I recently tried out Dapoxetine for the first time and I took 30mg approximately 1 and a half hours before the session. Unfortunately it didn’t have any effect and the PE prevailed. Did I do anything wrong or do I need to change something?

New to the sub. Recovering porn addict here. At one point my PE was bad after a few pumps I'd ejaculate. Since being away from porn it's gotten better but I've realized something, If I'm making love to my wife and go slow and romantic my dick is too sensitive and I cum after like 5 pumps but if I go faster I last longer. Have no idea why this is. I've desensitized creams in the past and they worked but after awhile we've had to stop cause it was too desensitized that I had to go in the shower and wash it off and then come back and finish with a handjob from the wife.

I'm not sure if what I've described above constitutes having PE

I got banned from this sub with another account because I reported the bonershop scams -.-

I can ejaculate any time that I want when I masturbate like after 1 min 30 sec, or 5 mins or 10 mins. I want to know is this PE or not.

Never had sex.

When I first started, it was tough to keep going through the entire training without stopping a few times. Over time, I noticed small improvements, and now I can go 20 minutes nonstop. However, the moment I think of something erotic, my control slips. It goes from feeling like I’ll never finish to finishing in seconds. My body tenses, and I lose confidence in holding back. The key is learning to control both body and mind in an aroused state. Don’t treat arousal as some overwhelming, otherworldly experience—see it for what it is and approach it calmly. This mindset makes staying in control much easier.

Hi all, hope u doing good, so i (M21), had PE for most of my life (had an over-masturbation problem, idk if that's lifelong or acquired)

So i saw this 66 days thing not long ago and decided to try it

I also always noticed that my pelvic floor muscle were always too tense, so i'm worki on that too (ie relaxing them whenever i feel tension)

Here are my notes so far:

#1: 30 Nov: Test session. (Cut at 1' 30'' of masturbation, 7'08'' total) -pace: slow (≈1,2/s) -close to ponr at 1'17'' , still i kept on going but slower pace -Did not came ★Note: erection was good at first, but softened as i kept stroking. 2nd test session. (Total of 2'30'' masturbation, close to ponr at ~30s) -pace: slow (≈0,5/s) -Did came ★Note: –erection very good (i was horny, i wanted to cum, so did so very early :(. ). –mind was very into cumming: solution: need more self control (mind and muscles (PF))). 65 days left.

#2: 2 Déc: Total time: 15min (5min of dry stroking at medium pace, 10mn wet) -pace: rapid-ish(1,9/s)(my bad) -close to ponr at ~30s, had to stop -erection was soft, but went harder and harder, stroke speed went lower (down to 1/s) -many many pauses because of ponr, (every 5/6 strokes, was not edging)

• Did not came

★Note: –was not aroused at all, difficulty getting and keeping erection (hence the rapid strokes) –PC is the problem (too much involontary flexing), along with thinking too much about cumming –Did not focus on breathing

*** I am trying not to cum, only doing so every 7 days or so (following the advices given by the first 66days guy) *** I'm not interested in any drugs/creams/herb/ *** I'm not a virgin, had sex 2 times First time was bad-ish, many stop and go's, because ponr were close Second time was lame, came within ~7 thrusts *** Sorry for my english *** I'll keep updating, give me strenght guysss, hope we all overcome this PE sh*t

Any advices will be very apreciated, peace

Edit: pace unit is in stroke/second, where 1 stroke=1movement up+1 movement down. I use my hands, no fleshlight

For the past two months, I’ve been using tadalafil to help me maintain an erection after ejaculation. However, I don’t actually have (or did have) any ED problems, ever. But, after taking Tadalafil on demand maybe every weekend (no more than 20mg) for the past 2 months, I’ve started noticing some ED issues, such as very rarely getting morning wood and not getting a very solid erection when I’m not on tadalafil. It’s kinda freaked me out a bit. Have I given myself ED from taking ED meds? What’s other people’s non-ED experience with tadalafil?

Recently got a fleshlight to train in hopes I can last longer in real sex. I noticed that after a couple of strokes I would need to take breaks and take it out. I edged with this fleshlight for around 40 minutes but after each break no more than 10-12 strokes. Am I using this right ?

I am 32M and I have PE but I do not want to do any medicine course like for a week/month, I just need it when I am going to perform sex, like a 1 time thing every 1-2 months. I want to have a pounding sex experience. Can someone please suggest any cream (1st preference) or any drug (last preference) for my requirement. The cream or drig should be easily available over the counter in India. I have tried delay condoms but doesn't work.

Sharing my experience, hear me out.

Like most here, I have PE. Usually can last a few minutes, but for some reason lately it's gotten worse and it's literally 5 or 6 pumps.

The problem is my D is so sensitive it can't be stopped. And all the advice is useless.. kegals, reverse legals, state of mind, training, no porn. It all doesn't mean a thing to this sensitive D, he is coming no matter what.

However - after 10 minutes I can nearly always get it up for round 2.

In round 2 - I can't cum. It usually ends with exhaustion from both of us after 30 minutes non stop action, then finishing by hand.

It is literally like I have a different dick. while the first time I can't stop it no matter what, the second time I can't get there no matter what.

So I guess I'm wondering, does anyone else have this? How can my sensitivity be so different only 15 minutes apart?

Hi there. Anyone suffer from brain fog and eye fatigue the next morning following ejaculation the night before.

I think this is linked to low testosterone.

I’m 23M and I met vixen couple in reddit and today I had sex for first time in my life and before i went meet them my mind saying don’t go there but I just went to experience the first time but I just came within in just 3 or 4 seconds. I don’t know if its normal or not and what can I do to long last ?

So applied two drops around the corona at 6:22pm, washed it off at 6:35pm Over an hour now and I don't feel any tingling, wondering if it will work for me tonight. Don't plan on having sex till close to 11 pm which will be 4 1/2 hours after washing.

Will report back on my results.

I am trying the 66 day training and every comment that I read said that they last longer and longer each day however I last shorter and shorter every day. I think it is because I won't ejaculate and that builds up, but doesnt everyone experience this?

So I'm suffering from PE for a very long time now. I'm 25M Virgin. When I masterbate with PE I come in 1 or 2 minutes. So start to use Fleshlight and it's make worst. I tried Durex extra time condoms on Fleshlight but result was bad so I go to Urologist. He priscrib me Cealis+SSRI and still didn't work on Fleshlight.

Today I plan have sex with a girl for first time in my life. For preparation I masterbate 2 times with porn in afternoon and at evening I take the pills that Urologist priscrib me.

During sex something different happened I was barely hard and when I get hard I fuck a girl with more than 30 minutes. I was on the moon and she cum like 3 to 4 times but I didn't come at all till 45 minutes (I take brack in between for 2 to 3 minutes for couple of times because she didn't take it because I was on hardcore).

Reason I last longs are.....

1. I was very tired because I was traveling entire night and didn't sleep

2. I was on NOFAP for a week for this event, so all build up is very bad for MY PE, so my idiot brain thinks it's best Idea to mastebat before sex .

3. It was my first time, I was little uncomfortable, super nervous. I feel like my heart will explode.

4. I take urologist priscrib medicine(Cealis+SSRI)

I'm staying with this girl for next two days, so I'll keep updating.

I have a prescription for 50mg of Zoloft. I have heard stories of ssri’s curing PE. Will Zoloft kill my libido? Should I split the pill in half and take 25mg? How long does it take to work?

I’ve been struggling with PE my whole life and tried many different things like Kegel exercises, 66 day challenge etc. However I can never stay consistent and struggling having no one to talk about it with.

If anyone has a wisdom on keeping consistent and not getting down about progress please let me know.

Hey, 34M here, i want to try depoxetine 30mg for the first time for my premature ejaculation problem. Any one from India who had experience with depoxetine, what are brand names?? Thanks

So not sure if I qualify under PE but last night when I had sex with this women, I was done within 3 minutes and there wasn't even any foreplay. that I received. I simply pleased her, then we started missionary and within 3 minutes I was completely done.

Also during masturbation I'm ready to finish within minutes too so not sure if this is something else or PE?

So i used Lidocaine 10% based gel and waited for 2 hours and then washed it off, i still busted in 1 minute using fleshlight, and i wasn't even 100% hard because of the numbing effect, anyone has any suggestions what should i use? I've tried Alpha Herb and PYT and it's the same, i still busted in 1 minute. I need help so bad, been so stressed out from this , my ex left me because of my PE, i feel like PE is a curse for me so i won't be able to have a gf forever.

What’s everyone’s GO/TO routine with PYT?

Apply 2hr before sex wait 1hr wash it off then an hour later have sex is what i’m going to attempt rather than multiple applications 3-2-1

Please tell me what you guys do with short time planned sex like randomly get a text for sex in 2-3 hrs

So i know whats causing my pre jack and was able to test it and same results everytime. For me it was a hygiene issue, i ballantis that wouldnt go away no matter how hard i clean it, itll make my penis super sensitve. But i was able to fix it with a cream i bought off amazon(for jock itch) and with eucerin but it'll keep coming back idk y so I decided I'll use antibacterial soap n poof its gone and im now able to go ham. But theres another thing ive noticed that during sex or masturbation my bladder starts acting up which will also cause me to bust fast too. So i tested this i drank water and jerked off yup i had that feeling of cumming fast n i tried it with out drinking water n was able to last long. So it was a combination of my penis head hygiene which made my head super sensitive and my bladder being pressed during sex n mastubation. So my plan of action now is to keep using the soap and use eucerin becaus the skin was super dry and saline whipes to clean off in moring and end of day. As for my overactive bladder ive read a couple articals saying kegals and fixing my anterior pelvic tilt will help. I know it sucks to have this condition and makes u feel less of a man but, cut yourself a break and try some self compassion it also helped me a ton too. Now this isnt gonna be for everyone this is just what ive learned about my body and working for me. And if it helps someone on here awesome! You got this dudes

Hi everyone. Im new to this subreddit and have been trying to Reverse Kegel, but I dont have the mind muscle connection / not sure what I should be feeling. I know people say you should breathe in while doing it, but the way im doing it I dont feel it at all while inhaling, only while exhaling. I am also tightening my abs while I do it…not sure if thats normal or not. Im trying to use the pointers of acting like you are pooping/peeing but that feels like Im contracting muscles still (although it does feel different than holding in a poop/pee which is what I’ve read is a regular kegel). Thanks so much for all the help !!!

Pyt works great but can't use it multiple days in a row because it makes the skin so sensitive after. Is it the same with alpha herb?

I see a lot of you guys have wife's girlfriend's or you're just hooking up. I was just thinking how your other half reacted when they found out, either in bed or you just told them. The biggest anxiety I have is because of my PE I'm scared that I will never satisfie any woman or the woman will leave me because of it or just cheat on me. I know you can make woman finish with mouth or fingers but now every woman is happy with that kind of solution and ofc sometimes woman can finish only with penetration. And if woman left you because of it how did you now fall in to anxiety or depression.

Yo, I was prescribed 20mg xr with a 7.5 booster later in the day, and regardless of if I take the booster or not, I find that I have FAR reduced endurance from an erection and ejaculation standpoint. I think the orgasming too soon isn't really a problem, but when I had this happen previously the answer was just keep going, but I find that I can't as much as before and I miss sex+foreplay being a 20+ minute activity where now once penetrator occurs, if i wasn't holding back I would likely finish in under a minute every time, and I feel that I am also not pleasing my partner as much due to not being able to go as hard or as long.

Is there anything to do about this? It makes sense that adderall increases dopamine and thus the baseline for orgasm, but it's significantly negatively impacting my sex life and I'd love to hear some advice to help!

Thanks

I’m posting here because I genuinely wanna suicide , I don’t know what to do anymore. For the past two years, I’ve been dealing with premature ejaculation (PE) and a little bit of erectile dysfunction (ED). I wasn’t always like this. A few years ago, I had no issues at all. But over time, I developed some bad habits, especially excessive masturbation, and I feel like it’s completely wrecked my confidence and performance.

It’s affecting my life and, more importantly, my mental health. I feel like less of a man, and it’s hard to talk about this with anyone in my personal life. I’ve tried looking up advice, but most of what I find are theoretical solutions like “reduce stress,” “do kegels,” . While I get that these things might help but i need real sample to encourage me

What I need is a real success story—something concrete that worked for someone who’s been where I am. I want to know what specific steps, treatments, or changes worked for you.

If you’ve overcome PE or ED after dealing with it for a while, especially if it was caused by habits like mine, please share what you did. I’m willing to try anything at this point, but I just need to know there’s hope.

Thanks in advance. Any help or advice would mean the world to me.

I'm uncut but I don't have phimosis. I can edge for hours and have sex for 20 good minutes if my EQ is not exceptional. My glans is also not very sensitive and i can manipulate it with no problems.

But as soon my EQ reaches 80% or more one or 2 thrusts are enough to make me cum (maybe a few more if i'm masturbating controlling the strenght of them).

I tried to search any similar experiences in the sub with no luck. Please help me

Hey, everyone!

I'm actively in the process of creating a free resource for men with PE to learn how to retrain their sexual response and techniques in order to consistently have prolonged, satisfying sex.

The resource I'm creating will include a blog, podcast, and YouTube channel. I'll offer a course as well as one-on-one coaching services.

This offering will be totally unique among PE resources for a few reasons:

1. I have a formal medical education
2. I have spent thousands of hours researching physiology and biohacking
3. I have used my education and personal time spent researching to create and test a unique, science-based protocol which cured my once-severe PE and may have the potential to do the same for millions of other men

A bit about myself:

I suffered from primary/lifelong severe PE for nearly 20 years. At my worst, I would ejaculate after a couple of thrusts. Now, I'm able to have sex for hours on a consistent basis.

I've been a doctor (a dentist, specifically) for nearly 10 years now, but at this point, I know that what would bring the most joy to my life is to teach and coach other men to take control of their sexual stamina and learn to experience the best of what sex has to offer us and our partners.

My offer to you:

I will coach three men from this subreddit for free who meet the following criteria:

1. Must be 18 years of age or older
2. Must have primary/lifelong PE
3. Must be sexually active (sex 2+ times per week)
4. Must have only ONE current partner of any gender
5. Must be willing to commit several hours per week to the protocol
6. Must be willing to commit at least one hour per week to coaching

Coaching sessions will be one-on-one, once weekly, one hour in length, and held on Zoom. I understand that PE is an embarrassing issue, so although I will not anonymize myself at all, you are welcome to keep your camera off and use a false name during the Zoom calls.

I will coach you for up to three months as long as you make it clear that you're remaining committed to recovering from PE.

I'm also willing to answer any questions you may have. Post them in this thread.

Please respond here or DM me if you are interested in free coaching.

Disclaimer:

Any information I provide you is for educational purposes only and does not constitute professional medical advice. You must consult your physician for any medical advice, diagnoses, or treatment. By accepting my coaching services, you agree that I am not liable for any risks or issues which arise from my communication with you. You agree that you and your physician are solely responsible for any decisions or outcomes regarding your health.

Title. Basically, i have heard that dapoxetine is not really supposed to be taken daily. What if you happen to need it for like 3 or 4 days straight? Do the effects of 1 pill last for more than 12 or 24 hours?

Also, how long does 1 box of dapoxetine last for you personally? (as in how often do you need to buy another one)