My question is basically what have you done/what could I do to prevent someone from recording themselves, or me/my home, at my gloryhole.

I currently have a fabric "professional" gloryhole that I purchased which fits in a doorway - but I had a bad experience with someone recording themselves getting a blowjob, giving me one, and I think tried to record my face through/around the gloryhole. I've not used the gloryhole a single time since I got recorded and I want to get back into it - just in a way that's as safe as possible.

I've thought of a few options but nothing really feels like it would work all that well:

• Asking them to get naked where I can see to check they don't have their phone on-hand (most people just want to unzip and get their cock out)
• Putting their phone somewhere reasonably far away so I see where it is (I'd probably end up seeing their face, which they wouldn't like obviously).
• Placing their phone on the ground somewhere I can see so it's never used (risky for them).
• Keeping it super dark so a flash/light would be super obvious (the layout of my home makes this a bit too awkward)

I also thought about warning people when messaging to arrange - telling them that I'll expect them to do one of the above things, but I don't want to give anyone the idea of recording that might not have thought about it. Plus I'd still be worried about them bringing a spare phone/camera to use etc.

And the obvious issue that a lot of guys wanting to use a gloryhole are doing so because they want the discretion (as do I, obviously) so asking them to get naked or anything is probably going to put a lot of them off staying/coming back.

https://x.com/xxxtwinkcouple/status/1741989093892927751?s=46&t=i3b7aGS7JXFf-TswLT0WCw

https://xhamster.com/videos/horny-bottom-jake-preston-is-desperate-for-a-dick-luckily-his-friend-colton-reece-is-there-to-help-papi-xhzoxoh

I'm quite into 'free use' style mentality but something I've not seen mentioned much is around premature/accidental cumming. This video highlights the sort of thing I'm talking about: https://twitter.com/BigHairyFag/status/1751337304386310641

When I'm bottoming or sucking a guy I'm more than happy for them to cum in literally 10 seconds if they're able. But so many guys try to stop themselves or hold out for longer and almost don't believe me when I say I'm happy for them to cum whenever they want. I guess I enjoy the feeling of helping someone cum more than the physical pleasure of the sex itself.

Likewise if I'm on the giving side I'm often able to cum fairly fast but it's a bit of an awkward conversation to try and have with a random grindr hookup, plus I know not everyone is happy with a dozen thrusts if they've prepped to bottom 😅

So yeah, the point of the post I guess - is anyone else similarly into quick or premature cumming? Or people accidentally going too far and not being able to stop themselves etc. How would you go about finding other people into this kind of thing?