/r/agerecaregiver
This is an SFW sub meant to address caregiver concerns, questions, and advice. Flips, littles, and caregivers are welcome!
/r/agerecaregiver
My girlfriend doesn’t understand my age regression and it’s very frustrating sometimes I recently broke my finger and she’s had to take care of me, which has been amazing and she’s done amazing it’s making me feel very little, but I don’t want to tell her that but maybe if I do, it will help her understand age regression and being a caregiver does anybody have any advice on what I could tell her and how I could tell her
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Small community agere Discord server, ♡Love & Sunshine♡
Welcome for older teens and adults to safely regress without risk of safety. Specifically for littles who regress for therapy or mental health and need a support system.
We have tons of kids tv shows, movies, music, stimming boards, safe chat, and active caregiving!
New features and activities are added based on community activity and requests. The server has tidy organization to prevent littles from getting overwhelmed at the format. Plus, the TV media is embedded into Discord for easy access.
We love you! Can't wait to see you there ♡
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I don't really know how to write this. But I get very scared whenever I age regress, because I don't have anyone that will care for me. I don't know if I can try to find a caregiver here? Let me know if that's allowed or not. I try not to regress, because I hate it and it's scary, but I can't control it sometimes.
My girlfriend (17F) and I (17M) had a talk a month or two ago about Caregiving things, She is a little and I'm her caregiver and the amount of time I was caring for her was starting to negatively affect me. (I made a post here before) I asked if we could set times and set up a babysitter system so that if I wasn't feeling good and stable she'd have a safety net of sorts, but that only lasted for a week or two. Now, we are online only as she is in the states and I am in canada and so her babysitters are online too and she can reach me 24/7 on my phone. When I ask her while she is little to go to one of the babysitters she wont and she'll keep insisting she needs me, and shes ignoring the times we set out. I dont have the mental energy to coax her to bed for a hour and a half every night, but I feel so so guilty because she takes such good care of me. (I have mental health issues due to several abusive relationships I've had in the past and I have 'episodes' because of them where I get panicked and cant tell where I am, and while big my girlfriend deals with them so well.) I feel so awful that she can easily take care of me but I cant offer her the same and I dont know what to do or who else to ask for help but I dont know if I can keep acting as her caregiver without seriously hurting one of us.
hey everyone, just a check in and a reminder to be safe and smart when picking your CG/little
on reddit sadly people lie and manipulate so be careful.
some lie about who they are physically by using fake pic or suspicious accounts (example 3 year old account, but recent to no posts/comments). stay safe and remember you guys are amazing
I'm a little and I have a mama, but we're thinking about involving a daddy as well, because mama is new to this. Though, we're not really sure how we'd make that work/go about doing that. Any advice would be appreciated, thank you😊
Hihi! Im leafy ( 18 and f) and looking for cg frens and little frens ! I like new frens, cuddles, disney, milkies, stuffies, bubble bafs, flowers, sweets, princesses, bunnies, playing, baking, pink stuffs💗💓💞🌸 my fav cartoons are bluey, peppa pig and sofia the first and my fav movies are the princess and the frog and tangled!!!!
Don’t be shy to dms and tell me about chu (:
Im also from MA in the US and looking for any localish frens but you don’t have to be to dm (:
Hi are there any age regressors in NY? I need more agere friends in my area and most are too far away. Plus I can't drive. Pls DM if you are in the NY area and are interested in being my friend.
hi im not new but never posted here..im shy and have anxiety so i never posted anything..but this is important to me..so i need abit of help..
im a cg for a little boy and something just happened abit ago.. i love and care about him alot and been trying to help my little get a new room to have a safe place to be himself.. and ive been so focused on that.. that ive missed the important things that he feels strongly about..and yeah that my fault..but this one thing i need help with his name is quinn and he wants /me want to give him a special nickname but im so bad at names and nicknames that I haven't been able to get that. He asked me a couple times and I said I would do it but I've been looking and I can't find something and it's hard for me to think of something myself and I wanted to see if you guys could help me get a couple for I can be with him and choose one. He loves space he loves dinosaurs. He loves the movie cars. He loves a lot of things that are boy things. and I was seeing if you could help me get nicknames they have to be boy nicknames cause if it's not he gets upset and I was wondering if you guys could help me come up with a lot because he got very upset today that he thinks I don't want him or he's not special because I haven't made up a nickname and I want a nickname for him and I've been thinking for a while very much to get one for him, but I'm not good at making nicknames . I'm not good at anything like that. and he's very upset by it and that's not his fault. It's just I'm not good at it and I want help with it because I want to make him happy and it hurts me knowing that I haven't been able to make him happy with it because I'm not good at it and I was just seeing anyone could help me get nicknames for him if the things he likes helps a little bit or if you guys could just get something by his name. I just need help getting nicknames because I'm not good at it and it upsets me that it's upsetting him that he thinks he's not special enough why he doesn't have one. And I was just seeing if you guys could help if so, thank you so much and I appreciate it but if not, I understand but anything will help if you can.
and if there's any advice for toys for a littles for him that looks big would be a good help to for his new room to if anyone knows stuff for that that advice would be good to
My Daddy is quite literally the most amazing person to ever exist. I feel so grateful to know him every single day. Even when he’s being a butt and wants me to take medicine or like… eat.
If there was anyone in this universe I couldn’t live without it’s him, and everyday i just get so happy he’s alive
He’s asleep rn but maybe he’ll see this when he wakes up idk u/wick3duser
Anyway, that’s just me telling you all how amazing my Daddy is, since it’s been so lovely to love him.
I love you Daddy ! :3
If your a little searching for a caregiver, leave a comment!!!
I’ve had such a hard time finding a mommy, I don’t really know much of how to find one, I know how to find a daddy but I want one.
I am a little I don't regress too much but I'm wondering if in little I can be care giver because mines voluntarily
Hi im Jaydon I'm 16 and I'm really looking for a dada online wil work pls if someone is willing dm me<3
Hello my name is Reni short for Serenity I’m 18 I’m a little my little age ranges between 2-6 I use any pronouns I identify as a girl I love coloring I go non-verbal even when I’m big I’m not to good at communication but I’m willing to put the effort in I just want someone to encourage me to be better and to embrace being a regressor since I struggle staying little I like cartoons and reading and I like to nap and cuddle
Im open to dm’s
Hey people, for a year now i have been in a relationship with my girlfriend and she regressed regularly, but lately she just stopped. She told me that she can't be small and doesn't feel small anymore and i am at a loss. I want to buy her onesies again and other things to help her regress but currently we stay at her parents home for another two months and she just can't be small for freely i suppose. I really want to be the best daddy for her and i really need some advice on how to be better.
hi there, everytime i've tried to access the resources by clicking the linked text titles, in the 2 year old pinned post, all but the very last one - with the additional resources redirect to this subreddit....i can't open any of them and have tried a bunch of times today and yesterday. does anyone have any advice or would anyone be willing to comment with the actual hyperlinks/url so i can copy and paste it into my browser?
thank you!
Hello! to all littles, middles, and beyond
since my last post i had positive feedback from lots of people, since i currently don't have someone to take care of let me focus on the people here a bit. let's share something positive together.
what's one thing you like about yourself or stuffie or life or anything and why
and remember be safe
Hi I am a completely safe for work and NON sexual little. Im in need a caregiver, a daddy to take care of me and willing to put in all the effort required in taking care of a little. My age ranges from several months to 6 years old, just depending on how far I’ve regressed. Please, is there anyone out there for little me?
My boyfriend asked me to be his caregiver around th start of September, and I agreed because I wanted to do it for him. There's times I feel so comfortable with it, but other times I feel a lot less comfortable.
I don't know how to tell him about it without seeming like a total dick, but at the same time don't want him to get a different cg, due to past trust issues.
Anyone play Minecraft? Id like to show off my agere world.
Hello! to all littles, middles, and beyond
I am Alra, I'm 30, and I have been a caregiver for a number of years. I took a break for year from dating to focus on my life, but i do miss it. I really love taking care of people (that's why I became a doctor) and I miss having someone to care for. I love checking in with them through the day, giving tasks and rules, and just showing general appreciate and adoration. I wrote this post in the hopes that I can give support to anyone in need of it. Some fun ideas for things we could do together would be; gaming together on pc, doing voice calls, having streaming nights where we could watch anime/movies/tv shows together (old Disney films are my favorites)
rules that might be set includes; bedtimes schedule, making a healthy schedule, meals and meal check ins, med reminders, outfit checks, positive affirmations. Tasks could be; doing your needed chores, coloring pictures/making art for me, cleaning with proof, hobby related tasks to help with productivity, etc. All of this would be discussed and boundaries would be set.
To start the ball rolling! what's your favorite comfort meal and if you watch something while eating what is it
Can anyone help me out, I’ve been in a relationship with this girl for a while and I’ve been doing my best, but I still have a lot to learn about being a better caregiver. Mainly the parts is I don’t know how to help with tantrums and making the experience over all better. The age range is 2 to 4. Any type of help would be better than none.
Hello everyone, I think I just want to vent for a while, I have met this little, I'll call her Ana to make things easier to understand, Ana and I got along very well, we both shared our experiences and that it was really difficult for us to find fitting people for our needs and likings, specially trying to talk about the community to someone that does not know or do not want to understand and research about, tends to make things more difficult. So, everything was going nicely, we were together for already 4 months, I always made sure to ask her about her feelings and about how she felt, I made sure to remind her and support her when she felt overwhelmed and felt like she didn't want to be here if you know what I mean. Sometimes it was extremely draining but seeing her getting better was really worth, but then, I woke up yesterday and Ana blocked me out of the blue... We got along so nicely, I've been there doing my best even when I was at work to keep her company to be greeted with a block on my face Sometimes it feels like it's just easier to stop being a carer altogether, but it really sucks because taking care of someone makes me happy, if not, the only happiness I've been having lately. Fake carers are true, yes, but we have the other side of the coin with fake littles and it shatters my heart thinking about how I feel used over those past months. I just really wish things could be different. Carers are humans above anything and it feels extremely hard to work and listen to someone's issues, guide them throughout it and then to be dumped right after
Hi, I (17M) am both an age regressor and a caregiver. My girlfriend (17F) is much the same. She regresses almost nightly and I regress twice a month. Ive been her primary caregiver since she figured out she regresses, and Ive had no problem with it till recently. I struggle with my mental health and am currently in the middle of trying to get a ADHD and Bipolar disorder diagnosis, Ive had a rough few weeks lately and its starting to interfere with how I treat her while regressed which I know is not ok. Ive been short with her and continuously shooed her off to bed when she gets little, and I know I cant keep doing this because its not ok for either of us. Ive been breaking down during and after taking care of her and I think she's beginning to question my care for her. I love her so much but Ive started to dread the end of the day because I know it's going to mean me having to take care of her again. I know I sound awful here but I'm just seeking advice in how I can help her to the best of my abilities while also not constantly driving myself into a mental breakdown because of it.
I feel like I am both, but I dont know if you can be both. When Im really stressed or have really high negative emotions I agere. But when Im not, Im good at taking care of littles, and wish to help them. Littles often see me as a caregiver- and I love to help them with anything they need.
Hi! Me and my fiance and both flips but recently they have been regressing more and I have had to put my regression on the back burner. Hes been very stressed and gets so angry with me. He says that they don't feel loved whenever hes small and honestly that hurt my feelings quite a bit because I love them always and so much. But when he is regressed he goes nonverbal (thats completely fine and hes also autistic!!) but then gets mad at me when I don't understand what his grunts are. I need advice on how to be a better cg to them and how to deal with them being so fussy all the time but also do it in a way that doesn't cross any boundaries or make him feel sad or more upset. I understand that it might be a trauma response because he was just in a bad relationship and hasn't had a good childhood. But I don't think he understands that being a cg can be tiring sometimes and that I need to be small too:( I dont know what to do.
Hi! I've decided that I'm ready to babysit some SFW littles but I'm not sure where to look. I'm not wanting a relationship or anything, I just have a caregiving personality and enjoy helping others :)