/r/HotWifeLifestyle
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Are there any other porns Like the howife porns from Brooke blaze?
I mean Long vids with the Man filming and enjoying her Afterwards?
I’m dating an awesome woman but I’ve been reticent to divulge my hotwife kink to her.
Little things she’s said have implied she is very attracted to masculine dominance and repulsed by male submissiveness. We have incredible sex, but I’ve come to realize I am not truly compatible with a woman who would judge me or be turned off by this fantasy.
The biggest appeal of hotwifing to me is the trust, vulnerability, intimacy, and consciousness to do it in a healthy way. I want to nurture my partner and help her grow into the most confident, fulfilled version of herself.
I think traditional social conditioning would likely make this a turn off to many women. I am strong and protective, but I don’t always want to be dominant. There’s something so incredibly sexy about the unique women who can adore and playfully tease a man for his more submissive sexual tendencies while also understanding he is a multidimensional being capable of great strength and dominance when necessary. Like always being ready to protect her.
I fear it’s one of those fantasies that would give most woman “the ick” and make them unable to see me the same anymore. I think because of that vulnerability it’s the only way I could truly fall in love, because I am not unveiling my full self if I am always in the dominant role.
I’m curious to hear this community’s thoughts on this because I don’t yet have real life experience. Thank you
34M 35F. We have been preparing for our first MFM with a couple of options that seem to have stalled but my wife is still eager to invite someone in. She is a little hesitant to commit to fucking another person but is more curious to mess around with things up to penetration. She likes the foreplay idea with two men and wants to give us both blow jobs. Would that be frustrating as the additional guy or would it still be worth pursuing? I imagine it would be very worth it for me if I got to see her sucking another man’s dick
I want to talk to someone already in the lifestyle living in the US. My wife is not ready to jump into it, but still want to live vicariously and chat about the pros, cons, etc. Send me a message.
we have started slow with letting people watch us at a sex club now we want to move it a little further and have a couple watch us via snapchat and telling her what to do
After quite some time of contemplation and reflection I decided to open up to my fiancé… I have been really hesitant to bring up this topic because I was scared of what her reaction might be…
She surprisingly took it better than I expected.. I confessed my desire for a MFM threesome and how I would like her to be my slutty hotwife.. I expressed how my desire for this was ultimately for her own pleasure, and how I would want her to be the center of attention. I want her to benefit the most from this experience. Shes knows that my biggest kink is getting her off and satisfying her needs.
I told her that this could remain a fantasy and there was absolutely no pressure of actually doing it. I’m not even interested if she isn’t. I would never pressure her into doing something that would make her uncomfortable. I explained that she gets the final say on whether or not we proceed forward with this… We’re only going through with this if she wants it too.
She was definitely surprised and at a loss of words.. I could feel the conflicting emotions from her but I also noticed how increasingly turned on she was becoming. We ended up fucking throughout the night and she wanted to hear more about it… She was absolutely soaked and drenched. After finishing inside her, we both laid down and she turns to me and says
“I’ll think about it” ..
“You’d seriously let another cock fuck me?”
To which I replied with..
“Only if you want it, baby.”
“The opportunity is there if you ever wanted to explore it.”
“But if we decide to do this, we do it together.”
The conversation came to a halt and we cuddled and went to bed..
This morning she woke up and to my surprise she was still horny..
She took off her panties and wanted a morning quickie..
We fucked doggy style and she brought it up again…
“Tell me more.” she says…
It was so fucking hot and I’m pretty sure she’s into the idea.. at least enough to fantasize about it..
I’m sharing this information because this is a huge milestone for me. I didn’t expect her to be so receptive and I’m happy I brought it up when I did. I took a gamble and it looks like it was well worth it.
I have a question for the community at large, what should be our next step? I’m considering buying her a realistic dildo so we can play and fantasize about it further without bringing in a 3rd just yet.
We both agreed that the 3rd person should not be local. If we look for a playmate, it has to be someone from somewhere distant.
Thank you to everyone who has helped me throughout my journey. While the journey hasn’t even started it feels like so much progress already :)
I posted a detailed description of an actual event that took place on Saturday night.
As far as I can see, no rules were broken, yet it was still removed as 'it is better suited to a different sub'
It was literally a recount of a hotwife experience, surely this is the correct sub for it?
Anyone doubting it's accuracy can simply go back through my profile and check my previous posts here - why would I go to so much effort to make this shit up? There are better subs than this one if I wanted to post pretend stories.
I try and put a lot of effort and detail into my posts here so people can relive our experiences, or maybe learn something from them.
Do mods just want low effort posts here?!
And yes, I have tried messaging them, I appreciate they don't live on Reddit and might reply at some stage, but until that time, I'll open it up to the community. Maybe someone can steer me in the right direction so my posts don't get removed.
Thanks
Hi everyone, this is a question mostly for the women of Reddit. We’ve been fantasising about MFM, she gets horny but don’t know if she ever would want to act it out.
I was thinking to film a video with a friend jerking off to videos of us having sex and pictures of her and them show her the video of us jacking off to her pictures.
Do you thinks she will be turned on? Is it a good idea or is it too creepy? Thanks in advance
After years of persistent pillow talk from my husband, I finally opened up to the idea now in our early 30s. I never took him seriously, but the persistency finally paid off. To dip our toes in the water, started off as just chatting around and using apps like tinder, with face covered and not full names of course. After long vetting process and meeting men, I never found one I was willing to share that side of me with. I never been with anyone else, so if I’m not completely into someone else I wouldn’t just do it.
Eventually I matched with a discreet profile just like mine. We talked over a few weeks, and it seemed like such a great fit. He was a bit older in his late 40s, divorced, professional, preferred discreetness, was a gentleman, etc. We had some dirty chats and texts but he let me take my time and when I was comfortable, we finally FaceTimed this past weekend. My heart stopped and I was in shock when we saw each other, he was someone that had relations to my husband. I never felt that anxious or awkward in my life. He assured me he wasn’t going to tell anybody and I have been uneasy. But I feel like I can trust him to be discreet about it. I know it sounds crazy but just wondering how you experienced people ever dealt with people you know IRL finding out and how you handled it? Thanks for listening.
In our case we really get turned on by the idea of my wife taking a large circumcised cock, rather than a decent sized sensitive uncircumcised one. Would love too hear from anyone whom appreciates this kink or something similar!
My husband and I recently had our first experience, and are going on vacation soon. We’d like to try to have some fun on vacation, but as someone who’s spent most of her life perfecting the “don’t talk to me” look, how does one become more easily approachable? We’ll be at a resort, and are planning for me to have spend some time alone at the pool to see if any opportunities come along, as it’s not likely to happen with us both there. What can a woman do to be more easily approachable? I’m usually pretty introverted, though I do get hit on often enough (just not when I’m trying to). Going to try to ease up a bit… looking for tips. Thanks in advance!
My wife and I started exploring. It’s scary but I keep going back to pics and videos from her explorations. No sex yet with anyone and not sure it will go that far. It is super crazy and a turn on receiving pictures of her naked in positions and having orgasms
Hi sexy people. My (38M) wife (36F) is starting to really embrace the idea of being shared. We're at the sexting people on app and attending lifestyle events stage. All relatively new to us still.
An idea that we had was going on a mini vacation with our third. The idea of being at a pool party with a built-in play partner for the wife completely uninhibited is incredibly hot. I haven't see any post where this sort of arrangement was mentioned. Usually it is the wife going on a solo trip or meeting people local. We wonder if anyone has any experience like this they can share? We have young kids and lots of obligations at home so it's been hard for the wife to get into the mood in town it seems.
Any response is appreciated!
Would you recommend? Any tips or advice for a first timer?
I posted a few days ago that my wife officially became a hotwife last week. Since then I have mostly been very excited that it finally happened and look forward to her having sex with other guys again.
But there are also times where I feel a lot of anxiety about it and wonder if we should go back to the way things were, if that is even possible anymore. The other issue is I can't stop thinking about it (for example, I should be working right now).
Did anyone else feel this way after the first time? Did you emotions eventually stabilize?
I am open to a chat, I would like to talk to men and women who have been through what I am going through and hear how things turned out.
Trying to get my wife into the idea of being a Hot wife, but she says she has no interest. She has not been sexual for a while. Blames it on stress of life, kids, always being tired, etc but we’ve known each other since we were kids and she definitely got around from 19-27ish. In that time she had to sleep with 20-30 guys. Now she says she’s ashamed of that period but part of me is convinced she must miss it a little. I don’t think you go from being a virgin to boning 20+ people in, realistically, 5 years. How do I break her back out of her shell? Thanks!
Hotwives, especially those who are more modest/ from conservative backgrounds - were you initially hesitant to express curiosity/interest in this fantasy to your husband when initially introduced?
A temp guy has been working with my wife for about a month. She has come home and told me a half dozen stories about something they say funny to each other, to me it was very flirty. His last day working he asks my wife to join him for drinks. He knows she is married but he took his shot.
My wife then texts me the same day and tells me she wants to get drinks with him at our local pub. I don't think he thought I was joining but I showed up. We had a great time lots of drinks some laughs it was fun. At some point my wife says she has been invited back to his place. Wife "can I go, I will to tally pass if you don't want me to. But I would like to." I said I don't mind we don't play with other people very often, but we have some experience.
We all leave at the same time so it doesn't look too weird. Small town, we are trying to not be the local topic. I go home and she texts me a minute later that she is at his place, all very close to the pub.
I can't help but get excited, as soon as I think about her having sex I get hard. I take a shower and get into bed just trying to not think about too much. I kind of pass out once I get into bed and wake back up when she walks into the bedroom.
I check the clock it's only been about 40 minutes. She takes her clothes off and quickly and gets into bed telling me she is cold. She looks over at the night stand and laughs at me because I took her vibrator out of the drawer. I can't wait I ask her for details, she tells me to wait while she is getting her toy on and in position.
Once I hear the buzzing sound going I cuddle up real close and whisper for the details. Wife " yes we had sex, it was good and his cock is about the same size as you." Me "did you cum did you make him cum?" Wife " no l didn't cum but it felt really good and yes he did cum, when he was ready I told him to cum inside of me." I check with my fingers, and it's a huge fresh load oozing up to her clit. I get so excited by this we have some more sexy dirty talk about how naughty she is. A married woman fucking another man, not that it should matter but he is African American and we are white. The visual of a dark cock inside a white pink pussy is hot.
This is the third time doing sloppy seconds and I wanted to enjoy it. I slide in real slow, that wet silky smooth feeling is unmistakable. If you have ever done this you know what I am talking about. She tells me to wait she wants to cum first, she kicks the toy up a notch and starts cumming in about 30 seconds. I don't last long after that, and start to pump my throbbing cock unloading everything I have inside her. It lasted a long time I felt like I was cumming for 30 seconds straight. We had sex again the next morning just reliving the night again. I wish we could do this monthly but it really is hard to do when you want to keep a low profile. I hope it's not that last time :)
I’ve posted a few times on here about mine and my wife’s journey. This time last year my wife was completely unaware of my fantasies, but following her work Christmas party, when she wore tight vinyl trousers that showed off her amazing ass, I confided about the fantasies I had.
She took it better than expected - first disbelief then surprise, slowly getting to understand, still coming to terms with it. We now regularly role play with the hotwife fantasy using her dildo that I bought earlier this year. She sometimes teases me before a girls night. We’re having a lot of fun whilst having not really moved forward any.
I recently had a childhood friend to stay who I only see every few years (no, we didn’t have sex) - after several drinks we had a really forthright discussion the 3 of us about life, sex and other things (he’s perpetually single and was reminiscing on the “if I was married” and how we must fuck all the time - to which we said no, life, kids etc have got in the way and we’re really rediscovering our sex lives). My wife mentioned about how she knows I find her sexy but I have to - but she doesn’t feel it all the time. He complimented the hell out of her, said all the right things. She was a bit embarrassed but also clearly flattered. He left with parting advice about how we should never be afraid of fantasies, sex is sex, we should always make sure we’re having fun. Etc etc. Drunken advice. His parting comment “if I was married I’d be totally into sharing”. I’d never mentioned the fantasy to him but clearly he could sense it was something that’s come up.
We left it there but I definitely felt it helped her relax and feel sexy, and also validated that I’m not a total deviant! I fucked her hard that night, for a long time, and we talked about how I can help her to feel sexy, and how we can work with our (now shared) fantasy in a safe manner - we talked about:
So, since then, she’s asked me to get her a skin-coloured dildo - which I have - and it’s thick!
We are coming up to this year’s work Christmas Party and she’s planning to wear the same tight trousers - she’s now asked me to choose her some new panties to wear underneath that she can feel sexy and a bit naughty in. I asked who’d be seeing them, she said “you - when I come home… but who knows who’ll have touched them?”
Looking forward to these next steps, still nurturing her into the fantasy - but enjoying the thoughts of how we can continue to progress and have fun!
Now off to look for some sexy panties for her to wear - what would people like to find on a nice innocent looking 30s milf at her Christmas party? She’s not going to wear a crotchless or pearl crotch, but a sexy and reasonably comfy thong would definitely go down well!
Wife and I took 6 months off to focus on building our new home. This morning is the first time she's coming back from a bulls house in the second half of 2024. 2025 here we come!
Just a question for all the couples out there. The past month or so, I have had a lot more opportunities for sex outside of my marriage. Some of it has been with my husband (for example he arranged a gangbang for me and we went to a sex party around Halloween), other times have been solo like when he went away for a bachelor party.
Typically, I play once or twice a month with others, and usually just one guy at a time. I feel a bit strange since I’ve been doing a lot more than normal recently. Hubby and I have talked about this and he enjoys it, so I am not quite sure where this feeling is coming from. Maybe the holidays reminding me that I have to put on a facade of being a normal wife when we do a lot of extracurricular activities.
Do other couples end up in slutty periods like this with a lot more opportunities for fun than usual? How do the husbands out there feel when their wife has similar periods like this?
I have been invited to be a third for a couple and I have some questions. For a bit of background my wife and I had been interested in hotwiving but for various reasons she's not able to be involved at the moment. In the meantime she gave me consent to be a third for other couples with various conditions (they must be a couple, safe sex etc). I haven't aggressively pursued this because I don't consider myself a 'bull' or an aggressive alpha - just a 43 year old guy in good shape who loves sex so wasn't sure I'd be what hotwife couples were really looking for. However hotwiving/swinging/stag-vixen is a spectrum and I've been chatting to a couple aged 31/32 who a curious-interested in a threesome and hotwife style experience but haven't met anyone yet and would prefer their first time to be someone who is trying things out too. They had one meet already but the vibe wasn't there and they didn't end up doing anything. I've been chatting to the woman (or thats what they are saying anyway) and I've shared pictures of myself with face sfw and she's shared a couple of nsfw without faces but seemingly with some verification (vaguely had my name in the pic but it was difficult to make out). They are travelling to a town near me for work next week and will have a hotel so have been keen to arrange and lock in a date. She's been keen to specify that they'd like to meet me in the hotel bar for some drinks and chat and see if the vibe is there and then go to their room if all feels good. I get the impression for this meet they'd like it to be a full threesome with a focus on her pleasure and perhaps he will instruct her to what he wants her to do with me - like his own performing pornstar. Here are my questions:
1.) Verfication - they have sort of verified but I feel like I need something more concrete before meeting - what generally speaking is a reasonable thing to ask for verification? I was thinking a pic with their faces and a piece of paper with my username?
2.) Safe sex - They haven't mentioned safe sex yes but its imperative for me that I will use condoms for PIV but happy without for oral - can I assume they feel the same way and see how it goes or should I double check first - whats a good way to bring this up?
3.) Chat - I'm confident enough to have a good conversation in the bar to begin with but if they're cagey about letting on too much about themselves and their lives what are some good topics of chat before things get flirtier/sexier?
Generally speaking do most hotwives here tend to meet with single males or have any of you been involved in the scenario I outlined above.
Also any hints, tips or advice for the meet and to make it a great experience all round are gratefully received.
Any couple here who fucked up , had issues after their first hotwifing experience , or the man got jealous and later they tried again and it was better .
What did you guys discuss to try it again and how did you convince your woman again .
I have been having a blast just exploring with my wife. Little by little slowly. I’m sure once you are there fun is still had.
But would any of you consider the journey as being better than being there or is being there just a blast for many of you even if it is just a once and awhile thing. My wife and I have described it as a massage for the sexual soul. I needed but could be something nice to have just like a regular massage.
Recently I showed a video of a threesome with 2 boys to my girlfriend and she said she doesn’t think she can do something like that and I told her it’s okay it’s just a fantasy. Also I want her to chat with other guys but I’m scared this may affect our relationship and I’m thinking of maybe desexualizing myself from this idea.
Any advice on this?
Thanks!
Are any of you guys so into this that nothing even comes close to the arousal of Hotwifing? Thanks
First of all, thank you to everyone who came up with fun ways for me to tease him in my last post. I loved sending him pics of me getting ready and sitting at the bar. I sent him pics in my Uber to the guys house and back to ours the next morning (fell asleep after 2 rounds of sex oops!).
Friday night guy was fun! Two rounds of sex with a facial and a load in my tits was pretty hot.
Last night I went out again and found a new guy. He was pretty fun too. He only went one round but still made sure I came so I can’t complain too much. But I got a nice load on my face before I cleaned up and ubered home again.
Earlier, I ended up picking hubby up from the airport and we spent a long time reconnecting and I finally had bare sex and a much needed creampie.
Now to act like an innocent normal wife when we go to his family dinner later!
My GF (29) and I (30) have been talking about her trying stuff with other people, but she hadn‘t done anything irl before yesterday.
It may not be as exciting as what most of you experience, but for me it is an amazing step:
She was out with a (girl) friend of hers, who knows about her „freedom“.
They were at this bar and stood close to a group of guys they found interesting, but were to shy to talk to them.
Before they wanted to leave, two of the guys came up to them and told them their friend found my GF pretty, but was too shy to say anything, so they wanted to help him out.
They got talking and she told him about our situation! He took her to a less central spot and they made out!
It didn’t go farther than that, but i‘m excited about it!
On my 3rd HotWife / Vixen data I went back to Daddy's office. We are in a D/s dynamic with Hubby's approval, PIV saved for Hubby. Hubby was chill when I left and even charged the car for me. I wasn’t scared this time. I was excited. I spent the day getting ready. I wore a lace top in Daddy's favorite whore red color, a tight pencil skirt with thigh-high suspender stockings and stiletto boots. I liked that you could see the tops of the stocking in the slit up the back of the skirt. I knew he was going to want me to suck his cock for the first time and I was a little nervous about all the bratting I had done. But it turned out to be everything I wanted.
I loved sucking Daddy's cock while he sat in a chair. I wanted to worship him like a king and that was the perfect set up. I licked and kissed his cock nice and slowly taking my time. I used both hands sliding them up over the top of the head and down to his balls next to my mouth to make one long dragging sensation. He was losing it pretty quickly, I was determined to make him cum. I went harder and faster until he started cumming. He had been saving all his cum since our last date and when he came it was powerful. He spilled some in my mouth, I pointed it on my right tit and it was all over my hand. I kissed and licked his cock gently cleaning the cum off him while looking him in the eyes. He told me later he had an aftershock orgasm from that.
My favorite part was getting spanked on his desk. Being bent over with my suspender tights and no panties on. Hearing the buckle open was a fucking thrill. He dragged it across my back and over the crack of my ass. He spanked me on each cheek, on the back of my legs and the grand finale across my spread open pussy. It felt sharp, I could see in my mind's eye exactly where he struck me and the sting just lasted and lasted. I liked it. When I heard him put his belt on the desk I felt that relief again. Later he told me he was slowly increasing the intensity testing my tolerance and that I did fantastic, he loved seeing how I moved and whimpered and yelped. I felt really proud.
We cuddled on the couch a little and he asked what was on my mind. I told him he came but I didn’t. He said that doesn’t seem fair, does it. He told me to get my toy out, I squirted a handful of lube on his fingers. He fingered my pussy and ass while I used my vibe on my clit. He was paying so much attention to me that he immediately noticed when I was getting close to coming. He said that’s right that’s my good girl. That made me lose it and I came so hard as he dirty-talked me over the edge.
Hi guys,
i’m the husband here. So… me and my wife have been married for 4 years she’s 23 now and i’m 27. we got married young and especially her. for the last couple years my fetish towards sharing my wife or having her sleep with other men. I think i got this feeling from her being young and commited to me for her whole life even tho she had sex before me and other guys I felt like she’s so beautiful and young and also a college student I didnt want her go miss out on the fun part, because I sure didnt! So over time me and the wife would do things like watch porn or gang bangs and threesomes and her reactions where always so turned on and in the heat of the moment i’d say, damn baby imagine you where that girl getting fucked by all those men and she’d say yea that would be so fun. So over months and months i’d throw hints and then one day she straight up asked me like you’d actually be
okay with me fucking another guy? and I got the courage to finally say straight up Yes..
she couldnt believe it, she was shocked like why would I ever not just allow that but want it, and she then tells me i dont know if i’d ever even do it but I just want you to know I could never see you fuck another girl i wouldnt be able to handle it. luckily for me i didnt really care to be open on my end I just wanted to share her.
So we toyed with that idea but I never got a straight up yes I want to do it or have her commit to it. until she seen a really tall fit attractive guy in her college class. and started talking to me about him, soon as she mentioned him I knew this was our chance. We talked for a couple weeks about it she still was back and fourth on if we should do this or not and then today she just told me… baby I think I made up my mind, I want this man to fuck me and I cant stop thinking about it now…
man that was so hot I couldnt even explain the feelings I was feeling, she started talking to me how she’d do it and what she’d do and I just kept getting hornier and hornier. we had some amazing sex after that talk.
So now she’s trying to find a good moment to do it so it comes off as natural to him and not weird and make her look like a slut because everyone knows she’s married in her class. I’m so excited and cant wait for her first time and how it feels for her. any suggestions or advise would be appreciated !