/r/XenogendersAndMore

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An inclusive safe space for queer people of all kinds! named xenogenders and more cuz we don't usually have a specific safe space.

This is a place for people who identify as Xenogender or other gender identities!

/r/XenogendersAndMore

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ftm butch flag!! bigender?? not sure lol help

so i fully feel masculine and don't avertedly like having she/her used, but i also do? especially during intimacy, i feel like i experience both at the same exact time with no fluidity between both male and female, and im very masc, so i call myself butch (as in masculine woman, not lesbian, because im a gay man)

also i am ftm first and foremost, i have fully transitioned (excluding bottom surgery bc im not interested, and i have very sparse scraggly facial hair and a decently lower voice, slightly noticable mock adam's apple)

any help? even if you think an identity you know of may not be a perfect fit, i'd love to hear about it /gen ^_^

https://preview.redd.it/ej5fcm1fvjwc1.jpg?width=350&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5d5aa76d81aeb348da0da168ea196ba1664eedf1

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2024/04/25
03:44 UTC

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Can a cis person be xenogender?

hello, I used to think I was trans, but turned out I wasn't lately after identifying as it for a few months. turned out I was just a gender non-comforming masculine woman that likes using he/him. but during the point where I thought I actually was trans, I joined this group because I liked using xenogenders as well. but the problem is, I still do. I feel deeply connected to them. but I heard that it automatically makes me trans since being xenogender is under the nonbinary umbrella which is also under the trans umbrella. but the thing is, I don't actually feel comfy calling myself trans anymore considering like I said, I found out I wasn't. so my question is, can I use xenogenders still as a gender non-comforting cis woman? is there an exact term for cis woman that feel deeply connected to being xenogender maybe? please let me know!

10 Comments
2024/04/25
00:00 UTC

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My gender hoard and my sexuality‼️‼️

Any questions will be answered ‼️‼️ :D

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2024/04/24
21:04 UTC

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Nixigender, Nixigirl, Nixiboy, and Nixiflux.

Similar to an earlier post I made about Nixigender. (You can look for that if you want, but this is like a mega Nixigenders info-post.)

The Nixi- prefix on these genders comes from the word Nixinym, which is a word for non-words. These terms are for anyone who uses or wants to use non-word pronouns. For example, ey/em, xe/xem, ae/aer, and anything like that. The difference between a Nixigender and a Xenogender, are how Xenogenders are more based in real things, like cats, nature, or anything inbetween. More specific definitions for each are below.

Nixigender is defined by the above.

Nixigirl - Someone who uses or identifies with feminine pronouns or genders, while also using Nixinym pronouns/genders.

Nixiboy - Someone who uses or identifies with masculine pronouns or genders, while also using Nixinym pronouns/genders.

Nixiflux - Similar to genderfluid, except exclusively or partially with Nixinym pronouns/genders.

Thank you for reading my rant about this lol.

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2024/04/24
02:42 UTC

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Nixigender

I feel like there may already be a term similar or the same to this, so if there is please tell me!

This is a gender for non-word xeno/neo users. (For example, ey/em or xe/xem) Nixi- comes from the word nixinym, which is the word to describe non-words. The difference between Nixigender and a xenogender is that xenogenders most commonly stem from real things, like cats, nature, animals, or anything inbetween.

Uh yeah, hope this is useful for someone.

2 Comments
2024/04/24
01:03 UTC

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Explaining some of my identities 👍 (Spoiler for very minor nsfw talk)

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2024/04/23
21:56 UTC

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Can you be genderfluid,agender and xenogender at the same time?

I know Agenderfluid and xenofluid exist but can they exist together? I can go from agender to spacegender to stellarian and other genders. Would i just be genderfluid or is there a term for Agenderfluid and xenofluid together since i feel those two describe me more?

8 Comments
2024/04/23
14:13 UTC

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Is there a kin/genders/anything for this?

I don’t feel 3D, I feel 6D, chaotic and indescribable. Is there anything for this feeling of not feeling 3D?

4 Comments
2024/04/23
13:47 UTC

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2024/04/23
05:38 UTC

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How do you guys deal with transphobia towards xenogender folks?

So I think I’m xenoflux (like gender-fluid but for xenogenders). But I’m afraid of telling people this. In my freshman year of college I identified as xenoflux and I got a fair amount of shit for it, from my “friends” and strangers on the internet. I’m still discovering my true identity/identities and how to take care of myself. So my question is, how do you guys deal with transphobia towards xenogender folks? Thx xoxo

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2024/04/23
00:27 UTC

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I am not xenogender but this community is super cool and accepting of everyone so heres a thing I made of my best friend and I. :)

4 Comments
2024/04/22
23:58 UTC

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Cowplushiecomfic [Requested]

Cowplushiecomfic; A gender where you find comfort in cow stuffed animals. This is an esmogender

Requested by; u/Little_Chaos_Dreamer

Cowplushiecomfic Flag

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2024/04/22
23:10 UTC

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Plushiecomfic [Gender]

Plushiecomfic; A gender where you find comfort in [x]stuffed animals.

There’s a few here; frogplushiecomfic, dogplushiecomfic, teddyplushiecomfic, catplushiecomfic, bunnyplushiecomfic, and duckplushiecomfic.

Plushiecomfic

Teddyplushiecomfic

Duckplushiecomfic

Bunnyplushiecomfic

Catplushiecomfic

Dogplushiecomfic

Frogplushiecomfic

5 Comments
2024/04/22
21:29 UTC

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cod I wanna cry,

I can't decide on the names. Idk who I am anymore

View Poll

0 Comments
2024/04/22
21:14 UTC

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Philosophic

A xenogender related/connected to and/or influenced by philosophical and thought-provoking ideas and sayings.

Ex:

“To live is to suffer, to survive is to find some meaning in the suffering”

“Man is condemned to be free”

“All humans have the capacity to do harm”

“Only the dead have seen the end of war”

Etc

This is also an umbrella term. You can use it independently or have genders specific to certain philosophical sayings or ideas (I’ll be posting a few of those too (later))

3 Comments
2024/04/22
20:14 UTC

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fox picrew trend :3

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2024/04/22
16:54 UTC

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don’t think i’ve posted my hc for him yet (marked nsfw just in case bc his source material is pretty dark)

6 Comments
2024/04/22
13:56 UTC

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Any lace/bow/coquette xenogenders?

I have recently been trying the coquette style now and I feel comfortable being associated with it gender wise also. So if anyone has any, please link them ! Thank youu :3 (preferably masc since I’m like…azurgirl/masc presenting so..)

6 Comments
2024/04/22
02:25 UTC

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Pronouns/Genders for my roblox avatar?

I'm just doing this for fun tbh..

5 Comments
2024/04/22
02:19 UTC

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