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R4R, for Indonesian or someone who is in Indonesia

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25 M4R - Online - Looking for Gaming Friends / Group.............or maybe just friends to talk to about anything

Halo as the title said, looking for gaming friends / group, since there's autumn sale right now on steam, i thought this is the best time to looking for people to play games with, you know that coop, silly, fun, short, games like picopark, chained together, overcooked, etc. Or maybe even horror type games like phasmophobia, scp, backroom, lethal company, etc. I watched a lot of youtuber (specifically smii7y) playing any kind of games with his friends and i got envy of them having so much fun. So maybe we can recreate the same feeling like them.
If u wondering im kinda an introvert person (INTJ specifically if u into MBTI), so excuse me if things will go awkward, but i try my best not to make it awkward. And im usually play after work, around 8pm - 11pm, but im willingly to play all day long during weekend (if there's nothing to do lol).

Or like the title said if u not into gaming, im also looking for friends to talk to about anything, maybe specifically about quarter life crisis stuff because i feel so lost right now LOL

4 Comments
2024/12/04
07:16 UTC

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F4M - New connections in Louisiana

come to my Snap-mvvzoa or TG-lunagrg

1 Comment
2024/12/03
21:38 UTC

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M4F, M28 Surabaya looking for someone to build relationships with.

28 M4F Surabaya looking for someone to talk with. Someone to build relationship with.

Reposting in hopes of reaching more people. Doing better now since the last post.

Doesnt have to be couple or that kind of relationship. Might go there who knows but currently just want someone to bond with. A little about me

Chindo |drink socially • I vape but dont smoke • I work with kids . I'm a psychology graduate • I play mobile games, board games • I enjoy deep talk and talk about anything . kinda awkward at first • I'm very open minded and critical • I enjoy good company and good food

1 Comment
2024/12/03
18:21 UTC

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r4r need a friend

hi, im f 21 and currently busy with life and university. lagi butuh temen cerita nih

12 Comments
2024/12/03
15:35 UTC

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38 [M4F] Central/South #Jakarta - Visiting and looking for a nice date

I'm going to be in the Jakarta area next week and would love to meet a lady for a nice date. Food, conversation, laughter, and -- hopefully if we get along -- a makeout session. I'm not looking for sex.

I'm 38, male, single, based in the US, 5' 8", active, curious, kind, chatty, and easygoing. I'm respectful and affectionate, and I can hold a conversation and enjoy exchanging thoughts with people. I am clean and hygienic. I love visiting National Parks, getting out in the mountains and enjoy true crime podcasts or documentaries when its icky out. I started getting into woodworking this winter and it's been fun. I'm also a big crossword nerd and know a weird amount about the US highway system.

Send me a message if this piques your interest at all! I can share pics and would love to chat a bit and get to know each other.

Two truths and a lie about me:

  • I've met Nelson Mandela
  • I've climbed a 9,000 ft volcano
  • I had a flip phone until 2017
1 Comment
2024/12/03
00:30 UTC

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25 F4R jakarta looking for friends and potential parter

Just recently hit 25

  • fulltime voice actor freelancer , you can ask me about it in the dm.

-cindo-jawa (mostly cindo) -open for any japan and anime stuff. Also can speak quite some japanese aswell , we can learn together! -was an artist but stop for a moment , gonna pursue again if have motivation

  • open for foreigner
  • willing to have a coffee talk
  • ambivert can stay indoors for long time and out also , very interested in fishing and camping.

-i dont drink and smoke so please dont ask to meet in a club or simmiliar places

If we have a date dont worry about me i can pay for my own food and drink 😊😊

Edit: You guys also can ask other than voice acting. If you interested in my sample and want to purchase it or just curious how i sound like just go to my channel. Why is everyone ask about that so much 😭

https://youtube.com/@mikodesh?si=zPkQ77t1U1Q-46sg

Edit 2: just remember that i made AMA about my job few months ago , hope this also will clear your curiousity. https://www.reddit.com/r/indowibu/s/Q4bNwPENPN

Edit 3: just because im nsfw va doesnt mean im open for pervert stuff and your dik pict. dont ask for private call as well , im always open for servercall

42 Comments
2024/12/02
13:56 UTC

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28 M4F Jakarta , looking for Long term partner/ short term dates

Hi 28 M Chindo, from Jakarta here. I just got through a rough breakup from a 5 year relationship a few months ago. Feel like its a good time to put myself out there so here goes nothing. Some info about me :

  • Chindo, catholic (not practicing) , decently built
  • working in managerial position in a MNC from Germany, earning medium income (not insane amounts but more than enough to start a family and fund my own wedding i guess lol)
  • I have a plan to continue studying abroad for my masters but currently juggling between this decision because i need to leave my career for a bit.
  • I absolutely love traveling from going abroad, to cities in Indonesia even just to drive my car aimlessly through the jakarta on weekends and look for street foods

-favorite places to be is a cafe with a bookstore or a bar with chill music so we can talk

  • wide range of interest from filmography, sports (football, combat sports, f1 etc) , gaming , anime, hit me up about your interests! Love learning new things
  • I love asking questions about new people i met, please pardon me if i sound overly curious
  • my love language is act of service and physical touch

I really like to know more about you, and if we hit it off with reddit chat open to moving to another app because reddit chat sucks lol. Or we can meet up in real life as well (especially if youre down for impulsive travel plans!). I look for relationship but also absolutely open to having new friendships and go from there

Feel free to comment asking about me! Or hit up my DM, Cheers.

2 Comments
2024/12/01
05:13 UTC

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M4F 42 Expat looking for connecting with expats or open minded

Interested in sports (Tennis partners needed) or just doing gym classes or hanging out together after work. No expectations. Just need someone to talk to about life and not work!

Jaksel or central are preferred. Not a fan of malls.

Have a lovely Sunny day! 🌞

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2024/12/01
04:28 UTC

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23 [m4m] jakarta - looking for someone to talk to or maybe more(?) idk

hii, i'm a 'talkative and expressive but shy and awkward at first' type of person. i'm open-minded, a cat lover, caring, soft, and both energetic and lazy. i enjoy music, movies, and deep conversations also self care(?). i love strolling around the city while trying some new cute coffee shop or restaurant, hanging out with friends, or just chilling and doing nothing [: i'm also a VERY clingy person too, sorry for that (´・ェ・`). i think i'm open to anything mostly, my dms are open! (:

7 Comments
2024/12/01
02:29 UTC

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(M4f) 30M Jkt cari ONS

Chindo 30m, masih perjaka. Cari cewe yg tertarik buat hilangin perjaka aku. Bukan cari BO ya

Terima kasih

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2024/11/27
15:25 UTC

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25 [M4R] Based in Surabaya, looking for friends / SO / Anything here or virtually.

I'm Half chinese, I studied abroad for sometime but now i work in surabaya on a fam business, currently feeling constantly burnt up due to boredom and work.. trying to find new connections anywhere. I'm a huge movie guy, i watch almost every genre of movies depends on the mood. i play casual badminton and tennis but im not that good at them. my music taste is mostly rap, rock and alternative pop. Come say hi if you are looking for a chill chat or maybe we can meet? .

2 Comments
2024/11/26
11:22 UTC

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20 m4f fwb online

Helooo finding for a online fwb to send pics/sexting js hmu :)) idm if u wanna talk about sfw stuff too! Im quite quick to show u pics and more js dm me :)

Can talk melayu atau english

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2024/11/25
12:04 UTC

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M4F late 20s Caucasian in Surabaya

Hey all, I’m m28 from Western Europe and in Surabaya for a couple of days, DM me tips and things to do, maybe you can join me. ☺️

1 Comment
2024/11/24
16:23 UTC

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29 M4F - Looking for relationship online

Hi, im too lazy to type about my self here 😅. So just DM me that interested on this and we can see how it goes

1 Comment
2024/11/24
07:58 UTC

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M4F - Vietnam Trip

Hello Semua

I’m an expat who has been living in Jakarta for 5 years. I’m planning a trip to Vietnam this December (7th-14th) and would love to share the experience with someone who enjoys travel and good company.

Let’s connect, vibe, and create some amazing memories together. I’ll take care of all travel arrangements and expenses—just bring your great energy!

Aku juga bisa bicara sedikit Bahasa Indonesia—ayo ngobrol!

If this sounds interesting, feel free to reach out.

1 Comment
2024/11/23
23:53 UTC

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M4R early 30s M. Tangerang. just need friends

Not wibu. Not gamer. Straight. Enjoy sports. I can cook. Love cats. Enjoy food. I have a car. I own business. I dont need your money. I dont crave sexual pleasure. I just need friends. I just need to talk to people.

10 Comments
2024/11/23
12:32 UTC

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“m4f”some one give me jerk off instructions?

A

4 Comments
2024/11/23
03:27 UTC

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28 M4R Online friend to yapping or gaming buddy

As the title says, just looking online friend to yapping with or gaming buddy (mobile or pc), previously already create post here, probably can refer that post for detail but TL;DR,

  • I'm open minded person, also in treatment for mental illness (High Functioning Depression / Mild Depression)
  • like to tinker with tech and learn stuff related to tech, so kind of nerds in a way + sometimes I take personal time to do my personal projects like learning pentest / cybersec but sometimes I do random side project which takes my time to learn new stuff
  • 9-5 IT Bank worker but sometimes I have to do overtime
  • like to talk about tech, financials, politics (in country or foreign), games update or game lore, other than that just trend happening arounds
  • currently trying to play pc games again if I have free time, last time I hangout with some people online here but since I rarely active they kick me from the discord channel, so I would appreciate if you looking for gaming buddy just keep it like we are friends, like if you have problem talk with me about it, dont just kick someone just because rarely active
  • games I play currently just casual game available on my steam library like Returnal, Project Zomboids, Factorio, Minecraft, BF2042, PUBG, City Skyline 2, etc, I can play multiplayer as long as it is already in my library or free should be fine
  • also currently try to build small community so I wouldn't so lonely whenever I want to talk with people or just looking for people play games with, other than my current circle, if you interested can join my discord channel here, if you just want to be friend over discord can also add my discord id on my profile

I think that's all, and this is my last attempt and post to find new friends, feel free to slide my DM or discord, I wont post again after this in this subs

7 Comments
2024/11/22
17:39 UTC

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35 M4F Jakarta

Hey I'm a bule living in JKT. Looking for a cool girl to get to know and hopefully something more.

6"5 196cm from Australia 🦘

1 Comment
2024/11/22
16:33 UTC

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F4M - New connections in Jakarta

Kinda fed up with dating apps so I thought I should try my luck here.

I'm basically looking to meet new people, go on casual dates and have a good time. I'm not looking for sexting/ons/fwb or whatever involving sexual activities unless we have developed a strong chemistry in person.

I am:

  1. An outdoorsy person - I really dislike malls but I don't think there are many outdoor options in Jakarta.

  2. Animal lover - would love to be a part of communities/shelter one day when I have more free time

  3. Not a fan of trending songs these days - my playlist is filled with songs from 2013-2018.

  4. A big fan of thrillers/spy thrillers - among my fav ones : homeland, the bureau, the night manager, etc.

I'd like to maintain a certain level of privacy so unless we have met in person let's keep our private information (work, education, hometown, etc) private.

Thanks~~

15 Comments
2024/11/22
13:05 UTC

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22 - M4F - Jakarta | Looking For A Relationship

https://preview.redd.it/13fk1v03nd2e1.jpg?width=736&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=840dd57b168d56224f430862f63814df1a004260

Trying my luck here, cuz why not? Anyway I'm a 22 years old male, still in college. I'm pretty much a full on nerd or even more in anime, manga, games, pretty much almost all media and other things, I do play games but not many multiplayer ESPECIALLY MOBILE GAMES, I don't play gacha but I'll let you chew my ears off about it. Anyway here's a more description about me:
- I'm highly introverted, but with close friends I'm a silly billy.
- I smoke on avg 3 times a day & drink 6 times a year.
- I guess I look chinese (?).
- Used to go to the gym, now I do callisthenic & jogging/walking.
- INTJ Type 5.
- Not religious more of apatheism but leaning atheist.
- Recently I'm enjoying cosplaying in comifuro.
- I like going to arcades, book stores, thrift stores, anime con, anime stores, etc.
- I enjoy anything that has a psychological tags like Evangelion, The Truman show, Crime & Punishment, No Longer Human, Silent Hill 2, NBC's Hannibal, Welcome to the NHK, etc.
- I also enjoy experimental/non conventional/weird tags like Lain, Kino's Journey, breakcore, Killer7, Cruelty Squad, Ace Combat 3 Electrosphere, Hotline Miami 1 & 2, The MGS series, Chainsaw Man Part 2, PASWG, etc.
- The one game genre I'm very good at is car racing that I've been playing ever since I was born.
- I also enjoy cooking but haven't cook these last years cuz of college, so I now mostly enjoy discovering new food.

How I generally look like

Essential preference (MANDATORY):
- Alive & breathing.
- Of age, preferably 21 to 26.
- Consenting.
- Cisgender & Heterosexual.
- Non related by blood or family.
- Not a bot.
- Is interested in me.
- Is self-conscious or self aware, straight forward, cooperative, open minded & have integrity.
- Not too religious.

How I look like in a good day

I like to take it very slow, so I want to be friends first. But I’d love to see where things could go once we know each other better. No pressure, just keeping things easy and seeing what happens. Also, I prefer using discord but I do have IG but it's dead, so feel free to hmu.

https://preview.redd.it/pss9jo0rhd2e1.jpg?width=391&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=856c075853b9626fcda9dd4d7bd40228eb4ac014

5 Comments
2024/11/22
04:13 UTC

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25 F4R anywhere

Hi! I'm looking for new friends. I live in a city in Sumatera, but I often go to Jakarta (for medical treatment, but we can meet there). Tiny things about me:

I love reading books.

I love going to concerts!! (especially rock music ones)

I don't have pets but I do love them. :)

61 Comments
2024/11/21
08:34 UTC

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33 M4F in Jakarta

Hii I'm indonesian M , looking for F who find something casual... i based in jakarta, dm me if you want to know more

1 Comment
2024/11/21
06:28 UTC

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28M M4F Jakarta/Tangerang

Feeling like today’s just too bland? Or maybe life’s become a never-ending loop of work, work, and more work? Maybe a breakup’s got you feeling down? Or you’re just craving some fresh faces and new connections?

Well my life’s getting a little dull too, so why not team up to spice things up? I’m looking for someone to interact with, maybe a bit more intimately, so..........yes this is leaning into the NSFW zone.

If you're game, drop me an intro, and let’s stir up some mischief together ✌

1 Comment
2024/11/20
07:31 UTC

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29 [M4F] Jakarta - Looking for Friendship or a Relationship, Let's Connect Over Art, Trendy Shows/Movies, and Cycling

Hi there! I'm a 29-year-old guy based in Jakarta. Most of my inner circle is already married, so I’m putting myself out here to meet new people, preferably women with any age really, either older or younger, for friendship or a relationship.

A bit about me:

  • Passionate about digital arts and trendy shows/movies. I love following animations (especially Japanese anime) and popular shows, currently like Arcane. It’d be amazing to share my enthusiasm with someone who enjoys these things too. I also watched tons of movies, not only animation of course. Almost watched every top 250 Imdb movies. It'd be awesome if we can discuss movies!
  • Big on music. I’m a huge fan of Japanese artists like L’ArcenCiel, The Gazette, Kenshi Yonezu, Aimer, and ONE OK ROCK. I also love old-school visual kei and J-Pop. I feel like music today doesn’t hit the same emotional notes, so I’m stuck in a nostalgic phase — if you can relate, let’s talk!
  • Gaming enthusiast. Lately, I’ve been into Monster Hunter and can’t wait for Monster Hunter Wilds in February 2025. It’d be awesome to team up with someone who shares the same excitement for this series.
  • Cycling lover. I cycle daily around Jakarta Pusat and Jakarta Utara (Danau Sunter) and always join CFD Sudirman on weekends. If you’re into cycling, let’s ride together sometime!

I’d love to connect with someone who shares similar interests or just wants to have genuine conversations. Whether it’s about art, shows/movies, music, or even life in Jakarta, I’m all ears.

Feel free to comment or send me a DM—don’t be shy (tidak usah sungkan, ya!). I’m looking forward to getting to know you!

1 Comment
2024/11/19
13:42 UTC

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21 [M4F] Surabaya - Looking for some online chat friends or maybe more??

Hi, I'm a 21 y.o. boy who's looking for some open minded friends to talk to. I'm currently in my final year at one of the private college in Sby and I'm Ch*nese btw if it matters.

I love going to the cinema, hunting for food, and working out either it's going to the gym or just casually going for a light morning jog.

Casual fun online chats are good but a meetup is also fine since I'm just looking for a friend for now (maybe more? 😳) Feel free to DM me if you're interested or you're just as bored as me

1 Comment
2024/11/18
10:27 UTC

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25 [M4F] Jakarta - Looking for a clingy girl and will give and accept affection

I just got back from outside the country (working for 2years outside indonesia) and i broke up w my (ex) at the start im working outside the country (LDR is hard) because of it

i just got back to indonesia at May, and at April i go to Mountain rinjani to climb the top, and here i am at November still single and fixing my heart/ life/ work life piece by piece everyday 1% better every day (1 year i will be 360% extra knowledge)

6months already since i got back, many things has changed. I got caught up in too much focus on work and forgot the heart need some warm hug 🖤

I dont mind who you are/ what is your social status/ where you come from/ your family background/ your line of work/ how many friends you have. I just want to know and hear you talk about all that at night, in bed, slow songs playing, dim lights were on, and looking to each other eyes

4 Comments
2024/11/17
23:21 UTC

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M4R Online

Hi i'm 30Yo M. currently studying abroad and felt kind of lonely now. looking for online friends

I work in data analytics, love to cook, and excel at doing nothing all day lol

2 Comments
2024/11/17
19:05 UTC

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R4R - Looking for gaming buddies

Hi!! I'm looking for gaming buddies for my friend group league ranked climb, since our friend group most of the time are -1 from playing ranked flex. Our rank still around bronze/silver, so any rank will be welcomed :D

Hit me up on DM if interested!

11 Comments
2024/11/17
15:07 UTC

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R4R - Looking for a serious co-founder.

Listen, read this if you genuinely want the opportunity to change your life.

Are you young and tired of your shitty low paying job, or struggling to find work? Well, I am actually giving anyone a chance to turn it around.

I’m looking for a business partner in Indonesia who to start a company from scatch. Yes, from 0. Since this is the case, I NEED someone who is willing to get absolutely FUCKED for a few months to establish this company and make it work, counteless hours, rejections, brain drain and everything in between.

I am building a new business. It’s related to vending machines, but not the normal type. The business concept is very new - but already strongly proven in a different country close to us. We need to move fast and strong to be the main players in this market.

See the issue is, I have time, but just not enough time to establish it everything properly. I have a very demanding job, and I honestly can’t quit as it is needed to build this business.

I already have put the initial order in, over 120jt. It’s arriving soon. This is to show you how much commitment I already to make, and how strongly I believe it will work.

And I’m goddamn 21. No, 120jt+ is not daddy’s money, I have more and I made purely hustling and grinding since 2023. I don’t need someone who has money, I need someone with the right attitude similar to mine. Go big or go home.

Yes - as I said, if you take this opportunity you will work harder then you ever had in your life. Need some who basically has nothing to lose.

I have a background in marketing and finance, and need someone with a different skillset preferabbly operational, or sales. But honestly if you think you don’t have any of these - as long as you have the will, I will still consider you.

Only requirement is you can speak in Indonesian.

Whever the hell your located in Indonesia, I will fly you to Jakarta if needed. If your already here thats a plus.

If your broke, I can pay you a fixed sallary, around 5jt+- for a maximum of 6 months just to support the beggining (optional). You will get equity, so if we make it a success, trust me you will make a shit ton and it will be a win win.

Send me a private message if your intrested. And if you made it this far congratulations, you probably already beat 90% of people with short-term attention brain rot.

20 Comments
2024/11/17
04:35 UTC

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