Salam Everyone,

Welcome to Open Discussion Sunday! As mentioned in our first open discussion post, This is your bi-weekly thread to chat about anything you wish. Whether it's related to HSV or any other topic. Feel free to share your thoughts, questions, and experiences, or simply enjoy the company of the community.

A side note for sisters, there is a channel on discord that is a sisters only space. It is managed by a female moderator where we have been told it is quite active on there.

You can utilise the discord channel to connect with other sisters or always post here on Reddit if you'd like any sisters to reach out to you.

Please remember, while we are here to support each other, the discussions in this forum cannot replace medical advice from a healthcare professional or Islamic advice from a qualified scholar. We hope you have a great weekend!

• The Mod Team

السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته

I am a 45F seeking a husband age 45-52. I was diagnosed with HSV 1 & 2 last year. I live in Atlanta, GA and I am African American. May Allaah make it easier for everyone here and grant us success in this life and the hereafter.

I created a new post to ask for help in creating a group for us. It would be helpful if people can engage with the post so it doesn't get lost in the timeline.

https://go.muzz.com/mIrG0G5caOb?referrer=srf_2cvJpnbIcmazPHplJmRnYdvnc8g&location=post

Asalaaamu Alaykum. After reading such encouraging posts, I can confidentially say...profile is made. Insha'Allah I'll find a match.

Salam Everyone,

Welcome to Open Discussion Sunday! As mentioned in our first open discussion post, This is your bi-weekly thread to chat about anything you wish. Whether it's related to HSV or any other topic. Feel free to share your thoughts, questions, and experiences, or simply enjoy the company of the community.

A side note for sisters, there is a channel on discord that is a sisters only space. It is managed by a female moderator where we have been told it is quite active on there.

You can utilise the discord channel to connect with other sisters or always post here on Reddit if you'd like any sisters to reach out to you.

Please remember, while we are here to support each other, the discussions in this forum cannot replace medical advice from a healthcare professional or Islamic advice from a qualified scholar. We hope you have a great weekend!

• The Mod Team

I found the love of my life and he is ok with me having hsv2. He LOVED the honesty and is thee most kind, caring, and ambitious man and he loves everything about me. Just waiting on my wakil atp. Just wanted to let you guys know there is hope…. When finding out in February, I thought life was over for me but Alhamdulillah I found someone who is as accepting as myself.

And for the men out there wondering if a woman would accept you, I accepted the person who gave it to me. Though he violated me in the worse way possible, I would’ve been ok with marrying him even knowing he has hsv2. Alhamdulillah for it all. The good and the bad. It’s the qadr of Allah SWT. I’ll make dua that all of the ummah find a person to marry In shaa Allah ta’ala. Despite having these ailments.

Hello I hope your all good! I am a Muslim guy alhamdullilah age 24 just got HSV 2 and I feel very sad honestly I would like to meet someone with same condition. I am living in Sweden

okay, I been back for about a week - what do I notice. oh wait, I was gone for about 8 months. So, in the past week, I see the usual behavior: newbies join, then look for support. I see Ole heads, trying to figure out how to create an hsv movement - goals unidentified, a lot of words, no strategy. i do see a new post, maybe a new trend, contacting mainstream marriage sites. been there done that; I wouldn't expect a response that leads to action, moving on. I see the website, no content or unique value proposition. just generic stuff that would not persuade me - did i say no strategy, yeah I did - MIA audience unknown. NEEDS persona, fears, problems turned in solutions - a communications framework. stuff that is engaging, but i saw SO WHAT. Anyway, I mentioned the hsv topic should be incidental because the direct approach is NOT discrete. when you lead with Muslim with hsv, you just lost the game because your audience want anonymity. ahh, make hsv a subtopic, a bullet point and stop trying to hook people up. approach: you need one milestone reached - DISCLOSURE. the how: 1st, engaging content that speaks to the heart. 2nd a form. after that people go their MARRY way.

Salaam. I tried reaching out to Muzz multiple times about creating a group for us but no word. It could be that they just need more people interested? If a bunch of people created an account and requested a Muslims with HSV group, maybe they'll pay attention 🥲

Sometimes it hurts more to hold on.. let it go… let go what doesn’t make you happy, let go what is toxic and has no benefit to you, let go of what ever is stopping you from healing. Allah has chosen us to be this way so say Alhamdulillah! Allah is the absolute best of planners ♥️

I wonder how other Muslims react when they hear about a Muslim with hsv. I wonder how they think.

Asalamu alakium how is everyone? I’m new to the group, not looking for marriage just yet but In sha Allah in the future!

I came across this post today, and it really resonated with me! I remember when I was first diagnosed, seeing posts that said, "it gets easier," and thinking there was no way I could ever get past the anxiety and sadness.

But with time and a lot of self-reflection, you come to realize it's not the worst thing in the world.

I truly appreciate how supportive this group is! It's great to see so many sisters and brothers sharing their experiences to help others be in a better headspace.

Assalam-O-Alaikum,

I was diagnosed with HSV2. I am 26M. I am based in Lahore, Pakistan. This thing shooked me completely in the beginning. later on, I found it to be much better in nature. I used to offer salah off and on before the diagnosis, but this has brought me closer to the almighty. The only thing that concerns me now is the consistent peer and family pressure for marriage.

Things don't work the way they do in the West. Nobody knows about my diagnosis except my doctor.

I am certain if I reveal this to my family they gonna cut all ties with me. And there is no guarantee if I divulge this information with the proposals, which my family is asking to check, they won't.

Looking for a life partner who can complete my deen and be a source of contentment with this towering hopelessness to never have a partner.

Hello. I have joined Muzz. I’m 21 female. I put in my profile about HSV and also reshare that I have it through a first message. I keep my face blurred until I match and someone asks to see me. I’d say, sometimes I get goofballs who don’t read profiles, but overall I’ve had a pretty decent amount of positive responses. Some people are completely open to it. Some people want US citizenship and would take herpes as a trade off, but hey… a win is a win 😂😂😂. I’m just kidding, but seriously, there are spaces for us. I actually like the space here too. I think we could try to start a group on muzz in their social section. I’d just thought it be good to let you guys know.

Assalamu alaykum everyone.

Just posting a quick reminder. You're completely welcome to make your own posts with the Seeking Marriage flair.

But, just a heads-up: we have a pinned Marriage Thread with a specific format to help keep things organised.

It's up to you where you'd like to make your own post or reply in the Marriage Thread.

If you decide to make your own post, we'll just add a link to it in the marriage thread so everyone can easily find and engage with them.

— The Mod Team

Salam walaykum, dont really know how this works. I'm 34 years old, London born and bred. Seeking a muslim soley with the intentions of getting married InshaAllah. Any suitable potentials please feel free to comment on the thread or send me a message. InshaAllah we can make the best of a not so great situation.

AsSalam ALaykum. Seeking marriage. I am 21years old, diagnosed with HSV2. I am currently studying an MSc that should conclude in summer 2025. I live in the U.K. and not open to relocation to anywhere except the Middle East where I have lived in the past. Single and never married, I am seeking a man who is upon the Deen and keen to keep improving practices, akhlaq and knowledge throughout life with his spouse. Would like someone with a growth mindset in all matters, Deen and Duniya. I avoid music and free mixing and wear modest with hijab. I am 5’6 and Pakistani heritage.

Salam Everyone,

Welcome to Open Discussion Sunday! As mentioned in our first open discussion post, This is your bi-weekly thread to chat about anything you wish. Whether it's related to HSV or any other topic. Feel free to share your thoughts, questions, and experiences, or simply enjoy the company of the community.

A side note for sisters, there is a channel on discord that is a sisters only space. It is managed by a female moderator where we have been told it is quite active on there.

You can utilise the discord channel to connect with other sisters or always post here on Reddit if you'd like any sisters to reach out to you.

Please remember, while we are here to support each other, the discussions in this forum cannot replace medical advice from a healthcare professional or Islamic advice from a qualified scholar. We hope you have a great weekend!

• The Mod Team

Age and Gender: 30 M

Location: Texas US

Marital Status: Never Married

Have Any Children: No

Diagnosed HSV Type: HSV-1 (saw cold sore once, but not sure if it's only oral)

Ethnicity: South Asian, I’m open to any ethnicity if we vibe well.

Age Range You Are Seeking: 25-35

Height Preference: >5'2

Educational Level/Profession: Masters degree in engineering.

Profession: software consultant with good income.

Willingness to Relocate: US Only or North America.

Role of Wali: After mutual interest

Other Details/Preferences: I was not very religious maybe that's why l'm in this boat. But that's something which I am changing with time, I'm trying to be a good muslim. Trying to pray 5 times a day. I hope to find someone soon. JazakAllah. May Allah grant us all with deserving spouses Ameen 🤲🏻

Salaam! Hope you all are well and taking care of yourselves.

I am a 27 year old female, looking to meet someone with the intention of marriage if compatible inshaallah.

A little bit about me:

• live in Canada
• East African, Somali
• working full time at the moment
• no kids/previously married

I’m looking for someone:

• Who is always working on themself (their character and deen)
• Preferably in Canada/US (this is just a preference, but willing to relocate)
• Age range 26-36

37yo/m from London. Looking for f25-35 to marry, background nothing specific just a practising, humble and family oriented young women. Speaking Arabic is a bonus.

Me: single father to 19yo girl, family man, 9-5 worker and practising Muslim.

Salam Everyone,

Welcome to Open Discussion Sunday! As mentioned in our first open discussion post, This is your bi-weekly thread to chat about anything you wish. Whether it's related to HSV or any other topic. Feel free to share your thoughts, questions, and experiences, or simply enjoy the company of the community.

A side note for sisters, there is a channel on discord that is a sisters only space. It is managed by a female moderator where we have been told it is quite active on there.

You can utilise the discord channel to connect with other sisters or always post here on Reddit if you'd like any sisters to reach out to you.

Please remember, while we are here to support each other, the discussions in this forum cannot replace medical advice from a healthcare professional or Islamic advice from a qualified scholar. We hope you have a great weekend!

• The Mod Team

Salam everyone,

A few months ago, I was in a very difficult place, overwhelmed by emotions after being diagnosed with HSV2. I barely recognized myself and felt lost, which led me to join this community. Alhamdullilah, it became a lifeline for me when I was at my lowest, with no one else to confide in about my struggles. Alhamdulillah, my mental health has greatly improved, and I've been able to push myself forward, taking all the steps to grow closer to Allah and trusting in His plan for me. I've come to understand that while people may come and go, Allah is always there for us when our hearts are sincere. I’ve also learned that sometimes things don’t work out as we expect, but Allah uses these trials to help us grow into the best versions of ourselves. To anyone struggling with this disease, never lose hope—use this challenge as an opportunity to strengthen your connection with Allah. ❤️