/r/XenogendersAndMore

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An inclusive safe space for queer people of all kinds! named xenogenders and more cuz we don't usually have a specific safe space.

This is a place for people who identify as Xenogender or other gender identities!

/r/XenogendersAndMore

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Pronoun suggestions

Looking for pronouns related to things like stars, boxes, dr*gs, pink, red, traffic lights, and being a feminine enby besides they/them and it/its I also wanted to know if there was a gender related to wanting/having a fluffy stomach? I know thats oddly specific And if there was any pronouns related to that -Verosika💊🍒 & lolbit/polly👾🎸

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2025/01/31
14:55 UTC

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Is there a term for this..

So I identify as a trans man, but sometimes I get like, spikes or surges of femininity. I know it’s not genderfluid because I’m uncomfortable being called a woman or being referred to by she/her even at those times, but I still want to be feminine and such. Is there a term for this or is this just me? 🥲

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2025/01/31
13:58 UTC

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We hve a partner who wants to try out neopronouns, thought this was a good sub to ask it.

The theme is glitch/horror/cute/kidcore.

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2025/01/31
09:49 UTC

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Wanted to do an intro!

So we are The Haven System, and we are with 4 right now

I'm the host writing this, I'm Sunny and my pronouns are they/wolf/rawr/howl. I'm non-binary and neptunic. I'm also wolfgender and fantasy ahuman werewolfkin. I'm a minor.

We also have Canine, their pronouns are they/corpse/claw/growl. Corpse is transmasc and uranic. Claw's Canis Lupus related (xenogender) and we share the same kin. Growl is the protector of the system. They are 17 y/o.

Then we have Vertigo, who uses (they/he/she/bite/stim/bark) pronouns. They are non-binary and a gaybian. They are also scenekidgender and also has the same in as Canine and me. He is the caregiver of the system. She is 19 years old.

Then we have Max, who is pronoun questioning. Max is also gender questioning and questioning sexuality. Max isn't a kin of something. Max is the ANP of the system, not knowing their role yet. Max is 16 years old.

We have Autism, C-PTSD, MDD, OSDD-1b, Synesthesia, Pica and we're questioning psychosis.

This was our intro

Okay bye

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2025/01/31
08:55 UTC

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Is there a video game ice stage music gender?

As in the music for ice stages in video games.

~ Antarctica ❄

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2025/01/31
07:18 UTC

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Heelpp

What do I do after I've successfully stored 500 flags on pronouns.cc ?

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2025/01/31
04:56 UTC

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Heyy did the thing

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2025/01/31
03:36 UTC

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Where Do I Make Gender Hoard?

I want to share mine because I've been finding so many the past few weeks, but I don't know where to put them. I started on a \pronouns.cc page but feel like that's going to get too long? Idk.

4 Comments
2025/01/31
02:55 UTC

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Names related to being just a little creature thing?

Im looking for more names and those kinds of names feel the most euphoric for example my current names are noun, newt and AM

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2025/01/31
02:23 UTC

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is there any possibility that therianthropy could be a mental illness...?

Sorry in advance if this comes off as offensive or disrespectful.

I feel like i'll get attacked if i do this in the therian subreddit so imma do it here instead.

Isn't there a slight chance therianthropy could be a mental illness/disorder? I hate acting like there's not so here's why i think so:

For one, therianthropy isn't a choice. So it most likely has to do with how your brain is wired. If you have no mental illness/disorder, then how could you, on any level, think you're an animal?

Now, there's two ways people are mainly therians:

  1. Therian because of other mental illness/disorder
  2. Therian since birth

Like ADHD can cause anxiety disorders, anxiety disorders can cause eating disorders. But you mean to tell me that ADHD and anxiety disorder can cause therianthropy and it's not also a disorder on some level?

People say that therianthropy is a disorder and our only comeback is "No, the mental disorder is lycanthropy" but lycanthropy and therianthropy are not similar in the slightest. Lycanthropy is a disorder where you think you can turn into an animal. Therianthropy is identifying as an animal, whether it's physically or nonphysically. Those aren't the same. And I'm not sure therianthropy has ever actually been studied by psychologist or what not.

I know my points are jumping around a bit, but does anyone understand what I mean?

Someone's adhd causes them lots of anxiety, that anxiety is an anxiety disorder.
Someone's adhd causes them to think they're an animal on some level, that's not a disorder?

Someone's brain is wired differently, with ADHD, since birth, its a disorder.
Someone's brain is wired differently, therianthropy, since birth, its not a disorder?

I just feel theres a possibility that it could be a mental disorder on some level. And i'm not trying to offend therians being like "you are all mentally ill!!!", but i've never seen anyone with a genuine reasoning on how it's not a mental illness other than saying that lycanthropy is the mental illness and not therianthropy.

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2025/01/31
01:55 UTC

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Name try-out help please :)

Hello all! I'd like to try out another name, still like my current one but I like to keep my options open.

So if anyone could call me Atlas and use He/It pronouns (or possibly sun/suns/sunny/Sunny's/sunself) I would appreciate it! It's nice to get more organic sentences to try out rather than the ones you get from the pronoun dressing room sites.

Some things I like: history, the circus/fairgrounds, horror movies, writing short stories and building models!

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2025/01/31
01:52 UTC

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appreciation post :)

I just wanna say I love this sub so much every time I come on here everyone is so positive and supportive and it's wonderful <3 I love it and I hope it stays that way for a good while! yall are so valid af!! stay hydrated have a snack n yeah :3

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2025/01/31
00:23 UTC

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Sharing my pronouns.cc!

https://pronouns.cc/@deeluvsart

Feel free to share yours as well, I love looking at them! ( • ̀ω•́ )

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2025/01/31
00:23 UTC

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Not sure if an identity like this exist:<

When you feel like you're just a character you've imagined. If there isn't one I would want to coin it: )

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2025/01/30
22:35 UTC

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Finished my gender hoard/collection!!!:D

It took me two days but I'm finally done with the layout and adding all of my current labels!!!:3 pronouns.cc I am looking to add more though so please share your hoards <3

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2025/01/30
21:40 UTC

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Do alterhumans/otherkins feel non-human in a physical way or feel connected to something in a physical level❓

I don’t know if I have mentioned this before in any post I made about myself and the Poolrooms—the posts I made questioning if I was objectum/conceptum (which I have come to realize I’m not) and the ones I made asking if I was otherkin—but sometimes I feel like I am, or should be, the Poolrooms physically, while knowing that I’m not actually the Poolrooms physically because I’m a human physically… (I hope this made sense-)

Though I was searching some stuff about otherkins recently and I saw someone say on Quora that otherkins don’t identify with whatever they feel like physically. I’ve searched about not feeling human physically and Google’s AI response (that appears atop other things like articles, sites, or anything else googles shows) said something about derealization, I asked about feeling like a place physically and it said the same thing.

Am I wrong about being otherkin? Am I something else? Is it normal to feel like I am or should be a place physically???

8 Comments
2025/01/30
21:35 UTC

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Ballpitic

Ballpitic; A xenogender that is deeply connected to, influenced by, or tied to the sensory, chaotic, and playful nature of ball pits

3 Comments
2025/01/30
21:26 UTC

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“Fluxian” - Microlabel that seemingly disappeared off the face of the earth?

Definition from memory: A lesbian that shifts between butch, femme and in-between

Does anyone else remember this one? I have the term in my notes app as far back as late 2023, and I’ve been identifying with it for a while.. Looking it up on Google or Twitter though (where I found it, coined by some account that was making a lot of different flags / labels iirc) gives me nothing so far.

I remember really connecting with it as a lesbian who’s nonbinary genderfluid, I feel like my gender expression and “role” in a relationship are flexible like that (I agree with the fact that butch and femme are more than just the way someone dresses). It sucks that I can’t seem to find it anymore though, I really love the term. Any help?

Extra- I think the flag might have contained either orange or purple, and followed the same white or light color in the middle like the regular lesbian flag. But I could very well be confusing it with the many other lesbian microlabels

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2025/01/30
19:58 UTC

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MY PRONOUNS CC, WHAT DO YOU GUYS THINK?? (I spent way too long on this 😭)

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2025/01/30
18:20 UTC

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Im unsure of how my feelings are called

Is there a term for identifying as fem but wishing you were AMAB? personally, i identify as a nonbinary woman/nonbinary fem, and i'm female at birth, but sometimes i wish i was AMAB so that i could be both genders but end up transitioning into my desired goals (a fem/neu person). Personally, my goals are to be fem-looking but also to be salmacian and to have a more masc voice (or more specifically, to be able to have a high/soft fem voice that i'm able to "drop" to make it sound masc when i desire to), but i think that if i had been born male and transitioned into female i would have been happier. So, is there a term for this?/genq Note: i don't wish to be a transwoman, so please no terms like "cistransfem" ect./nm

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2025/01/30
14:41 UTC

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If you have like a Pinterest board or something of your xenogenders let me see it:D

I’m building one up myself rn. I’m new to using xenogenders so I only got like 3 or 4 on mine we’ll see if it grows tho👀

10 Comments
2025/01/30
12:18 UTC

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