minutes and my boyfriend did not cum inside me, but pre cum scares me. My boyfriend keeps trying to reassure me that nothing came out, but my period is now 8 days late. Is there any need to worry? And do guys like know for sure if anything comes out? I probably sound ridiculous, but I just want my nerves eased. My anxiety is way too high.

I can't deal with this anymore I think I may get pregnant since i had sex just the day I ovulated. I am such an idiot to have committed the same mistake twice I literally feel like the only way to stop this is to end myself. I can't face the consequences of getting pregnant at all.

Had sex on July 11 with a condom, had 3 negative pregnancy tests, did a beta HCG on October 29 and it was <0.600 did another pregnancy test 2 weeks ago and it was negative, I’ve been reading horror stories about women getting false negatives on blood tests, I’m thinking of getting a vaginal ultrasound, i know i’ve been getting negatives a lot, im just really scared and im pregnant:((( my boobs feel bigger, idk if im bloated or seeing a bump, I have a IUD and had a brown discharge 2 days and back pain, you guys might be reading this and thinking im just paranoid and yes i am lol but im so scared of getting pregnant 😭😭😭

F18 okay so about 2 weeks ago, a day after ovulation, i had unprotected sex but he pulled out. I haven't gotten my period in 5 days and i'm stressing so much because i don't have any pregnancy symptoms nor period symptoms. help me!! btw for the past few months i've been only late for 2-3 days but i get really anxious easily. And also i track my period with Flo and it said that day i still had a chance to get pregnant

I had intercourse with my boyfriend yeaterday ans i am wondering if the chances of getting pregnant is high. He wore the confom properly and its newly bought, i didnt orgasm and so is he, but my fertility was pretty high yesterday according to the flo app. Since its our first time, we couldnt put it in properly so both of us didnt come

These are the main factors, could I be pregnant?

• When he removed his penis from my vagina the condom would keep slipping off
• after sex and when he took off the he condom there was precum inside and it smelled kind of like sperm
• Flo app says high fertility
• When it slips off when he removed his penis he would put it back on properly before putting it inside again.
• the condom was worn properly his erection just wasnt consistent since we had a hard time

Hi! Oky so we are trying to get pregnant. I usually have a textbook period, cycle length 28/29 days, and ovulation on day 15/16. When the app says I should ovulate and bleed thats when it happens.

I track ovulation (2months) with the LH surge sticks and it has been in correlation with when the app says I should ovulate. But in the past month when tracking, I did not ovulate during when my app said is my fertility window - this could have been due to me being busy with final exams, being extremely stressed and high cortisol - fair enough. So on a random day after my fertility window and after exams I tested for LH surge - stick showed I am ovulating and we had intercourse. This was about a week after I should have ovulated. So now my period is 4 days late, is it just late because I ovulated late? I haven’t tested yet cause I know it might be too early, if I only had my LH surge 23 Nov.

I have been having period like pains/ cramps (2/10 severity) the past 3 days thinking my period is going to start but then no blood. There is also some clear to milky discharge.

Other things to note:

• IUD removed beginning of July

30f. I’ve been on nuvaring for about 5 years and birth control in general for fifteen. I always take my ring out thrusday night and my period comes Sunday morning like clockwork. It’s Monday night and I don’t have it. I am sexually active with my husband. Should I be worried?

Currently on day 20 of my cycle. My cycle usually lasts 27-29 days. I’ve been having protected sex regularly throughrought my cycle. Took a plan B on day 11 due to a condom breaking. Had protected sex today, but the condom broke again, we switched brands to prevent it but I’m not sure why it keeps happening. My partner did not finish but he also didn’t notice the condom broke right away. Should I take a plan B? Is it even safe? I just noticed I’m bleeding a little bit, not heavily, not sure it’s my period or if it’s from the sex. I know implantation bleeding isn’t a thing but I’m still scared. My period is supposed to come in 9 days. I don’t track my ovulation so I don’t know if my ovulation is coming, if it’s happened or if it’s happening. Should I take a plan B? Could I get pregnant?

im 15f and me and my bf had unprotected (dont come at me i know) a few times since i got my last period. i am supposed to start on birth control if i get my period this month but i havent gotten it. i was also throwing up and having cramps, bitter tastes in my mouth and sensitivity to strong smells. i'm 6 days late for my period, and i took a test when i was 4 days and it came out negative but i know they can sometimes be false results?

I normally have a regular period but i took plan b in september and it changed the time i got it - could it be switching back?

Or could i have just been really sick to the point of throwing up and that made my period late?

hello everyone, so i'm a 18 year old girl and im active. just now me and my boyfriend had sex and i am on my period, he finished in me. today (december 2nd) is only the first day of my period, my period will end on the 6th and i don't ovulate again until the 13th of december. Google says sperm only lasts 3-5 days in the body. Do you think there is a chance i might be pregnant? please help. thank you☺️.

My bf and i fool around last nov 11. We just did naked grinding like genitals rubbing. i know that he did not penetrate me because im scared since im a virgin. But im scared of the precum im so wet that time and i dont know if his head slipped thru my vaginal opening. There come a time also that he put a condom to ease my mind but when he put it, he cannot put it smoothly so he used the other side. im scared that there is precum on the other side of the condom. We did genital grinding also and he tried to penetrate me, i still dont know if his head penetrated me or just my vaginal opening but im so scared so we just stopped and back to genital rubbing with condom on. he did not ejaculate

i did a pregnancy test last nov 25 and today dec 3. it was all negative. but i always got my period on the 3rd of the month and my last period was nov 3-5

CAN I GET PREGNANT FROM WHAT I HAVE SAID?

im scared because it's already 3rd day of the month i still dont have my period

Hello! I had sex on my ovulation day, today is my ovulation day & I didn’t know until I went into my app to check & it says I was ovulating. My boyfriend says the sperm came out very fast when he pulled out but that’s til k doesn’t mean I won’t end up pregnant! I can’t end up pregnant my mom will lose her mind & I don’t want that right now! I am 21! And I’m so scared for my life right now I don’t know what to do😭😭

my boyfriend and i had sex yesterday and he was wearing a condom and came inside me. he left it in for maybe a minute longer and thrusted a couple times and then took it out. when he got up and was taking the condom off he told me that something had dripped from it onto the floor, but i checked and the condom wasn’t leaking nor did it break. im also two days from my fertile window. i might just be anxious for no reason but is it possible that cum leaked from the base? should i take a plan b?

Context, my girl just finished having mens (not sure how many days have passed). We had dry sex but both of us were just wearing very thin shorts with no underwear. While dry humping, we were both very wet down there yet we had a quickie (still with wet, very thin shorts) on different positions and I also ate her out after humping but I only put her shorts on the side so my mouth and cheek got a little wet from her shorts (which just got in contact with my wet very thin shorts) before and during the time I am eating her out. Is there a chance that my girl might get pregnant? Should she take birth control pills?

We didn’t have any penetrative deed btw.

Thank you in advance!

Today me and my gf just had intercourse.

I left some space for the tip of the condom and put the condom correctly, However the condom I was using was from my wallet (I know it was a bad idea).

After 5 minutes into the intercourse I pulled out and jerked off. When I pulled out, There was white liquid (possibly from my precum) around the tip and when I jerked off, the white liquid was around the condom inside. What worries me is that the base of the condom was wet and bubbly. It was so easy to take off the condom.

After I took off the condom I filled it up with water and there was no holes, HOWEVER, I believe I filled it up too much and it popped (due to the condom being in the wallet).

I was completely honest with my gf and she understood and she took plan B 5 minutes later. Today was the day she was “supposedly” ovulating. Is there any chance she could be pregnant?

I have been very anxious that i am pregnant even tho i haven’t had sex i have had oral sex and grinded with clothes on and basically done everything but have sex but our genitals did not touch at all without clothes but i am worried i could have gotten pregnant from that i am also on birth control but i am not sure if it works and i am terrified because my boobs hurt and i haven’t gotten my period

I know, it’s not a good idea, we started off with a condom until we saw blood on it. For reference I kinda planned this intercourse on a day I felt comfortable and my period is expected in two days. Today, I’ve felt my usual period symptoms which is mainly cramps. I didn’t suspect my period to begin today as I thought it was just a pre cramp before my expected period. But when we had intercourse today we noticed my period has in fact started because of the blood, so, we did raw. It’s not a good faith of heart to do raw and I shouldn’t have done it. So now I’m wondering if I should take plan b just in case although my period has 100% started.

Also, he pulled out, which isn’t 100% effective but I wanna clarify with that

Would you know if the condom broke as a female? I had protected sex and everything went fine. But I can’t stop worrying that the condom either broke or leaked and the male just didn’t tell me. This was a one time encounter and it’s been two weeks so I don’t wanna randomly reach out and ask L O L. Nothing “ came out “ of me during cleanup. Or anything like that.. but would I know lol

So I have forever had irregular periods (been to the doctor and had all the test done). Usually my period comes between 38 to 42 days. Me and my partner have had sex multiple times this month and we always use a condom but not until the very end. Because of my irregular periods I have to try to not freak myself out and give myself placebo symptoms of pregnancy every month because I’ll just break my own heart. I’m debating if I should just go ahead and test now, I’ve had like 2 random days last week where eggs and chicken made me want to vomit and now I feel like I have to pee constantly. Anyone else have irregular periods and go through this?

so i’ve been on birth control for almost 2 years now and my period always starts on the placebo pills. i only get 4 because im on the 28 day cycle pill. i usually start it around the 3/4 placebo pill. right now its the 4th day and i havent bled yet… im a little concerned. i am sexually active and he uses the pull out method. i am also very stressed bc im in nursing school and have been having headaches so idk if its bc of school or if im pregnant. i haven’t had any symptoms except being moody, breast tenderness, and the headaches. i researched this online and people are saying to just continue with my new pack but im worried because this has never happened to me before.

(I am aware this sounds completely ridiculous but I have lots of anxiety)

I'm worried that I might be pregnant because on November 18th, I was with my bf and I grabbed his bare penis for a second (I don't believe it was wet) with my left hand and I later pulled my shorts and underwear down a bit with both of my hands while laying down. While doing this I think I touched my pubes a bit with my left hand. (I know for a fact I didn't put my hand or fingers inside my vagina )I have not had my period this month. Another thing is that I have been extremely stressed out for the last two months. Last month I got my period later than usual and I got it Oct. 31st to November 4th. What are your thoughts? Please let me know

I have never ever been this late, it’s really annoying more than anything. I had protected sex about 5 weeks ago, protected as in condom + withdrawal and we always check it after. I have never had unprotected sex but this is really starting to freak me out considering i’m super regular every 28 days. I am currently 28 days late, and I have no symptoms, at most slight cramps, and I just wanna know if pregnancy is even a possibility, I don’t think i’m pregnant just anxious. I took multiple tests all negative, last one was two weeks ago. I want to schedule an appointment but haven’t yet. I just want to know if anyone has experienced anything similar and what is happening lmao.

So in 2023 I met a guy and he was cool a few months later we start having intercourse and everything was cool. The month after we had sex I noticed I missed my period. I freaked out but then it came back a month later like it skipped a month?? Fast forward to May of this year, we had a long weekend and then after that I never had a period again. It's now December and I turned 18 a few months ago. What do I do? I'm scared if I go to planned parenthood somehow my parents will find out and freak. And if I am somehow pregnant without showing what do I do? Older women please advise??

I've taken 4 urine pregnancy tests and they were all negative but I still can't get myself to relax and truly believe them. I've missed my period, I expected it to come last week, around the end of the month. I suppose it's possible that it's simply late and it will be coming soon, but I'm paranoid. The thing is, I had my period after my boyfriend and I did the deed (without protection, I know it was a stupid decision, it's never happening again.) That was October 22/23, and I got my period a day or two after that. It was both of our first times and he didn't finish. I'm cramping, but only really on the right side and it spreads down to my legs and my butt. A grumbling stomach when I'm not hungry, and my breasts are a bit sore. I wouldn't say I'm very nauseous, if I am feeling that it might have more to do with how stressed and anxious I am about the whole situation. I'm a bit more fatigued than usual. Random chills. Some bloating. Writing it out, I know how stupid it sounds and the likelihood that I actually am pregnant is slim. I'm probably just having a weird cycle. But I guess I just wanted assurance or a second opinion

Hey guys!

I started the Mini pill but haven't been on it long enough for it to protect me. So we used a condom also. He finished in the condom, inside me, but continued to thrust for another 30 seconds or so. Is that any sort of an issue as far as leakage from the base area? It looked like the semen was still all at the top of the condom when he went to go pull out, and he held the base when he did. Im just nervous where he kept going inside me as he finished, that maybe some leaked down the sides and got in me. But help! Am I likely ok? Do i need a plan b just to be safe?

this is a complicated one so bear with me. last month, my period was just under two weeks late. i panicked because i have a new boyfriend and we weren’t having the safest sex at the time. i took two pregnancy tests (both negative) and i got an iud (and they again confirmed i wasn’t pregnant). i’ve been on and off birth control for years, but never had any issues with regularity. i just got off birth control pills again in august and i was traveling and stressed when i was supposed to get my period, so i guess it could a could be a combination of those two things. after getting my iud, my partner and i started having unprotected sex the next day. everything i read online said that i would be protected because i got my IUD in the day after my period ended. my period is late again and im scared to test.

it was embarrassing and scary enough to tell my boyfriend last month that i was late and i can’t imagine doing it to him again this month. what if i am pregnant??? he’s was supportive and awesome last month and im sure he would be again but also i would be upset if i were him.

edit for further context: l have some occasional spotting but i’ve been bleeding for like the whole month since i got my iud. i have been unusually tired and had breast tenderness but those are also pms symptoms so…

My last period ended on November 1st and my BF and I started having unprotected sex in the second calendar week of Nov. So it’s been a little over 4 weeks, I’ve had symptoms for 17 days (started with just some light cramping on Nov 16th, 8 days before my period was expected to come on Nov 24) and my period’s 8 days late now. The cramps got worse but not too painful for a minute there, but they got better two days ago. I felt a painful jab in my stomach before bed last night though. Today’s been dandy. I feel wetter than normal too, and I haven’t discharged much except for when the symptoms came on.

I’m not sure if rib pain could be an early symptom, but my body is incredibly tired from all the cramping and sore muscles I’ve had. It feels like I’ve been beat up and bruised along my arms, stomach and ribs. My boobs are finally starting to ache too, and I’m getting flushed easily. I got a cold sore yesterday, I’m constantly happy to sad, I’m worn out today but over the last week I’d been full of energy. I’m not nauseous like I am normally when I PMS, though I’ve gagged a few times just from being grossed out by something. It’s like my PMS symptoms are really long and drawn out, and rather than coming all at once in the few days before my period, it’s slowly creeping up on me. Hopefully I end up bleeding and I’m gonna get tested, but my boyfriend doesn’t think I’m pregnant. I’m 3 1/2 months off birth control so my cycle could just be regulating itself.

edit: I forgot to mention my back is so sore too, as well as my shoulders. I have scoliosis so I’m used to pinch nerves, arthritic-like bone pains, and sore joints but I feel like I just did some heavy weightlifting.

edit 2: oh, when the cramps started so did hormonal sweating. I’ve smelt like I’m on my period for almost three weeks now (in my armpits idk about down there.)

edit 3: I forgot if I said this but I have a cold sore too right now.

Say I were to help my bf out during a time and he happened to finish on my hand. say I was to not wash my hands and then later (as in the next morning)I help myself but don't use the same hand I helped him with. I have heard once it touches oxygen that it dies so before hand it could've been gone so could I be?