My friend got mouth ulcers after he rimmed his gf. I myself love rimming but now this instance has frightened me. What precautions can I ask my partner to take before getting into the act to avoid such complications?

30M here, I'm still in double minds about this but I really wanna try posing nude for others. Likewise I'm getting this urge to show myself to the world.. Also by keeping my identity private.

Let me know how I can keep myself anonymous and yet keep posting. I have this knack of clicking aesthetic pictures and would love to post some nudes.

I am Male 22 years old I Lost my virginity about 3 years age in teenage.When I was 19 years old, my capacity to have sex was much higher, sometimes I used to do it 4-6 times in a session. Once I did it 12 times in a day and I myself didn't know how I did it. I started masturbating at the age of 16. Then after I lost my virginity at the age of 19, I started having sex and then I stopped masturbating. Since then, my sex drive has increased a lot. Will having more sex have any effect on my sex life when I turn 30? Will I be able to enjoy and maintain the same sex life as I have now? Will having too much sex affect my sex life in the future?

I've always felt that pressumed goal to orgasm or make each other cum always just kills other beautiful acts of sex.

Out here I want to know how do you guys feel regarding this and what are some workaround for this

I'm a guy in my early 30s and have never slept with a woman before. Yes I'm a virgin. I've had relationships where sex didn't happen. But then I stayed out of the dating zone for a long long time. Now I'm having this intense urge to get laid but I don't know how.

I'm average looking and have decent education and job. But having spent my days away from the dating game, I feel weird asking someone directly just for sex.

So those who hookup how do you bring the talk on the table? I mean I don't wanna seem like a creep.

Also I'm relatively introvert, not so outspoken. But I feel relatively confident when I'm talking to someone face to face.

Also I'm really scared of STDs.. And ik some std like chlamydia, syphilis can even spread through oral sex. So yeah, condoms are not the only way. I feel the best is if they are sexually active, they should get tested first. So even bringing that up seems like an overdo. How do you ask her to get tested or show her test results if she has got one done recently...

Please help me here. I need some genuine advice to get laid by the end of this year. I feel I'm aggressively thinking about sex which is hampering my daily activities.

Yea yea a very pervy redditor here but still haven't shared dick pics with anyone for a longtime (Atleast more than 2 years) I have talked to this girl which later turned into sext and which later turned into exchange of pics and even more later into getting pics which usually happens here right!!!

When we are about to close, she asked for mine and in the heat of the moment I snapped few and sent her. She didn't complain and we carried on and finished the deed.

Later when I re-read the convo and saw my pics (to delete it) I saw that it was gross and wondered why on earth did I send it to her.

Sheesh such a bad pic that I would have finally turned her OFF after turning her ON!!

This is why I never send Dick Pics, Lol

So ITS How to Take a Dick Pic That Actually Looks GOOD?

So jus don't comment never take one, cos unsolicited Dick pics are gross, consented ones aren't

Hello,

Journey of pregnancy and the changes it brings to our sexual lives! As a mother with a healthy appetite for passion, let me tell you, it's quite the ride. During the early months, when the baby's just a little peanut in my belly, I've got this extra zing, you know? The hormones are like a raging river, making everything more sensitive, more... explosive. Sometimes, my husband and I have to be like ninjas in bed, all gentle and slow because my body's changing, but oh, it's heavenly.

But as the baby grows, let's just say things get a bit... crowded. Sometimes, I'd be craving for a good round of love-making, but the belly's in the way, and it's like trying to play cricket in a phone booth. We had to get creative, find those positions that work without squishing the little one. And let me tell you, it's surprising how many there are! I'm not one to shy away from a challenge, so I embraced it. Spooning, doggy style, even good old missionary with a pillow to keep things comfy. It's all about the angle, darling.

And the moaning, oh my! It's like my body's got its own soundtrack during those nine months. The baby would kick in response, like it's joining the party, which was both weird and wonderful. We'd laugh about it, my husband and I, because what's sex without a little humor, right?

Post-pregnancy, it's a whole new ballgame. The body's healing, the hormones are playing yo-yo, and there's a tiny human demanding my attention all the time. But, that doesn't mean the passion has to take a backseat. If anything, it's like rediscovering each other after a long trip. Our bond's even stronger, and we've got this little miracle as proof of our love.

We took our sweet time getting back into it, with lots of kisses, gentle touches, and sweet whispers. It was like learning to walk again, but in the best possible way. And when we finally did, oh boy, it was like coming home to a feast after a fast. The intensity, the connection, it was all there, just a bit... softer around the edges.

But let's not forget the aftermath. The baby's here, and suddenly, my body's not just mine anymore. It's for feeding, for changing, for comforting. And sometimes, that can mess with your head a bit. You're so busy being a mother, you might forget the woman you were before. But that's where the importance of communication comes in, like a knight in shining armor. We talked about it, and my husband, bless his soul, made sure I felt desired and cherished.

We took it slow, enjoying the little moments of intimacy we could grab between diaper changes and feeding times. And when the doctor said it was safe to get back to the naughty stuff, we were ready. It wasn't the same as before, but it was beautiful in its own way.

Pregnant or not, my sexuality is as much a part of me as my love for spicy food and Bollywood movies. I'm a modern Indian wife who believes in living life to the fullest, enjoying every drop of pleasure that comes my way. And let me tell you, with a supportive husband and a baby who's a little bundle of joy, life's never dull. It's just full of new adventures, both in and out of the bedroom. So, to all the mamas and mamas-to-be out there, don't let anyone tell you to put a leash on your desires. Embrace it, cherish it, and remember, it's all about balance, love, and a whole lot of communication. Cheers to us, darlings!

Thank you u/indy_daddy_dom for suggesting the tropic.

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I get super excited in shower but sex is a bit of a clumsy affair. I feel I am not doing it right. I mean foreplay is ok but actual sex motions don't look pretty to me. Any advice that can help a bro out.

Hey everyone,

So, this is kind of an awkward and strange thing I've been experiencing, and I wanted to ask if anyone else has ever felt something similar or if it's just me.

Whenever I smell my girlfriend's underwear (whether they're freshly worn or just sitting in her drawer), I get this intense feeling of euphoria or even lightheadedness, almost like being high. It’s not like a casual attraction thing – it’s way more intense than that. It's like a rush of dopamine or something that comes over me.

I’ve never felt anything like it before, and I’m kind of confused about what’s going on. Is this something that’s normal in relationships, or should I be concerned about it? Has anyone experienced anything like this, or do you think it’s just a weird fetish or something?

Just curious if it’s something to worry about or if I’m overthinking it. Thanks!

Lesbos in particularly , so a random thought struck on my mind , as a straight man even a thought of touch by another men (I mean sexually) disgusts me to my core, even some of friends whom I have asked the same question said the same. It maybe due to some past traumas or something ,so yea do you feel the same. Like as a lesbian do you get tht ick from men also same question for gay dudes. Ik it's a dumb question, but I wanted to rant about it so yea...

Guys So I have been dating this girl from quite some time We both are 27(I know her from School days to college and now on Job) We had our first sex session early this year but to my surprise she was not tight down there. according to her it's her first time only (I insert even two fingers without ease) no blood nothing. It is not that I am small (Around 6 inches) Should I ask her If she had any sex before? If yes then how to do that without hurting her?

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Quitting porn has been one of the best decisions of my life. I used to masturbate daily for years, often out of habit, even when I wasn't in the mood-it had just become a routine.

Since quitting, my energy levels have soared, my mind feels detoxified from the dark side of porn(ie looking for unusual porn as the normal one doesn't provides the same dopamine anymore) and l've finally started pursuing hobbies that I'd been procrastinating on for years and used to fap instead.

Breaking free from the constant need for dopamine hits has given me clarity and control over my life. The benefits truly outweigh anything I thought I was giving up.

Bonus: I can now fap without the help of any porn now once in a while (read month), my libido has skyrocketed!

It's hard to break free initially, but after few days or so it becomes easier. Now days go by even thinking of masturbation.

What are your thoughts?

I don't know about side effects but for positives you will be a lot clear headed like when we are fapping to some porn or something and there is some taboo stuff(incst,rpe, or anything like that) we get even more excited depending upon the taste but after post nut clarity we have that guilty feeling like that shit is too dark and you wouldn't desire for it if you are clear minded but now even when I am horny and hard as hell while scrolling redgif or anything like that if I came upon content like that which previously used to excite me in my horny state and then gives me that guilt now I outright feel disgusted with it so yeah you remain pretty clear headed and it's damm easy man like now I don't even want to fap where as I used to do it atleast 5 times a week just 4 months ago I mean recently I even forget about it for days that I am maintaining this streak

Ok so in the initial phases of our journey I never wanted to meet anyone alone. I always enjoyed husband being in the room and I never thought I would meet someone without him. Things changed when our relationship became long distance. The first month was ok but I started to really miss sex soon. Hubby was asking me to try Tinder and hookup with someone I find attractive. I tried making conversation initially on Tinder but I got so bored with the desperation there.

Few weeks into it I found someone who I hit it off with. I told him I was married but was staying alone in Bangalore. He imagined I was cheating on my husband and hubby told me not to correct him. He was anyhow cheating on his long distance girlfriend so didn't really matter to me.

We finally hooked up at my place and it was the first time I slept with another guy after my marriage without husband being in the room. Not only did it go better than I imagined, it was so much passionate and wild.

Ever since I have made sure to spent atleast one round solo with every guy I meet. Even if husband is in the room initially we have one round after he leaves.

Is this very common? Anyone who originally hated the idea of doing it solo but now enjoy it almost as much?

I have been in 3 relationships. All my exes have had lost it to their exes. Since these guys were from the same school/college I used to be super jealous of them.One of them even bragged about it to me. I always feel like I missed out and since I'm 25 now I feel like I'll never know what it's like to be a girl's first. I asked my girlfriends how they lost it. Is this something couples usually discuss or is this weird. All 3 said it was painful and 2 of them bled as well. Do other Indian guys want to take a girl's virginity at least once as well or am I weird?

I am Male 22 years old I Lost my virginity about 3 years age in teenage.When I was 19 years old, my capacity to have sex was much higher, sometimes I used to do it 4-6 times in a session. Once I did it 12 times in a day and I myself didn't know how I did it. I started masturbating at the age of 16. Then after I lost my virginity at the age of 19, I started having sex and then I stopped masturbating. Since then, my sex drive has increased a lot. Will having more sex have any effect on my sex life when I turn 30? Will I be able to enjoy and maintain the same sex life as I have now? Will having too much sex affect my sex life in the future?

Hola, I am a straight 30 M from Mumbai.

I have been having this urge to get pegged by a woman or fucked by lady dicks.

Being a straight man usually I dominate woman while in bed but also enjoy any touches or kisses around my A hole.

I have 2 questions:

1. How many of more straight Man feel the same?
2. How you ladies would react or would you like if your man feels the same?

So I just hooked up with a woman she loved foreplay and licking she was really happy , but she told me don't masturbate but she says it's taken a lot of time for me to cum i didn't masturbate daily is it normal please 🥺 your advice will be valuable

We are couple 28M/ 26F I would say everything is great between us but i just want to ask from a F PoV does it happens with others too I don’t feel turned on even watching porn or something else that used to make me moist before. But now what happens a slight touch of him makes me go wild from inside and next moment i am drooling. Is it common between couples. We are together for a time.

I want to know if men here who earlier had premature ejaculation or women here who earlier had vaginismus got cured of it? If yes, what all did you do to get cured? Did your sex lives become normal or is it that your conditions are now managable and you adjust with it? Both of these conditions are marked as curable on Google. But when you go to the sub reddit dedicated to these conditions, it's just depressing AF. Very few are there who claim they are cured. Most just learn to live with it and do stuff that makes their condition managable. Is this the general truth? Also there was a post earlier in this sub that a woman who was cured of vaginismus was barely interested in sex. I saw this same pattern repeating in many other places about woman with vaginismus . Can someone who has vaginismus earlier clarify?

Hi 26M here from my early 20s I have been masterbating a lot but it's reduced as years go by. In my college days I rerely felt pain after masturbating maybe 1 out of 15. But recently I felt pain much more than that maybe 3 out of 10 time. I don't know what is the reason behind it if anyone have any advice or experience like it please share

My question to all couple out there who has different taste in se x life than yout partner.

Me (27M) wanna try various sex fantasies like SRSP, exhibition. But seems like my girl (27F) is pretty vanilla, doesn't have any fantasy and low sex libido. Sometimes she told me we she wants to try those for me. But I'm confused, what if she regrets about it later.

Whats your opinion about this situation?

like we have some taboo breaking fantasies and we feel guilty about them. maybe from prior porn addiction or anything.

And you know how mind works, it needs better and shorter dopamine spikes. the prior ones now have no effect.

So you go into the abyss of again worse fantasies and all. that is not affecting your professional life tho it is affecting your intimate life. cause you can't share freely with your future partner cause these fantasies are giving you guilt already, you don't want the fear of someone else judging you again.

Then tell me where should we draw the line? where should lust be contained? and please tell me in the comments only why's behind the answers too?

Also this is not a post nut clarity😂 just want to know different people's different approaches

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So…me (35M) and my Gf (30) hooked up but I honestly couldn’t maintain an erection after like 20 seconds

The problem is…when masturbating, I can maintain it for more than 10 minutes at a time

Sometimes even 15 minutes easily

But lately, I’ve notice that the reboot time has increased significantly with a feeling of being drained afterwards

It wasn’t until a year ago that I could for an entire night with very quick erections if they subsided

She didn’t say anything but she did feel bad that she couldn’t keep me erected even with vaginal sex

We’re both stuck at fingering and just handjobs (which i do with her encouraging me)

I feel like this may have to do with porn overexposure and desensitisation

There’s no issues with morning erections and initial erections on arousal so I know the hardware works

But a part of me feels that it could be psychological? I love my gf and want to have this with her, especially since it might impact how we have kids in future

To start with I had a love marriage with the girl I loved, we were in relationship for more than 4 years and then got married and it's been 2 years to our marriage now. Of the 4 years of relationship only was when we were together at the same place, the other 3 was LDR. the first year was great obviously couldn't keep our hands out of each other's, we lost our V to each other and she was my first for everything, lots of sex and then we moved because of work commitments and would probably get to meet a week or 2 in say 6 months, obviously being far and meeting would get the fire reignited and sex was good, although during our courtship we never had PIV as we both were a bit paranoid about pregnancy and stuff, we only did it like once and kept it until we got married. During our LDR, we never got involved in any sexting or phone sex kind of thing as she said she was not very into it and never felt the arousal although I always wanted it. But I respected her point and never forced so technically for 3 years except for the times we met, we never discussed 'sex'. I was on my own, and mostly resorted to masturbation, writing erotica, drawing erotica which turned me on and that was it.

We got married and moved in together, well we got to know she had vaginismus and was never able to penetrate her, it took time and I was patient with her, close to 6 months we only resorted to oral sex like before and just finhering and stuff to make her ready and gradually we started having PIV.

Then it was good we were able to have pleasurable PIV and as it was new we enjoyed it as well, but slowly it started becoming boring as she never showed any enthusiasm never initiated and would decline my attempts 6/10 times, lately it's just she lying and me doing everything, no efforts whatsoever from here, we did try doing doggy or cowgirl after my request, but because we have never did either it felt like it was not working, it's is just lack of practice but she herself is never interested so it always ends with missionary.

I would bring it up that we are not getting as intimate as we should and it would get better for a week, although I have to initiate but she declines less and then again get stuck in the same thing. We have a script for our sex, kissing, foreplay, me licking her to orgasm, penetrating her and my orgasm. Sometimes it would be my orgasm first and then her but that's it.

And now it has become such that she would decline me maybe 8/10 times, giving such lame reasons I can't even comprehend. It has come to appoint where I have started losing interest in sex as a whole and have stopped attempting.

Just wanted to let it out, any ideas you guys can suggest, at her defence, she has left her family and moved with me at a different place than our hometown, we had to start all alone. Although it has been 2 years now, initially the homesickness was okay and I too agree it is difficult.

It maybe hormonal or something medical, she has vit d and B12 deficiency, she has put on weight mostly because of the stress I would say but I have nothing at all with her putting on weight, maybe it is something else I don't know. But I want her too to work on these things rather than just me working on them as sex and intimacy is a big part of relationship for me and she knows it very well.

It has come to a point that now I have started caring less for her other needs like the other things a normal husband and wife would do, I am irritated and frustrated with it and think, of she is not helping me meet my needs why should I do it in return, but then I feel guilty and bend and do it. It's not that I don't love her, I love her a lot, her smile lights up the darkest days, but getting intimate with her is how I express my love and want to be loved as well.

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Hi everyone, I'm 32 and I will be getting married in 2 months. I've been going through a turmoil since my marriage got fixed. I come from a dysfunctional family and to run away from all problems, I took respite in porn and masturbation. I've had sex with some as well with protection of course. Everytime I finish quickly, sometimes during foreplay itself. I thought it will be fixed as time goes but it never did. Now I'm going to get married to a wonderful person and I want to give her everything and love her.

Can you guys please advise me how to get over this premature ejaculation and anxiety? Also , since I have a bit of time, what should I do - diet, supplements, exercise to be the best in bed? I don't want to disappont her.

Please help this brother out .

Me (30 M ) typical loner / doomer who never had sex or even had girlfriend in life went for bike ride last night. I came across sexy trans hooker on highway. I decided to finally give it a try . I approached and went in bushes. I did nothing just played with one of her boob that too for less than 2 mins and stopped it.

I was feeling bad that I wasted my money on that but at same time I thought atleast I got to touch a boob. After sometime I came across a couple walking on roadside holding each other's hand , smiling and giggling all the way . This somehow bought tears in my eyes.

I felt like complete loser for paying hooker to get intimate ( although nothing much happend apart from touch boob) rather than having an actual lover with whom I could get intimate with love and passion. I feel guilty for having sexual activity with random hooker instead of my future wife ( If I ever have one )