/r/LetsChat

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A community dedicated to talking to strangers, chatting either with Reddit chat, through comments, or on Discord. We welcome all, so long as you play fair, be nice, and respect others. Enjoy!


  • New to the subreddit? Well chatting here is pretty easy, just like real life, only without the whole face-to-face thing going on.

  • Just make a post, tell a little bit about yourself and whether you're looking to have a new friend to chat with or just looking to have a small conversation to shoot the breeze.

  • To chat with someone, typically you can either use the Reddit Chat (Beta) or talk through comments. Though with the new Reddit chat, we'd recommend trying that out.


You're welcome to post using a tag like M4F, F4A, R4R, M4R and get to know someone new. Other redditors can then comment and chat, tell you about themselves, or even private message you.

Tag Legend:

  • M = Male/Man
  • F = Female
  • W = Woman
  • TM = Trans Male (Trans to Male)
  • TF = Trans Female (Trans to Female)
  • R = Redditor
  • A = All/Anyone

Rules and Guidelines:

  • Be respectful.
  • You must be at least 16 or older to chat. This ensures that the chat won't restrict conversations as much. Just be sure to be responsible; if things start to hit off, be sure that both parties are over 18 if things start to go south.
  • Don't pressure others.
  • Do not be abusive or disrespectful over PM.
  • While we aren't keen of NSFW links posted, if you do post any, please flag them as NSFW to help others avoid seeing anything they don't wish to see.
  • Do not downvote other posts. It is considered disrespectful and is frowned upon here.
  • If you are caught needlessly reporting posts, you will be banned; bullshit is not tolerated here.
  • Do not advertise Discord/Kik groups or other group chats. This subreddit is to chat here and get to know redditors, not to advertise a chatroom. If any posts are from a member of a sister subreddit, the user will be banned in both locations.
  • Do not spam/advertise/sell things here. No exceptions.
  • Posting is limited to accounts with at least a week or so account age to reduce spam. If you are new to reddit, go enjoy reddit; you can visit here later if you wish.

Sister Subreddits
Subreddits we also run.

r/DiscordServers
Moved to FindADiscord.com - A place to find and share Discord servers to chat on.

r/YouTubePlug - For sharing your YouTube content with minimal subreddit rules.

r/KikGroups - Do you use Kik messenger? Well there's a convenient place to share and find Kik groups. Check it out!


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/r/LetsChat

47,638 Subscribers

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[F4M] looking for fun Stuff honey

[F4M] looking for fun Stuff honey

2 Comments
2024/12/02
16:00 UTC

1

M19 (M4F)

0 Comments
2024/12/02
15:55 UTC

1

M20 bored someone message me

2 Comments
2024/12/02
15:52 UTC

1

30M up for a nice chat

If my post resonates with you and you’d like to get to know me, feel free to reach out!

I’m 30 years old, from the EU, and firmly established in life. However, due to my work schedule, I don’t have as much time for friends as I’d like, which is probably why I’m single.

I’m very open-minded and talkative, and I’d love to get to know you and learn everything about you.

I have several hobbies and enjoy traveling a lot. I play videogames and started making musik (i m still bad)

Looking forward to hearing from you. See you soon!

0 Comments
2024/12/02
15:51 UTC

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F21 I am down looking for fun

3 Comments
2024/12/02
15:51 UTC

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37 M4A I miss just having people to talk to

So I've been posting on here plenty of times and I've occasionally gotten an actual message from a decent person so I know this can be a success. But I am just someone who misses having conversations with people about anything. I just so miss having people to message me throughout the day asking how I am wanting to have a dialogue and not just a one-off. I specifically wanted to be a long lasting affair. Pardon the pun

A little bit about me, I'm 37 years old, currently living in Virginia where I am pursuing a degree at my local community college. This is the first time I've ever gotten anywhere close to finishing something in college, so I'm super stoked to almost be done, but because of that I do not have a lot of time to socialize because of how small the school I'm at is. Most of my classes are online. There are some clubs that I am active in but they don't meet every single week. So again not a lot of chance to meet and develop friendships

I do have a fiance we are currently living apart from each other cuz she is In medical residency in California transferred programs after I had moved in with her because of a situation that was developing with the program she was in here that she just needed to get out of and get into a place that kind of more was teaching stuff that she was wanting to do. I'm not looking to change my situation and I'm hoping that people aren't expecting to have their situation changed either

I am a huge geek gamer. I love to play world of Warcraft helldivers 2 battlefield Halo Mass effect any Star wars games. I also like to read watch TV. I'm currently on a weight loss journey so trying to eat healthy and also work out every single day. Also enjoy going for walks and hikes. Also doing house projects and the house That I am living in just to get it ready to possibly rent out whenever I move in with my girlfriend after the spring semester.

0 Comments
2024/12/02
15:41 UTC

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M22 looking for a long term online only casual friendship. No strings attached. For all kinds of talk.

I would love to have an online friend with whom i can talk openly about anything. We can share music ,movies , (no personals required) and have fun open chats too for pleasure.

1 Comment
2024/12/02
15:40 UTC

2

What's the best on-going chat you've had on here?

I've been using this place more regularly for about 6 months, I've had a few good things in my time here, but wondering how lucky people have got? I want a good mix of someone cool and cute to talk to, but also cool if it leads to some flirting or fun somewhere.

Any good stories?

Me: 6ft tall, dark hair, green eyes, slim/athletic, from the UK

0 Comments
2024/12/02
15:39 UTC

2

M31 Irish living in Canada looking for fwb

Hey as post says living in Canada with my partner the last while and looking for that spark to brighten up my days again. If your around the same age and just looking to get to know someone and see how things go from there shoot me a dm. Genuinely just looking for a nice connection with someone and who knows where it could lead! Edit : A little bit about me.... Love the outdoors whether it's rain hail or shine! Like to walk cycle, hike you name it! That's not to say i don't like sprawling on the couch for the day sometimes as well! Work full time but have plenty of time off to travel as it's shift work and not the usual mon-fri. Hit me up if you want to get to know each other a little more!

2 Comments
2024/12/02
15:37 UTC

1

25 [M4F]: looking for sadistic girls around my age or older for chat that like the idea of hurting a guys balls to control or punish him 😅

Hey! I’m 25, and I’m just looking for a sadistic girl that likes the idea of hurting guys in their most sensitive, intimate spot to have a conversation with! Teasing and such welcome, lol. I’m mostly just looking for conversation up front. My balls are super sensitive, so this is mostly for the girls that like conversation and teasing and such, but depending on how we get along, I could be down for something more. If you’re interested, send me a chat saying what you like about this kind of stuff.

I have a preference for the more cute kind of dominations, opposed to super strict and serious. But open to many kinds of dynamics.

Please be over 20, around my age and able to form sentences and like chatting and such. Chats opens!

Findoms of any kind, stay away

0 Comments
2024/12/02
15:35 UTC

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21[F4M] i am alone looking for funn

1 Comment
2024/12/02
15:29 UTC

1

33M looking for chat

0 Comments
2024/12/02
15:28 UTC

1

26M Looking for new snap friends.. charlietrump69

0 Comments
2024/12/02
15:22 UTC

1

56M - Denver, CO

It's looking like a slow morning at work. Is there a nice lady who'd like to chat?

0 Comments
2024/12/02
15:14 UTC

2

24 [F4M] I cleaned my room and went to bed, but I'm a little bored. now i should clean my dirty soul

I'm lonely and bored and desperate for some affection and for some fun time, I'm really looking for some fun I tend to talk very flirty and naughty in these situations , and I love to express my feelings and and my naughty desires , I am into some really rough things, so I won’t complain if you wanna tell me how you want pin me down and use me like your favorite doll and fuck me so hard that I couldn't walk and sit down for a few days

4 Comments
2024/12/02
15:00 UTC

1

37 M4A I miss just having people to talk to

So I've been posting on here plenty of times and I've occasionally gotten an actual message from a decent person so I know this can be a success. But I am just someone who misses having conversations with people about anything. I just so miss having people to message me throughout the day asking how I am wanting to have a dialogue and not just a one-off. I specifically wanted to be a long lasting affair. Pardon the pun

A little bit about me, I'm 37 years old, currently living in Virginia where I am pursuing a degree at my local community college. This is the first time I've ever gotten anywhere close to finishing something in college, so I'm super stoked to almost be done, but because of that I do not have a lot of time to socialize because of how small the school I'm at is. Most of my classes are online. There are some clubs that I am active in but they don't meet every single week. So again not a lot of chance to meet and develop friendships

I do have a fiance we are currently living apart from each other cuz she is In medical residency in California transferred programs after I had moved in with her because of a situation that was developing with the program she was in here that she just needed to get out of and get into a place that kind of more was teaching stuff that she was wanting to do. I'm not looking to change my situation and I'm hoping that people aren't expecting to have their situation changed either

I am a huge geek gamer. I love to play world of Warcraft helldivers 2 battlefield Halo Mass effect any Star wars games. I also like to read watch TV. I'm currently on a weight loss journey so trying to eat healthy and also work out every single day. Also enjoy going for walks and hikes. Also doing house projects and the house That I am living in just to get it ready to possibly rent out whenever I move in with my girlfriend after the spring semester.

1 Comment
2024/12/02
14:38 UTC

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29f — lonely, stoned, in pull-ups

trying this again as making these posts seems to attract a specific type of attention i’m not into. please do NOT message if: you’re straight up just wanting to sext, you’re under my age, you’re married with kids, you’re into humiliating others, you’re just looking for nudes, you have nothing to say besides ‘hey,’ ‘how are you,’ ‘how’s your day.’

anyway,

i’m neurodivergent and feeling lately like i can’t connect with anyone or confide in close friends, and it’s left me feeling isolated and lonely even when i’m around people. i’d love to have a person or people to talk to who are gentle and kind, who respond instead of react, and who are nonjudgmental and understanding and respectful, and preferably you’re older in age than me.

i’m mildly incontinent and struggle with things like anxiety and adhd, sometimes when i’m anxious i accidentally mentally regress, and overall i’m just easily overwhelmed and am a sensitive person, i’ve been through parental abuse and intense bullying throughout my life. in spite of this, above anything i strive to be kind and warm and understanding to others in a world that seems to be increasingly cruel.

i’m not looking for straight up sexting or someone to take pics for — i would just like to talk to someone and for once feel like i’m heard and understood, someone i can offer understanding to, someone to talk to about things i can’t open up about with the people around me.

would love to see a teddy or bear emoji in your message if you read all this 🧸

5 Comments
2024/12/02
14:32 UTC

1

22 m4f looking to have a nice chat

Hello I'm looking to chat with some people and have a fun or nice chat so if you are interested please dm me :)

1 Comment
2024/12/02
14:31 UTC

1

19 [F4M] #VA - Looking for someone down to play with and want to have lots of fun

3 Comments
2024/12/02
14:24 UTC

1

M28

Chat about anything

1 Comment
2024/12/02
14:15 UTC

4

19 (F4M) Super bored looking for someone to keep me company

Anyone up? 🫣

9 Comments
2024/12/02
14:05 UTC

8

22 [F4M] #South América, I'm looking to chat with an older man.

Hi, I'm just here wanting to have a good connection with an older man. Write me a private message, tell me where you're from and how old you are. I'll wait for you!

18 Comments
2024/12/02
13:57 UTC

1

23 [M4F] Hoping to find a married F to chat with

Hey everyone, I’m a young guy looking for something different—someone who can make conversations exciting and unpredictable. Specifically, I’m hoping to chat with a married woman.

Why? Because it’s thrilling. The idea of connecting with someone in a unique situation feels like stepping into a secret world. It’s not cheating—just chatting. But the risks, the rush, and the sense of doing something a little taboo? That’s where the excitement lies. It’s about breaking the monotony and adding a spark of adventure into life—yours and mine.

It’s like in the quiet corners of your day, you found a moment just for you? A conversation outside the boundaries of your usual routine—one your husband would never know about. For him, in his reality, it never happened. That secret interaction? It’s exciting. It’s yours. A reminder that even within the commitments of marriage, you can still have moments that belong solely to you.

This isn’t about judgment or anything serious. Just harmless fun through conversation. If this speaks to you, let’s chat!

0 Comments
2024/12/02
13:56 UTC

3

21 F4M tired of being ignored I wanna do something for the 1st time..

Shy college gal right here whose been kinda repressed - I wanna explore what other's are into.

Please still be respectful in your dms.

5 Comments
2024/12/02
13:33 UTC

1

F19 [F4M] Having breakfast and feeling like hearing about your Monday plans :)

1 Comment
2024/12/02
13:31 UTC

1

Let's Chat ! Share Your Thoughts, Experiences, and Opinions!"

Feeling passionate about ? Want to connect with others who share your interests? This is the place! Share your thoughts, experiences, and opinions.

1 Comment
2024/12/02
13:26 UTC

5

20 M, looking for a FWB and chat buddy long term. Send asl

Be open to the idea of sharing nudes, vids and maybe cam.

0 Comments
2024/12/02
13:10 UTC

1

M20 add my snap to chat 💦jacob_m241455

0 Comments
2024/12/02
13:07 UTC

1

37 M4A I miss just having people to talk to

So I've been posting on here plenty of times and I've occasionally gotten an actual message from a decent person so I know this can be a success. But I am just someone who misses having conversations with people about anything. I just so miss having people to message me throughout the day asking how I am wanting to have a dialogue and not just a one-off. I specifically wanted to be a long lasting affair. Pardon the pun

A little bit about me, I'm 37 years old, currently living in Virginia where I am pursuing a degree at my local community college. This is the first time I've ever gotten anywhere close to finishing something in college, so I'm super stoked to almost be done, but because of that I do not have a lot of time to socialize because of how small the school I'm at is. Most of my classes are online. There are some clubs that I am active in but they don't meet every single week. So again not a lot of chance to meet and develop friendships

I do have a fiance we are currently living apart from each other cuz she is In medical residency in California transferred programs after I had moved in with her because of a situation that was developing with the program she was in here that she just needed to get out of and get into a place that kind of more was teaching stuff that she was wanting to do. I'm not looking to change my situation and I'm hoping that people aren't expecting to have their situation changed either

I am a huge geek gamer. I love to play world of Warcraft helldivers 2 battlefield Halo Mass effect any Star wars games. I also like to read watch TV. I'm currently on a weight loss journey so trying to eat healthy and also work out every single day. Also enjoy going for walks and hikes. Also doing house projects and the house That I am living in just to get it ready to possibly rent out whenever I move in with my girlfriend after the spring semester.

1 Comment
2024/12/02
12:55 UTC

1

M29 bored and in the need of friends

Hello I’m 29 Male live in the states don’t have any friends and looking for long term conversation, let’s chat away

0 Comments
2024/12/02
12:24 UTC

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