Hi! I am a 21 years old German Student who will have an semester in Indonesia. I will be travelling around the whole country so good chance I am in your region ;)

My dick is 19cm long and I am down for fun!

Heya you can call me Yu and here's my pics, used to be in Surabaya but currently in Lombok for the foreseeable future, I'm 170cm/5.6ft 63kg/139lbs, love all kind of run activity especially running from reality haha

So yeah... I'm really seeking for a childfree partner hopefully for lifetime, been on and off of relationship because all my past relationship thought I wasn't serious or just in a phase. Since I was a kiddo myself, I just don't really see myself capable and be responsible to raise a child

Anyway first thing first just getting this out of the way early, currently do not have an established career. I lost my job last year, right now I'm helping my dad's shop selling mining rope and hose, also sometimes doing commission (still trying to not waste my art degree 🙃) and maybe if you got an offer hit me up 😆

📌 So here's about me that may be a deal breaker :

• Can't do alcohol, one sip I'll be like boiled shrimp
• I Love to walk for hours especially in forest and do hiking
• I don't mind older woman, been in a relationship with 8 years gap
• I'm a Buddhist, not religious but like to study all belief and spiritual
• Have a small tattoo on my back and maybe will add more in the future

My current hobby are yoga and reading (I know sounds really boring haha), also every few days I will do some trail run or badminton, and sometimes play multiplayer co-op games like Warframe and Sons of The Forest with my friends

💬If you wanna ask or chat feel free to dm me here or use line [evan.kuan] or telegram [evankuan] yeah not my name, just my old pen pal name

Anyway thanks for your time and best of luck

Baru pindah ke Balikpapan nih, umur 29, tinggi 171 cm, berat 65 kg. Sejauh ini temen di sini cuma temen kantor sama anak-anak basket, jadi lagi nyari kenalan baru. Entah buat ngobrol santai, nongkrong, atau cari makan enak bareng.

Gue suka main game, nonton film, olahraga (gym & basket), dan makan—jadi kalau lo punya rekomendasi tempat makan enak di Balikpapan, kasih tau dong, sekalian bisa coba bareng. 😆

Nggak ada ekspektasi apa-apa, kalau ketemu temen asik udah seneng, kalau nyambung lebih jauh ya kenapa nggak? 😏 Langsung aja DM atau komen, biar kenalan!

Lol just kidding

It’s Sunday and I’m just in a silly goofy mood, looking for new friends to talk to. Maybe we’ll become best friends or maybe we’re each other’s soulmate, who knows? 🤪

I’m 28, grew up all over the place but have been in Jakarta the longest. I’m living abroad at the moment but I’ll be back in J-town in April. I love iced americano, traveling, going to concerts/karaoke, late night drives, and long ass walks (like really long).

Muslim here but kinda so-so when it comes to practicing, btw did you know that you can take a halal to haram ratio? Apparently mine is 65:35. My Favorite house chore is washing dishes, least favorite is ironing. I’m a tough cookie kalo diluar tapi hati Hello Kitty, suka nangis kalo nonton Thai commercials.

I know there’s no structure to this post but yeah idk this made sense in my head when I wrote it. Anyways give me a shout should you feel intrigued by whatever this is tips top hat

Also, if we do end up getting married, please prepare alternative answers for when people ask us how we met, thanks!

im just a nerdy guy who just start his 20s looking for some fun... online not irl sadly lol

my only limit are face, faces are no bueno. other part of bodies yes.

hmu if ur interested >:)

Hello, I hope you all are doing well.

I want to make a place where we can share anything that's in our mind to let it go out of our mind. Be it controversial or depressing, it's ok because I think not being able to truly express ourselves hurts much more.

However, I don't want to make it purely a venting space too. I want to bring positivity in it as well. We acknowledge the pains, but we try to look at the silver lining and try to move forward in any way we can. Celebrate good things going on in our lives even if it's small.

You miss every shot you don't take, maybe this could be a place where you truly connected with someone, or a place where you can feel safe. I've been in so many situations where I feel like I'm walking on eggshells around others and I don't want to make that atmosphere in the group.

Honestly, at the moment I'm quite tired in life. I tried to work hard on things that I find important but a lot of things doesn't make it easy to do. So I want to make a positive place to encourage one another.

If you're interested, come send me a DM and I'll send you an invite. Feel free to just directly talk about what's in your mind and I'll personally respond to it. I hope you all have a nice day :)

32F, 166cm, 78kg, feminist/SJW mentok, childfree and proud. Muslim berhijab, masih makan halal, mencoba rajin sholat namun gagal terus. Tidak minum, tidak merokok. Gym 4 kali seminggu (kalau gak males). Kerja di pabrik daerah Cibitung, Bekasi. Domisili juga Bekasi.

Cari pasangan (pacar jangka panjang, suami) min umur 28th max 40th yang childfree and proud juga. Sudah capek swipe left di Bumble karena lelaki Indonesia somehow masih pengen beranak semua.

Terima kasih.

When you get older, and everything became boring activities, now try to find way to have some fun for yourself. and also to share stories

i often work from nearest Kopi kenangan, janji jiwa, even chatime. currently reading Brandon Sanderson The Way of Kings.

I'm into K-drama because it's in the past for me, prefer west tv series. One Piece die hard. Gundam Collector (was).

Commuter line users from Tangerang - Tanah Abang and walk to office.

Hey there M29 here a non Moslem and Chindo. Currently at outside of capital used to be in capital of Indonesia. A little about me:

• M29
• chindo
• love working out (but In hiatus now)
• love to listen to songs yes u can hit me with your fav too
• currently lonely and not feeling okay mentally

Just wanna find online friends SFW or NSFW wise not matter for me. Hope to hear from you soon, just chat me I'll reply ASAP

Hello, I'm an introverted guy with awkward communication, so I prefer talking one-on-one. I like hanging out, preferably in cafes or restaurant. I also regularly send messages, nothing serious, just like "Hello, how are you doing today, what are your plans? etc." just to check-in. I am lonely, so perhaps I ended up spamming you with messages, as I do not have anyone to talk to (apart from college and office colleagues). I like to discuss a lot of things, but I tend to "ngibul" one or two things, just to spice thing up lol. I had a dry sense of joke.

I play some triple As games: Assassin's Creed, Control, etc. I am somehow a nerd, but not much of a nerd, that I could understand thing deeply, like knowing all spells in Harry Potter, or the name of cities in the Lord of the Rings.

I also recently started exercising in the gym to lose old weight. I'm a chub. If you stay near Klender Baru - Kranji, we might go to the gym together. My gym had daily membership.

I just lost some friends to marriage and others to death. I need someone to talk to, preferably offline. I am looking for someone in the same age and gender range as me (M25 - 35). Main trait I look for is patience, care and honesty, and perhaps experience in gym and socializing.

If you stay in Jadebek, I might be able to meet you in a cafe, as long the place is accesible through KRL stations (I prefer Bekasi - Sudirman line, or Manggarai - Depok line). The snacks and beverages are on me if the price is less than 100k. Lol.

Hi Peeps F24 here!!! curently stay at jogja (Tahun terakhir di jogjaa omg) i like to playin game, strooolling around, kulineran gas kiwww, travelll!!!! for now i'm looking for friend ywdh hit me up je la

a basic javanese guy who have a boring job. I feel like I don't have an identity. I just like to play console games, classic tech nerd, smoke, drink coffee, and keep joking around. to me, it's all very basic.

I am a writer, but that's how I introduce myself. what a joke right? awokwok

one more thing, i love wwe😅

a dry texter, highly values face-to-face conversation

down for any kind of relationship, i just wanna have some fun for a little while

forgive me for my english, just tryin to catch up🙏

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iam 26m, 172cm 60kg. typical 9-5 worker. have no plan yet for this long weekend. just send me a dm.

Hi, I'm 30F living in Jakarta. I'm trying my luck here to connect with someone of similar interest, or possibly potential long term partner.

About me:

• A bit of my background, I'm of Chinese Indonesian descent, Christian Catholic, currently single, never been married. I work at an MNC in Senayan area.

• In my free time I usually do some light reading. Not exactly books, but like articles, thread, insta post. For non fictions, some topics I enjoy reading are politics, social issues, psychology, mental health, fitness, and economy. I also love reading novels, webtoons, and watch netflix.

• I love cooking shows, and trying out simple recipes. I enjoy trying out new resto / cafe, in search of great food and vibes.

• I listen to any music, but my favorite includes instrumental, jazz, lo-fi. For pop songs I listen to whoever are top singers at the time. I also enjoy singing along and playing musical instrument (piano, organ).

• Physically, I try to keep myself fit. I started gym a few weeks ago, and have been playing tennis. I also would love to be introduced to a new hobby (e.g. boardgame, hiking, etc).

• Appearance wise, I have slim built and 160cm tall. My communication style is leaning towards being open and direct, I also value being fair and drama free. I look for someone of similar background and value in long term partner.

• Would love to keep things simple, and directly meet up or get some lunch, instead of chatting online too much.

• Last of but not least, it's CNY, iykyk. Just kidding. Being able to have a good laugh together would be awesome 😸

If any of that resonates with you, feel free to send me a message 😊

I am a 25-year-old Indonesian male of Javanese and Sundanese descent, with a touch of Padang heritage. Standing at 174 cm tall and weighing 64 kg, I like to maintain a healthy lifestyle and am drug- and disease-free (DDF).

Born and raised in an Islamic family, I was once deeply religious but now find myself barely practicing. My younger years were dedicated to academics and hobbies, leaving me with limited experience in relationships or interactions with the opposite sex.

My interests include watching movies and you tube videos with a focus on cultural analysis, sketching, working out regularly, indulging in good food as a self-proclaimed foodie, and reading practical self-help books. I’m currently trying to expand my literary horizons by exploring classical literature. I’m fluent in both Indonesian and English, which helps me connect with people from different backgrounds.

I live with my family and cannot host but am open to arranging accommodations like a hotel room or Airbnb for meetups. In terms of relationships, I’m seeking short-term Friends with Benefits (FWB) arrangements or one-time encounters.

My preferences include partners aged 18-30s years old, with slender body types. I’m open to both inexperienced (virgin) and experienced partners and am eager to explore my sexuality at a comfortable pace. While I describe myself as a homebody, I’m willing to step out of my comfort zone for light indoor or outdoor activities or even casual dates before taking things further.

As someone who is still a virgin i only learned sexual relationship through media, I kindly ask for patience from potential partners as I navigate this new territory. I’m also willing to undergo STD testing for mutual reassurance. For those interested in connecting, please send me a message about yourself along with a safe-for-work (SFW) face picture—I’ll gladly share mine in return. This way, we can ensure honesty and avoid catfishing before exchanging social media or Discord for further verification. For reference, I’m an Aries (zodiac), born in the year of the rabbit, and my element is Earth. If this resonates with you, feel free to HMU ~

look forward to getting to know you :)

Honestly, I’m too lazy to write this, but my friend told me to stop procrastinating and just post it already (lol). So here it is. Sorry if it’s messy or cringe or grammarly error—I’m writing this in English to practice.

I’m taking a gap year before college (probably studying international business next year), and with all this free time, I’m feeling pretty lonely. My therapist said I should try to socialize more, but it’s hard because I’m neurodivergent (possibly autistic with ADHD) and have social anxiety. Making friends isn’t exactly my strong suit, so I figured I’d give this a try. I’m looking for friends to hang out with or just chat online. Please, no creeps.

For IRL meetups, I’d prefer female friends under 20 since my parents are super protective (mungkin untuk hangout khusus cewek ya). But for online friends I'm okay with any age.

Quick Intro:

• INFP, Taurus. My birthstone is emerald.

• Muslim (I wear a hijab, but don’t worry—I’m not super religious or anything, so no lectures, promise).

• I live in Depok but used to live in Bogor.

What I’m Into:

1. Jewelry: I’m obsessed with jewelry, everything about it—designs, gemstones, wrist watches, techniques—you name it. My favorite part is gemstones and minerals (you might’ve seen me post about them on Indonesia or perempuan subreddits). My dream is to own a Chopard high-jewelry watch and vintage high-jewelry Cartier (emerald especially) one day.

2. Fashion: I love mixing and matching outfits, and most of my wardrobe is thrifted. If you’re into thrifting, we should definitely go together sometime. I used to be into Lolita fashion (not the book, lol). Almost went to ESMOD but switched focus to jewelry design instead.

3. Business & Finance: I want to learn more about trading, real estate, and the stock market, but I feel so stuck. If you have experience in these areas, let’s be friends! My dad works for OJK, but he’s not into trading, so he can't help much and my mom’s forex knowledge is outdated, so I need someone to guide me or for insight.

Anime & Cosplay:

1. I used to be a hijab cosplayer, and I went to anime conventions a lot back then. Fun fact: I was mutuals with Linnichi back when her followers were still in the hundreds (though I doubt she remembers me now, lol).

2. My favorite anime is Detective Conan I grew up watching it and still rewatch it—it’s nostalgic for me because my parents love it too (I'm obsessed with Amuro Tooru). I also enjoyed The Apothecary Diaries (it reminds me of Akagami no Shirayukihime), Hataraku Saibou, Kimetsu No Yaiba, Jujutsu Kaisen and know a bit about danmei (Mo Dao Zhu Shi was my first).

3. I don’t watch much anime anymore, but I still keep up with some fandom discussions here and there. (I like DC especially Batman/bat family but never actually read the comics, favorite robin is Damian Wayne).

Other Random Stuff:

1. motorsports: I’m intrigued by F1 and motorsports, but I haven’t fully gotten into it because got bittersweet memories tied to it so I'm hesitant to dive deeper. That said, I think Yuki Tsunoda is adorable and cute (judge me if you want, lol) and learn how to drift is on my wishlist, probably because I like Amuro Tooru (dream car Mazda RX-7 fd bcuz of him too).

2. really interested in Chinese culture and want to learn Mandarin so I can talk to Chinese sellers directly but keep procrastinating to start (not proud). If you’re Chinese or Chindo, hit me up—I’d love to chat (and I promise to be respectful).

Old Hobbies: I used to enjoy archery, taekwondo (blue belt), swimming, baking, fanfiction writing, Webtoons, vocaloid and BJD dolls, though I haven’t done any of those in years.

If any of this sounds interesting, feel free to message me. I’d love to connect, whether it’s online or IRL. Let’s chat!

Hi folks, looking for chill people to game together with. We can make some good banters, have a nice laugh, and chat about how we're doing while we're at it! Small talk is optional! Just be blunt and br yourself.

I'm open to most games as long as it's not really stressful like ranked MOBA (ex-dota 2 enthusiast) or valorant. I find myself often enjoying laid back support roles after having less time from work. While I say I'm casual, I have a history of learning things well enough to be decent ;)

Right now I'm most interested in marvel rivals and downloading it at the moment. Let me know if there's other games you're interested in playing together with!

I make this post primarily for friends, but open for dates too if you're interested in that.

If this interests you, let me know what game interests you the most and hopefully we can schedule a gaming session.

Note that I might not available everyday, so if you need someone that's going to play with you everyday, I'm not that person. But if you want a fellow casual person that could commit to a hangout time together, I'm your guy!

Hope you have a nice day

Hello, I just moved to Central Jakarta. I want to know more about the underground that people often talk about.Maybe some of you can tell us more about how to survive and the nightlife in Jabodetabek. or should i move to r/jakartanight?

you could also share anything like gym, underated coffe shop

here's little bit about me:

• addicted to coffee milk
• 68/172
• gym every week
• INTJ

I would be very happy to be able to interact with you in Jakarta, please kindly dm me for more

Want to explore the subculture of Jakarta this CNY

Hi I’m from Australia. I’m coming to Bali on February. Looking for someone who likes to travel and chill. If you are interested, dm me.

Hey everyone,

I'm a casual tarot reader who usually does readings for my friends. Lately, they've been encouraging me to open an online tarot service for people who might need guidance. However, I'm not entirely confident in my skills since I don't consider myself an indigo or anything like that.

What I do is interpret the symbolism of the cards and connect it to the story or questions being asked. I feel comfortable doing this with friends because we have a connection and bond, which makes it easier for me to interpret their readings.

That said, I'm not sure how it would go with people I don't know, so I was hoping to find some practice clients to see if I actually have the "spiritual gifts" for this. If you're interested, I'd love to offer a free reading in areas like love, finance, or career.

If you're interested, feel free to DM me! Thanks in advance for helping me out! :)

Update: I'm no longer accepting volunteers guys. Thank you for your enthusiasm and help 😊💕

Helloo, i'm a 19M (20 this year) from the North of Jakarta, I'm a part of the lgbtq community, currently a college student, studying Information System

I don't really know what to explain about myself, rather than I like to play games, especially open world, hack and slash, souls like, and indie games. I like singing but defienetly not the best at it, i'm open to all genre of music, but not a really big fan of hard rock and rap (except a couple).

My fav indonesian singers are Nadin Amizah, Fabio Asher, and Tulus, and for the international singers, I listen to anything popular tbh lmao.

I'm a still a curious young adult, not trying to hook up and get into some serious sexual stuff, down for some friends to talk to about and maybe a meet up.

Hi salam kenal!

I'll be in Semarang next week (26-30 jan) and I'm wondering if anyone there would like to show me around!!

There's a small chance that my sister (23f) is coming but for now let's assume it's just me.

Here are a few things about me. Reposted from my previous R4R post:

Jakarta Selatan.

My main hobbies include reading, playing music, chess, cycling, football and combat sports. But if you have different interests, that's cool. I love listening to people talk passionately about what they enjoy, even if it’s something I know nothing about

I would describe myself as a general information nerd. I can spend hours reading about random topics, but mainly history, geography, political science and zoology

Selera jadul. I love old music and movies--primarily from the 60s and 70s. Give me your best recent movie recommendations because I need to get start following modern movies more closely lol

Martials arts are a big part of my life, especially boxing. My goal in 2025 is to start competing again. I welcome anyone that wants to join me for a quick session in the gym!

Minang-Ambon. Muslim tp ga religius

If these stuff matter to you: INTP, Sagittarius

Currently im looking for a sub. F/M is okay but let's keep things slow to know if we vibes.

29 to 2 Feb in return I'd be your tour guide in SG

Ada kafe boardgame yang baru buka di BSD (@papanhobbies). Mereka ada promo untuk grand opening, jadi bisa main sepuasnya tanpa bayar! Berlaku sampai akhir bulan ini. Kalau makan ya tetap bayar, tapi di sebelahnya ada Indomaret kok wkwkwk.

If you're interested and available for a game this weekend (25 or 26 January), please DM me on Discord "hollowgap".

hi, lovelies! singkat aja, gw lagi cari temen buat ngobrol - as an online friend. hidup makin sibuk, ditambah lagi temen-temen deket gw juga SEMAKIN SIBUK jadinya gw gatau mau ngobrol kemanaaaa hahahahah 🥲😭

also, a few facts of me (if theyre matter) :

• infj-T
• lahir & besar di jaksel
• a healthcare worker
• hidup bersama strict parents, jadi kalo mau telponan agak syulit unless im working at the night shift and having a breaktime in between of my shift + singkatnya gw prefer ngobrol by chat OR voice-note
• just started a phase as an ebook reader
• not a gamer, the only game i played is the otome game. also fictional bf is the best so please bear with my delulu life
• a fan of movies and series, tp gw tipe orang yang sekali nonton dan gampang lupa pernah nonton apa aja
• im active on discord & instagram

yaudah gitu aja. hmu if youre interested, thank you🤠❤💐

Olaaa!!! living in jogja and looking for new/potential friends (online/offline). Ummm abt me... i like to talk abt anything alias banyak omong :") i love cooking, explore new cafe/culinary.... that's enough hit me up!!!!

Hey, folks! A long weekend is around the corner, and we’re planning an exciting road trip from Jakarta to Bali, starting Friday and wrapping up on Wednesday. Just to skip the heavy air fares and make it more fun.

Currently, it’s the four of us—three expats and one Chindo (3 guys and 1 girl)—and we’re looking for fun-loving and cheerful companions to join us. Any gender is welcome! Bonus points if you can share some of the driving duties.

We’ll be splitting all expenses equally among the group. So, if you’re up for an adventurous ride, good vibes, and amazing company, hit me up! Let’s make this trip Unforgettable.

Max By Tomorrow Night Please