perisex and its definition:

perisex is a term that describes anyone who is not intersex, this is not nessicarily an agab as you can be assigned a gender at birth and still be intersex. this may be due to lack of medical knowledge or, simply put, hate.

i hope that this label is helpful and that it can be used more often in your conversations around gender and sex variations.

I call myself transneutral because I thrive in gender neutrality but I feel like this is where my transition is as being a gender nonconforming person

Born with ovaries (cis woman I guess is the right term in this circumstance? Lol) → hating the term tom boy because it's "too masculine" → gender fluid in high school and college → maybe demigirl tail end of college → feeling most comfortable in gender neutral spectrum for most of my 20s → right now in my early 30s I almost feel like it's a weird combination of androgynous and an almost other -worldly type of femininity (like closest to the asari race where it's implied they look like very attractive feminine versions of the different species that gaze at them despite them canonically being mono gender).

Like Faesari is the reason I joined that term back in the 2010s (inspired by the asari race where Faesari feels most comfortable in the gender neutral spectrum with a strong attachment to femininity). But it feels like almost a parallel other worldly version

🤔 gender is weird man, lmao

google docs has a 1 million character limit, and the descriptions usually take most of that space. i decided to separate my terms in separate docs, but i feel like they'll reach the limit quicker because of the descriptions. especially considering i had 2000+ terms in my old hoard, and i'm still not done porting them all (i'll not add some terms* there back because i just found out they're problematic, i never knew at that time and i apologize for that). but then, i had an idea. what if i created notes and ported the descriptions there as hyperlinks? maybe i could save space for more terms without creating new docs with that! so, does anyone know any notepad-like websites to put these descriptions in? or if so, any sharable text-based website to use? thank you!

also for convencience purposes, i'm not gonna do these notes now, i'm gonna do it when any of my hoards reaches, say, 800k characters for the first time.

* the elephant in the room is transintersex (and me also using intersex-exclusive terms despite being perisex just because of the transintersex label), i didn't even know it was problematic 2 years ago, and i apologize for using it. i prefer and use salmacian now.

It may look like I’m faking thix because of my recent pozt about the ‘Poolroomx’ and ‘Conceptum’, but I don’t think I’m faking my feelingx about myzelf.. only if my brain managed to do that to myzelf :(

I feel like I want to be the ‘Poolroomx’… maybe- idk man- maybe it’x not because I want… idk what I’m feeling, it’x just that (voluntarily or involuntarily) I want (and kinda feel like I need❓) to be the ‘Poolroomx’…

My heart beatx “different” when I think of the ‘Poolroomx’… and I juzt feel different about the ‘Poolroomx’. I think I mentioned that I wanted to be the ‘Poolroomx’ on my other pozt, and now that I realized that I may have aezthetic and zenzual feelingx for the ‘Poolroomx’, my feelingx of wanting to be the ‘Poolroomx’ just grew stronger…

…am I faking thix feeling bc I realized that I’m ‘Conceptum’❓

so, i have been trying to find a xenogender that explains what i feel. and where i got distracted kinda led me to thinking I don't need one? i want one though, ish. i don't really know. but basically sometimes i feel like more connected to like a winter mountian, with i really big forest. with a lot of creatures. mainly red foxes, arctic foxes, and crows since thoose are my theriotypes. and somtimes i feel like a warm lake with a refreshingly cold drizzle of rain. that kinda feeling, where your swimming in the rain yk? so i would love some helping finding anything like that or coming up with a name for it.

"I am looking for pronouns that would apply to someone who doesn't have a 'normal' gender but just uses Eldritch ones, because I want something that has the right ¿word aesthetic?"

Basically she needs eldritch pronouns!!!

(She's new to xenos and is still figuring it out!)

i like color and the spookies

I use a lot of xeno prns for myself ( https://en.pronouns.page/@KAIOHTIC ) but I don't indentify with any xenogenders specifically? But I'm also fine with people not using the pronouns for me, I remember watching a video about xenogenders and the person explained how most of the time the pronouns and gender r for they're own use and not for others to see them as. But I don't use any gender, cus even though I identify with the pronouns it still confuses me a lot, idk I want to see thoughts on this :[[

Thought I'd share this https://pronouns.cc/@Moon_Enboy

I'm looking for medical condition, neurodivergencies, etc suggestions for Zeke, Penelope (something that involves fatigue or tiredness), and Skyler (though you can suggest some for others). I'm also looking for name suggestions for Acid.

I'm also open to suggestions for labels ☺️

Gender board centering Necrozma and their forms! Based on me :p (Honestly Ultra Necrozma is the best descriptor or my identity that I've found so far)

Featuring: pretty pictures, superluminal, weirdcore, pokemon, the osc, space

(I literally couldn't find a better eye picture of what I wanted than the eyegender flag, so sorry I'm on there. It sticks out like a sore thumb /idiom)

Donquisinnercharic: A gender relating to Don Quixote (the sinner one) from Limbus Company !!!

I love her sm chat and she is also so gender so 😋😋

like. singular limbus company fan here. how we feeling about canto vii… /hj

IT'LL BE EASIER FOR ME TO PUT GENDERS THAT SHARE MORE THAN ONE CATEGORY. THE LIMIT HAS NOW HELPED ME LET'S GOOOOOOOOO- /pos

I’m Soap, my friend König/King is learning German and has been using German in every day conversation. Nobody in the group chat we run is fluent in German and so I translate for König in what they were attempting to say. I understand because we have no fluent German speakers in the Group Chat that King is probably making mistakes in grammar that nobody is able to detect, but they’re able to remember the language better if they use it often. So, that’s where we are, I’ve become a semi-translator for my friend.

Hi, so I've been on this sub a bit, but in short I currently identify as nonbinary demigirl (I feel like the demigirl term describes my identity, but the term puts a little too much emphasis on the girl part, but I digress). I use They/Them pronouns mostly, but I still appear and present somewhat feminine (I mean I wear basic andro clothes but with my fem body it's very easy to tell that I'm afab) sometimes I try to wear more masc clothing to appear more andro, and I like it but anyway my presentation always leans so people can tell a I'm afab. Also I am autistic and I feel like the labels Autigender and Neurogender do describe my experience as I feel like my neurodivergence affects my gender identity.

My first question regarding sexuality is if I should even label my gendered attraction at all. I say this bc I am ace-spec and aro-spec and the amount of attraction I've actually had is very little. I know I'm demiromantic, but idk if I'm ace, demisexual or greysexual (I genuinely can't figure out if I've ever felt sexual attraction or if it was just romantic attraction + horny teen).

This being said I literally have a sample size of 2 (maybe three) real people I've been attracted to, so idk. All the people were men (when I first met them) (I mean one turned out to be a trans girl, and good for her! But my actual attraction to her faded out a while ago bc we drifted apart for other reasons, idk if I would still like her or not but maybe).

So yeah, should I label my attraction in regards to gender? Or should I just leave that part open bc I honestly don't know and it takes a lot of work for me to feel it anyway. If I should label it what should I use?

• Gay doesn't sit right w/ me bc I feel like I seem to fem, plus gay guys probably wouldn't be attracted to me.

• Toric describea my experience, but it seems a little too niche to use outside of these queer spaces 🥲.

• Viramoric has the same problem but doubled, plus I don't actually know if its exclusive.

• As for the term Turigirl, I feel like it would fit me, but idk if it actually does because I don't really understand the definition of it bc the wiki is very vague on the term (do y'all know if any Turigirl recources or accounts I can look at to learn more about the term?)

• And lastly I can probably use the straight to describe my attraction, as I have for most of my life (before I figured out I was nb) and I have no problem with the term, it's just any relationship I would like to have wouldn't even really be heteronormative (also idk if it invalidates my nb identity as I fear straight guys would just see me as a girl).

So idk what label I should use or if I should even use one at all.

I know the only one who can choose it me, and. I might already have an answer, I just want to see what you all think. So please, share.

Comfopersoic : A xenogender where one’x gender iz in any way related or affected by their comfort/favorite perzon❗️Though thix waz made with real people in mind (example: one’x bezt friend), thix can also be uzed if one’x comfort/favorite perzon iz a fictional character.

Looking for a term for a gender that depends on the environment or season for a character.

This outfit feels neutral to me and I like it. I wish the hoodie didn’t have the text that I remove though. -König

i saved a gender named "aetherflux" with the definition "A gender identity that encompasses a fluid and ethereal connection to the cosmos and beyond." somewhere, but i don't recall where i got it from and i can't find it or the flag now. helppp??? - ⚠️

I’ve seen people talk about sensual and alterous attraction, can someone help me to understand what they mean?

I'd like a flag for when you're omnisensual/aesthetic/alterous :3

Sorry if that doesn't make sense, if it doesn't, just ask

Hi everyone! I remember discovering a term years ago that I feel describes me perfectly,but I unfortunately cannot remember the name.

Here’s the definition: a gender that feels dark and hidden on the outside,but vibrant and colorful on the inside.

Does anyone know this term,or at least something similar? Thank you in advance

I want to know if it's only me that is obsessed like that with an label.

I'm obsessed with the Neutrois label. I'm neutral-gendered, and I'm always trying to find more neutrois-related labels, I think it just describes me so well, and I find the flag so beautiful 😭 At this point it just become a part of me.

for one, i'm so glad i'm using descriptions for each one of my terms, but even if i copy and paste them 99% of the time from their original coining posts and wikis, and sometimes touch up or make my own descs, it can get really tiring.

maybe it's because i have a lot of them? maybe it's that, my old hoard has over 2000 terms, and porting them over to my new one is gonna take a long time :/

This seems to be the only type of thing I do on here now :[. I just don't know what else to post other than questioning/looking for terms stuff, and I apologize for that. Anyways, what the title says, I'm looking for a gender presentation term that can describe any of the following:

-Gender Presentation fluctuating between Masculine and Masculine Androgynous

-Presenting/wanting to present your masculinity in a beastly or cryptic way

Thank you in advance

I am requesting Opossum and/or Rat-themed neopronouns.