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R4R, for Indonesian or someone who is in Indonesia

/r/IndoR4R

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M4R - Seeking people for a critical-theory bookclub

Hello. A couple years ago, I had an intense bookclub with friends where we discussed social, economic, aesthetic, philosophical, and general issues through critical-theory, literature, and philosophy. Now, I'm planning to revive it again. It's going to be a free, non-hiererachical space regardless of their believes, and without an organizational structure. The group will bear the base principles:

  • Advocate for a neutral, non-tone-deaf, and detached perspective on issues

(E.g You see the current "livestream ngemis" problem not from a skewed capitalistic lens as an issue of 'laziness', but rather as a byproduct of accelerationism/hyper-capitalism affecting suburban and rural domains, or other arguments that you may posit outside from any ideological bias)

  • Uncompromised freedom of speech, with the exception of racism, intolerance, and hate speech.

  • Oppose and are against the existence and nature of anecdotal books driven by the neolib agenda: "self-help" books, "self-improvement" books, etc.

If you're interested, feel free to PM me, thanks!

3 Comments
2024/11/03
06:22 UTC

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32[M4F] Non- Indo looking to talk to english speaking women

I am looking for someone who can hold a good conversation. If you are comfortable in english and happy to teach me some Bahasa Indonesia, we are good.

4 Comments
2024/11/02
04:59 UTC

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22 M4R Tangsel/Anywhere looking for friends to vc or meetup

Hi y'all. I'm currently working full time and want to find friends to enjoy the weekend with. I could drive if you're around BSD area. Here's my interest that hopefully I can share with you and do together.

  • I play a lot of wuthering waves, Honkai star rail, and ZZZ. Definitely up for some lore discussion or just discussing the games in general.
  • For multiplayer, I often play dota 2 or valorant (though only quickplay cause a lot of smurfs), I'm on Archon in dota 2 and play valorant casually only. I could get into card games like magic the gathering too if you're into it.
  • Discovering spotify playlist :) I often go to song radios to find hidden gem and would love to share favourite songs. I'm generally open to diverse genres
  • Eating out. My budget range are spots that are <50k and could make you feel full. I highly enjoy eating different foods on different occasions.
  • Jogging. Definitely we can jog together if you're near pasar modern BSD.
  • Being active, I'm really down to play together if you have a sport that you like. Healthy and energized body is worth a lot
  • I'm your guy if you had a sudden question or thought about life in 3 AM and want to share it with someone, lmao. I like giving thought out responses, I'm not afraid of details, including reading terms and conditions :p
  • My other interests are chess, learning and updating on STEM or politics or economical news, discussing philosophies or ideas.

Hit me up if you think we can hang out and I'm looking forward to be talking to you! Let me now if you have other activities that you like to do and maybe I'd be interested in that too. Please send an introduction about yourself or I'll be ignoring your message. Hope you have a nice day

3 Comments
2024/11/02
02:49 UTC

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20 M4R | Discord friend (to call)or any sort of deep human interaction. Hmu

(Jakarta & sekitar)Was hesitant on making this post, but i'm looking for a genuine thing here, because i've never had any online friends(bad idea ik). Not really chronically online for my age, so i'll probably struggle to relate to certain stuff. But here are some of my interest in the case you have similar ones (or to skip the small talk)

  1. Music : Rap(US rap), J-pop (alot of the j-rock), Indo Pop (juicy lucy lmao), Pop (the usuals but probably sza n laufey)
  2. Media : Most top 100 tv shows, i've pobably binged it...
  3. Video Games : anything you could play on a pc, i'd prolly like it, ion play games like that.
  4. I do work out like most guys, 2 years strong

I'd prefer if they're also looking for genuine connection, ion wanna just talk abt random shit, and forget about it in a week. Hmu if you down being friends

8 Comments
2024/11/01
13:49 UTC

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19 M4R | I need a gaming/chronically online/therapist duo

I'm available at almost every night, Saturday and Sunday is where I'm always active (except if there's something important going on, or I'm just lazy to get on the computer).

Lists of games I'm currently active playing rn:
- Risk of Rain 2
- Deadlock
- Neverwinter (baru main, early lvl 20)
- Fortnite
- Roblox
- osu!
- Geometry Dash (only for creating levels)

but overall I'm flexible, I can play any type of games (except gacha games), primarily I dominate at competitive games like R6, CS2, and Valorant, but I'm also tired of competitive games so rn I'm just tryna relax and play chill casual games and VC and talk about something idk. I can sometimes be a yapper, and sometimes can be as silent as a dead person bcuz I got nothing to talk about or im just tired and want to focus on the game.

If u r interested, feel free to hmu then we can chat over on discord. (also, if we decide to vc I might say some stupid ass shit, you can just ignore that)

https://preview.redd.it/dgklr3qw14yd1.jpg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=87a2b683044cbe87709571f722fae257e4c3878c

3 Comments
2024/10/31
15:33 UTC

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M4R - M24 from Medan

I'm looking for online friends who enjoy chatting about personal finance or investing. It's been difficult to find anyone remotely interested or open to discuss about anything to do with money (Like do you just stuff all of your money under the mattress??). If you're interested, just leave a comment or shoot me a dm.

Honestly, if there are a lot of people interested, I'm open to starting a discord server dedicated to discussing personal finance.

1 Comment
2024/10/31
14:55 UTC

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27 m4f - Expat in Jakarta

Hi everyone, I’m originally from Europe but based in Jakarta since a couple of years. DM me and let’s chat ☺️

1 Comment
2024/10/31
04:58 UTC

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M4F (22)Surabaya

Looking for someone to hang with, prefer to hang out when night such as dinner, midnight hang or just riding arround town would be nice Would talk about anything, or just staring at surabaya scenery, really love about cars, music and DC AMU I don't have any preference about age as long as not too old or too young for me (-2 / +2)

1 Comment
2024/10/31
04:42 UTC

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F4R - visiting Jogja

Hi, I’ll be visiting Jogja in two weeks and am looking to meet redditors there!

About me:

  • F2x from Jakarta
  • visiting family in Jogja
  • dislike gudeg
  • a big fan of ayam geprek bu made :D

I don’t have any plans yet, would be down to explore chic money laundering coffeeshops.

Note: no fwb/ons.

4 Comments
2024/10/30
15:49 UTC

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35 M4M looking for anything

35 M4M looking for anything
168 cm. 69 kg. hit me up

3 Comments
2024/10/29
10:24 UTC

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24 m4r expat in ph

need someone to talk to

-weeb, memes, and loves to draw

hit me up!

1 Comment
2024/10/29
05:12 UTC

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M4M 36M Taiwan

Looking for friends to hangout or play games Hit me up :)

4 Comments
2024/10/28
17:37 UTC

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22 M4R South Jakarta - looking for online friends, since adulting is soo lonely :(

Bit about me:

  • Have a freaky ass typing (heres my recent emojis: 😭🥺😋☠️💀🥴)
  • Addicted to drama manga and read mostly trashy shoujo villainess manhwas
  • Not into movies and games (i have low attention span lol)
  • Buuuut, i like books (more like buying it than actually reading it)
  • I code and build lots of side projects as an escape for my boring govt jobs
  • Occasionally bengong at park/library/cafe after work to read smt or just staring at window
  • I'm INTJ if that's matter

We might a good fit if:

  • You're quirky
  • Like manhwa or manga (i'll def spam you with lots of screenshot)
  • You like to be spammed with brainrot reels
  • Talkative, i love hearing stories~
  • That's it
5 Comments
2024/10/27
15:39 UTC

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26 [M4R] Malaysia/Online - Looking for someone to talk, be friends with or more!

Hey there, I hope you're doing well! Good question if you ask why am I here, I just love Indonesia so much with their culture, people, and food! I was hoping to make some good friends or anything possible with kind soul like you :)

I'm planning to visit Indonesia again, can you take me out on a tour please? :D (visited Jakarta & Bali)

Fun fact about me:

  • I have Accounting/Finance background, so yeah that's my job
  • I am 175/65 if that matters to you
  • I can speak Chinese, English, and Malay (some Bahasa Indonesia words too?)
  • I love travelling, especially Indonesia! I'm planning to go there again soon
  • I play online games
  • I love every fun things that you like to do, I'm quite flexible to fit into someone's interest
  • I love window shopping, swimming, reading, gaming, Netflix/movies and talking to you especially

Text me to discover more :D I'll be waiting!

6 Comments
2024/10/27
14:45 UTC

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22 [F4M] South Jakarta - Looking for good banter

As the title says. I dare you to get to know me.

Hints: I'm a journalist, I value quality connections, and I prefer not to take life too seriously.

13 Comments
2024/10/27
14:16 UTC

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23 [m4m] jakarta - looking for someone to talk to or even more

hii~ i'm the 'talkative and expressive but shy and awkward at first' type of person. open-minded and a cat lover, i consider myself caring and a mix of both energetic and lazy. my interests include music, movies, and engaging in deep conversations, also self-care. while i'm open to various possibilities, a long-term relationship would be nice ngl (i'm pretty much a soft boy). if any of this interests u, my dms are open! (:

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2024/10/26
16:50 UTC

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25F F4M tired of being single

Hello there! I’m from Makassar and feeling tired of being alone. I’m looking for someone who’s honest, open minded and dedicated.

11 Comments
2024/10/25
13:51 UTC

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33F [F4M R4R] Jakarta, looking for chats/potential partner.

Hey guys, I'm looking for someone to chat with, maybe just for some virtual hangouts or even grabbing a coffee together while we chat. Would be nice to meet new people. I live in South Jakarta but work in West Jakarta.

A little about me:

●F33 ●Javanese Christian, but not really religious ●Speak several foreign languages (would tell you in the DM haha) ●My hobbies include reading, listening to music (especially jazz—any other jazz fans here?), and watching classic sitcoms, haha.

It might seem boring, but we could at least have a chat first, right? Just hit me up in the DMs, guys! <3

29 Comments
2024/10/25
09:37 UTC

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27 [F4M] Jakarta - Looking for friends/potential partner

Hello, I’m looking for new friends that might lead to something more if we match.

A little about me:

  • Christian but not religious
  • INTJ (if that matters)
  • I like to read books but my attention span is getting worse. Currently I’m reading Babel by R.F. Kuang.
  • I like to watch movies and KDramas. Currently I’m watching The Judge From Hell.
  • My music taste is quite diverse, from Kpop to jazz
  • I love tuberose fragrance so so much, that explains my username
  • I love food, museums, art galleries, and picnic at the local park
  • Works in the public sector

Hit me up if you’re interested!

11 Comments
2024/10/25
08:45 UTC

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M4R Looking for Legal Cofounder

We are building upcoming AI product which aim to revolutionize legal sector in Indonesia.

DM me for more info!

9 Comments
2024/10/25
02:50 UTC

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18 [F4R] Jakarta - Looking for a Study Partner

I'm currently majoring in law and have an ENTJ-A personality type. I enjoy jazz and art. I'm particularly interested in hukum ekonomi dan teknologi.

Feel free to reach out!

5 Comments
2024/10/22
17:31 UTC

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29 M4R. Looking for someone to have long calls with, no strings attached

I've been feeling very lonely these days, especially after two of my best friends got married this year. I just want someone to talk to semi-anonymously, with no strings attached. Extremely unlikely that I would want to meet up but I'm not completely against it.

few things about me:

  • I'm a lawyer
  • Tinggal dan kerja di Jakarta Selatan
  • I love writing and reading, would it be cool if you could recommend me some books.
  • I'm obsessed with combat sports especially boxing. I regularly spar and train, I've also fought a few times
  • People would say I'm like a general information nerd. I just love to read about random shit especially on history, geography, zoology and linguistics.
  • Maluku-Minang. Ga religius.
  • My friends say that I have an "old man energy". Lol I'm not sure why, probably because I'm bad at tech, I love old music/movies, idk though
  • I'm pretty big on music. I used to have an active band and play gigs regularly but we're on hiatus at the moment. I play bass and keyboards
  • I love movies. My favourite era is the "New Hollywood" era with Scoresese, De Palma, Coppola etc. I haven't been following new movies very closely lately so please tell me about your favourite recent releases!
  • I don't think this matters, but I'm Sagittarius and INTP if you do care about those things

If you're down to talk, just hmu. Let's call on discord or some other platform hehe

5 Comments
2024/10/22
05:05 UTC

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m4f any bbw's in jakarta?

#bbw #bicurious

2 Comments
2024/10/22
04:32 UTC

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23 R4R Bouldering is Fun!!

Heya! Just want to let you guys gals and non binary pals know that if you're looking for a new activity and possibly encountering new friends, then bouldering might be it!

If you don't know what Bouldering is, it's basically rock climbing without ropes. There are several rock climbing gym around Jakarta such as Kemang, FX and Neo Soho mall.

What I experienced while bouldering with my chubby physique and weak ass hands is that people are very willing to teach you there! If you are athletic and coincidentally doing the same route, they will cheer on you and even discuss on how to solve the route. They would cheer "Alles!" when you are climbing and it's really nice to have strangers cheer you.

Personally I have not made any new friends yet since I am scared of approaching people first, but I have seen a couple of new friends made in my two times bouldering! So I still believe that I can make new friends there.

So yeah tldr: go bouldering if you want to be active and make new friends easily!

New bouldering friends to teach me how to be a monke would be nice hehehehe

15 Comments
2024/10/22
03:45 UTC

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25 M4R Pengen mencari temen online

Hi semua. Boleh ga ya klo pengangguran cari temen online disini juga? I kinda lonely dan saat ini sedikit struggle dengan depresiku. (been diagnosed and had routine medications by doctor).

Aku lbh suka ngobrol ama org random di internet krn bisa lbh plong dan ga yg takut kena judgement. Aku tidak terlalu ada hal khusus yg jdi ketertarikanku, tpi klo kalian suka akan film dan anime aku juga bisa ngikutin.

Skrg ini jujur lbh pengen cari temen online yg bisa nampung uneg² di kepalaku gitu dan ya hopefully jga bisa ngebangun my self confidence that has been destroyed. Feel free to dm me if you're interested 😁

2 Comments
2024/10/20
15:18 UTC

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35 M4F bali kuta, seminyak etc

Hey guys, im looking for a companion or just have to show me around bali or just have coffee with. il be here til the 29th, im filipino so i dont understand indo. Im 5'6 average build, maybe 6 on a good day, if we have good chemistry maybe make it nsfw. Hope i see you in my dms and maybe we could vibe check over there.

P.s. balinese people are sooo nice

1 Comment
2024/10/20
15:02 UTC

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24 F4R jakarta, looking for a tech co-founder

Or just someone to discuss about the tech field since im about to start my own tech company. Probably not the best place to look for one lol but I'm gonna give it a shot. I can explain everything about the project tho.

18 Comments
2024/10/18
03:26 UTC

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24 F4R is anyone coming to tech in asia jakarta this year?

Kinda looking for a companion tho

6 Comments
2024/10/18
03:22 UTC

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M4R Tangsellooking for gym bud

Hey y’all, I’m 23m and just bought a gym membership to start working out. I’m kinda lost and dont really know where to start, so I was hoping to find someone to workout with, or if possible someone who can teach/guide me (but not necessary, im just really looking to find a gym friend). Im around ciputat area (fithub ciputat lot). Feel free to hmu :)

1 Comment
2024/10/17
04:13 UTC

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27 F4R FOMO on Indo friends

Hi fellow Indonesians wherever you are!

So I’m starting a new job next year that would require me to be away from the country around 80% of the time. I was pretty excited at first since I’ve never lived / stayed abroad for anything longer than a vacation, tapiiiii dipikir-pikir makin kesini kok makin mellow karena gak bakal tinggal full time disini lagi :(

Of course I’m thinking about existing people in my life that I’ll miss but also there’s this little piece of me that’s thinking about all of the people and potential friends I haven’t met yet dan tiba tiba FOMO sendiri (tolong jawab kalo ada yang tau ini fenomena adulting / existential crisis apa lagi ya 🤔)

Anyways, I’m trying to meet new friends and make more memories in the next couple of months before I leave. Ideally, ngobrol dulu kali ya lewat Reddit atau other messaging platforms (voice chat preferred, I’m so bad at texting for a long period of time 😭), if we click and you’re in Jakarta, maybe we can hang out sometime, or if not, I’m open to online friends as well!

Likes:

  • Photo dumps
  • Yapping
  • Mocktails
  • Roadtrips
  • Phone calls
  • Romanticizing
  • Long walks
  • Funny whatsapp stickers
  • Photo booths
  • Recycling
  • Deep talks
  • Mie ayam

Dislikes:

  • Rude people
  • Being rushed
  • The color brown
  • Tompi (I can’t explain it)
  • B.O.
  • Sosis yang dibikin bentuk gurita
  • Indecisiveness

Edit: guys ada yang mau nemenin ke Museum Nasional??? Denger denger baru renov habis kebakaran dan banyak activity baru??? Pls

19 Comments
2024/10/16
14:47 UTC

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