/r/MakeFriendsOver30

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For Redditors over 30 looking to make new friends their age.

/r/MakeFriendsOver30

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31F - Bored outta ma gourd

Currently watching Criminal Minds - season 2, episode 20 in case you were wondering. Do you happen to have a similar taste in television? If so we may just get along. I mean, if you have a pesky situation to deal with, I know someone with a shovel I can borrow. šŸ˜‚ I don't own one myself as I live in a shitty apartment with no yard, so no need for one. But I digress.

I've got an out-there personality and sense of humor. Not a "one size fits all" kinda gal. šŸ˜† So if you're easily offended, you may wanna just keep on scrollin.

šŸ™ƒ So, what's up?

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2024/05/19
07:03 UTC

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[35/M] from Sweden. Social nerdy dude looking for people

Hey, 35 years old dude from Sweden here. I am looking for people to talk with on discord or snapchat. We could talk about anything. I do prefer voice calls over texting forever.

Would also be fun to find someone to play video games with on pc. I like all kinds of games and love trying new ones so just suggest a game and i probably ready to play it.

I live a few miles north of Gothenburg and would really like to find people to hang with in real life. Some of my hobbies are wakeboarding, dnd, mtg, padel, discgolf or just grabbing a beer. I just like to do stuff.

Send me a message if anything above peaks your interest!

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2024/05/19
04:50 UTC

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36/F/MI weird tattooed alt metal girl looking for a new friend

Hi there, thanks for checking me out!

A little about me:

ā€¢ Iā€™m a married stay at home mom (I usually have a lot of time to chat) of 2 kids, 5 and 10.

ā€¢ I have 4 pets - 2 cats, 1 dog, and 1 hamster.

ā€¢ I have a lot of tattoos.

ā€¢ I love RPG video games like Skyrim, Fallout 4, Stardew Valley, The Witcher 3, The Sims. I have a PS5, Switch, and PC.

ā€¢ I love all music but I mostly listen to rock, metal, and grunge music.

ā€¢ My favorite show is Family Guy and I love to watch any and all Gordon Ramsay reality shows like Kitchen Nightmares, Hellā€™s Kitchen, and Masterchef.

ā€¢ I love to crochet and I love my houseplants.

ā€¢ I like to talk about pretty much anything. I have a dark sense of humor and love memes and joking around.

ā€¢ I would prefer youā€™re also a parent so we have something in common from the start.

ā€¢ Iā€™m seeking a platonic friendship, no flirting or vulgar/intimate photos please.

ā€¢ Mental health advocate.

Am I someone you can relate to?

Ice breaker question: when you were a kid, what did you want to be when you grew up?

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2024/05/19
04:19 UTC

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33M Looking for someone who is also into obscure music and likes to discover new stuff to listen to.

I love music and it would be awesome to find a fellow music buddy to chat with. I like all kinds of weird foreign stuff and avant-garde music. If you are into that sort of thing send me a chat or message with some of your recent finds!

Right now I have been listening to a lot of Japanese Art pop like A Dip in the Pool,Ippu Do, and Mishio Ogawa.33M Looking for someone who is also into obscure music and likes to discover new stuff to listen to.

I love music and it would be awesome to find a fellow music buddy to chat with. I like all kinds of weird foreign stuff and avant-garde music. If you are into that sort of thing send me a chat or message with some of your recent finds!

Right now I have been listening to a lot of experimental Japanese pop like A Dip in the Pool,Ippu Do, and Mishio Ogawa. I like tons of stuff though.

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2024/05/19
04:12 UTC

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35 male dad

I work long/late hours at work. It makes it hard to talk to anyone or make friends. I like the Yankees and Texans. I like to watch Star Wars, the office, comedy, wwe, good mythical morning and documentaries. Use to work at Disney.

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2024/05/19
03:18 UTC

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35M - Just looking for some company for the evening

Hey everyone! Just having some drinks watching TV. Would love to have some company! Down to chat about whatever: tell me your problems, vent about your week, tell me your accomplishments, letā€™s talk about sports or tv or movies! Letā€™s discuss controversial topics or crazy conspiracy theories! Letā€™s play a drinking game!

Whatever you want to do, just pull up a chair, crack a beer or pour a drink, and letā€™s chat!

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2024/05/19
02:59 UTC

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35F.Happy weekend! Is there anyone to chat with?

Hey reddit users, feel free to send me a DM to start chatting. I don't mind if you share some Today's fun to make the time go by faster. Of course, let me know your age when you send it, so I know you're not underage...

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2024/05/19
02:52 UTC

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33M - Looking for some cool people

It's been a slow day, so l'm looking for some good people to get to know. I live on the east coast, but have lived in different parts of the country. I enjoy being active, lifting, running, and swimming. I'm currently between semester in my masters program, so l have a lot of spare time.

When I'm not at work or working on school I like to go camping, take my dog to the beach, kayak, or practice my shooting or archery.

Let's talk!

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2024/05/19
02:35 UTC

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33m, looking for nerdy friends and people to chat with

Laying around watching TV, feels like a good time to chat with random friends I don't know yet. General interests include anime/manga, games (card, board, video), reading, binging tv shows.

I'm trying to add new books/manga to my reading list, so come round and tell me about some of your favorites. Could also use a good show to binge watch too, mostly been doing the old rewatch on a few favorites.

We can talk about just about anything that's on your mind otherwise. If you just want someone to talk to, drop me a random question or answer mine as an ice breaker:

If you could have a sixth sense, what would it do or how would you use it?

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2024/05/19
02:29 UTC

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40 (F4R) Who wants to Wine and Whine down? Just looking for casual convo.

Like the title just kind of looking for chat buddies. Hobbies include animals, crochet, sci fi, fantasy. I'm a bit business drunk so tell me how your Saturday is going.

Not looking for the meaning of life here... Unless you have ideas.

Thanks for stoping.

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2024/05/19
02:21 UTC

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Exploring the World of Books and Beyond šŸ“šāœØ

Hello! I am , an avid reader and explorer of all things literary. Whether it's the latest bestseller, a hidden indie gem, or intriguing cultural stories, I love diving deep into the pages. I'm looking to connect with fellow book enthusiasts who'd enjoy swapping book recommendations, discussing our latest reads, or sharing stories about how books have impacted our lives.

If you're up for a chat and want to share some of your favorite titles or literary adventures, please feel free to DM me. Letā€™s connect over our love for reading and expand our horizons together!

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2024/05/19
01:33 UTC

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39/M I am the droid youā€™re looking for if you are looking for a new best friend!

Hey all! This is a bit weird for me being almost 40 and looking for friends. But here I am anyways lol. Mainly looking for someone to message throughout the day and get to know. Maybe game with if we have that in common. I do work from home so thereā€™s no one to really talk to during the day.

Iā€™m married and have 2 kids, a 6 month old son and a 9 year old daughter. Iā€™m into basic nerdy things. Gaming, star wars, super heroes, DnD, anything Disney etc. Also trading card games like Disney Lorcana and Star Wars Unlimited.

I watch a ton of Critical Role stuff especially Campaign 3! Currently on episode 74, so if you watch too, let me know! Also like to watch Battle of the Brands on YouTube.

Iā€™m also into movies and tv, some sports, pro wrestling. Collecting action figures and retro games is one of hobbies as well. Anything 80s/90s nostalgia i absolutely love so if you want to talk childhood and growing up back then, iā€™m down! I miss the good old days where we went to arcades and italian sunday dinners at the grandparents and where the world just wasnā€™t as nutso as it is today lol.

My kids are everything to me and I do love talking about them. Love being silly with them and spending time with them (when they arenā€™t driving me crazy šŸ¤Ŗ lol)..I would prefer you be around my age and have kids as well just so we have that stuff in common off the bat! Iā€™m socially awkward most times but very easy to get along with. Iā€™m definitely considered an introvert. But once you get to know me I break out of that awkward shell. I do like to use sarcasm, and mostly like to try and make people laugh because a world without laughter would just be horrible.

Alright iā€™ll shut up now but Iā€™d like to think iā€™m an awesome person to get to know and hopefully thereā€™s more youā€™d like to know so feel free to DM me! (I looove using GIFs so if you message me, open up with a funny one! Especially since then iā€™ll know you actually read this šŸ˜‚)

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2024/05/19
01:20 UTC

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36F

Hey my name is Emily and I just want to make life more interesting :-) I'm passionate about music, I also like sports, art, food, movies and a few other things. In fact, I like to chat with people who are older than me. Their mature chat will make me feel better safe. If you are willing, you can leave me a message here at any time. I may not be the funniest person in the world, but I can warm you up and it can be fun.

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2024/05/19
00:51 UTC

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Looking to build friendships and gaming buddies

I work a lot and go to school and find it hard to make friends irl. Iā€™m 34 and love video games and reading. Iā€™m a bit of a comic nerd as well. I love movies and love myself a good horror. Been really into westerns lately. Hit me up all are welcome and wish you all the best of luck šŸ¤ž.

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2024/05/18
23:23 UTC

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37F - seeking like-minded nerds for friendship

Hey everyone, I'm seeking friendship with fellow like-minded nerds!

I'm back on the East Coast from a short time away in the Midwest, but the East Coast will always have a place in my heart.

I'm into: the 80s/90s/anything retro, all types of music but mainly I've been into discovering new types of metal, traveling, being a foodie, and spending time with friends and family. I'm a married, child-free, dog-Mom, with a love for the social sciences, academia, and movies.

Messages are always open!

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2024/05/18
22:54 UTC

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31F : frustrated and lost.

Have you ever had a friend whome you had a awesome connection with. You loved the same things, could talk for hours about anything. Could feel what each other is feeling and understand what each other was going through.But your friendship burned to bright and would end up just fighting with each other so much so that you end the friendship for your mental health. But you your friend every single day that it hurts so much. You look to make new friends but you never quite find the connection you had. I feel so lost so sad. Why must a friendship hurt so much.

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2024/05/18
22:34 UTC

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37m #Estcoast. Genuine Friendship

  1. Friendship wanted

Hi, I'm currently in an open marriage, with no kids . I find myself looking for a friend . I know life gets busy, and we go or separate ways in life, but my friendship well has really dried up.

Anyway. I'm looking for a friend to form some kind of relationship . A little bit about me. I'm fun, kind, and easy-going. I'm a morning person, not a night owl. 420 friendly . Some of my interests are woodworking, diy projects, cooking, traveling, music, TV and some sports. I don't work from home, but I do have a pretty good availability to chat. I'm open to daily banter, flirt, pics, vids, your favorite tiktok's, etc. I'm available to form a connection with someone. Please be able to hold a conversation . Please be fun and interesting.. im happy to exchange pics if you'd like.

Telegram is my preferred messaging app, but I'm open to others. If you are looking for a friend please dm me.. let's chat!

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2024/05/18
21:47 UTC

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33m Georgia - any fun plans?

The older you get on here, the harder it is to make friends Iā€™m realizing! Just a simple connection to anything would be sweet! Come just drop a hello and prove me wrong that we can make something work!

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2024/05/18
18:59 UTC

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Anyone local in DFW?

Want to chat. Iā€™m in Dallas area. Would be nice to meet. Iā€™m 35m

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2024/05/18
18:18 UTC

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36F ~ Hey everyone!

Hey everyone, I hope yā€™all are doing well! Iā€™m just your typical emo/nerdy girl looking for friends and people to chat with. Iā€™m a straight, single, depressed, anxiety ridden, outgoing, BBW girl that wants to expand my circle and have some fun. Iā€™m looking for someone around my age. Gender and location doesnā€™t matter to me. Iā€™m not looking for snail mail at the moment, but I would love to text/message/game! Iā€™m very much into to fantasy and would love to play D&D! As far as messaging I have text, Snapchat, and WhatsApp. If you think weā€™d get along please message! I hope to hear from yā€™all soon!

Likes~ video games, reading, crafts, writing, spending time with the people I love, podcasts, movies/tv shows, music, swimming, anime and manga.

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2024/05/18
18:10 UTC

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Howdy 31 F

Can we get to know each other better than we know ourselves? Can we share everything? I need someone I can really know, I need someone who wants to really know me. Come be my distraction, come and tell me everything. To entice you, I'm a cute fat lil alt girl. Come discover me.

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2024/05/18
18:10 UTC

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35M for Platonic journey friend!

Hello there! I hope this message finds you well. I'm a 35M from Europe, currently on a journey to find genuine connections and meaningful conversations. I realized the importance of surrounding myself with like-minded individuals who can appreciate the beauty of introspection and personal growth.

I consider myself an INFP, driven by empathy and a constant desire to understand the human experience. I've always been fascinated by the complexities of our minds and hearts, which led me to delve into the fields of philosophy, spirituality, and psychology. I find solace in contemplating life's big questions and discussing them with open-minded souls who appreciate the beauty of introspection.

When I'm not lost in profound conversations, you can often find me immersed in the enchanting world of books. Fiction and non-fiction alike, I'm always eager to dive into new stories and explore different perspectives. Additionally, I have a deep appreciation for nature and love spending time outdoors, hiking and exploring the tranquil beauty that surrounds us.

Though I'm currently single, I do cherish the bond I have with my family and close friends. Relationships built on trust, mutual support, and genuine understanding are truly invaluable to me. I'm also passionate about personal development and embracing life's ups and downs with grace, learning from every twist and turn.

If my words resonate with you and you share a similar inclination towards deep and meaningful conversations, I would love nothing more than to connect with you.

Peace and love to everyone!

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2024/05/18
18:03 UTC

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49 m uk looking for friends male or female

49 m uk 6ft med build shaved hair brown eyes,looking for genuine new friends in the uk(No Under 25s sorry) my interests are ps5,rock music,horror films,meals out and holidays. I consider myself as caring sensitive and wear my heart on my sleeve person if you like what you hear please feel free to message me Thanks šŸ™ƒ

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2024/05/18
17:07 UTC

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39F Best advice youā€™ve received

I love as good slice of advice or a great proverb and Iā€™m curious to know the best of either (or both) youā€™ve ever received. Doesnā€™t need to be profound, as practical is more useful. Perhaps maybe something youā€™ve discovered on your own. Maybe something you were taught, told, or overheard? Iā€™d love to hear it.

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2024/05/18
16:48 UTC

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36 M - Hello there! I hope youā€™re doing well?

Good Morning / Afternoon / Evening to you!

Thank you for stopping by on my post, I hope youā€™re doing well? I thought Iā€™d post here and hopefully speak to someone from around the world, being in the UK it would be nice to speak to people across the globe but that doesnā€™t mean people from the UK canā€™t message also!

A little about me - I work in finance and thatā€™s an absolute yawnfest so Iā€™ll try and not bore you with that, in my free time I enjoy going on walks, photography, photo editing - definitely a work in progress hobby but hopefully Iā€™ll get there one day. I like the usual things that everyone puts - travelling, music, films, YouTube hopping and of course the occasional beer! I enjoy watching hockey although itā€™s been a while since Iā€™ve been to a game. One of the more random hobbies is checking where the plane above me is flying, normally wishing I was on it! I donā€™t know what else to write here but hopefully the above is a good start.

It would be good if we could speak a few times a day as sometimes when I work at home it does get a bit boring and I end up speaking to my Homer Simpson teddy. Please be over 18 and if you can bring the banter that would be greatly appreciated! Until then have a great day and take it easy!

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2024/05/18
15:36 UTC

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58M trucker, looking to make new friends or chat buddies

iā€™m a trucker just sitting here bored at work not doing anything. Just sitting here, staring out the window wondering what it would be like to have a long-term friend. Someone to just share day-to-day life with and laugh with and tell each other bad jokes. So if youā€™re bored and want a short-term chat or preferably someone looking for a long-term friend, Iā€™d love to hear from you.

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2024/05/18
15:11 UTC

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35F - What are you looking forward to this year?

Heyļ¼ I am an easy-going and honest person, and I am looking for some extraordinary long-term internet friends-people who cherish kindness, loyalty, honesty and respect. I hope we can respect each other. I am easy-going about the development of friendship. I hope we won't force each other. We can talk about the scenery of each other's country together and the little things that happen in our lives. My enthusiasm for embracing different cultures, ideas and lifestyles is infinite. I am looking for like-minded companions who are equally keen to share their life stories, opinions and laughter once or twice.

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2024/05/18
14:51 UTC

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34/M introvert looking to make longer term online buddies.

So about me, Iā€™m 34 a single parent, who is very busy most days, and as result let my social life die a bit. Iā€™m from the Midwest USA, and looking for some online friendship. I swear like a sailor, very open and transparent, donā€™t believe in the PC culture we live in, and just looking for genuine real convos, with no filters.

Im terrible at writing bioā€™s, so excuse the lack of ā€œwho am Iā€.

Anybody wanna chat?

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2024/05/18
13:02 UTC

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30 [M4F] New chat buddies/friends? How are you doing today?

How are you doing today? I am so happy it's the weekend right now. Being an adult is overrated and exhausting

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2024/05/18
12:47 UTC

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[34/M] UK American in London looking for IRL friends!

Hey there!

I'm a 34-year-old American who's called the UK home for the past 5 years, and I'm on the lookout for some new friends. Currently living and working in London and despite traveling all over the world, realized London is my favorite city. Bonus points if you're up for meeting my two fluffy dogs ā€“ because, let's be honest, having dogs is a cheat code when it comes to making friends in the UK.

By day, I'm a product manager in the city, but my journey has taken me through some interesting twists, including time in the US Army and a stint at a luxury fashion company.

Outside of the 9 to 5 grind, you'll find me picking things up and putting them down at the gym bright and early in the morning. I've stuck to my 2023 New Year's resolution and have gone to the gym quite regularly; it's become a source of pride. If you're a fellow gym rat who competes with no one but the person you were yesterday, we're bound to hit it off.

I'm also into improv comedy ā€“ I take classes and perform whenever I can. Originally, it was my way of finding a practical application for acting without fully committing to a career in it. It's been super helpful, especially in dealing with feelings of anxiety as well. If you're an improv geek too, I'd love to hear your experiences.

Lockdown brought out the mixologist in me, thanks to binging Mad Men. I love experimenting with cocktails and if you have a favorite cocktail and don't mind providing the ingredients, I'd be happy to try and craft it for you! I actually signed up for a bartending course just to learn a new skill-- definitely stay tuned for that one.

And of course, I'm pretty basic too with your typical interests ā€“ sports (NCAA Football and NFL Football, with Army and the San Francisco 49ers as my teams), video games (League of Legends Wild Rift mainly, but really excited for EA Sports College Football 25 to come out), and TV shows (Succession, Better Call Saul/Breaking Bad, and Mad Men are my absolute favorites). I'm also trying to get in to reading for pleasure (currently reading The Three-Body Problem series by Cixin Liu), but man do I have to work at it.

If any of this resonates with you, I'd love to connect! Whether it's grabbing a drink, hitting the gym together, or just chatting about shared interests, I'm up for it. Drop me a chat request and let's make something happen! Can't think of an opener? What's a challenging experience you've faced and how did it shape your perspective?

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2024/05/18
12:29 UTC

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