Context: a potential connect on Hinge progressed beyond the initial weeks of conversations. Few days ago, she initiated the conversations around sexual preferences, needs, and kinks.

As part of our conversation, I brought up 'mutual masturbation' and how it allows for intimacy between partners without the need to go full hog into penetrative sex. Needless to say, she thought I was creepy, because who masturbates in front of their partners.

Not my first time being shamed for my sexual preferences, but I think the incident might be more widespread than I would assume it to be so.

Please share should you feel comfortable. Cheers!

I'm curious about guy who are bi or bi curious like when did they start or know there sexuality or how they be handling this in a country like ours. I'd like to know about your experiences. Thanks.

Are there any Telegram bots for dating or hookups where you can actually meet real people, not bots or scammers, specifically for Indians (preferably in Delhi)?

We all must have come across the generic plot of " He/She cheated on me I don't give a F anymore " and jumping into adultery themselves.

I was wondering how accurate these descriptions were when it comes to reality ?

Do people with these destructive arrangements exist?

I’m interested in insights on how commonly women in India use sex toys. For those who use them while living with their parents, how do you store or keep them discreetly?

Even after long years of marriage I am still not comfy with the taste of cum. So everytime I give my husband a bj I ask him not to cum in my mouth . And on the occasions he has , I immediately spit it out. Till date have never swallowed . I feel bad but I just can’t come around the idea of liking it. To the women out there do youll like the taste of cum

My skin is compatible with normal latex condoms. However, oils such as coconut oil can not used with latex condoms. I want to use coconut oil instead of silicon lube, in order to cut down the cost per fap session for me. My skin is sensitive to water based lubes such as KY Jelly, hence can't use them. Silicon lubes are very expensive. Hence, I have decided to use coconut oil with oil friendly/polyurethane condoms.

• Can you recommend the condoms which I can buy for the above use case?
• I am mostly finding polyisopropene codoms, as non latex condoms. But they are not oil friendly.
• Please share the online links as well.

• Any sexual experience that you wish to share, be it old or new, be it positive or negative.
• Kinks that you have tried, that you wanna try or any ideas you have for spicing up your sex life.
• Any funny embarrassing story, new or old, doesn't have to be related to sex.

You can share it all in this weekly thread.

Okay so it’s a genuine concern and question I have met a lot of couples and single women and one thing I hear constantly is that they aren’t eaten out enough ! I have couples who are open minded and they are keen on learning and exploring and I tell the husband or the man this ! Eating her out will make you hornier and we as men activate the animal side out with the taste smell what we hear and see !

It’s a given the both parties reciprocate but with men the percentage is low ! Okay a quick story about a couple I met amazing people okay and they have stepped out exploring and we met at their place, amazing hosts a very genuine vibe and we spoke and I realised that they have like a dead situation where one feels the other is uncomfortable with what you expect and need and me sitting there having this discussion she just wants that stimulation of her body being adorned, pampered ,teased not going into details of what happened but they ended up being teens and fuckking like rabbits again they have children they are sooo satisfied with the sex because of a few changed the man makes it save relationship

Men be open take feedback learn and ensure you pleasure in a way that she can’t get enough and the way she’ll take you for a ride will be heavily !

It was my first anal. We took all the precautions. I kinda felt ready. We used a lotta lube (KY) and it pained a lot after I was done and my bf suggested using ice pack. It really soothed the pain.

As I've heard from others walking is a pain but I felt no problem walking. Although sitting for more than 5 mins somewhere is creating uneasiness but nothing like unbearable.

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As the question says, a lot of people keep going deeper and deeper, from straight to trans and then bi and gay porn and their sexuality gets amended as their fantasies start changing from what they watch, do you feel thankful as it opened new things or you feel guilty?

So it has been 6 months since we last met, I have many FWB etc but I love my GF the most so now I want to make her time with me memorable. She is very simple, un-horny type of girl and is very respectful and not into rough sex etc. So kindly suggest thing which I can do with her to make her feel more attached to me so she becomes a bit horny and can agree to do some stuff I want to do with my GF. I'm a bit rough guy had done with many FWB but my gf isn't into those kinky stuff so suggest ways to take her there slowly in 2 nights and 3 days.

I’m 23M with a good muscular physique, I always had a thing for milfs or a bit aged woman but I thought it’ll just end up as a fantasy but after coming into reddit i’ve seen it can be true but it is really possible and if yes how to approach women?

I am 29M, an Engineer from Bangalore. Being curious about experiencing sex, I sought out Paid Sex with an Independent Girl. All was well after the first session where she talked a bit on phone with couple of people which included a guy. Upon asking who it was, she chucked it off and i didn't bother asking her again as it wasn't my business. When I was done, she told that it was her fiance and they were going out tomorrow to select her wedding dress and jewellery. I may be a horny man, but it hit me so hard and I started sinking into the guilt trip. For some reason i couldn't hold back my tears as I was on my way to home. Ever since that occurred I have been constantly under the guilt for having done injustice to that guy. I have realised that what i sought was a wrong activity and should never been repeated again. I am seeking out ways to get me out of this people.

How are y’all getting any action in with a toddler in the tug?

Ours is now at a stage where we can’t just let her be.

Sex has been down to a quick one here and there as opposed to the long drawn ones before!

Any tricks or tips are welcome.

P.S. any smarty pants comments will be dealt with very stupid responses.

So i always messed up with razors and got cuts hence i switched to a trimmer but that doesnt help much either so i want to switch to a cream alternative to and id like recommendations from people who use them

This isnt promotional i just want recomms for them

Thanks again

I need you opinion on male masturbator sex toy.

For now I have considered buying a Tenga egg or Tenga cup and third one is Leezu's Toofan

Guys can you help me with it?

Hi,

I am a single, virgin, 25M. I have been in a relationship only once in my life when i was in 12th standard. Did everything with her apart from sex. We broke up after school. Since then, a lot happened in life ( Family responsibilities, career and stuff ) and hence couldn't date anyone ( also didn't find anyone worth dating ).

The thing is i have an extremely high libido, I am so addicted to masturbation, that even a day without it and my dick goes crazy. It literally stays hard for 2-3 hours at night if i don't do the deed which hampers my sleep. I do watch porn but it's not a necessity for me to always have it while jerking off.

I am 6'3, decent physique and kinda fine looking, have an active lifestyle. I can date if i want to, just don't feel like doing it purely with the intention of having sex. I crave emotional attachment first ( which i happen to not find with anyone as of yet ). I seriously think i would rather masturbate than date a girl just to have sex with her.

I don't like doing it, but it feels like my body demands it. I seriously have tried everything to curb it, but the more I try, harder it gets.

Any suggestions are welcome.

Did I reveal too much? Did I reveal something I shouldn't have?

My male friend from school caught up with me after a long time. We don't really chat everyday but yeah on n off ... we do chat.

We have planned to meet up during the pujos, but it fell through because of certain issues.

Now he is very casual n cool, n is not really hesitant to talk about topics like sex, sexual preferences etc.

We were chatting a lot yesterday, n he suddenly starts a rapid fire questioning game type. N states asking me..

1. Would I like to give or receive in bed
2. Hottest thing a man can say to me in bed
3. Whether I like sex toys
4. Lights on or off in bed
5. Am I dominant or submissive in bed

Well, I did not answer the first two even though he wanted to know. I kind of gave diplomatic (like answers you get in Wikipedia)answers for 3 n 4. I gave him an answer to the 5th question.

Now, I don't know I feel guilty.

Did I reveal something I shouldn't have?

Based on my personal experiences. Add to the list :)

1. Long, messy, sloppy smooches. Specifically with her lower lip between my lips

2. Licking nipples

3. Gently hovering fingers around her nipples

4. Licking the ears and biting it softly

5. Combing her hair with fingers while doing anything (kissing, foreplay or sex)

6. Forget fingering, try thumbing.

7. Kissing underboob

8. Neck work

9. Undressing her sensually. Like pulling her ribbon bra with mouth

10. Naval work

11. Tongue work on inner thighs > eating her out

12. Locking her fingers in mine

13. Clit work while having sex or foreplay

14. Tongue travel along the spine on the bare back

15. Biting nipples after like 15-20 mins of action

16. Talking naughty during positions..it works better in dominating positions like doggy.

17. Helping her cum again after ejaculation. If she's up for it.

18. Obviously, going down on her. Classic for ever.

19 Shaving her if she'd let you.

20. Appreciating her naked beauty like you mean it.

So the thing is even if I've masturbated 9-10hrs back and then I go and have a good make out session with my girl for 10-15mins which did turn me on crazily and then if I don't masturbate, within half hour or so I'll get blue balls. And if I haven't emptied my balls from 2-3 days, I'll get blue balls even from the small turn ons. I'm 20. Is this common? Does this mean I've a very high libido Thoughts?

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For me, getting dressed each day is like unlocking a new level in a game of seduction: Is the weather sultry enough? Do I have plans that could lead to something steamy? Is my favorite piece clean and ready to hug my curves? Let’s face it, sometimes I dress up just to feel good about myself—maybe even a little naughty.

Our clothing choices often reflect our mood, confidence, and, let’s be real, our desire for some attention. It’s not just about how I look to others; it’s about the power I feel inside. Here’s a look at some of my go-to styles and how they reveal my sexual energy and confidence:

Cinched-Waist Saree or Dress

How I feel: "Confident and feminine, with a touch of flirtation."

A fitted saree or a flowing dress that hugs my waist accentuates my curves in all the right places. The way it flows over my body invites gazes at my silhouette and highlights my femininity. This look radiates a blend of elegance and allure, making me feel sexy and empowered. And let’s be real, when I wear this, I’m not just looking for compliments; I want to be the center of attention.

If you notice: A bit of charm goes a long way. Compliments about how I carry myself or how the outfit flatters me? Yes, please! Make me feel like the queen I am.

A Bold, V-Neck Top

How I feel: "Ready to flaunt my confidence."

A deep V-neck top isn’t just a piece of clothing; it’s a statement. With a glimpse of cleavage and a peek of my collarbone, it strikes the perfect balance between daring and sophisticated. It invites admiration and perhaps a little bit of desire. I’m not shy about showing a little skin—after all, confidence is the sexiest outfit I can wear.

If you notice: A sultry look or a casual compliment will definitely turn up the heat. Let’s keep it fun and flirty!

Sleeveless Tops

How I feel: "Embracing my boldness and sensuality."

Choosing a sleeveless top is my way of saying, "Look at me!" It shows off my arms, a symbol of my strength and femininity, inviting gazes and admiration. This style is liberating, giving off a vibe that I’m not afraid to flaunt what I’ve got. It’s all about showcasing my body and feeling empowered, with my shoulders bare and ready for a little flirtation.

If you notice: A sly compliment about how it accentuates my arms? Now that's a confidence boost!

High Heels

How I feel: "Time to elevate my allure."

Heels, whether stilettos or chunky platforms, transform my entire presence. They elongate my legs and change my posture, giving me an air of dominance and seduction. The way they highlight my thighs makes me feel irresistible, and each step I take feels like I’m strutting my stuff down a runway. Heels aren’t just about height; they’re about power.

If you notice: Suggesting we hit a classy bar or a romantic spot is the perfect vibe for heels. It signals that I’m ready for a night full of fun and flirtation.

Anything Red

How I feel: "I’m here to turn heads."

Red isn’t just a color; it’s an attitude. I pull it out when I want to make a statement. Whether it’s a fiery dress or just a bold lip, it screams confidence and desire. It’s a way of saying, "I’m feeling fabulous, and I dare you to notice." When I wear red, I’m not just dressing up; I’m inviting the world to pay attention.

If you notice: A compliment about my bold choice will definitely make me smile. It’s all about recognizing that I’m feeling myself and want you to notice.

A Warm, Cozy Sweater

How I feel: "Let’s keep it soft and intimate."

A snug sweater is like a warm embrace, wrapping me in comfort. It makes me feel cozy and inviting, creating an atmosphere of intimacy without screaming for attention. There’s something incredibly sexy about being approachable and laid-back, inviting closeness and connection without trying too hard.

If you notice: Lean in a little closer. A warm touch or a playful nudge fits perfectly with this vibe.

A Hint of Lace or Straps

How I feel: "Today, I’m feeling playful and a bit cheeky."

A glimpse of lace or a strap peeking out adds just the right amount of flirtation to my outfit. It’s a playful tease that invites curiosity and intrigue. This subtle element of sexiness is perfect for creating a connection and sparking conversation while keeping things light and fun.

If you notice: A playful comment or a mischievous smile works wonders. It’s all about enjoying the flirtation without crossing any lines.

Sweetheart Necklines

How I feel: "Time to embrace my feminine charm."

A sweetheart neckline is all about showcasing my décolletage while maintaining a sense of elegance. It’s flirty, inviting, and enhances my femininity without being too revealing. The way it curves around my chest highlights my shape, giving off a vibe that’s both sexy and classy. I love how it makes me feel romantic yet empowered.

If you notice: A compliment about how lovely the neckline is can go a long way. It’s all about celebrating the curves and the beauty of femininity.

Bodycon Dresses

How I feel: "All eyes on me."

A bodycon dress is the ultimate confidence booster. It clings to every curve, emphasizing my figure and showing off my silhouette. When I wear this, I’m ready to strut my stuff and own the room. It’s all about feeling bold, sexy, and undeniably attractive.

If you notice: Let’s indulge in some compliments! I’m ready for the attention, and I want to revel in it.

Skirts and Mini Skirts

How I feel: "Let’s show some leg."

Whether it’s a flirty mini skirt or a classic pencil skirt, this style is all about embracing my legs and celebrating my femininity. It invites attention to my legs and creates a playful vibe. When I wear a skirt, I feel a little more daring, ready to flirt and have some fun.

If you notice: Compliments about how great my legs look are always welcome. It adds to the playful energy of the outfit!

So, the next time you see me (or any woman, really) rocking a particular outfit, pay attention to the signals—it might be revealing more about our mood, desires, and playful energy than you think.

Hey guys ...I'm someone who has been waiting a long time to be in a fulfilling relationship and lose my virginity to the woman I'd have feelings for...but that seems like a distant possiblity as I tend to have crippling social anxiety and I go mute in the presence of women (exaggerating but literally I just can't...idk why)...

And it's exhausting to wait to get to make sweet love for the first time with hormones going haywire..I crave for a woman's touch every night and day without it never happening....

So now I've decided to put an end to this physical craving for intimacy .... I'd like to have casual one night stands/hookups or I'm ok to even pay for sex.... I'm just not sure how to maneuver the situation....like are there apps for such stuff? How do I ask for a nearby brothel or ....... Tbh I don't even know what to ask or from whom to ask.... I'm a 25 year old dude from South Delhi.... I'm hoping someone from the crowd would have some solution or advice....

My GF has super sensitive skin and is very ticklish. Sometimes even a simple touch irritates her because of the tickles. And this is causing lot of awkward, embarrassing and turn-off moments during romance and sex.

Any girls here with the same condition? How do you manage to have romance and sex?

PS: She has been consulting dermatologist for this condition, but it cannot be cured.

Long story short I find myself being a little afraid of putting myself out there again.

I got out of a long term relationship a few months ago and it fucked me up to a point where it's difficult to even date.

Being high libido that's a pretty fucked up situation to be in.

Even hook ups seem daunting. And it's not like I've not hooked up before. Just everything seems crazy. I'm already going to therapy so hopefully it'll get better. But did anyone else face something similar? How did you deal with it?

Hey everyone,

I’ve been in a bit of a complex situation for the past couple of months. I’ve developed a flirtatious connection with a woman, and things have definitely gotten a bit naughty. We started off as acquaintances, but our chemistry quickly escalated into playful banter and subtle hints that we’re both enjoying. There’s a thrill in the air, and I can’t help but feel drawn to her.

While the flirtation is exciting, I’m also aware of the ethical implications involved. I’ve been reflecting on what I really want and how she might feel about this whole situation. I genuinely enjoy our conversations and the connection we’ve built, and I’m seriously considering involving sex in this dynamic.

Here’s where I need your insights, ladies: How should I navigate this situation? Should I take things further and see if she’s open to exploring a more intimate connection, or is it better to keep things light and playful? I don’t want to complicate her life, but the chemistry between us is undeniable.

I’m curious about your perspectives—what do you think about flirting with someone in this kind of situation? How can I approach this delicately, ensuring that I respect her boundaries while also exploring the potential for something more? Any advice on how to move forward without causing any harm would be greatly appreciated.

Looking forward to hearing your thoughts!

My 1st post here.

These aren't fantasies, but the OG stuff which works for everyone. (Both m and f)

1. Sloppy kisses:

They are legendary. Unbeatable. They describe passion and love and how much you what the other person, so as so, in that moment, you are ready to lick the disgust.

2. Sloppy blowjobs and kiss after that:

No need to describe a sloppy blowjob, already a masterpiece discovered by woman to please a man to heights. A kiss after a sloppy blowjob is a passion and thank you for an amazing blowjob experience.

3. Making a woman lick her own fluid:

While going down on a woman, taking out the fingers out of her vag and putting it in her mouth while you continue to lick her, trust me, a woman considers you a god at that moment.

4. Scratching back in cowgirl:

OG and never out of fashion. Both man and woman performing this is letting the other person know that they gonna destroy them and wanna fuck them till breathlessness.

5. A man's moan:

This is for the ladies. A man's moan turns on a woman as much as a woman's moan does to a man. Ask your ladies and see their smile.

6. A woman putting the penis inside by herself:

This has to be one of my favorites. A woman taking the penis and putting it inside her vag herself is the most turning on point for a man. It shows how much the lady wants you.

7. Mutual masturbation:

Obviously this goes without saying, it is one of the hottest things. Both lying in bed and a woman stroking the man's cock and man fingering and rubbing the woman's clit, is as satisfying as sex.

8. Putting her legs on shoulders:

Missionary wasn't intended to just laying down and putting your penis inside her. It is more than that. Try putting her legs on your shoulders and gently pushing the hips down with your hands, a woman will explode. She will shake for sure.

9. Pulling her back in doggy:

Same as missionary, it isn't a simple inside out. Try pulling her back from the shoulders and then boobs and make her back touch your front chest and abs. If possible, try rubbing her clit simultaneously, she is going to remember you for ages even if she is with someone else.

10. Neck kisses:

Ending with a soft one, ok, this everyone knows. So let me add a thing here. Try moaning in her/ his ear while having sex or bitting their neck. Even further, try bitting the earlobes. Trust me, you'll get them butterflies.

Thank you for reading this, I'll post more such soon.