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/r/ShibariPersonals
Hi hi<3 Looking for someone in the middle tennessee area. All ages and genders welcome! Im experienced with self-bondage and have been doing it for many years, but am new to being tied by other people. I have pictures on my profile if you’d like to see what I look like. Send me a message if interested, I promise to respond!
Hello there fellow rope enthusiasts! My name is Doja, a gentle domme with sadistic streak that reside in LA area.
I have been practicing my Shibari everyday for over 6 months now, and I am at a point in my discipline where I need to tie another person so I am casting my energy out there as I hope to find a ropebunny in LA/socal area!
I am looking for someone who is communicative, can commit for reoccurring sessions, and is interested being an experienced rope bottom. I tend to focus more on Artistic side of rope bondage however we can negotiate what we want from our experiences later on. I welcome folks that are in QTBIPOC community, people who are thickkkk, and those that suffer from chronic pain as well.
Besides Shibari, I am into Petplay (Hucow Specifically but I am open to others), humiliation, degradation, and public play.
Outside of kink, I am a huge nerd and a performance art extraordinaire. I love Backpacking, Astrophotography, and dancing. I find self improvement attractive, and I value people who work on themselves especially with their mental health.
If you'd like to be tied up with a patient, thoughtful, and communicative mommy, please slide into my chat with some pictures and details about your self.
I am a bit of a photography and 3D scanning connoisseur, and I do have experience making 3D scans of people, but as you probably can imagine it's really hard - people move, and you need them to be as still as possible for a good 3D scan. That is, when you don't have cool hundred grand for a mutil-camera rigs that Hollywood studios and some crazy enthusiasts use.
So, I searched deep within my soul and realized that I am also involved in another interesting hobby, one that renders beautiful people still for approximately the time that it takes for a good 3D scan. And so the idea for this project was born.
This is how I envision it, and I am open to any and all possible suggestions on bettering it:
You are a young woman who's enjoying being able to vote in US almost as much as you enjoy having your pictures taken. But since they are 2D, you've been curious about how you look if you add one dimension to those. At the same time you are curious about shibari and rope bondage or indeed you are a pro rope bunny - all levels of familiarity with the craft are welcome. You also happen to live within couple hours drive from Philadelphia or in town on some business or pleasure.
What we do:
You: show up (whew! that was hard!)
Me: Organize everything in a hotel that's convenient for you to get to, have lights, some props, scanning app, have my rope kit with me obviously
Together: We chat a bit to relax (if we don't already know each other because if we do you already know that I'm super chill and easy going). If you never experienced rope, I will tie a few non-restrictive ties on you just to play with rope and get a feel for it. If you are a pro, we can skip that step. Or not. It's cute regardless :)
Then I tie something simple but restrictive, say a simple box tie, then tie some agura to immobilize your legs, sit you on the floor and wave my phone with a scanning app around you for 10-15-ish minutes. Then we take a break, do a different tie and a different pose, another 15 mins for scanning and then move on to the next. I am hoping that in about 5-6 hours we can go from TK to ebi, or however restrictive your physique will allow, while still having time for breaks, chatting, checking phones, drinking water etc, the normal things people do on a shibari rope play session.
We don't have to do it only once, but whether or not there will be 3D scanning next time will depend on the outcome of the first scanning session. If that does not work out great but you still like playing rope with me - I would be ecstatic to organize more sessions with you, just not so camera-oriented.
Wall of text later, I am finally getting to one tiny little important detail: since this is technically photography, just with an extra dimension, you may be wondering how I am planning to use your likeness, and I will admit to you freely that I have no freaken clue. I am just interested in the process, and I am interested in the object - you. But beyond that I can either do nothing with it or let you distribute your own 3D likeness on OF, IG or wherever your hears desires. Spam your boyfriend's messenger, haha, I don't care all that much beyond figuring out how to produce a good 3D scan of a beautiful woman in ropes. I will probably ask you to help me find a few of your good still image renders and perhaps a short walkaround video to post in r/shibari or similar for bragging, with all required attribution of course. But even that is very optional. This is not a commercial offer, I will not be compensating you for your time, except perhaps with some corny jokes :)
Interested? Perplexed but intrigued? Chat or message me here! This is a bit different from my regular shibari sessions (did I mention you are also invited to those?!), so may take a bit of time to put it together, but it won't happen for sure unless you get in touch with me, so get in touch today! See ya🤗
Respectful, professional guy looking for a fun and patient rope bunny to help me learn the ropes (pun intended). Let’s talk and see if our interests align.
Been interested in rigging for a while looking for bunnies willing to be patient and learn together.
This sub looks quite dead which makes it decent for a long standing post.
Title is pretty accurate, I have been doing self-ties for a while now, though it would be nice to move into the realm of not only self-ties. Partially looking for someone to attend local rope/shibari events with.
Ideally looking for someone at least somewhat similar in age (bit of a hard ask) but open to seeing where things go with anyone.
First meetups would be at coffee shops / local munches and at rope events before we progress any further.
Also, as of this post, the M in M4A is the most accurate representation of my gender, however, there is a hint of questioning in there and may flex in the future :)
Hi there, I am an experienced Pro Domme in the art of Shibari and Fire play currently offering paid Domme sessions in the South FL area! Willing to travel or host. Also super down to meet up with any riggers who want to practice in community! 🖤☺️
I age verify and subscribe to the BDSM safety principles. All subs must fill out an intake form as well as learn about RACK, PRICK, SSC, CCC, etc. Hard limits and safe words are required to be discussed and aftercare is a must. I offer both platonic and BDSM sessions and approach rope from a trauma-informed, black feminist, pro LGBTQ+, pro SWer, anti-patriarchal framework. I have extensive experience working with the BDSM queer community but also am experienced with cis straight vanilla subs. Willing to incorporate your kinks into a rope scene.
Please DM me for more info. 💋
Hi. I live in Czech, Brno. I am looking for a rope partner. Preferably female, but doesn't matter. I want to learn shibari more on workshops and I would like to do rope sessions with someone and explore shibari more.
I want to learn shibari. I am not experienced and you also don't need to be of course.
I am more quiet and don't need to talk all the time. I can be very submissive and fully concentrate to what I do an to person I am with.
I like video games a lot, also movies, books. I also like art and photography. I like nature, hiking, traveling.
DM me and we can discuss it.
Patient and curious rigger looking for bunny to try new knots and designs. Whatever you experience, reach out if you are interested in the practice of shibari. I don't bite!
Been practicing for almost a year now with self-ties and the Karada is my absolute favourite when I'm experiencing some sub-drop. It makes me feel so comfy♥️
Curious about Shibari and bondage? Let's explore together!
I'm a 36-year-old guy, 5'10", with a relaxed dad-bod, clean and chill. I have a few years of experience with rope and would like to get more comfortable and fluent in the art of Shibari and expressing myself through intricate and complex ties.
I'm looking for someone to join me in testing out some new bondage gear and rope techniques. This experience is all about the thrill of restraint and the art of ties and knots—no pressure for anything sexual unless that's what you're into.
What to expect:
Got a particular scenario, image, or video you'd like to recreate? I'm more than willing to attempt to make your vision come to life.
So the last post I did had (in my opinion) huge success and I now have a weekly rope partner! I'm posting again to look for someone a little more infrequently depending on schedule.
I'm so grateful to my current rope partner, and I would like more practice so my overall skill keeps going up and up. I'm based in Castleford, but I can travel on public transport and I can host the sessions in my living room as that's the current set up I have which seems to work. I do both SFW and NSFW rope so whatever you are comfortable with is what we will do.
I want to learn a variety of different floor style ties, including chest harnesses, legs and general decorative ties and I'm fully open to discussing and tying what feels comfortable to both. If you have any questions let me know and I will try my best to be as clear and concise as I can. I've attached a little collage of some of the ties.
Thanks for reading this, hope you get in touch!
Hi, I'm just looking to practice my tying to make it a bit more fluid so I'm looking for a willing rope bunny. Based on the south island of New Zealand.
DM if you're interested and want some more details.
I would like to add that I am also looking for mentors, communties, instructors and experienced riggers and rope bunnies both male and female in the area or even midwest to learn from and share thoughts and ideas. I will travel if needed. I have been tying off and on for 4 years amd though i am professional i wouldnt say im a pro yet. I am going to be doing this more often in order to reach some goals I have going forward. (I am not interested in intercourse at all as it pertains to shibari endeavors. Please kindly respect my position on that.) K, love you!
Hello, Shibarians!
I am a bit of a photography and 3D scanning connoisseur, and I do have experience making 3D scans of people, but as you probably can imagine it's really hard - people move, and you need them to be as still as possible for a good 3D scan. That is, when you don't have cool hundred grand for a mutil-camera rigs that Hollywood studios and some crazy enthusiasts use.
So, I searched deep within my soul and realized that I am also involved in another interesting hobby, once that renders beautiful people still for approximately the time that it takes for a good 3D scan. And so hatched the idea for this project.
This is how I envision it, and I am open to any and all possible suggestions on bettering it:
You are a young woman who's enjoying being able to vote in US almost as much as you enjoy having your pictures taken. But since they are 2D, you've been curious about how you look if you add one dimension to those. At the same time you are curious about shibari and rope bondage or indeed you are a pro rope bunny - all levels of familiarity with the craft are welcome. You also happen to live within couple hours drive from Philadelphia or in town on some business or pleasure.
What we do:
You: show up (whew! that was hard!)
Me: Organize everything in a hotel that's convenient for you to get to, get lights, some props, scanning app, have my rope kit with me obviously
Together: We chat a bit to relax (if we don't already know each other because if we do you already know that I'm super chill and easy going). If you never experienced rope, I will tie a few non-restrictive ties on you just to play with rope and get a feel for it. If you are a pro, we can skip that step. Or not. It's cute regardless :)
Then I tie something simple but restrictive, say a simple box tie, then tie some agura to immobilize your legs, sit you on the floor and wave my phone with a scanning app around you for 10-15-ish minutes. Then we take a break, do a different tie and a different pose, another 15 mins for scanning and then move on to the next. I am hoping that in about 5-6 hours we can go from TK to ebi, or however restrictive your physique will allow, while still having time for breaks, chatting, checking phones, drinking water etc, the normal things people do on a shibari rope play session.
We don't have to do it only once, but whether or not there will be 3D scanning next time will depend on the outcome of the first scanning session. If that does not work out great but you still like playing rope with me - I would be ecstatic to organize more sessions with you, just not so camera-oriented.
Wall of text later, I am finally getting to one tiny little important detail: since this is technically photography, just with an extra dimension, you may be wondering how I am planning to use your likeness, and I will admit to you freely that I have no freaken clue. I am just interested in the process, and I am interested in the object - you. But beyond that I can either do nothing with it or let you distribute your own 3D likeness on OF, IG or wherever your hears desires. Spam your boyfriend's Telegram, haha, I don't care all that much beyond figuring out how to produce a good 3D scan of a beautiful woman in ropes. I will probably ask you to help me find a few of your good still image renders and perhaps a short walkaround video to post in /r/shibari or similar for bragging, with all required attribution of course. But even that is very optional. This is not a commercial offer, I will not be compensating you for your time, except perhaps with some corny jokes :)
Interested? Perplexed but intrigued? Chat or message me here! This is a bit different from my regular shibari sessions (did I mention you are also invited to those?!), so may take a bit of time to put it together, but it won't happen for sure unless you get in touch with me, so get in touch today! See ya🤗
As the title says, I'm an experienced femboy bunny looking for a rigger in the Tacoma or greater Seattle areas. I'm looking to experience cool ties, and have a fun bondage session, not looking for a hookup. I love latex, I love bondage, and I love dressing up in femme. I want to create an artistic scene with someone who shares my interests, appreciates the beauty of rope and bondage work, and wants to make me helpless in a safe environment. Please be a good communicator even if you arent an experienced rigger. Communication, consent, and safety are key to me. Feel free to shoot me a msg, plz no dick pics. :)
Posting here, even though it doesn't look like many females are in this group- Older gentleman, rope rigger Dom in the greater Atlanta area looking for a lovely, younger (20s-30s) sub lass craving to get tied up. If you're inexperienced, you've found the right Dom. I love rope bondage, damsel in distress roleplay, consensual kidnap/abduction scenarios. Proper damsel outfits (heels, stockings, lingerie, alluring dresses, skirts, etc.) are highly encouraged. Not out for just sex with this; I have done rope play where my damsel's clothes stay on.Not physically abusive nor sadistic since I'm a more mild-moderate type Dom and am not out to hurt someone with this; that said, I do like to spank, hairpull, manhandle, edge you, carry you off to my hideout, etc. LoL Limits and expectations all discussed and agreed upon beforehand.
Me: 5ft 10in, fit shape, still attractive, SWM, I like to exercise, a lot of outdoor sports and activities; physical fitness is a big part of my life as I hope it is yours. If it's not, things may not work out.
You: shorter, same height or slightly taller doesn't intimidate me, prefer SWFs, Latinas, Asian, half-Asian (No Trans). If you respond, please provide your age, ethnicity, body type, general appearance (or attach a picture) and your level of experience with kink play. Also feel free to share your favorite fantasy in that regard and what you're looking to experience with an older Dom.P.S.- IRL only. The only meaningful thing in life is real, actual connection with others in real-time, no matter how imperfect, awkward or flawed it might be, not behind a computer screen, tablet or app phone. You still have to be willing to take a risk with someone and run its course, otherwise- you're not really living.
Are you ready for an adventure? Let's explore your fantasies together, but with a focus on safety and comfort. We can engage in friendly banter while I tie you up, and play with other things you like done to you - just let me know what turns you on! I will set everything up at a convenient hotel, where we can have our own private space to explore your deepest desires.
Come alone or bring a partner/chaperone. No pressure to engage in anything more than what you're comfortable with - clothes can stay on. We will talk about everything in the chat here beforehand and meet for coffee if that helps you feel safe.
I am experienced, sane and level-headed. You will be safe in my hands. And unless you like it this way, we won't do anything strenous - after all, this is an adventure and not a punishment!
Everyone is different, so let me know what your interests are, and we can work together to make it a night to remember. Just click the Chat button to tell me more about yourself and what turns you on!
Take a moment and think about those kinks you want to explore, the deep, dark fantasies you have had for so long.
The decadent ideas that flash through your brain when you want to make yourself cum.
I know where those fantasies dwell, deep inside your chest and more importantly, deep inside your mind.
I know how your heart flutters and your throat swells; how your pussy gets wet and your clit tingles when you think about exploring your kinks in real life.
You know the fantasies I'm talking about. The ones you are too afraid to reveal to your girlfriends for fear of what they would think of you.
Now hold that thought...hit "reply" and keep reading below.
The Pleasure Table Experience:
After getting to know each other online, we meet in real life. All the things we have talked about start to become reality.
You find yourself tied down tight on a padded table. Restraints are applied to your wrists and ankles; a spreader bar keeps your ankles wide for me to work my magic.
A blindfold submerges your eyes in darkness. The plug I eased into your ass during your massage is firmly in place.
Your legs are spread wide; the Hitachi magic wand is clipped into a special bracket and applied to your throbbing clit. Set on a low rumble, the edging has begun.
Each nipple is suckled and hardens in my mouth, lube is applied and then you hear the milking machine start to pulsate and hum. Your nipples are pulled into the milking tube where they are rhythmically sucked and released, for as long as I want them to be. There is no escape.
You feel the lubricated tip of the fucking machine dildo pressed against your entrance. We communicate as I adjust the angle and depth to make it just right for you. Everything is ready now, it’s time for your adventure to begin in earnest.
The machine begins thrusting slowwwwly with a long stroke; all the way in and all the way out. Everything feels sooo good but it’s not enough to elevate you to orgasm, yet.
This slow speed is intentional as I want the overstimulation and edging to build up an intense pressure in your mind and your body. This is pleasurable torture of the best kind, and you haven’t even started begging to cum yet…but you will.
As the edging continues, I make my way around to the head of the table, remote control for the machine in hand. You open your mouth because you know that my cock is a reward for you. Taking me in, I stroke your hair and praise you as a Good Girl. I can feel your moans and whimpers as you suck, and I increase the speed of the machine as a further reward. The pitch and intensity of your whimpers increase as your chest heaves, breathing harder and faster.
Your lips release me with a “pop” as I pull away; it’s time to increase the speed of the magic wand and the machine again. You react immediately as the intensity of the sensations takes hold; I add some more lube to the dildo as it thrusts in and out faster and faster now. I press the magic wand firmly against your clit as your legs begin to quiver and your whimpers turn to deeper, intense moans.
“What’s that? I can’t hear you. Use your words,” I say.
“Sirrrrr, pleeeeease, may I Cummmm,” your begging is almost a wail.
“No. Not yet, you have to earn it,” I say as I turn the machines up another notch.
Your cries and moans continue, increasing in intensity like music to my ears.
Five minutes of this feels like five hours.
Your legs shake harder now, straining at the ropes holding your limbs and torso to the table. Try and thrash all you want; there is no escape for you. This Eagle Scout knows his ropes and knots.
The overstimulation and intensity of the pleasure is melting your brain. You have never felt anything like this before. Clit vibrating, nipples being milked, pussy fucked, ass plugged and your mouth filled, all at the same time. You can’t resist this for much longer.
“Oh pleeeeeease Sir! Let me cummmmmmmm! Gahhhhhhhhh!” you wail.
I position myself near your pussy; I know what’s about to happen and I want to be there to taste it.
The wand goes into high gear now and it’s time to start taking what I want.
“Give it to me! Cum hard for me! I want all that cum,” I growl.
Your cries reach a new level of intensity as your orgasm flows forth like water released from a broken dam. The machine keeps fucking while I hold the magic wand firmly against your clit and you convulse with powerful waves of a full body orgasm. Your pussy squirts and drools for me, juices coat the table and droplets splash my face as I smile widely, proud of the hot, wet, beautiful mess I have made you become.
“Such a good girl! That’s it! So Good! Give me all that cum! This is going to take hours, and I’m going to drain it all!”
The powerful orgasms continue, one leading into another. You have never felt anything like this before in your life. The machines don’t get tired, they just keep taking what I want from you.
“Such a good girl! Gotta give me five more and then you can rest!” I command.
Five more orgasms are taken from you, as you feel the warm puddle under your bottom grow. The thrusting and vibrations slow down to the initial teasing pace, as the next phase of edging begins.
I stroke your hair and kiss your forehead in admiration and praise, “Such a good girl.”
Water is offered to you using a straw; hydration is important. We have hours of pleasure to go and we have only just begun.
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The story above is true and taken from real life events. Pics and video samples of past sessions are available, and shared with permission.
Some may say, “Oh My God…I want that, but I’m scared it is too intense for me?”
Remember, we craft your session based on your fantasies, kinks and limits. The dial is adjustable, and we set it together. Maybe you don’t know your limits; that’s ok, I’ll help you find them.
There is no judgment here. Instead, there is opportunity. Opportunity to explore the kinks and ideas that soak your panties, safely and consensually, on a journey together. This is not about what I want. This is about what you need, and the places I can help you find that you simply cannot discover by yourself.
Allow my years of experience to be your guide as we venture down the rabbit hole. How deep is it? It truly depends on where you want to go.
I am not going to get into a list of kinks here. I am much more interested in YOUR kinks and what YOU want to explore anyway. Chances are, if what you want is safe and legal I’m into it.
These are your fantasies brought to life. My goal is to help you make them reality, while I melt your brain with amazing pleasure along the way.
Everything I am into is safe, sane and consensual. While boundaries are explored and pushed, as you want them to be, limits are respected. Safewords are required and followed without question. Aftercare is essential. Your body is respected and worshipped, your mind is melted with amazing new sensations and your beautiful orgasms...all of them...are taken until you are completely drained.
We build rapport and trust online, but the goal is an in-person, real life experience for you. An opportunity to give up control and experience pleasure in a way that offers you a freedom and a joy you have been seeking for a long time.
Maybe we meet once; maybe this turns into ongoing sessions or even something more. I am open to where the road takes us. I don't care what your circumstances are but do be honest, please. This sort of relationship is built on communication and trust. This does not happen immediately, and it will take some time for us to evaluate our fit and meet up for a session, but let's be clear that's the goal. Be prepared to verify after our initial dance here.
I host this fun in Western NY state. I am open to connections from across New York, NYC, Albany, Buffalo, Boston, PA, Pittsburgh, Cleveland, Ohio, NE, Toronto CA, the East Coast, etc. Planes, Trains and Automobiles will bring you to me if you wish it to be so. Good girls have traveled from as far as Vancouver and London before.
Take a little sexcation and have some fun, the experience I offer you is priceless.
If what I say resonates with you, kindly send a DM or a chat and use the phrase "Take Me Sir" so I know you have read this far.
This offer is for Cis gendered females, 21+ considered; 25 and over preferred.
Please no flakes or ghosts. If we are making plans to meet up or begin a dialogue, understand that I will not flake and I never ghost. If you decide that this isn't for you after talking for a while, please communicate your concerns like an adult. We can adjust our dynamic or sign-off.
References available on request.
Discretion Assured and Required; Let's have some fun.
Would love to find a cute girl in the Dallas area into bondage, could explore other things but that's my focus. Age ideally anything between 20-35 is probably fine. I'm dominant but would like to experience being dominated as well. Up to try new things so please don't be shy and let me know if you're interested. Natural females only please.
Ladies, would you like to spend a few hours doing nothing but engaging in friendly banter and listening to music while I wrap my rope around your beautiful body?
The play can be platonic or sensual, I am open to both. I have experience, but not looking to do physically demanding ties for this.
There is no pressure to engage in anything more than what you are comfortable with. You clothes can stay on. We will talk about everything in the chat here and can meet for coffee before playing. Once you feel safe, come to play alone or bring a partner/chaperone - couples are welcome. Besides rope, we can play with other things you like done to you while you are tied up.
Any level of experience is fine, I will show you what you need to know if this is your first time. I will set everything up at a convenient hotel. You just need to show up and bring your enthusiasm. The meet will be completely private, there is no expectation of taking any photos, but if you want them taken, I can.
I am experienced, sane and level-headed, clean and fit. You will be safe in my hands.
Everyone is different and has different needs. I am happy to accommodate, press that Chat button to tell me about yours!
Hi 👋 I'm 25 yo based in West Midlands. I'm looking out for a female partner who is interested in taking Shibari lesson with me. These classes take place in London on weekends. If interested, drop me a chat and we can schedule our lesson accordingly. As per my research it's a 2 day course over weekend.
hello.
I recently got into actually am doing shibari and bondage. self-tying only.
It seems that many people do like not know what to do it with interest into different plays. to learn bondage with their partner, I’ve no partner and am not seeking any at the moment as I need Time to develop my own style.
I’ve already found / got a model I am exercising with these days. I am fine. no model anymore, however, if you are interested in having photography of you in ropes from your partner or me, I’m open for that.
I am also still up to new people, I make this offer.
I got already some connections in Vienna and can direct you to places.
As voyeur, knowingly able to learn by watching, I am also up to meeting other rigger, exchanging and also watching them do.
Looking forward.
Looking for a woman to tie up and break in some new bondage tools. Sex/Oral/nudity not required. I just want to tie you up and watch you struggle a bit.
We would meet up for coffee/pastries/drinks and discuss expectations, safe words and signs, health issues, as well as any additional acts. Willing to add sex, oral, forced orgasm, sensory deprivation, and/or other kinks, but they are not expected or required. Ideally I would like to take some pictures of my work, but that is entirely up to you. Nudity not required.
If you have a picture/scenario/video of something specific you want, I am more than willing to accommodate.
32, male, 5'10", white, dad-bod.
No suspensions. I am more than willing to try overly complicated shibari, but I make no promises.