/r/MakeFriendsOver30
For Redditors over 30 looking to make new friends their age.
/r/MakeFriendsOver30
who wants to chat a bit? play 20 questions? get deep, honest & real & get to know each other the only way two strangers can?! no shame, judgement or issues, just two people, talking, openly & bonding!
Hi there! Im looking to make a few new friends! Below is a little about me so you can figure out if we vibe or not!
● I've been a chef for almost 18 years now! I love making thai and italian food. Especially lasagna! ● I love anything horror. Im a fan of older horror but some of the newer stuff has been good too. ● I love all kinds of music except country. I'll share all my favs with you! ● I love to game. I have all the consoles and a pc. I play pretty much anything except sports. ● I've been reading a lot more lately. I love scifi, fantasy, books that tie into games, comics, manga.... ● I enjoy sending selfies and pics if what im doing or food i make.
If any of this resonates with you send me a chat! Id love to get to know you!
Hey there, kind of just what the title says. I’m your typical nerd who likes video games and tv shows, I’m a stand up comedian (semi professionally, up to career earnings of about £300 now 😂) and the other usual things that people like
I’m not looking to have those deep conversations about the cosmos or anything, just chat about our interests and what’s going on with our day and that kind of stuff
Speak soon, maybe :)
Hello there! I am taking new friend applications. Aquire with a chat message.
A little about me, I am married so platonic friendships please, I have 2 kids, I work nights so anyone from around the world can message me. I prefer you to send a chat to me vs comment on my posts. We can talk for tonight, short term or preferably long term.
My interest are:
Video games: racing game, shooters, sport games and what I call time killers
Movies/Tv: comedy, action, some drama, little horror and little documentaries. Love Adam Sandler movies.
Music: country, rock, some rap, just a bit of everything really. Fav country is 90s-00s and fav artist is imagine dragons
Other interests are Lego building, outdoors, traveling, cars, and aviation.
Hit me up if you think we’d click and see where it goes.
35F Looking for new friends! I just had a birthday and feel old and lonely!
Does anyone want to chat and get to know each other?
I like reading, watching trashy TV shows, some engaging ones as well, and true crime! Maybe we can find some other interests?
Some rules:
Be fun to talk to! Please know how to hold a conversation and be engaging.
I will talk to anyone, but a new lady friend to chat with would be the most fun! I legitimately dont have any friends anymore :(
To make sure you arent just clicking all the posts, tell me a cool birthday story or memory in the first message! And dont put just a one word message! I will not answer messages like that!
I am about to drive home, so I will try to answer when I can!
I have fallen out of touch with my friends and would like to find someone interested in chatting online and eventually meeting up to do something.
I’m a short guy at 5’5”. I like to stay active by running, cycling, and lifting weights.
I’d love to meet someone interested in hiking, camping, cycling, playing disc golf, or any combination of those.
Feel free to message me if you’re interested in chatting and getting to know one another.
Hi there! I'm a 37/M/US (PNW), married with 2 kids and multiple pets. I'm in search of some online buddies to chat with (Discord works best, but can work with Reddit if needed).
I've always struggled with Social Anxiety and my ADHD seems to amplify it, so I've always struggled making friends. However I've always had a better time making friends and chatting with folks online so here I am! Hopefully we can help each other get through the days with random topics and dumb humor, and have fun doing it! Side note: just looking for platonic friends, just have to throw that out there.
A bit about me...
If you're interested, send me a message! I'm sure there's ton I missed so feel free to ask me anything!
Hello, I’m looking to make friends and general conversation with new people, I work very antisocial hours so meeting people and having good conversations late at night seems impossible. I’m chilled with a good sense of humour. A few things into: I currently have 1 cat looking for more I have a few tattoos I adore music (probably the best thing to speak to me about) Food conversation Formula 1 Any form of motorsport Sim racing Xbox
Feel free to reach out, I go by Elliot btw. :)
I’m 38, Caucasian cis woman in MD, with a wife (TF/42) and three kids. I'm a liberal, atheist, and nerd who enjoys memes, audiobooks, physical books, and mobile games.
I'm an introvert with social anxiety, AuDHD, depression, and anxiety, I enjoy in hiking, photography, Twitch, and YouTube. I also run a nature TikTok and Instagram page.
I am looking for like-minded people in the US to chat with and help the day pass. Maybe build a deep friendship.
Please make a little effort in your PM.
I'm 29, SE Asian from the Midwest USA, looking for folks who share common interests: anime, fashion, reading, fitness, games, and memes! I'm super into Magic the gathering if anybody on here plays regularly. I would be down for more secure forms of chat later on as well! I would be down to trade selfies and whatnot as well if we click!
If you've got any similar interests please feel free to reach out! ☺️
Hey! I’m a 30-year-old guy in EST, looking to make some genuine connections with people who are willing to put in the effort to get to know someone. Life gets a bit tricky when you're self-employed, and while I love the freedom, it does make meeting new people harder, so here I am!
I’m really into gaming, mostly on PC, but I’ve also got a Switch. I play a wide variety of games, so odds are we’d have something in common. I’ve also got a dog as well, and I’d love to trade pet pictures! Earlier this year, I tried to learn drawing with pencil and paper, which was fun for a while, but I ended up losing inspiration and stopping. If you’re into art, maybe you could help me pick it back up!
I’m also trying to be better about taking time for myself, whether it’s working out, hobbies, or just slowing down and enjoying the little things. If you’re into gaming, chatting about life, or just vibing over shared interests, I’d love to hear from you. Shoot me a message if you’re looking for a friend who’s ready to actually invest in getting to know you! Please tell me about yourself if you decide to reach out. I won't respond to messages with no effort put into them.
Hey! 34M from the Midwest, just looking to see if we vibe. Whether we end up having deep talks or just make a new connection, I’m open to whatever comes our way. Even if we don’t have all the same interests, I’m curious to see what we can discover from each other.
I’m into video games, building things, and messing around with electronics—especially motors, though I’ll admit they can be a bit of a headache sometimes. I love being outdoors, but don’t be surprised if I’m also the type to binge-watch shows inside. Skateboarding and power sports are also big hobbies of mine, and when it comes to music, I’ve got a pretty diverse range—metal, 2000s emo, and a bit of hip hop/rap.
Let’s connect and see where it leads!
Hello everyone, I am a 37-year-old woman who loves life and likes making friends. Today I am here hoping to find a like-minded partner to meet the challenges and beauty of life together. I believe that an optimistic and positive attitude is one of the most important qualities in life. No matter what difficulties I encounter, I hope to have a like-minded person to work hand in hand with me through every ups and downs. I like to explore the possibilities of life, pursue progress and growth, and I hope my partner can face life with the same attitude.
Hi! Do you like Dinosaur Jr.? A friend is sick and can’t make the show with me this Friday 12/06 in Los Angeles. Want to go? I have an extra ticket, my treat. 🦕
Work is winding down for Christmas, how are you spending your day?
Hello my name is Bennett. I am from North Carolina. I am a high school teacher in my 14th year.
I am 35 and love to cook, bake and hike. I am married with a toddler but would love to chat! Toddler is recovering from a cold and had a fever yesterday so he can't go to daycare.
I love making pizza and baking fresh bread. Looking forward to holiday baking!
Hi friends! Have you ever wanted someone to hype you up over the smallest things? Well look no further! Ghibli films, Inuyasha, JRPGs, cosplay, travel, cats, spicy food, etc. all identify me! I don’t judge in any capacity! So let’s vibe! :)
Hey all! I'm a 35 year old guy living in the Orlando, FL area,, looking for some fellow car enthusiasts to go to shows and help fix each other's projects (read: this car shouldn't be on the road)
Anyway, I am married and my wife loves to go to the junkyard. Seriously, she does. We also have a classic Mercedes we are slowly trying to restore. We do frequent a lot of shows when weather permits.
I don't discriminate against anybody, even if you're not well versed on things, I'm here to make friends. So, if this sounds at all in your lane, send a message!
I am a 33 year old guy from the US but currently living in Western Europe looking for a chill and kind platonic friend with similar interests. I'd like to meet someone who is also looking for a friend to chat with long term if it works out. I am married so just looking for friends.
I am definitely on the more artsy creative side of things. I play a few instruments and I really enjoy painting and doing random digital art projects. I listen to a lot of music and I love finding new obscure and international stuff.
I am not too serious most of the time and love telling stupid jokes. I am a big fan of Tim and Eric and other weird surreal comedy. I also like podcasts like MBMBAM and Hollywood handbook. I enjoy youtube documentaries about internet mysteries,true crime,paranormal,occult stuff. I also enjoy of analog horror.
I really love learning and studying languages. I only speak English but I can read and understand several different languages, especially Germanic and Romance based.
I like people who are open and accepting and I am always willing to listen to others.
Send me a chat request! Looking forward to meeting ya!
Hey everyone,
I’m reaching out because I’ve been feeling pretty lonely lately and realized I’ve never really had strong, lasting friendships over the past 15 years. I’d love to change that.
I’m looking for people living in EU (Germany or the Netherlands preferred, I live in NRW) who’d like to hang out in person every now and then. I’m open to online chats too, but meeting up and sharing experiences in real life is important to me.
A bit about me:
My name is Matteo and I'm 35M.
I speak Italian, German, and English.
I’m passionate about video games (Final Fantasy X, Resident Evil, Silent Hill, The Last of Us, Dragon Age, Horizon... just some of my favorite series), 3D art, and horror movies/series (Buffy FTW)/novels (Stephen King is..well... king)
Music wise I listen to pretty much any genre, I do enjoy low-fi a lot lately when I'm feeling down or just in the background while working. My all time faves are MJ and Queen.
I love modding games, creating characters in detailed editors, and spend an unreasonable amount of time in photo modes taking screenshots of my creations.
I enjoy going to thermal baths and saunas every now and then and love the idea of weekend trips by car to explore new towns and areas that are easy to reach.
I’m usually very direct and always say what I think, whether it’s good or bad.
I often have spare time during the day (EU time), so I’m pretty available for regular chats.
While I’ve started talking to people online, I often feel there’s a lack of genuine interest after the first few conversations. I know I can be picky, but I’m not looking for superficial connections.
What I’d like:
Regular texting and meaningful conversations.
Occasional calls on Discord to connect better.
Gaming together would be awesome, but it’s not mandatory—if you enjoy talking about games or sharing thoughts, that’s perfect too.
Meeting in person, traveling together, and just building a friendship based on trust and mutual respect.
Collecting good memories, keeping each other company, and staying in touch daily or as often as possible, without feeling like it's a chore / forced.
For me, it’s quality over quantity. I want to build something meaningful over time with someone who’s also looking for more than just a casual chat or fleeting interaction. I have been ghosted by people I called friends more than once in the past and it made me feel very miserable.
I would prefer someone that lives somewhat close to me (+- 3 hrs away), but people oversea may also be welcome, provided they're okay with having most of the interactions take place during EU day/evening time).
If this resonates with you, feel free to reach out—I’d really love to hear from you.
Looking for folk to chat nonsense with and save me from the mundane. Looking to get to know people, friends first.
People around my age or older as I tend to get on with better.
But about me, love sports, Football and Golf mostly. Keen interest in film, bit of gaming. Getting too old for being out every weekend 😂
Give me a shout with a bit about yourself.
Let’s make meaningful friendship :)
Hey I am Kamil
I am a 33-year-old guy looking for someone to have a chat with I am tall and so I learning how to make shots in basketball.
I am from Poland, so I can tell you how to make pierogies that foreigners love :) Also I can teach you how to drink vodka the right way 😀. I love cooking, baking, and everything around it. 🎂🍰🍥
Also, my interests are bodybuilding and calisthenics. 🤸 I want to learn muscle up and planche.
I listen to rock and 80s music and am mostly an old soul.
Text me if you want have a good time with a Slav Friends
Hi there,
I live on Long Island in NY and would like to connect with some other people, ideally who live in the New York City or Long Island area, but that’s definitely not a necessity.
I’m 36 and happily married, but unfortunately because I work from home I don’t get many opportunities to meet new people. I’ll list some things about me below, feel free to message me if you’d like to talk!
Hello all, hope everyone is having a good start to the week. Had a pretty busy first day back after the holiday, and now just staying up a little bit later to wind down. Drink and all. I feel like a good time to hop on here and meet some new friends.
I'm pretty much open to all sorts of conversation, be it something more on the deep and intellectual side, just chit-chatting about our day, or just witty banter. Doesn't matter who you are or where you're from.
In terms of my interests, I like sci-fi, fantasy, and or, and all their forms. Also listen to quite a few podcasts on a lot of different subjects, definitely always looking for more if you have suggestions. Also listen to all sorts of music and occasionally try to play an instrument. And even though it's getting colder out, I still like being outdoors. Feel free to drop me a line and weekend chat about whatever is on our minds.
Need a starter?: What's a New Year's resolution from the past that you actually followed through with?
I've been cultivating my feels lately coming back to myself. :) I'm an artist of way too much crap. Lol. Things look like obvious pieces of things so I collect stuff and it fits together into stuff. I make little critters out of clay and bake them, give them names and paint em. I play guitar and I sing. Some piano too. I write surreal short stories. I only have one done but there's more i want to fit into. I have way too many ideas than years to my life. Balance. I got slurped up into a huge project that consumed me for way too long. I'm the art that needs my time the most.
I'm not so much a gamer but I have a gaming laptop that's pretty sweet. I havnt seen many movies lately I actually like. Don't Look Up on Netflix is the last one I was the entire movie for.
Dm open.
Every couple of months I find myself home alone while my wife is visiting family or something. This time it’s for two weeks and I’m ready to burn hours. Work kills a decent amount of time (and my will to live) but there is time between zoom meetings that I’d like to fill. Also the large majority of my day.
I’m a fat dude,Mexican born in the US. Fuck Trump, but to be fair fuck Kamala too, I voted 3rd party. I’m an easy laugh. I got no kids, lost my dogs earlier this year and still cant bring myself or my wife to get new pets. My favorite way to waste time is of course video games. Playing a lot of Baldur’s Gate 3 on my PS5. Other time wasting classics include ordering a bunch of shitty food, taking an edible and watching cooking shows while I judge good food people made. I try not to take things too seriously, hopefully that isn’t a put off
Hot takes to start conversations. 1.I hate the Beatles and most Led Zeppelin songs. 2. While good, most A24 movies are overrated and underwritten. 3.Most sports are boring except soccer and hockey. 4.I don’t trust people that don’t drink (excluding folks in recovery).
Bonus points if you’re in the PNW of the US. This is for silly fun times, and if we can silly fun time near Seattle even better.
Hi! I'm a happily married author & software developer working from home, looking for friends to chat with throughout the day. Would love to share daily progress, swap book recommendations, and keep each other company during those long quiet hours.
I'm that person who's always either writing, playing with my dogs, or thinking about writing while playing with my dogs. Into gaming (Switch, Mac, PC; heavy emphasis on 4x), and always up for deep conversations about creativity and life. As an HSP (Highly Sensitive Person), I value authentic connections over small talk.
Love talking about:
Looking for friends from all walks of life who understand the work-from-home grind and want to share the journey. I'm LGBTQ+ friendly and love learning from people with diverse perspectives and experiences.
Not looking for:
Just want genuine friends to chat with through the day, share creative energy, and maybe keep each other accountable for our goals. Drop me a line if you'd like to connect!
If my post resonates with you and you’d like to get to know me, feel free to reach out!
I’m 30 years old, from the EU, and firmly established in life. However, due to my work schedule, I don’t have as much time for friends as I’d like, which is probably why I’m single.
I’m very open-minded and talkative, and I’d love to get to know you and learn everything about you.
I have several hobbies and enjoy traveling a lot. I play videogames and started making musik (i m still bad)
Looking forward to hearing from you. See you soon!
Feel free to dm me or comment:)
Hello there! So, I'm a 35-year-old woman. I work online from home and live in a rural area about a 5-mile drive from the nearest town, and there are no neighbors for about a mile in any direction. Being so remotely situated, it can feel kind of isolating at times.
A brief synopsis of my life: I have one adopted daughter who is 10. A very close friend of mine passed away 6 years ago leaving a daughter behind who was 4 at the time. I had known her daughter since she was born and had developed a bond with her at that point, and the thought of her having to go into foster care absolutely broke my heart, so I decided to legally adopt her. Her and I have a very special bond and she's the light of my life! 😊😊
Please include your age, gender, and location when you initially message me in chat just so I have a rough idea of who I'm talking to. And please, no creepy/pervy people; you will just be blocked as soon as I find out what your true intentions are.
I look forward to making a new friend! 😃