Hi everyone!

Firstly, I hope you're having a good day, and if not, I hope it wil get better soon!

Let me briefly introduce myself - although I'm perfectly fine with short-term play, ideally I'm looking for a long-term partner, and I believe, that if you're considering to become one, you'd like to know more about me beforehand.

I'm a 22 years old, shy, virgin boy from Europe, Poland. My body is a rather average build, not overweight, not skinny, not very muscular. To whom it may concern, my dick is also average. I'm a shy, introverted person, although fairly capable of going outside of my comfort zone in social situations. Also, as mentioned in the title, I'm a virgin.

My main intrests include, but are not limited to, astronomy, movies and tv shows/series (I like various genres, ranging from sci-fi and thrillers to comedies), gardening, woodworking, and many more. I love talking about people's hobbies and passions, and in many cases I'm more than willing to give them a try!

When it comes to kink related stuff, here's what you probably would like to know about me:

• My main kinks include: femdom, orgasm control, orgasm denial, chastity, edging, soft humiliation, toy play (chastity cages, lovense edge 2, lovense diamo, DG-Lab Coyote, buttplugs, fleshlights, etc), performing tasks, ass play, and many others. If you're not into some of them, it's perfectly fine - just let me know which are hard limits for you and which you're willing to try. If you're into some other kinks, please let me know - I'm more than open to trying new kinks, especially, if that will make you happy!
• My limits are: scat, blood, permanent or visible body modifications (e.g. writing on face is not okay, trimming pubic hair or writing on private parts is alright), exposing face
• I'm not fond of exposing myself - I'm perfectly fine with taking pictures or videos of perforing some tasks, showing that I'm locked in chastity, etc, as long, as the pictures are not too revealing. I won't show my face, unless we really click with eachother and something more serious spawns out of this.
• I have a couple of toys at my disposal, including a chastity cage, a steel buttplug, lovense edge 2 and a fleshlight. I like playing with toys, so there's a high chance, that If I don't have the kind of toy you'd like me to play with, I'd be happy getting one. I'm also willing to use household objects or anything creative, as long as it's hygenic and safe.

Toys:

• Lovense Edge 2
• Lovense Diamo
• DG-Lab Coyote (app-controlled e-stim device)
• CAG-INK PRO / Callmate 3 (App controlled chastity cage)
• Chastity cages (steel, silicone, plastic - cobra, HT v3, flat)
• Steel Buttplug
• Fleshlight
• Penis pump
• Shock collar

My timezone is GMT+2, which means, that I'm 6 hours ahead of New York (NY 2PM is my 8PM) and 9 hours ahead of Los Angeles (LA 2PM is my 11PM). Even though this might be an inconvenience, I believe that even if you're in LA, we'll be able to figure something out :D

I'm looking forward to meeting you soon! Both Reddit Messages and Reddit Chat are fine with me, if you prefer some other form of communication, I'm also fine with that :)

Looking for someone to play the role of my sweet and affectionate soft dom. I want us to go on cute dates and do cute activities together, while whispering dirty things and teasing each other throughout it. Going out to cute date spots like cafes, museums or the library. Of course, it won’t be entirely innocent and you’ll tease me. Maybe you’ll feel how hard my cock is through my clothes or when you're sitting on my lap. I’m super affectionate and I’ll act all embarrassed but judging from how my body reacts, you’ll know I’ll be super into it….

This will continue on throughout the date. My embarrassed and blushing face trying to hide how I turned on I truly am. When we get home, you’ll only continue to tease me further as I continue to squirm under your hands, begging you to let me release all of it. What will you do? I want you to control my body and use it to make yourself orgasm. I’ll play the role of your cute Asian boyfriend with an innocent face. But underneath it, I only want to serve my dom and do so many not-so-innocent things with you 😉

Maybe you can read a book or play games while I try to get your attention? Trying to tease you before leading you into the bedroom? Maybe I’ll try to sneak into you when you’re taking a shower. Maybe I’ll wake you up by going down on you with my warm, wet tongue.

I'm mostly active weekdays 6-7pm EST onwards (11pm-12am UTC/GMT onwards)~ If you think we'll vibe, don't hesitate to reach out 🙂

Hi everyone! I'm Ashley! I'm a 5'1 Irish girl who loves weak men. By this I mean short men, men with small dicks, men with erectile dysfunction, men who are very feminine, men who cum quicky.

I just find it so cute when men are pathetic and need a girl like me to take care of them and be their mommy. I also like to humiliate men for this a bit but out of love.

I also really would love to talk about my interests. I love music a lot. I mainly like charli xcx, chappell roan, sabrina carpenter and kanye west. I'm also a gamer. I'm pretty stereotypically girly tbh.

I do also really enjoy nature and nice views (who doesn't?)

If you fit my description please dm me!

I’ve got ADHD and it’s a gift and curse. I’m into includes Star Wars, gaming, gardening, fitness (workout buddy?) and plenty of other things. Currently I am editing a YouTube video and another one after this. That’s really my passion. Being able to help someone forget about the things they are going through.

I don’t want kids and One day I would like to have someone to actually care about me. I do not play any games, I’ll always be straight up with you no matter what.

• I love feet
• Want to be someone’s good boy
• Open and honest communication not matter. I’m very big on that. No matter how awkward, uncomfortable, weird, etc.
• I’m open to almost all fetishes
• I have never done anything like this before so I ask that you please bear with me because I’m still learning.
• Finally I believe that a lot of people think femdom stuff is only sexual but that couldn’t be farther from the truth. It’s a dynamic and feeling of security. At least that’s how I feel about it.

If you read this far, I sincerely thank you. There is a lot more about me but that is a quick run down.

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Hello! I’m a 27y male sub from the Midwest, whose name is being withheld for professional privacy reasons (: I am more than happy to tell in a private chat and verify though! I’m a taller, more masculine presenting guy with short facial hair, short strawberry blonde hair and green and/or hazel eyes bc they just are kinda both, I guess.

I work in a pediatric hospital atm with the goal to end up doing pediatric flight nursing, so like flying in a small plane or helicopter transporting critically injured or sick children to hospitals, flying into natural disasters to save people, etc. I love my job and my family is a big reason I went into healthcare originally.

As far as hobbies, I play/write music. I play piano, cello and viola, and before I moved back from Atlanta (which is where I was until recently, I had an engineering job down there that got boring so I moved back home), I was part of the Atlanta Master Chorale there as a countertenor, which means I can sing decently high. My voice is softer and higher pitched as it is haha, but I love it. I love to sing and honestly if I didn’t have crippling social anxiety, (it’s less when in groups such as a concert choir), I’d love to start a social media platform and post my music and vocals there. I also have photos of me on my profile if you’re interested in what I look like, and again am happy to be vetted and verify however you like! I just expect the same in return so we both know we’re not getting catfished lol. I also collect rocks and love being outdoors just as much as staying inside. From kayaking and skydiving to baking/cooking (my dad owned a restaurant in Cali before I was born, so he raised me well in the “learn how to cook” sense), there’s a lot I enjoy doing, but music is my passion and honestly my dream job.

What I’m looking for in a person is someone who is emotionally available for a long term relationship. I love softer dommes and I’m not much of a brat myself, so no disrespect but if you’re overly strict we won’t mesh well together! I’d want someone who is okay with helping me with routine and structure, as I have clinically diagnosed ADHD but I’m decently high functioning. I want someone who I can fall head over heels with, take them stargazing and fall asleep together with, just the super cute almost hallmark style relationship without the toxic/dramatic background. I’m a hopeless romantic and I LOVE doing the super cute picture perfect dates with my person, even out of the honeymoon phase. Let me take you dancing on a moonlit beach in our seventies until one of us trips on a rock and we both end up breaking our hips or smth. See? Romantic stuff. I’m looking for someone that accepts and encourages my little side, too, as well as myself as a whole. Someone who lets me love on them and support them just the same.

As far as possible dealbreakers go, I, due to past trauma, will not be and will never be okay with anything regarding pegging, anal, anything like that as a kink or in general. That is a non negotiable and if you need that from your partner, I’m not the one for you. I am Pagan and I lean more left politically. I also am not sure if I want kids, but I’m open to them in the future when my partner and I are established better (: If those are not an issue with you, I am a very open, accepting person and would love for you to reach out!

Kink wise, I’m into mdlb, petplay, bondage, praise (I’m a slut for praise I can’t help it, both in and out of the bedroom), teasing, humiliation, somno, shibari, watersports, facesitting and probably some more tbh >.<

Hard limits for me are what I stated above, as well as degradation, if you’re reading this far please leave an ambulance emoji in your message, sissification, permanent body alterations, knife play, wax play, etc.

I’m curious about chastity, never tried it and am indifferent if not leaning towards just not wanting to try it at all, but I’ll try most things once with a trusted person.

I just want someone genuine, someone who is emotionally available, and someone who I can get along with and where we make each other laugh.

I’m a sweetheart that thinks of himself as communicative, compassionate, empathetic and mildly funny at really inappropriate times. Ideally you would be between 22-30, able to be driven to in a day at least but optimally same state as I, willing to travel to each other equally, and are looking for a serious, monogamous relationship with someone. Please have your life somewhat together, as I have mine, and I ask that you have ambitions, dreams, goals etc that you want to follow or achieve someday! I am a very active person and enjoy those who think like me and don’t live a sedentary lifestyle! I am straight, so please no men. I hope to hear from you!!! (:

As you've probably guessed from the title of the post, I have a Mommy kink. I'm deeply attracted to women who are nurturing, kind, caring, gentle, and just a touch dominant. It's a truth that I've decided to no longer shy away from. I've made this post with the goal of finding a woman who wants to wholeheartedly embrace the Mommy role with a partner.

I know the Mommy kink can mean a lot of different things, but for me, it centers around being nurtured by an older woman in a very maternal, caring way, while I do what I can to make her feel good and show my submission to her guidance and leadership. As far as how we could engage in this dynamic, I have a few ideas.

• Breastfeeding/ANR: This is probably the top component of the Mommy Kink for me. To have my partner bring me to their breast and allow me to nurse on a regular basis is something I deeply desire. While it would be nice if my partner is actually lactating, the presence of milk is largely irrelevant. What matters more is my partner's attitude toward the act and how seriously she takes it. I'd love to find a partner who thinks about it as if she was actually lactating and needed to feed me. That is, she isn't shy about the fact that she's Mom breastfeeding her good boy, prioritizing this act because it allows her to regularly bond with her partner, to keep him close, to nourish and protect him. There's a lot more I could write about this, but this is the core idea for me.
• Physical Dominance: A theme you're probably noticing is the desire to submit and serve my partner in some way. This extends to the physical qualities of a partner as well. Ideally, I'd love to find someone bigger than me, someone who can easily use their body to gently remind me that Mommy is the alpha and that I need to submit to her. I'm 5"8 and on the skinnier side, so if you're tall and/medium height or short., you are exactly my type. As for how this physical dominance actually works, it's all about using your body to send a message. For example, imagine we've just come back from doing errands together, and you decide you're in the mood to be pleased, so you decide to lean into me, gently but firmly pinning me to the wall and making out and groping me. No words need to be said, your body and actions send a clear message, so I eagerly get to work, not stopping until you've said you've had enough.
• Oral Worship + body worship: I absolutely love making someone else feel good, specifically using my mouth. The idea of Mom casually tossing me into her crotch and wrapping her legs around me as I pleasure her is an absolute dream. And when done in a facesitting context? Even better. But my desire to worship extends to simpler contexts as well. Does Mom need a foot rub after a long day work? Great! I'll grab her a glass of wine and get to work. After a while does she decide that she need a back massage? Perfect. Knowing that what I'm doing is making her feel good and seeing how much she adores and appreciates me for it is.

I would like to find somthing long term and somthing that could lead to a relationship down the road. I'm mostly looking to start put gentle and eventually lead to more things. I'm a local to San Diego and I have lived here most of my life and I know my way around and I am able to drive and get around.

If this is what you are looking for let me know and we can exchange pictures and a number and meet somewhere.
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Hi hii, I’m here looking for a sub to connect with—one I can care for, nurture, and guide within a D/s dynamic.

There’s something about taking care of a sub who chooses to be taken care of, exploring that submissive side, and nurturing it in a way that makes them feel seen, loved, and cherished that I adore. It’s not just about being in control; it’s about creating that space where we can both thrive in this dynamic.

I enjoy daily conversations—tell me about your day, what you've been up to, what tasks you’ve accomplish, how you're feeling. Let Mommy tell you how proud she is of the little things, like getting out of bed, or handling the everyday tasks. It’s those small moments that I love celebrating. It doesn’t have to be just about the big, intense moments—it’s about connection, trust, and seeing you grow

I’m very open to kinks and NSFW. There’s no judgment with me, but I tend to keep that more intimate side for someone special—a good boy/girl who knows how to make their Mommy proud. It’s about creating something more exclusive and seeing just how far we can take it. ;)

I’m very open minded, so don’t be shy about sharing your kinks or interests—there’s no judgment here. I’m mostly just looking to chat, get to know someone, and be a caregiver to someone who wants that attention and care.

Whether it turns into something deeper or stays as a fun conversation, I’m just happy to connect and see what happens.

See you,

xx Leah

Hi everyone! I would love to find a Mommy to talk with on a regular basis. I love it when a mommy is sweet and loves to care give, but can be firm at the right time and is kinky and open minded. I am up for adoption if you want a loving, caring, thoughtful, and open minded boy who will cherish and respect you, always want to know how you are doing, and loves to learn about you.

Open to online, distance, and irl, but the closer the better so we can hopefully meet. I am in Central FL (Polk). I am open minded, kinky😏, and single. I am intelligent and can talk to you about nearly anything. I like action movies and comedy shows. I like rock and alternative music. I love good food, adventure, and traveling.

As a little I love to be embarrassed😳, put back into diapers or cute undies, and be cared for, and have kink involved such as ANR, pegging, CNC and so much more. (I am a naughty boy lol). I love cartoons, snuggling, and just relaxing as I have a stressful job. I am an introverted extrovert, super friendly, easy going, and open minded. I don't know what else to write, but I love questions :)

I do like to be a little boy more, but can easily switch to a daddy as well if you need him. A daddy role is natural for me due to my tall frame, so that's easy. I am tall, well proportioned- somewhere between average and gym bod, white, and have been told that I'm handsome 😉.

If you are reading this and think we might match up, I can't wait to meet you! ♥️

Please pm if you are interested! 😁 I have other platforms to talk on as well.

You must be 18+ to contact me

My name is Ayame, age 22, Black and about 5’7. I am a gentle domme who doesn't mind being a bit maternal and giving that emotional support especially if you're masc presenting but want to be babied and dominated behind the scenes. Id like someone who on the thinner/leaner side, is a physical touch type of person and is also very patient with me. Between the ages of 19-25, willing to drive to me if necessary (I am unable to drive myself due to health issues) As a domme Im very loving, cuddly and love holding hands, aftercare is very important to me and I will not entertain any form of "n0 limits" subs. Some of my kinks are orgasm denial, overstimulation and edging. A few hard of my hard nos are analingus, bodily fluids, the need for constant aggression, age play, any form of adult diaper. The only must have is being into leash and collar (privately nothing public). Id like to start off as friends first to learn and understand each other before jumping into anything.

If youre interested dm me with your age, location, limits and kinks Please respect my time as much as I respect yours. I wont tolerate non answers past 43hrs

(If you dm me please do not call me by a title or send nudes it's extremely rude and disrespectful you will be block straight up)

Hi! Thank you for stopping by my post. Im a 21 year old who has recently really kick up ny involvement and intrest in kink, and what ive found, is my fem side, and ive loved it. Ive recently gotten really into wearing panties and even bought myself some tights. Its really been an awakening for me.  [Photos are on profile, but please keep in mind they are nsfw]

Overall im pretty new to kink, and still exploring and eager to learn all about it. Im hoping to find a Domme whos intrested in taking the reins of the exploration and being in charge of it. I have recently started exploriny sexuality, and am open to a Dom man owning me too. Im looking for a sort of dynamic thats a freindship along side the dominantion. I find it so much more engaging when the dynamic functions outside of kink aswell. Think controling excersize routines, clothes, underwear, food, things like that.

Kinks I like currently are, vocal play, orgasm control, feminization, forced bi, pegging, sph, joi, cei.

Outside of kink, I love basketball and fallow the nba pretty closely. Im also big into board games and video games. Im currently in college working towards my Bachelor's in psychology.

Overall im in decent shape, and excersizing every day , would love for you to have a say in how I shape my body! Im 5'"7, and would have to say my best feature is my but. Or at least thats what reddits lead me to believe lol.

Thank you for reading through this and I hope to hear from you soon. God Bless :)

Alright, "✨forever✨ person" came off a bit more possessive than I thought but I'm rolling with it. Or rather, ✨we're✨ rolling with it since you've read this far.

Anywho, I've been on the dating apps for longer than I'd like to admit and have yet to find that special someone. I figure that it doesn't hurt to explore other avenues (posting on Reddit) to see who is out there and take a different approach (posting on my NSFW account and starting with kink compatibility(usually the last thing I talk about with people when I date)). Before that, I just want to note that I am ultimately looking for something in person, not something online/long-distance. Though, I am open to it in the short-term to mid-term. With that being said, I plan on staying near the Boston, Massachusetts area for the foreseeable future. If you reach out then I ask that you be open to relocating to Massachusetts at some point in the future.

Let's talk ✨kink✨! Alright, that was the last sparkle emoji, I swear. Kink is important to me but it isn't everything to me. I fall into the "mostly in the bedroom only" category and especially like to keep the D/s aspect there as well, unless it's being used playfully. Outside of kink, I view my partner as my equal and expect the same in return. I am a switch and I lean more submissive than not. So, naturally, I am looking for a switch who leans more dominant than not to complement that. Connection is far more important to me than ensuring that our laundry lists of kinks has sufficient overlap, but I'm happy to chat further about that in private if it's important to you!

Relationship-wise, I am ultimately looking to live the DINKWAD (Double Income No Kids With A Dog(or ten)) lifestyle. I don't want children of my own, but I plan on being the cool uncle to my friend's children. I am content/happy with my life as it is and am looking for someone who is in a similar spot. I value independence, trust, mutual respect, and, most importantly, silliness/goofiness/playfulness. I don't do well with excessive clinginess, though a small amount can be endearing. Despite that, I am monogamous and don't like to share. Sadly, my brain is not wired for anything ENM/poly.

Personality-wise I am not very serious at all. I am very playful and I love to laugh and make others laugh. I'm super affectionate when I get comfortable enough and I call everyone dude. Did the dude part belong in that sentence? No. Will I call you dude in weirder contexts? Yes. I'm a healthy balance between a homebody and someone who likes to do too much and regrets having no time left to be a homebody. I'm nerdy and like to describe myself as "a nerd who lifts weights". In levels of nerdiness, I'm a Star Wars nerd, not a Star Trek nerd. Not that I like Star Wars, I think it's bad. Don't even @ me. My main hobbies are weight lifting, hiking, video games, D&D, anime/manga, traveling, and spending time with my friends. I have a good career in tech and do my best to not bring corporate buzzwords home with me. Physically, I am 5'8", keep my hair buzzed, have brown eyes, and have a hairy dadbod with muscle underneath. I've been trying to get rid of the dadbod, or at least trim some fat away, but it has been a slow and inconsistent process. I have loads of very NSFW videos on my profile if you want to see what I look like. Look at your own discretion.

I am not sure what else to write. If you are interested and would like to chat then I'd love to hear a bit about you! It would also be super helpful if you let me know whereabouts you are from and if you read the part about relocating to Massachusetts in the long-term in your opening message. However, just to be transparent, it's unlikely that I'll send a face picture to you given what is on my profile. There are so many scammers and blackmailers out there that it's unhealthy to not have that sense of paranoia... That's not to say that I haven't sent them before, but if that is your minimum expectation then you're not going to have a good time. That being said, I don't expect a face picture from you either. I'm more than happy to go on a blind date and just have fun.

Hello,as my title mentioned I'm 33 and female to dive deeper I'm also pansexaul and looking for the right person to vibe with! I adore Anime and Disney and Sanrio hehe . Bunnies and Bats are my favorite animals for sure. I love things that are tie dye and the color purple or black the most hehe . I'm on the short side of things standing at 5'5 I'm a bit on the chubby side currently , I have medium length dark down hair and brown eyes . But I like to color my hair alot, it was just purple not to long ago . I also wear pink glasses.

I am a mother to kid and cat and so my life can get a little busy at times and need some one that can understand this. I'm a bit on the shy side of things but once I open up I love to talk hehe . I'm looking for someone hopefully around my age or older but it's not super important . Looking for someone that I can grow a bond with and learn and develop with.

I love to craft ! I use resin and clay the most. I also love coloring ,it very peaceful and relaxing I have like 8 books right now hehe . I have recently been getting Into collecting and making mini ver, I love the Harry potter potion one and the mini makeup. like to also play games on my tablet for fun here and there as well. Hazbin hotel, Bob burger and Black Clover are some shows I currently really enjoy .

As a middle I'm look for someone I can just honestly vibe with while watching shows . Someone for lots of snuggles and silly times . Being able to joke and play is important . If we share some interests that would be really nice but we don't have to be the same on everything. Because of my anxiety someone that's a more mellow and ground person is definitely what I need . Also definitely need someone patient and nunurturing that's very understanding. With my past and things I have gone through I can be bit clingy but also feel my emotions strongly . Another important thing to mention if your looking for mostly nsfw based stuff I'm not the middle for you . I want to share a bond that's deeper then just that stuff thought I don't mind having those moment thought thing's should not be focused on that .

Hello there Ladies, Dommes, Mommies, Mistresses and however you nice women would like to be referred to,

As stated i am a 30 year old german guy - blond, blue eyes with glasses and a trimmed beard, 69 kg distributed on 1.70 m height, a slim-fit physique and the brightest smile, mostly being called cute rather than cool or super-masculine. Im willing to send some pictures in private.
I consider myself a very rational but empathetic and easy-going person, very cheerful and mostly spreading positive energy to an extent that mutliple people told me i give them "Golden Retriever Vibes".
I have various areas of interest, starting from typical nerd hobbies like gaming, watching series/animes/movies, reading and learning about scientifical subjects or building Lego, over psychology, politics, philosophy and mythology till cooking or (amateur-)crafting. Also playing electric guitar and keeping myself fit - at the moment starting parcour and martial arts - i can be enthusiastic about many things and would consider myself having a good general knowledge and being a bit of a "jack of all trades". (God; this sounds so arrogant and conceited - i am actually quite humble, i swear!)
This is all fuelled by my never-ending curiosity, which is also true for the world of BDSM.
I would best define myself as a switcher and experimentalist. Given the nature of our social norms, I have of course had most of my experience as a dom and have been in the scene for a few years now, but for about two or three years now my submissive side has been pushing through more and more and demands attention. Please don't misunderstand - that doesn't mean that I approach it half-heartedly... on the contrary, I always give 100% to every role.
So far on my submissive side, through one real-life connection, short-term online contacts and a lot of self-research, the following kinks have emerged (and as much as i hate lists, here it comes in handy):
Tease and denial, orgasm control, joi, edging, some chastity, anal/pegging, bondage, a bit of crossdressing/sissification, facesitting with breath control, hypnosis and probably a few more. I´m not too much into pain, although i accept it as part of the dynamic. I´m quite an erotic chameleon, adapting to the style of the other person a lot as i love to please. If i can tell you are doing/letting me do something that turns you on a lot i will most likely start to like it as well. I just love attention, giving it and receiving lots of it just as much as a bit of praise here and there; i might come across a bit needy sometimes but you can always tell me when it gets too much. Complete honesty is a key trait for me. As i said - just imagine your Golden Retriever impatiently waiting for you at the front door when you left the house - i should mention im not really into pet play; Its just about the metaphore here.
My limits include the typical things like blood, feces, illegal stuff and so on but also depend on what kind of dynamic we have. TO ALL DOMMES WANTING MONEY - look somewhere else..like really - im not into FinDom and i wont pay a Tribute or One-Time-Fee or whatever you come up with as long as this is online...i dont mind inviting you for dinner though. I understand the reasons behind a lot of you demanding it but i can explain it very detailled why i personally will never pay you.
We can go into more detail in person. For me this is anyway the most important part as a connection always takes two and only then we can actually see our individual vibe.
I want to talk to another genuine human first and foremost and only after this you being a dominant is important. I prefer long term dynamics way more than short term, real life ones over online ones but i am open to all of it. Verification will be provided by me and i expect the same of you before we start playing.
In that sense i hope to get to know at least a few of you better - Let´s enjoy each others company and have a good time! And to all the others reading but not interested, i wish you all a great Christmas time :)

Hello! My name is Michael, I live on the West Coast of Oregon and I'm 19 years old.

I am a second year college student, just finished my first term.

My hobbies include playing video games, playing DnD (though I haven't played in forever), and watching YouTube.

As the title states, I am a kind, caring, loyal, and slightly clingy guy looking for my mommy dom girlfriend. I do have some requirements, though.

What do I mean by a 'mommy dom gf'? Basically someone who is motherly to their partner. Not really any dom going on, at least, as far as I can tell.

1. This one is a big one and non negotiable. I apologize for being blunt, but I love big tits, and I want my partner to have them.
2. Please be in the same state as me. We can talk about meeting up eventually, but I'm not gonna get on a plane to fly to somewhere I've never been before.
3. Don't be rude. I try to be a nice person, so I'd like for you to be nice as well.
4. I like clingy. This isn't necessarily a requirement, just a note. I like clingy. It shows me that you're interested in us.
5. I am looking for a girlfriend. Not a fuckbuddy, a girlfriend. I've been on a lot of dating apps, and have found multiple people looking for a fuckbuddy. That's not what I want.
6. Please at least like cuddles and physical affection. My love language is physical affection, so I will be hugging and kissing you a lot when we're together.
7. If I do or say something dumb, tell me. Don't ghost me. I've been ghosted so many times, and it sucks.
8. Looks: I don't have a preference on looks. As long as you're not objectively ugly, I'll be fine.
9. I have ADHD, so I can be a goofball at times. I'll always be able to make you laugh, though, as I can say or do some really dumb and funny things. Please appreciate my weirdness.
10. Your hobbies: Frankly, I don't care what you do. I am an introvert, but I am always willing to go out and do stuff with you.

I think that's it. Thank you for reading this, I know it was a long one. I hope to see your messages soon! Have a great day!

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I'm a 35-year old guy from the Netherlands, living in the Randstad area, just outside of The Hague. And to be honest, I'm pretty lonely! After a long period of trying to use dating apps without much in the way of success, I thought of where else I could try my luck and decided to take to Reddit.

There's honestly not much I ask for in a relationship - just good communication, kindness and shared hobbies/interests are enough for me. The last one can be difficult however, because I'm autistic, which results in... well, me not having many different interests, as I prefer to put all my time into a smaller amount rather than spreading myself thin. A big one recently has been kink - I found out I'm pretty submissive years ago, but have not yet been able to put this into practice in a relationship.

That being said, I do have some experience on a more casual level, and being autistic does come with its perks on this front - I consider myself much more devoted than most, and I'm also an extremely fast learner. Just explain something to me once and I'll most likely be able to remember it perfectly from then on. Despite the lack of experience I do already know I consider this quite important, so I am hoping to meet someone dominant or a switch. Feel free to ask for specific kinks, as I have quite a few - though bondage, domestic servitude and chastity are a couple.

Outside of kink, my interests primarily include gaming, anime, animals, nature and essentially anything related to Japan. I've been there five times and I'd recommend anyone else thinking about it to go as well, it's well worth the effort! If you consider yourself even the slightest bit nerdy/geeky or also have a love for Japan I think we'd be off to a great start already.

Appearance-wise I am Caucasian (born in the Netherlands), 183cm tall, with short black hair and brown eyes. I'm perfectly willing to send a picture of my face but I'd prefer to do that via DM/chat, so just ask for it if you want one.

I consider myself open to a lot (from something more casual to something serious), and would love to hear from anybody who thinks we have stuff in common and is similarly looking for something longterm. I'm looking to build up a strong connection with someone, chatting regularly and really getting to know each other extremely well, even occasionally doing things together, like playing a game or watching a movie.

I should mention I'd much prefer not to keep things exclusively online - I'd like to meet up irl eventually, so it would be nice if you live in the same country or at least elsewhere in Europe. If I meet someone super special I'd be open to making things work even across a longer distance though, so if you feel that we would match well but you live across the ocean, don't be shy and shoot me a message anyway! Tell me a little bit about yourself - how about telling me about a piece of media you recently really enjoyed, be it a game, show or movie?

I'd prefer to meet people around my own age, maybe 27-43. If you think we'd be a good match and you're just outside that range however feel free to send a message too!

PS: Ik spreek ook Nederlands, natuurlijk!

Is that too much to ask for? :(( Ahh, I’m afraid so.

Hello! I hope all of you had a nice week and have an even better weekend! With Holidays coming up, the need for intimacy hits new highs and the loneliness hits new lows. I really wish I had someone to talk to, through this.

About me, I am a 22 year old boy,6’2, currently in med school and I love getting to know new people. I’m looking for SFW conversations mostly, I would really love to get to know you, talk about your day, show you love and adoration, receive some from you as well.

On the NSFW side, I’m really into nursing, facesitting and some other stuff.

My interests include philosophy, psychology, mysticism, geopolitics.

I really hope I get to talk to some of you!

19M 6’2”, Slim, Athletic Build

I’m a sub who is looking for an online mommydom who would chat with me and give attention online. Not really interested in irl meetups. I also choose not to show my face online for personal reasons.

Definitely a little nerdy, i watch a lot of anime and read manga if youre into that. I love to workout and go to the gym, and I play a lot of sports

I love to please and am definitely a service sub, but i also really love to be pampered💙I am very new to the scene, and i’ve never had a real femdom interaction online, which is why I am seeking one out here.

I am open to almost anything, no hard limits that I know of, and am willing to try anything.

I’d love to have a dom I can text and please whenever she likes, however she likes. Most definitely willing to swap pictures if youre into that sort of thing as well.

I am pretty active on reddit, minimum once a day, usually later at night, but I do check it throughout the day.

If this matches you please dont hesitate to reach out! I’ll reply to everyone!

Hi there, and welcome to my post! Before I dive in, let me start with an important clarification: I am not looking for a Findom. This isn’t a judgment against those in the Findom community—it’s simply not a kink that aligns with my interests.

Now, onto the details about me!

About Vanilla Me Hi, I’m Jacob! I’m a 24-year-old service-oriented submissive originally from the U.S., though I’m currently stationed in Germany (yes, I’m in the military).

At my core, I’m a huge nerd and proud of it! Gaming is one of my biggest passions, whether it’s getting lost in story-driven adventures or embracing the thrill of competitive play. I’m equally captivated by technology, fantasy worlds, and sci-fi—anything that fuels my curiosity and imagination.

When I’m not immersed in gaming or geeking out, I work as a mechanic. There’s something deeply rewarding about working with my hands, solving puzzles, and bringing machines back to life. Outside of work and gaming, you’ll often find me unwinding with music or indulging in my love for anime. Whether it’s an epic, action-packed series or a soothing slice-of-life, anime holds a special place in my heart and is one of my favorite ways to relax.

About Kinky Me In the kink world, I identify as a submissive with a strong service-oriented nature. I thrive on being able to support, uplift, and care for others. Additionally, I have a soft spot for kitten dynamics, which I approach with thoughtfulness and respect. Consent and communication are always my top priorities in any dynamic I explore.

What I’m Looking For I’m searching for a TPE (Total Power Exchange) Domme who is open to building a genuine connection over time. I value my safety and trust, which is why I have a vetting process in place. I prefer not to rush into things, and I hope you’ll understand and appreciate this approach.

Here’s what I’m seeking:

Age range: 22–45 years old.

Experience: Someone who is experienced in the lifestyle and understands the importance of communication and mutual respect.

Poly-friendly: I am in a committed poly relationship with my partner, who fully supports and encourages my search for a Domme. She is a submissive-leaning switch and is happy to verify her comfort with my seeking someone else.

Structure and Consistency: I’m looking for someone who enjoys providing structure through rules, tasks, and rituals. These elements give me a sense of purpose and fulfillment in a dynamic.

Honesty and Communication: Please only message me if you are ready and willing to communicate openly. I don’t have the patience for games or emotional unavailability.

Affectionate Nature: Lastly, I’m a sucker for cuddles and would love to find someone who values warmth and closeness in a relationship.

If any of this resonates with you, I’d be delighted to hear from you! Thank you for taking the time to read my post, and I hope you have a beautiful day.

Hi there!! How are you going? I’m 31 year old male from Australia. I am looking for a domme to worship and please.

I’m not super experienced in BDSM but willing to learn. I’m very open minded and always keen to try anything at least once if I haven’t already. I’m 188cm, dad bod, regularly go to the gym.

I’m super into face sitting, JOI, praise, humiliation, degradation, orgasm control/denial, and I love eating pussy. I’d also like to explore pegging and see how things go. I’m a sub leaning switch. My preference would be being a sub but can be a dom to spice things up if need be.

My limits are permanent marks, blood, piss/scat, anything illegal.

I’d prefer something in person but happy to try out online and see how things go.

If any of this interests you, please feel free to DM me. See you sooooon

TIA. Ciao!!!

Hello! I am 26, have brownish hair, a beard and a pretty athletic body type. I am brand new to this world of being a sub so bear with me here. I am hoping to find someone who can help me explore this part of myself and maybe show me the ropes on how this should go.

Some of my hobbies are: Binging tv shows, cooking (I guarantee that I can make you some delicious meals that you have never heard of before), playing sports with friends, reading, going on long walks or hikes and also doing something relaxing like a puzzle. I am considered conventionally attractive but I understand that of course everyone has their preference.

My ideal partner would be: Nurturing with me but also very stern with what they want from me. I want someone to tell me what they want me to do but not doing in a rude or demeaning way. I want someone who has sort of a pillow princess mentality where they want to be taken care of and catered to and don’t feel the need to necessarily return the same favors if they don’t feel like it.

What an ideal partnership would look like: I’d love to treat you like a queen. I’d want to help you get ready for work in the morning, setup your shower, make you breakfast and do whatever else you need in order to start your day. I’d want to be on call throughout the day giving you whatever you needed while you are at work. When the day ends, I’d want to set up a bath for you to relax in when you came home and then I’d want to cook you dinner. Once it is time to go to sleep, I’d be willing to do whatever you are in the mood for in order to make you orgasm. Do you want me to eat you out? Fantastic. Want me to put a strap on and fuck you? Great. Want to have sex but only until you orgasm? I’m down. Or do you just need me to dance naked while you masturbate and watch me? Perfect. Whatever it is, I’d do anything in order for you to be completely satisfied by the time you go to sleep.

My kinks:

Cunnilingus Body worship Female orgasm Role playing Romantic sex Orgasm control Edging Mutual masturbation Chastity Face sitting Orgasm denial JOI Serving you

I have more too but those are the main kinks I could think of now. Hope my post has interested you! Thanks for reading!

I am a male pansexual 24-year-old college student studying computer engineering. My side job is a theatre actor, not sure I can even call it a job with how little it pays, but eh. But still, I love theatre, I also work on some humanitarian causes in the Middle East, and I love cleaning beaches. My hobbies are playing guitar and D&D. I happen to be known at my university as a communist even though I am a socialist. My time zone is GMT+3, so it would be easier if we had close timezones.

Currently I live in Kuwait, with my parents, so I don't own sex toys.

I am a switch though mostly looking to explore being a submissive. Kinks: pain slut, ballbusting, foot fetish, worship, blackmail, gagging, edging/joi, bondage, edge play, feminization. I've already tried some of the pain and ballbusting looking to try more things and see how it goes.

I am always willing to send videos and may be willing to give some of my social media logins, but I do actually have to make sure you aren't a scammer first. Also, thinking of getting into exposure.

Limits: scat, gore

My hight is: 185 cm My weight is: 78 kg

Hello everyone.

I'm Asian girl looking for obedient slave to serve me.

I have a kinks list : anal, chastity, public, humiliate, 24/7.

I just enjoy turn man be a slut, humiliate him, Ideally this guy should be attractive also masculine, Cause no one can imagine this guy is such a slut. I love that feeling, only I can know this man like this.

When u with me, you just a slave will follow all of my orders and rules, also very needy just want to serve me daily.

If you think you are that pathetic slave need a real mistress to control you, text me and introduce yourself properly. (better with pics)

A good slave should know he like a slave on ancient Roman market, stand up on there naked and waiting for a mistress come to buy you back to her house, abuse you don't even give you clothes. Slave's body type should be muscular or athletic, I want to buy a gladiator.

So introduce yourself well, I might buy you back, slave.

PS. I'm only looking for the vibe not looking for raceplay and I like good introduce, slave should know how to get his donima's attention!

Hello everyone reading this. As the title states, I am 30, male, and looking for someone to own/use me as the good sub I am. I live in south Texas but I am also fine with an online relationship. I do have some experience so I have some toys and panties if that is your thing :) as far as kinks, I'm pretty open to a lot of things and am still very much exploring more so I'll be open minded. I would say I'm more interested in a domme and sub relationship that isn't just sexual in nature, but one where we can have playful banter, talk about our days, and have a good time overall. My interests are sports, music concerts, shoes, and videogames. I'm willing to share pics and or video chat for verification as well! A little bit more about me... I'm 5'11, 200 lbs, hispanic, can speak english and spanish. I've had two online dommes in the past and both were amazing experiences and I miss the whole dynamic of it which is why I'm back after a few months of being without a domme. I can use several platforms as well and I'm in central time zone us for anyone wondering in online play. My hours are all over the place, but I usually have plenty of time to be your good subby! Feel free to send me a message and I'll be sure to reply 😊

The idea of having someone to take control while caring about me is just a dream. I would love to have someone to talk to, complain to and someone who was horny enough for me to always bring it up in conversation and sext me any opportunity they get.

You love to be in control, take charge of the moment. You know what you want and how to get it. Your pleasure and entertainment are the most important thing. You desire a boy to command, to own, to use, all for your enjoyment.

This boy stands 5'11 tall, has short brown hair, wears glasses, has broad shoulders and a body builder physique. He is 175 lbs, has a useful tongue and is eager to please.

His interests outside of kink include, working out/gym, rock climbing, tennis, soccer, video games, anime and other shows, trying new activities.

His kinks include, edging, joi, degradation, humiliation, being forced, anal, pegging, light cbt, spanking, and more.

His limits include: findom, watersports, sounding, blood, permanent marks, scat, and feminization

He would really like to explore more in person but starting something online is great as well.

If this boytoy is something you are interested in, please introduce yourself, i am sure he will be excited to meet you.

I am a 20 year old and virgin. You know I always had mommy issues , the problem which I had with my mother is that she never appreciated me but always judged , criticized , she never showed me that I am valued for my efforts , that the efforts I put in are worth a little kind words. She pitied me because I was being a naïve , dumb guy but never considered me as an adequate. Whatever hardwork I did she was always like that’s what everyone does.. and very dismissive.

Hence you know as an adult I want to have a mommydom. A gentle mommy who will appreciate me for my efforts everyday and be glad , who will appreciate me for my kind nature and care towards her. I know these are small small things but if I ever find a mommy even online who does this , it will help me gain some self-confidence in life on myself that I have lost. Right now , I just feel I have to fight for survival and that I am not a valuable human being like others that I am somewhat lower than them.

I don’t have much to give , money to pay , all I can assure in return for this is some love , kind appreciative words , if we are roleplaying online I can do the chores after work , massage you and relax. There is one thing I search in a mommy dom and that is her initiative of taking the  lead asking questions and its not just you while we are roleplaying just about sex and when we are alone in house , but also while going out to buy ice-cream , eating out in a restaurant , on a long drive etc.

A simple ideal scenario for me to rp about is this : You are a working woman , having a place of your own and a good degree. I on the other hand was someone struggling to find a job whilst being a student , we met on a dating app or in some café and liked each other, I did tell you about my problems and how I am running tight on budget , you agreed to take me in on one condition that I will do the part time job and study and look after your house and do some chores. I agreed and you helped find a small time job for a student and I am starting off.

The scene can take place with you coming home and I greeting you at evening you ask me how was my day and if I have done all that tasks and I tell you all the things I could do , some were done nicely some needed some improvement  and we could go on like that..

I want to listen to the sounds of a stormy night together as fall asleep in each others arms

I want to hear the smallest details of your day as we lay on the couch snuggled up.

I want the tight cage to feel like a badge of honor, knowing it's from you.

I want to take you on a scenic drive so we can roll the windows down and sing our favorite songs together.

I want to cook you dinner just to see the smile on your face as the aroma reaches your nose.

I want to feel warm and fuzzy when you say I've done a good job, made your life easier, or otherwise been a good boy.

I want us to look in one another's eyes and feel absolute trust and safety as you’re locking my cage.

I want to take you on cute dates. A round of minigolf, bowling, ice cream. Your choice.

I want our hearts to swell with pride when you say, "He's my submissive."

I want us to look at each other and feel like the luckiest people alive.

Who I am

I'm a 25-year-old Texas man who values commitment, openness, and honesty. The kinky side of me would include the following

I'm a submissive - This is deeper than just the bedroom. I want to please you in all areas of our relationship. I want to learn what makes you happy and implement it into our daily lives.

I'd describe myself as a partner pleaser - Earning words of praise from a partner, and knowing I've made her happy, is like music to my ears.

I'm happy to take initiative - Volunteer opinions and ideas, and undertake goals independently, if my partner so desires. I love being told what to do, but figuring out what to do myself is no problem. I believe a submissive who needs constant direction like a lost puppy is a liability rather than asset to their domme.

I'm service-oriented - Picture a massage after a long day, flowers on the countertop as you walk into the kitchen, or a detailed car wash. I just want to make her day brighter. I want to ease her burdens. Is that through cooking? Cleaning? Yard work? Running errands? Just tell me how I can serve!

On the vanilla side

I'm extremely driven - Especially when it comes to things and people that matter to me. Im a musician at heart so playing and writing are my natural forms of expression and I’m very committed to my art. I would enjoy singing a funny song while playing guitar just to bring a smile to your face. I’m also very driven in my career and always looking for ways to improve my value.

I'm slightly introverted - Most would describe me as quiet and shy but I have no problem being assertive when necessary. I prioritize few but close relationships over many casual ones. I can enjoy a night out just as much as a night in.

I’m very open minded - I have my opinions and I am very strong willed, but I will always hear out the other side and take these things into consideration.

My primary love language - This would be touch, I enjoy holding my partners hand, cuddling, and any other form of physical affection. Followed by words of affirmation. I love to tell my partner my true feelings and hear from them as well.

My hobbies - These include playing guitar, writing music, golfing, space observation using my telescope, working out, and researching whatever random topics grab my interest.

I love a new experience -I value partners who can expose me to new interests and experiences (and vice versa) while sharing common ones. I value a partner who isn’t afraid to put something weird or quirky out into the world. Most of the time I find that “weird” thing to be exactly what the world is missing.

Physically - I’m a 25M, about 5’10” tall, and 155lbs. I have an athletic build. Maybe more on the skinny side, but toned. Usually keep a full beard, but shave occasionally. I’ve been told I’m attractive and have a great smile. I will gladly show photos if you’d like to see.

How I plan to show value

Commitment - I will continuously strive to express my devotion to you. I'm excellent at putting together dates for quality time spent with you, verbally expressing my gratitude, and will never compromise our relationship.

Communication - I'm a quiet person, but vocal when it comes to my partner. I will never hesitate to express my feelings and thoughts.

Employment - I am a successful finance professional who is driven and motivated to work.

Health - I'm drug-free, STI-free, a non-smoker. I occasionally drink, but try to live cleanly. I also exercise regularly.

Housekeeping - I will gladly keep the house tidy. Especially in a maid outfit haha!

Always learning - I'm passionate about learning what makes my partner happy and strive to keep them satisfied.

Kinks & Limits

The primary thing I seek is connections with people whose personalities are compatible with mine. Kink and D/s dynamics are desirable but secondary.

These kinks are not requirements in the least! Every domme has their own style and emotional relationship with kink. I also believe every dynamic is unique. I'm more interested in whether a partner and I click.

Some of my kink interests - These include chastity, crossdressing / sissification, ass worship, humiliation, orgasm control, pegging, cuckolding, smelling / pheromones, bisexual encouragement, tease/denial, rewards and punishments.

Also a more unique kink of mine is a particular enjoyment from smelling my partners farts. It is by no means a deal breaker, but something about the intimacy of it is so satisfying to me. I’m also a big smells person.

As with feelings, none of my interests are must-haves. E.g., don't like humiliation? Cool, I can live without it.

I'm open to most kinks that aren't limits E.g., Bondage isn't on that list, but if my partner's into it? Perfect! Let's try it! I believe most activities (vanilla or kinky) are as enjoyable as the people you do them with.

My limits - Findom although I enjoy spoiling my partner, I want to be committed first, permanent damage, illegal activities, needles, & heavy ball busting. There may be more but that I haven’t come across but I’m open to hear all your interests.

What I seek

The real thing - A perfect scenario for me would be a long-term FLR/female-led relationship with a D/s component. Someone to be the most important person in my life. I'm most comfortable with monogamy, but would be open to the hotwife / cuckolding dynamic should it please my partner. However, knowing you only value me as a true partner is the key to my heart.

Location: Someone in Houston Texas area would be ideal. I'm open to starting online with someone farther away, with the goal of eventually meeting in person.

I’m looking forward to hearing from you. :)

I’ve been fantasizing a lot lately about learning how to ride a dildo. There is just something about it that turns me on. I have some butt plugs I’ve used a little bit, and I want to eventually expand to using my biggest one (it’s huge!) in addition to the dildo. I also have anal balls that I just got and am really excited for!

I’m fairly inexperienced anally, so I really do need to be taught.

I also want to learn how to deepthroat it as well.

I’m not inexperienced with Dom/sub though, as I’ve been an online sub for a few years and know how to conduct myself. I’m so submissive and love it so much! I want to be a slutty little whore for you :)

My kinks are the above, joi, edging, cum control, public, mom/son, and serving with other guys at the same time (like two or three of us on the same video call serving you).

My limits are pain, feet, bathroom, blood, tasting my own cum, and in person bi.

I’m 28, 5’10, 150. Single and live alone. I’m currently taking some time off from work, so I have a lot of free time! :)

I love video calls :)

I can definitely share some pics, and I really hope to hear from you!

This may start out a bit odd. So a little on what I seek. I seek a female friend who is dominant, compassionate, easy going but stern, who is seeking a male sub to both own and be friends with. Someone to chat about anything on their mind but also control. Someone I can lean on for advise as well as please. Someone to guide me through life as I struggle to balance my online and offline life and kinks.

A little on me, I am an open minded sub who has been sub for a long term but tend to go in and out of doing so. I would like that to end. I tend to function better when serving. Kinks—I am into orgasm control, chastity (have own cage), anal play, some self bondage. But open to try new things. Vanilla-love to read, watch tv and movies, hike, sports, write.

Some more on me-48, white, 5’11”, 250 lbs (so some help here would be nice), wears glasses, greying hair, smaller than average penis if that matters (why I lock up)

Been missing someone to connect with but yet will put up with my crazy offline life while being a part of it. Dm to discuss more

Hi I'm Jon. Profile pic is me on my motorcycle. I'm looking for a genuine relationship with a Dom/Mommy. I'm mixed race, average body, 5-7, tattoos, and financially stable. Located in Delaware Ohio. Please be close or able to travel.

🕺👯I'd like a mommy Dom for me and my Gf. We are poly and date separately or together but we are really interested in a possible triad with a mommy dom. She is very submissive and I'm a switch. I would really like to explore and embrace my submissive side along with MFF fun. I'd also like to cuck her a bit. 

🫂I'd describe myself as a submissive middle(age regress) but that also depends on my dom. I like talkative, caring, clingy Mommy's. Please be able to talk/text often and put genuine effort. I'm not interested in fin Dom. 

 🛐I'm the obedient type. I like to listen and please. So much so that I have few limits for the right partner. I like a Dom that can be soft and sweet but also rough and sadistic at times. Abuse me then hold and praise me type thing. 

⛓️KINKS- Ass worship, CNC, Nursing/Breastfeeding, Pegging, Degrading, praise, edging, hypnosis, pet play, feet, bdsm and more. I really love when a partner brings interesting kinks to the table. I have a big collection of bdsm toys.

🏍️HOBBIES- I am a motorcycle enthusiast and gamer. I'm currently enjoying Poe2. I also enjoy anime and horror. I would really like a mommy to ride my motorcycle with so big bonus if you're interested in that. I'd love to go on dates with my mommy and my sub gf together. 

💌Thank you if you read this long post. Please respond with a little summary of yourself so I can assume you read the post.

About Me: I am a 23 year old man currently located on the east coast (Florida). My interest include video games, a scifi nerd and a Sports fan specifically football most sundays you will find me enjoying a couple football games. I am also interested in computers (servers) and quite passionate about politics. I am currently still in school but i finish in the fall and will join the workforce in the IT sector. I am 6 foot 2 inches tall and 224 pounds. I am currently working on losing some weight, average body type.

My ideal domme: A Female (cis or trans) who is 18-34 years old, east coast pref, for body type im not super picky as long as you have an attractive face and are not obese. Hopefully you would have some of the same interest as me. I want someone sweet and kind. leaning towards being a gentledom Someone who will indulge me in my talking about random things in greater detail than is reasonable.

Kinks: pegging light feminization Amazon Position Face sitting

Limits: blood scat men cbt

I hope to be hearing from you soon.