Part of me wants to be snarky and send him my rates because I KNOW I charge more hourly than he does, but also he's the only (good) vet who comes frequently and I can't afford for things to get messy there. I'm just going to ignore it for now, but I'm so frustrated that he even commented that he was attracted to me. How fucking unprofessional!!!

Venting here bc I got downvoted like crazy asking for advice in r/equestrian. Probably because of whorephobia, but really. I wish I was doing well enough that I could just fire him and never look back.

I'm looking for an admin assistant to do 24hrs a week, fully remote work from home, in my business Escort Academy.

The job is outbound customer service, and involves communicating with escorts in purely written form (text and email.)

Preference for someone with experience in the escorting industry.

Must have be based in the USA, be fluent in written and verbal english, have high quality communication skills, and the ability to work autonomously. Please DM me for more information!

Hey everyone,

I ahve an escort friend wanting to join this group and be able to make posts.

She has messaged admin to try to get verified and hasn't received a reply yet, just wondering what the process is for verification? I am able to vouch for her legitimacy!

I'm so tired of online Storefronts banning us. I need suggestions for where to sell digital erotic photography. It's my only source of income right now, and I'm recovering from surgery, so hoping to get all my stuff transferred to a new place asap.

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Thank you for being awesome and for your help!

- ShelbyEileen

Hey everybody,

I used to post here a lot years and years ago, I stopped using Reddit for awhile and then just came back from a 6 month hiatus.

I posted before about making a local chat for Denver metro and Colorado state providers to share local Intel and connect and got A LOT of interest. Unfortunately I was going through a lot of life stuff and never got around to creating it and administering it. But now, returning to full time escorting I am making one today.

What platform is the best? Signal, telegram, Whatsapp, and of course discord seem to be the best options . I've used all of them and have had some difficulties but think discord or telegram seems to be the best? Also I was apart of a WhatsApp group for Swers that went completely dead and disappeared.

So any input you guys have on where or what platform you would use, is the best, or would go in for group chats would be great.

Also, I'm looking for new groups and chats to join. All my Twitter group chats are dead, Whatsapp group disappeared, I can't find anything anywhere and want to be back into my community again.

You can check my post history to see I posted a lot here before and anyone who's interested in starting and joining the Denver/Colorado group message me .

Also please please someone show me of point me to some good Twitter, discord, Whatsapp, signal or telegram groups for SW'ers. I can be verified easily.

Does anyone know if P411 share our personal information? If you are a member of P411, they have our real names, clients and sex workers ID's.

My day job now requires a background check and I am scared will come up in the report cuz I love my vanilla job so much. For context, I am in the US, I dont show my face if that matters.

Any feedback would be much appreciated.

Has anyone worked at the brothels outside Clark County in NV! Was your experience sane/profitable? Kind of seems like hooker boot camp but money talks

So since tryst is requiring 2FA (with use of password manager 😒) anyone got recommendations for which free password manager to use? I hate this shit, I'm old school and don't trust anything online. I keep my passwords written down in code in my safe like the weirdo I am 😅

Hi everyone,

After a bit of a hiatus, I am back, and making educational content again on YT that I hope helps any and all escorts to make more money, run a successful bussiness, and achieve their personal & professional goals!

If you have liked my content in the past, please check it out, and as always, let me know if there's any other topics you'd like to hear me cover.

In this video I talk about 3 Criteria For Creating A Premium Profile That Attracts High Paying Clients

https://youtu.be/LQvhHsLA5tA

Of an obviously graying client twice my age biting my ass. At least I had clothes on. Please kill me

JOIN LINK

Hi guys! Just a new post to bring attention to my lovely SW community. I take privacy and respect extremely seriously in my server. Fellow SW are always my priority to protect.

Verification is required to prove you're a sex worker, however it is open to everyone. There is a private area only viewable by verified members, meaning it is invisible to everyone else.

Here is an excerpt from my info channels.

This server was created as a way for people to connect, share, network, learn, and promote themselves, as well as just have fun!

The server is made up of 3 categories: public and private.

Public: open participation, everyone is welcome.

Private: verified only access. This is our SW safe space. Only those with verified role can see this category, it is invisible to everyone else.

Please be advised that this is a sex worker support community first and foremost, and not for clients to find help or advice. Clients are permitted here to learn, and disrespect towards SW will not be tolerated.

Hello ladies. I have been working as an independent escort as a side job for three years before in Amsterdam, then I moved to Milan recently. I was wondering if you know any wealthy city profitable for touring worldwide, preferably outside the USA (entering in the States just for touring would be too risky).

As far as I know, the leading cities for finance in Europe are Zurich, Geneve, Frankfurt and London. Do you know any other wealthy city for escorting?

Furthermore, I was wondering if planning ahead a tour in one of those cities would be beneficial to increase my demand, or, on the contrary, I would find a lot of time wasters. I don't work for the "average Joe" target, rather than well-mannered and well-off men. For this reason, I have paid for being advertised in the posh escort directories available in Italy recently (I am Italian so I do write and speak Italian fluently), but the only website that is bringing me traffic is Euro girls escort at the moment. I find polite and serious clients sometimes, but on the other side, I receive quite a lot of insignificant messages from tourists and time wasters.

I'm doing my own research and I'm taking care of my advertisement online, but I would love to read about your personal opinion and/or experience. Thanks!

I have had OF for a while and have really been wanting to film collaborations with other women but whenever i've looked around I can't seem to find anyone to film with. I don't know if i'm just looking in the wrong places because I see tons of other people doing it, if anyone knows somewhere good to post let me know!

I am a lesbian so i'm only interested in filming with other women, and I do full porn videos for OF.

I had an ab***ion and need to heal but need money as well. Help please :(

I have met this client once recently, and it seems he really likes me. Today he has suggested a kind of "long-term dating experience" where we both can know each other, hang out, travel together etc.... Because I am cautious about everything which is long-term, he agrees with me to limit the bookings for one month and then see if it is worth it to extend the exclusivity for a longer period.

How much money would you suggest charging for one month of exclusivity with a client? It involves sex and perhaps kisses, traveling, fine dining, etc...it's the first time that I have such a kind of request. Finally, I don't want to spend all my time with him 'cause I'm gonna start the university in September (it must be well-balanced and pricey enough to cover my expenses).

I’m in a few Twitter retweet groups, a relatively inactive whatsapp group, and I’ve just downloaded kik and telegram to try and find some SW’er related groups (and maybe utilize for biz)

I can verify and send my information to anyone who is a part of any chat groups for SW’ers.

Especially looking for local groups in my city/state (Denver/Colorado) for sharing bad client info (I currently have a stalker I’m looking for info on who is constantly changing numbers and impossible to find on blacklists) or other useful local info.

I am a reputable SW’er who can verify in many ways.

Or if anyone has any tips for finding SW’er groups on Twitter, Whatsapp, Kik, or Telegram or other apps please let me know! I’d really like to connect with other local SW’ers especially for sharing intel locally or just connecting with others from anywhere.

Lemme know!!

Hi! I'm Katherine, and I do both pro and lifestyle domination. I do them in person, not online, so although I hope no clients are lurking here anyway, I want to be very clear: no remote inquiries from subs/clients, please.

Now...on to the good stuff:

My inbox has been quite full lately with people looking for information about becoming a dominatrix (a prodomme), or hoping for training.

So I wrote a thing I think this community may find useful:

https://seattlefemdom.com/how-to-become-a-dominatrix/

I hope this is considered appropriate content and I trust you'll let me know if not. If this is useful to you, enjoy!

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Hi guys! Just a new post for anyone who may have missed it, or are new, to bring attention to my lovely SW community. I take privacy and respect extremely seriously in my server. Fellow SW are always my priority to protect.

Verification is required to prove you're a sex worker, however it is open to everyone. There is a private area only viewable by verified members, meaning it is invisible to everyone else.Here is an excerpt from my info channels.

This server was created as a way for people to connect, share, network, learn, and promote themselves, as well as just have fun!

The server is made up of 3 categories: public and private.

Public: open participation, everyone is welcome.

Private: verified only access. This is our SW safe space. Only those with verified role can see this category, it is invisible to everyone else.

Please be advised that this is a sex worker support community first and foremost, and not for clients to find help or advice. Clients are permitted here to learn, and disrespect towards SW will not be tolerated.

INVITE LINK

Hey guys, I've noticed a renewed demand for a discord community, and wanted to remind you guys that there has been one!

Verification is required to prove you're a sex worker, however it is open to everyone. There is a private area only viewable by verified members, meaning it is invisible to everyone else.

Here is an excerpt from my info channels.

This server was created as a way for people to connect, share, network, learn, and promote themselves, as well as just have fun!

The server is made up of 3 categories: public, SW-only, and private.

Public: open participation, everyone is welcome.

SW-only: anyone can read, but only verified members may participate and post.

Private: verified only access. This is our SW safe space. Only those with verified role can see this category, it is invisible to everyone else.

Please be advised that this is a sex worker support community first and foremost, and not for clients to find help or advice. Clients are permitted here to learn, and disrespect towards SW will not be tolerated.

I've been modeling for several years, and I've been in erotic photography (met art) for quite a long time as well. I have been reached out by a recruiter of adult websites (femjoy, and a few similar web sites) who has offered me a contract as a model for these companies.
Does anyone have any experience with modeling for pretty famous adult content websites?
My only concern is being discovered by my future employer and/or work network besides modeling, this is the only reason why I am still thinking about it.

INVITE LINK HERE
Hey guys! If you remember, a while ago, I made a community on discord for sex workers and everybody alike. I recently ran into some technical difficulties and had no other choice but to completely remake the server. It is a replica of the original, and I will be clearing out the old one in time. I just wanted to bring awareness to this as well as advertise the server again!

For more info, here is what the server info channel says:

Hello, and welcome to the Red-light District, a discord community for sex workers, clients, and everyone else! This server was created as a way for people to connect, share, network, learn, and promote themselves, as well as just have fun!

The server is made up of 3 categories: public, SW-only, and private.

Public: open participation, everyone is welcome.
SW-only: anyone can read, but only verified members may participate and post.
Private: verified only access. This is our SW safe space. Only those with verified role can see this category, it is invisible to everyone else.

Please be advised that this is a sex worker support community first and foremost, and not for clients to find help or advice. Clients are permitted here to learn, and disrespect towards SW will not be tolerated.

Please let me know if you have any questions!

I've noticed quite a few escorts in my city use Instagram as well as a Twitter. I already have a Twitter and know the rules, but I've heard Instagram is much more discriminatory towards SWers. Does anyone have a general how-to use Instagram?

Since we can't share each other's posts, how do you get more followers and interest?

I looked online but I couldn't find anything relevant.

So it's been several years since doing sex work, for me. I was an active sex worker from the ages of 18-22. I'll be 27 in November. My body stayed mostly the same until I got pregnant and had a baby a little over a year ago :)

While learning/feeling confidence in a pretty different body is something I hear most folks who carry and birth a baby experience, I realize how uniquely challenged I feel with the way this relates to my experience as a sex worker.

Being desired on such a large scale was definitely a confidence boost, and having such a "conventionally attractive" figure made that pretty easy for me. I definitely had my challenges and doubts back then, as it is so common to find yourself comparing "from a professional perspective" .

However, I'm realizing more and more how little I invested in having body confidence built from ...within. My confidence has been so rooted in knowing how desired I am. Knowing how desirable my traits can be. And not just that, that I can monetize that.

Well, I haven't monetized that for a while. And my body looks pretty different than it did back then, so it's not so easy for me to use that all as a crutch. Now I'm in a place where I'm challenged to feel confident from within myself, and not based off of how others perceive me, and I'm not sure where to start.

Now that I think about it, I'm not sure how often I've *felt* truly confident. How much might I have been performing confidence?

I want to learn how to *feel* confidence -- not intellectualize it. But to feel it in my body -- for my body. And not for my body as it is or can be perceived, but for my body as it is experienced.

I'd love appreciate comments or tips on this topic. What is your experience with this? Thanks for reading :)

Hi! Just joined Reddit for groups like this! Thanks for approving me Admins! Dallas based companion looking to create a sex worker community or join an existing one for socials, advice, and advocacy work. It can be a lonely industry and sometimes a dangerous one so would love to find and offer support and encouragement and connection with my fellow sex workers. Any Dallas peeps interested in joining/helping? Have you started something similar? Would love advice/tips! Oh, and any insight into helping legalize/decriminalize our work is GREATLY appreciated. Thanks friends!

Hi guys! So I'm a SW, but currently I've found myself into a new creative hobby because of being in the SW community on Twitter. It started when I made a twitter banner for me and my friend, and from her encouragement, I started making them for free for my engagement groups. Eventually, I was approached and asked to make banners for other people, and now its turned into a fairly lucrative small side business and I am really enjoying the creative outlet! Ive branched out to making menus, and a lot more now! My question is, aside from twitter, how is the best way I would be able to, for a lack of a better term, "advertise" to SWs who may be interested in my services. A ton of people have told me how they have tried to get banners or menus from some people and they tries charging $40+, which is understandable I suppose, but not all SWs are able to pay that for their social media adverts, so I have been making them for much less to help support the SWs in my community, so any suggestions for the best way to showcase my work where SWs can be informed, or where i should go or look into r anything helps so much guys! Thanks!