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We're a community targeted at female and gender non binary/gender non conforming redditors to discuss fitness. However, all genders are welcome to contribute, all we ask is that you abide by the rules.

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We're a community targeted at female and gender non binary/gender non conforming redditors to discuss fitness. However, all genders are welcome to contribute, all we ask is that you abide by the rules.


At home/limited equipment workout resources


Recurring threads

  • Daily Discussion

  • Daily Simple Questions

  • Accountability Monday

  • Check Me Out Tuesday

  • Talk it Out Tuesday

  • WTF Wednesday

  • Weight Change Wednesday

  • Feats of Thorsday

  • Fail Friday

  • Shopping, Gear, Clothing, Equipment etc Weekend

  • Meal Prep/Food/Snacks/Protein Weekend


Rules Summary

  • Be respectful of all folks on the sub.

  • Tag NSFW (not safe for work) posts/comments.

  • Posts about injuries and eating disorders are not allowed.

  • No self-promotion or kickbacks. Surveys must be approved by mods.

  • Posts must be on the broad topic of fitness and physical health.

  • Posts covered by the FAQ will be removed and redirected to the Daily Simple Questions thread.

  • If the post falls into a Daily/Weekly thread, it will be removed and directed there.

  • Please read the content guidelines.


Have a question or suggestion about possible changes to the subreddit? Message the moderators. The moderators also do private form checks should you feel uncomfortable about posting a public video.


Here are some hints to make your stay enjoyable:

  • Be respectful of others on the subreddit, and please report comments that violate the rules for review.
  • Please keep disparaging remarks about your body (including before photos) or others' bodies to a minimum.
  • Remember weight loss is not always the motivation for fitness, and is not always the right answer.
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Yoga or stretching?

I (52f) have started a disciplined programme to get myself back to strength after years of cancer treatments. I am doing reformer Pilates twice a week, and weight training 2-3 times (plus some cardio as warmup). I really like the idea of using my “off” days to enhance my mobility and flexibility. I currently use Mady Morrison‘s stretching videos 4-5 times a week (They are beautiful and relaxing), and Tom Merrick who explains the stretches really well.

Here is the question: I’ve gone down a rabbit hole of YT yoga and flexibility videos. I am really not interested in the spiritual side of yoga, but I am curious if am missing something? Any thoughts/suggestions.

10 Comments
2025/02/04
17:27 UTC

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What is your workout split if you do Lagree?

Hi there!

I recently started lagree, and I’m trying to determine the best workout split. Prior to Lagree, I would do 4 days of lifting with 1-2x cardio (boxing or spin).

With now doing Lagree, I’m trying to do 1-2x Lagree, 2-3x lifting, 1x cardio. I try to avoid lifting the day before Lagree, as I did that the first week and noticed I’m not able to fully engage in the class from being too sore from lifting the day before.

Right now I’m doing (but would love intel from you guys to see if there’s a better split!)

Monday: Lagree Tuesday: Squat focused/Leg Day Wednesday: Deadlift/Pull Day or Boxing Thursday: Off Friday: Lagree Saturday: Hip Thrust/Glute Focused or Boxing Sunday: Boxing (if I didn’t do it prior that week) or off day

Also if you have done Lagree in the past, I’d love to hear your experience on how it affected your body!

1 Comment
2025/02/04
16:57 UTC

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[WEEKLY THREAD] Talk It Out Tuesday - Advice and commiserating about struggles with self, others, and the world

The place for all of your fitness based interpersonal encounters (is someone being creepy at the gym? Is your family telling you you’re getting too muscular? Do you want to date your personal trainer?), but also the place to talk about motivation, self-esteem and body image, and all the ways fitness affects your life.

Want to ask how mothers juggle family and fitness? How to structure Intermittent Fasting? When to work out when you do night shift? How to deal with being the only person in your friend group who works out? If you're feeling emotional, want to up your mental game, or need ideas for how to juggle everything on your plate, this is the place for you!

39 Comments
2025/02/04
08:00 UTC

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[WEEKLY THREAD] Check Me Out Tuesday - The place to go when you want some attention!

Welcome to Check Me Out Tuesday-flex-. The place for shameless selfies, physique questions, accountability, and small progress posts that aren’t detailed enough for a standalone post.

1 Comment
2025/02/04
08:00 UTC

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Daily Simple Questions Thread

Welcome to our Daily Simple Questions thread - we're excited to have you hang out with us, especially if you're new to the sub. Are you confused about the FAQ or have a basic question about an exercise / alternatives? Do you have a quick question about calculating TDEE, lift numbers, running times, swimming intervals, or the like? Post here and the folks of xxfitness will help you answer your questions, no matter how big or small.

2 Comments
2025/02/04
06:00 UTC

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Daily Discussion Thread

Welcome to our daily discussion thread! Tell stories, share thoughts, ask questions, swap advice, and be excellent to each other! Though we all share fitness as a common hobby or interest, the discussion here can be about any big or little thing you choose. The mods ask that you do mind the Cardinal Rules as they relate to respecting yourself and others, calling out any scantily clad photos as NSFW, and not asking for medical advice.

23 Comments
2025/02/04
06:00 UTC

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Home gym ideas?

My wife and I have a spare room that we are planning on making a home gym in. It's 15mx20m, hardwood floors and tall ceilings with beautiful views of the Cornish countryside. Equipment wise we aren't sure what we want- I mainly do weights, Pilates and running and my wife mainly does yoga, running and cycling. We won't get a treadmill- there is beautiful pathways near our house that are lovely for running, but we are considering a bike, Pilates reformer and weight bench/rack. The focal point of this room is clean modern aesthetics with little luxuries interdespersed. We are getting foam wood effect flooring put in, and the walls are getting painted a nice light sage. What are your favourite things in your home gym?

We want to divide it into three "Zones"

  1. recovery, space to stretch and sit

Down, maybe a drinks fridge so we can chat while the other person works out. Also considering a storage bench here for bands and yoga/pilates equipment.

  1. Gentle exercise, our Pilates and yoga section. Reformer here hopefully.

  2. Hard buckle-down exercise. Weight rack and bench here, bike "the sweat zone" not sure what else to go here but will dedicate the most space to this section.

What are your favourite pieces of gym equipment? All in all our budget is up to £15,000. We want to make it good, we love being active and exercising and we have already completed the rest of our house lol so we can afford to make this the best!

20 Comments
2025/02/03
13:30 UTC

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Daily Simple Questions Thread

Welcome to our Daily Simple Questions thread - we're excited to have you hang out with us, especially if you're new to the sub. Are you confused about the FAQ or have a basic question about an exercise / alternatives? Do you have a quick question about calculating TDEE, lift numbers, running times, swimming intervals, or the like? Post here and the folks of xxfitness will help you answer your questions, no matter how big or small.

25 Comments
2025/02/03
10:00 UTC

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Daily Discussion Thread

Welcome to our daily discussion thread! Tell stories, share thoughts, ask questions, swap advice, and be excellent to each other! Though we all share fitness as a common hobby or interest, the discussion here can be about any big or little thing you choose. The mods ask that you do mind the Cardinal Rules as they relate to respecting yourself and others, calling out any scantily clad photos as NSFW, and not asking for medical advice.

40 Comments
2025/02/03
10:00 UTC

87

Light alcohol and impact on fitness, and other lifestyle things (discussion).

I did a "dry January" for financial reasons and at the same time (ETA: mildly) increased my calorie and protein intake. Hard to tell what is what, but I've made a lot better progress in my lifts over the last month.

I was having 1 tallboy beer per week, which doesn't seem like it would have major effect. Does anyone know if there's any research on light/mild alcohol intake on fitness (particularly muscle or strength gain)?

I'm also curious, outside of the gym, what have been the most useful lifestyle changes for you to support your fitness goals?

63 Comments
2025/02/02
14:34 UTC

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Daily Simple Questions Thread

Welcome to our Daily Simple Questions thread - we're excited to have you hang out with us, especially if you're new to the sub. Are you confused about the FAQ or have a basic question about an exercise / alternatives? Do you have a quick question about calculating TDEE, lift numbers, running times, swimming intervals, or the like? Post here and the folks of xxfitness will help you answer your questions, no matter how big or small.

14 Comments
2025/02/02
14:00 UTC

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Daily Discussion Thread

Welcome to our daily discussion thread! Tell stories, share thoughts, ask questions, swap advice, and be excellent to each other! Though we all share fitness as a common hobby or interest, the discussion here can be about any big or little thing you choose. The mods ask that you do mind the Cardinal Rules as they relate to respecting yourself and others, calling out any scantily clad photos as NSFW, and not asking for medical advice.

58 Comments
2025/02/02
14:00 UTC

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Best GYM/workout tracker app (volume, sets, reps, etc.) 2025

From these threads:

https://www.reddit.com/r/xxfitness/comments/1gix4tw/which_apps_are_good_for_workout_tracking

https://www.reddit.com/r/naturalbodybuilding/comments/sqnu9e/which_app_do_you_guys_use_to_track_your_workout

https://www.reddit.com/r/Fitness/comments/128opuh/favorite_gym_tracker_app

I collect that it's down to FitNotes (https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.github.jamesgay.fitnotes) VS Strong (https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=io.strongapp.strong)

So I gave both a try and I am AMAZED that FitNotes doesn't have something as basic as SETS. Like, rly? Manually having to find, add and select the same exercise 4 times just to have sth as basic as 3-4 sets and say 6-12 reps. At least that part is very well taken care of in Strong. Plus, Strong used to offer integration to Google Fit so maybe they'll extend that to the new Google Health or whatever ... just so one can view fitness data on PC, say fx via https://www.fitnesssyncer.com .

What are your thoughts on which one of the 2 apps to use?

PS - for nutrition tracking I use https://cronometer.com It has both web and smartphone version plus it's free unlike MyFitnessPal. Was also amazed to see how poor the actual (strength) training tracking capability is in MyFitnessPal ... for the money it offers so little of that. At least has a good database of foods, but Cronometer is luckily catching up.

41 Comments
2025/02/02
13:35 UTC

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Calisthenics + Dumbbells/Barbell?

Hi everyone! I’ve been trying to figure out the best workout routine for my goals and I could really use some opinions.

A little info about me, I'm 23F, and I have a bit of experience with basic bodyweight exercises before, although I stopped for about 2 years now. I have some shoulder issues, particularly with my left shoulder, and I’ve been cautious about certain movements. I’m aiming to build strength, improve posture, and achieve a lean physique.

I’ve considered two approaches, and I’m wondering which one might be more effective for someone like me:

  1. Calisthenics with equipment such as bars + dumbbells/barbell for isolated movements (especially to build my shoulders, upper back, and legs).
  2. Going to the gym (though I don’t find it very convenient). I’m not a fan of the commute, crowded places, and the lack of flexibility with gym schedules.

I’m motivated to do calisthenics since it allows me to work out from home without the hassle and that it's easier on the joints, but I wonder if I’ll be able to achieve the results I’m aiming for with dumbbells/barbell and bodyweight exercises. On the other hand, going to the gym with more equipment might allow for better overall muscle development and more equipment/machines.

What do you guys think? Would love to hear your thoughts and experiences!

7 Comments
2025/02/02
08:44 UTC

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Bi-Weekly Self Promotion Thread: Sell Yourself and Post Referral Links Here!

Are you a personal trainer, coach, or have a personal referral code to fitness gear and supplements? This is the place to post your referral codes and links! This is the only place on xxfitness where self-promotion is allowed, so long as it is related to fitness and based in reality. Any posts that are for multilevel marketing schemes (MLMs), promote products or services not based in science/facts (such as “detox cleanses” and “flat tummy teas”), or are not directly fitness related will be removed. You may also share social media and fitness app handles here for friends and follows :)

2 Comments
2025/02/01
23:00 UTC

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My squat form is awful, I'm looking for replacement exercises.

Hey! I've been training for over a year and a half now and have been making great, steady progress. The thing is that I have very stiff ankles so my butt wink is awful and whenever I increase the weights, my lower back hurts. Recently I've started warming up my ankles more which resulted in some odd pain that happens in my left ankle when I put a lot of weight on it, it comes and goes but I feel like I injured myself with the stretching so I'll lay off squats for a while.

I train glutes and hamstrings separate from legs, so they're split in 2 different days, and I am looking for some advice on which exercises could train the same muscles as squats do so I don't completely neglect those muscles until I can come back to squatting once I fix my form through flexibility training.

Thanks! 💛

47 Comments
2025/02/01
18:35 UTC

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Daily Simple Questions Thread

Welcome to our Daily Simple Questions thread - we're excited to have you hang out with us, especially if you're new to the sub. Are you confused about the FAQ or have a basic question about an exercise / alternatives? Do you have a quick question about calculating TDEE, lift numbers, running times, swimming intervals, or the like? Post here and the folks of xxfitness will help you answer your questions, no matter how big or small.

12 Comments
2025/02/01
18:00 UTC

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Daily Discussion Thread

Welcome to our daily discussion thread! Tell stories, share thoughts, ask questions, swap advice, and be excellent to each other! Though we all share fitness as a common hobby or interest, the discussion here can be about any big or little thing you choose. The mods ask that you do mind the Cardinal Rules as they relate to respecting yourself and others, calling out any scantily clad photos as NSFW, and not asking for medical advice.

9 Comments
2025/02/01
18:00 UTC

3

[WEEKLY THREAD] Munchies, Macros and Meal Prep Weekend

Need a recommendation for protein powder? Not sure if your macros look quite right? Have a killer recipe to share or just want to show off your meal preop? This is the thread for you!

21 Comments
2025/02/01
13:00 UTC

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Step platform to build cardio?

I am a pretty sedentary person and I decided that I wanted to increase my stamina and possibly work my way up to losing a few pounds at some point. As well as just generally getting in more steps.

I can't go walking outside for various reasons, and I can't afford a treadmill or walk pad or anything like that. Plus I need something fairly low impact. So what I did was I got myself an aerobic step platform with three different heights. I just started, but for the past couple of days I've been placing it in front of me and literally just stepping on and off the platform continuously while I watch something. Right now I only use the lowest height for about 20 minutes each time.

Is this an effective way to improve my cardio/stamina? I can definitely feel it and my heart rate goes up at least a bit, but I'm worried I'm not doing enough to make any real impact. My plan is to work my way up to alternating between the different heights. So like smallest height for ten minutes, medium for 10, highest for another 10 and then work my way back down. I also have small weights I can use while I'm moving. Is this a good way to go about what I'm trying to do?

Also, is what I'm doing more impactful than walking since I'm taking steps up and down rather than just walking on a flat surface? Or is it about the same/possibly even less impactful?

13 Comments
2025/02/01
11:15 UTC

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[WEEKLY THREAD] Shopping and Style Saturday/Sunday - Gym clothes, gadgets, shoes, makeup, hair, skincare, and sales!

Your place to talk about anything fitness shopping and style. Whether you want to ask where to buy the best gym leggings or most supportive sports bra, which shoes or belt to get for your favorite activities, the latest on headsets and sports watches, how many times you should wash your hair when you're working out lots, how to deal with body odor, any skincare questions, or how to stop your makeup running when you sweat through a spin class. This thread can include photos of you in your favorite fitness outfits, or requests to find the perfect app, playlist, or fitness technology so you can kill your workouts.

We also allow sharing promotion codes and sales for fitness-related stuff, keeping in mind that our rules on self-promotion and affiliate links still apply.

17 Comments
2025/02/01
08:01 UTC

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My legs are alwayssss tired. How to recover better?

Hey ladies,

I’ve been lifting 3x a week for the last 4 months. All good. But whenever I add running or Pilates to the mix, I find that my legs are just tired every single day. For running, it’s calves and for Pilates, it’s quads.

I workout 5-6 days a week. I’m eating about 2000-2100 calories, and I’m ~150lbs. I drink a lot of water and electrolytes and get at least 110g of protein per day and 250g carbs. Stretching & foam rolling are my weak points, I try to do them after every workout but it’s probably more like 50% of the time.

It could be a lot worse but I want to be able to enjoy Pilates and/or running without feeling my legs burn out! Any tips?

58 Comments
2025/02/01
05:20 UTC

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Daily Simple Questions Thread

Welcome to our Daily Simple Questions thread - we're excited to have you hang out with us, especially if you're new to the sub. Are you confused about the FAQ or have a basic question about an exercise / alternatives? Do you have a quick question about calculating TDEE, lift numbers, running times, swimming intervals, or the like? Post here and the folks of xxfitness will help you answer your questions, no matter how big or small.

9 Comments
2025/01/31
22:00 UTC

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Daily Discussion Thread

Welcome to our daily discussion thread! Tell stories, share thoughts, ask questions, swap advice, and be excellent to each other! Though we all share fitness as a common hobby or interest, the discussion here can be about any big or little thing you choose. The mods ask that you do mind the Cardinal Rules as they relate to respecting yourself and others, calling out any scantily clad photos as NSFW, and not asking for medical advice.

33 Comments
2025/01/31
22:00 UTC

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[WEEKLY THREAD] Fail Friday - Because being awesome always comes at a price...

...and that price is usually coordination or social etiquette. Post your fitness and related fails to this thread.

16 Comments
2025/01/31
08:00 UTC

5

Squat form check

Squat form check. Hoping to get some feedback. I got a lot of good info last time I asked for help. I feel like my form has improved a ton but looking for any tips.

https://youtube.com/shorts/fDzy5n7cizY?si=XyANlqqf80vW_4z4

https://youtu.be/a5UK9Z6mPrw?si=VLc4d3r4VQ1J5SLA

9 Comments
2025/01/31
04:47 UTC

372

Did anyone else never know what it felt like to actually love their body before becoming athletic?

I was so detached from my body for so long— without really realizing it. In fact, I was often a bit disturbed while thinking about it: it seemed to be something so animal and fairly gross. I used to have thoughts of escaping my physical form and being nothing but a floating consciousness (…tbf I loved psychedelics when I was younger lol).

Exercise has made me realize my body is instead an integral part of who I am— not the way it looks, but how it feels and operates. I had been under the impression that I was not my body at all, but my soul. I realize now that both are true, in fact they impact each other incredibly. It’s okay to be an animal, this is what life is after all.

Being attuned to my physical health has granted me so much more peace of mind and confidence.

44 Comments
2025/01/31
03:10 UTC

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Daily Simple Questions Thread

Welcome to our Daily Simple Questions thread - we're excited to have you hang out with us, especially if you're new to the sub. Are you confused about the FAQ or have a basic question about an exercise / alternatives? Do you have a quick question about calculating TDEE, lift numbers, running times, swimming intervals, or the like? Post here and the folks of xxfitness will help you answer your questions, no matter how big or small.

29 Comments
2025/01/31
02:00 UTC

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Daily Discussion Thread

Welcome to our daily discussion thread! Tell stories, share thoughts, ask questions, swap advice, and be excellent to each other! Though we all share fitness as a common hobby or interest, the discussion here can be about any big or little thing you choose. The mods ask that you do mind the Cardinal Rules as they relate to respecting yourself and others, calling out any scantily clad photos as NSFW, and not asking for medical advice.

21 Comments
2025/01/31
02:00 UTC

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How do I find people to lift with?

I'm restarting going to the gym after some 1.5years away.

Previously, I lifted with a personal trainer for almost 2 years at a private gym, 3x a week, who did all the programming for me. I've since moved quite far away from my old trainer and also my friends who lift.

I've since moved, and the closest trainer that does train powerlifting and has availability is a cool 30 minutes away. I also feel like I actually wouldn't benefit from a trainer at the moment (aside from my anxiety), so I'm not willing to commit to the drive and cost yet.

I'm a very anxious and paranoid person. Like literally it took me 3 weeks to actually trust the safety arms and squat what I knew was a good restarting weight for me.

I'd love to find someone to gym with to mutually spot/check form with, but I don't know how to go about it.

I'll admit that because of my social anxiety and because I hate waiting, I've been going at 9pm - 10pmish, but I almost never see anyone else using free weights or doing any barbell exercises at my gym. I'm happy to go another time, but I know that if someone approached me during my workout I'd probably not enjoy it very much.

4 Comments
2025/01/30
23:49 UTC

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