Hello there! I hope your day is going well.

I’m a man in the SF Bay Area, seeking a discreet, no-strings-attached or friends-with-benefits connection with a like-minded woman. I take pride in my appearance—fit, toned, and healthy, as I’m dedicated to staying active at the gym. I’m well-groomed, clean-shaven, and successful in my career. Approachable and friendly, I genuinely enjoy connecting with others and am always happy to listen.

While it may sound familiar, I’m in a marriage where intimacy has become absent, though I have no desire to alter my situation or yours.

If this resonates with you, feel free to reach out—I’d love to hear from you.

Hey OA/Reddit!

Where do I start? Have you ever felt like you’re stuck in a situation that you don’t want to change but still feel like being in that situation is just painful? I’m guessing most of yall are probably in that boat if you’re reading this post on this particular sub.

I was only 24 when I decided I’d go through with an arranged marriage that my parents wanted for me. To give more context, I’m from India, where these kinds of arranged marriages are pretty common. We spoke to each other for a few weeks before we decided that both of us are okay with marrying each other. It’s more a marriage of convenience than anything. Both families were happy. We were happy in the beginning. Cuz neither of us had been in a physical relationship before. Trying to explore that was challenging but fun.

I’m currently in Seattle. But I’ll be visiting the Bay Area for work in November. Working in tech. Exploring outdoor hobbies. No kids, no pets. Just fostered a few. Enjoy gaming, enjoy climbing, enjoy volunteering at the humane society. Im certainly not a boring person outside of reddit. I have a quirky taste in music. Maybe I’ll share some playlists with you too!

While we may have explored the physical aspect of it, we soon found out that our emotional connection was severely lacking. We are completely out of sync emotionally right now. And naturally so is the physical aspect of our relationship. But like I said, I don’t think I’m looking to change anything about my situation. I just think that talking to someone here somehow makes my day to day life a bit easier. I’ve spoken to folks before but somehow it dwindled out. I’m hoping I can reconnect or find new people to talk to.

I’m not expecting anything in particular. Hoping to form a friendly bond, with the right amount of spice. Maybe it’ll lead to something nsfw (I’m definitely hoping it does, but I won’t push you if you’re uncomfortable). If you’re finding yourself in a similar situation, maybe we can help each other out?

Either ways. Thanks for reading and hope to hear from you soon!

Just to reiterate, I live in Seattle but visiting San Jose in Oct/Nov :)

Hey, I’m Looking for a women to bury my face in-between her legs or you sit on my face and I make you cum over and over till you are begging for more, depending on how we feel I am open to possibly more. I am not expecting anything in return! I’m open to anything just comment here or send me a DM. (In the DM say your favorite kind of panties so I know you are real)

Safe discreet anonymous private gloryhole oral service available to straight or bi-curious guys looking for a deep draining. The gloryhole is custom built plywood and features an overhead grab bar to hang onto and an IPad with porn for visuals. Clean bathroom available for use. Condoms provided by request. Single and neglected married guys and all races welcome. DM me with your age height and weight for the location and details

I'd like to give a free massage that relaxes tired muscles and encourages arousal to emerge unrestrained. Stress slowly melts away, your mind clears, and thoughts start to wander in an almost meditative bliss towards anticipation of my next stroke. An entire body explored for sources of tension while discovering your unique sources of pleasure. Your body might be sore in new ways after an overly-ambitious Halloween costume. Allow yourself to relax and give yourself over to an experience completely focused on you without holding back your arousal and enjoyment of touch. Discover new heights of arousal only possible through a calm environment, a slow build, and focused attention.

I'm 43, single, straight, discreet, and respectful. I've practiced massage for years, including a brief past in orthopedic medicine and physical therapy. I live in San Francisco, am able to host in my apartment, can occasionally host at a spa, or may be interested in traveling to you. I'm a former soccer player and frequent hiker, giving me a special understanding of your tired legs and glutes. I've experienced and learned massage during my travels around the world, continually integrating new styles and techniques. When not giving massages I enjoy watching movies, training dogs, hiking in redwood forests, and trying new restaurants.

You might already regularly enjoy massages and healing touch but feel constrained in your expressiveness. Tense spots such as your glutes or obliques feel overlooked. You wish for a massage that could:

1. Melt away your daily accumulated muscle stress and knots, whether from regular activities such as running or tenseness from haunching over a desk.
2. Slowly explore your entire body from head to toe in a continuous flow, freed from boundaries of cloth.
3. Allow slow-building arousal to wash over you without holding back, naturally expressing your enjoyment of focused touch.
4. Discover your unique sources of pleasure with drawn out soft touch encouraging your arousal to fully show itself.
5. Leave no doubt I've noticed your wetness as I encourage your pleasure. Drawn out touch on your inner thighs slowly climbs, grazing against your wetness before slipping inside and meeting your building expectations.
6. Integrate multiple orgasms for true, full-body relaxation and a cleared mind. Or at least have a lot of fun exploring the peaks of your pleasure and arousal.

I understand meeting someone can be a bit intimidating. You might hesitate, dismissing the experience you'd like to have as out of reach or too good to be true. A few women I have massaged in the past have left comments in my previous posts offering to share their experiences and help ease the hesitation of getting to know a relative stranger. I'd like to learn more about the experience you'd like to have, your unique sources of stress and tension, and answer any curiosities over chat.

Have you wished you could experience a massage with fewer restraints, where your entire body was a canvas ready to be discovered and reshaped? Would you like to explore an experience completely focused on you, where your mind is free to wander, and desires emerge in an almost meditative bliss? Say hello and let's craft an experience of relaxation and slow, emerging arousal.

Hey, I'm Clark, a 25-year-old fit young professional and former college football player who would love to find a sexy couple to chat with and if everything clicks, play together. I'm 6'5, fit, clean (tested a couple of months ago ), open to just about any kink/interest and love trying new things.

I have experience with a variety of different types of scenarios (short term, long term, one night stand, etc.). I can go slow and sensual, fast and rough, or anything in between. I have played with couples before in a wide range of capacities (Bull, Stag, Third, etc.). I've helped couples that are brand new to the lifestyle get their feet wet and determine what their ideal third would be. I've also played with couples, who have years of experience, that know exactly what they are looking for with no problem filling that role for them.

I will provide picture(s) upon request, and ask the same if you decide to reach out. Of course, we will need to verify over the phone or in person before jumping into bed together. I'm open to both short and long-term engagements. If I sparked your interest at all, please reach out over chat or DM to chat further. Of course if you have any questions based on my profile, include those in your message. Thanks and hope you have a good Saturday Morning!

Please be std-free and clean. Looking for short term fwb, willing to host in hotels and airbnbs for our privacy. Would prefer to meet a little away from where we live maybe in Richmond, San Jose, Oakland, etc (we can switch it up).

Hello!

Do you just love when your big breasts get attention and sucked for ages? If yes, I'd love to chat more and potentially meet for some fun. Love appreciating big breasts and making my partner feel really special about them. Would love to give you a nice massage beforehand as well.

I'm a friendly regular guy working in communications. Fit with good hygiene and a sense of humor.

If you're interested, send a chat. Will be able to host or travel.

Hi My name sam, I'm looking for girl to have some mutual fun time together. Little about I'm 25 around 6'4 and asain Mostly a homebody don't do alot of stuff outside. I do be binge watching my favorite show and movies. I also like playing games. Other thing I like going to drives or riding my motorcycle. A lot of people have called me cute or handsome but I just don't see, but you can be the judge of that. Looking forward to hearing from you

Hey! I’m am 39 years old. I am fit and attractive. I am 6’ and 165 lbs. I have brown eyes and black hair. I have white to olive color skin. I do yoga and go to the gym multiple times a week. I have great hygiene. I’m successful and live in SF.

I’ve been with my spouse for 13 years. We have a sexless marriage. I had an AP before and it was amazing. We chatted all the time and met when we could. But respected each other personal lives. I would love something like that again.

I miss feeling alive and excited about the day. I want something to look forward to again.

I’m an experienced dom located in SF and looking for some adventurous exploration with a like-minded woman. I live alone in the city, 6'1, 190 lbs., attractive, frequently tested (all negative), and respectful.

I'm open to one-time fun or a continued FWB situation if there is chemistry. I am more dominant in bed. I have a lot of kinks and am open to exploring more. Some of my favorites are breeding, tons of oral, making women squirt, toys, restraints, D/s. I can host in SF, I am pretty center city by USF. I would love to chat and play if there is mutual interest! Down to share pics to get a vibe check too.

Do you want to give up control and submit to another man?

Want to get treated like a slut by your DL bro?

I’m 6’3 fit. Pics on my profile. Looking for DL bro in public who’s my submissive girl in private.

Dm me

We are a ddf, fun, kinky couple into anal, bdsm, and anal much much more! Do you have fantasies of double dildo anal play, my boyfriend choosing my friend (you) over me, or having your body worshipped by two mouths? We’d love to hear about your fantasies and what turns you on!

She is: 5’3, Indian American, 135 pounds curvy fit, bi-curious, conventionally attractive He is: 5’6, Indian, 140 pounds athletic, conventionally attractive

Please message us with your age and a brief description of you. We’d also appreciate it if you’d be open to mutual verification. Single men, please don’t message us as we aren’t interested.

As the saying goes, closed mouths don't get spit in, so why not ask? I want to find a taken, plus-size girl who wants something discreet, so if you're game, then let's play? Ideally, you have too much free time on your hands to do this, or you're visiting in from out of town. I'm a dad & single, if that matters. I'm not sure to what to expect out of this, and just want to find someone to have fun with <3. A bit about me before I go on:

I'm black and asian, 5'7, chubby, curly hair, full lips for you to kiss, caramel skin, and can be very chatty with the right person. I live with family, and would rather host elsewhere, but if you can then also cool, but not required. though i can potentially host on rare occassion :p. I'm clean and test regularly, and am happy to exchange results.

I love kissing, hugging, groping, cuddling, so don't say I didn't warn you. I'd prefer to exchange pictures, so I can have a sense of who I'm talking to/ if not, be descriptive about what you look like, mmkay? I'm not in a rush to do anything, so I'll let this simmer till I find the right person. If you're on BC, then that's a huge plus.

Im ideally not looking for a one time thing, but more of a fwb.

I definitely love curvy women, and can't stay away from thick thighs and pretty eyes. I'm a left winger, and would prefer you not be a right winger. I like spooky/ weird stories, talking about life, exchanging music, stumbling out of dimly light bars and kissing on the street, and hopefully staring at you if you'll let me.

Not sure what else to put beyond that, so if you want to find out then you know where to find me mystery maam. How much water have you drank so far?

We’ll be on the City next Friday, 11/15. We are an open minded, D/s couple. I’m a Bi-Dom and she’s my sub. We prefer an all hands on deck type of play. We are specifically looking for bi males, bi females, and bi couples. But open to other lifestyles, if you want to throw your hat in the ring! To be clear, we don’t mean “sort of bi,” or “I don’t mind if there’s incidental contact,” or “he can blow me that’s fine.” We want you to want to be with both of us. We want to have our mouths, hands, and bodies intertwined with everyone in the bed. I am the Dom in the relationship, so another sub would be great, but not a requirement. Ages 35-55.

I'm looking for someone who wants to give roadhead. While we're in a drive-thru, for the person in the drive-thru window could see would be the most fun. I'm in SW San Jose but if you're anywhere in the South Bay Area I can go get you. Pix for pix.

Your age, race height/weight aren't really important to me, just looking for a little fun n thrill.

multiple rounds +++++++

The title is a little graphic but figured I would put it all out there

Just like the title says, I'm 40 and looking for a younger, preferably college age, fun girl for a true friends with benefits type of situation. I'm 5'11", good looking, and work as a finance manager at a dealership so my schedule is pretty irregular. I don't smoke, and only drink a little socially. I don't do any drugs but I am 420 friendly. Overall I'm pretty clean cut, but don't walk around with a polo shirt and khaki shorts don't worry :p

I would like you to be drug/disease free too. You can party a little but I'm definitely not looking for an addict. I'm disease free and expect you to be as well. I can host, come to you, or get us a nice hotel room, whatever works. I'm down to meet in public to see if we have any kind of chemistry as well.

Anyways, here's a couple pics. One SFW and one is very NSFW (unless you work from home)

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ISO legal, obedient, slender sub female ISO little or middle who enjoy a benevolent Dictator who will support them in coloring their color books but then find themselves gagging on something big as they orgasm for His pleasure. Sapiosexual who desires to be micromanaged, spanked/slapped, disciplined and maybe humiliated privately.

A pacifier goes into your mouth and you sleep on the floor when you are not a good gal. You should be on the slender side with curves and a pretty face. A lack of deference towards Me is a good way to get dropped. I can be cruel at times and this should arouse you.

Bonus points if you get aroused while giving oral to Me and like to roleplay — you enjoy wearing stylish makeup, you’re multiorgasmic (faking it nicely is acceptable) because I can cum three times in an extended lovemaking with the right person, you're a cuckquean or you are busty to your frame.

Extra bonus points for enjoying free use, domestic discipline, patriarch, CNC, begging and orgasm denial. 55 SWM lean muscled build (5’11”), hairy chest and often taken for 40s (recently a colleague who is seven years younger than me said, “When you get to be my age you will understand how getting old wears the body down.” This was his response when I invited him on a seven-mile hike)! Couple of body pics on my feed.

I tend to be a protective teacher Daddy type who obviously enjoys teaching you. It should warm your heart if I start to look out for you outside of the bedroom. My vanilla interests: hot yoga, cultural knowledge, tabletop gaming, video games (preference for Steam), novels, movies & movie trivia, travel, History, red wine, hiking & the many Metaverses. This is a shared fantasy between two consenting adults - 20 or older - probably no older than 43.

This could go towards an LTR in which case you would sometimes need to act “normal” in public circles. Ideally, you are a clever and pretty woman who likes to privately play out some very naughty fantasies. I tend to lean toward traditional roles in a romantic relationship. If I like you enough to go from online to audio and then in-person you should be vaccinated like me and willing to prove it. Long-term audio partners who are never able to meet might work. When I become exclusive with someone you should understand it means the breaking of our audio interactions - unless it arouses her that I am with other women.

I am exacting and seeking a quality experience. When you contact Me put “Excalibur” in your detailed message explaining why I should consider you, including a physical description that includes your height, weight, body measurements and dress size.

If you cannot write at least five sentences to me in your reply I doubt you will get a response. Be ready to voice verify a file to me to prove you are not some guy trolling.

5'11" 196 lbs athletic build blue eyes dark brown hair.

Hi there!

I have a teaser pic on my profile, and am happy to send more, including verification pics! I haven't cum in 12+ days :)

I've only been deepthroated once, and it felt amazing. Open to more, including being a bull, MFM play, etc. Ideally this turns into an ongoing situation.

If you're curious how your wife or girlfriend rates compared to past women, I'm happy to provide a rating. I'm looking for petite to HWP right now.

I can host at my home or in my SUV, or can travel a reasonable distance from San Jose.

I'm clean in every way, 5'10", 170, short dirty blond hair, and blue-green eyes.

Be willing to send pics of her and voice verify. If she's interested in more after, I love to tease and please for hours. Taking pics and recording a video without my face is fine.

No sellers, OF, or Snapchat.

Cheers!

I just got a new Lovesense Hush 2 (remote vibrating plug) and a Gravity (remote self thrusting dildo) and I'd love to find someone who wants to play with them with me. I'm pretty open, man, woman, nonbinary. I can host in Oakland (close to BART). I'd love to find a sub to try them out on, and maybe buy some other presents for :)

You: Subby! My age or younger, reasonably fit or average build, but very open to other options. Love age gap play. Clean, tested. If you want something more than just a hook up also pretty open to lots of scenarios!

Me: 38, average / fit build, run a few times a week, love hiking and backpacking, 5'8", 7 in, cut, clean and recently tested. Would love to be a daddy dom, have a little experience.

I am a Sensual/Loving/Caring/Kinky Daddy in Solano County in the SF Bay area who is looking for his petite, cute, sane princess. Are you a Princess who has unrealized and unfulfilled needs, desires and fantasies? With Daddy you can fulfill those things and many more. With Daddy, you will experience pleasure that you have dreamed about, but never thought possible.

Daddy will take good care of you, opening the doors of your repressed needs, desires and fantasies, so that you can explore and finally experience them, resulting in your having many intensely satisfying experiences. In the process. You will be taken to the highest levels of passion and pleasure, allowing your fantasies to become your realities, as well as allowing you to fulfill your sexual desires. I explore with safe words and respect, up to what ever limits you have in mind, as long as you respect my limits.

Acceptable ages are of course 18+ all the way up to 30. If you desire to be Daddy's Princess, DM me. Whether you are experienced or not, I would love to hear from you. Please no sellers, men, flakes, or uncommitted girls. I am looking for something more long term, and willing to drive/host within reason. Being close to UC Davis and Sacramento those areas are also close enough to find the one I am looking for!

Do you desire to be Daddy's Princess & Daddy's muse to dress & photograph? Do you have a very serious need & desire to be Daddy obedient, submissive Princess & Cutiepie Slut? Do you have an intense, overwhelming need & desire for Daddy's care, control, discipline, training, mentorship, guidance & love? Do you need for Daddy to open the doors of your repressed needs, desires and fantasies, so that you can finally explore & experience them? Do you desire for Daddy to take you to subspace ecstasy for hours at the highest levels of sensual passion & pleasure? Do you desire for Daddy to fulfill your undeveloped sensual/sexual potential? Do you want to experience Daddy's collaring, spankings, flogging, gagging, restraints, orgasm control & denial until you are ready to explode, sensual breast massage & breast & nipple suction cupping making them more puffy and sensitive, nipple clamping, the most satisfying orgasmic clitoral experience ever, anal orgasms, the most intense, endless G-spot squirting orgasms until you are totally exhausted, fantasy role-play, turning your fantasies into your realities, loving after-care & dressing Daddy's Princess so that you can become the loveliest, sexiest Cutiepie Slut that you truly are? Wanting paper plane!

Acceptable ages are from college student to late forties. If you identify with & have an intense need for some if not all of what is written above, & if you truly crave & are ready & willing to be Daddy submissive Princess, DM me. Whether you are experienced or not, I would love to hear from you.

I want to get warm and physical with someone half my age or younger and make her remember me with a smile. Actually being a virgin is not required but if you are and want to stay that way we can do less. When you think about something like this with an older man, how do you imagine it playing out?

Now that I am in older man territory and finally have some salt-and-pepper hair I am getting more attention than usual. If the interest is there, why not?

I will not be sharing a pic so please do not send one unless you are okay with not receiving one in return. You and I are both attractive to some but not all. I am half Scottish and half Italian with dark hair. I am officially 5'10.5" and today I am 190 lbs and would prefer someone not even close unless there is some good reason, like you are a virgin because you are 7 ft tall and the world is unfair. We both know that in this situation your youth is half the attraction for me, but please make an effort to describe yourself. By the way if you are a 60 year old virgin I am still interested in hearing from you!

After reading Reddit for a week I can see that there are two different kinds of older men that women are looking for. If what you want is one of those older men who will take you on weekends in exotic places you will be disappointed. Instead imagine a professor who offers to help proofread your stuff because you are not in his class.

I would like to get to know you and can I take you to dinner? But if you just need some respectable rando you will never see again that is enough for me.

Hey I’m a 26 yr old start up cofounder from the Fremont area but my office is in SJ. Down to meet someone with a bubbly personality that wants to hang/chill after my client/business meetings. Evenings are the best for me. I'm asian/6ft and love to gym + play sports.

This is a SFW request!

I love vinyl bars and Bar Shiru (Oakland) is a favorite. Would love to go there tonight! Looking for educated, kind, decently dressed and good conversationalist. Would love to enjoy pleasant company from a confident and emotionally mature man.

I'm 37, multilingual, well educated and cultured, fit and kind. People describe me as good looking. Looking for similar. If interested, please send a SFW pic. Emphasis on SFW!

Thanks, y'all.

Hey there!

I'm a confident, adventurous woman in a committed relationship, looking for a laid-back FWB who knows how to keep things fun and steamy. No strings attached, just good vibes, and a whole lot of chemistry. 🔥

A little about me:

• 32, 5'2", Asian, curvy physique, thick thighs, long black hair
• I love techno, raves and trying out new restaurants
• Can't host, so it would be great if you can :)
• Discretion is a must – let’s keep things private and respectful, I'm not looking to change my situation

Ideally looking for someone in their 30s, tall and handsome, based in east bay or SF.

If you’re someone who can keep it light, fun, and always respectful, I’d love to hear from you. Let’s see if we’ve got the right kind of spark!

Its the weekend baby lmk!! tonight, and/or this weekend. Couples & singles hit me up, located in the 707 part of the bay area. Latino + 🍃💨 friendly. Open minded I don’t discriminate age, skin color, gender orientation ;) (but i do have my preferences). Please be ready with pics. Im also mobile. (Big "+" if you can host, or mobile). I

I'm a 5'6"curvy thick mixed white and Mexican girl from San Jose originally. Just missing some fun guys I had some fun times with. I had a dancer's body for most of my single life, though I'm a bit chubbier now. Do I sound familiar to you? Know an AB? Hit me up

I’m 32, Male, 5’10, 160lbs, pretty athletic, hairy, DDF, stable job, clean.

I’m looking for chill hangout - netflix, chill, cuddle vibes. Down for more if the vibe is right. I’m bi-curious, single dude. Ideally looking in the age range of 27-40 but may be open to other ages as well.

Be clean, std free.

Can host in Pacific Heights for the right person. Open to travel within the city limits.

Like the title says, I’m very curious about exploring my submissive side with a guy. Initially would be down to just cuddle and worship him, can lead to more. Never bottomed before, so probably won’t go there. Very eager to find a guy that’s willing to wrap his arms around my throat and flex to squeeze while I explore his body with my hands. If this is something that interests you, hmu.

29, 5’5”, 172

Ideally you host. I can, but rarely. Would prefer East bay or sf.