Long story short but I semi-recently found messages of my wife chatting with an old friend that was quite flirty, and she had even started sending pics in thongs, etc.

When I found them, I let her know about this fantasy for the first time. She didn't fully shoot it down, but said it was quite odd and not something she'd think she could do. However, she kept talking to the guy, and continued sending pics. He lives far away and they had made plans to meet up before he got sick and cancelled. She doesn't share these details with me, but also doesn't hide it too hard.

It's an odd position for me, I don't want to push the Hotwife stuff on her too hard, but I also know she wants to fuck this guy, but hasn't given herself the chance to do it yet. I'd be totally fine with her actually cheating too. Any suggestions on how to proceed?

Hot wife heading to our hotel room with a lover. I will be joining shortly. It’s going to be a helluva wild night. See profile for pics

Hii Is there any chance to meet a couple or a hotwife in middle-east specifically in dubai ? I am interested in meeting kinky people around

I think showing off my girlfriend is the hottest thing ever. She’s absolutely beautiful, and I’m deeply in love. We have used tinder in the past, but some of those dudes have been creepy and red flags. I know that will be a lot of them, but does anybody have experience showing off their wife/girlfriend virtually?

Like if like to meet up with a guy one on one to potentially set up with my girlfriend and talk about this stuff but because I'm not really interested in being with guys myself, it feels a little overly focused without having my lady there. Not sure if this is making sense. Basically I'm saying I wish I was more bi and gay because then it would be more interesting talking to them more.

I have been fantasizing about my fiancée to become a hotwife for the last year or so. We’ve been together for 5 years getting married next summer. We kinda broke up/took a break a couple years ago and while we were separated she took no time in finding a new guy. Within the month break she and this guy slept over at each other’s house, she claims she never had sex but kissed, blow Jobs, I know and she knows they fucked. She brought it up a while ago and made me say out loud that it hurt me to find out that she blew him. I was so turned on and we had great sex. She brought up that every time we talk about her and this guy it turns me on and asked why. I lied and said idk. She was extremely sexual in her past, bi, loves kinky sex. She’s obviously not a prude. I have no idea how to bring it up. I can see her freaking out and being hurt by my fantasies or totally down also a little background on our relationship she is the assertive, dominant, wearer of the pants in our relationship. My sexual libido is no where near how high hers is. We have fought in the past of not having an enough sex. She would be down to have sex every day where I’m a once maybe twice a week kind of guy. All signs kinda of point to her probably being very open to this. Please help me!!

Has anyone ever heard of the concept of "spiritual transference", which is the idea that each person you have sex with transfers something spiritual from inside themselves and into you, which then effects you mentally for some length of time?

I understand that people in this lifestyle may not necessarily be religious, but I wonder if any who are open to spirituality in some form can elaborate on this? Have you experienced anything like this? Especially those wives who started out having only a 1 person body count, but now many.

• Did you notice a change in your personality or headspace in your daily life after your first encounter with a different man?

• Do you feel that you take on some kind of spiritual trait or "energy" that reflects back or reminds you of the individual you had sex with (makes you feel like them in some way)?

• How will this change a man's wife if she's never been with another?

So a bit of context here.

I've been with my wife almost 20 years now. We've had our ups and downs through the years but generally we are pretty happy with our marriage and I really can't complain about our sex life it has its ups and downs too but overall id say it's healthy.

We've never been the couple for any one single kink. We go through spurts of stuff. Like for example we will randomly do bondage one time and then we will be into bondage heavily for like the next month or two then the lure of it will die out and we won't do any bondage for like a year or two. We will have normal sex for a while and then one day we will use a toy and we will be on like a toy kick for a month or two. We've never been the couple to keep at the same thing consistently, we enjoy variety.

Over the last couple years though I've been really turned on by the thought of sharing my wife with another man. Nothing humiliating but more of it being like it's my choice to share my sexy wife. I'm now at the point where it's the only fantasy that I can pleasure myself too. When it's me and her I can finish no problem at all, but lately if I am by myself it's the only fantasy I can get to climax with.

I have fantasized about it so much that I know which things I am for sure NOT ok with, which things I'm on the fence with and which things I'm really turned on by.

I brought it up casually in conversation about a year ago just to gauge what she even thought of it.

She brought up something that happened a many many years ago.

We were hosting a party and the alcohol was flowing and her friend was kind of instigating a threesome with the two of us. We excused our self from the party to a private room and started getting into it. Everything was good, we were all kissing and touching and rubbing eachother. Then I pulled my wife's panties off and laid down and made her sit on my face. I was expecting her friend to give me a blow job but she skipped that part completely and just Just sat on my dick and ess fucking me with no condom. After I few minutes I couldn't wait to fuck my wife. I got up bent them both over on the couch and was playing with her friends pussy and I grabbed my dick to glide into my wife's pussy and I said the stupidest thing ever...." You're next" my wife immediately said I can't fucking do this and left the room. I was devastated. I didn't mean it the way she took it. It was just a hot moment and I honestly couldn't wait to fuck my wife. My wife didn't like that she was "next" Truthfully I am not into her friend at all. Personality wise she's stupid as fuck, I don't think she was a pretty girl either, but her body was half decent, so this was more just like a bucket lists thing for me. And now my wife was upset about the whole thing for like the next few weeks it was kinda the elephant in the room.

So when I mentioned bringing a man into the bedroom she was just like I don't know, we tried a threesome before and look how that turned out. I didn't want to push the subject.

I tried steer myself away from the idea after that. But it's became like an itch I couldn't scratch, the harder I tried to forget about it the more I fucking wanted it.

About six month after I brought it up the first time, she brought up the topic of what were into lately. Like I said we tend tp go through spurts with our kinks and at that point we had been having pretty plain sex for a while and she was was obviously looking to add a bit of spice to our sex lives. I tried to play it off and told her I was into toys at the time. But she could tell that wasn't entirely true. She knows me and I have a shitty poker face. She she started digging on me to tell her what was really on my mind. So I messed up and told her that I think it would be so fucking hot to bring another guy into the bedroom. She asked why? She didn't understand it and I was caught off guard and didn't know how to explain it right at that moment either. I told her the rules that would be off limits for me and the things I am not Isure wether id be ok with or not amd she was like whoa you've actually out a lot of thought into this.

I didnt tell her how much I've actually been fanatizing about it because she was a little weirded out by it.

I asked if it's something she'd ever consider and she gave me a genuine I don't know. So then I asked her what's she's been into lately and she said role play. She's been fantazing about us pretending to not know eachother and her being at a abe and me walking in sitting at the other end and thenbuying her a drink and picking her up taking her home and fucking her.

So week or two later I set it up when she got home I had the bed set up like a massage parlor. And I was acting like a masseuse and told her her husband booked this massage and all that and I was really playing the part but i was kind of emphahsiing that she had a husbad and she wasnt keen that she was "cheating" in the role.. she said she would of prefer if she was single for it. I thought maybe it would help scratch the itch for me if we roleplayed something close to what I was fantasies about but all it did was make it worse for me.

I stuck a dildo to our head board and watched her lay on her back and fuck it and while I jerked off.... I cam so fucking hard all over her tits in like 90 seconds and I didn't even go soft I stayed hard and then made passionate love to her and came again but in her pussy this time. It was so fucking hot and she was wet because of how turned on I was by it.

But again this just made me want this even more now

I'm lost and don't know what to do. I don't not want to force her into something she truly doesn't want to do. The sexist part about the whole thing is seeing my wife enjoy herself and I'd love to see her enjoying herself from a different pov.

I dont want to be "in the lifestyle full time' but this is something I'd like to pull out once or twice a year just like we do either our other kinks.

Sorry for the long drawn out details but I figured the more context I can give the more better advice I can get tailored to my exact situation

Any advice on how to deal with what I'm feeling or to address the situation would be greatly appreciated?

My gf recently posted a picture of her in a bikini from one of our trips we did a little while back on instagram.

There was a trend that resurfaced of doing those NGL anonymous questions. Her friends were doing it so she thought it would be fun too. Majority were quite innocent, such as ‘what’s your make up routine’ ‘where did you buy that dress’ etc.

But there was a few questions (some not even questions but statements lol) that were a lot more vulgar. We presume it’s from the same person as they all read similar but they were along the lines of ‘I’ve masturbated over your bikini photos’ or ‘you deserve a huge cock. Would you ditch your bf so I can fuck that tight Asian pussy?’

Obviously she was quite shocked but the next hour turned into ‘omg who do you think it is.’ I want to imagine that she was thinking of his massive cock and wanted to find out who he was so she could fuck him. If you’ve read my previous stories you’d know that she was quite a prude but in the last 6 months or so she’s really opened up. It got me so hard thinking about it. At night when we were fucking, while she was riding on top of me, I got up and whispered in her ear asking if she would ditch me for a massive cock. She pushed me back down and told me to shut up but she started riding me like crazy. Fuck it felt good.

I feel like we are so close!

Wife and I are progressing towards it finally happening with her old friends. Tips for us?

Hi everyone,

I wanted to share some thoughts and experiences about a fantasy my girlfriend and I have been discussing, and I’d love to hear your advice or similar stories.

A while ago, my girlfriend told me about an intimate experience she had during a trip to Mallorca with a friend. They got close while swimming in the sea, and when she first told me, she was worried about how I’d react. I reassured her that my trust wasn’t affected, and over time, I even shared with her that I found the story exciting. This led to more open conversations between us about fantasies, and I started sharing some of mine as well.

When we engage in playful or intimate talk, I’ve told her that I’d love to watch her with another man or even with a couple. I’ve also shared that I’d enjoy being involved afterward in some way, which she finds intriguing. While we don’t talk about these fantasies very often – maybe every few months – whenever the topic comes up, it’s clear that it excites both of us.

Now, I’m wondering how realistic it might be to explore these ideas further and how we could approach them together in a way that feels safe and positive for our relationship. Has anyone here had similar experiences or advice on how to make fantasies like this a reality? How do you find the right people or situations, and how do you maintain trust and intimacy while exploring something new?

Thanks for reading, and I appreciate any insights you might have!

TL;DR: My girlfriend and I have discussed fantasies about her being with another man or a couple while I watch, and she finds the idea exciting. These conversations started after she shared an intimate experience from her past, which I later admitted I found intriguing. We only discuss this occasionally, but I’m wondering how realistic it would be to explore these fantasies and how to approach it in a way that keeps our relationship strong. Looking for advice on how to navigate this and find the right people or situations.

Fiancée went out with her friends to a fancy dinner party and she ended up meeting a guy. said they were dancing pretty sexy on the dance floor and he's taking her back to his apartment to fuck right now. i'm rock hard waiting to hear what's happening....

Part 1 BACKGROUNG

I've been married for almost 7 years (2nd marriage for both of us), a hotwife for about 3 years, and have had the same regular - my boyfriend - for about 2 years. I see him on average a few times a month, usually dinner at his house followed by fun times. Sometimes I have a sleep over, and occasionally he takes me out of town for a weekend away.

The town we live in isn't huge, and I grew up here. This means I know a lot of people, and just as importantly, a lot of people know me. Because of my profession, I can't be seen parading around town with my boyfriend. This is why I just go to his house for date night. And the weekends away are the only time we can go out on a date. Thankfully he is a decent cook.

I was lucky to find a single, attractive guy who I actually like that was willing to get tested and show results, is willing to participate in a scenario like this, and that I trust when he promises to use protection if he is with anyone else. He is truly lovely and I enjoy spending time with him. And my husband absolutely loves it when I come home from date night with evidence of that enjoyment.

Some time ago the idea of a 2nd boyfriend was discussed. Husband and boyfriend (who don't regularly hang out, but like each other and occasionally collaborate on a fun surprise for me) were both in favour of the idea. I signed up for a few online profile websites but didn't have a lot of luck, with several of the messages I recieved from people I know in my professional life. Yikes! Thankfully I was careful to keep my identity hidden. I gave up on that.

Last year my boyfriend told me a friend of his was moving to town for a new job, and might make a good candidate. He was coming for a pre-move visit, and we made arrangements to have a date night when he was around. The idea was to have a casual meet-and-greet at boyfriend's house, the friend staying for dinner and then leaving so that date night could proceed. I found myself quite nervous and had several glasses of wine at boyfriend's house before the friend even arrived. He eventually arrived and turns out he was quite attractive. I had several more glasses of wine with dinner. The evening became quite flirty, and, despite my assurances to myself that it wouldn't happen that night, I ended up having a threesome with the two of them. It was amazing.

Until the morning when my hungover brain realized that I never asked if he had been tested, and condom usage hadn't even been discussed. Despite this, boyfriend initiated a round of morning sex, which is pretty common for us. His friend, who had slept on the couch, heard what was happening and came back to join. I was able to compartmentalize my anxiety and set it aside, managing to enjoy the morning round with these two men.

But the anxiety and guilt hit me on my short drive home. I got home to husband crying, ashamed of my carelessness. He didn't mind there had been a threesome (he had given me the green light beforehand, despite my assurances that it was only a platonic meet). Through my tears I could also tell he was immensely turned on. He somehow successfully consoled me while also taking me to the bedroom, taking off my wrinkled clothes, and experiencing for himself the evidence of two men inside me. This actually made me feel a bit better.

Unfortunately, the friend's plans changed when his existing job matched the job offer he got, and he ended up not moving. The mixed emotions I had about that encounter combined with the bad experiences with the various online profile services turned me off the idea. I concluded that I wouldn't find another unicorn and I should be grateful with what I have. And I am.

But the idea of another boyfriend has resurfaced. My husband brought it up a few times, and on the most recent occasion we had a good long conversation about it. I must admit that the idea of stopping for a quickie on my way home from a date night before arriving home to husband is tremendously arousing. That's why I'm again willing to entertain the idea of a search.

So keep your eyes posted here as I'll be writing about my quest whether it is successful or not.

Stay tuned for Part 2.

I am seriously considering joining the Hotwife community. This is something my husband has been into for a long time and the thought does kind of excite me. But I cannot get over the “but is this cheating”. So my question is women that had some holdbacks how did you get over the feeling that you would be cheating but with consent?

Hey guys and gals I need some help. My wife and I have been together almost a decade and it has always been my fantasy to share her. She was a virgin before me and has never wanted to have sex with another man, but she knows how sexy it is to me. Now she is coming around to the idea for me, but she wants to be dated and taken on dates by other men and go dancing. Stuff like that. Which to me is way scarier than seeing someone be sexual with her. I’m not a very romantic man and she loves romance so she’s willing to consider a hotwife lifestyle where he dates her and I get my sexual fantasy fulfilled. How do u get over the jealousy factor of other men spoiling her and making her feel how she wants outside the bedroom?

Hi everyone. It's been a month since my wife became a hotwife after nearly a year of hesitance about it. It was a terrific, heart-pounding experience for both of us. After a couple weeks of going up and down with the feelings about it, she told me about a week ago that she would like to try it again "if you're really okay with it, are you really okay with it?" Notwithstanding I tell her how hot it was for me almost every time I fuck her.

We did our usual thing of finding a guy she had a mutual attraction with, and who was able to verify his identity and seriousness to our satisfaction. We set the date for last Friday at 7:00 PM, at a hotel bar in a city a short distance from us.

He ghosted her and stood her up.

Now not only is being stood up for a play date a big hit to her self-esteem, it's also very frustrating because of the logistics. We take pretty extreme measures to ensure anonymity which include arranging babysitting for the whole night and driving over an hour to the city, so we can be confident we won't encounter anyone who knows us. We pay for the hotel room. Etc.

She was all dolled up, sexy as hell, and horny and frustrated by 7:20 or so when it became apparent he wasn't going to show. I said "why don't you just sit by yourself at the bar and see who approaches you, let it go wherever it goes? I'll be nearby watching so you'll be safe but won't get involved unless you call me over." She said "no way" but within ten minutes changed her mind and decided to try it. She would beckon me over if she began to feel really uncomfortable, or if by chance a guy ended up inviting her to his room and she was minded to accept the invitation.

Over the next 45 minutes two guys approached her, one who must have been about 60, the other about our age, but she wasn't into either of them and the conversation petered out after a few minutes. By 8:30 she was occasionally bantering with the bartender but feeling ready to pack it in, when a sharply dressed guy--tall, 40ish, a bit overweight but carried it well, really physically a three inches taller version of me--sat down beside her, smiled, and said hi.

To spoil the anticlimactic end of the story for you, it didn't end with us going to his room or him to ours. They talked for a good half hour. I wasn't close enough to hear most of the conversation, but I could see from their body language that it was flirtatious on both sides. But he never did make a real move, and she was far too nervous and uncertain to say anything overtly suggestive. Eventually he said "good night" and they shared a long look, but neither of them said anything and the magical moment passed.

As soon as he left the bar she came to me and said "let's go". We returned to our room and fucked like crazed rabbits for the next hour straight. She was almost soaked before I ever touched her pussy, I've almost never seen her that horny. Later in the evening we talked about what had happened. She said she wanted so badly to invite him to our room but she couldn't form the words. She didn't even know how to explain to a guy "I'm married but my husband is here, want to fuck me while he watches?" We didn't plan to do this and had never talked about how to go about it.

But it was still a memorable evening, if not the evening we set out hoping for. That she didn't hesitate to admit to me that she absolutely would have had sex with him had he offered, she's come a long way in the past couple months of embracing her sexuality.

A week later she's back to feeling pretty frustrated about being stood up. I try to reassure her that that's the normal experience of everyone who tries to set up semi-anonymous hookups online, most of the guys are flakes 'n' fakes. She also says she isn't comfortable with the danger level of just picking someone up--she really wants to see a recent negative STD test first. She's got a good point there, so I don't know that we'll try this avenue again. But it was exciting and fun for both of us.

At this point we're probably done trying to arrange a meet until January, as we'll be traveling for the holidays and pretty busy. But she clearly is getting into the idea of being a hotwife and that is very exciting. And our sex life has never been better.

She has the ok to play, she isn't even there yet, we don't know if it will even happen, after the event they plan to hit up a few bars so we will see what happens but I'm already finding I don't know what to do to keep busy. It's been a good while since she has played and she is also nervous. Just needed to get this off my chest.. I'm going a little stir crazy sitting around the house just wondering if it will happen.

We’re early 40’s and relatively new (just one swing club experience mmmf, our first, followed by a really unexpected mmf and then the first fully organised date with a handsome chap.

Anyway, I obsessed over our the date to the extent that I chose/bought my wife’s dress, heels, nail varnish, earrings, lipstick (huge fetish), no underwear, hair style.

In my head it was all in the details, because unlike the previous two times, this one had to be just perfect. And of course, it was fucking perfect.

Because not only did she look exactly how I wanted her to look, the storyboard played out to perfection too, the one in the hotel bar, the guy chatting her up etc. you all know the one. Anyway this had been played out in our marital bed countless times. Only this time it was like living out this fantasy in a dreamy hazy virtual world.

She was an absolutely filthy, slutty, uninhibited, classy, whorish, fucking beautiful pornstar for that 2 hours. It was bliss. I find it hard to not get hard thinking about it on a day to day basis, it affects me at work, in the gym, playing ball, going to pick up a bunch of fucking bananas or getting petrol for the car. I’ve been perving on the same Reddit pages for weeks, Hotwife forums, porn sites, I think I’m fucking obsessed.

Her?? She absolutely loves it, as she whispered to me with cum all over her face, “I just fucking love dick.”

But she’s a functioning Hotwife. I’m fucked lol

Just started playing solo - before I had only done it at a local club with my husband nearby. I had 4 encounters, 2 were "meh", 1 was quite fun and 1 was mind blowing. He was 10 years younger than me, absolutely gorgeous face and body, perfection in my book. He was the kind of guy I used to fantasize with in my teens. I am on the curvy side and a bit self conscious, he was so turned out and we had absolutely fabulous sex. We played for about an hour and a half, as it was a Monday night and we both had to drive home to get ready for the next day.

The next day, I felt like a teenager. My mind kept wandering back to the night before, I kept getting butterflies in my stomach. My husband is the only person who knows and he is not necessarily interested in hearing the details, he only wants to know that I had fun.

I am an extrovert and really wanted to talk to someone about it... what do you all do? Just keep it to yourselves? Have a few trusted friends you confide with? Journal about it?

We’ve been roleplaying a lot in the bedroom recently. Still haven’t taken the plunge to actually watching her fuck someone but something that has come up is her telling me about her past sex life. While they broke up cause he was an asshole (and she would never get back with him), she did say that his cock was huge. It turned me on hearing how she used to take nearly 10 inches in her tight little Asian pussy and the idea of her ex fucking her came into mind.

She would never go for the idea but wondering if any couples have done that before and what happened?

Was messing around with a story of the best orgasm of my life after a question in a telegram room. Kinda turned into a short story. Felt it needed to be shared 😂. I would love thoughts. Events are based on an actual event but some creative liberties were taken to fill in for the fuzzyness of time

My wife and I were tangled in a heated embrace, our bodies slick with sweat and desire. Her hands roamed over my skin, arousing me to the point of madness. I was lost in the moment, my senses heightened as she straddled my hips, her breath hot against my ear.

But the scene wasn't as simple as it seemed. A third figure joined the dance, their rhythmic thrusts filling my wife with a primal pleasure. I watched, a mix of jealousy and arousal coursing through me. Each deep, forceful plunge sent shivers down my spine, and I found myself growing harder with every passing moment.

My wife, ever the tease, denied me release, her moans growing louder with each of her lover's thrusts. The anticipation was killing me, driving me to the brink of insanity. Finally, a crescendo of moans and grunts filled the room as he climaxed, filling Kimmie's depths with his seed.

As he withdrew, she turned her attention back to me, her pussy still slick and swollen. She slid down onto my hardening length, her eyes filled with a mixture of satisfaction and desire. "Thank you for sharing me I Hope you enjoy this as much as I enjoyed him" she whispered, her voice trembling. "How does it feel?"

I couldn't speak, the words caught in my throat. The erotic image of her, filled with another man's cum, drove me wild. I devoured her, my strokes desperate and frantic. Within moments, I exploded, a wave of pleasure washing over me. It was the most intense orgasm I'd ever experienced, a culmination of desire, jealousy, and pure, unadulterated lust.

If so, how did they find out?

I've been thinking about seeing my wife with another man for a long time. I often hinted at it with dirty talk during sex. „Imagine someone watching us and jerking off. Would you suck his cock so he can see what a good slutty wife I have.“ And much more !

That probably gave her food for thought about it.

On vacation she had the idea to do something exciting. she had the idea that we should go to a bar or a club. Separated. And I watch her flirt.

She suggested this without us talking about it.

Unfortunately, the kids became ill and it never happened But since it was her idea, I think the chances are good in future She looks really good. Mid-30s and a beautiful body. It will be easy for her to find someone to flirt with. Unfortunately, we have to wait until our next vacation. We don't want to do this in our area.

I've been thinking about seeing her with another man all day. But we don't talk about it anymore. I will definitely remind her again on her next vacation. I can't think about anything else.

My sexy lady is lately more interested in flaunting her curves to men in parties and when we go out. She’s choosing more revealing outfits than ever and getting sexier than ever. She’s choosing talks openly about showing off and we enjoy roleplays of she having fun with many different people(roles).

Sorry for the double post. I don’t think i can do a poll here, but comment what you think would be better and why. We are torn.

I had an interesting experience last night with my wife. We were at a bar with a group of people, and near the end of our night, I found myself in a rather deep conversation with a woman. We’d just met at the bar while getting drinks. I think she was interested in a male friend of mine, but he was rather rude to her, and I sort of came to her rescue, you might say.

My wife was having a great conversation with some of the men in our party, but she noticed me talking to this woman, and when we got home, she confessed to feeling jealous and wondering what we were talking about.

This morning before work, she revisited this topic, albeit in a somewhat playful way. Playfulness aside, she acknowledged feeling real jealousy. “I was looking her up and down and sizing her up. I was so close to coming over and putting my arm around you!” Then she said, “I don’t know that I could be a swing because of how jealous I feel. I’m not like you where that kind of thing turns me on!”

While I had a little fun teasing and flirting with her about these feelings, I thanked her for sharing them with me and said we should try to come back to this topic later when we have more time to delve into it.

What I want to say is- jealousy is normal and jealousy is not bad. Even though I am turned on by the idea of seeing her flirt with other men, I am not immune from feelings of jealousy. I don’t have any interest in “swinging” per se, but I feel like this is a great opportunity to have deeper conversations about this subject as she seems to get more and more confortable with the reality that she has a husband who wants to share her.

I feel like it’s a great opportunity to say, “The swingers who are really good at this, who have fun, and who maintain a healthy relationship, aren’t immune from feelings of jealousy. Rather, they’re committed to open communication. And by talking to me about how you felt seeing me talk to that woman, you’re modeling what it looks like to engage in great communication!”

What am I missing here? Should I bring up any other points when we discuss this further?

We are doing a trip for Christmas this year and are planning on finding a single guy to start venturing into new territory. It’s going to be nice that we are in vacation because stress will be low and we will have plenty of time for additional meetups & also no expectations.

Has anyone else had success having their first experience on vacation ?

I have spoken to my wife and she has agreed to answer any questions about the lifestyle you may have in question and answer interview style format..

If there is anything you'd like to know, just ask and she will answer.

Once I have compiled enough questions, I will post her responses.

Thank you

All being well, he should be coming back to ours with us.

We've met him before. We're very excited

My boyfriend and I have been swinging for two years in MFM scenarios with bi-men.

It’s been amazing, but we’ve only played together.

Due to his travel for work, we haven’t gotten to play since May. 😔 One guy we’ve played with half a dozen times, whom we trust, is down to play with me solo so we’ve arranged for him to come over tomorrow and I’m going to blow him while he videos (with my phone) and then send it to my guy.

I’m a little nervous! I think videoing it makes me more anxious than anything, but that’s the only way for my guy to be involved. Suddenly I have these insecurities too, like what if I can’t get him off?! We’ve fucked several times, like I said, but I’ve never gotten him off through oral/manual stimulation only. Sex isn’t on the table because I’m on my period.

I won’t see my guy for another week after the hook up either.