hi there, everytime i've tried to access the resources by clicking the linked text titles, in the 2 year old pinned post, all but the very last one - with the additional resources redirect to this subreddit....i can't open any of them and have tried a bunch of times today and yesterday. does anyone have any advice or would anyone be willing to comment with the actual hyperlinks/url so i can copy and paste it into my browser?

thank you!

Hello! to all littles, middles, and beyond

since my last post i had positive feedback from lots of people, since i currently don't have someone to take care of let me focus on the people here a bit. let's share something positive together.

what's one thing you like about yourself or stuffie or life or anything and why

and remember be safe

Hi I am a completely safe for work and NON sexual little. Im in need a caregiver, a daddy to take care of me and willing to put in all the effort required in taking care of a little. My age ranges from several months to 6 years old, just depending on how far I’ve regressed. Please, is there anyone out there for little me?

My boyfriend asked me to be his caregiver around th start of September, and I agreed because I wanted to do it for him. There's times I feel so comfortable with it, but other times I feel a lot less comfortable.

I don't know how to tell him about it without seeming like a total dick, but at the same time don't want him to get a different cg, due to past trust issues.

Anyone play Minecraft? Id like to show off my agere world.

Hello! to all littles, middles, and beyond

I am Alra, I'm 30, and I have been a caregiver for a number of years. I took a break for year from dating to focus on my life, but i do miss it. I really love taking care of people (that's why I became a doctor) and I miss having someone to care for. I love checking in with them through the day, giving tasks and rules, and just showing general appreciate and adoration. I wrote this post in the hopes that I can give support to anyone in need of it. Some fun ideas for things we could do together would be; gaming together on pc, doing voice calls, having streaming nights where we could watch anime/movies/tv shows together (old Disney films are my favorites)

rules that might be set includes; bedtimes schedule, making a healthy schedule, meals and meal check ins, med reminders, outfit checks, positive affirmations. Tasks could be; doing your needed chores, coloring pictures/making art for me, cleaning with proof, hobby related tasks to help with productivity, etc. All of this would be discussed and boundaries would be set.

To start the ball rolling! what's your favorite comfort meal and if you watch something while eating what is it

Can anyone help me out, I’ve been in a relationship with this girl for a while and I’ve been doing my best, but I still have a lot to learn about being a better caregiver. Mainly the parts is I don’t know how to help with tantrums and making the experience over all better. The age range is 2 to 4. Any type of help would be better than none.

Hello everyone, I think I just want to vent for a while, I have met this little, I'll call her Ana to make things easier to understand, Ana and I got along very well, we both shared our experiences and that it was really difficult for us to find fitting people for our needs and likings, specially trying to talk about the community to someone that does not know or do not want to understand and research about, tends to make things more difficult. So, everything was going nicely, we were together for already 4 months, I always made sure to ask her about her feelings and about how she felt, I made sure to remind her and support her when she felt overwhelmed and felt like she didn't want to be here if you know what I mean. Sometimes it was extremely draining but seeing her getting better was really worth, but then, I woke up yesterday and Ana blocked me out of the blue... We got along so nicely, I've been there doing my best even when I was at work to keep her company to be greeted with a block on my face Sometimes it feels like it's just easier to stop being a carer altogether, but it really sucks because taking care of someone makes me happy, if not, the only happiness I've been having lately. Fake carers are true, yes, but we have the other side of the coin with fake littles and it shatters my heart thinking about how I feel used over those past months. I just really wish things could be different. Carers are humans above anything and it feels extremely hard to work and listen to someone's issues, guide them throughout it and then to be dumped right after

Hi, I (17FTM) am both an age regressor and a caregiver. My girlfriend (17F) is much the same. She regresses almost nightly and I regress twice a month. Ive been her primary caregiver since she figured out she regresses, and Ive had no problem with it till recently. I struggle with my mental health and am currently in the middle of trying to get a ADHD and Bipolar disorder diagnosis, Ive had a rough few weeks lately and its starting to interfere with how I treat her while regressed which I know is not ok. Ive been short with her and continuously shooed her off to bed when she gets little, and I know I cant keep doing this because its not ok for either of us. Ive been breaking down during and after taking care of her and I think she's beginning to question my care for her. I love her so much but Ive started to dread the end of the day because I know it's going to mean me having to take care of her again. I know I sound awful here but I'm just seeking advice in how I can help her to the best of my abilities while also not constantly driving myself into a mental breakdown because of it.

I feel like I am both, but I dont know if you can be both. When Im really stressed or have really high negative emotions I agere. But when Im not, Im good at taking care of littles, and wish to help them. Littles often see me as a caregiver- and I love to help them with anything they need.

Hi! Me and my fiance and both flips but recently they have been regressing more and I have had to put my regression on the back burner. Hes been very stressed and gets so angry with me. He says that they don't feel loved whenever hes small and honestly that hurt my feelings quite a bit because I love them always and so much. But when he is regressed he goes nonverbal (thats completely fine and hes also autistic!!) but then gets mad at me when I don't understand what his grunts are. I need advice on how to be a better cg to them and how to deal with them being so fussy all the time but also do it in a way that doesn't cross any boundaries or make him feel sad or more upset. I understand that it might be a trauma response because he was just in a bad relationship and hasn't had a good childhood. But I don't think he understands that being a cg can be tiring sometimes and that I need to be small too:( I dont know what to do.

Hi! I've decided that I'm ready to babysit some SFW littles but I'm not sure where to look. I'm not wanting a relationship or anything, I just have a caregiving personality and enjoy helping others :)

Hello I’m super new to being a care giver and was looking for tips on how to be a good cg to my boy all tips are appreciated thank you.

I 20f have a little 20f and she has been wanting a daddy/babysitter. I'm new to the little/caregiver things. I know she's happy I'm her cg but I know she still really wants a daddy that has more experience than me. Can it work out with a little having two cg?

hi, i’m 22, i use whatever pronouns really, technically “born female” lol, im bi, i’m a bit nerdy and like weird music/media?? i have unmediated ADHD, i have loads of trauma, loads of it haha.. i tend to run away from people out of fear, i spent most of my developmental years locked away in a room alone.. so im naturally introverted and sensitive. i try hiding it, anything that makes me seem weak. i’ve done nothing but crazy introspection the past four years probably?? i’ve never had a cg, i mainly just want someone to play with, goof around? i know what i need and want out of a cg or a partner but i can’t seem to find anyone that wants to learn or understand me. i also avoid crying like the plague, i don’t like feeling my emotions and when i do cry all i want is someone to rub my back pet my head, i have crazy ptsd thats driven just abt anyone ive dated AWAY. i seem to have heavy lore lol

Sleep

I feeling so little an scared I cants sleep an it 2am

I’m looking for a caregiver- any tips to find one? :3

So I'm a cg for someone who loves cartoons, we don't stay together yet so it's not something that causes a big thing but moving in together is something that's planned for later down the line and I want to address it sooner rather than later. Recently they sent me an extensive list of their favorites and after looking it over, I've noticed that there are a few of their favorites that I wouldn't be able to watch without falling into a panicky state.

I don't know how to explain it to them without making it seem like I just don't want to watch the show with them because it truthfully sounds stupid "I can't watch this with you because I'll panic" it's a little kid's show, it wouldn't make sense for a kid's show to be a trigger. I dunno, maybe I'm just over thinking this but I really need some help with this. I want to talk with them about it to see if we can come to a compromise of some sort so it's not a "you can watch it in here, I'll be in another room" type thing because that's just now how I do things

I have a sticker chart for my little for when they do tasks like shower, make really good choices etc. I was looking for ideas on what I could add to it so my little can earn lots of stars.

I'm pretty much brand new to CG so any advice would be great.

I used to be a cg about a year ago for a few years. I’ve had 3 littles and I miss it. I had a baby last year and I think I’m ready to have someone else to care for.

My name is rose, I’m a 27 year old stay at home mom who loves art, reading, and gaming.

I’m excited to be looking for a little, I can’t wait to read to them, color with them or game with them!

Where are good places to find a cg?? I know discord but I know lots of servers don't allow the match making kinda thing so I'm nervous to dm anyone :c

I'm a minor in a relationship. My partner is supportive of my being a little but they don't know how to be a caregiver. I want to find a babysitter or a platonic caregiver to help me or hang out with me online when I'm little but I have no idea where to look. Any advice would help a ton. Thanks! 😭 (Ps I don't wanna break rules by doing this so I wanna clarify that this doesn't mean I'm trying to find anyone on here, I just wanna know where I can go to find people like this)

SOo ive had maybe 3-5 caregivers in my time of being a little. none of them ever stuck because i felt like they weren't doing what i needed. but im starting to think that maybe what i need isnt important and what they were doing was sufficient. what's a cg supposed to do? am i asking too much?

There was a faery who was wandering in the fata realm and wandered too far and she got lost, she was afraid and fell asleep. She then woke up in a new land, all the people there seem to be upset, busy, always in a rush and grumpy.

The faery misses her home, but saw lots of little ones who seem lonely, and fearful, and shy.

She then knew that she wanted to help, take care, look after, tell stories and draw for them.

I am shy, and lonely, I like hearing and telling stories, I love arts and crafts and... Came here trying to make this into a better, and safe place.

So im wanting to find a cg where would be a good place to look for one?

haiii !! im an agere who recently told one of my gfs (im poly nd the other one is travelling atm) and i think she supports (i got screen time so i cant check :c) so tmmrw im gonna ask her to be my cg !! any tips for long distzance cg and little? tyyy ^^

Any advice will be greatly appreciated, I want to know anything that will help me get started and be the best cg for my gf. Thank you in advance for reading any giving advice!

Hello! Calling all littles, middles, pets, and those in-between!

I am Oliver, I'm 27, and I have been a caregiver for several years. I genuinely enjoy giving care and crave having someone to care for. I love checking in through the day, giving tasks and rules, and just showing general appreciate and adoration. I post this in the hopes that I can give support to anyone in need of it. Some ideas for things we could do together would be; gaming together, doing voice calls, having streaming nights where we could watch a movie or television show together, and sleepovers. Any genders/identities are welcome!

Possible rules would be; bedtimes, meals and meal check ins, medication reminders, outfit check ins, self affirmations, etc. Tasks could be; coloring pictures/making art for me, cleaning with proof, hobby related tasks to help with productivity, etc. All of this would be discussed and boundaries would be set.

Now for an ice breaker! Tell me your favorite animated movie/show and then your favorite character and why they are your favorites!

How to become a caregiver?