Beauty is subjective so technically how could venus “govern” that? Wouldn’t that ideology be man-made or mythology related?

(From what I’ve witnessed — It’s proven to be false time & time again.)

I’ve been looking into my birth chart, and honestly, it’s a mess of contradictions that I’m still trying to figure out. If you’ve got similar placements or have any tips, I’d love to hear how you make it all work.

My Taurus Sun, Mercury, and Venus are where I feel most comfortable: calm, steady, and grounded. I love stability, beauty, and taking things slow. Being humble. But then there’s my Leo Rising, which throws everything off. While I feel grounded and practical inside, my rising sign makes me come across as bold and confident, and even happy to stand out at times. It’s like my inner and outer worlds are constantly clashing.

Emotionally, my Virgo Moon and Jupiter mean I’m all about analyzing and perfecting everything. Add in Jupiter here, and it’s like my growth depends on figuring out every single detail and being hyper-focused on getting it right. It’s exhausting. And then there’s Mars in Aries, which gives me this impulsive drive to act fast and take risks, completely at odds with my slow-and-steady Taurus energy and my cautious Virgo emotional side.

Finally, my Saturn in Aquarius and Capricorn outer planets add another layer of conflict. Part of me wants to play by the rules and focus on long-term goals (thanks, Capricorn), but there’s also this rebellious streak from Aquarius that just wants to break free of it all.

The biggest struggle is balancing all of this. Taurus and Virgo want calm and control, while Leo and Aries bring this chaotic, fiery energy that feels so out of sync. It’s like I’m trying to be grounded and impulsive at the same time, which obviously doesn’t work.

Does anyone else deal with this kind of internal tug-of-war in their chart? How do you find balance or embrace the contradictions? Would love to hear your thoughts and experiences!

Does it mean it's a karmic relationship?

I feel attacked every time someone asks me my big 3 lol

Sagittarius isn’t just a zodiac sign; it’s a profound archetype of the Seeker—the part of us that craves meaning, truth, and higher purpose. In depth psychology, Sagittarius represents the inner drive to venture beyond the surface, exploring not only the outer world but also the vast, uncharted territories of the psyche.

Ruled by Jupiter, the planet of expansion, Sagittarius embodies the energy of transcendence. It pushes us to question:

- What lies beyond the horizon of our current understanding?

- What truths are we blind to because we fear leaving the familiar?

In Jungian terms, the Sagittarius archetype connects to the individuation process—the journey to integrate the unconscious and conscious self. Its fiery essence symbolizes transformation through exploration, breaking the barriers of limitation, and finding unity in diversity.

Sagittarius asks us to embrace life as a grand adventure, not just of discovery but of self-awareness and wholeness. Its lesson? The answers we seek are often mirrored in the questions we fear to ask.

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I’m a cancer(July 22nd) and I have a crush on this super adorable guy who’s a Scorpio! (October 29th) , like , our relationship at first was kinda eh , but he like.. warmed up to me I’d say? But not really. When I’m in class, he sits infront of me so he basically never looks back to look at me but in the corridors and during pe class HE DOES IT LIKE.ALL.THE.TIME, also, like one day he talks to me like a lot (like he’s literally told me about his sister and about very personal things I doubt he’s said to any other girl) and then the other day he doesn’t talk to me at all like what does that MEANNNNN??!!?!!?!?! And also when we talk to each other he usually like, gives me this like smile, I don’t know how to describe it but, like, he’s never really talked to me with a 😐 expression, and like, before he used to make mean remarks and tease me but recently he’s not been doing that, like he’s constantly pouring hot and cold and hot and cold so if this is like a regular thing, TELL MEEEEE!!! I wanna know if I’m just being delusional or not because I’m overanalysing ABSOLUTELY everything. Thank you!!!!!

I went to bed at 11.30pm. Woke up at 1am and put on some true crime to fall asleep. Couldn't sleep because I was too stressed about my early alarm. Suddenly felt the need to check my medical records from past 4 years just in case i had missed some deadly diagnosis. Went on tiktok to see how corn dogs are made. Realised it's suddenly 4am. Now even more stressed, I put on some more true crime. Couldn't sleep so I checked the time again, almost 5am might aswell get up since my alarm goes off in one hour anyways. Had over 1 hour extra time to get ready for work. Barely made it on time.

I don’t have any gemini and aries?

Hi all! I find astrology/zodiac signs fascinating! I've done birth charts before but I'm unsure on how to read them and what any of them mean? I'm a Leo sun, Pisces moon and Libra rising. Is it possible to be the opposite of you sun sign? Apparently the stereotypical leo is self absorbed, thinks the world revolves around them, not sensitive to others feelings, always has to be centre of attention, basically quite negative stuff. I'm quite the opposite.

I would just like some insight into this. I've only ever really looked into my moon sign ♓ as it explains alot about me haha

I've been seeing buck load of selfies that are borderline spam. I get the need to be validated but this is becoming excessive now.

Have you ever imagined Gemini loving a Gemini?

I’m a Gemini Male, and one year ago I meet a Gemini Female, we got so… in “love” like I never love someone before we were so amazing! So magical 🤣

Probably sounds like a magic and movie story but I loved this girl so much, we were like one for one…

Sadly this story ended up later on… she had some strong fears and… I did everything I could to keep her in peace… but… she said some things she was not supposed to say and… it broke my heart so badly…

I still love her… it’s been so long… but she is still inside me… is like… losing a precious diamond 💎 in the middle of the desert that not matter what you do… you are not gonna find it…

I know she’s not coming back… but… I’m here… I try to have the same connection with another Gemini ♊️ and… why it doesn’t feel the same?… I feel… nothing…

What… kind of person are you? See, when you left here… love had you trying to do the right thing and now… fear is making you give up?

Fear is the same thing to me… and that is a waste of time.

Take a wild guess, don’t take the fun out of it by cheating.

(31F)

Saw some other girl do this and now I’m intrigued hehe