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This is a sub for Indians to Talk about Sex. It is a sex-positive community and a safe space for people of all genders and orientation. All exchanges must be respectful. Trolls and derogatory comments do not have a place here.

This is a sub for Indians to talk about sex. It's a sex-positive community and safe space for people of all genders which demands respectful conduct in all exchanges. Any type of disrespectful comments won't be tolerated.

/r/IndiaTalksSex

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26M - Trying of Masturbation

Usually I get urge to masturbate/horny so many times in a day After some urges I decide to masturbate pick random pn or imagination and start playing with my dk But after some time I dont feel to masturbate any more and I stop in between before ejaculation.

but again after some time again I feel horny . again I start I playing with my d**k and again sudden dont feel to masturbate anymore and stops before ejaculation.

Never ending cycle is repeating.

please suggest.

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2024/04/23
07:49 UTC

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I (19M) is going to my virginity to a married couple (44M & 42F).

So I matched with this couple on 3Fun. I have been chatting with the husband and they are deciding we should meet at their house. They have a son who is 14. They have been in this lifestyle for 2.5 yrs. Now I am a virgin and haven't even kissed yet. I am guessing I would be losing my virginity this week or next week. And yes I am getting nervous, I hope I don't chicken out. So how do I handle the situation and be calm and not be nervous when I reach their house and start with the business. And what all things should I keep in mind.

32 Comments
2024/04/23
06:14 UTC

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Is it common to be turned on by sharing sexual experiences with other married people ?

I've been pondering something lately and wanted to see if others can relate or have thoughts on this. I'm not into cuckolding or swinging, nor am I interested in sharing photos of my partner. However, I find it incredibly arousing to share details about my own sexual experiences with other married individuals and to listen to theirs as well. This all happens anonymously, which I believe helps maintain privacy and doesn't threaten our relationships.

This kind of sharing really turns me on, and I don't see it as a problem since all personal details are kept private. l'm curious, does anyone else find themselves in a similar situation? Is this a relatively normal thing, or am I in a niche by myself here? Would love to hear your perspectives or if you engage in similar activities. How do you feel about it?

73 Comments
2024/04/23
03:58 UTC

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Dominance ≠ Misogyny

Hey guys, i have been seeing a lot of Indian Reddit posts these days from both men and women. Men explaining their sexual preferences and women explaining their misery due to the former.

As a 28 year old Dom, i just want to say that guys you could be dominant and EXTREMELY ROUGH to a woman, without being a r@pist mentality, misogynistic dude. Consent is the hottest thing for a human, let women alone. My opinion and advice :) Would love to discuss about this more with you lads if anyone agrees or wants to add something to this perhaps!

10 Comments
2024/04/23
03:31 UTC

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Need Help with a dilemma.

Hello everyone!

Love the sex positivity I see in this group.

So, I have an issue. I don't know how to respectfully ask the opposite sex for casual sex and infact I don't know how to ask at all. Mainly cause of my fear of rejection, shame and guilt if I disrespected them or triggered. I considered hiring "professional service" but it wasn't fulfilling and honestly hated the experience since I shelled out a lot of money and had fear of STDs as well ( even though the beautiful lady confirmed it's all good and had to admit she was very frank and upfront, no BS).

So, my question is how to approach someone for casual sex without offending them ? Yes, I know to be friends and be respectful and all, but I would love to hear some suggestions. Also, for context, I am not much of a social person so you can imagine the social life and probability of meeting people and becoming comfortable with them.

P.s: Please do not suggest relationship since I got out of a heartbreak recently and on a healing journey for the past 9 months. I don't think I am desperate since I am not asking around or keep wanting it desperately but yes, I do miss the sex part of the relationship and am trying to find ways to deal with it.

9 Comments
2024/04/23
03:18 UTC

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Sex during periods

27 M 25 F married for 2 months. My wife is on her periods and she has been on the edge lately, she is pushing me hard to have sex not directly but with actions. I have never seen her this horny, she has been touching me all day and also a lot of oral I mean a lot, but I’m a bit hesitant if I should. I’m worried if i might hurt her. So what is it like to have sex during periods, anything particular I should keep in mind?

39 Comments
2024/04/22
18:30 UTC

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Is it common to not feel penis during intercourse?

I [26F] lost my virginity a few months back.I loved the experience of being intimate with someone and the affection involved. But as it didn't work out with the guy, the whole experience has left an emotional gap because of which I won't be pursuing sex anytime soon again. So, I wanted to know if it's normal not to feel the presence of penis inside the vagina. While I hadn't been with a guy before, I had used dildo. Some articles online mentioned being very wet can lead to not feel the penis. I kept asking him if it was inside and realized that's not something I should be asking and stopped, but I want to know if anyone here has experienced the same.

39 Comments
2024/04/22
18:25 UTC

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What does a man’s life with HIV be like?

What are the issues faced?

7 Comments
2024/04/22
17:30 UTC

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Advice regarding I-Pill usage

Hi there! Me (20 M) and my girlfriend (19 F) had been intimate yesterday morning, everything went well but we had our protection break on us. So after really thinking about it she decided on going with I pill around yesterday afternoon itself.

I got it, we read the instructions and proceeded, she did well the entire yesterday but woke up nauseous and very sick. Her going through this is extremely heartbreaking for me and I’m really regretting it, she vomited around 8 pm tonight and feeling really sick, I tried getting food for her but she doesn’t feel like eating at all. I’m just trying to be there for her but I am really worried in what I can do to make it any better if I can.

Please guide us out, I just want her to be better

20 Comments
2024/04/22
17:06 UTC

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Late Night Random Discussion Thread (LNRDT)

1.No seeking of Redditors

2.No personal attacks or derogatory language.

  1. No sharing of NSFW content.

4.No illegal content (sex work, incest)

Kindly follow the above rules while participating in the daily random discussion thread.

2191 Comments
2024/04/22
16:00 UTC

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Is ovulation same as getting periods?

Sorry if i may sound like a dumbfuck, but can anyone tell me when would be a woman ovulating if she's getting periods on this 26th?

Ive been sexting a woman for a hookup and wanna give her the night of her life. Ive heard that they tend to be horny during their ovulation so need to get the date correct.

25 Comments
2024/04/22
14:53 UTC

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Is spermicide foam/gel available in Indian stores? I couldn't find anything online. Would like to combine condoms + this.

Me(M) and my S/O while do use protection, often go in unprotected, use condoms, get rid of it, take a break, etc etc and due to my own ADHD meds making me take longer to orgasm leads to a high turn over of condoms

I use looking at spermicidal foam/gel/suppositories and couldn't find anything that might be available in India. We don't want to use hormonal control or IUDs as my S/O had bad reactions when we used it in the first year of the relationship

11 Comments
2024/04/22
11:34 UTC

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Help for doggy style execution

Hello there.. Having issue to try doggy with my partner. (Mostly because her thick thighs and big asses, though I love her peer shape body all the way, but due to this I can't penetration in doggy.)

So please give more suggestions so that We can try it ! How she can help her in it ? And what should I follow for the same ?

Also wanted to add that - I feel too much sensation if she hold penis tip and guide to slide her inside her pussy in doggy style. So sometimes while doing so I ejaculated outside only ! So in 2nd round I should try to do doggy as in first round I comfortable with missionary but not for doggy and cow girl ?

52 Comments
2024/04/22
07:26 UTC

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What's the best oil to use for both a relaxing and sensual massage?

My partner had been complaining about back pains and stuff. We are taking a small trip to a place, and I would like to give her a thorough massage.

It might turn into foreplay and stuff might happen, but I want to give a good massage before that.

What oil do we use for this? Also, is it advisable to use the oil in genital area?

Any insights would be helpful.

11 Comments
2024/04/22
06:31 UTC

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Edging and soreness

I indulge into edging and yesterday was a bit too much. And due to that i have developed some soreness near the foreskin and the tip. I know this is temporary and would go with time but its uncomfortable. Somewhat not too worried since it would go by its own.

My question is to all those studs (and women) who indulge in having sex 3-4 times a day like bunnies, how do you deal with this soreness (around the genitals)?

18 Comments
2024/04/22
06:23 UTC

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Late Night Random Discussion Thread (LNRDT)

1.No seeking of Redditors

2.No personal attacks or derogatory language.

  1. No sharing of NSFW content.

4.No illegal content (sex work, incest)

Kindly follow the above rules while participating in the daily random discussion thread.

2274 Comments
2024/04/21
16:01 UTC

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Swelling in ZSR vs LASER Circumcision??

Hey everyone, so i m planning for circumcision next month, i wanted to ask about post OP swelling and pain in above mentioned methods!!

I have only one month official leave from office.

20 Comments
2024/04/21
12:28 UTC

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Threesome condom usage worry

Hey All,

I (female) had a threesome with 2 guys yesterday and while doing the things we decided to have a part of session where I was in doggy and the guys took turns fucking me in that position.

It was like one guy fucks me for a few minutes and then the next guy, it kept on like this for 40-45 minutes.

My question is should the guys change condom everytime they penetrate me? Because they are taking turns and it may cause STDs. I am not sure and kinda paranoid!

Any medical people out here? Any informed suggestion?

46 Comments
2024/04/21
11:56 UTC

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Looking to go to the next level with by subby hubby...

So my partner and I are engaging in femdom dynamics from some time now. Although I was naturally dominant in bed....never thought he would turn out to be quite submissive..... We have tried quite a few basic femdom things...

But now I want make it go further.....(He doesn't know yet but we had discussion that we might do this sometimes in the future) I have on a lookout for a good chastity cage but I haven't been able to find good one... I wanted a really small metal one coz one he already has an average size plus I have researched that larger cages tends to be not good....

Please suggest good website to buy the cage and other gear in India...this was the primary reason for my post....its very difficult to get good quality bdsm related toys 😔😔😔

I have already gotten a collar and a leash also mittens and once I got this cage I'll surprise him to be my perfect locked doggy for over the weekend.

Also if anybody has indulged in such things I would love to hear those suggestions aswell...

26 Comments
2024/04/21
09:21 UTC

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Experienced Folks ! Need to pick your emotional brain here

Need thoughts on what is right.

If someone is in a relationship for a while and there is someone new who probably spends quality time and shows some love, not sexually. Is it wrong to get tempted ? Not an intent to cheat, but it feels good, what’s happening :(

55 Comments
2024/04/21
04:48 UTC

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Weekly Sexual Experience | Kink | Embarrassed Times Thread

  • Any sexual experience that you wish to share, be it old or new, be it positive or negative.
  • Kinks that you have tried, that you wanna try or any ideas you have for spicing up your sex life.
  • Any funny embarrassing story, new or old, doesn't have to be related to sex.

You can share it all in this weekly thread.

146 Comments
2024/04/21
02:30 UTC

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What's wrong with me? Less sex drive

I'm a 23 M and had a handful of casual partners and a couple going for a pretty long time. I recently observed that the thought of having sex with someone is more exciting and arousing to me than actually having sex.

So, I do like and enjoy sex and I'm decent in bed but I feel like I enjoy thinking about it with her or someone else and masturbating is better than actually having sex in real life.

I have been watching porn from the age of 14 and regularly masturbates despite having frequent sex.

So, I'm kind of getting worried why my real sex drive is going down while the fantasy and masturbation drive is picking up.

31 Comments
2024/04/20
19:46 UTC

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Late Night Random Discussion Thread (LNRDT)

1.No seeking of Redditors

2.No personal attacks or derogatory language.

  1. No sharing of NSFW content.

4.No illegal content (sex work, incest)

Kindly follow the above rules while participating in the daily random discussion thread.

2267 Comments
2024/04/20
16:00 UTC

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I can't stay hard in condom

I have very good control over my pull out game, it's been more than 8 years now we are married and we never needed a condom. Am year ago we started swinging and it began with srsp. I was doing good in that. But when we moved to switching partners, we wanted to be safe so started using condom with other ladies. But problem begins as soon as I put on a condom. I go limp. If I remove it and get back to my wife I'm again hard n can perform really well. Not sure why this is happening.

17 Comments
2024/04/20
11:54 UTC

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Why do some women go after married men?

Why do some girls woo married men?

Hello all,

To give some context, I’ve (33m) quite a few female friends. Some of who I was physically involved with and some not at all. I got married recently (This year) and I still see that some of them have gone all out in expressing their desire to be more than just a friend with me. Listing down various interests I received since marriage:

  1. Long time friend who I was having feelings for turned me down 3 years back, but right a day after my marriage she tells me that she had developed feelings for me and hence, she couldn’t attend my marrriage. Further, she goes on to tell that, our first meet after Covid, she wanted to sleep with me but didn’t make a move.

  2. A long time friend again who I last met 5 years back and got a bj, expressed interest and started sending me teasing pics after my marriage

  3. A girl that I met on tinder and hooked up with during pandemic, caught feelings and want to continue meeting me.

Ive been promiscuous in the past but I don’t wish to cheat on my wife. Hence, I’ve told them all in the nicest way possible that it’s not possible to have anything more than friendship now.

Has anyone else had similar experiences? How did you deal with them?

Thanks in advance

106 Comments
2024/04/20
11:34 UTC

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I'm small and I can't get over it. It's depressing af!

My penis is just around 5.2" long and 4.5" in girth and i don't feel it's enough for a good sex life. I have had only one partner so far and my size greatly limited the positions we could try out. My penis just keeps slipping out or doesn't even reach inside!

Basically I'm stuck with just cowgirl, missionary n doggy. It feels boring after few sessions of sex because I know what to expect.

Makes me wonder, how do y'all guys with similar size manage in bed?

FYI - I'm someone with high drive and wants to do a lot of things, but the size restriction makes me feel depressed and embarrassed.

111 Comments
2024/04/20
06:58 UTC

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How do I choose a suitable Viagra dose?

I[20M] my partner decided to have sex while I was on Viagra. We had sex multiple times in the past, and I brought up about experiencing it with Viagra someday. I don't have any knowledge about Viagra and the right amount of dosage, except that Viagra is an inhibitor drug that increases blood flow to the penis. Which tablet and dosage should I go with?

Other info: I don't have ED, and I'm doing it just for the experience.

25 Comments
2024/04/20
03:12 UTC

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how do i tell him thats not where my clit is

so my partner and i were making out and we 69ed and it wasnt enjoyable at all for me. his tongue was everywhere except my clit. even when hes giving me oral, its like he gets it right for just a moment and then loses it again.
it's been going on for the last few months now and i cant fake it anymore. he rarely uses his hands, so its not like i can subtly guide him to the correct place.
i don't want to outright tell him either. is there any way i can tell him where my clit is without actually telling him

45 Comments
2024/04/19
19:33 UTC

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Looking for honest opinions

So myself 30 happily married to a 29 yr old wife for the past three years. Both are very much in love and ya sexually active as well.

Now I'm a kinky guy since our days of love I have always expressed my kinks to her through role-playing and porn. We still do enjoy it.

Girl suddenly on her birthday wanted me to gift a solo Goa trip of 5 days. She has never travelled alone and while I was joking about it she seems to be quite serious bout this.

On one side I'm happy bout her trying to explore destination on her own but now alone is something which is running in mind alot. She is a equally kinky girl as well.

Should I be worried?

76 Comments
2024/04/19
17:56 UTC

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Push Boundaries

Married for 10 years. We have good sex life. My wife doesn’t like oral sex. She thinks it is gross at it is pee hole. We tried in shower but he keeps cleaning my dick instead of sucking. Finally given up on it. I do lick her pussy good. Is there a condom which is specially for oral?

10 Comments
2024/04/19
16:38 UTC

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