/r/MakeFriendsOver30

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For Redditors over 30 looking to make new friends their age.

/r/MakeFriendsOver30

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Looking for clingy friends with abandonment issues

They say I am Clingy, I say you just like constant communication.

They say I am Abandonant, I say life can be tough and people change, and it is ok.

They say no one would want to be your friend, I say many people can feel relatable to me and may want to give me a chance to be their daily chat buddy, just have to post a lot I know haha.

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2024/11/11
07:29 UTC

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M38 Looking for online Friend.

Hi everyone!

I’m a 38, male, from Australia.

I work a lot (as I own and run my own business) so I don’t really have much time to socialise these days.

In truth, all I really do is work. And I remember a time when I’d meet up with friends for hours on end, and cha about any thing and everything - but those days feel long gone.

So here I am.

I would love to chat to someone, anyone, about anything and everything. Your passions in life, what keeps you going, what drives your inner flame!

Feel free to DM me (females preferred).

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2024/11/11
06:24 UTC

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M 30, love to learn from you

Hi,

I'm 30 M living in Aus. I am interested in Hiking, and I have picked up photography as a hobby in the recent years. I also am a big fan of sports.

I am introverted but I can keep a conversation going to the best of my abilities. Big believer in learning from the world and I believe you can learn something from everyone. Think you can teach me a thing or two about photography/workouts/your favourite recipe? Happy to learn

If not, I can be that annoying friend that bothers you everyday with the "How's your day going?" texts.

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2024/11/11
05:34 UTC

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30 M uk/online - Early morning chat?

Evening. if anyone wants to be a cool little pumpkin and keep me company for a bit and chat. That'd be grand.

Long term or short term chats are fine by me. Who knows, we might even become jolly good pals.

A fact about me; I'm boring, but sometimes I am funny. So it balances out.

A slightly cooler fact about me; I have 6 snakes.

About you; please be 21+ and keep ya toes socked or I'll cry.

Q: would you rather fight god 1v1 in hand to hand combat or live your last nightmare you had for 24 hours?

Yours faithfully, YFG.

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2024/11/11
05:18 UTC

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Just looking for friends

I’m a 43M just looking for texting buddies to chat with about life, current events and any other thing that comes up. I’m located in Tennessee but originally from Arizona. I’m a veteran and have lived in a few places and been to other countries. I’m a bit of a loner but I’m very outgoing and can carry a conversation. I like sports, comedy and all types of music. I’m a horror flick buff and I like to sing karaoke. I’m not really good at explaining myself so I hope I put enough out there!

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2024/11/11
05:14 UTC

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47m Just some casual chat for the night or longer

Hey all, staying up a bit late tonight, just seeing if the chatting spirit has hit ya. Short or long term is cool. Doesn't matter who you are or where you are from, just no minors please. Would be cool to make a few new friends along the way.

We can chat about whatever, I have lots of interests, but whatever is on your mind is cool with me. No pressure, just chill conversation. Feel free to hit me up of you like!

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2024/11/11
03:52 UTC

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44F in Louisiana looking for friends to chat with

Hi there. I love chatting with new people and making new friends. I am 44F, partnered, and located in Louisiana. I am looking for friends ONLY and would prefer if you lived in a nearby time zone. My preference is for people +/- 10 years from my age. I need someone to be able to keep up with all the obscure cultural references from the 80s/90s that I make.

My interests include: true crime (but I’m really squeamish about blood), rescue dogs, 90s Britpop, art, and all things fabulous.

I am looking for friends ONLY. If you are looking to push the boundaries look elsewhere.

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2024/11/11
03:21 UTC

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36F4R a moose looking for a muffin

From the book when you give a moose a muffin

Basically looking for odd ducks that enjoy light hearted shenanigans, hootenany and sock puppets. Cause I'm also an odd duck that enjoys those things.

I like learning, esp about language and etymology. Where words come from and how they change over time.

I'm trying to learn to code, but I have a short attention span. I know how to make, move, and resize squares using variables in Javascript. That's as far as I've gotten.

Music is life. Food is also life.

Pls meet the following parameters:

-not a creep or a pervert -into whacky, silly stuff -able to have meaningful conversations outside of what do you do for work and the weather -be between the ages of 35 - 50

I'll be heading to bed shortly, so I will be awake, caffeinated and apt to responding in abt 10hrs after posting.

Kbai4now

🐢

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2024/11/11
03:04 UTC

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36M chat with cool dudes long term

Just a down to earth dude .. looking for other chill dudes to just chat.. snap.. whatever .. Long term ..Some interests include videos game.. Pokémon.. marvel.. Star Wars.. Plants.. bugs…and others. Can talk here .. or snap…Also very comfortable in my skin. Some of my story posts reflect that. :P just a warning lol. ;) So if ya down.. hit me up and let’s get the conversation started ! Definitely down for some longer term friends ! Down for whatever. Ask anything … it’s Sunday ..bored.. say Hi ! Also having a drink !

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2024/11/11
02:30 UTC

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34M a bit eccentric and looking for friends to chat with on discord

hello everyone, i'm detone! looking for people to spend time with chatting, playing/listening to music, playing games, watching movies/videos, or maybe drawing. i'm the kind that loves to get into all types of deep discussion. would rather talk about your life philosophy than the weather, but if i care enough about a person we can talk about both. i enjoy being around creative types, learning about the hobbies other people have that i've never explored, or getting lost in random topics together. my schedule can be odd due to my disability, so, it'd be nice to meet people awake when it's night for me since that's when i tend to be most active. dm's are welcome

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2024/11/11
02:04 UTC

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32F - Late night loneliness

Typical late night for me, feeling the breakup blues. Women and men welcome, just want to pass time with some new friends. Some info on me is i'm currently unemployed but studying, I like to learn many different skills and you will usually find me at a computer working away or reading a non-fiction book to learn more about something. I really enjoy music, so if that's something you also enjoy we can chat about that. I'm a huge animal fan, I have previously worked with animals and kept a range of weird and wonderful creatures. I visit the gym (not as frequently these days as before), enjoy cooking (fairly new to trying new recipes), videogames (qualified game dev) and Halloween is my favourite holiday.

Come say hi! and do introduce yourself to me so I know who you are and we can chat about things.

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2024/11/11
01:33 UTC

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Good afternoon! Anyone from Indiana?

Haven't found many people close to indiana. Midwest state. If your from the area let's chat, chill, I'm Michael 39/male/Indiana straight.

How is everyone's day going??

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2024/11/11
01:31 UTC

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36m anyone wanna chat for the night.

Just looking for more friends if anyone around to chat.

Into gaming,anime,music,wrestling and other things. Just send a message. Dont know how long I'll be up but down to talk.

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2024/11/11
01:25 UTC

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Are there other people’s not into gaming?

Hey! 35M here living in Canada 🇨🇦 since few years now. This is by no means a post against those who are into gaming, I used to play a lot but after I started working in my early 20s I stopped playing as life got serious and days shorter. Today I see a lot of people posting here and describing gaming as a top interest for them. For me, between work, going to the gym, reading and watching YouTube videos or tv mainly news, politics and sometimes tv series, I wouldn’t have time but also interest to play games even if I want to. Are there other people like me? 😅 or are you guys playing games but not spending much time on it?

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2024/11/11
00:07 UTC

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35F east coast

Heyyyyy 👋 Looking for some cool peeps to chat with. I’m into indie music, nature, art, photography, food and cocktails, traveling, camping, hiking, animals, real life adult talks with zero judgement. Im married but would love to add cool folk to my circle. Send me a chat if you’d like. Tell me something interesting. Effort is nice to see.

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2024/11/10
22:54 UTC

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37F/Pennsylvania, just looking for friends to pass the time with

Me:

Pennsylvania; if you’re local, be prepared for coffee chats.

Mom to three feral children, all elementary school aged.

I am married and NOT looking for “romance” or hook ups.

LGBTQ 🏳️‍🌈 and liberal leaning

I like to learn new skills. I’m a big fan of crocheting (but I don’t do it nearly as often as I want) and I’m going back to college (and it feels really weird at 37).

I read every single day (usually romance).

I’m big into fitness/weightloss/weightlifting, but I don’t make it my whole personality, honest. But if that’s something you’re into talking about, I’m down. I’ve recently lost over 180 lbs and I’m still going.

I am sober (year and a half now).

I’m really into tattoos and piercings. If you ask me “do you wanna see my tattoos?” it’s always YES.

I love animals of all kinds! I’ll never say “no” to a pic of your pets.

I’ve been a stay at home mom/traditional wife for over 10 years and with my youngest having started full time school this fall, I feel like I’m completely lost. I have no idea who I am now or what to do with myself, so I spend my days looking for the perfect WFH jobs.

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2024/11/10
22:33 UTC

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37m - Atlantic Canadian looking for chats and friendship if we click - Any punk, metal lovers? Nerds? Weebs?

Looking for chats and more specifically people I really click with. It happens but its hard to find. I have discord please add me: up_and_up44

I'm into anime, manga, learning Japanese, and chating with people on here.

I'm decent at conversation. I really am a better listener which is what everyone says on here T-T. I'm alright at coming up with new topics but I really do thrive when you tell me alot about yourself and give me info to work with. Don't hold back, I don't mind text walls, tell stupid stories, have fun, talk about yourself, ask questions.

Tend to click with people into music. I like: punk, metal, pop, japanese music, reggae, ska, r&b, some rap and hiphop.

I don't mind video game conversation but dont play much lately. Overwatch, PUBG, and Street Fighter 6 are my go to games.

Married, no flirting.

Send me a dm

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2024/11/10
22:30 UTC

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40M Scotland. Looking for genuine relaxed gamer/gym/creative friends. You don't have to be all of those things but if you are, that's a bonus!

HEY! Thanks for checking out my post!

⚡SEAN FACTS⚡️

My name is Sean.

I’m 40 years old 🎉

I’m Scottish! I was born in Scotland, moved around the world a little bit through education and work etc and I’ve come back to live in my little hometown.

I’m currently working as an engineering technician. I accidentally fell into this job and I really can’t complain too much. I spend most of the week working from home, drinking tea/coffee and lurking in the background of Zoom meetings while trying to figure out how to do something a little bit more exciting for work. I feel like I need to be doing something more creative with my time on this planet.

It’s not unusual to find me deep inside a Spotify hole with my headphones on, hunting for new music and creating playlists. If you have any music suggestions, I'd love to hear them!

I love to draw/sketch/doodle and I’ll ALWAYS be up for drawing something for the people I chat with. I thrive when someone gives me an idea and its also a great way to see what goes on in someone’s head 😊

In what very little spare time that I have, I like to go to the gym. I seen someone post recently that they were looking for someone to effectively be their gym friend. I quite like this idea and would happily do that with someone too. Routine advice, encouragement and just someone to keep each other company in-between sets.

I also like to sink some time into games. I have a backlog that I’m never ever going to get through.
ZELDA ZELDA ZELDA ZELDA ZELDA ZELDA ZELDA ZELDA.

Why am I posting on Reddit? I'm here for some fun casual conversation. I miss the social aspect of being at shows and meeting new people so making friends and having conversations on here scratches that itch.

If you think you’d like to chat with me and see how things go, don’t be scared to send me a dm!

I prefer to chat over on Telegram but we can hang here if we need to 😊

Sean

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2024/11/10
20:43 UTC

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46 M What’s your favorite day of the week?

Hi there, I’m looking for a chat friend today and hopefully for beyond. For me I’d say Saturday. I can do a long physical outdoor activity, rest up and still have a lot of weekend left to do whatever. No rush at all.

That said, I really enjoy meeting new people, learning about their day to day and their thoughts on various topics.

For interests I’m all about living a healthy lifestyle. Lifting, cycling, surfing, walks and healthy eating are priorities but aren’t my entire personality. Music is a big deal for me so let’s exchange suggestions! Your age, location and status don’t matter but a good conversation does. I hope to hear from you soon and learn more about you.

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2024/11/10
17:53 UTC

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Was anyone else a sort of productive adult today? Or possibly will be? 😂

Good morning, everyone. I was up at the ass crack of dawn. Couldn't get back to sleep, so I decided to get some laundry done. Then, I picked up my packages and decided to get breakfast at a very nice little restaurant not far. Now i'm back at my place reading stuff on here and about to watch an episode of a docu series. If you want to talk, send me a chat message clean conversation. I prefer chatting with other single people. There's no hidden agenda with that. I just do for a few reasons. I'm a guy in the US and in my 30s, hope y'all are having a good weekend

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2024/11/10
17:05 UTC

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33/M NJ, just looking for new friends in the area or closeby

Hi, 33/M in South Jersey just outside Philly. Just on here looking to make new friends and meet new people.

Interests include gaming, football, dogs (original username 😅), music, Memes and Reels, TV/Movies, etc, I would say I am more of a homebody and definitely an introvert.

Would like something lasting / long term, seeking legit friendships not just someone to chat with for a day or two, I also have Discord and such also, hit me up with a DM, let’s see what we have in common or can connect over, and let’s chat and get to know each other! Thanks for reading.

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2024/11/10
17:04 UTC

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Sunday blues, when you wait for Monday to arrive fast

Have you ever been in phases where you look forward to Mondays and weekends seem longer to you.

What was the thing that made you look forward to new week eagerly?

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2024/11/10
16:55 UTC

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30 M uk/online - Anyone wanna chat?

Evening. if anyone wants to be a cool little pumpkin and keep me company for a bit and chat. That'd be grand.

Long term or short term chats are fine by me. Who knows, we might even become jolly good pals.

A fact about me; I'm boring, but sometimes I am funny. So it balances out.

A slightly cooler fact about me; I have 6 snakes.

About you; please be 21+ and keep ya toes socked or I'll cry.

Q: would you rather fight god 1v1 in hand to hand combat or live your last nightmare you had for 24 hours?

Yours faithfully, YFG.

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2024/11/10
16:45 UTC

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38 M UK looking for a UK / US penpal!

Hello there!

Hope you’re having a good day so far? I can’t wait to hear all about it. As the title says I’m 38, a male, and from the UK. Also about the title even though I put im looking for a UK/US penpal feel free to reach out if you’re not from the super specific countries listed above.

I don’t really know what to write about myself but I like the usual things in life that everyone seems to put, instead I’ll tell you about an embarrassing moment when I had one too many beers and I forgot where I lived and ended up at the local football stadium, I really need an if lost please return to sticker.

Some hobbies though include going down random YouTube rabbit holes (abandoned videos, SNL clips to name a few) watching the same shows over and over which include The Simpsons, The Office (both versions), The Mighty Boosh, Trailer Park Boys (so hard to think when put on the spot ha), This Country - I think most mockumentaries are quite good! Staring into space and putting off everything until the last minute. Also a lover of terrible jokes so feel free to share any you may have. Do quite miss the 90s and the good old days, everything did seem easier back then and the only problem we had was to be in before it got dark..

It’s been a whole lot of rambling but if you’d like to ramble about anything and everything feel free to reach out!

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2024/11/10
16:40 UTC

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M 34 UK - Lazy Sunday playing BO6 after a weekend running

Looking to find a few chats and maybe even form a few friendships! Because this stuff gets tougher the older we get and the anxiety brewing world we now live in.

So yeah, currently at home gaming on a Sunday, playing a bit of black ops 6 (first time in years this old timer has been good at a cod again 😂) but generally into most genres of games and a huge trophy hunter! So any fellow hunters on PS5 would be cool!

On a huge health kick and got into running…that could be a midlife crisis thing though. But I’ve joined Park Run which is a cool friendly community and ran my first 10K straight yesterday 😵 running isn’t enjoyable, but the feeling at the end is worth it 😂

Little odd bits about me, love to travel, Japan and Iceland being my two best trips so far! I’m a huge reader, love a varied genre of books but fantasy and horror are defo top. Eclectic taste in music and collector of vinyl.

Pokémon collector here too, love to play and trade in the TCG so any local UK players would be awesome! Pokémon GO player too, defo boosts the health goal journey!

So yeah, want to know more or learn anything else. give me a message!

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2024/11/10
16:05 UTC

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30F Cartoonist Seeking Pals

Hello, I'm Cake, and since February, I've been seeking pen pals and art pals alike to get to know and grow with, especially if you're a maker like me. I myself make cartoons and illustrations (look up "thecakemage" on Newgrounds if you wanna see me) and I've been wanting to expand myself and how I know me with both my art and these relationships. I make art to help me process my PTSD and depression, and if you're not a cartoonist or consider yourself a creative that's all good too. :] I'm interested in meeting new folks and I'm obsessed with too many ideas to list succinctly but ill try. (History, anime, magic, F:NV, backpacking, graphic t shirts, pokemon, music, genetics, collecting, Nic Cage and Tim Curry movies, weight lifting, and making original characters)

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2024/11/10
14:24 UTC

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33/M Looking for a friend who is also in Europe

I am a 33 year old guy from the US but currently living in Western Europe looking for a chill and kind platonic friend with similar interests. I'd like to meet someone who is also looking for a friend to chat with long term if it works out.

I am definitely on the more artsy creative side of things. I play a few instruments and I really enjoy painting and doing random digital art projects. I listen to a lot of music and I love finding new obscure and international stuff.

I am not too serious most of the time and love telling stupid jokes. I am a big fan of Tim and Eric and other weird surreal comedy. I also like podcasts like MBMBAM and Hollywood handbook. I enjoy youtube documentaries about internet mysteries,true crime,paranormal,occult stuff. I also enjoy of analog horror.

I really love learning and studying languages. I only speak English but I can read and understand several different languages, especially Germanic and Romance based.

I like people who are open and accepting and I am always willing to listen to others.

Send me a chat request! Looking forward to meeting ya!

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2024/11/10
14:10 UTC

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35 [M4F] spooky nerd in Vegas looking to chat about anything and everything

Hi yall title kinda says it all Into most nerd things (games from board to video, anime, reading, comics and Legos), all horror things , and metalcore, but I like most music genres. So tell me your favorite horror movie? The last band you saw in concert? Or your favorite food? I cook often and always looking for ideas lol.oh also super into horror podcasts .I'm just board at work so feel free to shoot a dm. Oh I also have a discord if interested

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2024/11/10
14:01 UTC

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38 [M4F] Anywhere - Productive Yesterday, Lazy Football Day Today…Keep Me Company?

Hey there from your brand new online bestie!

What am I looking for? Absolutely nothing specific. I work from home and also travel a lot for work so my in-real-life friendships tend to suffer. I also really enjoy the hit of dopamine that I get when the little orange "1" pops up next to my chats on here. I do prefer longterm chats over little one-day ones. If you're here to "hit it and forget it" in my DMs, it really just seems like a waste of time, no?

I've made some really great reddit friends along the way, but life seems to eventually get in the way for one or the other (the way of such things, I suppose). It gets in the way for me sometimes too! So I get it.

A Little About Me:

I'm originally from the Midwest, but now call Florida home. I know my name is "SportsJunkie" but It's a really old screenname because I've been around reddit forever. I can talk about lots else besides sports! That said, it's a big part of my life, so if I'm slow to respond, I'm at the fields coaching. I'm not very outdoorsy, but I love to cook and sing and hang out with a nice glass of whiskey. I'll save more deets for when we talk! I am rarely serious and always full of really lame dad jokes and lots of sarcastic banter. Just looking for friends on here.

A Little About You:

Please don't expect me to be around at all hours of the night because my night owl days are (usually) over. Maybe you work from home or are a stay at home mom who needs distraction or maybe work is just slow and you like to procrastinate like me. Please be willing to swap selfies at some point and potentially move to another chat venue because reddit chat is notoriously glitchy. Bonus points for being able to dish out the sarcasm as well as you can take it. Eastern timezone or close by is obviously a bonus, but I can make just about anything work.

Did I pique your fancy? Shoot me your age, gender and location in your first message along with your favorite color so I can weed out the AI bot overlords.

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2024/11/10
14:00 UTC

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34m, sad dad, home life is less than positive, lost my mojo, need some new peeps!

Absolutely getting destroyed at home, and can’t take it. Nothing but negativity and tension and it’s breaking me. Desperately need some positivity in my life. Tell me fun things that you’re up to this weekend!! It’s dreary and cold and snowy here ❄️❄️❄️ I’m a married human and cat parent, designer, musician, nature lover, corporate hippy stoner, bit of a nerd and big reader. 🫶 Excited to chat!

2 Comments
2024/11/10
13:51 UTC

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