👋 Intro👋

Hi there! My name’s Carter, I’m a shy, gentle, inexperienced little bean looking for a long-term, monogamous, mommydom relationship! Below you’ll find some key points about myself and what I’m looking for. Please feel free to reach out if you have any specific questions, I’m an open book! 😊

💬 General Info 💬

• I’m 22 years old and currently living on the U.S. East Coast. Some of my favorite hobbies and interests include video games, movies, acting, swimming, learning about nature and other cultures, and collecting plushies and other nerdy items! I currently work as a surveillance agent at a casino, but my main passion is voiceover! My biggest dream is to make a full-time career in that field.

• I’m 5’5 and around 145lbs. I’ve got a chubby tummy and some thick(ish) thighs but other than that I have a very small figure. I have long, curly red hair and blue eyes. (Rarest hair and eye color combo in the world apparently!) Also, I naturally have almost zero chest hair (Body prolly knew how unmasculine I’d be from the start 😂) and my other body hair isn’t very excessive if you’re into that! I’ll happily send a selfie in DMs if you’d like. :)

• I’m AMAB Genderfluid and my pronouns are Any/All! (But calling me a good boy will make me melt hehe 👉👈) I’m outwardly masc-leaning at the moment but I want to eventually solidify an androgynous look for myself. Either way my ideal look for myself is soft, smol, and cute!

• In terms of my personality I’m very softspoken, polite, loyal, and when I really open up to someone I love to goof off with them! When I really make a connection with someone, I’m their biggest supporter for life! I’m a great listener, I’ll always be my loved ones' extra set of ears or shoulder to cry on, and I adore making people smile and letting them know they’re loved. I also have Autism, ADHD, anxiety, and just a crippling case of general shyness, so please be patient with me. 🥺

💜 What I’m Looking For 💜

• My ONLY hard requirements are that you are not younger than me, into or open to a mommydom relationship, monogamous, and, in the event things go this far between us, you are comfortable with not having kids and living with a partner who has a nonperiodic source of income (Freelancing can be rough 😭). These are my only dealbreakers, anything else below are just personal preferences, so please don't feel discouraged in reaching out if you don’t check every box! 💜

• Personality-wise, above all else I’m searching for someone who’s kindhearted, gentle, affectionate, and communicative. Confidence, good social skills, and motherly personalities are also hugely attractive to me!

• I’m not very picky on body types, but some things I’m december attracted to are thick thighs, fit/muscular bodies, and long legs. I also LOVE when a woman’s taller and/or older than I am!

• I’m totally fine starting out dating online, but I’d eventually like to start an IRL dynamic when you’re ready.

• All in all, I’m just looking for a loving mommy who wants to take care of someone and have that person be at their beck and call, physically AND emotionally, 24/7. 🥰

✨ NSFW Stuff ✨

• Full disclosure, I’m a virgin and have little-to-no sexual experience. I’m NOT looking for just a role play partner or someone to use/use me as a kink dispenser. I want to truly bond with you and take things slow, cause I believe someone’s romantic partner should also be your best friend. It’ll be a bit before I’ll be comfortable opening up sexually, but if we do get to that point, I’d love to have my mommy teach me everything I need to know in order to please her~ 💜

• Aside from the obvious interest in MDLB, I’m a complete sub with a HEAVY praise kink (I’m always happy to praise mommy too if she needs it! 😊) and I love to cuddle and kiss. I also love giving and receiving body worship. I’m really interested in trying collaring, leashing, spanking, and edging/orgasm control. Anything that involves me serving mommy on hand and foot is bound to make me happy!

• I’m pretty open-minded for the most part, but my only hard limits that come to mind are degradation/humilation, beating, non-con, incest, raceplay, and scat/watersports. I can provide a full kinklist upon request!

🫶 In Conclusion 🫶

If you think we’ll get along, my DMs/chat here are open anytime! Even if it turns out we’re not looking for the same thing, I’d still love to make some new friends. If you do reach out, just so I can make sure you read the entire ad, please answer what my birth month is anywhere in your message, I hid the answer somewhere in this ad! And if you’re comfortable sharing, I’d love to see a SFW selfie of you as well.

Thank you so much for your time, and have a wonderful day! 💜

As a macho married father, I shouldn't be here, even if I am a submissive little sissy at heart. You might say that I'm looking for trouble (because I am) and that might just make you feel a certain type of way about me, like I deserve an attitude correction of sorts.

Paradoxically, that's what I'm hoping to find: trouble. Specifically, I want to get into trouble. Not necessarily expecting that you'll be interested in doing things with me I could get into trouble for (although I certainly didn't mind), but I want to be in trouble with a dominant female for the things I already do. I want a woman like yourself (preferably YOU) who can, who will, and who will enjoy delivering some much needed motherly discipline even if in a virtual form, or at least discussing ideas of what form such treatment could take.

I'm bound to be thrilled with anything you desire, but a healthy mix of traditional punishments and creative humbling that might not be appropriate for a mother to deliver sends chills up my back to imagine. I hope it thrills you similarly, it at least entertains you - if so, let's start a conversation and see where things go.

Hey there!

My name is Luke, a 22 year old boy from the Netherlands and in this post I want to tell a bit about myself and what I'm in search of.

I was thinking of writing a post in which I would lie about how amazing of a sub I would be who is always bald from the eyebrows down and wears his cage trough fires and storms in a cute pair of panties and a plug in my pink asshole....However I'm not quite that kind of a sub and I think it's best to just be honest about that in the hope that I do not only get a response but also something true out of this post.

What I like: I like people who are dominant. By that I mean people who can lead a conversation and don't leave unintended room for myself to brad or cheat (I'm not a huge brat but I like being put on my spot)

If you are this kind of person then you can wrap me around your finger and make me do anything you want:) I also love to put myself to the test on a sexual or kinky level but I don't really like people who want to make me do something kinky or fetishy without having complete rule over me.

What I am looking for:

I'm looking for someone who identifies as female and is dominant

Someone who wants her own boy subby boy but and wants complete sexual control over him.

Someone who wants a friend who can chat daily and who I can feel relaxed and safe with.

Please don't rush it! I want something open and honest....the rest isn't my priority!

A bit about me (SFW): I'm a enthusiastic guy that likes exploring what the world has to offer, loves art (I know a fuck ton about movies), loves learning and has a great interest in world politics and religion. I also love hanging out with friends with whom I do volunteering work quite a number of hours a week. I work a part time job as an engineer and I love sporting and crafting all sorts of things in my free hours. I'm quite tall, athletic and I have stubs and messy hair.

A bit about me (NSFW): I like being called names, being praised, being challenged and being punished (I also like rewards but I'm not expecting to get any haha). I love the idea of being dominated according to a plan. I'm talking about challenges, tasks and protocols. I like you being unfair to show me that I am Yours. If I could name some kinks: chastity, CBT (tying, soft spanking, electricity play), soft anal, degradation, humiliation, name calling, orgasm control (denial, ruins) and more stuff like that. I can be anxious tho so handle me with a bit of caution

Something about my availability, submissiveness and limits: I would like to call myself a total subby bitch boy who doesn't have 1% of Dom blood in him but unfortunately (I really hate this haha) I am a switch. I will never ask you to switch roles or anything and I hope that calms your nerves aaaa.... I'm just not that kind of person and my availability as a sub will definitely be not 100% because of that. I'm just not always mentally available so please don't blame me for that. Lets talk about this and maybe it works out and maybe it doesn't. I'm fine with something casual and short term but I won't jump in to something without having a bit of a chat first.

My limits: permanent marks, permanent damage, shaving, public (I have too many responsibilities), anything illegal, blackmailing and roll calls.

I hope you made it to the end of this message! Please say "hi" and hopefully we can have a fun chat! (I'll send a picture don't worry)

Much love!

Luke

Good afternoon everyone,

I’m a 22 year old from Australia, I’m very new to this community but have a very open mind and hear and am willing to explore and break through my hesitations. The one thing I know for without a doubt is that I’m a submissive through and through. I love being praise, having someone to control me, make decisions for me, take care of me and just distract me from everything else.

I’m looking for an 18+ domme, cis gendered female or non binary. Preferably softer but I’m very willing to explore a different dynamic with the right person. Would prefer to get to know you first before jumping into things, also open to couples! Willing to send/ receive photos to confirm when comfortable.

About me: I’m currently studying at university I love sports and being in the outdoors I love making crafts and also just keeping myself busy Quite good at following directions I’m 168cm, brown hair, hazel eyes, on the more chubbier side but I’m stil fairly fit. I’m not too fussy on looks, races and ages pretty open to anything.

Wanting to explore: Submissive Ageplay MDLG Brainwashing Wardrobe control Punishments (softer) Rule setting

Limits: 18+ Scat Serious harm

Also don’t worry if your kink isn’t listed as something i want to explore, im open to exploring a lot just let me know you are interested in. Also if one interest of mine breaks your limits don’t worry as i am not set on anything.

Hey all,

Made a few posts on this subreddit, perhaps you’ve seen them! To start, I’m 24 years old, about 5’6, average looking weight, with light brown skin. I’ve had an interest in older women and the gentle mommydom kink for a while at this point, but haven’t had the opportunity yet to experience it in person ;)

Regarding what I’m looking for, I’m seeking an older woman who shares a similar interest in this kink. I’m not exactly seeking sex right away, as I’ve been sexually inactive for over a year and would like to get tested beforehand. That being said, I would definitely be interested in that at a later point ;) I suppose I’m looking more for some casual fun with making out, cuddling, and perhaps make things a little spicier as well? (Kissing and sucking tits, mutual masturbation, etc.)

Please reach out if you find yourself having any interest in this! Been seeking an experience with an older woman for some time now, and if we hit it off in the chat, hopefully we can have a mutually beneficial experience ;) Please be 20+ in age if reaching out. I’ll also ask to trade SFW pics in our conversation to see if the attraction is mutual.

Young Sub Seeking Mommy Dom for Long-Term Dynamic

Hello,

I’m a 22-year-old male looking for a caring and strict Mommy Dom for a long-term dynamic. I’m particularly interested in connecting with someone who enjoys providing both guidance and discipline, with a nurturing side as well. I have some experience, but I’m always looking to learn and grow.

A bit about me: • Age: 22 • Height: 5’9” • Weight: 156 lbs • Background: I’m currently studying cybersecurity and working on balancing life between school and my interests. • Hobbies: I enjoy walking, staying active, and keeping up with my personal health goals. I also love both watching and playing soccer, and I enjoy deep conversations and learning about new things. • Location: online, looking to build a genuine connection, potentially leading to something in real life.

Kinks: Pegging, milking, degradation, praising, SPH, slight sissification, and SPH.Also open to trying CEl, cuckolding, and forced bi.

Looking for someone who is: • Patient and nurturing but firm when needed. • Preferably experienced, but not required—what’s most important is that you know what you want. • Enjoys taking control and setting boundaries. • Communicative and serious about developing a long-term relationship.

If this sounds like a good fit, feel free to send me a message so we can get to know each other better. I’m excited to explore where this dynamic could go!

Thanks for reading!

hi im chey :3 college student at UVA !

i have a tall (6'1), thin waist build with thick thighs and average ass. my hair is short, and i wear glasses. my size is 6.5" and 5" around,, tip color pink :3. im looking for a dom who will treat me like a good boy,, as long as ive done well to deserve it! im in to edging,, milking, cei,, breeding,, public, pain,, rubber bands,, cages,, but most importantly i want a dom who will help me explore sounding more... i take and have lots of pics/vids of myself,, that i desperately want my mommy to see and compliment me for... my dream is to be sat in my mommy's lap... my wet tip being teased while i suck mommy's titty., and head pats too. im also into bondage, ageplay, joi, breastfeeding, dress up (i have a maid outfit :D), chastity, orgasm control, body writing, and more.

i also have pics on my reddit profile and of my face on insta, just dm me for it :>>

Im 22 and from the UK, near Birmingham specifically. Like the title, I am Muslim, in my day to day I aspire to be a doting partner, one who adheres to his traditional duties, protecting and providing for his family. I dont intend to relinquish that. However, I would enjoy my future partner to be sexually dominant. Not necessarily looking for it to be a haraam relationship, but Id really like to meet someone with those interests to build towards something serious.

I am 5,6, South Asian, slim fit build with facial hair, I'll show my face and a clothed body pic once youve introduced ourselves, id also be expecting to see a face pic too, bonus points if sent in the intro lol

Hobbies: Family time, anime, movies, working out, gardening, cooking (sometimes)

Kinks: Bondage, body kissing, edging, orgasm control/denial, cnc, being groped, giving oral, dry humping, pegging/anal play, body worship, spit play, spanking, light impact play, choking, gentle femdom and more

Limits: forced bi, cuckolding, blood, knives, piss, scat, ballbusting, heavy pain

Contact me if you:

• Are Muslim (No pressure on hijab or anything just be Muslim), Reverts also welcome
• Live near Birmingham or willing to travel regularly
• Between the ages of 19 and 25 (I'll consider older)
• any height
• Any ethnicity, my family is diverse in ethnicity so dont worry about my parents being picky, they dont care lol
• You look after yourself physically
• Serious about a long term relationship

Hey there, I am a 27 year old by the metro airport. I am 5'7, 175 lbs

Me: https://imgur.com/a/uOBm3VS

I am open to anything. I'd like to chat and see where things go, as I like getting a vibe for a person. I would appreciate a pic of you as well.

I'm looking for a woman who is close enough to actually meet, height/weight proportionate, and mommy domme experience isn't necessary, would love to explore it with you. Unfortunately I am unable to host normally, but will be able to host in December, the 7th to the 14th I have a bit of experience being dommed, however I would love to explore my sub side more. I am into more gentle sided domming ofc, love praise, but am also into the more rough side of things, choking, light degradation, bondage, pegging, ect.

Hard limits are higher amounts of pain, water sports/scat, blood, age play.

So if you like what you see, send a message, I'd love to hear from you

Hi I'm 18m from Texas and am looking for a mommy dom or a Femdom that's more on the gentle side if you'd like to message me I'd be excited to meet you whoever you may be and I'm hoping to meet someone who cares about me as a person not just a random person to be around for a short time than ghost me

Sfw facts Hobbies:reading, jogging, nature, gaming, and swimming Nerdy interests: fallout, transformers, and Star Wars🥰 Height: I'm 5'2 or 5'3 Body type: I'm a little more on the chubbier side but I started jogging again to get back into shape Love language: for receiveing I love physical affection and words of affirmation and giving I like giving physical affection words of affirmation and gifts

Nsfw facts Kinks:pegging, bondage, blindfolding, and scratches/love bites Limits: anything related so bringing in another person

If you don't wanna message me on Reddit my insta is dusk_IHateBl and my snap is @mysticdusk

Can't wait for your message for whomever see this and thank you for reading this

Sincerely, Your new friend or more

I have some sort of experience and I am trying my best to do as good as I can. I need a partner not just a get off thing. I will try my best to fit your image and carry on with you as long as we can build an actual relationship! My kinks are quite few and my limits are not many. I would feel more comfortable discussing them in dms if you wanna reach out! But to have some indications..i am into chastity, denial, cbt, tasks, pegging, toys, edging and cuckold. My limits are gore, scat, more, extreme pain, feminization, death and all an all nothing illegal or too extreme! I hope I can hear from you!

Some things about me generally. I am an engineer currently working as Research and development engineer on a company that does electrical projects. I am fairly new to this but trying my best! I like animals nature, video games, walks and ofcccc cats! I am open to everything and I would like to consider myself open minded! I am really into attentive people with humor!

I am looking for a partner and someone I could talk to things besides our kink life. I don't mind it being most of it just not all of it. I enjoy intellectual conversation and I am looking for a domme that will be delightful and clever! I am into either too gentle or too rough domme and I would appreciate this to remain that way. Last but not least I seek for honesty and build some trust. Don't expect me to do anything without even knowing you a bit first!

In concussion I am looking to live my submissive side and evolve together with my other half hopefully. I need someone to be there not only for horny stuff but a partner for life!

Hi! Im ConnsumateSlut!

I am a 5'9" white average sized male, from denver, but im fine with online as well although we'd eventually would have to see each other if it got to that point

A little bit a bout me: i love music! I actually am going to school for it, oh i also love most if not all types if art! I think my personal favorite is Emil Melmoth, at the moment, movies and graphic novels are another passion of mine as well i oh i really like history as well as pop culture history!

Im a pretty soft boy whos looking for a dom or a mommy dom to guide me and give me affection who's loving, nurturing, but stern, a bit clingy wouldnt hurt either 😜 i dont care if youre not experienced at all, or just have some what i care about is your intention, communication and if youre serious, if youre not willing to have a full on relationship then please scram theres hundreds of subs willing to have one night stands pay money etc.

I can bring love, a caring demenor, an extremely sexy imagination, consolement, and understanding as well as communication to this relationship and i can reciprocate what im given very easily, i can help you with dom drop or other troubles and worries just like i know you can help me,

My kinks are: femdom, mommy dom, humiliation, degradation, pegging, teasing, breeding (me being bred), affection, crossdressing, slight feminization, exhibitionism, possesiveness

Theres others but i cant think of them,

Hard Limits are blood scat cbt cnc

Ty for reading if youre interested message me your favorite color and why we'd be a great fit!

Howdy! Howdy! to all of you wonderful people looking for connection and love here! I, Forward screamer, (A terrible username in retrospect) am a 23 year old man looking to develop a friendly connection that blossoms into a loving and mutual, monogamous romantic relationship with a gentle domme or mommy, that hopefully lasts a life time but before all of that I would love to know you as a person first and foremost!

About Me and My Hobbies

• As stated previously I am 23 years old, so about me physically I stand at 5’ 7.5’’ tall, weigh about 100lbs give or take, and yes I know I am a skinny boy. I have brown hair and eyes and just recently got it cut so it’s shorter then the pictures here.  https://imgur.com/a/8nncUej
• I'm a hobby writer and artist in my off time from work, though I also do things like shooting, martial arts, and paint miniatures! I also enjoy roleplaying in the context of SFW stuff, though I am no stranger to the other kind~
• I currently work in a veterinary hospital as one of their vet assistants. I do all sorts of things there but love what I do and am getting fantastic experiences I can take with me anywhere. I also have all sorts of wholesome stories there.
• I want to go back to college to become a certified vet technician and follow my eventual dream of maybe becoming a veterinarian and own my very own practice. And having my partner beside me would make that journey all the much better and easier!
• I have been spending the last few years sorting my life out and working on things so I am at least… not as lost as I usually am, I can take care of myself and do, keep my living space clean, and can cook my own food and do my own laundry. So I am not completely helpless in life!
• I have pets! And I take such wonderful care of them too. I currently have three dogs and one cat! Two I adopted from shelters, the other two came from my work. Ask me any questions about them! And here is what they look like! https://imgur.com/a/pC0N6CB
• I am Dyslexic and, on the spectrum, so sometimes I do struggle to decipher texts, this doesn’t mean that I don’t communicate, or apricate texts. I will admit however, I get a little lost reading large walls of text.
• I work out a lot, mostly because of work requires me to lift heavy things and sometimes wrestle with dogs or cats. I might be skinny, but I do have some strength in my body!
• I have a lot of scars from surgeries I needed to live in my life, so I am very self-conscious about my body, I won’t be sending anything of how I look ‘down there’ or of my chest until I feel comfortable with you.

What I'd enjoy doing with a partner

• Play video games together, (Yes I know this super common but come on a gamer boyfriend is fun right?) I wouldn’t mind streaming my game or finding games we could play together, just so long as its together. <3
• Engage in roleplay together! This is important to me so I usually look for it in a partner.
• Share music and listen to each other’s preferred genres. And maybe we could build a playlist.

Non-negotiable characteristics I’m looking for in a partner

• Loyal and loving
• Honesty and empathy
• Intelligent and funny.
• Is open to the idea of children, though I don’t mind being child free either.
• Plans for the future.

What my ideal partner would be (both physical and in terms of likes)

o   Age Range of 22-28 years old. The absolute highest I will go is 32, lowest I will go is 20.

o   I am fine with feminine dommes or Tomboys.

o   All bodies are beautiful! I do like both fit or chubby girls, because one could probably pick me up, and the other one has more to love! Also, I can’t say anything on weight because I’m anorexic.

o   Loves to play video games and is rather nerdy in her own rights.

o   A role player and writer! This would go a long way for me!

a.      You get some serious bonus points if you play D&D btw.

o   Is okay with a long-distance relationship at least to start. I will try my best to visit, so hopefully you do too.

 What I look for in a domme

o   Confidence in her role.

o   Nurturing and Gentle.

o   Sets rules and expectations for me to follow.

o   Strong preference towards mommy type dommes.

o   Willing to experiment and try new things.

o   Likes to be a mommy domme.

What I offer SFW

o   I offer communication, from texting every day to a willingness to get in voice chats or phone calls in the evenings. In some ways it is kind of clingy.

o   A whole heaping help of Loyalty and some serious love to give!

o   A talented artist who would love to draw you in his own style!

o   Empathetic and understanding, I might show it a little strange because I am on the spectrum. But I assure you I do care and I try to show it!

o   A wide variety of video games to play together, or I can stream you!

o   A pretty decent cook if you ever visit.

o   Romance, or at least this cowboys best attempts at it. Mostly in the form of online dates or if we really get there, gifts! But once your in person I tend to be very romantic in my dates, think the classic candles and flowers.

What I like/offer NSFW

o   I won't be listing kinks here, mostly because I don’t want to, but also because I believe their better discussed in dms.

o   I am a service sub, first and foremost. Be it cooking you food, cleaning the spaces around me, giving you a massage or doing tasks you assign to me.

o   I also carry this into the bedroom, often wanting my partner to feel as good as she can! Though I also love being spoiled as well :3.

Love language.
 

o   Quality Time 30%

o   Acts of Service 23%

o   Words of Affirmation 17%

o   Receiving Gifts 17%

o   Physical Touch 13%

I feel like this is a good place to end things off at, of course there is more going on behind the scenes and things I didn’t talk about here. If I happen to pique your interests, here is what you can do! Think of all of these as verification steps and introductions. Do atleast two by the way.

• A: Introduce yourself and provide some safe for work pictures, tell me your age, where you come from, and what you are most passionate about.
• B: Use the word Banna’s in your opining message to me!
• C: Use your best pick up line that you can think of.
• D: Tell me of your favorite video game if you play them!

Hi i am 5’10 140 pounds with a slim build. I would prefer to meet someone around my age for a long term arrangement and possibly even a relationship. I am looking for someone who is strict as well as caring. I can also be bratty sometimes so you will have to put me in my place so to speak. I am a switch that leans heavily toward submissive. My kinks are: feet, worship, forced submission, humiliation (not public), joi, and pegging. I am open to trying new things and being feminized as well. Please DM me if you are interested ☺️

Hello! My name is Drew. I’m pretty new to all this stuff and I really want to be a puppy for a mommy and maybe even a baby and just have a mommy to talk to. I’m looking for someone really nice and sweet but also can be dominant a lot and someone I can talk to. Sometimes I feel down or anxious because of mental things so I’m sorry about that. I also want a mommy who will push me to be better. What I can give you is obedience and love.

Some things about me is I’m from the western U.S., I love music, and I can be sometimes shy at first. Some puppy things I love are cuddling with lots of blankets and a stuffed animal and I like making puppy sounds too, im obedient, and I love pet names. I’m ok with a sexual or a non sexual relationship. If you do want sexual we can talk more about kinks and stuff and I prefer we have play times and you be more dominant and strict and when we aren’t sexual you be loving and caring. Please message me if you are interested. Thank you!

Hi there boys. My PM is open for prospective subs. My name is Alba but you may call me mistress/Madame. My main kinks are edging, joi, cei, cbt, bondage, anal training, throat training, cum control, humiliation, forced bi. I value obedience, competence and submissiveness.

Things you can never expect from me: exposure, blackmail, findom, scat, blood, anything breaking UK law.

I am looking for boys to use and instruct as my personal little pornstar. And potentially even a few subs to serve in a harem group chat, competing for my attention and favour. Open to 1:1 as well obviously! Service to me would involve me setting video tasks for you in specific settings, positions etc. Every one of my boys should have the same goal - to be able to take an object at least the size of his own dick both down his throat and in his back entrance. Obviously harder for some boys than others but that's fair in my eyes. Should you be taken on as a regular slave of mine, your cock, therefore orgasms will be mine. I will control them. I do require my boys to show face in such videos; Especially when practicing CBT and anal training I find it imperative to see my boys reactions and expressions to gauge how easy he's finding my tasks.

I do warn... I am picky with sub boys. I am into muscular/athletic body types, uncut and thick cocks, body hair and handsome faces. My ideal slave is a european rugby player/bodybuilder if that helps; big, bulky, hairy, manly. Bonus points for toy ownership. Showing face is a MUST and I have a big thing for thick uncut dicks. I love the idea of a huge, dominant looking man being a complete submissive!

Should you think yourself worthy of being my slave, PM me here on reddit with your asl, kinks, limits, and what experience you have as a sub. I also require an introduction photo of you: I love to see who's applying to be my sub and I will reciprocate.

Hello!

After a while of feeling content by myself I've found myself looking for companionship, and increasingly submissive leaning as well lmao. So to reddit I come, hoping to find my person.

About me:

As the title mentions I'm a fairly nerdy guy living in Arlington Virginia. Some of my hobbies include video games (either alone or over with friends), reading, movies/anime, MTG, DnD (been far too long), and do love board games but I'm not able to play them nearly enough. I love Tolkien and I am very passionate about it but in a good-natured way, along with star wars and just all things sci fi and fantasy. I am a metalhead when it comes to music though I can listen to almost anything, with Sabaton being my favorite band and I have been commonly referred to as a paladin. I work in tech (go figure), and I do have a college degree. I'm 5'10 and heavier than I want to be but think I wear it well, pic on profile, though you can't see the nice beard and shaved head. Trying to slowly cut down but I don't think I ever want to be truly skinny, so dad bod is def apt to describe me. I do not smoke anything and drink socially. DDF.

My Ideal Domme:

I am looking for someone nearby within the general metro range of the DMV. Ideal age range would be 22-30, though I am flexible on this to an extent. No exact requirements on body type, just be healthy or working towards it, though I will say I am more than fine with someone taller than I am, and I am more of a boobs guy. I am looking for a nerd like me, someone I can cuddle with and watch movies and shows, along with someone warm and kind. Play coop games together (BG3 maybe) and maybe ren faire dates. Someone I can just gush about whatever I'm playing and then listen to them gush about something along with lots and lots of cuddling. Please do not be a smoker and please be ddf.

My Femdom Preferences:

I want to preface and say I'm not looking for a dynamic outside of the bedroom, I want someone I can be a partner to and then have an amazing time in bed with. I know am for sure looking for a mommy dom/ gentle domme, someone more nurturing and sweet, maybe with the occasional harder domme tendencies to shake things up. My primary kinks as I know them now would be lingerie/stockings, boots, edging, joi, affection, praise, and anr/breast play. I do want to try pegging and face sitting but have no experience in either right now. This would be a monogamish at most, I have no interest in going truly poly and anything would have to be heavily discussed. For limits it would be the standard gambit of blood and bathroom stuff, along with choking and age regression included. While I was in one short lived relationship with a dynamic I am a newbie and I am interested in exploring more kinks.

Next steps:

If I have caught your interest at all, which I hope I have, shoot me a message! I will want to verify using a video call before anything nsfw happens or before we plan any physical dates.

Hope to be hearing from you!

I am 25 years old Active domme transgender living in Quezon City. looking for men who are into submission, masochism, findom and will do things I ask

I enjoy using bitches. I'm into Anal, fisting, spitting, pissing, making a bitch crawl like a dog, choking, fingering ass and throat, collar, cage, whipping, using toys to my bitch, sissy bitch, slapping, spanking, gagging etc... I prefer guys who have place coz I don't have a good place to do this, I prefer someone who will enjoy doing also things I will ask and make them do

I prefer safe sex and im okay meeting with beginners, just looking for guys who will meet me or will go to them if they're near my area. I'm only Active and no plans to be passive so i will block you right away if you ask if you can top me, which will never happen.

Just missing dominating men after a year of not meeeting anyone, hoping you will be a clean one and knows how to please your domme or willing to learn on how.

DM me and for me to reply, send your Nickname, Age, Location, Image link, things you can do and things you want to explore more

Hello there! I'm looking for someone local who wants a genuine, monogamous relationship (hopefully for life). I want to take some time to get to know and trust you before getting sexual. Emotional connection means a lot to me, and while I may be a little shy or awkward at first, I will be fully and completely yours if you give me a little patience and kindness. I am very open, and have no issue answering any questions or providing more specifics about almost anything.

So more about me: I'm a 5'11", 23 year old heterosexual white male with light brown hair, hazel eyes, and glasses. I live in the Northern Virginia area. I am introverted by nature, but if I'm comfortable with you I can be very energetic and playful. I am pretty in touch with my emotions, and I'm not ashamed of expressing myself, including crying if it happens. In a similar vein, I am very honest (sometimes blunt), and I detest lying. As such, I ask that you don't lie to me; you don't have to tell me things you're not comfortable with sharing, but just don't lie about it, tell me no instead.

For my SFW interests, I like keeping myself busy doing activities and playing games. I love hiking, games of lots of types (card, board, video, billiards, D&D, etc.), enjoying nature, watching anime, and more. I'm not a sports fan, but it's okay if you are. I also adore SFW physical contact; cuddling, hugs, hand holding, you name it. It makes me feel happy, safe, and wanted.

As for the more NSFW side of things, I will fully admit that my experience is limited. I have had a small amount of experience with sexual touching and oral, and I have a fairly large amount of textbook knowledge, but I've never actually had intercourse. I'm a soft submissive, and am uncertain if I can switch. As for my kinks, there is still a fair amount of experimenting that would need to eb done to figure everything out, but I am fully open to trying things. I do think I would prefer someone on the gentler side, but I don't mind trying rougher things. Here is a list of kinks I'm certain I enjoy:

• Praise
• Body worship
• Bondage
• Power exchange
• Collaring
• Encouragment
• Teasing
• Breath play
• Spit play

I'm uncertain about a few kinks, but I'm okay with trying them. Such kinks are pain play, CEI, pegging, water-sports, and humiliation. Hard limit kinks would be forced bi, CBT, scat and blood play, and severe pain.

Lastly, my partner preferences. I'm pretty open to most body types and appearances, but I do prefer people on the thinner side. The preferable age range would be between 22-30, but that's not a hard limit. Beyond that, I don't use recreational drugs, and I would prefer if you didn't either (drinking is fine, but I don't drink either). Please also be clean of STIs; I am tested and clean, a need the same. On a different vein, direct and honest communication will be needed and be the cornerstone of everything; if there is ever problem, please tell me so we can address it and keep it from festering.

As a disclaimer, I will ask for a couple SFW pictures to verify you are real, and I will send some myself as well. I also don't live alone at the moment, and there isn't too terribly much space at my place, so keep that in mind.

If you're interested, please reach out and provide your age, general locaton (not specific of you don't want to), and anything you think we match well with.

Hey there! I'm Nate, 23 from Canada and have always been into the mommy kink but have always been afraid to open up about it. I'd love to find a woman into the same thing to explore it with and make a strong connection with. Someone that I can feel like myself with and not judges at all.

I'm still exploring and I'm sure there is a lot I still don't know about what I am and am not into but for now some of the things I love are lots of intimacy, cuddling, kissing, holding each other and words of affection. Being spoiled with love and affection and spoiling my mommy as well. Breast play is also one of my favorites!

I have always just loved the mommy type personality. Someone that is very loving, caring and nurturing but can also be stern and controlling when she needs to be. I have been pretty lonely lately and really craving that kind of attention.

So a bit about me! I'm 23, brown hair, blue eyes and 6 feet tall. I'm skinny and pretty fit but not crazy toned muscles or anything like that. I love hockey and play twice a week and golf in the summer. I'm. A pc gamer but lately I haven't hat much time for games. I also work in the skilled trades and love to work with my hands! Me being pretty blue collar and athletic makes the opposite of who you would be a submissive guy that likes to be called a good boy and have my head scratched and rubbed by mommy which has made it hard for me to open up about it. I'd love to find a safe space where I can be myself to explore this. If your interested, throw me a message and let's get to know each other!l

Hello, as my title says I am 21 and living in Nottingham, I am 160cm and weigh around 50 kg with what I would say is an average build, shoulder length brown Curley hair and sort of greyish blue eyes, I can verify myself with a picture when we start talking. My hobbies include video games (right now I’m playing Elden ring, Pokemon, tears of the kingdom, overwatch and I’m slowly making my way through the yakuza series), watching television (more specifically reality competition shows), anime and manga my personal favourite being one piece, I like going around garden centres and antique shops and I do enjoy some gardening as well. I am not just looking for a purely sexual relationship, I am looking for someone to be able to talk to and do activities together with as well.

What I’m looking for is for you to live in England and preferably in or near Nottingham so we can meet up when we get comfortable enough with each other. In terms of age I’m looking for between 18 and 40 and I’m fine with any height/ weight or body type apart from anyone who is overweight (it’s fine if you are it’s just not my type).

In terms of kinks, I only have a little bit of online experience and no IRL experience, so I don’t have much practical experience in said kinks. However I do like in theory, mommy Dom, pet play (essentially all the plays), pegging, edging and orgasm control, bondage and a whole lot more we can discuss with each other. However I do have a few hard limits, them being: permanent damage, blood and anything toilet related.

Hi, I'm an Israeli femboy without any signs of femininity because I'm not in a safe environment that is looking for a loving mommy ❤️ My Kinks: Feet, bondage, Degradation, insults(including vulgar cusses), spitting, tickling, being treated like a pet, being treated like a baby, mommy kink, being treated like a slave, spanking, bastinado, teasing, being treated like a girl(including referring to me as "she"), nipple play, SPH 🤭🤭 My Limits: eating my own cum, toilet play, golden showers, findom(including any financial thing) 😬 Just a note: I'm still living with my family still so there might be limitations at certain times 😅 So feel free to dm me ☺️❤️

Hello Everyone.

I am 20 Male from Jaipur India. I am a college student currently pursuing my Bachelors in CS. I have been in this space for 2 years. Although I don't have any irl experience, served few Doms Online. I am really into total power exchange and FLR with some hard-core kinks.

TPE, cbt, orgasm control, tease and denial, humiliation and degradation, impact play, bondage, torture, sph, cei, joi, nipple play, pet play, chastity, body worship, and many more.

Limits:- Scat, gor, sissification, feminization.

If you read this far, feel free to dm me, I would love to chat with you. It would be good if you dm me with your kinks and what your are looking for.

Femdom alway seemed very intense and painful to me. The image of a latex wearing and whip wielding dominatrix didnt appeal to me. However, when I found out about gentle femdom, instantly wanted to learn more. The idea that I could be with someone that can dominate me in ways that leave me both blushing red and lightly bruised red is very appealing to me.

I find myself lost in a relationship at times so being with someone that is fulfilled by leading the way sounds amazing. The other aspect I would love is the amount of affection encouraged. While i love cuddling, I have felt embarrassed about. Wanting to be the little spoon, aiding your lap as a pillow, and just plain handholding. In this type of relationship I’d hope for things like that to be easier to ask for and receive.

As for kinks, I am open to a lot of things I wanna try. Too many to list, but in general I want to be tied up, manhandled, and firmly taught how best to please you. I would would to spend as much time as you want on my knees between your legs, or strapped down and used as you see fit. Pegging seems very hot and since I moan a lot, probably very rewarding for you.

As for my non kink side, I am a typical nerdy introvert. Around 5,11, shaggy black hair, and pale as white wall lol. Very much a homebody. I am loving the online school transition, especially since it means more time with my dog. Love video games, anime and the like. So spending time watching or playing together would be great. A bit shy socially but once I get comfortable you might need a gag to shut me up, which I’d also love.

If any of this seems interesting to you, I’d love to chat more. Thanks for reading.

Hey all, I’m Rome. I just turned 25, already feeling a little old lol. Looking for someone else who knows how to play around. Not looking for someone trying to exploit me, waste my time, pedal me for money.

Ask me about SFW stuff. I love art and movies and video games and so much more. I’d love to get to know you too. Keeping this really sweet would be amazing 🥰🤞🧡.

I am NOT looking for a mistress to bully and exploit me as a kink dispenser. I am looking for a gentle dom to tease and push me to be a good boy. If you know the difference we might bea match <3

It would be nice if we could both help each other decompress and play. I do love being a good boy and want a mutual relationship. Dirty talk is my biggest kink so looking forward to someone I can discuss this all with

I can be a little shy, but please message if you find this interesting. I’d love to answer your questions or just get to know you.

Please do not message me assuming to be my mommy. I want to become comfortable and build to that ;)

If you read to the end, include your favorite color in your first message. Thank you so much 😊

Kinks: dirty talk, teasing, mommy talk, gentle doms, incest, underwear, panties, CFNM, JOI, mutual masturbation, praise (both ways), oral (both ways), light humiliation

Limits: male gay, male anal, heavy BDSM, rape, pegging, scat, piss, furry, pain, etc…

Good Evening any potential relationship seekers!

I am seeing if anyone would be interested in getting to know each other over the next few months and then eventually start meeting up and actually starting a real relationship. I am not relocating in the near future so unless you want to after getting to know me, then it will need to be in this area.

Now onto about me. I am white, 6'3", fat/chubby (Working out everyday religiously), shortish dark blonde hair (gets curly when I grow it out), blue eyes, glasses. I am pretty nerdy and like video games, movies, TV, and card games (think pokemon, magic, etc).

I am really looking for someone to be nerdy with me and want to go out and play card games, maybe we play some video games and stay in, etc.

NSFW Kinks: Denial, chastity, free use, public (not visible using remote vibrators), light spanking, bondage, pet play, pussy/anal stretching, female led relationship, pegging, TPE, slave and a lot more.

If this interests you, send me a chat and lets figure it out from there though!

Hello I'm a 19 year old boy looking to meet and maybe cuddle with a mommy in Philadelphia PA US. I'm here for college so i will be around a lot. I would happily be a good boy and follow any orders given to me. I was hoping i could shoot my shot here.

I'm 5'11, around 230lbs, and bisexual. I'm not looking for one night stands or sugar mommies. I'm looking for a real person for a real connection that i can see cuddle and be around.

My ideal domme is 20-25, okay with me being a little excited at first, and willing to host or at least let me come hangout somewhere. Ideally you'd be okay with soft love stuff for awhile before getting into anything NSFW. Like cuddling hugs and just generally hanging out.

I am into pet names, and a dominant woman putting me in my place and punishment for misbehaving. I'm also into a domme telling what i can and cannot do.

As for the body of the person I'm looking for I don't particularly care about that. Have bust or don't it does not matter to me. The only thing i care about is that you aren't going to try and use me.

For those looking for an obedient, dumb, and childish boy to have around I am your guy. I love to rant about hyper fixations and try to show off my smarts although that really isn't necessary.

I'd prefer somebody in Philadelphia, preferably near Temple campus or center city but I am fine with someone anywhere in the city. My only thing is i would prefer to avoid the no mans land near Temple campus that area scares me.

I really do hope that this pans out and i at least can make a friend on here. Thank you so much for reading and have a wonderful day.

Hello so recently I've been missing the kinkier side of life so I decided to try my hand again at looking for a dom.

About me: So a little about me is I'm from Michigan, my current major in college is chemical engineering and I have a real passion for chemistry! I'm on the shorter side at about 5'6, I weigh 130 and I'm losing weight and I'm already down 70 pounds in the past 9 months! I have brown hair with light blue eyes, and I guess that's it for a physical description, but I definitely dont mind exchanging photos. In my free time I enjoy video games, specifically I love multiplayer games that I can play with friends.

What I'm Looking for: First and most importantly I'm looking for something long term and someone who is willing to have atleast a friendship outside of kink. That's the most important thing, besides that ideally you're under the age of 35 as well, but if you're both of those things I'd love to get to know you!

Kinks and Limits: I am into quite a few things including Cbt, ballbusting, humiliation, degradation, sph, cei, edging, anal, denial, hypnosis, as well as many more. I love trying new things as well so if it's something I've never done before I am more than willing to try it. My limits are scat, blood, puke, and anything illegal.

Toys: Just bought my first toys today! I now have a vibrating butt plug, a dildo, a chasity cage, a pinwheel and a fleshlight, I also have things like rubber bands, belts, basic household things.

Thank you for reading my post, if you have any questions at all, or honestly even if you're not interested and just wanna talk feel free to dm me!

Hello everyone! I'm Jake, a 34yo masc transman. I've had top surgery, a hysterectomy, and have been on hormones since 2012 so I have typical male body hair, a full (very red) beard, ad a masculine voice. I call my parts clit and pussy/cunt and am not comfortable using other options. Misgendering, feminization, and detransitioning are absolute hard limits.

Full disclosure: I have autism and I'm in therapy/on meds for depression and anxiety. I do struggle with not having enough "spoon" some days, so a CG who is patient with me and works with what I can offer is critical. I've found emojis super helpful to convey/understand tone and intent and use them a lot.

This is a long post, but really covers almost everything that folx need to know about me. <3

I'm looking for something long term that doesn't just revolve around sex/sexting. I'm demisexual so it may take some time for me to even be interested in engaging in sex with/for you - discussing kinks or whatever is different. I'm re-evaluating my kinks so please be open to exploring things that I might not like any more (ex. urethral/anal penetration, pee) but I'm DEF down to try new things. Vag penetration is a no-go. I am trying to figure out edging/ruining, so help with that would be great - or just long-term denial in general. I'm not masochistic, so pain play should fairly limited (ex. spanking ass/pussy as punishment should be fine).

I've tried "normal" bdsm relationships and they're too mean and make me feel bad. I need a Caregiver Dominant who wants to help me be good and celebrates with me when I am. I'm more of a middle than a little, but I definitely need someone to guide me and make sure I'm doing my chores and taking care of myself. I'd say my little/middle age ranges between 5 - 11, but I want CG dynamic all the time (so even when I'm not small). I like my CG to make sure that I'm healthy in as many ways as they would like. I like having to show I've had enough water by letting my CG watch (eventually) me pee and check its color. I'm open/interested to having to talk about my poop habits. I obviously need an adult make sure my temperature, weight, and body measurements are all healthy...and like any good boy, I know that temperatures should be taken either anally or urethrally (or both to make sure I did it right). I need a CG that helps me set realistic goals and encourages me to get things done. I definitely need someone who is patient and wants a middle who heavily relies on them for most things. I really want someone to whom I can give up most responsibility for regular decisions (ex. shower temperature, food, weight, water goals) and at-home activities (including time for exercising, chores, but also tv or relaxing time). I do have a stuffie (he's a fox named Kitsu) and I like doing coloring books sometimes. I need a CG that can emotionally tuck me in at night so I don't have scary dreams. I don't want to feel bad or sad or lonely, I want to be a good boy and make my CG proud.

Note: I'm not going to consider sending nsfw pics until we've established trust and built a connection. Pics and videos ARE going to happen, just not right away. Please don't ask: I'll send them when I'm ready. I actually LIKE having to show things for inspection so I can be told how good of a boy I am - and also because little boys don't always know what's best for them and they need a grown up to look and see. Face pics are going to be a much longer wait.

I like a lot of communication (I tend to be clingy once I like you) and definitly need more of an overall gentle dynamic, but certainly with the appropriate strictness that is part and parcel with a CG dynamic. I can't play at work (I can sometimes chat), but I can give basically the rest of my day to you (as long as you give me time to read or play my video games sometimes). I'm usually available in my late afternoon-night time (Pacific time) on days I work, and all day on my off days (usually Thursday/Friday) - if your awake/active times don't match this, please save us both the sadness of being a good match but not being able to match schedules.

I shave my armpits amd am in the process of getting permanent genital hair removal. I hate exercise but I want to lose weight and get stronger. I have a gym membership and low-impact activities are negotiable. I am also interested in strengthening my willpower/self-discipline but not sure how to approach that. My autism and depression will limit relinquishing food control, but that can still be monitored.

I know I do need to communicate regularly and frequently to feel connected with my CG. Looking for folx between 21-50yo, but 25-40 are preferred. I prefer cis women, but am open to the right trans*/NB/cis-male person as well. I prefer more smaller bodies (athletic,'dadbod', slim,x etc.) for my dominant (mostly only important for any potential in-person time), but open to more - it's really about the mental/emotional connection. I'm also open to monog or poly Dominants. I am not willing to relocate.

I would really like to find someone local (SoCal) to play with in person (eventually), but I'm definitely open to the right online relationship if our times of activity line up (GMT-8). If you actually read this far 1) I appreciate you more than you know, and 2) please let me know your favorite pizza topping(s) - replies without pizza toppings will be ignored.

If you made it this far, thanks for reading!!

Hi there,

I'm a rather shy boy looking for a soft and gentle dommy mommy. I'm looking for something that preferably will be longterm, both sfw and nsfw.

I want to give my love and attention to a caring and nurturing dom, that would take care of me. I would love if we can talk at first just so we both know we're not being catfished and just get along together you know.

For when it comes to kinks and such things, we will discuss that privately but just know I'm into gentle dom, not into chastity, pegging etc.. but I love giving out control of my edging, orgasms (ruin etc...) to my dom

If you feel interested, feel free to dm me