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Whether you're looking for platonic or non-platonic friends, gaming buddies, online friends, soulmates, travelmates, smoking buddies, activity partners, friends with benefits, or casual encounters, this is the place to find and seek. Still protesting.

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Whether you're looking for platonic or non-platonic friends, gaming buddies, online friends, soulmates, travel mates, smoking buddies, activity partners, friends with benefits, or casual encounters, this is the place to find and seek. Still protesting.

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30 [M4F] - NYC or outside areas—Seeking something real and consistent.

Hi! 30M just outside of Manhattan and I’m seeking consistent chat to make an emotional connection.

A bit about me: I'm 6’0" with brown hair and brown eyes. I'm fit and will have plenty of time to exercise this summer. I’m told I look 24 and that I’m attractive (quoting friends, “How are you still single?”). I’m also educated (at a graduate level) and vaccinated, if those things matter to you. I live alone and can drive anywhere.

You may be thinking: what’s the catch? Fair warning: I’m sarcastic and flirtatious, but in a harmless way. I’m also skeptical as many have attempted to c4tfish on reddit; that’s why I stated that I want something real.

I have a dog and she’s the goodest in the doggone world. I enjoy taking her for walks, fixing stuff, taking women to new restaurants, and hiking trails. I enjoy a good night in as well, which can include my home gym, YouTube, and watching full series.

I don’t have any preferences in mind at this moment. If you do message me, please include your age, gender, and location. I will eventually want to see what you look like, so keep that in mind.

Let’s chat! I’m looking forward to banter and getting to know you.

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2024/04/10
23:26 UTC

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27 [M4F] #australia #online #anywhere - Sick of being alone!

Hey!

Im 27 years old from Australia. Looking for someone I can spend my days talking to. Bonus points if you're into video games (Ive got PC and PS5). SFW but open to going NSFW if we connect!

Im into video games, cars, photography, rnb and hip hop music to name a few. Let's talk about your day, what show you're currently watching, book you're currently reading, anything!

If you're wanting to go NSFW, im a dom, strictly only interested in being a dom so ideally you're a sub.

Timezone doesn't worry me too much as I can respond all day and late into the night. Open to travelling and meeting face to face with the right person!

Send me a message with a little bit about yourself, hope to hear from you soon!

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2024/04/10
23:24 UTC

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29 [M4F] Online - Let's get to know each other :3

Yoo everyone, I'm bunny! A 29 years old guy and I'm here once more to look for someone to develop a friendship into relationship kinda thing. Before I get down to talk about who I am what some of my hobbies and interestest, I'll save you guys some time and list stuff that are important to know:

-I'm childfree so no kids, ever. No, I won't change my mind :3; Also, I'm sorry, but I won't be interested if you already have kids of your own.

-Despite my age, I live with my parents, don't have my shit together financially and am still unemployed and just started a grad course. It sucks, but I'd rather be honest so you know what you're getting into. This will have to be a long distance thing for quite a while, and Ixm not sure how long, so have that in mind.

-I have some anger issues, although it's usually buildup stress and aimed towards games and frustration about something rather than people. I've punched walls, thrown shit and screamed but I've been managing it better now and hopefully will get over it with more time and psychological help, but it's important to mention.

If reading that didn't discourage you, great! Here's a little more info about me so bear with me while I try to sell myself a little bit 😎

I have a somewhat cliché range of interests: Videogames (PC only and mostly aingle player games), Anime/Manga, Shows/Movies, but also a bit of Reading, Boardgames (TTRPG included! Mostly D&D and Storyteller) and Languages. I won't mention any favorite works or genres so we can talk about it :3.

I consider myself to be a good listener and very open to communication, although I could improving at expressing myself xD Most of the time I have a very easily-excited, happy-go-lucky, golden retriever kinda energy; I'm down to trying new stuff, doing things together and learning about other people's interests and opinions. Sometimes though, I can get my social batteries drained and need a little time to myself, getting a bit moody and grumpy.

I enjoy good sense of humor and enjoy jokes and puns and having a good laugh. I enjoy dark humor, sexual/nsfw jokes and just regular silly puns, too, so try me 😎. Even so, I try my best to stay respectful and not offend anyone or overstep my boundaries, and am ready to apologize if I ever do so.

Although I'm an introvert, I enjoy spending time together, be it playing, chatting through text or voice, or even being in the same room doing different things. I like the company and I can get a bit clingy sometimes but I'm self aware so I try to tone it down.

Now a bit of what I'm looking for. I want a partnership, someone to stay by my side to face adversities; Someone open to talk, patient and that is willing to learn and grow together while loving each other c: I'd like someone emotionally available who would make me feel loved, seen and acknowledge (as, of course, I'm looking to offer the same.); I want someone who's willing to talk openly about anything and everything, share secrets and open to develop a deep foundation of trust with me. I'd like someone to be comfortable around, to duet a song with, but who would also sit on my face, and console each other when needed c:

Guess that's gonna be it for me. I'm not too worried about age range as long as you're 18 (although I feel like we probably wouldn't connect if you are too young.), appearance, where you live or what language you speak. If you like what you read, just shoot your shot and let's see where it goes :3

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2024/04/10
23:23 UTC

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29 [M4F] #Florida #Online - Looking for someone to share a connection with

Hi, I'm 29M and I'm looking for someone to talk and spend time with online and eventually in person. My interests are in art, writing and generally creative projects. For hobbies I like going out with friends and seeing different places, taking part in activities we haven't done before. Indoors I spend time playing a variety of different games with friends, streaming shows and watching anime. Also, in particular I like having deep discussions for things, fictional or non-fictional, like current events or events in a story.

Some shows I enjoy are primarily dramas like Last Kingdom, Law & Order, Dororo, Ashura and the like. In addition, I enjoy a variety games like OW2, Fortnite, League, Final Fantasy, We Were Here, Don't Starve, Minecraft etc. Video games are a primary hobby of mine so I don't count out any genre in particular; as long as it's fun to play, I'll partake.

I place a huge value in honesty and open communication. I appreciate someone who is able to communicate their feelings clearly and values working through the truth as opposed to beating around the bush because they don't want to disappoint. Overall, I'd like to be able find common interests, enjoy time together, build a connection where we look at one another as a rock to lean on when times get hard, shade to take comfort in when the heat bears down and a person to share bright times with.

If you think we would get along. feel free to send me a message! I'm open to chatting here on reddit or discord voice chat.

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2024/04/10
23:23 UTC

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34 [M4F] Massachusetts / Rhode Island / US - I Made My Own Dating Site

Hi, I'm a 34 year-old nerdy guy living in New En gland. And yes, I made a dating site for myself.

I enjoy conventions, video games, cosplaying, etc. Outside of my cosplay I have a great taste in fashion. I also like to work out to keep in shape and stay healthy. In my spare time I fill out sweepstakes and enter raffles (that I often win!).

I am looking for a woman who I can travel, cosplay, geek out with and eventually share a life with. But for now a coffee, if local, would be great.

Learn more about me at my website! Since I can’t post it on this R4R, it’s on my profile.

https://imgur.com/Y5ECn4T

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2024/04/10
23:23 UTC

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44 [M4F] Chicago - I love hairy women, except for this one thing:

And that’s that I don’t have one to hang out with on a semi-regular basis to do things like get coffee, explore restaurants and far flung neighborhoods, go to shows, see movies in the theater and make out, and absolutely crush karaoke duets!

So, I’m a tall man living in the actual city, and I’m pretty great, if you like the whole nerdy, cute, funny, bespectacled type.

I’ve appreciated hairy women my entire life and appreciate the cool confidence they often project. If you don’t shave and you’re looking for a spring fling (or more), I would love to get to know you.

I hope you’re enjoying this Wednesday night. Looking forward to hearing from you.

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2024/04/10
23:22 UTC

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20 M4F from north Carolina looking for a relationship

Here is a bit about me I'm 6ft tall 140lbs brown hair and eyes. I wear glasses. I am from western North Carolina

Some of my interests I'm gamer mostly on ps5, Im a big resident evil fan some other games I play are gta, rdr2, Final Fantasy metal gear solid and the witcher. I'll play almost anything.

I also like Watching movies, anime and YouTube, I mostly watch let's plays.

I like cars, I've got a car im trying to restore. I like auto racing mainly Nascar, formula 1, and indycar

If you think we would get along shoot me a message and tell me a little about yourself. I would be fine exchanging pictures if you want to.

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2024/04/10
23:22 UTC

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31 [M4F] #STL/Online: Let yourself slip into a trance. Dive into the rabbit hole of erotic hypnotism

I've been an erotic hypnotist for several years now. I'm looking for women who have an interest in letting me play with their mind. I've been told I have a nice voice and a way with words. Let me come up with creative new scenarios and syntheses of your kinks and fantasies. Give up those pesky thoughts for the night so you can experience pure, unadulterated pleasure. It might seem like you're giving up control, but you might find the experience ultimately freeing...

 

My goal is to make you enjoy yourself. Controlling arousal, playing with sensations, and yes, even orgasms on command ;) However, if you're looking for some darker themes, I'd be happy to introduce you to brainwashing, memory play, and mind control. All sessions are tailored to your comforts and I guarantee a good time! I've attached a voice sample so you can decide if you like my voice before committing to anything. https://soundgasm.net/u/anonymousqq/Voice-Sample

 

Just a disclaimer, I am in an open relationship. We can always negotiate over text chat before launching into anything; no commitment necessary.

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2024/04/10
23:20 UTC

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26[m4f]NYC/online looking for someone to play league/tft and other games

Hey looking for friends to play games or maybe watch stuff with. I have a lot of free time so I'm usually available unless I'm like passed out.

stuff about me

I play the saxohpone, clarinet and ewi mediocrely.

I'm half asian half white if that sort of stuff matters to you.Have a degree in something I know nothing about.

Games that I play

League, last epoch, tft, palworld, enshrouded, 7 days to die, terraria, mc, grounded, lethal company, fire emblem, pokemon, osrs and maplestory.

I only use discord so dm me yours cause reddit sucks.

Also please be like 20+

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2024/04/10
23:18 UTC

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40 [M4F] NY - Beyond Swiping: The Search for Meaningful Conversation and Connection

If you also find Bumble, Tinder, and the rest of those apps more exasperating than a Rubik's cube in the hands of a toddler, then congratulations—you've just found a kindred spirit, haha. I figured I'd give Reddit a shot, since I think it's more conducive to quality conversation.

Anyways, here's a bit about me:

  • I'm 40, male, and work in corporate real estate. It can be demanding at times, but I love what I do.
  • My hobbies are as diverse as my Spotify playlists. One minute I'm into woodworking. Next minute, I could be whipping up a storm in the kitchen. You've been warned!
  • I'm a voracious reader. I'm into everything from the classics to self-help. If you have recommendations, I’m all ears!
  • Gardening is my zen zone. There’s something satisfying about nurturing plants from seed to bloom. Plus, did you know talking to your plants can actually help them grow?
  • I dabble in poetry. It’s mostly for my eyes only, but there’s something about weaving emotions into words that feels like magic.
  • I enjoy staying active, and love taking hikes and walks in nature. Hopefully you're also into traveling.
  • I’m an avid collector of random facts. Did you know that a group of flamingos is called a flamboyance? (That’s us, should we decide to flock together.)

What I'm Looking For:

  • I’m looking for someone who values genuine connections, and meaningful conversations that span everything from personal growth to the mysteries of the universe. Someone who appreciates the beauty in being real, even when it’s messy or complicated.
  • I’m drawn to people who possess a curiosity about the world and its cultures, philosophies, and ways of life. You should love to explore—whether it’s flipping through the pages of a book, experimenting with a new recipe, or planning our next adventure. It’s all about growing, learning, and experiencing life together!
  • I value someone who can navigate the complexities of feelings with kindness and patience, recognizing that while we may not always have the same perspectives, we can respect and support one another through anything.
  • Life is too short to take too seriously all the time. I’m looking for someone who can laugh at the silliness of life, find joy in the small moments, and not be afraid to be silly. Let's be real—laughter is not just medicine, but also the glue in a good relationship.

Finally, I gotta share some funny stories from the apps—

  • Someone had "looking for my partner in crime" in their dating app bio. So, I jokingly asked what crime they were planning, hoping for a witty back-and-forth. Their response? "Tax evasion." I laughed it off, but part of me couldn't help but wonder if I should report them to the IRS, haha.
  • I met someone who communicated solely through emojis. Their entire bio? Emojis. Their messages? More emojis. It was like trying to decipher hieroglyphs. I still wonder if 🍕+🐈 meant "I love pizza and cats" or "I'm a pizza-eating cat." A modern mystery.
  • There's always a ghosting story, isn't there? This one ghosted me after a few great dates. Months later, they messaged me out of the blue to apologize, saying they’d been kidnapped by aliens and had just returned. I appreciated the creativity of their excuse but suggested they workshop it a bit more before their next abduction, haha.

Anyways, if you're up for some great conversation on this Wednesday evening, feel free to reach out!

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2024/04/10
23:17 UTC

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[24M4F] US/Online/Anywhere A Lonely Soul Looking for a Long Term Virtual Friend With Benefits

Hello to the lovely Redditors out there

To start here is my ASL: 24/M/Midwest US

Before I get into it: PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE BE 21+ AND PREFERABLY SINGLE

And if you’re from the U.S. Please be Politically Left-leaning or Leftist

Now for the fun part

I’m bisexual and just like many of you I’m super horny and craving sex buuuuuut:

Unfortunately I’m not into hookups.

For me it’s because worried about STIs and also just don’t like the idea of having sex with someone I just met and then not really talking to them again.

Of course I don’t just want to get off one time — I want something long term and I would like to be a FRIEND with benefits not just the benefits.

So here are the non sexual things we can chat about:

— I’m into working out, I’ve lost ~30 lbs since January and I hope to lose another 30!

— Speaking of exercise, I love to hike!

— Heading back inside: I absolutely love video games, particularly I love PC gaming. Ask me what I’m playing!

— I’m writing a horror novel, I’d love to tell you about it!

— I love to read, I’m currently trying to finish Dune at the moment before I see Dune Pt 2

— Speaking of movies, I absolutely love tv shows and movies. My favorites change all the time so just ask and I’ll talk for embarrassingly long

— I also love music, I play the saxophone but I also love istening to it. I listen to almost every genre so don’t be scared I won’t like what you got!

— Lastly, I love tabletop games especially dnd. I’m currently making a dnd campaign and I’d love to tell you about it.

Im down to send pics of myself but only from the neck down — we are strangers after all. However if we really hit it off and we’re nearby maybe we could a little further or even meet. But that would be far off sometime in the future.

If you’re interested send me your ASL and so I know you read this: ask me a question about one of my hobbies that I listed!

I hope my chats are filled with wonderful people — look forward to talking! ;)

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2024/04/10
23:15 UTC

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43 [M4F] Massachusetts. East Coast. Anywhere. Let’s get to know each other and have some laughs!

So, here I am. I love going to the gym daily but I’m probably not what you’d think I look like doing that. I’m kind of a dad bod/teddy bear kinda guy. But that means I give the absolute best hugs and cuddles.

I love sports! Football, MMA, and hockey are my favorites but I can pretty much get into anything.

Pandas are the best.

I have many tattoos.

I shave my head.

I love pizza and chicken just not together.

I’m told I’m full of useless knowledge such as movie quotes, pop culture, and sports facts.

I bought a iPhone today. I’m not sure I made the right choice… care to weigh in?

Well, that’s all for now. Guarantee I can make you laugh.

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2024/04/10
23:12 UTC

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28[M4F] Chicago - Intimacy Without Sex?

I've been really craving intimacy, but I'm also not really into casual sex. What I would love is to find someone to enjoy time with, and cuddle. And play with your boobs and suckle, of course. I'd love to make out, if you're comfortable with that as well.

I'm a nerd, a scientist, an animal lover, and I have plenty of board games if you're interested in that type of thing. I also have a fluffy cat who I adore.

I also live alone, so I can host.

If any of this sounds fun to you, please send me a DM or chat with your age, sex, and location. Please be 23 or older, I'd love to find something consistent!

I look forward to hearing from you!

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2024/04/10
23:09 UTC

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35 [M4F] #KC, KS - Nerd Dom for Nerd sub

I'm seeking a serious, LTR that will most likely start LDR, but the ability to visit and ultimately relocate for one of us needs to be a serious thought in your mind before engaging. I would like to move our conversation to dscord as soon as everyone is comfortable. For me, that's immediate, but I'll be withholding some personal information until then.

I'm very nerdy. Despite this, I still work out and keep active enough to stay in decent shape. Even now, I'm still working out because I just want to lean up a little more, but I'm still in average shape. 6'. 215 lbs. White. Sandy blonde. Blue eyes. Glasses. A few tattoos, and more in the future. Very happy to share a picture on dscord or in chat once we get connected there. I play mostly fantasy and RPG. I'm huge into Marvel, Harry Potter, LotR, Star Wars, and most similar kinds of nerdy culture, as well as anime. Bonus points if you recognize my favorite quote: Mistletoe can be deadly if you eat it; a kiss can be even deadlier if you mean it <3

I'm very needy and clingy. I would need a partner who is similar. I like physical proximity. If I'm down, troubled, anxious or anything that puts me down, I need my partner at my side, being warm, positive and affectionate. I hope my partner is similar. I have chronic anxiety and a lot of peripheral experience with other mental health struggles.

Me - Don't smoke. Hardly drink. Never done drugs. STD/I free. No kids, but wants kids. Cisgender (he/him). Agnostic. High sex drive. Witty. Articulate. Funny. Eccentric. Selfless. Kind. Doting. Empathetic. Stern. Hopeless romantic. Possessive/Territorial. Intense with emotions of love, affection and passion.

You - 18-32. Bisexual. Don't smoke. Hardly drink. No drugs. STD/I free. No kids, but wants kids. Cisgender (she/her). Hopeless romantic. High sex drive. Petite/smöl to average build. Feminine over androgynous/masculine in both looks and personality. Not high maintenance (in regards to material things). Piercings, tattoos, goth/witchy aesthetics are all a bonus, but not required. Not a brat.

Communication is direly important. I need a partner who can text/talk every day, throughout most of the day, with work being the biggest exception. And voice chat in the afternoon/evening, when possible. It's important to me that I have a partner who yearns to want to know every detail of her Dom. Eager to answer any and all questions about anything and everything with no hesitation or filter.

Please read my pinned post on my page if this post resonated with you, left you wanting for more, or you'd just like some more context and information about me. And don't hesitate to ask any and all questions when reaching out and telling me a bit about yourself. I'm an open book and look forward to having each of my pages carefully perused and committed to.

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2024/04/10
23:03 UTC

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24 #Munich [M4F] Looking for a fwb in Munich

Hi, I've been struggling a little with my high libido lately and my fwb lives far away so I can't have regular sex with her 😅, I'm not too experienced in the bedroom and I'd like you to know that before you continue to read hahah.

Some details about me: I'm 24 living in Munich, 187cm tall brunette with blue eyes. My hobbies include drawing, working out, watching anime/reading manga and gaming.

I'd like to see if I can find someone in Munich that I vibe with and hopefully have a casual relationship with. I'd rather get to know eachother first before getting into anything so please respect that. If you're interested feel free to hmu!

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2024/04/10
23:02 UTC

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25[F4M] #LA / #Online - Love getting off with strangers

There's something incredibly hot about the idea of sharing those intimate desires and fantasies, isn't there? I can't help but get turned on at the thought of us exploring each other's deepest desires through steamy sessions.

Picture this: we're both lost in the moment, painting vivid images of what we'd do to each other's bodies if we were together. The anticipation, the intensity, the sheer thrill of it all – it's enough to send shivers down my spine and leave me craving more.

So, if you're up for a little virtual adventure, my dm's are always open. Who knows what fantasies we'll uncover and what desires we'll fulfill as we lose ourselves in the heat of the moment?

Let's make tonight unforgettable.

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2024/04/10
23:01 UTC

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27 [M4R] NC / Online - In search of long term friends, perhaps more. Semi-competent conversationalists to the front lmao :3

TL;DR: Just some tired, annoying, mentally ill, gamer dude trying to find a half decent connection. I'm not out to try and impress anyone, and never will be lol. Low effort introductions will be ignored, sorry! If you have a disdain for games, movies, banter, cars, or humor as a whole just pass me up. Also, if you're keen on one sided conversations or short term too

I'm attempting to find new friends or a relationship, if it happens. The people I have spoke to over the last several years of my life either became too busy or entirely different people. So, it's slowly just dwindled to null, meaning you'd get a fair bit of attention lmao. I miss having someone to talk and complain to everyday about whatever + that seemingly care, y'know? At this point I'd take having people to small talk with lmao

I will say it would probably be ideal if you could relate to the older online era. I mean, within the realm of peak CoD lobbies, Habbo, and similar. Idk, it seemed like back then people were more fun. Lol I've found they're usually less sensitive too

Honestly, I could care less if it's SFW, NSFW, or a mix when it comes to conversations. I'm relatively open minded in general, and don't take to getting offended easily either. The only things I ask are for you to be somewhat close to my age (20+), honest, and relatively blunt. I mean, bonus if you can relate to the tired feeling. Well, that or if you can tolerate it at the very least. I don't want to list an absurd amount about myself, because I feel that ruins actual back and forth to a degree, personally

About You:
• Non-sensitive and can handle banter, jokes, and memes while also returning

• Somewhat available and able to reply in a decent amount of time / has some degree of conversational skill

• Has an ability to express interest or converse about hobbies that aren't your own (on average used to people just passing by half of what I say)

• You can be equally boring as myself or worse tbh, as long as there's back and forth. If you're some mass extrovert then I can live vicariously through you in contrast lmao

• It would be cool if you enjoyed sharing music. I'm always looking for new stuff for my playlist

• You enjoy movies

I will say none of these are requirements. They're extremely preferred though tbh

About Me:
• I'm currently twenty-seven, and feel awful. Regardless, quarter life crisis is still persisting lol

• I have relatively awful internet. So, games take forever to update, think a day or two depending. Also, at some point I want a sim rig (not an over the top money pit one lmao)

• Tends to enjoy most forms of comedy, wether dark / offensive / dry etc + I agree with the stance of jokes being jokes

• Meme Archivarius and Aficionado

• I've officially been learning Norwegian for over a year now. Overall I just enjoy the idea of being bilingual in some capacity. Just a little bit each day, not in a rush lol

• Cold weather / temps wins over hot weather / temps every single time

• I have an absurd amount of hobbies; but, obviously frequent some more than others. So, the likelihood we at least share one in common is very high

• May as wells be a bottle of mental health issues, namely severe depression and general anxiety. So, if you struggle with mental health it's no issue. Honestly, would probably be nice if you can either relate or understand

• Sleeping is a struggle + my general sleep schedule is subpar

• Believes Elon Musk will end up creating catgirls, sooner or later

Replies as quick as I nut

So, aside from all of that, feel free to ask me anything you'd like to know about me. I'm a relatively open book. If you actually read all of this then I apologize, homie. Hopefully this finds you well, my dudes. Feel free to send me a chat (´• `")ゝ

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2024/04/10
22:58 UTC

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30s[F4M] Michigan seeking a serious relationship

30s[F4M]Michigan seeking a serious relationship

30s[F4M] #Michigan for a serious relationship

A little while ago I posted here and although I received a lot of messages, they’re wasn’t what I was looking for. I look at profiles before responding. I am not into alternative relationships nor do I have any kinks. I did not join Reddit for that type of crowd and I don’t want it in my inbox.

I am a black woman who is curvy and although I work out constantly, I’ll never be thin. It’s how I am shaped and I am very confident in my appearance so I am happy with that. I am educated and I work in a very demanding and stressful industry, healthcare. I spent the past 17 years raising my son in my own and building my career. I am not looking for someone to smoke and chill with, I am looking for an adventure.

I don’t need to date for free meals nor am I sex deprived. I am looking for a connection and I get along best with men who are conversational by nature. I hate small talk and get bored easily. I take interest in men who are comfortable with talking about themselves and not afraid of having deep conversations. I also like men who take pride in their appearance and like to travel. Whenever I have time off, I’m on a plane or enjoying a car trip. So if you don’t like traveling, please don’t contact me. Also, I usually date black and Hispanic men. I feel more comfortable with those types of men because I don’t feel like I’m fetishized by them. So now my inbox should have way less messages. If you send me a photo, I’ll send one back. So don’t demand my pics if you’re not going to share your own.

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2024/04/10
22:58 UTC

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22 [M4F] Germany/Online Nerdy guy looking for his other half

Hello ^^

Hoping to find someone that I can love with all my heart.

But first a little bit about myself. I'm 22 years old and 172cm tall. Currently living in Germany and working a full time job in a Software Company.

With the formal stuff out of let's get to how I spend my free time of which I somehow got a lot even though I work full time. I'm a passionate Gamer and do spend a lot of time on it. Also I'm into a variety of games but my favorites are BG3 and the Monster Hunter games. Watching Anime is also a thing I do a lot so I might consider myself a little bit of a weeb. When I'm not doing these things I'm either doing dumb stuff with my friends, taking excessive naps or in the gym. The nighttime is also something I really love so I'm often going on late night walks or stargazing. I also picked up photography a couple of weeks ago and recently started learning to draw.

I'm quite the introverted and shy person but I do tend to warm up to someone pretty fast. So if I have piqued your interest just a little bit feel free to DM me :3

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2024/04/10
22:53 UTC

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25 [F4A] #Anywhere - Would you like to be my friend?

Hello! Thanks for taking the time to read my post. In all honesty, I don’t really have a lot of friends. Sometimes I feel like my brain is on a different planet. Am I the only one?

A little bit about me: I hold two advanced degrees, I’m a caregiver to my grandparents, I love all things Disney, I’m a bookworm, I enjoy watching movies and tv shows, and I have an unhealthy obsession with Twilight.

I would love to make some friends! If you want to be friends please feel free to shoot me a message!

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2024/04/10
22:50 UTC

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32 [M4F] #Toronto/Online Join Your "Therapist's" Harem

Truth be told, my college dream was to become a therapist. Life, grades, and my mental health had different plans for me, though. The reality is, therapy doesn't exactly pay the bills, so I had to set my sights on a different career path. It's become a running joke between my current therapist and me that I might have chosen the wrong profession – she insists I'd make an incredible therapist, for whatever that's worth.

In many of my conversations, things tend to get deep, maybe deeper than most people anticipate. I genuinely enjoy connecting with others. We're all a little broken, aren't we? I like metaphorically rolling up my sleeves and delving into your mind. It's something that truly fascinates me.

So, why not call it what it is? This is my version of bootleg therapy – a chance to get to know you. I practice active listening, but let's be clear, this is all in good fun. I'd always encourage seeking professional therapy if needed.

Just to clarify, I'm not here to "fix" you. I am, however, genuinely interested in understanding you. Maybe, through our conversations, you'll get to understand yourself a bit better too. The essence of therapy, as I've learned from my own therapist, is finding answers together. And by that, I mean real, honest, and genuine conversations – not the stereotypical "how do you feel?" kind.

If you find yourself developing feelings along the way, that's perfectly okay. We can talk about it openly. This is a safe space.

Before you hit me up, here's a bit about me:

My type? I'm drawn to slim/athletic women – smart, curious about life. But most importantly, honesty is key. Women only.

3 general rules as a disclaimer:

  1. I cannot diagnose or prescribe - a real therapist is always best.

  2. Because my conversations can generally last a long time and it's a time investment on my side, I require women to simply verify with a photo they're real. This cuts down on people who take advantage of my time/service and are faking.

(Conversations being weeks/months currently have one going on a few years)

  1. You're free to disagree or say I'm wrong about something. I don't intend to solve your problems for you, I just lay out the pieces on the chess board for you to find the answers. I can be wrong too but you should feel comfortable saying "hey you got this wrong".

Does this sound like you? Feel free to reach out.

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2024/04/10
22:50 UTC

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29 [M4F] #Online - Sparks and romance with a dash of longterm

Just your average diesel mechanic, that goes to the gym 4 times a week. 6'1, I game, I watch movies, I can cook. I know 2 languages and I'm a huge nerd... also have tats.

Big into gaming but it's fine if you're not. Just finished building my new pc and I have a switch

Music wise I'm big into deftones, well anything Chino Moreno. Though I also enjoy anything with a good beat so most genres are on the table. Let's share some musical

Ask to see my tats, I don't mind showing them. Only have 2 though.

Love horror, comedy, action and suspense. Honestly prefer horror but I know it's not everyone's thing. Zombies are the best monsters change my kind. 1982's The Thing is my favorite movie of all time... which has nothing to do with zombies lol. Ghost and demonic movies give me the heebie jeebies.

One on one relationship

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2024/04/10
22:47 UTC

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25 [M4A] #Everywhere - Let's bring worlds to life, a word at a time.

Writing is wonderful, isn't it?

I'm Zach. I'm in the information technology sector by trade, but a writer otherwise. I work with interactive fiction, currently delving into two of my latest projects (one based in my high-fantasy universe that's been in development for over ten years!)

Anyways. That's a small tidbit, but I've got something better formatted.


What's my Age?: Twenty-Five (25).

Where am I located?: Columbus, Ohio!

Why'd I make this post?: The truth is simple. I'm looking for friends, people that I can grow with, get to know, and if something further emerges - so be it. Above all, personality is a key cornerstone for me. I can work with differing hobbies, cultures, and lifestyles, as long as you can do the same.

What's my Fatal-Flaw?: I'm loyal to a fault. It's screwed me over a bit in the past, but I've since worked to correct it. Nonetheless, I stick my neck out for those I've grown to care for.

How about some hobbies?: Alright, let's line 'em up!

  • Writing. I've adored working with interactive fiction, and have multiple novels in development and in the publishing stages. With a little magic and a bit of luck, I'll be a published name pretty soon.

  • Gaming. I'm into a variety of genres. These range from strategy to RPG, to MMO, to shooters, and beyond. Co-op tends to be a specialty of mine, though I'm quite flexible.

  • Game-Development. This binds together with writing - especially interactive fiction. I love crafting interactive universes that others can delve into. Dynamic stories filled with choice and riveting corners down every turn. There are so many options to explore, so many characters to meet, befriend, antagonize, and more!

  • Walks. I love exploring, and taking random walks throughout areas is a favorite of mine. Especially if there's food around to grab a bite of!

  • Travel. Similar to above. Traveling is a favorite. I'd love to take a trip throughout Europe eventually, or one that winds through the entirety of the U.S. over a two-week extravaganza. What's your dream destination?

  • Cheese-Making. This one's pretty new, and I'm still in the studying stages. I'm planning on getting into the craft of making cheese. Working with the cultures, ensuring I can create different types, and taste-testing with others. My goal in the long term is to create an artisan business if I can!

What's your career?: Currently, I work in the information technology field as a Support Engineer. I'm still quite passionate about what I do, but my long-term goal is to create a self-sustainable income from my writing endeavors.

Lastly, what are some random fun facts about you?: Lining them up!

  • I'm credited in a critically acclaimed video game.

  • My friends find me weird for adoring cottage cheese.

  • I'm an avid dog lover who has a pitty-girl that's a rescue!

  • Lastly, I can spend an entire night talking about anything at random, especially if a friend needs a distraction.


Anyways. It's been fun. I'd love to get to know you, so feel free to send me a message! Take care, and have a wonderful evening!

~Zach

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2024/04/10
22:45 UTC

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31 [M4F] #Texas #Online. Looking for women who want to explore a cuckold relationship with me

Looking for women who have a cuckolding and/or cheating kink and would like to find a man to explore that type of relationship with! Or just chat about it if you'd like. Im looking for a beautiful and slutty woman who'd like to get to know me and enter into a cuckold relationship where she would enjoy making me watch her get fucked by other men. Or maybe get fucked behind my back and keep it your secret or tell me about it after you do it. Which ever turns you on.

If this is something you are interested in I would love to hear from you and get to know each other! Looking forward to your message!

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2024/04/10
22:45 UTC

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22 [M4A] #Boulder - looking for climbing friends/partners/dates

I fell in love with climbing when I was a wee lad (12 years ago) and climbed competitively through high school. Bouldering has always been my forte. I've been on and off (mostly off) for the past few years with college and the pandemic, but I'm getting back into it and would love to find cool people to climb with. I taught climbing classes at school and love introducing people to the sport too! For the most part I'm a gym rat, especially now as I'm getting back into things, but really love climbing outside when I get the chance.

While I have a climber sort of vibe, I don't fit the stereotypical climber bill in some ways, which I think is an important thing to know. Yes, I am interested in yoga and meditation and Buddhism, but I don't drink or smoke at all and don't really click with people (outside of a climbing setting) for whom those are important things. I'm the type to stay in, make some tea, and cozy up with a book or watch basketball. If you're that type too or at least don't think I sound painfully boring, I'd love to hear from you! I'm mostly looking for others around my age but ultimately don't really care that much.

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2024/04/10
22:44 UTC

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25 [M4F] #chicago tall lanky dude with a cute face looking for an AP

Heya im a 25 5’11 thin white dude looking to find a fwb here in the city but open to more if i meet the right person

I just moved here with my long term gf last fall and while i love her and theres no one else in the world ive met who understands me like her im just not attracted to her and not just physically but her personality and energy are completely a turn off for me its led to me avoiding sex with her and when we do its never satisfying for me

ive recently made the decision to leave her(due to a variety of reasons including the above and her cheating on me in the past) but it feels cruel to bring her all the way out here where she knows nobody and has no support then to break up before shes established herself but its been 4 years and the lack of fulfillment in that area is driving me crazy lol

As for the NSFW stuff about me theres some pics up on my account but suffice to say its on the girthy side haha. Im pretty proud of my head game if i do say so myself lol and my stamina can be through the roof(thanks SSRI’s!)

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2024/04/10
22:44 UTC

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28 [M4F] #Tennessee #Anywhere-Disabled Dom for long-term sub

I am a 28-year-old guy from Tennessee. I also have a disability, cerebral palsy which I will happily tell you more about if you have questions. As of right now, I need help doing most things, including bathing and dressing. I am 5'7" and kind of chubby, though I am on one of those miracle weight loss drugs and it is working wonders. My disability is probably moderate to severe. I can't walk but I am hoping to get more autonomous in the near future, as soon as I get into an occupational therapy program.

That said though, I've been pretty normal guy. I have my quirks. I'm generally a homebody and I can happily entertain myself just by scrolling Wikipedia and watching documentaries on YouTube. I believe that all knowledge is useful and I'm in an online trivia league.

Music plays a big role in my life. Though I don't play any instruments, I come for my musical family and I usually have a song associated with every major event in my life. I listen to a bit of everything but I would have to say my favorite genre would be in rock or new wave. The Killers, Keane, Death Cab For Cutie, bands like that.

Now, why did I title this post The Impossible Dream? Because I feel the person I'm looking for isn't that easy to find. Mostly as a consequence of my disability I'm still a virgin and I would like to change that. That said, I'm also pretty sure that I'm fairly dominant and I just want someone who I can call my own. I'm looking for a woman who will gently guide me, help me, explore with me and help me figure out what I like. Then, once I have enough confidence and know what to do, I would want her to take her place as my long-term submissive. I do hope for an element of power exchange, but perhaps in a more unconventional way. There will be days when it all gets too much and I will need someone kind and nurturing to run their fingers through my hair.

I do have specific kinks I would like to explore but that's the basic concept of it. I don't see myself becoming a mean dominant.

I want to stress that I am looking for something long-term with someone who is willing to meet me where I live in Nashville sometime soon. I can handle being long-distance for a bit but I really do crave Real life intimate connection, since I haven't had any in so long. and I do want this to be serious. I am extremely loving and loyal. Hopefully, if you want it, I will be yours and you will be mine.

Sorry for any typos or weird wording. I'm using a dictation software which is really not good. As long as this is up, I'm still looking.

Also my chat is acting weird so if it takes me longer to respond, that's why!

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2024/04/10
22:32 UTC

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28 [M4F] Orlando/North America - Looking for someone to experience life with

Hello!

My name is Reed, I'm a 28-year-old guy from Orlando Florida looking for someone to enjoy life with, as far as what I'm looking for. I'd say a meaningful connection, I am happy with the idea of being friends but also very open to it blooming into something much more should we both be on the same page. I am certainly not interested in rushing anything and anyone getting hurt due to miscommunications, transparency and communication are key for me.

As far as who I am, I work a 9-5 (technically 9:30-6) and have a side gig writing that I really enjoy. I've been described by friends as a goofy optimist with a serious side. I am an increasingly casual gamer but would love to meet someone to pull me back into it, I used to be really big into online games but have been more so interested in exploring and immersing myself in cool single player experiences lately.

I love thrift shopping/going to random local markets and finding cool and unique trinkets/pieces of clothes, my all time favorite shirt actually came from a thrift store. I love going out and exploring new things and trying new restaurant, I consider myself a life time learner so always deep in some kind of new rabbit hole learning about who knows what.

I'm a big fan of high fantasy universes in nearly any medium, written, animated, really whatever. I don't really have a specific 'favorite' genre but I love anything that is unique and well thought out, and of course just movies that will make me laugh. (There is a special place in my heart for the Shrek series.)

I don't really subscribe to any specific belief system/ideology outside of 'do whatever you want as long as you aren't hurting anyone else.' and it has served me quite well.

here's some recent pictures of me

As far as who I'm looking for, I'm looking for someone who is capable of communicating and wants someone to share life with, as mentioned above what that ends up being is entirely up to us and where we go with things. I want someone I can genuinely look forward to talking to, someone that makes my day to day life a little less tedious, someone that can enjoy the small things and most certainly someone that doesn't take things too seriously. I want someone who isn't afraid to tell me the things they're passionate about, share your fire with me, tell me what gets you out of bed (as hard as that is some days lol) the things that keep you up at night.

If this stands out to you I'd love to talk and at the very least see where things go. I'd love to meet someone also in Orlando but quite open to anyone located in North America.

Thanks for your time and have a great evening.

Reed

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2024/04/10
22:32 UTC

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46 [M4F] #Austin #Texas - Looking for Longterm, Don't be Shy, Say Hi...

Hello, I am a Single, never been wed, 46yr old man, I have no children, no Baggage in Texas, close to Austin…I was in the Military for a while, always gone, and thought it would be best not to be wed, then other things in life just kept coming up...many years later, now I want that life I missed out on...

I am a laid back Texas Man, easy to talk to...Bonus points if your Local, but open to all of U.S., and probably Canada if you're willing to move to me.

(As for Ages,18+ Minimum and Older) I am looking for a 'Longterm relationship', that will one day lead to a family, and children, this is what I really want…I am a kind man, with a good heart, I am just looking for my other half.... I have a home, and all that’s needed, just need the right woman…I am Willing to go Slow at first, so we get to know each other, date, whatever makes you feel comfortable.

You can either work, or be a housewife who takes care of the home, the food, future children, and me. I prefer white, and Hispanic woman…You will Need to be willing to Show face, and eventually Face Time, so that I know you're real, and no ones time gets waisted, this is a must, pls send a pic or two with your first message, or I might not respond.....Anything else you'd like to know, just ask... Also, if you're just gonna message me, say a few words, and disappear, don't bother messaging me, I'm looking for something real here...No cat fish, and No sellers, Not Interested

Message me with your favorite color, and a pic or two, so I know you read this far...

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2024/04/10
22:30 UTC

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27 [M4R] #AK/Online - Looking to make some friends oh boy

Hello 👋 I'm a 27yo M from the state of Alaska. I'm looking for some online friends to chat with, get to know, and talk to about stuff. I enjoy vidya games of all kinds (lately a lot of Falloit 76, very excited for the new Fallout show). I also enjoy movies a lot, I've seen many and I'm always looking for more to try. I like camping when the weather's nice, though I haven't gone in a while. Love swimming, hiking, traveling, history, cats, energy drinks, warhammer minis, and a whole bunch of other stuff.

I am single, and potentially open to flirting if things go there (bisexual). Happy to send a pic of me if you would like.

So yeah, anyways, message me if you would like! Dm's open to all

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2024/04/10
22:30 UTC

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