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hey, so i have both masc and fem elements in my style but i suppose i lean more towards to masc side. i’ve started trying to look more and more gay and have been accessorizing more. i was wondering if there were any lesbian-looking bracelets that could help me. i wear a lot of band shirts and baggy jeans, so something that matches that aesthetic a little bit. any recommendations appreciated!!

I have the misfortune of living in small town Straightsville where there are no dedicated LGBTQ+ places and most people fully embrace the CompHet. I’m constantly approached by men who presume me to be straight, but it’s so hard to meet women because I think they just presume me to be heterosexual as well.

Style wise I’m about as femme as it gets. I have long hair that is my natural color because it’s too much trouble to dye; love pretty dresses and heels; also get regular mani-pedis that while always kept sapphically short, I’m quite partial to pretty colors with sparkle. Most of my clothes are black and shades of pink, red, purple and blue.

I know it’s cheesy but I do love rainbow accessories as well, including jewelry. Tattoos and piercings are unfortunately out of the question for me due to a skin condition.

Anyone else have this problem? Any ideas on how I can look more queer/sapphic to other sapphics??

I would love your help to be adviced and reviewed on how to dress up better and look nice. I'm unsure if I do right now, thanks to my insecurities 😵. Also, could you tell me if I've got any traditional feminine qualities? I'd love to be reaffirmed that I do look womanly. 🥺❤️