For every time I heard a customer say some "so and so" said something about you, I'd be rich enough to retire 😂😭

I work in NC/SC and yall it has been sooo dead in my area of the woods. With it being halloween week I thought it’d bring out some custos but not really. My home club was managed by a racist asshole that ran it into the ground and now there’s a new way better manager but it has to pick back up. So I went up to NC and the clubs in CLT are overcrowded af or for the bbl girlies so difficult to make money there too. ik we’re in a bit of an economic struggle but damn! like i’m struggling to make tipout these days. i’m wondering if it’s time to travel or is it just this time of year? Does anyone have any club recommendations for the thick blk girlies in north/south carolina? not opposed to heading further if needed, my glucose guardian wants to take me on a trip while he golfs anyways.

Im going to cut to the chase. I was maybe 6 hours in and only managed to get ONE dance. Every guy I went up either said they just want to hang out or “wait a bit longer” (but yet they keep wanting to talk to me but I told them I either need to be paid for my time or get a dance and they just end up telling me to come back in a bit). Last hour, there was a decent crowd and I was trying to hustle it out. Finally got my second dance after hours later, and this guy was a fucking weirdo but money is money. I tell this to everyone BEFORE taking them to the private room that I DO NOT do extras and he said that was fine. But of course he wanted to hang out and told me I need to “make him tempted” I said no either dance or im walking away and he finally agreed for dance. As soon as the we got to the back, a song literally just started and he said “lets wait for next song” and I said “this song literally just started..” and he just kept saying next song so I said fuck it and waited but I was literally standing there until the next song started. Then hes begging me to give him head and more and I said no. As soon as the song was over I asked for the money and made my way out. I got another dance after and of course he was fucking short on money and tried to blame the counter person but he was just fucking broke and I had no choice but to accept whatever he had. Last dance was similar to the second dance except he kept asking for extras and I just lost it and said “I told you in the very beginning I don’t do extras and you said it was fine and now you’re begging for extras, Im not changing my mind so just give me what you owe” he gave me the money and I left. WHY DO UGLY ASS DESPERATE BROKE MEN DO THIS?! Like fucking stay home and jerk off to porn!! Anyways shitty Friday night and Im praying I will never have a night like this again

Wow. Here’s a first. Guy comes in about 800 lbs not joking…idk why but it just made this worse…buys an hour with me and literally told me TWO separate stories of him having explosive diarrhea. All because I made a comment how one time I got sick from drinking bourbon so now I can’t drink it anymore. That somehow prompted him to want to tell me about two different times he got sick with bad diarrhea. At least I was getting paid for my time! Fuck

That’s all 😀

I’ve been a dancer for 4 years and I do good in sales, I started this club last year and I got fired for not hitting my quota twice but I offered to pay and they didn’t let me. They hired me back and said I am DAY SHIFT ONLY very strict, I get multiple champagne and vip rooms every shift and yet they wont let me work night. The GM will but the manager who isn’t even a full time manager he complains that I can’t work night and I can only to day so the GM rolls with it. The issue is that there’s 100 other dances maybe more and new ones being hired daily and they get to automatically work night and as far as I know I am the ONLY girl that is being told when I can and can’t work. I’m in California so I’m also an employee but it just doesn’t feel right or like it is even legal? Like there’s no way out of 100+ girls they’re allowed to tell only 1 dancer when she can and can’t come in. Idk pls give me advice Also I want to leave this club but it’s the closest to me rn and I’m planning to leave soon if it doesn’t get better.

I won playing lotto while on my shift today! I always hear ppl getting lots of money from ppl but $5 betting 40 cents got me My bag! You have no idea how lucky I feel. I didn't even use my own $5! I got it from a regular at the bar I was workin work at. He literally said, "pa mi, dar Dinero a ustedes ballerinas esta bien por que cada vez yo doy, MI Dinero regresa Mas a mi." I was like cool! Imma play lotto! And I won the jackpottttt! I had 2 hours left on my shift and was ready to leave. Everyone hugged me in the bar and every dancer huggedme too to congratulate me. Ugh, thank you so much papa Dios. ♥ I left with 380 cash and this jackpot. My God. I'm lucky.

Yall pls tell me someone has done this. If not it’s ok 😔. I used one of those green crown royal bags as a money bag and 2 of the dancers here use that same bag too as a money bag as well. Well when i was getting off my stage i quickly grabbed all of my bills and put them into the first bag i saw which i thought was MY money bag. After stuffing all the ones and a 20 in i noticed MY actual bag sitting next to my phone. 😭😭😭I took abt half of the bills and stuffed it into my bag then grabbed another money bag out of my work bag. I’m so sick i can’t believe i did that. Also, i had to end things with this club regular who wanted to see me outside the club. I quoted him 2k to see me for a drink and he got so pissed😂😂😂lmao he said back “well you’re in the sticks so you’re not going to get that here.” Good. 😭😭😭he was a creeep anyway. And yes I’ve been drinking 🥲

I'm officially starting my first shift tomorrow night!!! The manager said she'd help train me & it's $40 cover for the DJ. I can bring whatever outfits I feel comfy & sexy in.

Does anyone have some words of wisdom or advice that might come in handy to a newbie like myself..? I've done lots of research, especially here on Reddit, but I want to be as prepared as possible & I know this is a great community- thanks so much in advance!

I'm nervous but excited.

So I have chronic pain, and my body decides it wants to give me the middle finger at random. Yesterday I absolutely fucked my lower back at the store by squatting down (with good form, mind you) to grab a deodorant from the bottom shelf. I had walked to the store that day because it's close to my house and the weather was nice but I regretted it after that 😭

Anyway, I was actually excited to work last night before I injured myself because I was looking forward to getting dressed up again. I just spoke with the bartender and DJ and they said they closed at 12:30am because there wasn't ONE SINGLE CUSTOMER THE ENTIRE TIME. I also heard that all of the other girls had called in to take their kids trick or treating, which is totally understandable. My club is a tiny little bikini bar with only one stage and most people come in just to play pool and socialize anyway and we have maybe 7 or 8 girls on a good night.

with fucking flash on… and he didn’t even get kicked out. Just made to delete it, W T F.

when ur regular runs out of money lmao 😝

I danced for a little over a year in college. I was a single mom and full time student trying to make some money. I had a dream career I wanted to pursue and for me, dancing was primarily a job. Some nights were fun, and hanging with the gals in the locker room were some of my most fun nights of college, but (and no disrespect to my career dancers) it was just a job for me.

But fast forward to now. I'm into my 30s and married with two kids. Like a lot of married couples, we sometimes need a bit of spice. We bought a house a couple years ago and with the freedom to finally renovate how we want, we put a pole in the bedroom. So a couple nights a month my husband watches me do a routine I might have done when I was 21-22 years old, well before we met. Every year on both his birthday and Father's Day I give him a pole dance, a lap dance, and then we finish it off in bed together.

I just think it's cute that stripping over a decade ago has improved the quality of my sex life and marriage all these years later even though I've long left the industry. The hustle never really leaves you, I guess.

randomly just had a thought while practicing at home… do any of y’all use or tried numbing cream while doing advanced pole tricks? i can easily do a lot of tricks it’s just the pain of my skin skidding and holding onto the pole that hurts.. like leg hangs and upside down tricks for example. maybe i’m just being a baby about the pain but idk. has it worked for any of y’all?

Baby stripper here- I have quit from 3 clubs because I realized a few nights in there is more than just dancing expected of you. Is this the norm? I thought I could just dance 💃 NO judgment to anyone I just am trying to figure out if there's some code I'm missing

I dance in the Midwest and they’re very strict about not taking photos and videos. I’m planning to move to FL in 6 months but I have to know if my face will be shown or not since I don’t want my job to be public. I’m also contemplating about being a waitress or hostess at a club instead of dancing. Anything else I need to know? Any other advice is greatly appreciated! 💕

I normally just walk into clubs to get hired, but now they want you to apply thru pole position.

I typically wear a red wig to work and I do really well for myself and get a lot of compliments on my hair. But I've noticed that the wig is starting to damage my real hair and I'm sick of having to install it every week. I've decided to get extensions to my natural hair instead. My natural hair is curly and a browny auburn. I'm nervous that changing my hair is going to effect my money and take away from my look. But I also feel like it'll motivate me to work more if it's less work to get ready. Anyone have experience with changing their hair and making less?

This Halloween sucked. Not in term in money (because it was average Thursday type of money), but in terms of clients. First of all, they were cheap as hell. Most of them came for free shots or alcohol promotion. No mor money for anything. No tipping, no dances, no drinking with divers. And when they had any money, it was just enough for one or two dances. So every girl had to work 10 times as hard for the same amount of money as usual. Second, too many women who were acting feral. Getting in, getting nothing, some cosplaying strippers. But one particular group was the worst. One of woman just took the phone out of the pocket and started taking pictures. Didn't react when I was telling her to stop, until I took her phone and started deleting those photos. Then out of nowhere her friends shows telling me to "leave her alone, because she's drunk" 🙃 Last, but not least, naked mole rat incident. I was doing a dance for one older guy. I had no problem dancing close to him or lap dancing as he seemed ot be respectful a d not very touchy. I was doing move which is twerking a little and sitting down on guys legs while doing it. When my ass was at his legs, I felt something soft. Yeah, dude took his d1ck out and acted like nothing happened. I stood up and told him to "get the f*ck out, because the dance is over". Glad he listened to me and did what I told him to, because I'm pretty sure there's no security in that club (and if there is, they do nothing and don't react when they're needed).

Bitches be weird,stop being these bitches friend in the club after they’ve shown you they’re jealous of you and your hustle. Insecure bitches are scary as fuck..and the animosity is mad weird to work around lmao. I hate a bitch who gives you evil eye for being a hard worker,bitch I don’t make money by luck I bust my ass for it. You don’t make money if you don’t try ,but don’t be mad at me cause I do try and I succeed and I look the fuck good doing it. Rant over,sorry yall I’m tired of weirdos💀

“Toughest” as in you did NOT make money there but everyone else claim(s) to.

You got disappointed by travel dancing. You found out that there were some things you DIDN’T know when it comes to hustling in a state that no one has ever talked about until you saw for your own eyes/experiences.

High competition, a place that intimidated you. It could be any of those reasons

… Just looked back on a post talking about moving to a city/state just because you think that you’ll bank there without ever dancing there before

If it’s Vegas, ATL, Houston, NYC and/or Miami SAY THAT TOO

I fit the girl next door look but I’m a little thick for my height (not overweight though), want to get into dancing. Just worried I’m wasting money getting my dancing license.

earlier this year my club got raided and we got in trouble and had to implement a strict dress code (no nudity at all and butts fully covered) and then we got raided again last night and now my managers are telling me that outfits I had that were previously in code are no longer in code and I know most of it is because I have a big butt and its hard to cover.

I’m just so over it, I hate cops fully and completely. They’re just insurance agents with badges who come in and fuck with me and my coworkers lives because of some antiquated law about not showing buttcrack near a bar that serves liquor. Its so unbelievably fucking stupid. The one time I asked a cop to do their job when I was sexually assaulted they didn’t do a single thing and furthermore blamed it on me. Cops do not make me feel safe and they never have and never will. I am a fully grown woman who’s not on hard drugs, no one is making me do this, I pay taxes and above all else I actually like my fucking job and yet my state’s liquor board will randomly send in police officers to make everyone feel like theyre doing something wrong even though there are people being shot, robbed, assaulted and trafficked in my city but a grown woman’s ass crack apparently requires police intervention.

I’m dancing in another city/state for a bit because I’m just upset. I’m not even a stripper anymore just a glorified bikini dancer. This shit is so ass and if you live in a city/state without regulations consider yourself very lucky.

I’m only working Saturday this weekend and wanted to dress up for Halloween but I’m worried that none of the other girls will be dressing up and I’ll be the odd one out. In general I’m just nervous to dress up, never have before, and I’m totally overthinking it. I’m just looking for some encouragement!!!

(P.s. it’s Jessica rabbit)

When you’re out in daily life & ppl / men ask you what you do for work, do you tell them you’re a dancer, do you lie, or do tell em your other job…?

I hear about some girls who will go out & get guys to come in & see em.

I lie for the most part tbh, cuz who knows who they are & if they’ll be respectful & won’t fetishize it immediately by asking a thousand questions etc.. tho sometimes I’m just like, ya this what I do, it’s not a big deal, & like the idea of just being chill about it. 🤷🏻‍♀️🩵

Whatchu like to do??

Wear blue for the Dodgers who just won the World Series. Read up on Sohei Ohtani and make a bag tonight!!!

one of my colleague is almost always drunk or high. once she started puking all over the stage and it got all over her money😭. couldnt imagine going through that. pls stop getting drunk or high as a stripper in the club. nobody wants to see y all tripping and puking and anything else🥲 to get a bag u must be awake.

Seems like I always find myself struggling to want to go live . Why would I want to if they can’t even TIP me 🤦🏼‍♀️😭 like I’m active / post daily / and post my NSFW stripper (NOOD) content. All UNCENSORED on my (OF) . I’m just not understanding why going “live” for free would help my pockets ???

I must not have the right traffic like I need the people who wanna FaceTime during the day and come to the club at night 🤦🏼‍♀️💸💸 I WANT to go live but idk 🤷‍♀️

How do I get more traffic to my fantasy account? Help!! I’ve had it over two years. I’ve been patient. I sometimes do well most months it’s just a little extra spending money.

on a scale of 1 to 10(10 being the hardest) how would y all rate the pole trick where u get as high the pole is and spin around like a corkscrew only holding by your legs and then dropping fast without hitting urself. im sorry if my question is stupid. i find doing this trick hard asf thoo😭😭

I’ve been seeing that election season sucks. Ladies, remember that IT ONLY TAKES ONE! If you are reading this I wish you blessings and abundance for the upcoming weekend and week.